Sara Bareilles and Rufus Wainwright Perform "She Used to Be Mine" | Next at the Kennedy Center

[@Notallwhowanderful]

This may be one of the best duets I've ever witnessed in my entire life.

[@pec94]

yesyesyesyesyesyesyesyesyesyes

[@davidrosen3970]

you're right, it is the best duet i have ever seen.

[@ditrower8104]

I totally agree. Sublime & so very moving.

[@kellylyon7052]

Absolutely agree! The blend of their voices is pure magic!

[@Miss_Camel]

Idk, patty griffin and melissa ethridge is pretty amazing, as is Sara with: Elton John, carol king, the milk carton kids, Ingrid michaelson…it’s a long list m

[@davidrigsby4828]

Rufus is one of the most underrated male singers of our time. Could just be my opinion. But dang. He still sounds incredible. Sings with so much artistry and emotion. Love!

[@TheMauf]

I’d split hairs a little and say under appreciated. Most of those in the know,know.

[@JoshuaPonce-nl5ww]

1000% agree, I can't picture or imagine any mainstream male artist today that could match the masterful range, skill, and overall large tender presence he displays here. We needed this duo.

[@elizabethcangelosi1316]

Definitely agree 100%. He never appears to be struggling or working too hard and it shows. A master looks and sounds effortless.

[@FD-tu9rt]

You are absolutely correct !!! We are witnessing two of the best contemporary vocalists the world has right now on earth ! Sara is stellar and Rufus pretty much "interplanetary" !!! I have so much respect for them both. 💛🧡❤️🩷💜💙🩵💚

[@marcusschmaling9]

Yeah. He’s majestic.

[@rsj51003]

I broke in half when Rufus hit the high harmony. Stunning.

[@ellenpederson-lewis8557]

Wow. Shivers ran down my spine.

[@ivesofmarch2319]

Same 😭

[@chrisroberts314]

Right

[@toddackerman5793]

Rufus Wainwright has never received the recognition that he deserves. He carries such pain and empathy in his voice it’s healing. Their voices are perfection.

[@karmakuntz]

Just because he's not appreciated by the world doesn't mean he's not appreciated at all I love him

[@euloizechamot7841]

@@karmakuntz appreciation and recognition are two different things. And I agree that he didn't received the recognition that he deserved. But he still has a lot of fans to show him how much he is loved and appreciated.

[@karmakuntz]

@euloizechamot7841 u know what I meant

[@dixiecup6668]

Those who know him love him enough for everyone who doesn't know him

[@kellylyon7052]

I couldn’t agree more. I’ve loved his music for over 20 years. Saw him in concert in Chicago with my husband. He never could understand why I loved his music so much. I’m a musician and he wasn’t. Maybe that’s why…I don’t know, but his voice and his lyrics MOVED ME…

[@madness2112]

Rufus entered another dimension with those harmonies. One of the most pleasing things my ears have heard.

[@DaisyDoodles]

This song makes me cry every time. Years ago, my best friend passed away. She was pregnant and trying to escape an abusive relationship, and she was losing herself. She was brash, bold, laughed so loud, and loved so hard. She adored dogs so much that she opened her own dog grooming business. She loved paisleys, tie dye shirts, and the beach. I loved her so beyond deeply. The lyrics always hit me so hard. Because its true... She is gone, but she used to be mine. Rest easy, sweet Andrea.

[@jesss7300]

So so sorry for your loss ❤

[@heatheresterline967]

Beautiful tribute ❤😢

[@sterlingfury]

HUGE LOVE RESPECT AND CONDOLENCES 😢😢😢😢😢😢❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@normavalle369]

So sad, but at the same time, happy story by the way you remember her.

[@piaauman8352]

ohhh now I'm crying.. poor, darling Andrea 💓

[@minutemanmuster]

Can this be submitted for an Emmy award? I've seen both Sara and Rufus multiple times live and this is the duet I didn't know I needed. Breathtaking harmonies. I shall be watching this for years to come.

[@grant1133]

If Sara or Rufus ever read this. Please make a duet album, your voices blend beautifully. Incredible performance from both.

[@chrisgarrett3276]

Amazing

[@macinnism35]

Dido!! Do it!!

[@Africa-ky1bg]

Not just voices ~ their energies blend perfectly. The regret, the longing, the sorrow, the passion, the interspection of the heart , the beating down of the soul ...they are BOTH on the same wavelength & it is sublime ! One of the VERY BEST duets EVER !

[@philrothwell6858]

Yes I could listen to these two all day long

[@aidyoongi]

I never thought She Used To Be Mine could get any more heart-wrenchingly perfect, but Sara teaming up with Rufus Wainwright took it to an otherworldly level I didn’t even know existed.

[@lizgray5750]

Absolutely wonderful

[@AJen912]

The pianist just KNEW what she was witnessing was pure magic and couldn’t keep the smile off her face ❤

[@35johnabel]

I saw this as well!

[@Notalwaysrightbutmostly]

Yes sometimes even professionals get pleasantly surprised by brilliance

[@OnlyChild68]

Ditto… the smile of a secret we were all about to be let in on

[@lozuk1]

Does anyone know the name of the pianist ?

[@kjsreedsport]

I can’t remember her name but at a different part of the concert Sarah introduced as her wife or partner. Talked about falling in love with her. Her expression did say it all - love, pride, being transported to another place by those sublime performances. 🏳️‍🌈

[@4estdweller4ever]

I love a singer that gets so possessed by a song that their eyes barely open. No romancing the camera. They are gone. They are inside a beautiful wave, tumbling and rolling and tenderly curving around each note until it lies breathless on the shore. That’s not a performance. It’s more like giving birth. Sacred.

[@AmandaKennedy-ty9ss]

Beautifully put!

[@CP-vj5bd]

Indeed!!! You summed it up perfectly! ❤

[@Earlofdadjokes]

He added harmonies that only his voice can pull off. What a breathtaking level of artistry.

[@Africa-ky1bg]

❗❗❗

[@lilyclaire307]

I saw this randomly one night - watched it 6 times... cried 6 times. PLEASE release this concert on streaming music platforms. I'm surprised Rufus didn't melt that microphone his tone and power.

[@paulpellerin2968]

Ok, that is honestly one of the best duets I've ever heard. WOW

[@ZachGrabill]

So, now I’m deep down a Rufus rabbit hole. What a singular talent. His range, his tone, his emotion. Just wow.

[@bonnieweechookie2611]

Me too.

[@lovetotrav]

This is the FIRST TIME I’ve ever heard of this guy. Whoah! Holy Moly, I’m right there with you going down this rabbit hole. WHAT and INCREDIBLE voice he has! Wow! So glad this showed up as a “suggestion!”

[@guster623]

This reopened my Rufus vault. ❤Listening to all his old songs, he’s amazing.

[@pbigskel]

Same thing happened to me last night! Went down a Rufus rabbit hole

[@jenniferallen9488]

Doing the same thing!

[@alixaugustine9599]

About to go down there too!

[@MrPoeV99]

On my way.

[@hoisin75]

Same story

[@hoisin75]

I’ve watched a lot of music on KZbin over many years but nothing, NOTHING has hit me like this particular version of this particular song. I think half the hit counter is me over the last few days.

[@sharon7767]

Same. ❤

[@OnlyChild68]

I’ll raise you another half ❤ 🎶

[@oneom8158]

That makes 2 of us then

[@alexfielden9743]

What I love here is, it doesnt sound over rehearsed, just two awesome talents going at it with a brilliant song

[@jamienoelleJNR]

Rufus’ falsetto is heartbreaking ❤

[@nko4865]

This

[@oneom8158]

He's one of a kind and sadly underrated

[@hollowbarrow]

You can't sing like this without having a deep understanding of music. The harmonies were unexpected and so beautiful

[@zoeleslielatham]

and a deep experience of pain

[@mostguitarswins]

This is stunning. I knew what to expect from Sara Bareilles, but Rufus Wainwright blew me away. 💖💖💖💖

[@jsguitargeek1432]

What guitars said

[@RogeorBobier]

0:32

[@Candleflower42-zp3sh]

The opposite for me. :-)

[@vovcha01]

@@Candleflower42-zp3shReally? Why?

[@Candleflower42-zp3sh]

@@vovcha01 only because I’m very familiar with Rufus but don’t know much about Sara. Sara is wonderful too, it was a spectacular duet!

[@Nottacatladee]

First verse: Perfect Second verse: Perfect Harmony begins: Perfect Falsetto harmony: HOLY GEEZ!!!

[@norquizaalih2331]

Shocks! I've lost count of how many times I've played this version in the past few days. Rufus is such an amazing storyteller... His rendition feels like I'm sent away to a place so calm and peaceful. What a performance! Hope to see more from him.

[@CP-vj5bd]

His gift is effortless, yet he's a perfectionist in EVERY performance!

[@seminoh9601]

Rufus's voice is like his fingerprint, so unique and sounds amazing

[@OnlyChild68]

On about the 100th watch - shout out to the smiles on the pianist - she knew the magic we were about to hear and her piano was the 3rd voice and the spectacular orchestra - the 4th voice in this duet.

[@allisonanderson4830]

I thought the exact same thing. Imagine being a part of that

[@OnlyChild68]

I think I’ve watched this every night since it was performed ❤❤

[@mjhetzer]

The look Sara gives him after his solo.

[@malakoismith7585]

I can’t remember ever utterly sobbing from a song. He’s always been underrated and this duet needs to be shared. THIS is art. Brilliant.

[@OnlyChild68]

This ❤

[@davidrosen3970]

two superstar voices and performers who refused to overshadow the other, perfect.

[@RobJohnstone]

I can’t get over how perfectly their voices intertwine - it’s almost like they’re sharing one soul. There’s this raw, honest warmth to each note they sing that I find totally mesmerising. It’s rare to see two singers who are both powerhouses in their own right yet still let one another shine without overpowering the duet. The emotion in every breath, every glance, feels so genuine; it’s as if they’re baring their hearts right on that stage.

[@allanreginaldmichael3400]

Superbly summed up. Exactly.

[@claramusic_]

I really think this is the most beautiful thing I've ever heard

[@maryoconnor9360]

This reminds me of how obsessed I am with Rufus Wainwright. Since this performance has been available I have listened to it 2 or 3 times a day. It's so beautiful in these dark times. Thank you. Your voices together create a beautiful new place to dwell. ❤️❤️

[@rebeccaharris5105]

This has to be one of the greatest duets I've ever heard. Just simply effortless, stunning and beautiful. They should realise this song on Spotify!! Just amazing!!!

[@sarakruse1365]

I've lost count how many times I've watched this now. I get chills every time around the 3:20 mark. Just wow.

[@paulamoore7525]

Right?

[@forwardthinking6714]

Me too! Literally constantly on repeat! 😅

[@bettymilligan4230]

Same. It is glorious.

[@mindfulheartwellness]

Yes, that harmony on "mine" is literal perfection. I think my heart got goosebumps.

[@nko4865]

​​@@mindfulheartwellness I was searching for the words to express this exactly. If I could pinpoint one word and one point of melody in this song it would be that "mine". Word, harmony, high note...everything. perfection

[@audiophilesallowed6479]

Finally. The version we didn’t know we needed but have been waiting for.

[@michaelmonaghan3343]

I've watched this 15 times. When he says "lonely" it hits me right in chest. This duet is a marterclass.

[@BackrowErnie]

His falsetto notes harmonizing with her beautiful pure voice…their combined musicality…this just wallops me in the stomach.

[@DeidreSlattery]

Sara Bareilles, please record this arrangement and other songs with Rufus. Your voices together are beautiful.

[@richcolicchio9888]

I would love to have this recording in my iTunes library! This is so beautiful. I echo other’s opinions here as this being one of the most beautiful things I’ve ever heard. Please record this with Rufus!!

[@thinkbeforyouvote]

I've heard this song performed live several times on Broadway and several times sung by Sara herself but have never heard it sung so thoughtfully flawless before with these simple and unassuming perfect harmonies Rufus produced. Teared up well before the 30 second mark. Masterclass.

[@debwlv]

This is the most beautiful thing i have ever heard (I’m 67!)

[@WatchtowerHunter]

Two criminally under appreciated artists. Absolutely beautiful! ❤️

[@oneom8158]

Funny way of putting it, but I agree a hundred percent

[@kimberlygray724]

The fact that Rufus can match the emotion of this song is amazing, and her key. I could listen to the two of them together all day. Amazing

[@WilliamDeJesus-l1j]

One of the most emotional duets I’ve had the privilege of hearing. Voices and emotions so ridiculously powerful and cohesive. I can listen to that performance over and over again.

[@DuCheminVideos]

Anyone gonna mention how brilliant that key change was?

[@toolhead08]

Sara AND Rufus in a duet, with one of the greatest songs ever written?! 😍

[@MarkvanBeelen]

This is most likely the most beautiful version of that song I’ve ever heard. It just exudes musicality and passion on all levels. But so nuanced, so cleverly done. The orchestrations and their harmonies are simply breathtaking!

[@justkathwalk]

This duet was a match made in heaven, which is fitting because they both sound like angels ❤

[@oneom8158]

Nicely said. 💙

[@NobleOne-tp5qe]

That is, without a doubt, the most beautiful rendition of that song, 2 extremely talented individuals. In particular, I would like to congratulate rufus and an utterly amazing performance. Your vocal talents shine beyond comparison in your rendition of this song. To say, this was an amazing performance, would be understating the two true talents singing together in this beautiful rendition. Rufus, your range is astonishing. Thank you so much for this beautiful gift to the world

[@katlynnwilliams5470]

You know a duo is done well when it’s difficult, at times, to tell which voice is coming from which body🙌🏽👏🏽

[@margie909]

Exactly!

[@ALightInTheForest]

They both have such tender qualities to their voices, while having the power and ability to belt and to add nuance and emotion to that power. This was sublime.

[@janetm356]

I am obsessed with this. Best of all the performances. Wainwright is incredible.

[@jackbennett4575]

Oh Sara, oh Rufus. Transcendent. ❤️🌈🥂

[@AmyEdwards-r4v]

That was stunning. The raw emotion Rufus displays in this performance is so touching. I can't stop watching it and crying.

[@Notallwhowanderful]

2 days later and I think I've watched/listened to this like 80 times

[@janetm356]

Same here. I can’t stop!

[@Africa-ky1bg]

Ditto. Mesmerized. I have a dear friend who was married to a man she loved dearly & with an open heart ...& he was closed off and could not be present in the emotional intimacy on a continuous basis & they divorced. Now ...all these years later ...he has been living with someone else who is abusive & has been for many years....& he FINALLY GETS the beauty & preciousness of what he lost. Too little & Too late. This song reminds me of them.

[@neilbechtold2416]

How this doesn't have a bagillion views baffles me. People need to hear this whether they know it or not. Bravo!

[@Sonbonreviews]

This is perfection, I cant remember the last time I heard something this beautiful

[@Thomaswasujade]

His control and full chest voice is amazing!!

[@sm-bh2cs]

This was so moving. Rufus seems to exude his soul in his soaring interpretation. Just sublime.

[@heddog4171]

Though beautiful in every way, this is a difficult song to sing and these masters do it so well. For Rufus, he'd only practiced that day with Sara so he was under the gun and pulled it off. I've watched and listened now to this video probably thirty times...still, can't get enough!

[@AwdVanlife]

The duo I never knew I needed. This was absolutely stunning.

[@LHSChoir]

Rufus just nailed this so well. I love the vocal line and control he has. It's not overdone. It's subtle in spots. Dynamics. Enunciation. Heart. It's all there. And adding in Sara?! Amazing. I want more Rufus duets! Kelly Clarkson, I'm looking at you. Get Rufus on your show!

[@susanpettymoneyhon3443]

I’ve listened to this a dozen or more times and it’s one of the best duets ever. Rufus wainwright is truly amazing. His phrasing, breath quality, ability to match tone to lyrics, I could go on. Would someone please make a 20-minute recording of this and let them both do their best?

[@staceyhart9746]

He grew up in a whole family of singers; harmonizes like an angel ❤. This song has been my depression anthem for a long time. But as a duet, the singer is no longer alone, and her pain is lighter as she shares it. I love that for this character. Singing with my sister is a joy and a balm to my soul.

[@angelabartwilson]

The version of this song broke me open! This might be the most beautiful thing I have EVER heard in my entire life!

[@daisymae668]

Same here. I just keep listening on a loop over and over. It’s the most extraordinary vocal performance I’ve ever heard. There are no words to describe how it makes me feel when he hits the high harmonies over her. Just soul-stirringly beautiful ❤

[@sharon7767]

Same …❤

[@nancyann2069]

Same ❤

[@NegginandNatasha]

Holy moly, this is one of my favorite songs from a musical and rufus wainwright is one of my all time favorite musicians?! I would've never thought I'd hear him sing this! What a gift!

[@WomanWithAView]

Right?! I never expected Rufus to walk out when she announced a special guest!

[@pauldesigncomics2625]

Sara wrote the songs for Waitress?

[@HoustonKeith72]

Exquisite. It's already a beautiful song, but this performance took it to a different plane. Looking at Sara's face, even she knew something special was happening. And it's her song.

[@leecepeda]

It's so easy to always overpower other people when singing together, but if you watch and listen to how they sing, you will see that they don't just give each other their own moments. When they sing together, you can see and hear them listening to each other so they can adjust their singing and sound better together, not just in perfectly hitting their notes but also in making sure the quality and textures of their voices blend well.

[@a.j.r_ball]

One of the most flawless live vocals. On repeat for the next week, perhaps month.

[@ricebowl3]

Rufus Wrainwight is a National Treasure one of the best

[@mbhanson4491]

Sobbing. Voices of angels, connecting us to one another.

[@markh5892]

Obviously, they’re both fantastic singers but major kudos to the musical performances of both the Orchestra and the piano player.

[@jallanb1963]

I can’t stop watching this.🫠

[@unomex3x]

Me either

[@maryoconnor9360]

Lstening to Rufys harmonize with Sarah sends me out into an incredible place I dont often get to go......my head begins to spin ,my heart becomes full , the air I breathe is pure and I cry the most cleansing tears. I hang on every soulful note . Rufus you have an incredible gift and we are blessed you have lived your life in the spirit that you do. Thank you thank you ,thank you...!

[@lyndamason4116]

Pierces my soul 🥺

[@maryoconnor9360]

@lyndamason4116 oh yes .. I agree - absolutely !

[@eolandra]

I knew it would be amazing, but i didn't expect to feel like Rufus could very much relate to the story in the song, and that would make it even more overwhelming and magical. 🤯🤯🤯

[@philhulton]

Easily one of the most beautiful performances I've ever seen, the harmonizing is absolutely stunning and emotional! Thankyou for bringing this to the platform for everyone to see 😍

[@designx8693]

This is amazing. Not like any other duet I've ever seen. Falsettos, key changes, staggered entrances, and the raw emotion... beautiful!! I saw Rufus in concert with our local (world renowned) symphony orchestra, and I used one of the headsets for the hearing impaired. Well! His voice was channelled directly into my ears, and blended beautifully with the whole huge orchestra. The best live musical experience of my life It's a concert I will always remember.

[@artistbrindle]

This has to be one of the best duets I’ve ever heard, and one of the most beautiful songs.

[@davidstone53]

Wow. This floored me. Rufus Wainwright, what a voice, what a singer. Amazing performance between these two.

[@Stephiroth008]

I was hit with an emotional punch with the very first line. My new favorite version of this song now.

[@lenadelano9075]

That range Rufus has OH. MY.GOSH!! I've lost count of how many times I've watched this. The emotion behind every word sung 😢 Phenomenal!!

[@CKaret]

Rufus Wainwright is an absolute treasure who sings with such passion and love. I literally cried at this version. Sarah is one of the best singer songwriters ever. That is all. Thank you for this stunning version that will always be in my head.

[@alyciakg]

Music is so amazing. What else can stop you in your tracks, close your eyes, smile, and cry. ❤

[@daniellebelisle2446]

I’ve listened to this song a million times, but this video came at such a potent moment in my life. I am sobbing with the beauty and comfort of their storytelling. Thank you for this, and whoever needs to hear this: you are not alone ❤

[@sharon7767]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@joaomendes4747]

Rufus is only the best male voice in the world ! Huge power and perfect control. Thank you , Rufus, a gift to our life you have been. Seen you 3 times in Lisbon.

[@BrennanMacDonald-r4d]

I could watch and listen to this for the rest of my life and never tire of it. What a gift you have shared with us. Thank you.

[@KatSut1978]

Rufus studied Opera. It definitely shows here. Been a fan of both of them for over 20 years. Absolute brilliance. ❤

[@danielharney138]

Dearest Sarah, "she used to be mine" is a stunning song! Lyrical perfection, a harmonic wonder. I've had it on repeat for several hours these past few days. I've shared it with all of my daughters. Rufus wainwright adds to the soul of it. I am better for having heard it.

[@goodlistener73]

It's a dreary January day and the song made me think of a loved one, gone now too soon, but always in my heart. She fit several of the lyrics perfectly and I think that's why it hit me so hard. Thank you to whomever posted this beautifully performed song.

[@oneom8158]

This could very well be a wink from your departed friend for you to feel her closer than ever before😌

[@AngRDO]

I have loved Rufus from the first note I ever heard him sing. This is the most transcendent song. Stars aligned. What a gift.

[@emmataub2806]

Rufus NEVER misses. One of those guys whose career I've sort of circled around, never getting totally invested, but he always manages to show up at hugely important moments in my life with a beautiful song. And look, right on time! Sarah and Rufus' voices blend beautifully together. A seriously brilliant pairing.

[@allieperson7722]

for me, this is by far the most beautiful and perfect duets of this song. Sara has performed it with several others, but her and Rufus voices blend so well. HIs falsetto against her harmony towards the end of this song will pull your heart right out of you.

[@akwmakwm]

This has got to be one of the most beautiful vocal performances I’ve had the pleasure of listening to. Thank you so much for this

[@ludicrousitymegan]

This is immaculate! This is one of the most beautiful performances I’ve ever heard! The utter power of an incredible song and two phenomenal singers cannot be underestimated.

[@stephanierk]

i've listened to this at least 20 times and every time i have tears in my eyes when their harmonies hit.

[@shannonadduccimusic]

I was transfixed by every note and the emotion that swelled from both Rufus and Sara. This performance took me to another place. Unbelievable.

[@oneom8158]

This is one of the rare songs that bring tears to my old eyes each time, and I listen to it almost weekly. If only for bringing back tears of love into my soul before I leave this body, I am forever grateful to this precious woman. 💙🙏 Rufus, you are undoubtedly one of the rare blessed one's. How did this master piece not get the recognition of the whole world ? This is by far, one of the most touching tribute, not only to Sara Bareilles and Rufus, but to each and every human being of all ages, going trough the heart hake's of life's awakening soul. I hope Sara and Rufus takes the time to read the honorable tributes.

[@sharon7767]

*Music is what feeling sounds like*... This is a stellar example of this truth. What a gift they've given to all of us. ❤

[@morganfields8514]

I haven’t heard Rufus’s voice in 20 years and wow it sounds the same if not better. They are magnificent together. Bravo!!! Now excuse me while I go listen to every album of his again…..

[@kellyarmbruster7496]

This song is one of my all time favs and this duet is amazing. It must be such an honor to create a masterpiece and have it lifted to another dimension with a collaboration like this.

[@Outsidepandorasbox]

Wow! These gifted vocalists hooked me with the first notes sung. First chills then tears and back to chills, a big emotional release and left with awe. Amazing duet-I’ve just shared it with everyone in my circle.

[@anjorja]

My absolutely favorite duet ever. I love Rufus and Sara - blend of their voices is perfection. Watching Rufus especially makes me want to cry.