Paul Cowsill: Tells All (or at least some)

[@danielueblacker9118]

The father is lucky none of the sons killed him.

[@trentaccid2177]

So you give the mother a pass as,she watched what was going on there abd did nothing.

[@catw6998]

Yea, imagine the 3 or 4 oldest ones taking their old man to task. He’s pretty cocky to think he’s some kind of overlord Take the bottle away from Mom and make sure she gets counseling. Put the old man in another orbit.

[@chainamarie03]

@@catw6998 I've always wondered the same thing.

[@debraanderson4738]

No kidding 0:05

[@4gma59]

My friend's family was raised this way. Big Catholic family; lots of drinking. One evening at dinner, her father started in again, beating on their mother. But this time, her brothers were around 18 or so -- and physically larger than their father. They beat the crap out of their dad and said ''This stops NOW. You ever raise a hand to mom or us again, we'll be here to take care of it." He never hit any of them again.

[@louisepalanker]

Oh wow. What a story!

[@4gma59]

@@louisepalanker : Lots of forgiveness has taken place over the years. Kind of like peeling back layers of an onion. It wasn't an "easy and instant healing." Thanks for your reply. Love your work.

[@louisepalanker]

@@4gma59 I'm sure it could never be easy when so much damage has been done. Thank you so much for your kind words.

[@kimworkman2425]

It happened in my dad's family as well but they all rose above it. Not everyone can

[@dannelson4209]

Paul Cowsill hurts inside and uses his sense of humor to get through.. I came from a Catholic family of 15 and see a lot in Paul that reminds me of my brothers. Brothers and Sisters in families like this have a very special love.

[@louisepalanker]

Yes, you do!

[@patlarimore6960]

I was an original Cowsill fan from their beginning radio fame, but I had no clue of the abuse those kids had to endure. It's impressive how they were able to hide the emotional impact that abuse surely had on them. I am between John and Susan in age, and I don't think I could have been that strong. Now, I am rediscovering the Cowsills and I am gaining an amazing amount of respect for these siblings. Of course, their musical talents are still as beautiful as ever, but while there are undoubtedly scars from their mistreatment, they have survived. They appear to have become their own support system and took care of each other. Unless they are very good actors, the love they have for each other is clear and heartwarming to see. I don't know if Paul, Bob, and Susan still perform together, but if they are, I would most definitely buy a ticket if they came to my area! I am thrilled to have just discovered John's collaboration in a group with his wife Vicki and Bill Mumy (of Lost in Space fame) called Action Skulls...really good music! It is sad that they have already lost Billy, Richard, and Barry, may they be resting in peace, and my heart goes out to the rest of the Cowsills.

[@stendec-dd3he]

What they had to endure from such a mean spirited creature. Bless your family; you have brought such joy to so many with your music.

[@janetmavis6796]

Paul Cowsills is so humble and a terrific brother and a fantastic singer he is so strong very gifted

[@LStuart762]

You called - that was GUY🤍😚

[@hoboonwheels9289]

Isn't it interesting that so many famous people had rough childhoods? I'm glad he was able to rise above and raise his children better.

[@vilstef6988]

There's so much I love about Paul. One of the biggest was his protectiveness of Barry, John and Susan.

[@louisepalanker]

He's still very protective!

[@vilstef6988]

@@louisepalanker He's a thoroughly good man!

[@louisepalanker]

@@vilstef6988 Indeed.

[@MichaelDBauer]

Probably one of the most talented families ever both as musicians and vocalists. Paul is really out there. He tells it like it is and you've got to love that. He would be great to just hang with.

[@louisepalanker]

He is a wonderful guy.

[@MichaelDBauer]

@@louisepalanker I just watched this video again and saw my post from 3 years ago where I said he would be great to hang with. I got the chance to meet them after a sound check at a town called Indian Lake, Ohio for the city's 50th anniversary. We weren't supposed to be in there, but the door keepers let some of us in. Bob was a bit unhappy about us being in there and rightfully so, but we didn't know any better. I was sitting in a seat and their wardrobe was all around my seat but I didn't even notice because I was too busy watching them. They came down to grab their stuff. Bob and Susan stood there for a minute or so before heading to their dressing rooms, but Paul stood there for about 10 minutes and talked with me like we were old friends. A little later between shows before they were to be on stage, I was walking down the hall and Paul passed me. He gave me a grin as he slapped me across the shoulder as I passed him. I'll take those 10 minutes as hanging with him. He was just a genuine person.

[@louisepalanker]

@@MichaelDBauer Well, I think that definitely qualifies!

[@pauloconnor2980]

As Peter Crenshaw from The Three Investigators would say "I'll buy a double helping of that!!!!!!!"

[@BeautifulSpirit-kf5ld]

Fan since 1970. They are too kind and classy, to tell everything that happened to them... But if you see the documentary, listen closely, then read between the lines. I hope they ALL know that they are amazing and courageous ...and LOVED. Rest well in a loving dimension, Barry Bill and Richard xoxoxo

[@jake105]

Paul has such personality. It really shines. He also inherited his fathers good looks.

[@louisepalanker]

Yes!

[@garyteague4480]

Most guys this successful lives in a big home but his dad wasted their money is my understanding! But pauL if you read this ! Your songs both old and new are great ! Your sibling harmony is unmatched

[@hebneh]

There was the happy smiling family in their mod clothes and their cheerful songs, and we had no clue how horrible everything was behind the facade.

[@louisepalanker]

So true.

[@rw8733]

Heartbreaking to hear how they were treated.

[@trentaccid2177]

You hear it from all the band's like The Beach Boys all smiles and so much torture underneath

[@susie2157]

Grew up in a big Catholic Family myself, eight kids and I find what you say so refreshing because we all went through the same s***! Thanks for your honesty and insight

[@jrae55]

Same

[@debradunn109]

Love you Paul Cowsill I love your sense of humor and you tell it like it is. You are so handsome and talented.

[@luciledevries478]

I loved the Cowsills ran home from school to play there album especially if I had a rough day at school or home .They made me feel great .

[@Mr_PNW]

You mean it made you feel, happy, Happy, HAPPY!

[@Autshot20]

Thanks to Paul for being so candid and so open regarding what occurred when he was growing up. It is so interesting to hear each of the kids stories about dad and mom and the family. They each have their own perspectives and their own approaches to what was going on but in the end. they all have the bond with each other. So talented and so gifted. Thanks to all of them for sharing their gifts.

[@louisepalanker]

Well said!

[@rickreed4789]

Thank you for posting, Louise! I find the Cowsills' to be a fascinating family. I am so grateful for their talents and the music they created and continue to provide!

[@louisepalanker]

Me too!

[@timfeleppa3156]

Thanks to the family. Sorry you went through all of that man.

[@louisepalanker]

Thank you, Tim.

[@sharonnorthern1525]

Oh, how I love Paul Cowsill! He's so real and so twisted and funny. I hope there's a part 2 for this.

[@teksal13]

Paul seems to have a blast on stage! 'Like a big kid! Thanks for posting, Louise....

[@brianmorger2174]

Coming from a Catholic family of 9 kids born at the same time as the Cowsills and sharing many of the same personality dynamics ; I am heartened and relieved by Paul's honesty of his experience. I think I can finally move on after hearing such testimonials, famous ones or not. Much love and thanks.

[@louisepalanker]

Wow. That is quite a statement, Brian. I think Paul will be very pleased to hear it.

[@maxdelrio7]

Your documentary "Family Band: The Cowsill's Story" should be required viewing for anyone dealing with family addiction. Amazing. Thank you so much for putting their story out there.

[@louisepalanker]

You are very kind. Thank you for those supportive words.

[@msiloverockmusic8395]

Awesome guy! Love your songs and family's talents!

[@johnlorican]

Purchased the 'Family Band' DVD recently and watched it this week. An excellent job, Louise...! It was so good I watched it again. A lot to think about and comment on.....

[@louisepalanker]

Yes, it really does tell a lot of stories. Thank you so much for watching.

[@robinstelmach1976]

Paul was so nice too everyone and so grateful to be there meeting and greeting everyone..thanking everyone for being there.

[@TheLonesometoad]

I find it absolutely amazing that these kids became successful under those adverse conditions.

[@frankmarter6845]

I saw the Cowsills at Disneyland back in the late 60’s when I worked there. They put on a good show. I loved their songs. I saw Bob at Coke Corner when a friend of mine played there. I had no idea that their home life was so bad. Their father was no good at being either a manager or father. Their mother must have been a washout as she never attempted to curb the fathers meanness. I wish Paul would realize they were in over their heads with all of those kids and then when they turned into celebrities they were overwhelmed. Their error was having too many kids to be able to take care of them properly. I feel sorry for Paul. He doesn’t realize his father wasn’t cut out to be one. He stumbled and became a failure.

[@janetmavis6796]

I know how he felt we had no dishwasher back in the day I did the dishes all the still doing the dishes but, have dishwasher now 2019 thank goodness.. And Paul is a wonderful gifted singer as well.

[@janetmavis6796]

Such a good brother as well

[@louisepalanker]

@@janetmavis6796 And an excellent dish washer.

[@davidmartin1949]

Glad Mr.Paul figured it out and came out on top !

[@columnatedruinsdomino6430]

Absolutely love your documentary! These bonus interviews are so fascinating. I'm guessing you have hours of outtakes? I would love to see more. What charisma the Cowsills have beyond their obvious musical talent. Fantastic storytellers with great stories to tell. Thanks for all the great posts!

[@louisepalanker]

Thank you so much. Indeed they do have and tell wonderful stories.

[@michael0.770]

What a bundle of energy! I can't help but think his fighting was acting out what was done to him by his dad. It seems sad but understandable in his situation. That said, I saw the Cowsills recently and they are awesome singers and very underrated talents-thanks, Paul, Bob, and Susan and looking forward to your new album!

[@tweeky2893]

Feel very bad for these guys being raised this way. Very familiar with this type of dysfunction but def. feel by the lack of peace, the loud unrest, and the aggression that there are still many unresolved issues and possibly even some inherited mental issues that are ongoing.

[@laurenmontera9516]

Susan Miranda Cowsill, that's a nice name. She came to know him as safety, security and love. I understand why he didn't want to babysit all of the time, being an eldest sibling myself, but it made it so she had someone to love her and care for her when the parents couldn't do it.

[@EricDobmeier]

Louise, thank you so much for sharing this. I really enjoyed this video very much. It’s so sad to hear about all that they went through, but I’m so happy that they persevered and came through it all as such lovely people. That Paul certainly seems very nice and down to earth. A very fun type of person!

[@louisepalanker]

Oh, he truly is.

[@cashus68]

I just want to cry !!!! i was born 8/5/68 rain in the park is my favorite song of my life !!how i would never know these kids were being in a house with a drunk dad and mother so so sad .

[@homeelectricco]

Gotta love his honesty.... I remember when The R, P, & other things first came out …… great song

[@Jewels122003]

Breaks my heart realizing the family was traumatized .......Amazing strength each one of them had to overcome this abuse ( everyone knew, right?). Cowsills were such a musical breath of sunshine for me, in my own confusion, 10 yrs old 1969.

[@elianepitta]

Lovely documentary... thanks for sharing with us...

[@debradunn109]

I love Paul because he’s so funny and tells great stories. He’s so real and down to earth. He is so cute and I could listen to him all of the time. I wish I had his energy.

[@dirkevans1]

Mom removed herself and us 3 girls from an abusive husband/father. Our life was great without him. And we sang together for Church and school events. I was very young when we began, maybe 5 yrs. My sisters would have been 4 and 3 yrs. Later on Mom sang with us and it continued until I was about 19 yrs. So many great memories❤

[@louisepalanker]

That is truly wonderful.

[@robyntattersall236]

Thank you Louise .. this family is so incredibly talented ... their harmonies unforgettable ... obviously the kids had a shocking time with their parents and that must have been difficult.

[@louisepalanker]

So true.

[@billymac72]

Discovering the Cowsills at 48.....well, kind of. Knew their hits, now I’m starting to dig deep into the catalog. As a musician myself, I think these guys are American pop at its finest. I just can’t get enough of their harmonizing. On top of it all, they are all relatable, interesting people. I’m a middle kid myself, like Paul. It’s really interesting how differently the siblings were all affected. Anyway, they are slated to be on the Happy Together tour again this year, and I’d really like to see them. Let’s hope live music returns by the end of the summer!

[@HellenCristina-ix3ph]

Me respondam o que aconteceu com essa família de irmãos lindos

[@HellenCristina-ix3ph]

Apesar de São ser da época eu os amo música linda

[@donnapoppewagner2332]

I so enjoy watching, listening, and learning from these videos about the Cowsills. All of them were and are talentec. Lots of love and respect for each other.❤

[@louisepalanker]

Oh, for sure!

[@RobertaG556]

I finally saw the documentary last night, and Wow! I will always love The Cowsills, now even more !!! RestInParadise Bill and Barry ❤️

[@louisepalanker]

Thank you for watching. And yes, Rest In Peace.

[@alonzogarbanzo]

This is fun to find. Thanks for posting it, Louise.

[@louisepalanker]

I am happy to do it.

[@firemandkdkdk]

all I can say is wow... that's some pretty heavy stuff to have to cart around your whole life. Makes me appreciate my parents so much. Heavy price to pay for fame. I am glad the surviving Cowsills put this out there though. I hope it has been a healing or helping journey for all of them.... so talented...

[@louisepalanker]

Beautifully said.

[@simondesu1]

It fantastic that despite family troubles they hung together and kept making music. Many would have given up but they prevailed and won, not the dad.

[@neville-mladen9393]

A great family and their music was amazing, sorry you went through all of that but look at you today Congratulations

[@pauloconnor2980]

Paul and John sure got the looks, especially in their teens!!

[@usmc-veteran73-77]

Back again Louise, always enjoy this interview. I always pick up something different. Wish we could return to the 60s and 70s. Semper Fi from an old Marine Sgt from Charleston, West Virginia

[@louisepalanker]

Thanks for checking in!

[@kimmickal]

I LOVE his attitude!

[@louisepalanker]

Yep. It's awesome!

[@jimkilbane5180]

@@louisepalanker Did he and Richard have a troubled relationship?

[@louisepalanker]

@@jimkilbane5180 I think you should watch the documentary, Jim. I shouldn't speak for anyone.

[@milesgentry850]

LOVE YOU MAN ..AND YOUR FAMILY! SORRY ABOUT THE ABUSE..YOUR DAD WASNT GOOD TO YOU KIDS..PRAYERS!🙏😪

[@superdill6665]

Hello again! I commented a couple days ago on another of your videos that came up in my recommendations and today this one popped up (maybe because I subscribed?) I don't know, but anyway watching this I was blown away when it said Paul and his wife live in Madras, OR. I'm from Eastern Oregon but moved to Madras a couple years ago to be a granny nanny for my son and daughter in law. What a coincidence yes? Lol, if you speak with Paul and Mrs. Paul, tell them I'd love to bbq a steak for them one of these days! 🙂

[@louisepalanker]

Wow! That is quite a coincidence. I will tell them. If you are on Facebook, friend me to help me remember.

[@superdill6665]

@@louisepalanker will do! Thanks.

[@dougmedina4619]

He just seems like a really standup guy.

[@louisepalanker]

That he is.

[@debradunn109]

Omg I love ❤️ Paul Cowsill he’s so funny and cute. He’s so talented love ya Paul

[@DA-bp8lf]

I like the fact that Paul calls it the way it was! Good, or bad, this was his reality. He reminds me of myself and the family I grew up in. Dads were identical! I also used to go to school and beat the hell out of the bullies that picked on the weak and I also loved doing this! Why? Because we had to look at all the injustices that were being done to us at home and we needed an outlet. Something to balance the universe. This is how we did it!

[@louisepalanker]

Oh, wow. Thank you for using your anger for good.

[@UnitedSoundVideo]

I sold Paul a new Toyota truck at Hightower Toyota in the early 80’s.

[@heli-crewhgs5285]

UnitedSoundVideo He's still got it. It looks brand new!

[@rict5878]

Pauly...the realest Cowsill.

[@4687878]

Paul is fantastic,..hahaha,...I love how honest he is about his feelings about his parents,...I am the same way about family members that hurt my mother,..and I don't forgive them for it,..just like Paul,..hahaha,..I'm glad to see one person out here that isn't saying forgive people that hurt you for your own good,..F that,..hahaha,...my man Paul !!!

[@bernie2231]

Caught the three members shown in this video, in Williamsport, Pa in a short set with the "Happy Together Tour" in the summer of '16. They stole the show. Class act!

[@bernie2231]

During the show Paul jump off the drummer's platform as part of the act. Susan lightly scolded him because had just had knee surgery. If that isn't familial love, what is?

[@Odawg292002]

Just saw them a few weeks ago at the Ryman on the Happy Together Tour. They were the best thing on the show!

[@barbaralynch3015]

He's cool! Still acts youthful!

[@iowa61]

Paul, you don’t have to get over a goddam thing. And the best part? You still bring joy to people everywhere. Just saw you in concert. You guys weren’t good. You were great. Right now. Sept 2024.

[@louisepalanker]

Fantastic!!

[@bobdally1]

Paul ...You are a rare gem in this world ... I wish I was your brother !!!!

[@usmc-veteran73-77]

Paul, not sure if you will ever read this, but you and I were a like. Getting whipped with the belt never hurt. I never let my dad see me cry during a whipping. I too, got into a lot of fights, in Junior High School, High School and even on into the Marine Corps. I was raised in the hills of West Virginia and not afraid of anyone, and I too took up for the little guys. But while I was in the Marine Corps the Marines from Texas were the best fighters. The Marines from NYC area were all talk. Im the same age as Barry and John, I was born in '55 a little younger than you. Love the Cowsill, and Paul thank you for your service in the Navy.

[@kathykay2010]

Did you know that Louise and Paul's birthday is today, November 11th? Maybe you can send them a birthday greeting...Have a blessed day MGPB!

[@paullad3919]

Paul, my name is Paul!!! I also would like to backhand my dead father and on the odd chance that there is some sort of hereafter I don't want a damn thing to do with him. It is comforting to me to hear that you have similar feelings. Thanks so much for being you.

[@louisepalanker]

Bless you.

[@ZackyDog]

Paul has a great sense of humor. His vocal on "I Think I Love You", rivals David Cassidy. But I don't think it was fair for his parents to put a big responsibility on him, to look after Susan, John and Barry. Geez---he was just a kid himself.

[@louisepalanker]

Absolutely.

[@Davenemetzmusic]

I just saw this outstanding documentary for the first time this week (and watched it twice). Fascinating, and at times sad, story. As someone commented before me, so much went on, and so much unsaid, but if you read between the lines, you get it. The documentary sent me into an internet worm hole trying to find more info. Would love to hear more from Bob, Susan, and Paul (and John, too).

[@valerielester7210]

A woman couldn't even get a credit card in her name back then, there wasn't any awareness of Domestic abuse, safety houses or even the term " Narcissist " which sure sounds like their father was, right down to one of the children being a scapegoat. its just heartbreaking what this family went through.

[@louisepalanker]

Great insights!

[@bluebirds4me]

Looking at the photo 1:09 , I'm struck by the innocence of Dick, Bob's twin seated on the left..before the father destroyed his life. Where was Mini Mom in all of this? Was she so caught up in her co-dependence with Bud? It's heartbreaking.

[@louisepalanker]

Yes, it really is.

[@RockThisTown2000]

I'm guessing Mini Mom was doing all she could to avoid getting whacked herself. She probably drank to escape the reality of being married to that psycho. It IS heartbreaking to find out what they had to endure growing up. It's a miracle they escaped it & became famous AND grew into normal adults. There were 7 kids - they should've staged a mutiny against Bud & kicked his sorry carcass to the curb.

[@louisepalanker]

@@RockThisTown2000 Good points.

[@rc6981]

There story should be told in a big budget Hollywood movie.Great talent in that family. TCB⚡

[@bobbieedwards7833]

Oh, my goodness, Paul! All those amazing days with Babe Ruth baseball - with my my Jim the FM baseball announcer. I hope you are doing well. I miss those times!

[@allenkreymborg7492]

Great songs !!!!!!!! thank you !

[@louisepalanker]

They sure are!

[@intercommerce]

Thank you, Louise, for your kind words. The Cowsills, The Beach Boys, The Jacksons, The Mommas & the Pappas, Ike & Tina Turner...all 'family bands', scarred secretly by dysfunctional childhoods with abusive and neglectful parents.....so sad, yet their fame and courage finally shed some much-needed attention on this ugly sickness that plagues so many families we never really hear about !.....

[@louisepalanker]

Absolutely.

[@jamestcallahanphotographer]

I love Paul…such a cool guy. Very strong and good sense of humor…you have to have that. I love when he says, “Bud Cowsill? Fuck that guy! “Barbara Cowsill? Fuck her!” Seriously…Right On, pal…no excuse for putting your own kids through that hell. God Bless him and the whole family.

[@louisepalanker]

Absolutely.

[@cruzsilva5004]

sad. but. I always enjoy their style of music. my all time favorite. the rain, the park, and everything nice.

[@louisepalanker]

Absolutely.

[@Mr_PNW]

Just watched this documentary on Prime. I had a cruel, abusive stepfather from 5 until I left home. I’m 61 now, and only recently found the courage to share everything he did to me, with my wife of 30 years. She now better understands why i have a hard time showing emotions, even though I truly care about my family and would do anything for them. My father was not in the picture and my stepfather too was a military man (marine) when he met my mother. As someone said, watch the film and read between the lines. What this kind of abuse does to a child’s mind cannot just be forgotten and made to “move on.” You live with it, but never can forget it. I’ve just always been determined to never become that “man.” I’m happy to see the siblings continue to enjoy the one thing they always loved to do, play music. May you find peace with those who love you.

[@louisepalanker]

I am so sorry that this happened to you. Our childhood is the one period we continually reflect upon. It informs us for life. We can all have a positive impact on every child we know. Keep giving back that. It's what heals the most.

[@xfs1]

That was great to hear! Thanks for sharing this.

[@louisepalanker]

Thank you!

[@BeatlesGirlKaren]

Thanks for this Louise ~ dear Paul!

[@louisepalanker]

Yes, he is!

[@garyteague4480]

That harmony is awesome

[@rockhard2654]

cowsills got to be the greatest family band of all time and thats saying something their have been alot of great family bands

[@louisepalanker]

I agree!

[@wildhorses5992]

I was physically abused by my dad and have never been able to talk to my sisters about it or anyone. My dad and mom had 3 girls and I was the middle one. My dad wanted a son to work construction with him. My dad had his own business and built a lot of homes in Illinois. He even bought a Turkey Barn with an elevator in it. It had four levels. We lived on the second floor the third floor had a ping pong table set-up, the fourth floor was full of books, oh and the first floor had a fireplace and pool table. I can relate when you said that your mom was their when your dad would beat on you and she wouldn't say anything. Did you ever bring it up to her and ask why she didn't stop it.? My dad died in 2003 and my mom and I both got Cancer at the same time 2018. I got breast cancer and she had cancer in her bones and it is in the 3rd stage. I never have asked her why she didn't stop him, but I did say something to my sisters after my dad died as to why she never stopped him and after that my mom called me (out of the blue)on the phone to say she was sorry for not stopping him. I know now that my sisters said something to her. I don't think she would have said anything if it wasn't for my sisters saying anything. It would have meant more to me if she had told me in person and we could have talked about it. I always wonder what she was thinking while her 11yr.old daughter lay across the bed every night while she had to put salve on the back of my bottom and back of my thighs and to hide it during the day she would make me wear colored tights so no one would see the bruises and welts that had busted open I couldn't even hardly sit on my bottom she always had to get a pillow for me to sit on. I lost some of my hearing from my father taking his big hands and hitting me up side my head whenever he felt like it. I feel so bad for you and sorry for you that your mom didn't step in and stop it. I know my mom was not abused when she was a young girl by my grandpa she was the only girl she had an older brother and a younger brother. I know I could not sit by while my daughter or son was being beat on even if it was my husband I would not stand for it. This is the first time I have really opened up about this. Hearing you talk about it hopefully we can all heal who have been abused. Thank you and God Bless You All. I love your music I grew up on it.

[@louisepalanker]

I am so very sorry to hear about this. It is a horrific story. There are so many reasons why people tolerate or enable cruelty in the world. Your mother has a story. Maybe one day she will tell it to you and you can have more healing and closure. It's heroic that you found the ability to tell your siblings and to talk about it here. Many can relate.

[@wildhorses5992]

Louise Palanker Thank you I almost deleted it after I finally posted it. It was hard to actually write it down. I have forgiven my father for what he did and also my mom even though we don't talk about it, but my mother I don't understand why she doesn't try to open up and talk to me about it. She has cancer right now and it's in the third stage and through out her body and in the bones Iso I don't bring it up to her now and with the chemo it's really hard on her right now as was the radiation on me. Thank you again for replying so quickly and tell Paul I will be praying for him and the family and you as well. God Bless You All.

[@louisepalanker]

Thank you. I will pray for you too,@@wildhorses5992

[@2030matrix]

I can relate to this dude - very cool

[@louisepalanker]

He truly is the coolest.

[@LastTree]

Beautiful!

[@AnnaPaul56]

Thank you again.

[@ZJ-ne9kn]

Cowsills are a great example when people say make something of your self and you cant blame parents no bullshit even when you make something of yourself if you have shitty parents and they don't give you a good foundation it messes you up as it did them but im glad overall they ended up good people they had some problems but don't we all

[@nikkibest5010]

I grew up in a somewhat similar abusive environment and even though I'm a female, i also would rage against others and have physical fights as a way to cope. At the time i didn't put two and two together but that's definitely what caused my anger. Rage and promiscuity.

[@mediapathpodcast]

I am so sorry but glad that you gained that clarity.

[@louisepalanker]

You are wise, indeed. I'm so sorry for your pain.

[@vintage1520]

Love Paul

[@lenisrousaruisteein8844]

Que hermosa familia con tanto talento en la musica y tanta union saludos de Costa Rica

[@louisepalanker]

Saludos desde California!

[@brentsampson3114]

Sad what happened at the hands of their dad but watching several of their videos like this also proves how badly they need some serious therapy even though they act like nothings wrong. Nobody can live under that kind of abuse and not need help!

[@Bevity]

God I love him. I love the Cowsills. Right from the beginning I had really bad feelings about the mother, but I was innocent back then and couldn't say what it was. She was a drunk. That's it exactly. Those poor kids. At least they had massive talent and they had each other. I hope they have happy lives now to make up for their childhood.

[@louisepalanker]

You are so sweet, Beverly.

[@drumminsonlive9199]

I think that’s just the way it was back then if you could survive the old man eventually you would leave and never come back...

[@louisepalanker]

In a lot of cases sadly, yes.

[@pameladircks-meacham5181]

he doesn't sugar coat it! Paul seems to be a really down to earth guy!

[@louisepalanker]

He sure is.

[@nancyparker8363]

Has anyone ever figured out if Bud had the same background with his dad?

[@louisepalanker]

We tried talking to his sister and she would not reveal much but their father left them when they were very young.

[@yossarian6799]

On a semi-related note, my sister-in-law used to live across the street from Jeremy Gelbwaks, the original Chris Partridge. She said he was very nice man and a good neighbor.

[@louisepalanker]

Oh, that's so cool!

[@lindyfrank5342]

Saw your interview with Bob Louise. Glad you bugged him and bugged him. He is so cool. And has learned very well how to play.

[@louisepalanker]

Oh yes. Thank you, Lindy!

[@mr.145]

Talented group.

[@David-ik9yn]

I hope that Paul can let it go and find peace. His anger is letting his parents continue to interfer with his life.

[@Yahootie]

COwSiLLs, you're fcukin awesome. :)

[@ZackyDog]

Thanks, Louise. I always enjoy these Cowsill videos.Paul has a great sense of humor. Like some of us, he still (understandably) bears the scars of his youth. Maybe when he talks about his childhood, it helps to give him some healing and closure (?)Though he was in the middle, age-wise, he was/is quite the big brother, especially to Susan. Didn't she move in with him when she was just 11, and Paul was 19 (because Bud's abuse had become too much)?RIP, Billy, Dick, Barry, Barbara...and Bud.

[@louisepalanker]

Yes, Paul was always there for his younger siblings and Susan did move in with Paul when she was about 11 years old. He was her protector.

[@pauloconnor2980]

Hey Paul, when is the band coming to Australia????