Retired in the Philippines/The State of Men in America/Old Dog New Tricks

[@marysteven6347]

61 year old NewZealand woman here and I agree with you. The pussification of men and the hardening of women.

[@kevinbutcher995]

Totally agree I was away for 13 years and I really see the Social castration with a dose of political correctness fed emasculation.... Jancinders well practised furrowed brow and over the top look of concern isnt helping... Im ready to move back to the Philippines. Im tired of the over regulated, over the top bubble wrapped health and safety culture of over taxed NZ. I have never felt so caged in my life. The Phils has its issues but the one thing I felt was FREE to do what I want to do ( within reason ).

[@jamesloerzel4377]

Good times, brings about weak men. Weak men brings about hard times. Hard times about strong men. Strong men, brings about good times.

[@tonybarfridge4369]

I'm not being facetious, but the fact is sugars in the diet are changing the hormones. Men are becoming more feminine whilst women are becoming more masculine, aggressive and domineering. I have that on good medical information.

[@salahalkhalifa3705]

In others words it is pussfication of men and penisification of women.

[@chivalryisdead6440]

@@jamesloerzel4377 It's 2022. Good times bring about weak men. Weak men bring about hard times. Hard times make strong men leave.

[@retiredcryptohunter9031]

I’m 45 and just retired from the military this year and moved here to the Philippines and been here for a few months and it feels so good to be happy again. I had too many failed relationships in the United States and I was completely over dealing with American woman. I was always the main source of income and I just felt like an ATM but here I feel like I’m appreciated and I get to be the man in the relationship. I spent over a year watching videos and it’s exactly what I was expecting and I’m so happy that I made the move. I had a lot of people telling me I would hate it here and 99% of those people were females back in the United States. 🤣. I actually feel like I’m home and I am so happy to be welcomed here in the Philippines.

[@chixserrob9248]

Welcome in the Philippines

[@jdee4956]

I wish you well Michael - good for you. You will still be an ATM in the Phillipines, of course, but your cashier will give you a better deal LOL. That's OK - all relationships are a negotiation, are they not?

[@emilywilliams5362]

@@jdee4956 FYI…get an educated matured woman in Philippines if you’re looking for a stable relationship.Don’t get involved with the young needy ones who will cling to you only for money. I am a Filipina,independent with good education and married to a foreigner…. Both of us pool in our resources to live a comfortable life.I never rely on my husband instead both of us are partners in every aspect.

[@youngandfree93]

Honestly if you were the main source of income for American women then you have met the wrong women. Find a girl who is well educated and got her crap together. Most are pretty well off themselves and are far more educated than ones in the Phillipines here. You will be an even bigger ATM here if you're not careful.

[@retiredcryptohunter9031]

@Con Descending I’m in Ilocos Sur

[@michaelhrivnak1719]

Not easy watching your country die a slow death! All the values that most of us "seniors" were taught, and practiced, are now ridiculed. Anytime I meet someone young with good manners, I just want to hug them and say THANK YOU. Thank you for caring! I never thought I would feel like an alien in my own country. I'm a 30 year retired vet.

[@journeytrials]

Should have done a better job raising your kids!

[@michaelhrivnak1719]

@@journeytrials If you say so, it must be true! Have a great day!

[@journeytrials]

@@michaelhrivnak1719 not insulting you! Just pointing out if you American men raised your children better you wouldn’t need to flee to another nation. And marry their daughters

[@michaelhrivnak1719]

@@journeytrials Can't argue with that! But myself, I enjoy the uniqueness my Asian born wife brings to our marriage. Smart, witty, and truly cares about people. Unlike certain other people in this country. Who are just takers. The land of the free! But there is a silver lining to all of this. Even if we "flee" as you put it, we can always come back.

[@journeytrials]

@@michaelhrivnak1719 America is like Rome about to fall out forgotten in history. How pathetic and sad!

[@sandy-quimsrus]

I love that you are talking about this potentially prickly subject. I'm a woman about 25 years younger. I used to call myself a feminist, meaning I believe in equal pay for a job. Now I think it means a different thing all together. What I do know is that lying in my partner's arms and hearing that everything is going to be okay is one of the most beautiful things in the world. He works while I have brought up our daughter who has huge medical problems. I cook dinner every night and try to make sure that when he comes home there is half an hour to decompress. Our only holidays is bush camping and fishing. We are poor but happy. Well there's my 20 cents worth.

[@dumatanjay2097]

beautiful post!

[@craigjacob3704]

God bless you him and your precious daughter🙏❤️

[@erichmacho5741]

The trouble with feminisms is that it sets too many women as hostile and quarrelsome and ready to jump at the slightest perceived infringement. That is not good in a relationship where ideally two partners should work together as a team and allow some give and take. Sadly men who are accommodating (give and take) are seen as weak all too often. I however have no problem with women reaching their full potential in any field as it's only good for the advancement, or contribution to, of society for all of us. We all benefit. This would also give credit by merit which is the fair and best way.

[@danielhuntington2116]

Awesome Sandy...here's the deal....men and women are equally important...but here's the key....each are DIFFERENT....and so are the roles. You two have defined things clearly and because of it are comfy and loving in the relationship. Now in USA men and women are stepping all over each other roles causing all kinds of confusion and breakdowns in relationships. Paul is right on and you guys are living it. All the best😀💪🙏🙏

[@barbrapfeifer6900]

cool story, bro.

[@geofftuck3364]

Hey Paul, love your content & channel, i'm a 65 yr. old kiwi (New Zealander) retired in rural Thailand, & agree 100% with your comments on the men issue. I look to the animal kingdom & see the the male as a hunter/gatherer , protecter & leader of the family unit, as i see it, what is happening to men is against nature, & may well lead us into demise

[@pnketia]

You are so right Paul. The other day I was going into the grocery store and a woman was right behind me so I opened the door for her and stood back to let her go in first and she looked at me in disgust and went to the opposite door which totally blew me away since I am old school and thought I was being courteous.

[@michaelsix9684]

you were a gentlemen, don't regret being one

[@johnmaggiorino4493]

Nice one Paul,always interesting as always 👍

[@BeyondVision_RD]

I 💯% agree with you, Paul. I'm 33 years old and I chose 3 years ago to leave Canada to live in the beautiful Dominican Republic because of some of the reasons you stated here. The women are off the wall batshit crazy and materialistic. You can't say anything anymore without offending someone, nor can you express yourself freely without facing some form of persecution if you're not falling in line with the status quo. It's absolutely ridiculous! Thank you for everything you do, Paul. Much love!

[@davidfenton109]

I saw Philippines once in 1991 during evacuation of Navy families in Subic Bay down to Cebu. Saw a beautiful country and people. Have always wanted to go back but have also visited the D.R. and so much closer to the U.S. I may one day retire in the P.I. or the D.R.? And totally agreed long ago that American women greedy materialistic and very much seeking status in a male partner. Thanks God I can speak Spanish and often travel to MEX, CR and CO from Texas.

[@lawrencelawrence3920]

I am a Canadian and I have experienced what you wrote.

[@BeyondVision_RD]

@@davidfenton109 you figured it out a long time ago, David. Hats off to you. If you're ever thinking of visiting the DR give me a holler on this channel. I post videos everyday of my stay here in the beautiful Dominican Republic 🇩🇴

[@BeyondVision_RD]

@@lawrencelawrence3920 I'm sure you know better now. Experiences that we learn from don't happen, unless we live through the mistakes. You know what it is 👍 #BEYOND2021VISION 👀

[@zoiloparagas1092]

Actually Canadian females are milder than American Women. The current well educated and smart filipina women are much like their American and Canadian counter parts

[@jaytomson7052]

Brilliant dissertation Paul.

[@robertnunn3015]

Paul this was one of your best videos ! I will be retiring in Dumaguete within the next 90 days ! I can’t deal with the way is America going ! I see no hope that my country and even though I love my country I don’t like it ! Thanks again !

[@marcusluke7060]

Hi Paul. This is one of your very best videos in my humble opinion. The way you are almost always willing to help someone who is down on their luck and dug a good sized hole. And you don;t help by doing everything for them. You help with a few things they need like shelter and some food and maybe a shirt and pants. And the joy on your face when someone tells you " Hey Paul guess what. I brought this all on myself. I can really dig a nice hole to crawl in." Please keep up the good work sir. Your a blessing to a lot of people. You have helped me and I am just a reader and listener. A fan in north Texas, Marcus.

[@dlhanson51]

I didn't have to move to Philippines to have a the God ordained relationship in a marriage. I married a 21 year old Chinese Malaysian in Madison, Wisconsin 49+ years ago. She worked for the first 2 years of our marriage while I was in college. I provide for her and care for her , she cares for me and our children. She homeschooled our children.

[@willieshoemaker8680]

#49 years ago…

[@alocarioca]

You most definitely are the exception to the rule Sir. For most American Males, it’s not as simply as finding a foreign woman today that would be that Unicorn most men are looking for. A woman that isn’t a feminazzi and or color her hair all different weird colors and has arms and legs full of tattoos but a woman who has a feminine trait of her own and isn’t at all too masculine for the average Joe. Most American males who are searching for the chance to find his mate, the one woman who will respect him and allow him to lead her and like it and allow her guy to provide not just a great life to them, but also allow her man to demonstrate his manly leadership in their lives.

[@normanflint8757]

@Su Ck the West,,in General..

[@norrisbethke7770]

That’s just super, all thumbs up 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

[@last_samurai6690]

The best of both worlds. I also married a filipina who takes care of everything in the family and I take care of the financial aspect. Seems good so far. And we still enjoy what New Zealand has to offer. But u don't blame men who decide to go to the source, as it were.

[@ezesagus6177]

Paul I had that issue with my American wife prior to our divorce. It was very difficult because she wasn’t making what I made but truly felt she was 100% equal and argued any decision. My Filipina wife enjoys my taking the lead and believes in my decision making skills. It makes all the difference in the world for me and her. She’s an extremely capable woman in her own right but understands she’s supporting our future through mutual decisions. Very refreshing.

[@michaelsix9684]

Kevin Samuels said it all -- men want women who are fit, feminine, submissive, and cooperative today -- hard to find in America

[@brucesnyder690]

Retired expat from the US living in Thailand. Moved here almost five years ago after my Wife died of cancer. Has been awesome!! Every day an adventure and wonderful. Would never go back.

[@Galavantin]

My trip to the Philippines has been interrupted three times in 30 years,rescuing American women, that never appreciated it. No more interruptions. I've learned my lesson, and I've learned it well.

[@freddyfeurer5169]

Old Dog...You are SPOT ON with your Analysis! I will be moving to the Philippines early next year.

[@tomgerryinphilippines8817]

Your absolutely 💯 correct. Western women are so desperate to prove that they don't need a man that they have destroyed the basic part of a relationship. My filipina was ofw in sg when I met her and sending her money back to Philippines for her 2 young kids. She was going without and sacrificing her life for them. I knew deep down she wished she could be with them. After getting to know her for a year and realizing she was the kind of woman that I was looking for i offered her the chance to go home to be with her kids. I promised her that I was serious about her and she trusted me enough to take a chance with me. That was 10 years ago and I have gotten to know that she appreciated what I did and we have been planning to be together. I had been spending my vacations with her every year with intent of retiring in 2020 to go there. Well virus came and delayed my return. Now I have my return planned in September. She is everything I need to enjoy the rest of my life. I give her a secure life and she gives me the love and appreciation I never had with Western women. Great subject.

[@MelywoodMedia]

Funny but I learned to be independent because I could not count on men to be there for me. It’s pathetic when your boyfriends credit is so horrible he can’t get a mortgage.

[@johnhickman6362]

10 years ago you have enough time to pay for all of them to come to the states get off your back side bring them all over or move there an live

[@steveperyer4850]

My version of OFW, was I am in Kuwait, I never want to live in the Philippines again, I will let my ex’s family or mine raise her, and I will keep working, and paying for her advanced education. I saw she wanted to get married to an American even though she was married in the Philippines, and would need an annulment first, then move to the US, and make good money working in the US. She is now 43 years old, so good luck on that. I truly wish her the best in her fantasy

[@danp1043]

@@MelywoodMedia It is terrible. His former spouse shouldn't have destroyed his credit.

[@razaelesilos8041]

Wish you happiness and ur a good man, may God Bless you and ur relationship

[@terrydaigle8356]

When your HR dept tells you that you have to let a man go home from work because he is menstruating or you will be fired you know your country is in the crapper

[@commonsense6967]

Wow! Time to move to FL, where we're not forced to live in a George Orwell novel!

[@edithaheinitz6591]

Now the liberals here in US saying men can be pregnant and nurse a baby? So much oddity in the mindset of those people here plus the lawlessness of a so called president that allows the influx of illegals to enter the country..this president is a useless demented and corrupt and this country is no longer a decent one to live and be sustainable!!

[@sidv192]

I traveled to the PI for three weeks in 2006 at age 49 and it felt good to be an older white man for maybe the first time in my life. One night I had layed down not feeling well and the gal I was with, she was about 40 but more beautiful/classy than American gals half her age, rubbed my head and gently started singing this song I never heard before in Tagalog. Next thing you know it was the next morning and I had the most restful sleep I ever had in my life. At breakfast I asked, "What was it you did last night?" I feet genuine love when she replied, "I gently rubbed the worry lines from your brow while singing a song my father had taught me in the Papaya fields." That ruined me for American woman. I can't stand to be around them, so disrespectful and rude. Every hard working male needs to experience this at least once in their lives.

[@6foot596]

LOL

[@FinstaDaMinsta]

That’s actually pretty awesome

[@michaelsix9684]

great story, thanks for sharing, so glad that happened to you

[@alexisboucher523]

The great thing about your show Paul is, you have learned to be able to laugh about life. And that is awful important.

[@snidelywhiplash6889]

So true. Here in the cesspool called california especially in san francisco women are outright rude, crude and blatent about hating men. So sad! I'm hoping to get to the Phils by year end.

[@tonykelly109]

Paul I never get tired of watching your excellent videos! Great sense of humor...witty, funny, & honest! I'd love to be on your channel...long time Philippine expat...former Air Force...lots of true, funny stories...from Martial Law days through 2015...

[@CattywampusOverland]

After a costly divorce from my ex American princess, my filipina Emy showed me what love really is. What a wonderful person, wife, mother, etc. that she is! Great video brother! Truth is spoken here.

[@user-qm7nw7vd5s]

Hey, General Douglas MacArther, “I shall return” loved the Philippines, made his home there for years, long before it became a thing. You’re in good company! 👍

[@chuckh.6530]

You are 10000 percent correct. I'm a 53 yr old single father. I raised my son alone from 6mth old . He is now 28, married two children and owns his own home PAID FOR. my last date was Sept 11, 2001...apparently i don't have the " qualities " wanted nowadays..responsibility, no multiple baby mommas, no criminal history, substance abuse..relatively good shape...I'm soo soon tired of things here in the U.S. it seems as common sense has disappeared, stupidity, fear, and hypocrisy rule.

[@6foot596]

It's not much different in many other countries including the Philippines.

[@tomw2687]

Totally 100% agree with you Paul. Man loves & protects his wife and family. Amen Brother!!! 👍

[@davidkaiser810]

Paul you really took on a difficult subject. Good for you and I completely agree with you

[@maxiegillis9921]

100% you are amazing . iam another one of your new fans .tks great job . we need more people like you . oh yea , love you introduction , always make me laugh

[@Kanointhejungle]

I can relate to the rescue behavior you spoke about... My sister has always said I choose woman I can rescue.... This time it's a bit different however. It's true I rescued my new wife financially..but she has rescued me from a depressing existence of life. I can't express the joy and happiness I have found with her and her two boys, At 68 I was sitting around waiting to die.. Now I'm living life as never before. It was the biggest gamble of my life.. selling my house, car,wife,dog, and everything I owned. I would do it again in a heartbeat. Stay safe and healthy my friend.

[@billhatch4403]

Another great video Paul, really interesting and I agree 👍 with all you talked about. Thanks for everything you do. Love you guys. Take care my friend.

[@Sunmoon-gj9gy]

Great Vlog , I was that 60 something man sitting on my couch and because of divorce and grown children busy with thier own lives experienced isolation and loneliness. After being here 2 months I don't feel invisible anymore and feel like I arrived home 🏡

[@TruthFinder7839]

It is changing faster everyday, I never though about leaving the USA to retire until now. Somehow I found some KZbin Videos about the Phillipines and their culture and the wonderful people, who are under resourced and strive day to day. I can’t wait to come to the Philippines, and maybe find a woman that will align with my values, and we will have the future to share, with a life fulfilled with purpose. I enjoy helping others, and it’s so satisfying to think of others and making a difference with their lives. Your doing a great job sharing this info, I equally had a toxic home life that you described, and sounds so familiar to me. I hope to see everyone soon next year, and take the slow trip to get to know them on a deeper level. ❤😊

[@thereapersperch]

Brilliant monologue! I went out the the Philippines with my life in a suitcase at the age of 27 and stayed there for the next 16 years. I wish I had seen videos like this before I went. (There was nothing like KZbin channels back then). Believe me when I say, I've seen and done just about every mistake that can happen out there. I've been ripped off by just about everyone. I've had girlfriends, I've been treated as a walking ATM, I've bought property and been scammed with it, I've been married. My advice to anyone new going out there would be to keep yourself very private and low-key. Date but don't commit, live alone, don't let girls move in with you, have a source of income from outside the Philippines. Do not invest in anything there, Do not buy property, do not build a house, do not even rent an unfurnished place and buy your own furniture coz that ties you down. Live care-free and without commitment. Don't live in one place for too long. Move around and treat it like one giant holiday.

[@gamblerseven9000]

With a great deal of class and clarity you defined for many what they could not define for themselves. I for one really appreciate it. Thanks Paul

[@Juice17408]

Another great video Paul. You hit the nail on the head with your description of the US. I’ve give up on even dating here seven years ago. Still with that being said my reason for wanting to move to the Philippines isn’t for companionship. I truly I believe I can have a better life style there. Economically, socially and slower pace of life there. Thanks again for you videos, always on point! John

[@stacy58306]

Great video Paul.

[@fcruz43215]

Great video dude. This is part of the reason that I've lived in Korea for the last 20 years.

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@demri123]

Hey same here! Left the US in 2008 at 23, been in korea ever since

[@rockherder-us]

Great Video. I started intermittent fasting and Keto on April 25 and today I'm down 29 #s. IF and Keto works.

[@USAtoPhilippinesLife]

I didn't think about that rescue aspect of my relationship with my wife who was an OFW in Hong Kong when I met her. It did make me feel good when we reached that point in our relationship, during our engagement when I told her to go ahead and wrap it up in HK and head back to PH to plan our wedding and prepare for the next chapter of our lives. Made me happy and still does that she's not living that life in HK anymore. She's here with me in the NY area these past 5 plus years with a great job in the same hospital where I work which is great but... I'm proud as hell of her but I do realize she's blossomed into an Americanized Filipina now and there are times I kind of wish that wasn't the case... Taking it one day at a time, we'll be back in PH for a month after labor day, we're both excited to get the heck away from the madness here. Great video as always man. 👍~Mike~

[@invisiblerevolution]

I'm curious... in which ways has American culture influenced her?

[@stethesteguy2093]

Hit the nail right on the head! Another great video. 👍

[@stormshadow9659]

Hey Paul 👋 great to listen to you my friend you talk a lot of sense. I'm from the UK in my 60s and starting to become dissolutioned with life here sound's very similar to the US. I've been going to Thailand twice or three times a year for about a month at at a time and found a life i thought just didn't exist anymore. Found new friends and a partner too and loving every minute of it , feels good to be free 🙂 . Great to listen to you keep it coming 👍

[@frankshaw]

Love all your videos I learned a lot listening to you too thanks 👍 volume way up

[@paulthurson]

i'm 10 years younger than you Paul and thus feel like you're my older brother in many ways with your wisdom and thoughtfulness .. keep gracing us with your thoughts and happy we share the same first name :)

[@MrSrossm]

nice video. keep up the good work

[@tonym3675]

The one thing I know Paul, (other than the real truth of that I know nothing at all) is that every one of us, that comes to your channel is very blessed. Not because of only the information you provide to everyone about your life there and that of others. But in the way, you seem to be able to verbalize very basic truths. Please never apologize for doing that.

[@turningpointaustralia9531]

Great Honest & Truthful Video

[@LB-ty6ks]

For all those looking for greener grass I hope they will find it. As for me I'm happy as a clam right here in the good old, warts and all USA. I'm looking forward to my trip to the Philippines I've got booked for September. I'm sure I'll love it. You've created a great channel, I enjoy it a lot.

[@ynotpresley]

Always big value words from a wise gentleman Paul, love

[@jamesnichols2511]

OMG, Paul. this has to be the best vlog ever. You hit the nail right on the head. many, many men are moving to the philippines because of the economical structure of the islands vs america, the beautiful women, the friendliness of the people, and a change in lifestyle. I for one, am moving to the philippines in a couple years with my son and his filipina wife. Im really excited about the move. what's happening in the states is mind boggling. cost of living, politics, angry people everywhere, what to say without getting accused of being racist, only to name a few. Im single, but already 72. so far, im in good health, and plan on visiting thailand, vietnam, and possibly japan while homebased in the islands. I know the weather is hot and muggy, but I also know theres an invention called AC, hahaha. hope to see you and Mae there.

[@peter-pg5yc]

you have no idea of heat and humidity..Lived HK 5 years singapore over 1 year.. ac there is costly.. but medical care is not good.. reality..

[@donskuse2194]

​@@peter-pg5ycI spent time in HK and Macau. Macau was horrible. Just lifting a finger and I felt I needed a shower haha. I didn't see or do enough things in HK but with the current political situation there I don't think I'd want to return if I had the chance to do so. Right now some Chinese bot is probably flagging my comment and putting me on list haha.

[@tucsonwilly]

Love your channel. Very good content. Married a Filipina and its worked out good. She asked me when she got over to Arizona, "Do I beat my women?" I said, "No, Do you beat your men?" She liked that answer.

[@m.carranza5402]

I'm an American woman. When I was married in 1973 my husband was Army. We could talk for hours and on payday he would hand me his paycheck keeping $10 for his, at work, coffee fund. I ran the home, the bills and the children. He would never once Tell me what to do, we discussed everything, and enjoyed it, because we were partners. The last 12 year relationship I had with a man I paid all the bills except the $450 rent so that he could afford his dually diesel large bed, double cab truck - because I loved him and put him first. I fed the 2 horses, 2 miniture donkeys, the 5 dogs (3 of which we inherited from his mothers death - none of the other kids wanted. They just wanted the car, TV, etc.) and 3 cats. I kept the 3 acres of foilage trimmed back and was a volunteer EMT for our rural community. America changed when corporations took over the government. No wage increases so women went to work, for less pay I think. You are right, some women have taken equality to a ridiculas level. This ruins it for all women. You never mention the way men have changed here. It is just as hard for women, here, to find a real partner as it is for men. I see change but I also consider the source of these changes. I miss Cronkite and True News. America has changed, not for the better. Real relationships are partnerships. Respect for the contributoin from each (hoping there is a contribution from each). The type of manly, giving, loving, considerate, hero man you describe here is hard to find. I'm glad that you found yours.

[@RK-db4oq]

Your post is telling. As is well known by now, Cronkite was a closet liberal (borderline communist) socialist and was instrumental in helping to transform America into what it is now--not by lying, but by slanting stories, and only telling you the stories he and his cronies wanted you to hear to advance their agenda. He was a godless, conniving, degenerate. He fooled you too.

[@RG-hf4et]

American men don't want real relationships/partnerships as far as I can see here in America. I am an American female, too. I agree with everything you said here.

[@youtubeuserzzzz]

Thank you for this. I'm an American Woman too. I understand this page is for men but it's quite interesting to see how one sided it is. I have had too many failed relationships with "needed" American Men. They whined so much, I thought I was raising a Kid. In which, I NEVER had kids. A Western Woman (NOT from the US) said "Western Men nowadays, want a Nurse (a Woman who cares for them with them having no appreciation or helping out). Or a Nurse with a purse (same as above, just with money). I gave up on Western Men. I love being a Woman in my role. However, I can't do my role if my Partner isn't doing his.

[@krendellbreaux7825]

@@youtubeuserzzzz ,fly to Philippines.

[@journeytrials]

Sounds like the USA is a mess and no one you people are willing to fix it!

[@rawhide154]

I haven’t seen all your videos, but so far this is the best I have seen.

[@francisdbrooksjr5025]

Yup, you hit the nail squarely on the head Paul! Moved here in 2009 and never looked back!

[@RL-nz8xr]

Been a while Paul, good to watch your vid again. Things are really crazy out this way & getting worse by the second. Can't say more than that atm

[@jimanderson2420]

Paul this was probably your best vlog. Very real, very refreshing. I have always really enjoyed your channel. I think you have made a statement that thousands of men in our age group will totally relate to as well as agree with. Keep them coming, we need the inspiration and positive vibe they give off. Many Thanks

[@peternielsen5998]

Excellent video Paul. Always get a kick out of your blogs and I could relate to what your saying for sure. Looking forward to the next.

[@kev12364]

Greetings to all from England. Love your videos always great information.

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

Glad you like them!

[@johnboy1520]

I lived in Thailand for 2 years and loved it. I hope to live out the rest of my days in the land of smiles....

[@sdavis-59]

Well said Paul, I met my Filipina when I was working in Dubai 12 years ago, I came to Philippines 2 years after that and have been coming back ever since. We have 2 beautiful children now age 11 and 8. I have been through the entire gamut of things you talk about, and it always makes me smile. My relationship with the Mother has been very toxic the past few years and I was forced to make one of those "difficult decisions " in March 2019 for the good of the children (long story)...anyway I still plan to return to be near my kids, I really relate to the guy about saving/helping people, and just wanted to give you my kudos for your channel. Keep it up! I also follow Phillipino Pea who is another excellant source of "truth bombs" Salamat po

[@DavidAlgie]

Hi Paul, Can you tell me if you have any experiences about if Christian Filipino is a good dating site or not ? When it comes to meeting a good Filipino lady. I know two ladies and they actually live close to You near Dumaguete. One is an English teacher in Bacolod and the other one is a model in Talisay. Haha ))) I will be quite well off with my Australian pension, the rent on my house in Australia and the $200,000 cash I have. By the time, I pay my home expenses, eg strata fees, rates and water in Australia, I will receive about $3,200 Australian a month which is about $2,250 US $ a month. So I'm not rich but I'm not poor either. Your show is great. I realise that i will have to pay $2,000 to $2 500 a year for medical insurance. I do not want to live in the big cities. I'm more interested in being with the right lady and they both live on your island. I will visit and meet the girls and chose one...... When I am 67, I will have things organised and I will move to the Philippines. I like the Philippines because they can speak English and I have had video calls with Thai girls and I don't want to have that communication problem. It drove me mad. Thailand might have better inferstructure but there lack of English is a deal breaker and I find Filipino women more beautiful. Do you have any suggestions ? I'm being very logical about how I'm doing this ))) So we're you live has places were you can scuba dive, I hope !? Thankyou Paul Regards David from New south Wales Australia 😀

[@reorderz7]

I totally agree with you Old Dog...Your absolute best Vlog...Keep up the great Vlogging!!!

[@345glenn]

Huge! You just gave me the conversation that I have wanted to have for years! I remember the first video of yours I watched, it was the first time I heard the term "Groundhog Day". It allowed me to reflect at a time when I was constantly mulling over and over "....is this all there is"? Yeah, you hit the bulls eye. It is rough at 67 when you were raised differently and the society around you has beaten you down to a pronoun.

[@junesanchezallison1185]

Same story here in the 🇬🇧 paul,I like a man to be a man,but I am in my sixtys so maybe it's our age group that still think this is how life should be with each other,love watching your channel you speak honest truth and that in its self it enough to keep me hooked to the next video.

[@demri123]

The "up to you" thing is an awesome part of living in Asia as a man

[@philipcooper3330]

Solid points made Paul. Another informed video. Thanks for sharing!

[@terryashley4674]

I can relate to all of this, Paul. Since I first heard your personal story, I have looked up to you because even though you retired at 62, your social security is much higher than mine and I'll be 70 when I pull the trigger. I'll be close on your heels by then. Another thing is the Filipina I found also tells me that, "It's up to you." I was taken aback too. I'm trying to get comfortable with it though. 😄

[@RK-db4oq]

@Charles White You know what I'd say if I was with an American woman on the first date? Check please.

[@78swats]

I agree with EVERYTHING you said here Mr. Paul.

[@briane173]

I can understand the appeal of going to a place where the culture revolves around male and female's traditional roles in society, especially when in America that's fast becoming a losing battle for both sexes. The dynamic in place when I married my wife in the late 70s was similar, at least in the Philippines; and after several failed relationships in the U.S., when I happened upon Mindy while visiting the Philippines I couldn't believe my eyes and ears. A woman who was, while industrious and ambitious, perfectly comfortable with being who she was and comfortable in her role as a wife and mother. I hadn't experienced that in the States -- _ever._ So when I was introduced to the culture and learning more and more about my wife I just wasn't gonna pass this up. Deep down in the darkest recesses of my soul, I _wanted_ to be her "knight in shining armor," because that was the expectation for a man when I was growing up, and I was content in that role even at times when I didn't want the responsibility. And my wife was ok with it. It was only later that I realized how lucky I was -- my wife was no wallflower, no pushover. This girl could fight her _own_ battles and made it clear she wasn't gonna put up with _my_ bullshit either. That actually relieved a lot of burden off my shoulders, because now I didn't HAVE to be the "white knight" if I didn't want to get involved in something; my wife was able and ready to make those kinds of decisions and do what needed to be done, and I was fine with that. A genuine partnership -- where neither of us had a problem being vulnerable with each other. In the States nowadays relationships boil down to who wants POWER; and POWER is measured in terms of cold, hard cash in many relationships. A loving relationship between man and woman isn't a business deal, or at least shouldn't be. I didn't have to compete with that when I met my Filipina wife, and so yeah, I dove into that head-first and have never regretted it. Now that she's gone I have no desire to date here in the US -- none. It just isn't worth the aggravation; it's not supposed to be an arm-wrestle for _power._ For the most part men of my age just want genuine companionship without the baggage. Been there, done that.

[@hillbillyintheasia6122]

late 70,s is dead in usa apples too orange's

[@garyt7232]

This vlog checked so many boxes for me. Thank you.

[@georgmeyer9104]

👍👍👍 Thats it! 2 years ago I made the decision to live my retirement on the Philippines. I started to inhale every information, every vlog about the Philippines as a place for retirement! It was not hard to make contact to pinay girls as there are some platforms for single pinay girls all ages who look for serious relationship and after some little scam finally I set my boundaries and found a year ago my love! From the very first moment I saw myself as part of her family, because you cant have a relationship with a pinay girl without involve her family! Its simply the culture! In this video you gave the most valuable information for guys who expect its getting easy to find the right girl! 1. Protection and personal responsibility for the girl and her family is a must! The guy (Cebu) in the story you told is a dreamer. Sure philippine girls will never invest their own money for vacation, because this would be very egoistic to her family. Because for all expenses the family needs have to be considered. If she dont have to support the family it would even be a bad step to spend money on a vacatioan and leave the family back home. 2, The dream of every pinay girl, beside travelling is to own land and a house near to the family! The Cebu guy should consider this facts and the fact that as a foreigner you cant own land on the Philippines. His crush just want him to pay HER FAMILY's house and HER vacation! Thats it! I dont know much about pinoy culture but at least I know. Every investment you make is fanally in the hands of your wife/gf! So either you want to be a supporter, or better stay in your country! THANK YOU PAUL for all your Efforts! Best wishes from the middle of Europe! P.S.: I will retire in 5 years and so God will, we will meet then in Valencia. btw I will never knock on your door in espect of your nap! 🙃

[@michaelmcgillivray1624]

IMHO this was one of the best, most truthful videos you have ever made. Sometimes the truth is hard to hear.

[@tropicallivingoverseas5202]

Why I left my country and came here? Option A - the bitter leftovers Middle aged Career woman with teens who will try to squeeze me into her busy life. Option B - the optimistic and grateful Younger devoted woman looking to start a family.

[@bcole3442]

Thanks,I just coughed up my coffee @ "Bitter leftover's" Exactly what they are😃 P.S That's the only thing she would be able to "Squeeze" you into 😂

[@allencushmen8352]

Amen 🙏 Brother

[@NeverGiveup-go7og]

Yup😀🌴🌴😫

[@allencushmen8352]

Psalm 112:8-10

[@RG-hf4et]

If a middle aged woman has teen aged kids and has to work to support her family, you hold that against her because she is doing the right thing? She is busy and you don't understand that? The kids are in high school & will be on their way in a few years..... What does that say about YOU? She is doing the right thing yet perhaps you prefer she stay home with no money so she has plenty if time to entertain you? Would you like to pay the bills? ...And where is dad in all of this scenario? Either AWOL or working OT to buy his new fancy sportscar .....!!.......

[@ouibaril58]

Good video Paul, and yes I stayed until the very end! Tell Mae hi, this was one of your videos I thought was very relevant and helpful! Until next time, God bless!

[@paulgibson4991]

If what you do makes you happy ,thats all that matters

[@edwardvaldiviez1137]

Thanks Old Dog you always keep it real

[@davidgleason3379]

Paul I "am 55. And I completely agree with the men you have met and the couples as well. It seems like in the last 20 years things have changed so dramatically. I thought it was just me .I was married to a woman that was just great she was so independent when we first met and yet so caring to her extended family. and she and I just hit it off from the beginning. We went out for almost a year. Then we're married for ten. Unfortunately I lost her to cancer. I "am like you I have caught myself calling women hun and have not have any other meaning behind it .it's just how I "am I see how some of the younger men act in their not showing simple manners to what is supposed to be someone they care for and I see how someone the women are just so angry and are the typical man hater. And I will not lump all women in this category. There is some that younger then me and I know them personally and they are very good. But it's becoming a different world in the US. And I see a trend that i"am glad that my age is 55 and not 25 because don't want to see how things will be here in united states in another 30 years.

[@Steve-no8fd]

Well Done my friend.

[@martypoll]

The only workplace issue I casually observed was a funny one in the early 90's. The guys in the lab had a number of Skil tool calendars featuring beautiful girls posing with power tools. The lady electronic technician retaliated by posting calendars with beefy Hawaiian guys. Eventually HR made them both take down the calendars.

[@CVP83]

some of your finest work my brother.

[@wraithrider7114]

Hi Paul. First of all thank you for all your sage and fun commentary. I am 64 just recently divorced after 37 years of marriage. What you are discussing today applies in all Western cultures today. The gender equality earthquake that has occurred in the last 30 years 😳 is media driven. There is an agenda here being guided by a so called Liberal 🙄 media and educational imbalance. Once again thank you for voicing our thoughts.

[@DoubtingThomas333]

Why on earth would you get divorced after 37 years? That's a lifetime together.... Wouldn't you just stay together for the sake of family and comfort? I know plenty of old couples like that. They just decide to live together as close friends.

[@AidaJof]

I agree. Media driven but it was also taught in schools & universities ... I am sad as to how we let it happen

[@paulthurson]

@@DoubtingThomas333 maybe they grew to hate/strongly dislike each other .. there's no cut n paste approach to these types of things .. relationships and humans are complex ..

[@DoubtingThomas333]

@@paulthurson you'd think you would have figured it out after almost 40 years.

[@nemisis_wolf]

@@DoubtingThomas333 I've come from a 25 year marriage, to a girl I thought I'd take my dying breath with and while from the outside a 25 or 37 year marriage might seem to be something you should not walk out on, all I'll say is life and the stresses of modern Western culture put a wedge on my marriage that just pushed us apart and Eventually went toxic. I still loved her but she had zero respect for me at the end and spoke to me like I was the slime that just crawled the sea and eventually she said I don't need you anymore. That line ended our marriage and it was for the best, we just didn't want to be with each other anymore. We are now good friends and talk to each other on good terms but we both know that getting together again is not a good idea. We both found out that finding another partner that wants to be with you and support you out of love and genuine affection and respect in the west is not easy or possible anymore. We both got a culture shock hitting the streets single again after 25 years and seeing what's happened since we first met.

[@curtisseaward2536]

Great video Paul I agree with you hole heartedly.

[@jennymark7403]

Hi Paul I'm 64 Aussie woman, I'm disgusted in what's happening on these issues, women are women men are men the protector of us but the feminist movement have tried to take over most Aussies won't put up with woke crap and are watching what's trying to come from the USA to Oz and we won't put up with it, H R dept are woke now and you can't say thanks love without getting written up it's bull crap

[@linmal2242]

@@frankfurtur5531 Yurfullacrapp. Were you here and living it? We waited out the virus and let it pass. We had sensible restrictions, but not 'locked down' ! So cut the BS

[@tomstulc9143]

nonsense Jenny Australians layed down spineless leftiest feminist run largest prison on planet Earth. The fact that you don't realize it's what's pathetic.

[@Fitzaism]

@@frankfurtur5531 Spot on Frank. One of the worst supporters of human rights anywhere in the world. Especially of the human rights of their own citizens.

[@Dana-ie2bh]

@@frankfurtur5531 Everybody said they would never give up their guns either, but they did.

[@nicholashannigan6930]

I have a family member, who's extremely wealthy (owns a wealth finance company & many others companies) He travelled the world with his wife, they were also sampling countries that they wanted to settle down in, in their later years (60 ish years old). Australia, New Zealand were their primary choices, until..... They experienced Australia, New Zealand. Infact, Australia, was their preferred choice. I asked what happened to the planned move, down under, &... The reason was that Australia was EXTREMELY, woke!.. Now.. This family member is pretty 'right on' himself.. So.. Tbh, it must of been bad for him to have decided to 💯% scratch Australia off of the list. that was about 3-4 years ago, btw. I'm not criticising your opinion/experience, of Australia, but.. As I mentioned above, this family member is very, left leaning/'right on' himself.. So... Going by his description of the Aussie Man & the 'wokeness' down under.. Apparently.. Again, according to his experience/description. Australia 🇦🇺 being far worse than New Zealand 🇳🇿 I would have to disagree. Please note that I am going entirely by his & his wife's description of how Australia is, 'extremely woke'!

[@garyhamilton9186]

Another good video, thank you Paul.

[@God.Almighty]

actually it's really simple for men in america if they stick to a few rules. don't talk to women unless it's business and then keep it short. don't look at them, don't greet them, don't help them. just leave them alone and if communication is necessary, keep it short and serious. it's simple and it works nicely.

[@invisiblerevolution]

🤣Damn!

[@platoon1081]

Been there, done that and was accused of causing a "toxic work environment" by HR because the female's in the front office egos weren't being "stroked" the way they wanted.

[@12B4Christ]

Paul - your best commentary yet! I personally appreciate your viewpoints - we'll have to have virtual coffee as I sit here in Texas drinking coffee, watching you. Be safe!

[@randyguidry4958]

Man Paul, you really hit the nail on the head with this vlog. I have felt for years now like American women don't want or need a "Man". At least they think that from the indoctrination they have been bombarded with over the last 40 years. They get it from the media, schools, other women, and the government. We men here, who were raised in the traditional role of a man, are totally befuddled. I too have been berated, yelled at called names by women whom I was just trying to be polite to. Once just for calling a lady Maam, which in my part of the country was taught to boys from birth as a gesture of respect. I can tell you though that, although they won't publicly admit it, the women themselves are frustrated and confused as well. They are also instinctually ingrained with feminity, but as fighting against nature to be more like and compete with men. Until I retired about a year ago, I used to give little bbq get-togethers at my home for my co-workers, mostly women. While listening to their conversations I learned that they aren't that thrilled about how life has turned out for them trying to be the man in their family or trying to compete with the men around them. They are shocked that they feel unfulfilled and confused by the roles that have been foisted on them. So, it's a mess all around. For me, I'm in the process of traveling, Latin America and yes also to the PI where there seems to be a little sanity left in the gender role department. I hoping to find a place that is comfortable, affordable, and gives me the opportunity to meet a lady that is not confused about her role as a woman and potential partner. If and when I find this place I will settle there. I fear that the US has just gone too far off the deep end. Sad situation though that might be. So, god bless and I'm looking forward to meeting for the cup of Joe when I get there.

[@bcole3442]

Look,let's be honest,it's all about the chicks. You buy a motorcycle when your 20's,to get the chicks. When dudes in 40's, you buy the red Corvette,to get the chicks in their 20's. Sorry if the chicks in their 40's don't like it... See how that works??😃

[@marcrichard7251]

Hi Randy well said….Hey I was trying to find Dean’s channel and I forget the name as I’m thinking he may of taken it down?

[@RG-hf4et]

Date a Republican conservative woman vs. a Democrat liberal woman. The dems are the big mouther liberal troublemakers.

[@vincentella6094]

Paul what your talking about is spot one and its good to here and gives perspective about the learning curve and differences between US and Philippines. Thank you my friend appreciate your cantor and honesty. God's blessings until next time!

[@bman931931]

What do all of those guys have in common? They all worked regular 9 to 5 jobs and did their stint. What you should look at is the guys in their 30's and 40's who move overseas with no income, no savings, no plan on where their retirement will come from...and scrounge month to month to get by and make ends meet. You've met a few, you've interviewed them on your channel from time to time. How they can make such a move without knowing if their funds will be cut off in a few months is just amazing to me. As technology changes so might the KZbin income source they depend on.

[@davidsmith7006]

So true. The youtube blogger thing is just another fad that is destined to change with time and technology.

[@RK-db4oq]

@@49525Bob The country might last, but your government checks won't keep coming much longer. Plan accordingly.

[@steved2623]

Thanks for the vid Paul what you have to say does resonate with me. I can't say that I would ever act on your information but at the very least I find it entertaining. 👍

[@1George2]

I can confirm this is going on ... in my company we just got an e-mail instructing us to write gender neutral, like using the word person and not use "he" or "she" and a lot of other detailed instructions I forgot

[@oldguy2764]

Please review that email tomorrow. There may be a test on Monday.

[@allencushmen8352]

Gender-neutral, sounds like Satan's at work.

[@RG-hf4et]

There are still plenty of us American women who find writing everything gender neutral absurd and who aren't radical feminists marching in Washington and who would like nothing more than having a nice quiet traditional relationship with a man.......And with that I will say it's hard to find a good single or divorced good man in America. Most widowers are too hung up on the deceased spouse and have too many widower issues years later. Too many problems. Then theres a good number of men that are gay. .....The remaining men either have a chip on their shoulder from their divorces about how they got screwed or only want companionship/mostly sex and wonder why women get p*ssed off.....Nice traditional men don't exist any more at least not in America.......A lot of American men have ruined it for themselves and other men due to their sexual hit and run dating expectations that have left MANY American women hurt & distrustful of men. These jerks have forced women to be independant and then you guys don't like it when you meet a woman who makes more money that you do....A lot of American women are tired of men's bs and would rather be alone then put themselves out there so they don't get hurt anymore......We live simple quiet lives & aren't pushing feminist agendas like you are mentioning in the workplace......I would be very happy to date a gentleman, someone who knows how to open a door for a woman, and I would be grateful. I always make it a point to say thank you when a stranger holds a door for me & I, in turn, hold doors open for anyone behind me....I know seveal single never married guys that only want sex. They will date someone for 2-3 months then dump them and that had been their history all their lives and they are still doing this into their mid-60's....And I have been the object of this in my 30's-40's-and 50's.....So you see, what goes around, comes around. I am not saying this in an angry way. I'm saying it in the sense of their are consequences for certain behaviors......If men "are only out for sex", then men need to realize women don't like being treated that way and will either turn angry towards them or just simply quietly walk away from even getting involved with men anymore....Again, there is nothing more than I would like than to find a traditional male but I have been hurt too many times by insincere men that dating isn't worth the hassel anymore. I live a simple quiet life and focus on my relatives, friends, work & fun things.

[@johnmalcolm8321]

Awesome video Paul…watched it twice. You were definitely spot on with how things are deteriorating here in the USA. Wishing you and Baby Mae the very best.

[@jameswelch1054]

What is wrong with men in the West. I had this discussing with my friend who is a doctor, recently. We came up with the points that young people have been ruined by social media. Men, have lost the ability of critical thinking, and have become poor decision makers. Men, have become irresponsible, and dependent, at this stage it is all about which tribe they want to join, and blame all of their problems, on the other tribe.

[@spiritualexercise265]

Lack of common sense and coping skills.

[@JT-cf5ol]

the family divorce industry, feminism, the dumbing down / indoctrination of Americans, basically Yuri Bezmenov (KGB defector) explained everything in how to destroy this nation. and here we are :-(

[@JAYY_JAYY]

No doubt I agree social media has destroyed not only the youth even my older family members 50s - 80 year olds on social media arguing. I got off all social media a few years ago . And the political climate is absurd as you stated each party blames the other . I also changed my affiliation to independent. Both sides are out of touch with the average working Joe .

[@waterheaterservices]

@@JAYY_JAYY My life is just better without Fight Book

[@tamakigold]

You hit the nail on the head with the Critical Thinking remark. The West is almost nearly devoid of critical thinking. I work in tech and you would think it exists there but I can say without equivocation that it doesn't. I'm happy that a universe of people like Paul have found happiness and left the cesspool of thinking that is in the West. I made up my mind long before I stumbled upon this channel that after my contract ends in the US I'm moving East.

[@jeffrey6958]

Amen to this video Paul.. I have watched a lot of videos from you and a few other people and this one hit home to me and I toatally agree with you...Cheers Jeffrey from Australia

[@digzdirt]

Had the mother (my ex) say,, "I've defended you against him" to her daughters after getting caught in an act,, then the girls replied "Mom he sees things that you dont" in response... I truly believe there is going to be a huge switch in the next generation, these kids have seen Evil lying deceptive adults in schools ,politics ,and every authoritative position.. that behavior can only last so long before it eats itself.

[@SHenderson-jz3gj]

Just an awesome video: the best I have watched from Paul so far. Paul has actually blended his life experiences and his life observations to fairly well describe the way God designed it to work.... which is why it works.

[@jamessuttner6599]

Amen Brother! Was married 36 years, worked my fingers to the bone to provide for a wife and 3 kids when the ungrateful B kicked me to the curb at 61 years old. Needless to say she got the gold mine, I got the shaft. To old to recover financially, lucky to afford a shit hole apartment. Not living the dream in Wisconson USA. Take care you lucky bastard!

[@valeriek5020]

May I ask a few questions. A long marriage and it seems when these long marriages end, the man feels he was thrown under the truck. Did your wife work at all or a stay at home mom who managed the home you both owned. After a 36 year marriage, the children were on their own. You and your wife would have equal distribution of finances and home............what was the cause of the marriage breakup. Yes, doing a paper on all this drama in the Philippines. Thank you.

[@sarashann]

This American woman appreciates my 70 year old husband. He's a gem and we will celebrate 36 years married this year. He's the best! ❤

[@AidaJof]

Good video Paul. I have often wondered how did society got so bad to bring us into this neutrality. I get it having to be respectful to one another but going so far as to take offence at being called 'honey' or opening a door is just awful

[@chrism4008]

2nd, 3rd, and 4th wave Feminism is how it got so bad in the west. Rights without responsibilities is how things became so terrible in the west. The scary part is that it has barely even gotten started

[@AidaJof]

@@chrism4008 That may well be, but schools, universities have a big part in the change ... I experienced it with those new recruits arriving to their first day of work, because of the nature of the work, many were men as they saw themselves being cool by standing up for politically correctness ... already full of their progressive ideas. So please, let's not blame it all on females

[@AidaJof]

@@Barefootape Make no mistake about it, I am doing what I want. You want it all? Go ahead, whatever floats your boat. What is your point?

[@waterheaterservices]

@@AidaJof That is not Party approved correct speech for Allowed Thinking.

[@AidaJof]

@@waterheaterservices 😁😁😁

[@bforce3824]

Great video. I've been to PI many many times when I was in the Navy. I'm 52 - I'll be done with child support in 7 more years, at which point I'll be heading there to retire.

[@Cat-ik1wo]

Paul. I agree!! However, I seen the flipside too. Men not wanting to do that. I had to take it upon myself and did not want to. There are a lot of American men who are shirking the man role.

[@sherpadelgatos]

good show! thanks