Why Do We Use Cringey Words for Loved Ones? | Otherwords

[@Case16710]

When my son was a toddler, I used to call him my “Tiny Baby”. This shifted to “Tiny Baby Man” as he got a little older. One day, when he was about 10, he told me “That’s MISTER Tiny Baby Man to you.” So now he’s Mr Tinybabyman.

[@CharliMorganMusic]

Oh my god that's exactly how I refer to my ginger cat and for almost the same reasons.

[@Case16710]

@@CharliMorganMusic ha! Wow! What are the odds of that, and then of your finding my comment above? Insane. I love it! “Hi” to your Mr Tinybabyman!

[@Char12403]

I call my cat tiny baby man and she's a she

[@Case16710]

@@Char12403 wow, I never realized there were so many tiny baby men

[@RaccoonHenry]

that is so cute yet hilarious!!

[@thomasparker6124]

"Significant Otter" is my favourite.

[@lashropa]

%100 👍

[@solsystem1342]

"With a dark side"

[@Mariooo57]

Did it all for the nookie 😤

[@TheAxeForgetsTheTreeRemembers]

@thomasparker6124 Nice one. Here, my Seal of approval.

[@gunjfur8633]

​@@solsystem1342 >:3

[@Hallows4]

Love that multiple languages were featured. It’s remarkable how common patterns are across cultures.

[@katattack907]

Yes! I love seeing the different languages. 😍

[@haltarys]

In French, we sometimes use "ma puce" to affectionately refer to a little girl or a daughter. It literally translates to "my flea."

[@gabbywillis9746]

I love this one! My mum uses it for me too, and choufleur 😂

[@sarahwithanhyouheathen3210]

Seems slightly derogatory lol 😅

[@MerchManDan]

​@@gabbywillis9746 Ah, "cabbage flower." Pretty!

[@gabbywillis9746]

@@MerchManDan /cauliflower 😂 it’s funny but quite common

[@szinga]

in polish we can also say that! "moja pchełko" :)

[@amberf2306]

My name is Amber and my six year old son often calls me his "precious jewel". Mind you he also called me his "favourite butt cheek" the other day, which is somewhat less flattering

[@renatal.129]

it's better than least favorite butt cheek

[@LindaC616]

​@@renatal.129😅

[@juiuice]

lol :J

[@B2WM]

I'm kinda surprised that they didn't get into the category of Insults of endearment, as TVTropes calls it. Monster Face, Ankle Biter, Trouble, Galoot... We use them mostly for siblings, dogs, and friends, but I certainly use Junkyard Dog for one with the same affection that I call another Baby Giraffe Princess.

[@courtney-ray]

At least it was the favorite one! 😄

[@LittleBitVic]

When I had to use a wheelchair in high school, my Spanish teacher called me "princesa" because I took my "throne" with me wherever I went. The nickname stuck around for years whenever we'd run into each other even after I recovered enough to leave my "throne" behind. People couldn't figure out if it was favoritism or a sarcastic diss.

[@sagasvensson8920]

That is a really sweet way of cheering you up

[@mishynaofficial]

Cool story

[@CarefulWithThatAx]

I love how putting Dr. B in a cat cafe brought out a little bit of cutesy-voice in her presentation. Absolutely apropos for the episode 💜

[@johnbrisendine2161]

Dr. B is such a cutie herself! She is a great presenter.

[@TomemosUnaCerveza]

I call my wife 'Damisela', spanish for 'Damsel'. She calls me 'Damiselo', literally 'Male Damsel'. Lol

[@golwenlothlindel]

KEEPER! ❤

[@Ma666ie]

My best friend and I call each other “mi rey” and “mi reina,” though neither of us are Hispanic, nor do we speak Spanish 😂

[@coraliepython1291]

Mine came from a lame pickup line I used to make him laugh... Everybody carries their cross.

[@YumiYa1969]

Did it work? That’s what matters 😂

[@MURDERPILLOW.]

Give us the nickname but not the pickup line, i wanna try to work ot oit

[@coraliepython1291]

@@MURDERPILLOW. It was just an overly confident "Hola que tal princessa?!" one time when I picked him up (I'm a small lady and he's tall asf), and so he nicknamed me "Princessa" till this day.

[@coraliepython1291]

@@YumiYa1969 Too well I regret, the worst part is that now I'm too used it.

[@lazlohiggins]

I absolutely loved the production on this one! Having Erica on sets and out in the world, rather than just against a green screen, brings a lot of dynamism to the video that really elevates it. It comes across with a lot of playfulness (not just because of the kitties!) due to the varying backdrops and the wardrobe changes. I super loved what was done here and want to give a hearty thanks and congrats on all the hard work everyone put in to make this happen! I'm sure this kind of thing can't happen with every video, but I still wanted to share how awesome I thought it was and I would definitely be excited to see it happen more in the future!

[@LindaC616]

I do, too, and the "man on the street" interviews!

[@mitchellmark]

This was such a step up and it came outta no where. She is awesome!!!

[@quilan1]

Aye, completely. Wonderfully playful editing, dress, camera shots, location, etc. They clearly put a lot of effort into this one, and it shows!

[@thelocalstumbler]

Dr Brozovsky is such a lovely linguist and host. The best word wizard there is!

[@trevorbennett8438]

Loved the "in the streets" cuts. It's awesome when you to describe linguistics from around the world, hearing first hand accounts is that much better. :)

[@rachelfoote9515]

I have a friend who calls me "sweetie," "sweetheart," "kiddo," etc. We are not and never have been romantically involved, but it still makes me feel loved, and, specifically, cared for. There's a sense of protection that I think can come from a pet name, too. Reinforcing our social connections can bring a sense of security.

[@TenshiHimei]

My parents chose "petit poussin en or" for me, which roughly translates to "golden baby chick" lol. It's so interesting to know that languages/cultures around the world love cute, small and expensive things so much they want to name the people who are important in their life after them! Also, the production on this video is chef's kiss! 10/10

[@FlagCutie]

One of my besties calls her kids "kidlets." Also, in older Mexican slang, Mango is used for someone really attractive.

[@Alaskan-Armadillo]

Mango is still used in Cuba as a way of saying that someone is very attractive

[@ethanmckinney203]

I believe that "kidlets" is a play on "cutlets," which would connect to "lambchop" as meat-based pet name.

[@himanbam]

@@ethanmckinney203 Or "piglets" as another baby animal

[@katattack907]

We have "niecelets" 😄

[@RaccoonHenry]

mango is used for someone... with a really big butt. because mango petacon.

[@david.mcmahan]

Meanwhile, in the Southern U.S., a complete stranger might call you "sugar" or "honey".

[@CinePenguin89]

Love how you incorporated more languages than just English

[@keiththorpe9571]

Our parents' pet names for my sisters and me were tinged with a patina of bitterness. My older sister Valarie was called "The Accident" Me and my younger sister Shannon were called "The Other Two Accidents." My homelife was so warm and loving.

[@TiggerIsMyCat]

🫂

[@taylortanner37]

Jeez , that's awful. My family joked and called my little brother oops because they found out they were expecting him the day of my dad's vasectomy and they would joke that I ruined their divorce cause they split up for a year then got remarried when my mom was 4 months along with me but we didn't feel blamed for being born. I hope you've built a life with more warmth and love than what you dealt with being called accidents.

[@ladykoiwolfe]

I'm sorry yours was said so negatively. It didn't have to be.

[@bbartky]

The siblings of my best friend in high school were more than decade older than him and I heard him called “the accident” by his parents a couple of times. However, they would follow up and then call him “the pleasant surprise”.

[@LindaC616]

​@bbartky as someone who was told by my mom "after Mike (the oldest), you were all surprises", I can promise you that being called "surprise" doesn't necessarily make it any better than being called an "accident". There were two or three years between each of my four siblings and 5 years between the next youngest sibling and myself. I never felt any less loved for it, even though I knew who the real "surprise" had been. Remember Bob Ross- "happy little accidents".

[@Sophia048]

There's also body parts, for lack of a better term. My eyes, my heart, my soul, my life. I guess they also come under valuables... In my friend group we started making fun of this by calling each other my spleen, my liver, my kidney

[@DeRien8]

With my current cats, who are littermates, and completely out of nowhere, I settled into appending "face" to the girls' names and "bug" or "boog" to the boys.

[@giovannaputhumana8460]

Fun fact, in my language Malayalam, "my liver" is unironically used as a form of endearment

[@Sophia048]

​@@giovannaputhumana8460 that's so interesting!

[@emperormegaman3856]

I mean, a kidney or a liver is a pretty darn important thing. That's a flattering name.

[@EARTHMANIAC]

⁠​⁠@@giovannaputhumana8460this is so sweet omg, me and my partner are not Malayalam, we’re Mexicans lol. but our pet names started out as lover and lovey, and one time my phone autocorrected lover>liver, so now we say liver and livey. and it’s not just “my liver” but also “you’re so livey!” 🥰 it was real cute/funny when visiting his family, his cousin greeted his other cousin (named Olivia) with a loud “Livey!!”, we were both like “wait, that’s not us?”

[@Elizabeth-tq7qw]

The change to include cats, plants, and quick on-the-street interviews was a huge bonus to the production value and the topic!

[@RaccoonHenry]

the interviews are so wholesome and add SO MUCH to this particular video! let me tell you about my dog, Renard - named after the Fox from The Little Prince, by the way. I used to call him Ponnpi, a corruption of pompi, the mexican way of saying buttcheek because, well, he liked being scratched in the buttcheek. he sometimes responded more eagerly to being called Ponnpi than his own name... he was a good boy

[@youremakingprogress144]

This is an interesting topic. I love the diversity among the interviewees and linguistic examples - it really demonstrates how universal the phenomenon is! Also, I'm going to try to play "familect" in my next game of Scrabble.

[@juliadandy6019]

I just LOVE when Shakespeare's little cartoon appears! Lights up my heart ❤

[@Kuwagumo]

The de facto mascot of the show lol

[@radagastwiz]

The Dutch diminutive suffix -je is used EVERYWHERE, from names to pretty much any noun you can think of. 'Een gezellig huisje' would be a cozy little house, for example.

[@LindaC616]

Spanish does that with "-ito and -ita". ...Making everything little and "cute".

[@psiphyre]

Afrikaans does the same with "-(t)jie" or "-ie" (depending on word-final letter); Japanese with "-chan" (mainly); Portuguese with "-ina" & "-ino" (depending on gender). 😊

[@LindaC616]

@@psiphyre I think Portuguese is -inho,-inha

[@psiphyre]

Ah! You're right! I forgot the 'h' after the 'n' ... Thanks for that. 👍

[@LindaC616]

@@psiphyre 👍

[@Myself-yf5do]

The Morse Code on the banner in the intro stands for PBS...nice touch.

[@resourceress7]

The hands in the clouds are saying a stylized version of "language" in ASL.

[@skeleton.]

the visuals, cinematography and editing are so nice

[@arkoudanthrope]

This is easily one of my favourite Otherwords! Well done to all who put it together!

[@v1e1r1g1e1]

Cat in lap at 8:33 ''Yes, that's all very important, I'm sure... but... hey?! How about some scratchums, please?!""

[@thefandombard4774]

In German, the umlout (ö,ü,ä) and maybe chen suffix are used to make words diminutive such as hündchen which is puppy or mädchen for girl

[@trillionbones89]

Bitte nenne deine Tochter nicht Hündchen.

[@tornyu]

In my family everyone is "Dork" and I love it

[@BenjamintheTortoise]

That's hilarious, I love that

[@TurquoiseStar17]

Cringey nicknames were rampant on my dad's side of the family growing up. We always had a good laugh about it. Now since his passing 3 years ago, I reminisce on them more fondly.

[@justprivate2333]

Never had too many pet names for my wife. But my pets on the other hand...

[@juliadandy6019]

Same here! My boyfriend is just his name, the cats on the other hand...

[@taylortanner37]

I have given up naming pets. After squish the fish , and dogs with the unfortunate names of Squeaker , Puppers and Graceless. Now my kids name the pets ( we have a park near by that people abandon pets in at least once a week so we foster and help rehome our foundlings with family and friends ) and right now we have Big Guy , Dude and Buddy. Apparently my kids also have a penchant for weird names.

[@philiplathrop9250]

@@taylortanner37 I love squish the fish

[@natmorse-noland9133]

Same. I use just the standard "hon," "babe," "sweetie," and such for my partners. My cat, on the other hand, has a good dozen pet names, some derived from her name and some are just nonsense syllables.

[@taylortanner37]

@@philiplathrop9250 . My favorite memory of Squish was my niece asking to kiss the fish. I thought she was going to just kiss the tank glass but no she stuck her face in the water and cause part of treating Squish's side ulcer required handling him he actually swam up to her submerged face and she got to kiss Squish the Fish.

[@alanz4819]

I personally think we should bring back "lamb chop"

[@jerseygirlinatl7701]

Sorry but when I hear 'lamb chop' as a name all I can see is a puppet.

[@hannahrobbins1017]

Only if they call their partner mint jelly 😂😂

[@miseentrope]

@@hannahrobbins1017 🤣

[@B2WM]

It's the nickname that never ends...

[@trevinbeattie4888]

This is the song that never ends! Yes it goes on and on, my friends. Some people started singing it not knowing what it was, And they’ll continue singing it forever just because This is the song that never ends! Yes it goes on and on, my friends. …

[@vesuviusmount9120]

Good stuff Dr Brozovsky, love the production on this.

[@YumiYa1969]

My brother started calling me one little female goat when we were teenagers. Nobody knows why… in Portuguese it is “Uma cabrita”. Through the years ( about 40 😂) it became “uma”. He is a most beloved brother and I like my pet name a lot. He is the only one who calls me this. People call me Patty or Patinha ( female little duck - in Portuguese Pata). I believe it’s my destiny to be called for animals 😂

[@joshvoilace]

I was beaming this whole video. The biggest smile from ear to ear learning about all of this. With all the things going on in the world right now, this reminded me that at the end of the day we're all human. I absolutely adore this series and am so grateful for new content!! Keep 'em coming 🙏

[@TheOlibaba]

I REALLY love this "on the road" format!

[@TBSxDRUMS]

My family is big on nicknames. My dad calls me Tiger because that’s the kind of nickname you’d use when patting your kid on the back before getting out into a sports field or something, like “come on, Tiger, you got this” when in reality I have never been the sporty type, so he does it ironically. My mom calls me Pete, which derived from Peepa, which derived from beepa, which derived from belly button. The belly button origin also resulted in other family members calling me Peeps, Leepadoo, and more.

[@onerayoflight1557]

I love all of your Otherwords videos !! I also love that you did part of this video while sitting amongst cats, and as seen at the end of the video you obviously like cats a lot. More than that, I was waiting for you to bring up the term familects, which you had brought up in a previous video, and you did -- thank you for connecting everything together !! Like always!

[@Jasonwolf1495]

And then there's those ones that are totally random and specific. My GF calls me a name based on a a typo from a food order that was hilariously bad.

[@marsalien4]

I love that this video had some interviews and different settings! Really upped the production on this, I loved it!

[@ace.of.space.]

7:50 is really speaking to me. time to annoy all of my friends with the nicknames i've learned from this video. I'm not letting alloromantic people have all the fun of cringe terms of endearment

[@nettlesandsnakes9138]

Ever since I came out as trans, and partially non-binary, my family has been referring to me as the eldest offspring or just eldest; sometimes I’m referred to as the elder spawn.

[@ScarletRebel96]

That feels kinda wrong and impersonal ☹

[@jasonspence]

@@ScarletRebel96 Nah, it's all about tone. "my eldest" == "my child", and "elder spawn" is hilarious 😁

[@chrisedwards6663]

I mean, assuming you like it, “elder spawn” is kinda amazing as a a term for endearment lol

[@Menstral]

Nobody cares about your self-promotion

[@Menstral]

Nobody cares about your endless self-importance or endless self-promotion

[@Jess-k8i]

my family nickname is bony arse, because i was the smallest child they'd all argue about whose lap i'd have to sit on if the car was full because they didn't want my bones digging into them

[@mfindlayolynyk]

Fantastic video! From hearing what people are called to all the kittens, the absolute sincerity of this video was heartwarming.

[@ksorabbit]

This new presentation style is killing it, love it!

[@MistSoalar]

First syllable of first name + chan is probably the most common pattern in Japan

[@averll]

im loving the setting of this video its so cute! and also this was so interesting i never thought about it till now

[@dunnowy123]

Beeboo, beebee, lovey, lovebug, babycakes, babes; only her actual name if we're arguing LOL

[@reganlandau]

This man-on-the-street style was perfect for this topic! Love it

[@safaiaryu12]

Oh! You're in Austin!! Hello! This was a super interesting episode. I've wondered about nicknames and how they came about. Some interesting Classical facts: a few Greek names that we still use today fall into this category, like Philip, "love", and Melissa, "honey". And a lot of famous Romans are known to us today by their nicknames, because it was REALLY common for names to be repeated in families, so many of them differentiated themselves by their nicknames. For example, Cicero, which means "chickpea" - supposedly his mother called him that and it stuck! Caligula means "little boots," because he would visit his father in the army and parade around in a little soldier's outfit. "Cincinnatus" means "curly haired", "Rufus" means "redhead", "Aquila" means "beak-like nose", "Africanus" is the one who led a successful campaign in North Africa...

[@EARTHMANIAC]

i was wondering where this was! i saw the texas-shaped cookie and the river and thought it was dallas

[@curiousfirely]

A friend of mine is expecting, and has been calling her future child 'tater tot'. You bet we are going to call that kid tater tot for their entire life 😂.

[@seanconant3218]

The editing, effects, and on location shots were top tier

[@itchy7879]

Loved the interviews for this episode!

[@artsytyler]

There’s something really beautiful behind utilizing specific language for those we cherish the most. Entirely reconstructing our sentences and hand-selecting the words we choose JUST to show our love for them. This video made me surprisingly emotional because that’s something extra special- thank you for that!

[@Beryllahawk]

My husband and I most definitely have our own familect, one that's almost shared with our son BUT not all of it. I'm very fond of making up nonsense words, or mimicking "gibberish" from some of my favorite movies (specifically this started with The Dark Crystal and Aughra's various "words"). So I still do that, towards my husband; there are maybe half a dozen "words" that are just for him. And there are others for my cat, my kid, my brother - not all of them consistent, ha! I've even seen a thing between my brother and his first cousin where words weren't even involved - they were "talking" using percussion against their own bodies, claps and thumping their bellies and such. It was VERY WEIRD but also really quite amazing! People are able and willing to make meaning out of ANYthing!

[@Nariasan]

I can't pay attention to what Dr. B says... I got so distracted by those adorable cats... keep rewinding to listen and forget because those cats are sooo cute!

[@diamond3749]

Omg I love that the otherwords series is getting more high budget

[@RedHair651]

Doing this in a cat cafe was a great choice

[@ElicBehexan]

I had a long term roommate I called "babe" despite her being 6 years older than I am. My wife's nephew called her Bibi they think because he heard either her mother or his mother call her Vivi. "V" can be hard to say as a young child. After spending a weekend with one of the nephew or her niece I would call her Bibi for a while. However, we had no 'pet' names in my family. I always kind of wanted one...

[@jvicf16]

The aesthetic of this video is on point, Doc 😚👌

[@thecaveofthedead]

Amazing style from Dr Brozovsky on this one. And super informative as always.

[@flippedwafflesokurr728]

Wake up babe, there’s a new Otherwords!!!

[@rogermrogerm]

She switched outfits like 10 times throughout the whole video, and all of them were wonderful!

[@grf15]

She does love big earrings.

[@LindaC616]

In Spanish, it's typical to give a family member a nickname based on physical attributes ("flaco", which can be good or bad depending on which country you're in). In the States, though, we're usually discouraged from that. And yet, my sister, who had big ears, got "Zippy" after the stuffed chimpanzees or "Barney" after Barney Rubble. To this day, she will answer to both. I got called Chub Chub

[@Fernando.Gil.]

I'm Mexican, and my wife is Russian, some of the pet names I call her are words in Spanish with termination in Russian, like "Amorchik" a mix of "Amor" (Spanish for love) and the diminutive termination in Russian "Chik", or Corazónchik (Corazón= Heart) etc...

[@xambrosyax]

LOML: love of my life. My best friend deemed this term on my husband and me before we got married on June 8. Now we are affectionately known as 'The LOML's 😂

[@rb5519]

4:41 mija - a contraction of "mi hija" - "my daughter" Add the diminutive and it's mijita.

[@twoshai]

I was kinda surprised with the production and it was a good surprise. I liked the outfit and background changes for every category, how they included "on the streets", and hey tiny Shakespeare showed up as well.

[@Kellen_Quigley]

My grandparents called my mom "Toadie" and my aunt "Cricket" when they were little, and they still used these more than their actual names for as long as I can remember.

[@MsBlulucky]

I've never used pet names in my relationships. It just never happend. The most popular pet name in my language is "Schatz"(treasure) and when my colleague said something like "Your first boyfriend is Schatz, your second boyfriend is Schatz, your third boyfriend is Schatz... it kinda loses meaning over time" that really stuck in my head.

[@Bat_Boy]

Some are digusted calling a romantic partner, "mommy" or "daddy", yet we openly call each other "baby" or "babe". Kind of creepy.

[@EARTHMANIAC]

how bout the reverse: my aunt used to call her son “daddy” when he was small, and i recently heard my partner’s grandmother call his kid cousin “daddy” and they’ve never met

[@sgujuhgftyyuyy]

Probably bc our parents are the first people we ever form connections with literally as we pop out the womb so its more personal and associated with the innocence and personality of ur childhood, and a lot more people don't have kids than don't have parents Edit: and also baby is a noun that can just refer to... yknow any baby, most ppl don't call their kids "baby", when daddy and mommy are specifically names that most people have called their parents and associate their own with, which makes it really creepy

[@KaritKtana]

They're all gross!

[@cannonaire]

The wife person and I call each other "Boss" like we're caricature prohibition-era mobsters.

[@JuniperArcher]

The production value on these videos is so great. All of the costume changes, set changes, and visualized words on the screen keep you engaged! Good job to the team ❤

[@daikon353]

i reeeally love the way you guys formatted this video! i’d love to see more videos like these

[@EayuProuxm]

Going outside and talking to people was not on my 2024 bingo card for Storied, but we love to see the growth.

[@spiralpython1989]

Loving the multiple locations! A really visually engaging episode. One of my children, Oliver, called himself Bing as a young child. Whilst ‘Bing’ has not survived (he is now in his 20s), derivations of it have… he is called Bealzibubblebing within the family. But the real ‘pet names’ are reserved for my doggos: one of them (Buttercup) is regularly referred to as ‘shidnert’ when she does something really silly. Her sister, Daisy gets ‘daisy cakes’, ‘cakey’, or ‘queen cake’. And my 3 metre python is regularly referred to as ‘my wee man’.

[@christinaatwood2911]

Great video!! Love the location and the editing too!

[@HyLee98_aka_KingAyam]

Love this episode so much! Everything feels so bubbly and cheerful as it should be according to the topic. Great works !!!

[@mandoguy8789]

Whoever put together the imagery, sets and graphics did a stellar job in this video. Brilliant!

[@BeatrixTomomizu]

I'm german and my mom called me "Spatz" all my life. ("sparrow"). It sounds quite like "Schatz" ("Treasure"), but that was my oldest brother, so sometimes I reacted, even though I wasn't meant xD My sister at some point wanted to give me a pet name (I was a teeny already) and I was ok with that, it just didn't sit well and she stopped quite fast... My family uses my whole name, simply cause I didn't like when my mom used a common nickname, cause it only sounds right spoken with a bit of an english accent, which she absolutely isn't able to do... Or maybe I just didn't like my name being shortened... I was 3 when I told my mom "I'm not a *nickname*, I'm a *whole name*" right in front of the kindergarten employee who would look after me and asked about nicknames to use. It kinda burned itself into my moms memory and I can kinda see myself doing that xD Also, I'm quite proud of my name - I have to meet someone with the same name to this point in time. I met someone who told me their sister has the same, but I only believe it after seeing their ID... Cause there's a version of my name that's widely known due to an old (I don't think she's alive anymore) german celebrity and I hated all my life that people would accidentally use the wrong name... For my sister and my other brother my mom also had pet names, but I forgot those... My sister had a pet name for her son I actually got to hear. She called him "Krümel" (I think "Crumble" like in a cookie crumble is the best translation) and I found that soooooo cute~ and my nephew was absolutely cute... And still is a really nice boy~ For her daughter I didn't catch it... My oldest brother also has two children, though they live away further, so we don't see each other as often. I know he and his wife have pet names foe the kids, though I can't remember... Most people call their significant other "Schatz" here. My boyfriend is absolutely no fan of pet names (and he said he simply likes my name a lot), so I never really tried to establish one. But at some point I started calling him "Schnucki" (kinda a cringy version of "cutie") the moment I shouted his name like 5 times and he wouldn't respond. It kinda worked xD Nowadays I actually don't use it anymore, but it still lingers for when I don't feel like he heard me calling him xD And he always responds with the most cringy pet name he can think on the spot like "Pupsi-mausi-bärchen"... I won't even try to translate THAT... Oh! My stepgrandpa always called me "princess" - but that's it~ ... Ok... My grandmas used -chen (the making it little ending) with my name. I didn't care until my younger cousin also started using it. Then I hated it with passion. Cause how dare my 3 years younger cousin makes me smaller! Uses a cutification! My grandmas stopped quite fast then and my cousin also. I think I told my mom and she delivered it to my gradmas. So no pet names for me~ My name is special enough as it is~ my mom smashed two names together coincidentally creating a name that already existed xD all because she wanted something more special and hated middle names. In german culture it's more unusual to have a middle name and my mom didn't see any need for one, so I got my name by smashing to together (no - though, like in Anna-Lena)

[@koreance]

You should look into Korean. The video keeps talking about how this is supposedly a universal feature in all languages and cultures, but the Korean language has scarecely ANY terms of endearment. Maybe with the sole exception of 자기, which means "oneself." It is extremely strange, in fact, for Koreans to hear other people call their loved ones after food items and animal names. 호박, which means pumpkin, is used in Korean as a metaphor for "ugly person," so calling someone pumpkin is extremely rude and offensive. There are nicknames of course but these are specific to individuals, and there are no words that can be used generally to anybody as universal terms of endearment. I guess, the only exceptions I could think of for terms of endearments that can be used for children might be 왕자님 and 공주님 (prince and princess, respectfully), but again, these are just one-time things that people would sometimes say in like a "atta boy!" kinda way, but they are never used in place for your names. Like a parent would NOT call their child princess over and over again in lieu of calling their name. Also there is no diminuitive for Korean names either. For English-Korean translators, terms of endearment are some of the most difficult things to translate because the very concept of it is quite foreign to Koreans.

[@jonathan0225]

been called a senorito when being lazy for a chore 🤣🤣

[@benjaminacuna8013]

It was the old Spanish for gentleman/dandy

[@jonathan0225]

@@benjaminacuna8013 yes. But in filipino, youget called senorito/ senorita for being lazy around the house lol

[@LindaC616]

​@@jonathan0225yes, because they are joking about the fact that you act like someone of the nobility, who has servants to clean up after them 😅

[@jonathan0225]

@@LindaC616 yes. Exactly. Lol

[@EARTHMANIAC]

and the reverse too: my uncle calling his father “viejo” hehe

[@rachele3334]

My mother in law was Hispanic and always called me “mija” when she would call me. She passed away a year and a half ago and that’s one of the things I miss the most.

[@WynnofThule]

THANK YOU for adding the tones in the terms from tonal languages.

[@Bubbles603]

1:03 the kittiessss oh how I love them😫🤍🤍🤍

[@SwagHyde]

I love that this video didn't just have examples in english

[@PhoebeFayRuthLouise]

Cats make everything better- even excellent videos like this one! Subscribed!

[@IOSARBX]

Storied, I loved this video so much, I had to hit the like button!

[@gahllib]

tamagogata no kao isn't a term of endearment, it's just a description, similar to heart-shaped face in english

[@SuperTakkino]

Yeah, and with 8 syllables, way too long even if it was a term of endearment 😅. Come to think of it, Japanese doesn't really use much except for the suffixes like -chan, -chin. And the ultimate no-suffix given name!

[@grahamstone1198]

So well made! Loved the production on this one! Interesting patterns across languages! Thx Dr. B & team!

[@grahamstone1198]

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[@TiggerIsMyCat]

To this day I still don't know what "pusa" that my mom called me means. I asked a bunch of Romanians and they hadn't even heard of it, but the closest we could determine it might've been a dialectal variant if the word for "doll"

[@Sonic-ew4mm]

In my language that translates to "cat"

[@TiggerIsMyCat]

@@Sonic-ew4mm Romanian also has that kind of word for cat, but it's pisică. We called our cats that all the time! (Although when it was from Mom they got wary when they heard it because Mom often followed it up by picking them up by the armpits and squishing their faces into her kisses screaming about how she was going to eat them (in the cute aggression way). I'm like Mom, they're hissing and trying to scratch and bite you, they clearly don't like it, and Mom's like I don't care they're so cute)

[@sasentaiko]

Another commenter here was French and said she was called “Ma puce” by her mom, which means “my flea”. Maybe your nickname was not 100% Romanian?

[@deankarasinski1979]

or maybe spanish like pupusa

[@TiggerIsMyCat]

@@sasentaiko Maybe, but the only other language in her family growing up was German. She did also speak Italian, though, but not much once she moved to the US, and that was just an interest of hers, we're not Italian at all, just Romanian (my great grandparents lived during the time of the Austrian Hungarian empire, so they were Romanian, but being on the upper class side they spoke German, first I even think.)

[@Sauvium1]

My husband has three main ones, Tall Man (used so often my mother uses it), Beardy Man, and Baldy. He is anything but bald but we once shaved all his hair off in support of his sister going through chemo and the name stuck. He calls me Moochy and I’m entered in his phone as “The Queen 1005 Sparkly Flowers” (yes really) which was a name our niece gave me once during a game of pretend like seven years ago. I refer to our niece and nephews as Monkey or Monk. My dad calls me Jester. My MIL still teasingly calls my husband Sweet Cheeks even well into his 30s. Everyone in the family refers to my BIL as Mr. Special. It is funny how these names stick from even the smallest things. I’m curious about couple names? Like Brangelina. Is that something new or something we’ve been doing for centuries or is it something new to the past few decades?

[@Crescent-Adam]

Aside from being a sweet episode, I absolutely loved both the varied locations AND the featuring of street interviews sprinkled throughout the video! The cat cafe (?) was just way too cute & cozy 😭

[@AA-wc3tw]

My exh used to call me "poopy pants" and wouldn't stop when I asked him to. So I started calling him "skidmark" (after the skidmarks he left in his.....poopy pants). BOY did he HATE that and shut it down quick. And then he stopped calling me "poopy pants." He and his skidmarks are someone else's problem now. My parents are German and never called me any pet names or nicknames. I gave myself a nickname as a little girl (44 now), and my dad says it every once in a while, but it's not exactly directed towards me. It's more of an arms-length joke by someone who wants to be close to me but cannot allow himself to be.

[@okamifang4059]

It's crazy how common it is. I sometimes say pop tart 😂

[@bernard_6166]

OH SHE'S GOING OUT!!!!

[@bernard_6166]

SHE'S GIVING PRODUCTION VALUE

[@bioalkemisti]

Lovelovelove love it that you interviewed people from other cultures who use another language besides English! Weird how humans evolved to use same type of words individually across all(?) cultures. Also in Finnish we call people kulta (gold), rakas (something you love), muru (crumb)

[@mr.nobody7958]

In Dutch - My liefie - my little love (for your child).

[@poomlertpinyowong9187]

As a Thai speaker, I am not sure about Chang Noi (little elephant) haha. It is actually a slang for penn*s. Double name is also a thing in Thai language.