Instagram: romero.media Answering the age old question, Young Independent Filmmakers Jesse Budd and Patrick Romero set out to simply prove a point.
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@JAMARISPEAKS3 жыл бұрын
this dude was way ahead of his time
@NailGanja3 жыл бұрын
Jamari do a video on this
@j29o233 жыл бұрын
Yooo bro you HAVE to talk about this
@richardmontesdeoca76913 жыл бұрын
I love you ❤️
@yoavhalperin58523 жыл бұрын
No... why?
@nomadben3 жыл бұрын
Not at all.
@creativecatproductions3 жыл бұрын
You can TOTALLY be friends. My best friend in college was a girl. We have 5 kids now. Its been updated to 5 kids since I made this comment a couple of years ago. The friendship continues.
@zxxczczczcz3 жыл бұрын
wtf xD
@SalymahIV3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@Samuel-qc7kg3 жыл бұрын
@@dheerajpal6955 Not always but it is preferable
@ahmetyusufklc53593 жыл бұрын
She is still your best friend then XD
@rahulb.3293 жыл бұрын
@@zxxczczczcz 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@riaddaniels28236 ай бұрын
This kind of content was way ahead of its time.
@DP-pg5md3 ай бұрын
Yep
@Untilitpases2 ай бұрын
Dating is as old as rocks ;)
@TheRiddler_4202 ай бұрын
It was streets ahead.
@xuneezana2 ай бұрын
@@Untilitpases😂
@prebenjaeger2 ай бұрын
Why?
@dyll_pyckle4 ай бұрын
So glad I got randomly recommended this old vid. This should be a classic if it isn’t already.
@DP-pg5md3 ай бұрын
Oh it is
@pooritech2 ай бұрын
This should be thought in school
@speabodyАй бұрын
Same lmao. I hadn’t seen this thing in YEARS
@peak_91116 сағат бұрын
I watched it yrs ago, and got recommended again.
@lewis32383 жыл бұрын
The fact that all the women said yes and the men said no explains why guys feel uncomfortable with their girlfriends having a male "bestie".
@PayNoTax-GetNoVote3 жыл бұрын
I met and married while still in my teens. I explained it to my wife like this. "Women don't understand men's language. They say you look nice, it means I want sex. They say you did a good job, it means I want sex. They say we can be friends, it means I'm patiently waiting to have sex." There is almost NEVER a situation where a man is not willing to have sex if offered.
@vdg24723 жыл бұрын
@@PayNoTax-GetNoVote 👍👍👍
@Songjay3 жыл бұрын
@@PayNoTax-GetNoVote Wait then does that mean men can't be raped? Because a man always wants sex no matter the circumstance?
@ryangreene21593 жыл бұрын
@@PayNoTax-GetNoVote You've obviously never watched any social experiments when hot girls go around asking random guys to hook up. Most of them say no, by the way.
@daltonmiller55903 жыл бұрын
@hgfd Who would say no to 100k dollars?! I get saying no to sex; as you don't know them, they could have an STD, but free money is free money.
@tojdavis63965 жыл бұрын
A moment of silence for my guys: Dave, Trevor, Taylor and Bobby.
@semihyldrm24545 жыл бұрын
You made my day sir.
@neoblackcyptron5 жыл бұрын
Hahaha
@Sevensliders5 жыл бұрын
F
@yashusugumar5 жыл бұрын
Our*
@sethowitz67895 жыл бұрын
F
@truth77074 ай бұрын
pure quality no ads no trash thank you for the valuable 2:58 minutes
@Nikola-vs6fd27 күн бұрын
I mean it's pretty incorrect, it's like saying my sister can't be just my sister because men are attracted to women,very very dumb logic
@o.vincent126 күн бұрын
@@Nikola-vs6fdThat's why they didn't say men and women can't be brothers and sisters. And in that case, there's a kind of mental automation that makes it impossible and prevents the physical sexual attraction. Because 'you're a or like a sister to me' But for friends, that attraction can't be prevented or removed.
@shahtruck781715 күн бұрын
@@Nikola-vs6fd you need a few more braincells my buddy
@kevinreynaga634010 күн бұрын
In an age of worthless KZbin content and shorts, this video is a gem and gives me hope.
@kravenmoorehead79272 ай бұрын
"One sided friendship."
@SuS_s8 күн бұрын
Underrated comment
@tabletalk33Күн бұрын
For women, contempt is an art form. Who could say a thing like this and not be a true artist?: "Men should be like Kleenex. Soft, strong, and disposable." -Cher
@ramikhartabil9203 жыл бұрын
"Because the physical attraction , It's not possible" - The guy with a sandwich
@mansoorkhanjadoon13603 жыл бұрын
@MSA3D A YOURE DARN RIGHT
@GodzillasaurusJr3 жыл бұрын
This is why I can't be friends with sandwiches. Because of the ... physical attraction.
@justsomeguy83853 жыл бұрын
How many more idiots will repost that same comment?
@domgast55943 жыл бұрын
and if they're not actractive?
@Naranamikaze3 жыл бұрын
@@domgast5594 maybe they can be friends
@Ehsan7933 жыл бұрын
- General DAVE - admiral TAYLOR - field Marshall TREVOR - Lieutenant BOBBY Their sacrifice will not be forgotten.
@mehmetbursa56563 жыл бұрын
*Bagpipe playing in the background*
@farhaanhussain90353 жыл бұрын
F
@physical_insanity3 жыл бұрын
Hol' up, how come they're all general officers *except* for Bobby? Why's he gotta be the junior officer, and an entry grade one at that too?
@rachelrich47723 жыл бұрын
@@physical_insanity lollz
@realityhits30223 жыл бұрын
@@mehmetbursa5656 "Amazing grace How sweet the sound That saved a wretch Like meeeeeeeeeeee ... "
@iamjason12792 ай бұрын
It’s not that us guys don’t trust her and are insecure, it’s that we know how guys work and what there intentions are with our significant other.
@RafaelBelvederese2 ай бұрын
if you trust her, other guys' intentions doesn't matter. if you're not insecure, trusting her doesn't matter.
@Squared_Table26 күн бұрын
@@RafaelBelvedereselow sentience statement
@RafaelBelvederese26 күн бұрын
@@Squared_Table why?
@MapleBar77716 күн бұрын
@@RafaelBelvedereseNotice how all the women answered yes while knowing their guy friends would hook up with them given the chance? That’s a blatant disregard for another person’s feelings for self gratification. That’s PRECISELY what cheating is. Every single one of them given the right alignment of circumstances would cheat on their bf because they already have the cheating mentality even though they deny it. Trusting someone is what YOU do, not what THEY do, therefore it has no bearing on whether or not they will cheat.
@adw689416 күн бұрын
It's mean women's minds are purer than men's. They don't have dirty intent toward their male friends
@allenarnold5647Ай бұрын
The bro being interviewed with his mouth full had the best take of them all.
@metalsabatico6 жыл бұрын
A minute of silence for all of those men who were named.
@TheXtremeDrums6 жыл бұрын
metalsabatico RIP Dave RIP Trevor RIP Taylor RIP Bobby
@Guillermo1536 жыл бұрын
Cheshire CAT Scan RIP manginas
@utkarshgupta29436 жыл бұрын
Rip
@Casuallywatching296 жыл бұрын
They are all dating someone though... You're assuming a ton of shit
@Vazquez12able6 жыл бұрын
The fuck.
@lukas-ux9zp4 жыл бұрын
Every women will say yes. Until her boyfriend says he has a female close friend.
@ladydontekno4 жыл бұрын
My (now ex) husband has a close female friend and I never felt threatened by her. They were friends long before we met and he considered her to be “one of the boys” so he didn’t consider her to be a potential date. She is attractive and had no problem attracting men but my ex just wasn’t into her like that. I figured that they’d known each other for so long that if they were going to hook up, it would have already happened. ETA that we are not together for many reasons but she is not one of them.
@lukas-ux9zp4 жыл бұрын
@@ladydontekno well. U are probably one in a million.
@ladydontekno4 жыл бұрын
Farai Musengi nah, it’s just called “being mature”.
@thesingdance1014 жыл бұрын
ladydontekno Right??? All these people who can’t be just friends with the opposite sex are kinda silly. I’m friends with a lot of guys and they don’t have crushes on me. They know I’m taken and view me as a sister.
@thesingdance1014 жыл бұрын
Lightbringer That’s so stupid. I have plenty male friends who don’t have sexual interest in me. It’s called being friends because we are ride or dies, family. Something you should learn sometime. We are not all slaves to our sexual urges like you.
@fifi55352 ай бұрын
Can’t help but notice all the women looked so modest and overall, everyone seemed so real and somehow happy.
@Kurz_WeberАй бұрын
This was from the time before Instagram and the attention economy for visual attention became a thing and beauty became an arms race. Just facebook, text-only twitter and maybe myspace.
@andrewfetterolf704212 күн бұрын
This was pre covid-media apocalypse, everybody is brainwashed by their phones to be nuts now
@JohnDoe-yq9rt11 күн бұрын
most people werent on social media at that time
@dropthewalls10 күн бұрын
As far as the modest looks go, this was filmed in a relatively cold city in a very religious, conservative area.
@adrianlugo113010 күн бұрын
Before then people were happy, now everyone just thinks about what other people think about them instead about their own happiness
@SuperheroArmorychannel6 ай бұрын
Men and women can be JUST friends ONLY if the man has zero physical or sexual attraction towards her.
@leondarcy7367Ай бұрын
which never seems to happen ?!
@etfluezu9161Ай бұрын
@@leondarcy7367 have you never heard of gay best friends? sag mal wohnst du hinterm mond was los mit dir
@weshoward1195Ай бұрын
I agree, the problem is when the guy isn't attracted to the girl she is usually attracted to him
@bartimaeu1Ай бұрын
@@leondarcy7367nah it does. Especially when the guy knows several girls, there are bound to be some that dont immediately make you want to enter into a relationship with them
@jonathantaj4543Ай бұрын
@@leondarcy7367 It can happen if the girl is ugly 😂
@soulofangel19906 жыл бұрын
That guy with the sandwich is all you need.
@Soriichi6 жыл бұрын
HAJAJAJAJJAA
@brain0nfire6 жыл бұрын
nice name
@zJinxify6 жыл бұрын
That guy is the best
@DanielFlores-fo1ee6 жыл бұрын
Human He knows the way
@nolifeguy16 жыл бұрын
Guy is my hero
@jhx975 жыл бұрын
IN MEMORIAN: -Dave -Trevor -Taylor -Bobby
@Representing4II0I75 жыл бұрын
jhx97 they must be crying 😅😅
@catpack1005 жыл бұрын
F
@homelackin22345 жыл бұрын
Ha!
@MrAwesome13255 жыл бұрын
I was thinking the same
@FirestormDDash5 жыл бұрын
Damnit Bobby. Go sell some propane!
@richdespiseus624315 күн бұрын
Friend is the equivalent of 'kept at a distance until useful'.
@tabletalk33Күн бұрын
"Men should be like Kleenex. Soft, strong, and disposable." -Cher
@richdespiseus6243Күн бұрын
How fantastically dehumanising.
@MikeG825 ай бұрын
i knew this video was at least a decade old just based on the fact that nobody in the video is overweight
@Michiganman80015 күн бұрын
Or wierd hair or easily offended and low diversity
@Chad-Tyrone-Pookey15 күн бұрын
They sure are today.
@andrewfetterolf704212 күн бұрын
Its saltlake city not texas
@pokemonitishere2029 күн бұрын
Also No sight of people digging their heads into cell phones. People clearly seemed more happy & had glowing faces due to being exposed hardly to any social media.
@Dullahan34707 күн бұрын
@@pokemonitishere202It was 2012 bro not fucking 2007. We all had cell phones and Instagram, Facebook, vine, twitter…
@brennonmontez48213 жыл бұрын
My guy eating a sandwich know the meaning of life.
@rakeshrai21423 жыл бұрын
yes lol
@millsbomb0073 жыл бұрын
was it a beef curtain sandwich?
@JoeMoreg3 жыл бұрын
@@millsbomb007 it looked like a New Yorker from Sainsbury's
@millsbomb0073 жыл бұрын
@@JoeMoreg more like from dumb and dumber
@thedeewolf3 жыл бұрын
@@JoeMoreg Sainsbury's in the US...?
@PhysicsMathandMe3 жыл бұрын
Interviewer: can men and women be just friends? Women: well yes Men: but actually no
@abstract04073 жыл бұрын
Underrated
@thetranspanzer36923 жыл бұрын
Yeah men are ballsy enough to tell you what they think to your face. Meanwhile when the women were finally about to admit the truth they turn and walk away hahaha
@thetranspanzer36923 жыл бұрын
Women: well yes Men: but actually no Women: but actually no
@polochbabaaient22233 жыл бұрын
men are logical and redpilled, women are in their own world
@erigor113 жыл бұрын
@@polochbabaaient2223 That's extremely naive. So good for that "red pill", eh?
@DrLol822 ай бұрын
I’m female & have thought for many, many years that men and women can’t just ‘be friends’ Glad to finally get this confirmation!!
@CantersoftАй бұрын
This is so not true. I'm male and most of my closest friends are female... I am not attracted to any of them though. I've been clear right from the start with girls I'm into so they know how I feel. I can also be just friends with a girl I am attracted to. I think the guys in this video indicated the opposite because of cultural influence. It's ridiculous that I have to say this, but men don't want to do the sideways hula with every woman they see.
@Gilvids21 күн бұрын
@@Cantersoft stfu youre probably 21 and youll change your outlook eventually. The girls you are friends with who you are not attracted to are attracted to you. It goes both ways nibba.
@Fx_Explains20 күн бұрын
@@Cantersoft I do agree with the last statement you made but still i disagree with your overall statement of Men and women can be friends. THIS also depends on what you define as friends, if you mean hanging out together sleep on same bed like we do with guy friends etc... Then Big No, if you mean just like acquaintance, then yeah. The thing is yes men don't want to sleep with every woman they see on the street but the likely hood he Wil become attracted to a woman he spends a lot of time with is very high same as for women but not as high. Men are actually more likely to be attracted to a woman they spend more time with. Etc...
@Cantersoft19 күн бұрын
@@Fx_Explains If you lack the capability to think outside of a sexual context about women you regularly interact with, then you need help.
@Fx_Explains19 күн бұрын
@@Cantersoft You see, you start to lie and put words in my mouth, this shows your dishonesty towards this situation. I literally said "I agreed with your last statement" then I added "it depends on what friends mean" and I said if "they were like acquaintances" then no problem and I also explained that "if you hang out and do stuff like men usually do together (sleep together in same bed or room, play video games do crazy stuff together) then no it's impossible because the more you spend time with the opposite sex (if you are straight) the more likely you'll be attracted to them. But for some reason all you got from my comment was "i can't think outside of sex when there is a woman around". You must be a dishonest person and I advise you stop being dishonest and stop lying to yourself either. Thank you.
@user-jh9pe4xp5x2 ай бұрын
Atleast the dudes were honest about it
@tabletalk33Күн бұрын
The women sure as hell weren't!!
@famia1070 Жыл бұрын
This video should receive a social documentary award. This guy has proven a fact that'll never fade.
@lightworker295610 ай бұрын
I generally agree with this video. Although I do think that in very rare cases, men and women can be friends. For example, the guy doesn't want to bang her because she's ugly and he's able to easily attract prettier girls. And she doesn't want to bang him because she's very picky and even unattractive women can bed pretty attractive guys nowadays. Alternatively, one or both of them already are in very fulfilling relationships already.
@j9904410 ай бұрын
@@lightworker2956Yes “very rarely” exceptions don’t disprove the rule.
@piyushgyl979 ай бұрын
@@lightworker2956 I had a female best friend at work where it was genuine friendship. She was around 2 years older than me, although normally it doesn't matter much; but in our case mentally she was much more mature compared to me, which is probably why I never felt attracted towards her because we weren't at the same maturity level. She used to help me out A LOT at stuff that stuff I was bad at like social interactions and she spoke really confidently to her superiors and encouraged me to do the same. Which is why I felt like she's more like a big sister to me than anything else because of how she helped me like a caring big sis. Although we never said this to each other I think it was mutually same from both sides. Besides, she was already in a committed relationship and it never made me feel jealous or threatened. Tho I agree 90% of the time when I am talking to a girl, I hope to date her but this was one of the times I didn't.
@edgartheslayer39 ай бұрын
Incorrect. Men and women can be friends. I have female friends. We're all heterosexual. We don't see each other as a pair or do anything romantic, sexual, but we connect very well because we have a lot in common. We hang out, watch movies, play video games together, share memes and go to restaurants or shopping even sometimes when we feel extra-social. This includes my ex's. Some of my female ex's are also my friends. People also believe every relationship has to end in a toxic way, or involve some kind of avoidance in the future. I had ex's like that and what I've learned, is that this happens to desperate people who have little to no standards. They don't understand themselves much. These are manchildren and whores who just want almost any relationship or just want to get into as many skirts as possible. Be yourself, be down to earth, you'll have opposite sex friends.
@DUANEYAISER9 ай бұрын
@@j99044 Except having a man and woman who aren't attracted to one another but enjoy each other's company is not a "very rare" occurrence. Going to a college and asking the attractive girls if they have guys they keep as friends who'd want to be with them is far from establishing a universal truth.
@jamesm10415 жыл бұрын
Women: yes Men: no Thats the video
@janek18225 жыл бұрын
Ikr.... That is exactly what it is about lmao😂😅
@janek18225 жыл бұрын
@Bishoo OO it isnt
@janek18225 жыл бұрын
@Bishoo OO and yeah I got that as well thx for the explanation
@danieljun53605 жыл бұрын
that's a wrap folks
@jamesm10415 жыл бұрын
Oh Yeah Yeah lmaoo
@brianlehmkuhl816213 күн бұрын
Tackling life's hard hitting questions nobody else is brave enough to ask
@gabrielvieira652915 күн бұрын
Now, for real. After contemplating the video and watching it several times, and thinking about my past, I have to agree to 90% of what was shown in this video. I mean, ALL the female friends I had, I mostly liked them because of that the sandwich man said, physical attraction, the others that werent that attractive to me were easier to be just friends. And other example is, that when I KNOW that a girl has a BF, all the attraction I had for her vanishes. SO if BOTH are ALONE its kinda HARD AND IMPOSSIBLE to NOT have physical attraction from the MAN side to the woman. But if BOTH are already engaged, I see that its easier to be just friends, Unless ONE of them is weird and wants to do bad stuff. TLDR: Man and woman can be friends more easily if one is already engaged or there's less physical attraction, the sad truth of being human. Have a great day, evening, night!!
@Praying_ManTas8 күн бұрын
I assume by being weird and doing bad stuff you mean something like violating her (against her will)?
@dimitralex18928 күн бұрын
simply because of context i think he refers to cheating. why would 2 people who are engaged (not to each other) suddenly sleep with each other just because one of them is beating their woman/man?
@cormacfinn64305 жыл бұрын
A moment of silence for Dave, Trevor, Tim, Bobby, and Wilfred.
@peterpeter42545 жыл бұрын
I am wondering if they still believe
@alexxeyaverkin59445 жыл бұрын
Poor things
@youtubefrog23885 жыл бұрын
Don't forget Taylor Mulford
@Lollercoasterism5 жыл бұрын
LOL she said Taylor Mulford not Tim and Wilfred
@LikeTeeMO5 жыл бұрын
Legend says they still Friends )))
@SmellTheCanvis3 жыл бұрын
"Would you hook up with her?" "Seriously, yeah" *Friendship ended*
@sunkintree3 жыл бұрын
"Would you destroy the friendship forever right here and right now if sex were on the table" "I'd pile drive our friendship into the ground"
@thetrax34823 жыл бұрын
Cannot see how women don’t get this
@jeffbrown72463 жыл бұрын
Or maybe it was a bit arousing for her and ....
@thomasbummer43613 жыл бұрын
@Farb S better for him
@marikasdaughter62633 жыл бұрын
@@thetrax3482 I have a strong feeling women DO get this, but they also understand that they can manipulate men into doing various things for them, so they act like it's all about friendship. It's like a person caught speeding... Very few people out there will admit to speeding... it always turns into "WHATT???? I was speeding????? Oh I'm so sorry I didn't realize" People when caught in an uncomfortable situation try to nope out with an excuse, and playing dumb is usually the first one people go to because it's easy. There's a reason that girl just walked away instead of saying anything. She knew the facade was over in that moment.
@a8anasios6665 ай бұрын
Wow. Thats a real pro vid. Im blown away. No clickbait, no bs, no trying to mislead. Real question, study, and reached a conclusion ❤❤❤❤
@BornTrespasser2 ай бұрын
How do you know you weren't misled?
@a8anasios6662 ай бұрын
@@BornTrespasser i guess i dont know 🤣🤣🤣
@youtubecommentator60232 ай бұрын
@KingOfShenaniganthia it's possible but what's the likelihood of it? Guys need sex like women need emotional intimacy. It's make sense that it would be harder for a guy to be friends with a girl than a girl to be friends with a guy. He gives her the emotional intimacy she needs by just being her friend. A girl would have to be MORE than just a friend to give him what he wants. See how that works?
@gabrielvieira652915 күн бұрын
the way youtube was intended to be used
@mavrosciro13 күн бұрын
12 years later, thank God I clicked on this masterpiece
@vampirictheshadowpriest75383 жыл бұрын
This is the definition of “Well yes, but actually no.”
@MR-nl8xr3 жыл бұрын
This is so ancient and OBVIOUS, why is it denied so strongly and why can't women just have the balls to be honest!
@bofasofa93993 жыл бұрын
@@MR-nl8xr because they want to string men along to feel better about themselves, where have you been?
@zxxczczczcz3 жыл бұрын
yes
@zeriel91483 жыл бұрын
@@MR-nl8xr It's literally their survival tactic and baked into their genes. It's like asking why a car salesman won't tell you how shitty his cars are.
@gazelle_diamond97685 ай бұрын
@@MR-nl8xr Why can't men think with a different organ than their dick for at least ONE minute of their life?
@joojoosasa3 жыл бұрын
"All of my best friends are guys" Never date that woman.
@hobbypsychologist64443 жыл бұрын
lul
@mbloom22753 жыл бұрын
Why? it's not her fault!! She's a great friend by they're all waiting in the wings!
@joojoosasa3 жыл бұрын
@@mbloom2275 Honestly, and this isn't going to sound good, it's because I know what a man's intention is for befriending a woman most of the time. And in today's world of instant gratification, it realistically only takes one moderate slip up for one of her guy friends to get his wish. And that goes for men too. We (human beings in general) have gotten so used to instant gratification, that all it takes for your significant other to step out and cheat is an argument or a fit of jealousy or whatever. I understand that there are people out there who would never think to do something like that to their significant other, but the reality is that those individuals are very few and far between, and they're only getting more and more rare as we get more and more used to the idea of instant gratification. I just personally wouldn't take the risk.
@joojoosasa3 жыл бұрын
@@mbloom2275 or were you just being sarcastic? Hard to read sarcasm through text.
@lazzzZaruZ3 жыл бұрын
big red flag
@Holden-McGroin14 күн бұрын
I tried to explain this to my wife years ago. No man would want to be friends with a woman without wanting more.
@rebacathek-popfan795013 күн бұрын
And these types of men don't know that they become the mistress...not friends....not all the girls ofc but no one will ever tell you this
@sweetsour678311 күн бұрын
Man this isn't true. I did two tours in Afghanistan and we had a "cultural liason" officer with us, who was basically a woman we brought along to talk to the Muslim women who wouldn't talk to us. She trained hard and was a better soldier than the average dude. Anyway, IED took out my MRAP and knocked me out. I came to with her fighting off tangos single-handedly. She saved my life. We're good friends and I know and respect her husband, I'd never try to get with her. She's smoking hot, I won't deny that, but she's off-limits in my mind and I'd never cross the friendship boundary even if she wanted to. Maybe in another life, if we were both single, of course I'd consider dating her, but that life is not this life. I'm happy to have her as a friend, known her for 20 years and consider her one of my best friends.
@Waheezy42011 күн бұрын
@@sweetsour6783lol bro u just admitted u would have a thing for her if not for your current relationships...you also barely see her enough to consider her a friend so doesn't count anyway.
@JohnDoe-yq9rt11 күн бұрын
@@sweetsour6783 would you go out to a movie with her alone? do you think thatd be appropriate? would you be fine with your wife having a male friend for 20 years just because they worked together for a short time? and going out alone? obviously not, so its not a real friendship, just an acquaintance.
@rhuman86729 күн бұрын
@@sweetsour6783 great story man, I agree that it’s possible to respect the opposite sex as a friend. Just when you get past that young relentlessly horny phase. But I’d admit that I don’t think most guys actually do. I trust myself but not many others to have the same mindset.
@aryan_52715 ай бұрын
Friendship can't be confused with relationship. Romantic can't be confused with platonic.
@alphabetagamma41422 ай бұрын
The emphasis on the phrase: "just friends" means that the interviewer was specifically asking about platonic friendships... Not "romantic friends" if that means anything...
@edge-climber8540Ай бұрын
For Some, confusion is Exactly what relationships are... Definitions are Crucial, Yet foregone (i.e., assumed).
@NolanTV9 ай бұрын
The dude spitting facts while eating the sandwich is philosophical gold. He doesn't bother to stop eating because the answer to the question is so self-evident it needs no pause for reflection.
@djordjenikolic90599 ай бұрын
Which facts ?
@rw56229 ай бұрын
What planet are these kids from. How have these guys gone through life believing that guys have absolutely no control over their emotions and if you attracted to a girl you just completely caveman it and could not possibly become anything other than a object for sexual gratification. Are these kids real?
@timw.69109 ай бұрын
Holy shit, really need to have it explained to you? 😂
@Aster819 ай бұрын
All my friends would be potential good partners. I actually married one of my best friends. Am i a lousy friend??? 😂
@michelesantana18169 ай бұрын
Lmao, not all guys are simps like the ones of this video
@SpclOps209 ай бұрын
We were friends with a girl in high school that none of us wanted to have sex with. Not because she wasn’t drop-dead gorgeous, but because she was so incredibly innocent and childlike. It’s weird, because all of us just wanted to protect her! She never dated anyone either. After high school, we found out that she started dating some church guy, who looked incredibly virginal. We figured they were perfect together.
@Aethelhadas9 ай бұрын
THIS IS SO CUTE!
@marinchan63349 ай бұрын
Its like brother sister love.And that same zhit happened with me too when my friends were very close to this girl.We can call it we are friends.
@naahhshigatsu77249 ай бұрын
that's wholesome. He looked virginal😂
@naahhshigatsu77249 ай бұрын
that's wholesome. He looked virginal😂
@angeriscool9 ай бұрын
Wholesome
@nicolaslabonte41774 ай бұрын
Its interesting seeing this video pop up in my recommendations years later, and to see so many people responding recently agreeing. Im in college right now and I have three friends that are girls that I'd never date. Not because they arent physically attractive, but their views on relationships are really unattractive to me. As friends we can talk and laugh about whatever but we just wouldn't mix romantically. That being said, I have female friends like this are really hard to find.
@jabby173 ай бұрын
what are their view that dissuade you ? if you don’t mind sharing. just interesting
@gabrielvieira652915 күн бұрын
I mean, In school I had pretty girl friends also that I COULD but they wouldnt accept so I was just happy to have girls friends
@spawel111 күн бұрын
a lot of people these days got brainwashed by social media pipelines
@GlobalistGazette14 күн бұрын
This content is light years ahead of the quality of anything that could appear on TV or streaming services.
@irfanfadillah82355 жыл бұрын
a moment of silence for our fallen brothers in the friendzone: dave trevor taylor mulford bobby
@Maniclout5 жыл бұрын
It do be like that
@momo.netorare8985 жыл бұрын
Arhfelix we live in society
@TT-uh1ry5 жыл бұрын
:D lol
@jacobjohnson15045 жыл бұрын
They took Bobby too soon
@ishwindersinghwalia67695 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@vitalyplatonov60503 жыл бұрын
Boy: friends with a girl Ugandan interviewer: Why are you gae?
@longandwindingroad3 жыл бұрын
who says im gae?
@UbiDoobyBanooby3 жыл бұрын
This is the most underrated comment on the video. hands down
@longandwindingroad3 жыл бұрын
@Omega Abuzar you are gae
@tjlnintendo3 жыл бұрын
@Omega Abuzar But who is gae?
@snutpaws3 жыл бұрын
You are a transgenda. An outspoken....aa...Lesbeian? Homosexcuall?
@russeldagama29902 ай бұрын
Nothing wrong with being physically attracted to the opposite gender! That’s natural and normal but that doesn’t stop us from going beyond those feelings and being able to be someone’s friend and caring for them! To think differently would be shallow! Maybe those guys opinions about women will change as they grow older and mature! There is great benefit to guys and gals being just friends with each other! Friendship is beautiful!
@Absurdi5t2 ай бұрын
Wise words sir :D
@charmingmagican98212 ай бұрын
OH MY GOD Thank you Finally someone put it perfectly to words Thank you very much God its great to see someone logical
@phoebusapollo8365Ай бұрын
@@charmingmagican9821 ikr, the vid got recommended to me and i had to wade through so many comments to get here. attraction isnt mutually exclusive from friendship, the fact that all these men are acting like we're brutes who cant move past attraction and inevitably always default to trying to fuck everything with holes just makes me sad. its the exact rhetoric that manhaters use to describe men, sex fiends unable to move past constant urges.
@spharaerockdog41126 ай бұрын
Of course, they are student and young people who work/study/hang out together, so the pattern is what you described But childhood friends, neighbors, friends of the family, etc. are very different things. For example I often see the wife of my best friend and there's like nothing, or the sister of another friend. Same for childhood friends or friends who are like 10-30 years older than me.
@diegolisandror22 ай бұрын
I bet that there's attraction at one way or the other
@dark6.6E-342 ай бұрын
@diegolisandror2 just because you find someone attractive doesn't mean anything will happen. We aren't apes
@diegolisandror22 ай бұрын
@@dark6.6E-34 you just don't get it
@dark6.6E-342 ай бұрын
@@diegolisandror2 what i dont get is why you think everyone cant avoid acting on instinct like some s depraved monkeys.
@azloii97812 ай бұрын
@@diegolisandror2 lol great argument
@pvnewport10 ай бұрын
2:20 "Because of physical attraction, it's not possible".. he said it like a boss. When someone tells truth as it is, it's a pleasure to watch
@arielgradvohl41289 ай бұрын
While scarfing down a sandwich 😂
@pvnewport9 ай бұрын
@@arielgradvohl4128😂
@1Peasant9 ай бұрын
Being attracted doesn't actually makes you more than friends though really, question is worded weird
@pvnewport9 ай бұрын
@@1Peasant as is the case with all the things in life, that's true for some and not for yet others:)
@LifeEnjoyer4639 ай бұрын
GIGACHAD
@astro_not76 жыл бұрын
All women - yes All men - ummmmmmm......aaaaaaaa......noooooooo?????
@Mayhzon6 жыл бұрын
The first indicator. Also funny how the women went "Well ye I guess they do want some fuk,... BUT WE STILL FRIENDS THO YA".
@Lobos2226 жыл бұрын
+Astro. Its called editing. I bet if I had all the source material I could have edited it to seem 100% opposite.
@troooooper1006 жыл бұрын
no women said: yes we can be *JUST* friends but also have feelings. But we'd still be *just* friends... because if i have no feelings then we are just friends regardless of what other person feels..
@RogueCowTurd6 жыл бұрын
Labos222 good thing about generalizations is that its automatically indicates there's outliers... if the vast majority of men said no and vast majority of girls said yes then theres no real need to show anomalies, because theyre anomalies
@Lobos2226 жыл бұрын
+Red. You dont get it. If 90% of Women said "no", but I only showed the 10% of them that said "yes", just making sure I asked enough people so that the 10% would be enough for the whole video. I wouldnt be showing reality, but a manipulated one. You talking about "anomalies" ironically broadcasts that you most likely fall for such manipulations. Example: If I have an interview with cameras filming both you and me. During the interview I ask you several questions, but two of them are with alternative motives. One very negative, that you obviously say no to and a very easy and none controversial one that you obviously say yes to. Now, in editing, I show the introduction and back and forth between my and your face, but when I ask my controversial question. I show the footage of your face watching me ask that question, but when "you" respond I show my own face watching you. However your real response is muted and i have added in the "yes" instead. Making it seem like you were for the very controversial thing and removing peoples ability to see that your lips are not in sync with what you are actually saying because of a simple editing trick. Tricks like this are easy to spot for people that know what to look for. Others are less obvious, but you would most likely be fooled by the above... In short, your assessment isnt a wise one.
@Bleu_Sky2 ай бұрын
One side will always want the other more
@ReidTheRulesGuy12 күн бұрын
This is true even in actual s/o relationships
@antarasinha86392 ай бұрын
It's not a direct, easy and simple truth to decide on but it 's a complicated matter or issue and the decision depends on circumstances.
@CymbalMonkeyАй бұрын
I wouldn't say it's complicated. Cavemen want to bang everything and will do anything they get a sniff of. That's desperate men with no respect for women. I have plenty of friends who are women. Not once would I ever get with them, even if they said "please do me". They ain't gross or fat, they're good looking but I just see them as a friend, like I do with men. I wouldn't bang them. Again, it's a lack of respect for the other gender, that you'd want to get with them and not respect your friendship. To me, that sounds predatory to a point because you're waiting by for that moment of weakness in a woman, who confides something or has something bad happen and if they come on to you, you'd do them but if a guy does it, would you do them as well?! Of course not. Honestly, this is very simple and any man who wants to bang their "friends", are just sick and need to go cry in their basements.
@mpclepto18217 күн бұрын
In other words, "no".
@wayfaringmoth38993 жыл бұрын
Yes, as a bisexual I can confirm I have no friends. There is only prey.
@jamesbunda8063 жыл бұрын
🤣
@emilytustin45403 жыл бұрын
See this is a good example. If ur bi does that mean you have no friends? I hope u were being sarcastic. But I really think even if it’s one sided and one person likes the other as long as u act the part u can get all the benefits of a real friendship regardless. Just because 2 people that could fuck vs 2 people that wouldn’t have different kinds of friend ship doesn’t make it invalid. I have guy friends I know wud with me but we dont.. ever. And I call that a friendship. Like sorry if other people don’t but they make it wayyy too complicated with the would you’d? And ifs and buts. Like srsly
@conclavecabal.h0rriphic3 жыл бұрын
🤣😅😂 Damn.
@SalamanderMagic3 жыл бұрын
@@emilytustin4540 Exactly. Although I think being bi just gives you a different perspective. I'm bi and I can be completely platonically friends with men and women. With my friends who are straight guys, it's more likely they'll have a little bit of a thing for me (I'm a woman). But my bi friends? hasn't been a problem. I think heterosexuality just makes it harder for people to get over that already existing barrier between the sexes. It's like they have a bit of a fetishization of the entire gender, since it's the only one they're attracted to. For me, nobody gets special points just for being a man or woman so I don't have an expectation of something more.
@Chiiyaam3 жыл бұрын
Holy fuuck dude😂😂😂😂
@bringbackthegooddaysofyoutube4 жыл бұрын
I love how Socrates is over here spittin' facts while eating a sandwich.
@naumankhan65604 жыл бұрын
This deserved more likes
@GospodinStanoje4 жыл бұрын
this is 'overunderrated'
@ericsonjacques76434 жыл бұрын
Hero
@vivavasuviuspodcast4 жыл бұрын
😂
@benreilly59514 жыл бұрын
Best comment. I'm fookin crying.
@Justine76615 күн бұрын
The redhead dude with sideburns is really good-looking guy and I agree with all of them actually. Friendship between men and women doesn't exist, because there is always a risk of deeper emotional and physical bond between them, that let's say frankly, is postponed.
@Veloziraptor11115 күн бұрын
On very rare cases it's possible, and I say this as a man who had a genuine platonic female friend. Just the one though, of the many other friends whom I would have hooked up or entered into a relationship with, given the chance. I think the prerequisite to this one was that neither of us was LOOKING to get to know each other, mutual circumstances just threw us together and we ended up liking each other's company well enough to be friends, but didn't find each other attractive physically. She went after other people romantically and I did the same and our friendship remains, to this day, entirely platonic, and while I can only speak for myself in saying that I never developed romantic attraction to her, I'm fairly confident that there was never a point where she had that for me as well. But that's just it. It needs to happen without either side initiating it. Consider that most male-to-female interactions are initiated by men. And when a guy does try to get to know a girl, in almost every case it's going to be because he found her attractive in some way and wants to pave the way to shooting his shot. A guy who approaches a girl aiming for just friendship would be an anomaly. So yeah, girls, when you have a male best friend, think back to your very first interaction, if you can even remember it. Did he approach you? How did he do it, back when he didn't know who he was? Ask yourself what intentions could have guided his actions at the time. And if you truly believe that he was looking for a platonic friendship... well either you are lying to yourself, or you found a rare unicorn.
@nosubscribe62336 жыл бұрын
the friendzone isn't a real friendship
@sleepsleeper44666 жыл бұрын
no subscribe it's cuckery my boi . Subtle but cuckery none the less. You leave that shit and wait for her to come to her senses or split nonetheless from a dry pointless relationship lmao
@andyroutine1326 жыл бұрын
no subscribe yah its sort of a forced friendship where the girl is friendly in the sense that she doesnt wanna step on your feelings or maybe, maybe the guy is so ambiguous with his feelings that thr girl litterally just thinks its just a friend thing. Eitherway the dudes suffering
@sleepsleeper44666 жыл бұрын
it's usually the girl who dosint want to hurt his feelings- because the guy in question seems sensitive thus ending any further REAL relationship with awkwardness.. a girl will usually give a guy a chance but if he's just playing the nice guy you can forget a woman coming to you for protection and support.. mr sensitive dosint get laid he's just one of the girls to her lol.
@jevader47536 жыл бұрын
The fuck you all on about you can be friends with a woman and not want something from her like what, are you stupid nice guys that want something back or something?
@sleepsleeper44666 жыл бұрын
It's not about being entitled to anything. It's not about being rejected, If she has nothing to benefit me for my time, We are both wasting our time. Guys have similar interests thus females and men tend to share fewer similarities as of the natural cycle of our lives.. if you're fine being "that" guy who only hangs out with girls or is feeding a girls ego but cucking himself feel free. Men know what they are there for, boys like to play with everyone.
@BM-pp8gw3 жыл бұрын
Can men and women be just friends? Women: Yes Men: NOOOOO
@warpspeed83053 жыл бұрын
Yes, we can be just friends. But status of relationship can always change :-) it what women mean by yes, and men mean by no. But they mean the same thing.
@deannamarin3183 жыл бұрын
"I myself am a women.. And I say Hell No!" Sex always gets in the way!'
@carlcounts13 жыл бұрын
@@deannamarin318 totally
@carlcounts13 жыл бұрын
@Onward Turtle would you have a 300 pound female friend?
@deannamarin3183 жыл бұрын
@Zachariah Cornwall No dude... I never ment it as a Bad thing, respectfully it's something that is just always there.'
@d-.-518015 күн бұрын
Women: He 's a friend because that's the zone I put him in.
@vikingnusantara10 күн бұрын
"All my best friends are ooou.. such a walking red flag
@andylancop3 жыл бұрын
Men can spend ten seconds in an elevator with a woman and come away believing they have a relationship.
@Atomiclightning3 жыл бұрын
@@lzblmvm7113 weird thing to brag about, but ok
@sama._.42203 жыл бұрын
@@lzblmvm7113 weird flex but okay
@tusharverma61543 жыл бұрын
@@lzblmvm7113 see you are not a monster you are just ahead of the curve
@rahulb.3293 жыл бұрын
Lmao this is soo true
@jscott16223 жыл бұрын
Fucking hell thats how I can be sometimes.
@TheSparties3 жыл бұрын
Most guys are so starved of positive attention, that even a compliment can make a guy fall for a girl.
@CosminPerisan3 жыл бұрын
That is so true
@tidefanyankee24283 жыл бұрын
@Ironstar I'm sure some do turn into simps. Some will start working out, and eating right. Some will also go into a field that makes them lots of money. Some guys who are rejected just go on like that, and think nothing good is going to happen or become doormats. Other guys use it as fuel to change their lot in life. It just depends on the guy.
@buntshire3 жыл бұрын
Most guys are such Simps they see being called a 'friend' as the worst insult a person can receive.
@jaredhonusankrom3 жыл бұрын
AND BINGO WAS HIS (SAD, LONELY) NAME-O!
@4slidem1r3 жыл бұрын
y'all brocken 💔😔
@gashyrawr9 күн бұрын
I'm a guy and best friend is a female, for 10 years already.
@toadranger502 ай бұрын
Now they can’t even assume men and women exist 😂
@TSYouTuber7 жыл бұрын
"All my best friends are guys" red flag.
@masha16836 жыл бұрын
Yikes
@queenlolo13846 жыл бұрын
+ILoveMedia x22 The messiest person I know is a man. I've seen my male family members gossip. I've also seen guys pull the puppet strings and start drama with a group of girls. Most male drama traces back to guys and bruised egos. Most girl drama traces back to a guy.
@queenlolo13846 жыл бұрын
+Jeremy Honeycutt Most girl drama is over a guy that two or more of the girls like. I've seen it happen before. I've seen men manipulate drama behind the scenes.
@queenlolo13846 жыл бұрын
Men are better at throwing the rock and hiding their hand. Girls however are more obvious. Makes sense because women talk more on average. So they might express their feelings, while the guys are just sitting there and causing drama quietly.
@ImGman906 жыл бұрын
Gerald impressive
@valobrien95963 жыл бұрын
2:11 Interviewer "If she wanted to hook up, would you hook up"? Male friend; "Totally, look at her" Female friend; awkward face😬
@MG-ol8hs3 жыл бұрын
man is going for the world record in simping
@schmidtythekidd3 жыл бұрын
Just gave her a big compliment.
@EricAusNda3 жыл бұрын
This guy killed every chance with his sentence .... and he already had no chance.
@alfariel2153 жыл бұрын
@@EricAusNda whatever bro he saved his time
@marcelobasilio37863 жыл бұрын
@@EricAusNda why not?
@dasavolosinova61315 күн бұрын
I see why this makes many men feel sad, but please consider how this makes women feel. Being constantly liked by guys and considered a love interest or sexual attraction interest. I'm not saying it's nice to be liked, but there is a limit to it. It's not comfortable to always have to fight off male attention, especially when you're in a relationship and you simply can't grant your love to more people than one, even if more might be interested. We also want to be seen as human, to talk to somebody, to have fun. Not always be a love interest.
@goodcitizen37809 күн бұрын
Rich man crying about Bank fees. SMH
@caleballen47454 күн бұрын
That is a very good point that I never thought of before. I can't tell which scenario is worse tbh. It would be nice if we all could kinda moderate each other somehow :/ Anyways, thank you for sharing your perspective!
@nobodycares1509 күн бұрын
that dude eating food was so real.
@D3C3n50r4 жыл бұрын
Women: "Yes they can be just friends" Also Women: "But I know they like me"
@rashelm.324 жыл бұрын
Well if men and women can’t be friends, by that logic my best friend is my lover just because we are both bisexual women?
@ReviewBlogVlog4 жыл бұрын
@@rashelm.32 It doesn't change the fact that you both are girls.
@ldmt19954 жыл бұрын
@@rashelm.32 But you are both women.
@onemillionpercent3 жыл бұрын
@@ReviewBlogVlog but.. girls have that kind of attraction too? there are girls who have crushes on their friends. so not really a difference...
@rashelm.323 жыл бұрын
Pato Niilista But isn’t the whole purpose of people thinking men and women can’t be friends cause one or the other might catch feelings? That’s the same case for people of the same sex who are into both genders... otherwise, it just sounds like you’re saying guys and girls can’t be friends only cause their parts don’t match.
@aerondight73783 жыл бұрын
ENTERING THE GULAG: -Dave -Trevor -Taylor -Bobby
@EconomicBearish3 жыл бұрын
those four are in the gulag archipielago
@user-yc5um2pl5v3 жыл бұрын
If only the Gulag have been as easy!..
@erojerisiz15713 жыл бұрын
We need to do a search and rescue mission
@rhezics3 жыл бұрын
I bought them back
@123Dragonden3 жыл бұрын
lmfaooo
@thisfeatureissostupid4 ай бұрын
you can be friends with your spouse. in any other scenerio the guy either wants to be more than friends or they are actually an aquaintance you are calling a friend, but you are not that close
@jasonsure26332 ай бұрын
Video was recommended after 12 yrs, wonder what that guy is doing now such a wholesome interview
@quiennows8 жыл бұрын
hey ladies, can women and men be just friends? yes are you sure? No
@shanewalsh58776 жыл бұрын
Yolocuica Mistli Killin' it bro😂
@scr49326 жыл бұрын
And then -- hello gentlemen, can men and women be just friends? No Are you sure? Yes
@SoumilSahu6 жыл бұрын
+Terrance Pyrope LOL exactly
@kabisikletamba1426 жыл бұрын
They can but they must have sex somewhere in that friendship lol
@lejenddairy6 жыл бұрын
... "well yes" "Ok" ... "wait wait, um? No" "Ok, so you are saying men and women can't be friends?" ... "yes. Wait, I mean no..."
@RogerAM78 Жыл бұрын
I like how the women say yes quickly without thinking about it but once you start talking to them about it they realize they can’t. Guys were already thinking about the question and said no. Then I like how he told the girl it’s one sided friendship. This is a great video
@fatherleo4603 Жыл бұрын
It just shows how naive women can be
@enigmamyth11 ай бұрын
@ChrisJones-ek2gmokay misandrist
@enigmamyth11 ай бұрын
@ChrisJones-ek2gm guessed so, you cat lady
@enigmamyth11 ай бұрын
@ChrisJones-ek2gm lmao 🤣 yet 99% of the top 1% is still males. Women only get into that club by getting divorced most of the time. The innovation field is still dominated by males. The infrastructure field is still dominated by males. Only high paying field females dominate is onlyfans which basically is objectifying themselves for male entertainment 🤦
@AppleOfThineEye10 ай бұрын
@ChrisJones-ek2gmYikes.
@IsaacEstrada122 ай бұрын
You my friend are the salt of the earth. Thank you for this!!
@kai1x_Ай бұрын
Sandwich dude is so real. "Ehhh, Nope no way" lol
@jeffc74863 жыл бұрын
Women don't have male friends, they have orbiters.
@mrnintendkid3 жыл бұрын
LOL
@bludgerabled3 жыл бұрын
Unless the woman is not their type.
@Gothiqueluv3 жыл бұрын
@@kaanramatt37 I agree. That's a good way to put it.
@zarrowthehorse3 жыл бұрын
kind of a weird stereotype
@roshan69993 жыл бұрын
Press F to pay respects For Those who got friendzoned
@sojourner14836 жыл бұрын
"All my best friends are guys". Red Flag
@sojourner14836 жыл бұрын
Jake Mitch Those same women can manipulate guys lmao. What does a guy benefit from a woman. Nothing but sex. What does a woman gain from a man. Free stuff and attention.
@spoonlickerw.32946 жыл бұрын
Jake Mitch You guys belong to incels.me
@sojourner14836 жыл бұрын
Spoonlicker W. You took the time to make a childish diss. That says a lot. lmao
@Izzy8u6 жыл бұрын
Or green flag, for ez pz her lemons are squeezy
@NoName-bv6kp6 жыл бұрын
Bonk A Donk What type of people have you been hanging out with... Being friends or genuine friends with someone you shouldn't be thinking 'what can I gain from this person?' That's a bit selfish. Friendship means both party getting attention and platonic love whether it's boy boy, girl girl or boy girl.
@kerianosАй бұрын
A masterpiece exploring a timeless truth
@kaffeemitcola650612 күн бұрын
Old but gold. Fall back solutions are always nice and women know what they have to do to keep different men in their orbit for different purpose.
@wotizit10 күн бұрын
Classic manipulator logic, atleast it works 😂
@eigentlichtoll026 күн бұрын
I guess adding a "/s" to the end of that comment would make a difference. Otherwise, if meant that way, quite both some interesting advice like it is fuel for misogyny...
@Projectrun243 жыл бұрын
Theres something about a guy eating a sandwhich talking about realistic expectations that looks so divine.
@pbonfanti3 жыл бұрын
There are slices of wisdom in that sandwich
@bjornironsides64743 жыл бұрын
Guy was a god.
@mattis13893 жыл бұрын
Yessss
@frazerdark3 жыл бұрын
Ikr
@86sineadw3 жыл бұрын
Something very Brad Pitt about it
@KixMusaid8 жыл бұрын
I love how all the girls say they can be friends but the guys are like nahhh. This video is pretty much unnecessary for guys cause we already know the answer.
@shinistrue8 жыл бұрын
+Kix Musaid FACTS HAHAH FACTSSSS
@sweetguy197627 жыл бұрын
Why can't guys be just friends?
@xFersureMatt7 жыл бұрын
Guys can be friends.. So I don't see where you are going with this? lol
@DangerRussDayZ65337 жыл бұрын
I wish your comment was more visible. It's unfortunately a lesson that boys don't learn until they're men and not all men learn it. I could have saved myself a lot of time and trouble growing up. I could have been finding the girls who actually wanted me instead of "attending" the girls I wanted but who did not want me in return.
@badazzmaro6 жыл бұрын
well that's the problem, lots of guys are mistaken and end up in the friendzone because of it.
@antonia60598 күн бұрын
This made me really sad when I was younger because I was genuinely interested in conversations and in having friendships with some of the guys I knew. But it became clear to me that they didn’t really see me as anything but meat. Having said that I think some men and woman can be friends to a certain point. Especially when they get a bit older and more mature.
@la.pas.5032 күн бұрын
My old boss always said: Love includes comradery. That means yes you should be friends with you partner too but bring just friends is difficult.
@terryoconnor52622 жыл бұрын
Fun fact: every girl-guy friendship is controlled by the guy’s self control… as soon as he lets go, the friendship is lost, no matter the outcome
@pianoandguitarlover27732 жыл бұрын
Men have more self control than women do however, unless they are very immature.
@whyareyouexisting72852 жыл бұрын
@@pianoandguitarlover2773 what?? Yeah in a few cases but most men are rapists aka most rapists are men, that means your claims are coming from your head and not observations from of the world. Grow up child women are often calm headed and execute anger when they find it necessary, men well aggression is their daily language according to what most men claim. In simple words, your point is incorrect.
@basedbear16052 жыл бұрын
@@whyareyouexisting7285 Funny how a little girl with a cartoon moniker suggests that someone else is immature and should grow up. You project quite well.
@whyareyouexisting72852 жыл бұрын
@@basedbear1605 what??
@basedbear16052 жыл бұрын
@@whyareyouexisting7285 Is that the only response you're capable of? What??? As if adding extra question marks somehow makes your dumb ass more important? It doesn't. Saying most men are rapists shows what a POS you truly are.... especially when statistics prove you both wrong and ignorant.
@wolfensteinJB6 жыл бұрын
- Do you think men and women can be just friends? - Yes! - Do you have a guy friend? - Yes. - Do you think he's interested in you? - Probably, yeah. Elon, take me to Mars...
@aelix566 жыл бұрын
Wolfenstein TAKE A LOOK AT THE LAWWWMAN BEING FUCKING FRIENDZONED.
@donvitocorleone39516 жыл бұрын
Wolfenstein he is interested, but she isn't, it's not hard to understand really
@ItsJenniBear6 жыл бұрын
Wolfenstein yeah, but when one party is interested and the other isn’t, you’re still gonna be just friends.
@ellischaney6 жыл бұрын
jennyeet yeah but that friendship is going to have a lot of tension and strain..which means it will only be temporary
@aelix566 жыл бұрын
jennyeet The question was not can women be friendly to men, it was if they both could. It seems men can only be dissuaded but not genuinely friendly.
@bliblablubb07123 сағат бұрын
Extremely well done. No bla bla. Straight to the point. A master reveal.
@paulgooderhamАй бұрын
Great questions. Really peeled away the layers of defence.
@siddharthnandi85673 жыл бұрын
"All of my best friends are guys" Moment of silence for all the homies
@brhiandavila69873 жыл бұрын
F
@eyexan60213 жыл бұрын
Why? Why is it a negative to be platonic friends?? Why a moment of silence. Get off porn, stop masterbating its fucking with your minds. Has yall thinking about sex all the time. If you switched it an it was a guy saying "all my friends are girls" it wouldn't be ohh a moment of silence for the girls. A lot of women don't masterbate or watch porn and I honestly think that's why we are more clear headed and focused on other more important things.
@femalesupremacistoverlord68003 жыл бұрын
@Alex You're absolutely right, it seems as though a lot of men today view sex as the only goal and friendship is something to be avoided. I genuinely can't fathom thinking that way, there is so much more to life and to individuals than whether or not you desire them.
@redgrengrumbholdt26713 жыл бұрын
@@eyexan6021 if you're a guy and all you have is female friends then there's a 100% chance you're gay. If you're a girl and you have both female and male friends, then I don't really care but I will keep an eye out for the guys that she calls "friends".
@buckplug24233 жыл бұрын
@@eyexan6021 it's not negative to be platonic friends, but her friends are most likely not platonic.
@louisbowels68583 жыл бұрын
Women: We can all be happy friends and nice and happy yaaaaay Men: Reality is grim sometimes and we just have to accept we're constantly horny
@mariemarilynbp98653 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@anishnehete3 жыл бұрын
Bruh F
@jaytb58153 жыл бұрын
I'll probably get in trouble for saying this... But if you think of men as a superstore (that NEEDS to sell its goods) and women as custome- I am sorry for my sins, I will not post another KZbin Comment for 3 days as my punishment.
@anishnehete3 жыл бұрын
@@jaytb5815 bruh
@nobitanobi34753 жыл бұрын
@Rocky Croods A lot of people dont believe that women should have rights either . Wtf are we supposed to have, evaporation into universe ?
@azamattakaev85475 ай бұрын
Without trust there is no relationship.
@CyrilSneer1233 ай бұрын
This.
@max_4972 ай бұрын
So women think they can be just friends Men think they can't be Women knew they aren't just friends But women chose to ignore that That's a wrap !
@simpletruth99773 жыл бұрын
My wife and I couldn't even be just neighbors. 😂
@Xsuprio3 жыл бұрын
Why would you live in separate houses if you're married?
@SandyHolmes00013 жыл бұрын
@@Xsuprio I think the person mean they used to be neighbors.
@madameee42743 жыл бұрын
@@Xsuprio lmaooo
@tsoupakis3 жыл бұрын
best comment ever!!!
@OrdnanceTV3 жыл бұрын
@@SandyHolmes0001 I think @Xsuprio knew this and was making a joke.
@SIenderplier5 жыл бұрын
Girls getting all bashful meanwhile our boy standing there casually eating a sandwich dropping truth bombs xD
@ButterfaceGMusicSlump5 жыл бұрын
we got no time for drama, here is the answer, alright next. when women try to explain something they take you on a god damn field trip, like just get to the point already.
@riioorii4 жыл бұрын
Yep- male version of me right there-
@raeannaroylance54014 жыл бұрын
SIenderplier 😂
@robreke4 жыл бұрын
17X more testosterone precludes bashfulness
@jefferywilliams84794 жыл бұрын
What is wrong with the truth? Why should it be so hard to say?
@dhruvasomayaji2 ай бұрын
Brilliant demonstration under 3 minutes! Classic!
@SergentTiToo17 күн бұрын
@2:15 love the girl eye rolling. He went for it no matter the consequences, brave guy
@gustavofedrizzi64116 жыл бұрын
Actually It can happen under 2 circumstances: the Guy is gay or the girl is ugly.
@mahfew3266 жыл бұрын
Manjubossauro exactly
@GypsieAsh6 жыл бұрын
💯
@JJredickpublicist6 жыл бұрын
Hahahahahahhaah this is the most honest shit I’ve seen today lmao
@-SUM1-6 жыл бұрын
No, only the gay situation. If a girl is ugly, I won't want anything to do with her.
@bossoholic6 жыл бұрын
Manjubossauro Or if the guy has a hotter chick to fuck, or a hot gf
@Cnut_the_grape5 жыл бұрын
Girls: yes, we can be just friends Also Girls: yes, he would hook up with me *visible confusion*
@gh0stykins5 жыл бұрын
women love to use men.
@cefirodewinter90865 жыл бұрын
@Where did I leave my shekels? EXACTLY
@elcabezon22225 жыл бұрын
Women don't give a single fuck for there "friends"
@BlowAway115 жыл бұрын
haha truth
@swaggsterswagger5 жыл бұрын
yeah key word "HE". meaning, the guy would hook up with her but she never said she would.
@nychris22586 ай бұрын
Least surprising results ever. But I will say as a married guy who is a bit older, it does happen more once everyone is married.
@UkSapyy6 ай бұрын
More teenagers need this in school, every guy needs this realisation. Makes life so much easier.
@mahtab.tonmoy6 жыл бұрын
That just explains HONESTY of MEN
@Stylomagic6 жыл бұрын
mahtab tonmoy Well if the men were so honest to the women they have as friends, the women all would probably answer no ;)
@Chuck.Mast3r6 жыл бұрын
Stylomagic the thing is most women already know they're stringing along men that like them. She knows that if she gave him the green light he would likely pursue her, but she'll try to halt things from progressing instead of being real with him. It's pretty narcissistic when you actually think about it because they use these guys as ego boosters and emotional lapdogs essentially. That's why I have little respect for females that claim to have numerous guy friends.
@Stylomagic6 жыл бұрын
Chuck Master How comes that the guys who think there is no way men and women can be friends, always think they are victims?! I mean all these guys have to do is to quit these form of a relationship. But they are stuck there and I don't think you can only blame the girls for it. There are also a lot of girls who never check that a guy might be interested, because the guy never does anything to show her. XD
@Stylomagic6 жыл бұрын
Pube83 It's sad that you think that way about your gender. And I suppose you where born in 1983? So we are the same age.
@sixstonks93856 жыл бұрын
mahtab tonmoy it just explains that they're only trying to get to something apart from being friends
@AngelusFromHell3 жыл бұрын
Everybody gangsta until boyfriend's best female friend arrives.
@darian29753 жыл бұрын
@crowthrone Nah, been there, done that. Too much sexual energy. My current wife was a close friend of mine too
@darian29753 жыл бұрын
@crowthrone she doesn't have close male friend, as I also don't have close female friend, so.. Yeah. Won't work
@digs12233 жыл бұрын
When ppl marry they drop their friends of the opposite sex. The women's male friends were always just orbiters being used by her hoping it's lead to him fucking her and the man WAS the orbiter to his female friends.
@roshan69993 жыл бұрын
If both the guy and girl are not physically attracted to each other Maybe Then maybe they can be Just friends
@roshan69993 жыл бұрын
@@peekpeek9545 kinda..
@LimitedFearless10 күн бұрын
People were so different 12 years ago.
@keyboardwarrior940617 күн бұрын
Was expecting way less from this video. This is amazing