People Love at Their Level of Consciousness

Why am I so attached to having people who abandoned me in my life?
Kim helps the questioner get in touch with her anger so she can see that each person is only able to love at their level of consciousness. She highlights that the work of awakening involves recognizing the old narratives that have shaped our lives.
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Eckhart Tolle is widely recognized as one of the most original and inspiring spiritual teachers of our time. He travels and teaches throughout the world.
Eckhart is not aligned with any particular religion or tradition, but excludes none. His profound yet simple and practical teachings have helped thousands of people find inner peace, healing and greater fulfillment in their lives. At the core of his teachings lies the transformation of individual and collective human consciousness - a global spiritual awakening.
Eckhart Tolle is the author of The Power of Now, a #1 New York Times Bestseller, which has been translated into 32 languages and become one of the most influential spiritual books of our time.
In his most recent book, A New Earth, he shows how transcending our ego-based state of consciousness is not only essential to personal happiness, but also the key to ending conflict and suffering throughout the world.

[@fionam3735]

It’s a tough call alright! To be the first to awaken in a toxic family

[@PeaceNLiebe]

Grace Kelly seriously

[@SoulKisses76]

OMG, Yessss!!!!!

[@asstanley8438]

wow, what a woman. Articulate and aware and brave enough to stand up in public, and all in her second (?) language! Respect.

[@ClearOutSamskaras]

How do you personally evaluate bravery? Keep in mind she was at an event where everyone is there to see Kim and Eckhart. There are many people there with wounds that they want help in addressing and healing. So, she's in a welcoming environment; therefore she was not standing up "in public". The people there are not a random selection, they're people who are all there for the same thing that the woman is there for. I often see bravery in terms of the courage one brings to entrenched oppositional forces. Why do you say the woman was brave? Incidentally, once one has become competent in one's second language, it is not difficult to speak it; a tautology, I know, but I had to point out this plain fact. The woman was a competent speaker of English.

[@tbd5082]

Anger covers up sadness for sure!

[@alyshalight9762]

Respect to this woman for asking such a great question.

[@kirstinstrand6292]

On the note of loving at one's level of consciousness. Most of us are so eager to get into a solid relationship that we do not take the time to get to learn the level of communication needed to make a union work. Everything is usually good for 6 months but what about 2 years? Relationships are challenging at best. My advice is to take time in the beginning without sex to learn what you are getting into. Sex attaches most people too quickly. All the above comes from all the mistakes I made. Sorry to jump in here...ok...I'm gone now.

[@Jostipi]

I love Kim. She is a sassy and assertive version of Eckhart.

[@peaceblessings7008]

Finding true love begins with Loving yourself. You must know that you are whole, complete and do not need another human being to complete you. Then you will recognize and attract people who are vibrating at the same frequency. Your life is a mirror. You will only attract that which you are on the inside. Love attracts love. Two halves will never make a whole. You attract your soulmate by becoming your soulmate.

[@scottgreen132]

This hit me right in my root chakra

[@lianicaise]

People love you with what they can give you, it's their love tank which is full at their level of consciousness - the capacity of their love tank. You may expect more/less and feel disappointed/angry, but how people love you does not change your value - you're loveable and can manifest self love as much as you can/want to fill in your love tank.

[@doubtfuldreamer]

Beautiful

[@Shh9319]

Aurelia Nicaise ty🙏🏼🙌🏼💛I really needed to hear this

[@rizziequeen5253]

I love that she's a spiritual leader but still swears.

[@lastingbeauty7416]

She has to love herself. End of story that is the root of all her problems. She's looking for something outside of herself she's never going to find it it has to come from within.

[@sidkul3766]

“Somebody is there but not in form”, thanks.

[@browrestling2438]

My (ex)girlfriend broke up with me 3 days ago. I found myself thinking that I accepted her with her flaws,but she was too judgemental with mine. The truth is that I didn't accept her as I thought. I expected her to be there for me,to spend more time with me etc. If I had accepted that she loves at her level of consiousness, she acts according to her mind and doesn't mean that I'm unlovable or unworthy ,things would have been much easier. At least I accept this now. Thank you Eckhart and Kim,you made the healing process 10 times easier and faster!

[@Leelz247]

Bro Wrestling this is great to read, thank you for sharing and good luck

[@browrestling2438]

Thank you! For the record,we talked again and told each other thank you for all the good times and the valuable lessons. We will go out for coffee in a few days propably,we both agreed. The most important thing is that I no longer seek my happiness in her. I'm fine with whatever happens and the right thing will arise in the moment. Also people that "hurt" you,are your greatest mirror to see your flaws. For example,she didn't accept me (which is just my thought not the objective truth) cause in fact I didn't accept myself and therefore saw the same thing in everyone else.

[@hardcoreclassy6976]

Thank you for being so honest and forthcoming. Listening to this woman speak was very helpful. But reading your story really touched me. I can totally relate and empathize with your circumstance. Hang in there; things always get better.

[@browrestling2438]

Thank you!Funny thing is when you are in presence everything comes into place,but it isn't so important anymore haha.

[@tarshabs51]

Bro Wrestling, very deep..... I can relate.

[@theadrenalizedartist6843]

It’s a struggle if you are the only one Awakening...we have to get ourselves around more awakened people

[@evaw551]

It's time you learn it, and give it to yourself. Give yourself the gift of unconditional love , so you never be a beggar. Awaken to Love.

[@indigochild5504]

We are a product of our ancestors and our environments. The process of awakening was very emotional for me and gave me the realization that my parents and their parents dumped lots of things onto each other. So lets keep working on ourselves for our future generations. Peace and Love y’all

[@theoddoctopusdawurdwitch5472]

This woman asking is severely beautiful and transparent.

[@DREAMER-uq4gh]

IT FEELS BETTER TO LOVE THAN FEEL LOVED BY OTHERS.

[@TheKnetsie]

This is what I have realized and accepted lately: that my parents are war-children who experienced war in the very delicate ages of 12 and 5 years op and 5 years up: my dad in Amsterdam in a jewish part of town with his parents just trying to save their young family, my mom in a village near the coast, with german soldiers all around. This MADE them, formed them. I cannot even fathom what that must have been like. But seeing them as these children in WW2 made me mellow out my feelings about their parental qualities and have me step out of the blame-game.

[@rainbird2372]

I learned this through studying the I Ching. I was so triggered and unhappy that my husband wouldn’t show me love in the ways I wanted to be loved. So I kept consulting the I Ching and the readings summed up to the main message of this video. I have accepted him how he is, and I am there for him in the ways he appreciates. Now his attitude has shifted and is more considerate of how I want him to be there for me. I guess we really do get what we give sometimes.

[@PeaceNLiebe]

Biggest thing that’s helped me being the first to awaken in a toxic, addiction riddled family is understanding and implementing presence with boundaries. The two go hand in hand for me as I am navigating out of an unconscious, abusive family I was so loyal to.

[@db-333]

The last and hardest hurdle once awakened is forgiving ourself. I have become detached from all . Even with my children a sense of freedom has been discovered. When we allow ourselves to be beaten down, abused, and used is beyond gut wrenching. Especially from those who we expect to love us unconditionally. This video is so true! someone can only meet you as much as they have met themselves. Knowing this has set me free! All are coming to teach us to go within, that place I call home/God. greatest and most important love of all is self love. It is then we are able to show up whole for another .

[@yasminm7157]

Debra That was beautifully expressed 🙏

[@MrYatesj1]

Beautifully stated. Attachment to need is not going to help anyone. Letting go and for gosh sake forgiving ourselves is such a lovely perceptive!!

[@jackiebenson11]

Yes! Lovely. I feel the same and am grateful I can parent from this level of awareness.

[@MagentaDreams70]

Debra That was just lovely. 🤗 Thank you. ⚘

[@db-333]

you're welcome, keep sharing what we learn. :)

[@infjness]

I feel like I'm listening to master yoda. ❤

[@DrShawnaFreshwater]

People Love at Their Level of Consciousness. Truth.

[@ferdinandalexander8053]

There are no levels to consciousness. Consciousness is truth.

[@abcxyz3783]

I suspect that this girl is very clingy and needy - though I have only her plea to go by - thus setting up a poor dynamic for the exchange of love. Seeking constant validation and expecting to receive it in the manner you have imagined is a recipe for disappointment. Real love isn't a hallmark card, gooey song lyrics or constant validation by the one you are seeking affection from. If you have to have validation to feel loved then you lack trust and will constantly manipulate to receive that validation eventually over time driving away the very thing you seek.

[@missmerbella]

I think it’s incorrect to assume the father loves her at his level of consciousness. That may be true, but he also may simply not care. At the extreme levels of abuse, he could be intentionally hurting her. I wish more spiritual teachers would take into account situations such as these.

[@rubyreduxx]

You are not wrong. But I think you’re misunderstanding what spiritual teachers are trying to help people with when dealing with this type of upbringing. When an abusive parent is no longer in your life physically all the emotional damage still remains, what do you do with it? Unfortunately as awakened individuals we are the ones that have to deal with this and process it so future generations don’t have to go through all that generational pain. And unfortunately that’s just the way it is, punishing, blaming someone even when we’re in the right doesn’t change the pain that’s been done to us. We must transmute

[@rubyreduxx]

missmerbella this happens in stages though and takes time. I put my hand up and admit it’s not easy, but I love this journey, I feel like this is what my abusive parents didn’t do, deal with the pain. On my own

[@annewoodborne804]

relate completely to this girl; If your parents, no matter how unconscious, can't love you,who will? Am i so unworthy of love?

[@wendymccolm]

Just had a break up. Realized I wanted him to hear and see me so badly- but truth is I wasn’t listening to myself... my emotions and focus were haywire trying to get me to listen - trust myself and say leave- you’re not okay.

[@taodienasty6544]

She is so beautiful,like real inner beauty . I wish you all love and healing dear .your strength comes from your bad experiences. Thank them for that and shine your light .namaste

[@mja4752]

what most people call love ( myself included ) is attachment and desire

[@DauntlessPT]

This girl is so cute, she is feeling really lonely i can feel her pain and anger :(

[@SidewaysInTraffic]

I just wonder what she did for her Dad and best-friend (which sounds like a guy) to both feel the same.

[@smurfmama2020]

SidewaysInTraffic she did nothing, fathers and friends reject and abandon us. Nothing we did

[@Sunflower-og1lm]

she is indeed super cute, even though she is trying to not show it.You can see through it.. super sweet, i hope she will over come it.

[@kit93]

Cried throughout this

[@mechemoretti3759]

What the true definition of being “awake” I’m pure hearted for the most part, but I struggle with the fact that I feel like I’m alone with a somewhat toxic family and most of my anger stems from the fact that I feel so different from everyone. I’m woke I think but I’m not sure, I just know I’m trying to find the way and the truth and the light

[@TALLYB06]

Usually it is great suffering that encourages us to just cross. Wow! So true!

[@MrDaveFerrier]

sometimes its very sticky when a lot of the stored up pain happened because a false belief.. often formed from the upsetting event/s. A catch 22 because the belief keeps it stored up inside you. Mine was that I wasnt loved by my own parents. Whatever the causes were of that belief were, it effectively made me unable to open up to their unconditional love for me. I then started to build up anger over nearly 25 years in my unconcious mind, that manifested at resenting my own mother and father for not understanding me, when in fact I could not even see that they couldn't as I had never even allowed them in as a child. Once I started to understand that it was me that I was angry at not anybody else, the healing process began and I learned that I needed to just forgive myself for holding onto all that pain, as I didn't know what was happening to me at the time. When I did this it all came out. It took about 6 months and buckets of tears later, I am free of alot of toxic energy that I was carrying inside me. Healing the inner child is the gateway, one has to be willing to go inside and above all get out of your own way, and feel.

[@thankyoujesus2836]

thank you for this

[@janreinkens681]

What a sweet girl, although I'm not her father I would like to hug her and tell her that she's being loved, I hope her father realizes one day before he's gone that he's been stuck in his unconscious and gives himself and his daughter the gift of love and forgiveness so he can die in peace and she can go on with her life, blessings for her.

[@cherylann8292]

Anger is deep seated hurt.Feel it,heal ur inner child back to life.No expectations,fear...

[@purpleflametarot39]

God bless that young woman. I hope she realizes how very special and beautiful she is! Feel the pain, grieve the loss, but don't let it define you. It defines them! I grew up much the same. I knew on some level it wasn't my fault but not for a long time. I'm 64-years-old, and parents are long gone, and it still hurts sometimes. I think if it doesn't, you're not human or you have no heart. Both my parents were divorced, alcoholics and distant. Most of the time literally distant. I lived with different family members from age 11 years. The hard part was when dad started second family and gave them everything I was denied.. I loved my mother dearly no matter what, even tho I didn't know where she was a lot of the time. It is a horrible thing to feel that if your own mother (bipolar) and father don't love or want you, not only do you feel unloved, but unlovable. Anyway, in time I realized my mother loved me as much as she was capable of loving anyone. It wasn't me. Father was regretful but we couldn't heal that.

[@Shh9319]

Purple Flame Tarot thank you for sharing this. I am dating a man that is older & similar situation as you. This helps me understand him better & have compassion towards him. 💛

[@challo8067]

Good for you! Healing does happen and it’s always good to share this!

[@Nrgheal]

Being unloved by a dad causes a deep anger, which is a protective energy, protecting the soft vunerability inside...this causes others to feel that anger and back off, because the red hot anger is the first thing people feel in her energy field. This is a live energy read from a clairvoyant healer. The energy must be released with gace and forgiveness.

[@renegaderogue6310]

I relate to this as I've noticed that when I am angry, I am really, really, sad but I don't want to face the sadness. Anger is easier to deal with.

[@cristinamendez4292]

To the young girl, Thank them for not being a part of your life. They are not prepared to be in your life and believe it or not, they are protecting you. I pray you see my message and God bless you. If you could only see your beauty.

[@kieraflowers9928]

Your value is your value regardless of your father or best friend seeing that. You deserve to be here even if they don’t love you. Take what they give, not what you’re missing or what you think they should give you. They can only give you what they can afford to give, hence loving at their level of consciousness.

[@SidewaysInTraffic]

Those words, loving at their level of consciousness, really resonated with me as well. I can accept that with my mother, my question now would be do I still have her in my life or not. That's what I struggle with.

[@MrYatesj1]

Amen, we must fill our own hearts first, it matters not who in the world gives us their love. If we love ourselves first then we are always full and will never "need" from anyone.

[@jackiebenson11]

Wonderfully stayed. I think this is an issue so many can relate to.

[@user-pf1fe1sn5k]

I didn't realize that I would keep crossing barriers... I didn't realize that, that is what growing is. Yet the best moment for me is realizing that guides are always there saying yes yes yes go you can do it... Its a special relationship with Spirit that I am SO PROUD of... So Grateful for! It's such a beautiful feeling. Its a piece of heaven.

[@namratajain2887]

Suffering has indeed been my greatest master ! Now, the fear and unconsciousness are disolving slowly. Love Eckhart’s teachings. Beginning to discover Kim... Love you sweet souls

[@northernyogi]

THIS BLOWS ME OUT OF THE WATER. THANK YOU FOR THIS VIDEO. LIFE CHANGING.

[@heidib4280]

I love this and am watching this at the right time of my life. Thank you. Much love xxx

[@pambrettell4203]

Thank you for this connection and the best use of the Internet. It feeds my spirit. Love and deep respect.

[@adileneambriz9589]

My heart goes out to those who’ve experience the same situation she has. god bless, don’t forget that the love you have for yourself , is the greatest love to have ❤️

[@hardcoreclassy6976]

I broke up with my first ever bf this time last year. I have done some deep searching and reading and meditation in order to breakeady from those feelings of guilt and sadness and resentment and angry... what Kim said was so helpful. I never really allowed myself to feel any of these emotions because I was so much more concerned with being the “bigger person” or for the sake of “not looking crazy”. Looking back I wish I would’ve allowed myself to feel more and think less. My thinking has become out of my control. Kim’s advice and listening to everyone stories here has helped me in ways I can’t even put into words. Thank you for this. The healing/awakening process can be difficult to get through but it is also very gratifying.

[@pawprintsjersey5787]

So your looking outside of you for love. You have to love yourself, you are love, you can’t expect your dad and friend to love you the way you want, if they don’t love them self’s, you have to trust they love you. You have to love you and accept you. I love and accept myself is the chant 💕😀.

[@garickjones3339]

Paw Prints Jersey yeah, love thy self. Thanks for the reminder!

[@kwoowoo828]

Love and hatred are both sides of the same coin. Basically, their underlying nature is the same. Attachment and non-attachment, abandoning and non-abandoning are also like so. Practicing detachment, but also don't cling to abandonment. Abandon also the idea of abandonment. When you are not attached to the idea of abandonment, there will be no issue. If you don't seek something, you will not be disappointed. The rain noise may be loud, but they rarely irritate us because we have no pre-conceived idea or desire that they have to sound nice. Reality is void of duality. Duality only arise in our discrimination. Discrimination arises from our thought. Our thought is no different from the rain noise. Both arises from causes and conditions. If you treat your thought like the rain noise, there will be no issue. It is neither good nor bad, loving or hatred, attach nor non-attach. These concept or judgement is an additional layer which we overlay upon and often causes our suffering and distress.

[@carlafa3]

Kwoo Woo, your words blew me out of the water. So true and beautiful. Your analogy of the rain was wonderful and extremely helpful. Thank you!

[@akakonoha]

This girl is just brilliant. So gorgeous. I love her attitude. So cool 😎

[@nryane]

Thank you for confirmation of my need to deal with my feelings in any situation where I might be triggered by the behaviors of others. I left a longtime dysfunctional relationship 13 months ago, with the aid of an EMDR therapist. The therapy helped me to SEE my part in the dysfunction. I was able to thank the Ex for his ongoing negative behaviors which had created the pain of the relationship which, in turn, drove me to seek help. I am now able to recognize when I am the one who must love me/give me the validation I’ve wanted from others, including the Ex. I am grateful for the question from the young woman in this video. Like she, I struggled with wanting my father’s love, which he was unable to give in the way my child-self needed/desired. I still have habitual thoughts which take me out of NOW and I can better recognize them, which is progress. Blessings!❤️

[@_s_4412]

Love has no expectations. If there are expectations it's not love, but an ego driven grasping and clinging.

[@steve19811]

All the girl has to do is to allow herself to feel the deep sadness that exists in her. Being vulnerable. Being sad. Allowing it to be there and accepting it fully will transcend it. It's Trapped Energy in her Body she refuses to feel. If she just felt it, her consciousness/energy would raise and her dad would be back in her life. EMDR does this releasing.....

[@KenRuan]

The beginning is poignant in raw emotion! I get it!

[@GIVLuv41]

Beautiful❤️💕🦋✨ the first to awaken. Sending light and love to the soul who went up to ask this difficult question. It resonated with my soul.

[@epoint605]

Wow! I can identify so well with this girl! The attachment to a loved one and the anger. The more I watch Kim's videos, the better it gets. Thank you so much for these uploads, and thank you Kim and Eckhard for these very warm, insightful videos and all the work you do!

[@etherealaerials2381]

I really like that concept and it is very helpful. For example I feel that I am extremely conscious and enlightened to the point that I love my sister and parents so much that I don’t even need to be physically near them to feel connected and together all of the time ... from across a country I love them as though they’re with me! All of the time! ... my sister doesn’t understand this. I think it is just that her level of consciousness is different than mine and she loves me only at the level of consciousness that she is capable of (with a lot of anger, sadness and resentment that I do not live physical close to her now).

[@davecub]

Kim talks about how we carry our ancestors' shit at a cellular level. I'm interested to know more about how that actually works.

[@John_F898]

Thich Nhat Hanh often talks about this too.

[@davecub]

I’ve heard similar things said in the past and I’m interested to know what evidence there is for this.

[@mikedolen3626]

The book “You are the placebo” by Dr Joe Despenza, addresses neurochemistry and how thought via epigenetics causes changes at the cellular even DNA level.

[@CrystalTwinStar]

Many believe our memories are stored in our brain but they are also in our cellular structure so memories, beliefs, etc..."templates" are passed through our DNA so unless we awaken and discover Universal Truth we blindly believe that what our ancestors experienced is ours

[@doradestroy]

davecub Epigenetics

[@vaniathomas8859]

I connect with this video so much . I always and still feel abandoned, in my adult life at 30 years old. I dont have any children yet and I know it will be hard work for me to instill in my children the love my parents never did.

[@ky6864]

Life with agony can nurture humbleness and result in consciousness. An easy life can make someone become arrogant and result in unconsciousness

[@fanreviewnaija8894]

God bless both ladies.

[@bonniehogabaeff1432]

What a great way to put it - People love at their consciousness levels - can you accept it? That is so much more easy to accept. And a great reminder when my parents trigger me. 💜💜

[@lyndisue8936]

I am sending Energy of Love to the girl that asked the question. Yes we are all connected.

[@mairead354]

Her laugh at 13:54 reminds me so much of Eckhart's! ❤️

[@edw927]

This is so meaningful to me, but also so painful. We all have issues, so I am not saying that I don't, but my daughter has huge anger stuff that is taken out on me in some horrific ways. She seems to have passed this to her children and now she even has a grandchild. I can't even explain the pain of not having my family. Sometimes in trying to deal with this I feel like I am going crazy and just want the pain to stop. I understand that is all egoic, but it is also my family and I want them in my life. It is hard going through the pain because the situation never changes. It gets worse, so there is always more pain. I understand what is being said, and I am trying to work with it. The thing in this video that almost made me laugh was her talking about the need to just "jump" and what it is like standing on the edge. It is like I have been intuitively ritualizing this and that need to literally "jump." Recently at a local carnival I decided I needed to jump as part of a stunt jump activity, so I had to jump out into nothingness. After I did that I had to do the zip line- so even though in a harness I had to step out into nothingness. It is like I am being drawn toward what I need to do. I'm also almost 63 years old so I look really strange doing this stuff, but I've felt I had to do it. Maybe there is hope for me yet.

[@edytawas4980]

The amazing young lady asking so bravely question about her trauma is very inspirational. Well done, good on you for being so honest and raw. Beautiful, love her 😊😘🤗😍

[@7msjster]

I love this, we all handle things differently. I have a "good friend" who, in 20 years, never came to visit me. I went to visit her and her family numerous times. She always promised she would come. Twenty years later when I mentioned it her response was, " Oh well, sometimes that's just the way things go..." I was stunned of course this was on the phone. Since that time I found myself being angry every time I cleaned the cat litter box in the morning. Love the metaphor of dealing with crap. It was hurting me not her. It took that realization and awareness in order for me to realize what I was doing to myself that it didn't feel good and I was adding to my not feeling good. We last spoke in July. She is retired now but still has not made an effort to even come for a long weekend or short weekend...It does still piss me off when I think of her telling me that if I get in the car and drive at 6 in the morning I can be there 6 at night. I did that a few times. I have NO FEELINGS for her now. NONE it will be hard next time to see her differently. We Virgos don't forgive that easily when it is not sincere.

[@kieraflowers9928]

I think the most iconic line was ‘Shit happens’.

[@nochannelfoundhere]

Love you Kim! So profound. It's amazing, I've heard that voice cheering me on "come on you can do this, we are all here waiting for you on the other side! " so beautiful.

[@Sunflower-og1lm]

What a sweet girl. You can see how long she have tried to be strong and not to blame her father and best friend thats why she still loves them but just cant accept it is what it is. Ofcourse it is hard to accept the people whom you think would love you the most, don't. She probably feels betrayed. I have been there, not at the same situation with her but sometime i get annoyed at people, not to the anger stage yet and i too feel really bad, because i was nothing but gentle. So when we thinks bad of ourselves its really hard to love ourselves and when we don't love ourselves we cant love others either, hence the anger she is expressing. I really hope she will over come it and hopefully can find love again easing the pain she is feeling inside :( BEING ANGRY IS A SCARY PLACEEE

[@Bizzy-Bumble1131]

This is amazing. What a wonderful woman.

[@kareemmohammed5270]

healing words

[@SpecialgiftsLA]

Oh my G-d ..she is speaking my experience exactly..Im shocked..to see someone feel exactly the effect I feel. I felt for years that somehow I cannot exist without their love. But since Im learning that they are incabable of love I must learn to exist with it. Im working on this ..Watching this is a blessing to me now. I want to hear this woman teach. Oh now she said her parents have ten year gap. Mine also..yes also I am the first awakened in the family..lately Iv been expecting their behaviour..being brave enough to observe it while telling myself I am strong..I am only a victim if I think I am. I can feel sad ..really sad..but find the peace within myself.that stillness ....she is explaining what im experiencing..Im understanding my process better..Its comforting to listen to this..about the leap happen when the thought goes. No thought. Consciousness..

[@natk4275]

Kim has become a great teacher in recent years! I enjoyed this. That girl was masking her grief and rejection with anger (which is a more empowering emotion).

[@GodsCommunity]

The time is yours... Enjoy your life! 🛎🛎

[@poppycee3616]

The feeling of abandonment comes to mind with this young lady, we have an expectation that those closest to us will support us and when they don't, where do we go? I suspect after her question she will have support from those around her in the room, abandonment is in its self, a structure, some will go straight pass the structure and not see its beauty and some have the capability to embrace and rebuild the structure, her farther and best friend just don't have the materials to rebuild the structure but may come to embrace the work of others, I hope so :)

[@bcvc3365]

To go from feeling anger, to sadness, to forgiving and feeling compassion for the being who hurt you - now that is experiencing a true awakening! 👼

[@janesmith8894]

She is a loving, spiritual person, I sincerely hope she can move forward and find true love... She deserves it.

[@hotnexxx]

Eckhart is the public persona but Kim is the heart and soul of this duo. Together they accomplish a lot.

[@purpleflametarot39]

What a profound statement. People love at their level of consciousness. Amen.

[@aspalathos8499]

I would just say to the girl who asked questions to keep on moving and find new friend or friends. Don't get stuck in sadness forever, still water gets stale only running one like a river is good, same with emotions, move on. With father issue is harder. Acceptance, therapy will help. Also we are all wired for connection and need people around us who love us and support us and vice versa. Loneliness can make one sick. We may be all connected but we need people physically around us. I don't get this detachment concept. I know that we shouldn't expect that happiness doesn't come from others but meaningful relationships are necessary. You can't be alone and think we are all spiritually connected and feel good. That is delusional.

[@daodejing81]

Few people are at a level of consciousness to love themselves and others. The ego cannot love. There are people who are not yet transcendently knowing, but possess a beautiful spirit and stay in harmony intuitively. Love is possible for such people.

[@greenspider9132]

Just wanna give her a hug

[@7msjster]

This really helped me. Thank you! We are all learning to "transform". The faster we come "home" to ourselves, the faster we transform to a more desired state for ourselves.

[@MadnomadM]

Needed to hear this reminder. This is what I would always say to myself to dismiss possible anger and hurt. It works. I forget to keep it in mind sometimes. I’ve always told myself ‘They just don’t know any better.’ Or ‘They are doing the best they can in this moment’. Thanks Kim!

[@TheBluekit]

Génial, this helps me a lot. Synchronicity 🙏🙏🙏

[@wenwyn105]

Beautiful talk. I really appreciated the part about crossing over to an awakened state. I've never heard anyone explain it so vividly. Thank-you!

[@CGcounselor]

She was happy and felt safe with these people. Now she feels abandoned and afraid. She will grow into her own when she can validate herself and not look for others to do that for her. Be brave girl and you will grow and feel free and alive.

[@Bradlemski]

Wow. Your father and friend really love you more than you know. On a soul level, before you incarcerated you all chose this out of love to help you grow and evolve. There was such a gift in this video for me. Thankyou.

[@grasscutting2178]

Welcome to the love frequency beautiful beings, we help everyone and everything.

[@kellybest1905]

She’s so calm-I don’t even realize when she swears lol- She’s gr8- I’m not against swearing-just funny how smoothly the words are inserted in convo without humor or anger or inflection

[@oskarfassler4088]

Beautiful question and what a wise answer. Thank you Kim.

[@estherbuerki]

Wow, so beautiful how Kim talks about this journey of growth.

[@ziphomokoena3551]

Few people's words resonate with me on a deeper level the way Kim's do.She is brilliant.Applaude the young lady asking the question as well,it took courage.

[@sandraaddae2779]

This woman is articulate and the content fascinates me. Her insight in how to explore your emotions when healing is compassionate with pure loving neutrality. Thank you and with gratitude.....💜

[@Damirrea]

That was amazing! Thank you so much. I needed to hear something like this.

[@Anna-xu9nl]

Beautiful spirit in this young woman who is so brave to own her pain, sanding lots of love ❤️

[@jean0915]

Thank you!! Truth is liberating and healing!

[@SusanJohnsonsuzvj]

The part about the alone feeling is profound for me. I have to really think about what she is saying because I feel alone most of the time, even when I'm around people.