Relationships in the Philippines/Why Can't He Find a Girlfriend?

Relationships in the Philippines/Why Can't He Find a Girlfriend?‪@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234‬
Welcome to our channel, where we delve into the complexities of love and relationships! In this video, we explore the challenges faced by an individual seeking to find a Filipina girlfriend. Join us on this captivating journey as we navigate the intricacies and genuine struggle of searching for love. As we embark on this heartfelt quest, we delve into the intricacies of dating in today's society. Throughout the video, we candidly discuss the unique experiences and hurdles that hinder our protagonist from finding his perfect Filipina match. From cultural differences to personal preferences, we explore the multifaceted layers that play a role in the pursuit of love in an international context. Through personal anecdotes and shared experiences, we shed light on the struggles many encounter when searching for a Filipina girlfriend. Our aim is not only to entertain but to provide insight and guidance for those who may be facing similar challenges. By highlighting these obstacles, we hope to instill a sense of comfort and understanding, reassuring others that they are not alone in their journey to find love. Join us on this emotional rollercoaster as we uncover the deep-seated desires, frustrations, and hopes connected with the pursuit of a Filipina girlfriend. Our heartfelt discussions and thought-provoking insights aim to foster empathy and genuine understanding for individuals seeking love across borders. Subscribe to our channel to stay up-to-date with our captivating content, where we explore various aspects of love, relationships, and cultural dynamics. Through engaging discussions and personal narratives, we strive to provide valuable insights and guidance. Thank you for joining us on this emotional exploration. Like, comment, and share this video to spread awareness about the struggles and realities faced when searching for a Filipina girlfriend. Together, let's create a community that embraces diversity, love, and understanding. Stay tuned for more eye-opening content that aims to inspire, educate, and provoke meaningful conversations.
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[@thewannabevlogger71]

Scotty boy has had a rough time from a few KZbinrs recently, which I really find of poor taste and bullying tactics. Good on you, Paul, for this interview with Scotty, bringing back some decent humanity to what's been happening recently. 👏

[@SanTropez680]

Yes that's true. WTV Philly?

[@FRUGALWITHJOHN]

I seen that, and unsubscribed to everyone who did it. I like his channel and I am also Canadian.

[@bullruncrypto1503]

I unsubscribed from marks channel - because it turns out mark is the loser.

[@habsguy1966]

absolutely ridicule of other vloggers is not cool. If u don't care for another u tubber. Just keep quit and respectful. If u name call it shows your true colors.

[@omegoa]

Didnt see it. When did all this happen?

[@dr.detroit2877]

I like Scott (I refuse to call a middle aged man Scotty boy) because he is as awkward as I am around people. Being Canadian, tall, anxiety driven, and uncomfortable around new surroundings and new people, makes for a strange adventure seeker more adept at hiding in a room under his covers. Scott is a breath of fresh air when compared to vloggers who boast, bragg, and extoll on their accomplishments and virtues of being the CEO of the past.

[@tryscience]

For certain. Better to be real, perhaps a bit vulnerable, than a fake CEO, too insecure or perhaps even cowardly to be honest.

[@TomR61]

Typical Canadian from my experience. Pompous

[@georgetinant9486]

@@TomR61 Donny Trump doesn't come from Canada !!!! Pompous ( right )

[@raycatlin3554]

🎹. .🎶. . .Oh Danny - Boy . ...The Pipes the pipes are c-a-l-l-i-n-g . .

[@tryscience]

@@raycatlin3554 😂

[@robertspencer6085]

Don’t know what it is exactly, but there is something that is off about this guy. I’m a guy and if my hairs sense something is off, I’m sure women do also.

[@chocolatecookie8571]

That is most common with narcissists and psychopats.

[@monkkwok6725]

Oh Yeah!!!!!!

[@ElyPowell]

Same, he's not a loving fellow.

[@anneosullivan5160]

Totally agree

[@jdsim9173]

The fact that he calls then babaroonis or he always pauses the camera on minor children?

[@BruceCinader]

I follow both of these gentlemen, different style but both worth watching.

[@seanmac5093]

Scott is no gentleman

[@sentinel80]

You’re right yet so many are so blind to the obvious 🤷‍♂️

[@mrrobert177]

Paul, great interview. You managed to make Scotty boy feel relaxed. He is clearly one who marches to the beat of his own drum, but your presence and demeanor obviously calms his mind, he readily admits on his channel he likely suffers from ADHD, OCD and other challenges psychologically. While many who have not watched his channel will think he lacks focus and attention, your presence and interview style allowed him to relax. I have been watching u both a long time. Keep up the great work exposing the world to life in the Philippines. I will be flying to Davao next week, then onto Leyte via motorcycle. Thanks for your great work!

[@i-am-your-conscience]

Thats why Paul is the greatest interviewers of all the vloggers I know out there. Nobody can beat him at that :)

[@ndyajeff]

I watched enough of the Scotty Boy to be amazed that he has that many loyal followers... Just listen to what he says in this video. Maybe try writing in out and reading it aloud yourself. A 45 year old teachers saying out loud that he only likes the young girls? He likes when the young girls from the villages leave home to the college where they no longer have the close support of their family? Maybe you could balance your listening time with the complete interview with Jack Reynolds as he describes how to pick children he was interested in... Kinda makes regular guy's interviews pretty creepy as he profiles the youngest women he can pay to interview... I hope I am wrong! 6:50 18:30 listen carefully this time?

[@mrrobert177]

​@@ndyajeff I have never heard regular guy express an interest in underage girls? If he did point it out for us all. I see u are a follower of Tim K like I am as well. Tim got his young province gf pregnant at 18 when he was almost 40...u obviously are ok with that as a follower? So what are u criticizing 45 years old regular guy about? Comparing him to a convicted pedo is unfair and outrageous unless u have some additional info I don't have. Hope no one ever goes after u dude for something u said that maybe wasn't as clear or as artful as it could have been.

[@ndyajeff]

Mr Roberts Did you listen to the interview I mentioned? If not why did you even bother responding ? My concerns are clear and when you seem similar behavior is it obvious... Since you chose to not respond directly to my comments but instead engaged in "what about ism" that tells me you have closed closed mind. So again why bother even mentioning me when your mind is closed, you responded to me comments emotionally, and never investigated what I was talking about? As for me, YES if I am online spewing equally questions comments and behavior please call me out !!! Be a real man and question potentially bad behavior ...

[@ndyajeff]

7:57 "The girls in the area is kinda a deciding factor if I am going to live there or not" He is speaking about college age girls, many who are away from home for the first time? Potentially a bit sheltered as many woman in PI told me they never even rode in a car before they were in their 20's much less driven a car. You don't see that as questionable? Especially given his other comments? Speaks way more about you that you would probably like, and I am very happy with what is says about me putting the questions on the table! Act like that in the western world and the Police will have a file on you very quickly...

[@thehoranzys9938]

Thanks To Old Dog for helping promote Scotty. He's very bold n informative on his channel. In the trenches with no sugar coating just like you.

[@cadizwilmo9687]

I don't think there is such thing is a "Perfect Place". Because where ever you go - there you are.

[@tryscience]

Some places are more imperfect than others

[@gsomethingsomething2658]

EXACTLY!

[@patrickwilliam3322]

And very often the nicer the place, the more AHs there are. Trend I've noticed.

[@pzee66]

Scott is his own individual. He will have a difficult time in a relationship. He thinks he knows what he wants, but he doesn't have a plan for his future. Best of luck to him.

[@chocolatecookie8571]

He has narcissistic behavior. Always seeking new adventures, new supply.

[@lilyjazel7764]

Scotty more than likely have numerous illegitimate children all over . He will have difficulty settling down with one woman .

[@oliviahurtado7161]

There is no such as the perfect girl or man, he is in for a big surprise! 😂

[@jasminen273]

Totally agree with you!

[@emilywilliams5362]

@@chocolatecookie8571looks like it 😮

[@PinoyWestLondonBoyEscapes]

Better to be alone than miserable.

[@joepaquet4332]

Amen to that!

[@bigbrother4ever]

Sometimes they go hand in hand ...😢

[@pauldeanda4985]

My mother used to give us this advice, but in Mexican Spanish! It tuns out that it is very true, specially after you get over that woman that you have gotten used to.

[@johncarlson6472]

In this vlog I found Scott to be more grounded and contemplative. You could tell he was intently listening to Paul and didn't interrupt. Great interview.

[@reefmonger2]

Scotty isn't a regular guy, he's a player and Filipinos can see through that .

[@stevierayripple]

Scotty is simply Playing the field, until he finds the "right" Woman... Nothing wrong with that, at all.....

[@bigbrother4ever]

Also I think a sort if loser back home. At his age, he doesn't seem to have much in his name and to a discerning woman, that's a red flag. Teaching English in Asia for 20 dollars an hour your entire life during a time when the west was doing so well isn't a sign of smart

[@mikescott4780]

Hes annoying as shit. Talks his way out of more azz then anyone on here.

[@lilyjazel7764]

That’s true - Scotty is a player .

[@kgwgk1]

I married my wife from surigao area. These people are extremely poor and would not let me near her if all I was there was for to meet the "babyroonies"as he says when he is going to go look for girls.Sorry if he feels slighted but first thing if you are truly looking for long term relationship is to show RESPECT. Paul has shown how to find a woman and gotten love and possibly respect back. The first 10 years my wife was here in the USA she constantly would ask if I would let a person I talk to here if I would say that she was filipino. This comes from stories that came from our older cousin with lies about them , being " lbfm". Paul you are old as I a and know what I mean.Filipinas know about the soldiers who just were players. Scott I think you are not on Paul's level yet. Maybe you will find someone like baby. But the first thing is to genuinely show respect.

[@JessaKChannel]

FINANCIALLY STABLE OR NOT, WOMEN LOVE HARDWORKING MEN. 💪💪💪

[@Googlemarsplanet]

What about a hard working female !!!!!’

[@offthecuffadventureswithjamie]

@@Googlemarsplanetyou nailed it! It’s one of the most admirable qualities in my mind. It’s the other part of team work. A princess gets old very fast.

[@EamonnHogan-pk1le]

Jessakchannel, would luv to hear ur response from the 2 prior comments above, after all your comment was in big bold capitals 😂

[@offthecuffadventureswithjamie]

@@EamonnHogan-pk1le well if Jessa is a nurse in Canada I’m sure she’s working to the point of overload. Our health care system becoming stretched to the max!

[@charlesbennett7688]

Woman love money

[@flybywir1]

I've watched the video now Paul.... and although I found Scotty's chat was interesting I also got the distinct impression that we were not getting the full story on Scotty and his Philippine travels......at the end I had a feeling that I definitely would NOT buy a used car from him 😅🤣🤣

[@rickylee6129]

I CONCUR.

[@sarahluper7881]

Yep, Scotty can definitely sell a lemon car and make the buyer believe it isn't.

[@dans9463]

What about a new car?

[@tramonte]

Paul, once again you grew up immensely on respect with me. Scotty is a straightforward guy and sometimes people misinterpret him but you were nothing but stellar in this interview. I'm very happy to watch this interview with him.

[@TheQuietAmerican.]

The perfect girl and the perfect location do not exist. Everything is a compromise and a negotiation.

[@picadosinferno]

Exactly

[@tryscience]

Perfect for him, perhaps. But you're also right, even if you meet the perfect girl and the perfect place, it's important to be flexible because everything does change over time.

[@iggi70]

My prediction, ScottyBoy will find his perfect 20 year old Filipina when he turns 65.

[@bobbysangels5778]

I AM MARRiED TO THE ALMOST PERFECT MOUNTAiN WOMAN, FROM SANTA CATALiNA NEGROS ORiENTAL PHiLiPPiNES 🇵🇭& LiVE IN MACTAN NEWTOWN THE ALMOST PERFECT TOWN FOR THE WiFE & MYSELF 💎🙌🏻🇺🇲💯🇵🇭💪...

[@tryscience]

@@bobbysangels5778 isn't it hot there though?

[@user-wz4db1zn3r]

The regular guy isn't so regular, he's a player who's been far and wide so his expectations are very high and broad. He actually reminds me of myself. You can never be satisfied if you've been everywhere and been with so many girls.

[@4040smokey]

The equivalent of a beautiful woman in America saying they can't find a good man when in fact they are surrounded by them.

[@bigbrother4ever]

True.. Typical hedonistic Don Juan. These types never change. He is the 22 yo who is still looking for teaching English 😂😢😮😅

[@M.R.T.V.Videos]

I think it's possible he's secretly P.U.A. which is basically a chameleon con man type who manipulates women to get as much s3x with as many girls as he can knows exactly what to say ???? I don't know LOL 😂

[@roderickrose6663]

The Scotty Boy dude is actually telling the truth when he says he wants a perfect situation. He's after perfection.... Perfect Filipina and the perfect place. I've been trying to do that for my whole adult life and now I'm 50 years old. He is only 5 years younger than me. He's running out of time. I believe a person should have standards, but perfect shouldn't be the standard. Instead of expecting perfection from other people, maybe he should become perfect. Oh wait! Working on yourself is hard, ain't it? It is better to come to acceptance of something's not being perfect and improving on the things you can rather than expecting perfection.

[@bigbrother4ever]

He is a player. Perfect is just an excuse. He said he went to Korea to be close to the Philippines at 22. So for the last 25 years, he hasn't done a thing but to look for a perfect woman. 😢

[@ardshielcomplex8917]

I'm a subscriber both to Paul's series and more recently Scotty's. I like Scotty's content, obvious sincerity and empathy with the Filipino people. Without seeming critical let me share my thoughts about Scotty's style; he can be very intense and over powering with his dialogue, has a habit of repetitive patter and at time mundane content spread over lengthy presentations. I believe that you're a good soul Scotty, work on what you recognise as needing improvement and forge ahead. All the best good man.

[@MrJollychimp]

Empathy? Do you know the meaning of that word? He is a narcissist who preys on anyone for his own benefit.

[@CaptainKremmen]

Many people in the Philippines envy our lifestyle. That includes travel. There's no reason to give up travel if you meet a Filipina. Not all want to go overseas, but many want to see more of their own country.

[@napoleonmdusa8877]

This is what I hope to find when I get there for my retirement--a woman from the Philippines who has a passion for travel & wants to visit lots of places within her country, just like I do, but she just hasn't had the time or money to make that happen much.

[@josedelnegro46]

There are alot of Filipinas who win miss world and they know it. But there are almost zero Filipinas in Hollywood and working as models and they know that too. The only reason a young guy would marry a Filipina is if he were to understand they are the smartest women on earth. But how would a mono lengua Americana ever know that.

[@danreitan2506]

@@josedelnegro46 islands of smart and beautiful women. word.

[@hillbillyintheasia6122]

@@danreitan2506 he wants a young smart girl has her own income . local ppl are not rich like scotty boy .

[@shess1640]

Sure but can he afford to pay for two people on his travels? Maybe by providing for another, he'd be shortening his ability to travel

[@Kun_Wing]

Dude may be OCD? Surprised he survives living in the PI. The kind of girl he’s looking for, probably won’t be in the province. 😅

[@jonathancohen2351]

One of Scott's early videos is an autobiography. He had some learning disability. He is an intelligent person though.

[@bigbrother4ever]

Yes..this guy will have a hard time forming any meaningful relationship

[@jarlathquinn5722]

Love the matching T-shirts!😉

[@ncsludgefactory5445]

I dont hate on scotty, i have my ideas about him but what i see he shows the places, explains, and its amusing. So whatever he does its his business and i appreciate him showing me things i need to know when i get there

[@Wakeupandsniffthecoffee]

I started with Paul and then for the last month I got stuck on Scotty's Regular Guy channel and watched it daily. It's fun to see the two of you together. Especially, with the recent Duma drama that has sprung up. Not many people have a chance to try out so many places and is content to take his time to find that perfect place and women. There are women in any town, so find the town you want and live and find a lady from that area. Filipina want to be close to their roots and families, in most cases anyways and will want to live close or have to be able to travel back. The right women in the right town would definitely lead to long time happiness. I love how Paul's channel has become the go to channel to meet and understand so many people.

[@andrewcrimmins8173]

i think paul and scott both have channels where they are genuine and can make you laugh/smile. each very different channels, but generally a good feel. There are many other channels that just seem stiff, idk.

[@majorronaldmandell7835]

I taught in the Philippines at an international school and it was not hard to get the job either. I just applied. The thing that one must realize about teaching abroad is that one earns no social security credit, and earns no retirement, so the question is, how do you live when you get old?

[@thomasleary415]

He's Canadian.

[@Kevins-Philippine-Retirement]

@@user-ez1jo9qe3h CPP and OAS gives me a comfortable life here in the provinces with my wife and little boy here as long as I am willing to live like a Filipino ;)

[@bigbrother4ever]

That's the advice I would give younger people. Teaching English overseas isn't a wise career move, long term. Good for that overseas experience, I would say one year max. Plus unlike what some vloggers claim, teaching English becomes akin to a 9 to 5 or worse, if that's your only source of income. So no much fun after all.

[@FilipinaAndTheForeigner]

​@@bigbrother4everteaching online since 2016. Strain on the brain doing it every day.

[@amowatt01]

The first time I am seeing Reg Guy smile so much ...........Old Dog must be a great friend........hope so.

[@BruceCinader]

Women tend to want a stable man that sticks around, not a man that wanders from place to place every day. I think if he settles down for a time his luck will change.

[@bigbrother4ever]

Will be hard for him. After 25 years of playing the field, the brain can be fried sometimes. That's why you see a few zombies stuck on walking streets around Asia. 😢

[@user-fq5xh9vn3o]

FYI, if you are 45 and you haven't found anyone yet, you ain't goinna find her. Do you have anything to offer? Education, etc?

[@chocolatecookie8571]

It is true and studies have shown likewise that the more partners you had the less chance you end up with a stable relationship let alone stable longterm marriage. If this man keeps dating girls one after the other finding the ‘perfect’ one he will end up alone delusionaled.

[@billhaley8673]

I've been a subscriber to Regular Guy for around 6 months now and love his channel. He's a good guy and his vlogs are awesome. New sub to you Paul too. Thanks for doing this interview.

[@seanmac5093]

He's actually not a good guy. That's the problem.

[@davem8898]

@@seanmac5093what exactly is bad about him? I’ve been following him for a while and don’t see it

[@M.R.T.V.Videos]

​@@seanmac5093irregular guy 😂

[@robinchat9024]

@@M.R.T.V.Videosthat’s what makes him interesting 😅

[@jjcohrs3046]

Paul I'm glad that u actually see and admit what is happening. There is the younger generation coming to settle in Philippines. I'm 1 of them. Times and ways of generating income has changed and ppl have freedom to live where they want to....

[@One-12937]

You look extremely old, young would be less than 30.

[@elgancho9638]

what was the reply, I can't see it

[@ndyajeff]

just curious did you look at Poland, Portugal, Albania at all? Others?

[@mikejones5364]

Younger? What is your age?

[@elgancho9638]

I think it's un- natural for an older man 60's to be with a young 20's year old woman, old men were not meant to reproduce, if it wasn't for Viagra this would not work. it goes against nature, just as it goes against nature that women past menopause could have children. Women prefer men between 30 and 40 yrs old

[@chasvonplatten1298]

The wisdom of age and experience: "Good luck with that." 😉

[@chasvonplatten1298]

Paul, that was an excellent interview. You asked great questions and then allowed Scotty the opportunity to answer thoroughly. Scotty, made some great points along the way and made some interesting observations. I have been your subscriber dating back to when you were just starting your channel < 5k subscribers and quickly subscribed to Regular Guy's (Scotty) channel its first month or two, if for no other reason his cool intro music, lol. Anyway, just really appreciated how you conducted the interview, tasteful humor, while honoring and respecting Scott as the sharp articulate younger guy who has lived quite a courageous life, finding his way through Asia and figuring out life along the way. I pray he does find the "perfect girl" and settles down in the "perfect place" with her to start a family. Blessings

[@oscieestanislao5840]

Another graat person to interview. Aren't we Filipinos so lucky to have both of this gentlemen to choose the Philippines to be there home country. Not only they both have wisdom to share but to be a nice guys for our women's kababayan to be there beter half is very welcoming. I wish you both the success of what ever paths you choose and hope you both are safe all the time..

[@sarahluper7881]

Good for the economy; they're spending their hard earned money in the Philippines.

[@DavidVargas-qu8mf]

I am really happy to hear him say that his goal eventually is to lease some land and then build his house on it. This is very different from many of these guys who build a house on the land of their girlfriend or even their Filipina wife only to find out later that they could be thrown out of that house and end up on the street this guy has done his homework and I respect him for it

[@streetracingmiscreant8589]

Is he the fella that continually refers to himself in the third person? He is very… very wordy, and seems to be very much into himself. Those qualities, in my humble opinion, would make finding the “perfect partner” more challenging. But hey, I have certainly been wrong before, so who knows, I might actually like him if I could get a word in edgewise.

[@bigbrother4ever]

Challenging or impossible. He is broke. He is a player. He hasn't left school. 😂😅😢

[@RawContent]

Was so funny when Scottie Boy asked Tim K to help him on the Ferry ride and take the trip to Mindanao and the next morning Tim was looking for Scottie and Scottie was nowhere to be found. He just ditched Tim. Lesson learned. 🤣Channel is great but should be called the Odd Guy! lol

[@user-zy5vx4ou8q]

There is always 3 sides to every story. Scott tells it differently. The truth is??

[@ndyajeff]

Surprised and disappointed to see and hear you say you love this guy's channel! A 45 year old man chasing "18" year old girls and commenting on the bra sizes as he films them without their consent (in public) is a bit off the base level of morality I expect..

[@bigjohnson7415]

Excellent interview, you really get to see the Real "Regular Guy" beyond any of the controversy. Thanks Paul!

[@metaphy]

My two preferred KZbinrs together. Very good interview. Young crazy dog meeting old wise dog in a laid back chat.

[@KeilikoGreg]

Well said! “Young crazy dog meets old wise dog!”

[@habsguy1966]

As a Canadian who found his Filipina at 46, Scott is doing it right. Find a Filipina from the mountain province.. My wife is from Jimalalud just north of Dumaguete. Actually there are many from Jimalalud in our city of Regina in Canada. She was so happy to have people from her hometown here in Canada. Great vid Paul. Scott will find his Filipina and will live happily ever after.

[@danielroydrawe]

I brought my Filipina to Alberta from Iloilo, Philippines. Two years later she was out screwing other guys. Divorced now for 11 years.

[@joebidet2050]

You took a filipina to Regina? I'm calling the UN commission on human rights 😂

[@rockout1180]

@@joebidet2050I had my Filipina in Winnipeg, that lasted 3 months and now we’re on Vancouver Island 😂

[@tubedude3]

Scotty boy is like me. Stuck in the window shopping mode which he says will end when he finds "perfection". I think it will end when he is older and is forced into decision when the young ones are no longer as easy to get. And while he can still get a reasonably young, attractive woman where children are no longer an issue. Like Paul!

[@hillbillyintheasia6122]

window shopping from 22 to 27, lol.

[@robbyrose6904]

45 . Never married . No children . This guy will never keep a gf more than 6 months and thats ok its his journey .

[@bigbrother4ever]

​@@robbyrose6904true. His brain has been fried by now. And I suspect he had issues to start with. I dont understand how someone at 22 would give up career and family and retirement, just to be close to the Philippines...for... 25 years. 😢

[@JT-dj9hc]

Super weird how he talks to to the camera and not to paul. 🤔

[@sonja8942]

U tube performance habit

[@sonja8942]

If Scotty boy thinks he will know in a month if he’s found the girl it better have good wi fi if he won’t have his income and unless he has a big stash of money, doesn’t sound too reliable as a secure income!

[@acedjgaming6779]

Good point. I noticed this myself

[@fcruz43215]

He rubs me the wrong way. But best of luck to ya.

[@rickylee6129]

Agreed 👍

[@davewordsworth1251]

agreed

[@jg-bd3hr]

Myself I like the younger Filipina because she’s a attractive, she’s adventurous, and most of all she looks up to you for your advice. She knows she will learn a lot from you that she has not learned from her family, she will have a brighter future. Most of all I think a lot of them are looking forward to inheriting whatever you leave them. I believe they feel they were learn how to manage their lives better and with what you leave them with Will give them a much brighter future than they would have without you. I respect these young ladies for this. For their dedication to my life happy and fulfilling I will go out of my way to give her a better future😇

[@rafaelcastillo2636]

I agree, that’s we older guys will definitely able to do.

[@6foot596]

Well us young guys will take the first away from you when they get bored on Tinder 🔥. Lol

[@jg-bd3hr]

@@6foot596 In the USA that might happen but I think they’re smart and they know when they have a good thing and they’re gonna stick it out no matter what. Well at least that’s my hope. Think about it I think the reason they go for the older guys as they figure it’s only gonna be about 20 to 25 years then they’ll be well off for the rest of their adult life. I think that’s why they’re starting younger and younger now.

[@6foot596]

@@jg-bd3hr well lots have secondary younger Filipino boyfriends that's for sure

[@jg-bd3hr]

@@6foot596 That’s the first I’ve heard of that

[@jagger9696]

Great interview. I enjoy Scotty boys videos but could never live that way. I am 50 and I fully retired at 43. I am one of the military guys you mentioned. 20 years service, pension and disability. I have a Filipina wife. We have been married for 10 years. She is 38. We live part time at our house in Florida and the other half in the Phils. usually in 4 month stretches. We have a house in Bukidnon. Her mother and sister live there while we are in America and keep the place running. Funny enough, I met my wife in Arizona after her first husband passed away 6 months after she arrived in the U.S. I had been to the Philippines several times before but never had a GF. Just running around playing. I enjoy the peace and tranquility the Phils has to offer. Especially in the Province. Loving life!

[@thomasnorman7016]

A perfect example of this behavior is his story about "Bohol Girl" on his channel. He talks effusively about how perfect she is, and then dumps her and moves on. This guy just makes my skin crawl.

[@travisadams4470]

I got the same vibes. This guy has ADHD when it comes to women and living in one spot. He can't do it and he'll never change.

[@tryscience]

​@@travisadams4470I saw the videos, but I sense that he is indeed changing over time. Like he said in this video, be careful what you wish for. Now that he's been traveling for months, he understands and appreciates the value of setting down roots. I think with this new attitude, in time he may be a loyal partner for some young lady.

[@travisadams4470]

@@tryscience Did he hire you as his press secretary or are you his Fanboi? I really don't care one way or the other. I think he's delusional.

[@tryscience]

I used to have a similar impression about him. Especially when he was in Angeles, my comments were.... Not so positive.

[@donarmstrong2182]

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[@boatnic]

Good interview Paul. I'm one of Scotty's early subscribers. I started watching him when he was still teaching English in South Korea. I like his down to earth, easy going attitude. I'm glad his channel has taken off and is now able to support his travels around the Philippines.

[@johngregory7427]

Another great vlog Sir Paul. I rank it right there with your Vlog of the two Mushroom Farmers daughters. I have watched ALL of Scotties Vlogs as well. Both of you guys are simply the BEST. Maybe a mirror in front of folks saying not so kind things is where the issue really is. There was only one perfect person in the world and we put him on a cross.

[@sandy-quimsrus]

Oh man, stop thinking and open your heart ❤

[@RJRussoVids]

This gentleman has already found the love of his life...in the mirror. 🤦‍♂🤣

[@floydy5091]

My thought is he’s doing what makes him happy. Good for him.

[@WilliamFluery]

Great interview Paul. I used to train consultants on how to ask great questions AND to let the interviewee talk. You did both very well.

[@Happi60]

Great Video Guys. It's wonderful to be open minded and honest with their experiences. I find it very invigorating.

[@trailguy]

Thanks, Paul. You’re the first ex pat I found a few years ago, then Pea, then many others. Anyway, thanks for this one, Scotty’s going to be a major part of the ring of Philly vloggers and you’ll always be at the core, cheers.

[@yoyojoe9240]

2:50....and how do you fall in Love, with an "LDR"..? (please share the Light)

[@johnconstantinelegaspi2790]

Scotty!!! This is a much awaited interview

[@andydataguy]

Great to hear more about your journey! Am on a similar journey. Fav so far is Iloilo. Spent 2 weeks there and loved it. Excited to go back and see if the feeling persists

[@ShawnBowens]

Iloilo is great, been 6 1 weeks trips since March with my gf. We currently live in Bacolod but love iloilo over duma, cebu, bacolod, even boracay for long term. Probably going to move there next year.

[@robinwood1358]

Two of my most favourite gentlemen togther! Nice.

[@stillgil2]

Paul, I found you first. I was attract because of your age and integrity. Then I found many others. But always come back to you for groundness. The I found Scotty. He just good company most times. Talks. And talks. Both of you are my favorites.

[@jamestedeschi877]

Scottie has stated that he suffers from mental illness and he self medicates with alcohol. It is almost impossible to have a healthy relationship when you are drinking everyday and/or suffer from mental illness. If he addresses these problems he has a better shot of having a healthy relationship.

[@courtneyjimerson51]

Never heard him say that but believe his brain personality indicate something is wrong in between the dive hotels then batching about the dive.

[@jamestedeschi877]

@@courtneyjimerson51 when was in Angeles he said he suffers from anxiety disorder and he uses alcohol to deal with it.

[@timothysmcnamara5925]

When a man starts telling me about his mental illnesses etc my first instinct is to slap him across the face. It is all bs. None of it is real, it is all in his head. I learned this from watching the General Patton movie.

[@wjebel]

Scotty is expat John at age 45. I'm concerned he is heading in a bad direction if he doesn't change his ways.

[@JulieRamone-li3tw]

I think John has autism @@wjebel

[@peteh6063]

Really enjoyed this video Paul… Wish Scotty well. Never viewed his channel. He’s well spoken, articulate really gives a lot of thought before he speaks… Which is rare. A good communicator. Hope he finds what he’s looking for in the Philippines. Again nice interview.🇨🇦

[@jhontrivorsmith4253]

I watch his videos and my advice is slow down calm down as you exhibit manic traits this is controllable but you need to recognise this and work on it as a project and it will be controlled start by staying longer in each place that is reasonable for your feelings and happiness.I am a 6 years now resident of Dumaguete City I am 76 and have a 44 year old partner and 13 year old step daughter.Hoping you have continued success with your channel .Paul and his wife are the best and are well known here bye.

[@bigbrother4ever]

I think it is a childhood deep seated thing. He can't help himself. And he is kind of delusional. Like dude is kind of broke and doesn't have much to show for his 25 years in Asia, yet he is after the perfect filipina while playing the field tous azimuts

[@clintwilliams5512]

This interview has changed my perception of Scotty

[@danitzm]

Two of my favorite vloggers together having good “chemistry”.

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

Wow, thank you!

[@secretagent86]

I recall in mexico on a beach with my wife back in 2000… many vendors walking the beach would respectfully approach to sell something. I bought a few items from one man and asked him to tell his friends i was not buying anything else today. No one else approached.. great experience

[@davewordsworth1251]

Damn this is so weird. Why am I even replying. Dude what is the relevance of this POINTLESS comment. Here is a story "I was on KZbin, some freak with a mad name, called something agent....was writing the most pathetic driblle" Dude you can talk a glass eye to sleep.

[@madusudanramnauth2906]

He is not financially stable to settle down...is my guess..he running around allover Philippines trying to find content for his channel, just to survive... that's my take...

[@CarlWithACamera]

And the typical lifespan of a youtuber is seven years. By then the audience has begun to migrate to fresher stories and the content creator has hashed and rehashed his focus too many times. See Reekay and the 300 times he made essentially that same ‘relationship advice’ video. And so what’s the plan for a guy like this who doesn’t have the work history back home to collect social security?

[@bentnickel7487]

@@CarlWithACamera Social Security started August 14th, 1935, guys who arrive at retirement with nothing saved have few choices. Keep working menial jobs or be homeless.

[@bigjohnson7415]

As an early Regular Guy Subscriber, #89 to be exact, I too agree with your synopsis. I think he's kind of "Winging" it for now, and he's doing really well right now, but what the future holds, who knows? I wish him luck, but walking a tightrope without a net isn't my cup of tea.

[@floydy5091]

I personally don’t like the guy but I don’t think any of us could make a statement about his life. Because he shows us a 1/2 hour video. That doesn’t tell us shit about his life.

[@bentnickel7487]

@@floydy5091 He's made over 100 videos, so that's enough to form an opinion. If you're commenting from today's video then you're one of Paul's "crazy people".

[@patriot1182]

66 here and have been through many ladies! LOL 6ft 4 245! If I came to the Philippines I would look Paul up to have a coffee and pick his brain on things to do in the Philippines! I have done all my oat sowing! I did it early in life! I want great weather and maybe a lady friend for house keeping and to go out to eat and to travel with around the Philippines! Paul is really making me want to come to visit! Thanks Paul!

[@Kevins-Philippine-Retirement]

"Old Dog" and "Scotty Boy", this was the interview I've been waiting for! I am 66, married to a 32 year old Filipina with an 8 year old boy, living in the provinces of Cebu on a tiny reduced Canadian pension. This video is honest and enlightening to the highest degree. I am a subscriber to both of your channels, and I appreciate your candor in this interview. Thank you both ❤️

[@Shakesbear-c1g]

fun video..Scottmeisters hair was right on point the entire time!!! lol

[@jimbig3997]

Dude wants the perfect place (doesn't exist). No doubt also wants the perfect girlfriend.

[@mr.friendandcompany6329]

Scott should look at becoming a travel TV guide. His voice and attitude goes over well.

[@Bitteryuan]

That was an amazing in depth interview with Scotty Boy the Regular Guy who is currently one of my favorite KZbinrs. Great job Paul in the Philippines.

[@emedelineabas5685]

I like his personality direct and he's telling the truth.

[@Captain-Max]

Great video, I follow both of you, and this was a great conversation. I think the 1 month per city is a better plan if Scotty is serious about finding that one girl in the right place. I don't see how he could get much of a feeling in one day.

[@tradergeo6047]

Fantastic interview! Glad you were able to interview Scotty Boy. Just a guy trying to live out his dream.

[@Tmidiman]

I agree. It’s been said many times that you need to be in an area for a while so the ladies see you, know you are single and available, and eventually want to meet you.

[@graguitar6493]

You gotta spend a month in a place to be able to really get to know a place well enough to make a decision

[@Kevins-Philippine-Retirement]

I agree, but Scotty is doing what he has to do and he has a "mission". plan. Such a great interview!

[@watersbey25]

​@@graguitar6493oh really?

[@LongRun6.4]

He probly prefers a pristine example...best in show type. But the angel on his other shoulder knows he shouldn't soil someone like that. IKR 😮

[@mrjones944]

It might be because he won’t stfu. I stumbled on a different interview a while back and it took about a minute into this video to remember that he doesn’t engage in conversation. It’s him just rambling one sided nonsense.

[@mikefay100]

I was thinking the same thing, STFU. I thought I was gonna toss my cookies listening to all that BS. Scotty boy is working on his performance art, and old dog was kind enough to entertain him. Notice how he hardly looked at Paul. 🫣 He was always looking at the phones camera like it was his channel. It’s all about self-promotion for him. KZbin is funny, everyone wants to be a celebrity.

[@Regi869]

a narcissist perhaps?

[@KeilikoGreg]

Great interview Paul. As the interviewee Scotty, you were interesting, engaging, well spoken, informative and funny. We don’t always get to see that much of that side of you on your channel when you’re traveling day to day. My guess is that when you start settling down in a place on a more long term basis, we’ll see more of that side of you, or at least I hope we do. You’ve learned a lot in your travels through the Phils and you have a wealth of insight and information to share. Paul - very thoughtful interview.

[@jamesj.7536]

Its just an act, his channel shows the real him. He is just looking to fund his exploitation of young filipinas by getting more subs.

[@pierremorin4775]

Maybe this video show Scotty is the other side of him but I’m not sure about him I seen him on his channel and I did not enjoy his contents but for you you did a excellent job making him look good I enjoy your channel thanks

[@davidramsy3048]

Im a Canadian citizen also but have not lived in Canada for more than 18 years love living in asia😊

[@flubidy]

Sorry but what does that have to do with the price of tea in china?

[@davidramsy3048]

@@flubidy everything .. until you live in south east Asia you will never know.

[@flubidy]

​@@davidramsy3048ok ive been living in the area for 20+ years, but still dont see how your comment relates to the video. No big deal, lots of posters like to post non sequiturs

[@flybywir1]

I just saw the title of this video and I haven't watched it yet....I realise it's risky to comment before watching but I can't help thinking that the only way not to be able to find a girlfriend in the Philippines, if u are a solvent foreigner, is to lock yourself in a sealed room 😂😂😂

[@WIlliamHolsten]

Scott needs to make more eye contact with Paul...

[@alliumguy]

With all due respect. And this is my first comment ever on your Channel. Scotty boy has run through a lot of young Filipinas over the years. If a Filipina has watch more than one of his videos, they will hear alarms in the background. He is like a poster boy for Foreigner red flags. Again with all due respect to your Channel.

[@bigboydiamonds6529]

Soon we will see what dirt EXPAT TRASH has on him.

[@krikraks]

To be honest 40 year old pinays with a body like a 20 year old is super rare ..i myself would prefer younger ones the older ones are kinda out of shape already but thats my preference

[@bigbrother4ever]

His brain is fried. He might as well join other zombies on walking streets 😢

[@M.R.T.V.Videos]

​@@krikraksthey don't age well and they age fast . It's a very unhealthy environment and lifestyle

[@FoodFollow]

Just started following both these chaps recently. Just commented on Scotty's channel to do more interview clips of Filipinas like Paul. And now they're doing a KZbin feature together. Coincidence? 😊 Great job both of you!

[@runningman2198]

He is not wrong about Duma, brownouts, internet being down, traffic is kaos. Moving next year when lease is up.

[@bacon81]

Great interview Paul! I love both of these KZbin channels as different as they are. They are both great. And a valuable service to us all that intrigued by the Philippines.

[@AresGodofWar]

Glad Scotty boy had this interview with Paul.

[@edic2619]

Scotty is really nice. He seems like a really fun guy. Great interview.

[@gim6109]

My late husband took me out of my city moved in states and here in Negros, not a problem at all.

[@phil-54]

i agree he is full of “IT”

[@KanoKanding]

“Perfectionism is a quicksand that oftentimes keeps people stuck, unable to pull out and yet unhappy with where they stand. Chasing perfect means that each new idea or challenge you encounter is immediately accompanied by a mental to-do list and obsessive analysis of how to get it just right.” -Unknown. Just a thought for the video. Interesting interview; good luck finding whatever it is you’re looking for, though I think perhaps the search IS what you’re looking for. Respect ✌🏼

[@tompuckett9937]

Scottyboy talks too fast. He and Paul should open a car dealership. Scotty will try to convince some poor schmuck into buying a used car and Paul will handle the financing. I love Paul and Mae, but this fast talking dude is not in the same class as Paul and everyone else in Duma.

[@Kevins-Philippine-Retirement]

Love your closing comments Paul.

[@fialee8]

This is prob the best advice to anyone who doesn't want to be alone. If you can't get a GF (or BF), you are looking for someone who is out of your league (the person you want has much better choices than you). What you need to do is lower your standards till you meet someone that you can put up with (and it's likely they are also lowering their standards to date you).

[@tryscience]

If you settle for someone you're not happy with, it's not going to last.

[@fialee8]

@@tryscience Take your pick, staying alone, or settling. There isn't a third choice.

[@tryscience]

@@fialee8 It's fine if you don't give yourself a third choice, but I'll take option "C", thank you very much

[@davehood1514]

The third choice, stop looking and enjoy what the phils has to offer, join some classes in subjects that interest you ie learn how to dance, the quality of the girls will be higher and that special girl could find you.

[@fialee8]

@@davehood1514 That was the first choice (stay alone).

[@user-pd3hu9od3v]

Excellent interview

[@Steroid_Frog]

I like Scott! I like your show Paul.. What a treat!

[@normm]

Two of my favourite KZbinrs. Great interview guys.

[@kennydinthephilippines2655]

Somethings not right hes off very off in my gut I feel it

[@vintagepennies6899]

Scotty boy has my favorite Philippines channel. Love his stories too.

[@AmericanInTheWorld]

I was 22 when arriving but now 28. Dating isn't hard. I think older guys have a mindset of getting as many peaches as they can as the Regular Guy stated and most young guys know that we can do that in our own countries so there's no point. We are often looking for a traditional woman

[@6foot596]

LOL 'traditional woman'. Welcome to 2023, not 1983.

[@BadEinsteinReal]

@@6foot596 there are still ‘traditional’ women in the Philippines…

[@6foot596]

@@BadEinsteinReal what do you even consider traditional? Everyone uses mobile phones now, into Tiktok especially young ones. Filipino couples go through same things western people go through.

[@AmericanInTheWorld]

@@6foot596 your experiences are your experiences.

[@AmericanInTheWorld]

@@6foot596 uh or maybe she’s just not that into you. People who struggle to find traditional women are either in large age gaps or they’re dating above their league (sugarbabies)

[@artvandelay409]

All you have to do is watch 5 minutes of one of his videos to understand why this man is still single. He treats women like a commodity.

[@aricrawford1822]

Scotty is stuck between a rock and a hard place. He admits that he doesn't like the educated, financially independent women because they're "too demanding", but he doesn't really have the funds or desire to take care of a poorer, less educated woman.

[@donarmstrong2182]

Then how do the 80 million pinoy making $300 a month do it?

[@CarlWithACamera]

@@donarmstrong2182minimally.

[@tryscience]

@@donarmstrong2182 agreed, it would be easy for a couple to live on 2000 a month

[@One-12937]

@@donarmstrong2182they don’t, they barely get by with the basics.

[@KevinVenturePhilippines]

@@One-12937 But they are alive and happy, which should teach everyone something.

[@davidhancock91]

At 45 I was married to an Australian woman, had a 3 yo son, had a big house and was very successful financially. She is a bitch and we got divorced and she took most of my money. I am now married to a beautiful Philippina, we are ok financially, but I’m so much happier. I have a 7 you step daughter, my son is 20 now. I’m 63 and my wife is 28. The age difference is nothing to us. I am blessed in many ways.