Paula Yates 1993 on Sex, Ageing and Life. Paula Soul searching and uncensored.

[@marieoneill2947]

She was such an intelligent, articulate, charismatic woman. So misunderstood. She was ahead of her time re flexible working hours and more. A joyous, humorous woman. A huge loss. The horrible media coverage was pure jealousy. Thanks for sharing.

[@JoeElvis2009]

Thank you for taking the time to watch and to post this comment

[@suzannerush3644]

I agree, 💯 I believe Micheal h. Loved her, stress not seeing his child.

[@SavvyMama]

Really the first, what we refer to today as, Influencer.

[@EmLou1976]

Thank you for uploading these Joe. Paula seems like she was a really complex character. On the one hand, passionate about Motherhood and spending time with her children as well as nurturing her career, a famous teetotal and someone who could see how damaging her childhood was to her in adult hindsight and then completely changing her core values and beliefs and embracing hedonism when she got together with MH. Love/infatuation is a funny old thing and can send you quite mad

[@thejoejacksoninterviews4207]

It can, but what a way to go! Thanks for listening and your considered response

[@ksajh1]

Thank you for this amazing interview. If it had been me asking the questions, I would have never wanted our conversation to end.

[@JoeElvis2009]

I didn't either! We planned to meet in a nightclub later but never did

[@ksajh1]

@@JoeElvis2009 Sigh. Thanks again.

[@DeepScreenAnalysis]

Michael found his equal in Paula. He had so much passion and she was his only partner who equaled him in her love of life. People always slag off Paula and say she wasn’t as pretty as his other girlfriends but that just shows how they don’t see beyond the surface. Michael and Paula saw and lived on a deeper level.

[@_Ben4810]

Hutchence was a greedy, immature, spoilt, addict of a man child who sadly dragged an all-too-willing Paula down into the black hole of his life...

[@SavvyMama]

She said her relationship with Bob was the most solid thing she knew. I wish she had remembered that when she started her relationship with Michael Hutchence. She sure jumped shipped fast once she met him!

[@collectingCraz25]

I recall Paula originally blamed Bob for his suicide. The night of Nov 22, she told reporters “they call him St. Bob but that's a joke. Michael obviously flipped out he was worn down by 3 years of torture”. Author Lovegrove, interviewed many who knew Paula and Michael, and found that Paula was telling friends Michael was on edge and had threatened suicide in his final year just weeks before his departure from London. Read the "Police Statement of Paula yates" she and Belinda talk about the problems Bob caused. lt was rumored that the reasons Paula later change to the sex game story as for money and because Bob threaten a slander suit for her calling him a murdered n the press - which dispite how Paula felt - it is technically slander.

[@_Ben4810]

Belinda Brewin was not the greatest of characters & her 'innocent' flirtations with the drug-smuggling world on occasions shouldn't be forgotten.

[@nellybardi8838]

Thank you for another fantastic upload 👌🏾 I really appreciate your hard work & posting these for the public to finally hear. I’m very torn when it comes to Paula. I love Bob & Michael very much, love being able to understand her better. For such a long time it was difficult to find anything on her, unless it was about Bob or Michael. Thank you again ❤️

[@JoeElvis2009]

Sorry for the delay in responding! Thank you

[@paniz8888]

Love Paula so much ; feel like she was my soulmate and still is in another dimension maybe…thank you for making this KZbin video about her , thanks a lot dear

[@JoeElvis2009]

Thak oyu for listening

[@jimavfc68]

Thank you! She was such a misunderstood and playful woman.

[@JoeElvis2009]

I am so happy that many people seem to love this podcast. It may even help them understand better Paula!

[@rosiebottom3870]

Thankyou for uploading. I remember the "mothers working" furore, so it's good to hear her view.

[@JoeElvis2009]

@@rosiebottom3870 So do I but she sure addressed that well, during our chat!

[@rosequartz7841]

I liked her individuality. She found a different love with Michael. Her love for Bob changed and that's life. The fact she fell in love with Michael and it can thwart your thinking, reality of what is. WE ARE ALL FLAWED WE JUST DONT GET DEMONISED, CRAPPED ON AND JUDGED RELENTLESSY. BOB ISNT A SAINT NOR SIR HES A HUMAN BEING WHO HAS BEEN PROTECTED BY HIS LIVE AID HISTORY. ITS ALL SO VERy SAD AND UNREAL. RIP PAULA MY LOVE. IM PLEASED BOB HAS CONTINUED TO LIVE HIS LIFE AND SUPPORT HIS FAMILY. MICHAEL , I THOUGHT YOU WERE ENIGMATIC AND YOU EXPERIENCED BEING AND LOVING AS A FATHER for a short while. PEACHES 🍑 MY LOVE RIP🇬🇧🙏😥❤🕊🕯xxx

[@vanessa.jasmine]

Paula wasn’t in love with Michael as much as she was obsessed with him. That relationship was not going to last even if they had survived.

[@SavvyMama]

So true but very sad about her & Bob simply because she says in this interview that Bob & her relationship was the most solid thing she’d ever know up until then.

[@SavvyMama]

@@vanessa.jasminethat is sooo true. I agree she was obsessed & very obsessed with having him. Even though she knew MH was not being monogamous to her, she wouldn’t let go. Imho she gave up everything for MH but he didn’t give up near as much for her. I doubt they would have stayed together had they both lived. Sad.

[@vanessa.jasmine]

@SavvyMama according to Kirk Pengilly Michael was trying to find a way to end with Paula towards the end of his life.

[@SavvyMama]

@@vanessa.jasmine yes, I have heard that. I honestly think if both had survived that they would not still be together. Just my opinion of course.

[@alygodsquad]

Great interview ! Loved Paula she was the best. Had to laugh at her talking about cheese baps ! She had a thing about using cheese baps in conversation, used it again talking on the BB about Helena Christensen needing to learn how to cook and not live on cheese baps lol. Loved her reposte to an interviewer who asked her "What have you got that Helena doesn't?" Paula said: "Michael?" Classic wit

[@jo-annemuchan8348]

Love it!

[@Boris82much]

I'm fascinated with Paula the mother, the lover and soul mate to the best rock front man ever, the funny author, the clothing designer and fabulous interior decorator.

[@JoeElvis2009]

I hope you enjoyed the video

[@jo-annemuchan8348]

She must have been very special to capture Michael Hutchence's heart.

[@ClaraJones-wq8du]

l recall that she cried victim when the press compared her to Helena, but the press revealed Paula was behind the stories as a way of getting sympathy from Michael, whom she dragged into her court problems lnteresting too that they say M got Paula into drugs when she was into drugs long long before Michael and admitted it in her bio. Michael's friends said he couldn't take drugs as much due to his cocktail of meds for his head pain. (He had several Rx in his system hen he committed suicdie). The only time she & he were accused of doing drugs was when that horrible Gerry Agar and the nanny told the police and the media - at the same time - that they found drugs. THEN the police dropped all charges for lack of evidence.

[@JoeElvis2009]

Thanks for listeing to it

[@chrysalis72]

Sex should get better deeper, more connected and harmonised in mid age. I think maturity is an emotional and therefore sexual blessing.💖

[@JoeElvis2009]

I agree wholeheartedly

[@littlebunnybunny]

She was my hero her hair clothes and her beautiful face

[@JoeElvis2009]

And a beautiful soul

[@rosequartz7841]

Her brain 🧠 and individuality was on point . Ahead of her time x

[@rozchristopherson648]

Maybe should would have been better off not chasing after rock stars.

[@juanitarichards1074]

She was brought up in a world of celebrities, artists and writers etc. That was her world. And she had a far from ordinary life. She was never going to be with bland Joe Bloggs type.

[@rozchristopherson648]

@@juanitarichards1074 Some people have the good sense to know that not everything that glitters is gold. She did not have to marry a "bland' person. There are many people living full, rich, exciting lives that are not rock stars. In fact, many who are rock stars walk away from it because of the drugs, sex, lies, pressure, etc. I think she could have had a fine life. She seems like a very interesting, spirited woman. She didn't need to keep attaching herself to these men. She should have just concentrated on her own life first and then she would have been more grounded. With everything that went down, there's nothing left but a lot of sadness. Michael is dead, Paula is dead and Peaches is dead and Tiger Lily has lost both her parents to an early death and is being raised by Geldof whom she will come to realize over time played a major part in what happened to both Paula and Michael. Too much, too much. Just like Whitney Houston's death and her daughter's death soon after in a similar manner, Paula and Peaches died in a similar manner. J K Rowling had a "bland" life, as you call it, as a teacher. But look at her now with the success of Harry Potter. Paula could have had a great, creative life if she had just stayed away from rock stars.

[@mariaverissimo]

In fact, she is dead. She is not a icon. She wanted everything later, Bob Geldof and after Michael Hutchence.

[@BLTKellys]

She is an icon actually. If you’re not British you won’t understand.

[@mariaverissimo]

@@BLTKellys For me doesn t matter . I admire Bob Geldof for be an ativist and for Live Aid. About Michael Hutchence, if he didn t die, we still would have a great singer. I mnot British, i only was at British School for nine years learning English with British teachers, at Portugal.

[@kathleendobens6648]

She was a really warm person. Went thru hell in england . Her and Micheal wanted to move to australia too get away from it. So sad they are all gone.

[@vanessa.jasmine]

I’m American, I’m in my 40s and have a small poster of Michael Hutchense on my wall like a teenage girl, but I’ll never understand the vilification of Bob Geldof. I only know him from Live Aid and The Wall, but I don’t understand how people would have expected anyone to be ok, if their ex spouse wanted to take your kids half way around the world to live.

[@RedGarnett-n2p]

​@@BLTKellyswhy do the British consider her an icon because she was on the tube