People Who Did What Was RIGHT

[@jacalynnepuder1172]

The dad in the last story is 100% correct, as someone who lives with three dogs in her family, yes I'm a girl as well as kyutie here, I don't think the parents of dog owners/people related in any way or not, should be responsible for your furchild. A puppy/kitten is a lot of responsibility.

[@noemirodriguez9137]

The last guy was definitely fair! Either take care of the dog or rehome the dog. Respect ✊✊

[@chloeeng6811]

Yeah it not fair to the dog

[@riel4553]

Romper story: Thankfully it was a romper because if it was a dress-dress, OP would've flashed everyone after that fall

[@arleneclark6369]

Yeah that Bride was definitely a Bridezilla, if OP hadn't of fallen, she never would have known. OP did nothing wrong.

[@louisejohnson6057]

Romper

[@riel4553]

@@louisejohnson6057 Thanks, English is my second language

[@louisejohnson6057]

@@riel4553I thought it might be that. One of my closest friends is the head of the English as a Second Language(ESL) program at the University of Victoria, in Victoria, British Columbia, Canada, and my mum was a teacher. I always assume that little errors, like the one that you made, are simply a language barrier. Thanks for not being angry at me, as my intention was to inform you and not to ridicule you. So what is your native language? Unfortunately, I can only speak English.

[@riel4553]

@@louisejohnson6057 Spanish. I don't think I've ever had to write 'romper' in English before. Fun coincidence, "romper" in Spanish means 'to break'.

[@SJHredkingdom]

The final story with the dog reminded me of the time my stepfather compromised to let me keep Tiger, my first cat. He disliked cats at the time. The deal was that Tiger would be my responsibility, except if I'm staying over at my dad's place for a weekend, or if I go to church camp, etc. I managed to keep my end of the deal. Over the years though, he grew to love Tiger. Sadly, my cat is no longer with us. It took me 2 years before I felt ready enough to get another cat, and he was quick to love her this time. I guess my 1st cat melted my stepfather's heart or something.

[@irid891]

1st Story: I think there's a case of selective hearing and subsequent misinformation on the play here. Is there an instance where OP stated clearly that she's her boyfriend? Did those girls hear it but choose not to acknowledge it? And what's with the DMs next morning demanding him to apologize? Why would he apologize? Why didn't the person who DMed him explain the clear, whole situation to the girls? Is it that inconvenient or are they just stubborn? There are my questions. 2nd Story: I agree with Kyutie here, why does every single fricking time these brides turn into nasty, controlling, detail-obsessive POS in their own weddings? What's the big deal if someone who has the right to label themselves as non-binary and therefore not confined by subsequent gender norms wears shorts underneath what would be a passable feminine romper? Why make a big deal out of it? Honestly, I'm convinced the bride did this for some petty crap, even when they knew OP is autistic so this might be some fucked-up ploy to hurt them. Don't be hung up on that OP, the bride is a huge POS in the ass and you didn't do anything wrong, it's them, not you. 3rd STtory: yes, no words there, he did the right thing. His daughter didn't extend any invites to HIS family, as a fucked-up way of making sure her already cracked rose-tinted glasses of a perfect, complete family won't shatter, but it did, and the question is, why would she invite her mom and HER family but not invite OP and HIS family? Honestly, OP did the right thing by declining the invitation. 4th Story: Okay WTF, this whole situation just triGGering HOLY GEEZ. OP's wife and her mum are the assholes here and also POS if I'm tbh because what they did to the dog is extremely irresponsible and disappointing! I'm glad it's to be rehomed now because staying in that family is a fricking death wish, and props to the OP for again, doing the right thing.

[@goofyrat2938]

I actually don’t think the first story is selective hearing.. I agree with Kyutie - that’s the conclusion I came to as well. I feel like getting confirmation from somebody other than OP would’ve been ideal, or OP showing them proof that that’s his girlfriend because they were clearly trying to protect her. Nobody fights that hard to defend no one, I don’t blame him either but damn. They both had good reason to do what they did so I actually don’t blame either of them, the reason I’m saying it’s probably not selective hearing is because if you’re suspected of being a kidnapper - then convincing others would be really tough. Even if they heard what he said they would have no reason to believe him, they did the safe thing but it ended up being wrong..

[@jengsci8268]

Irid - The dog story. I got the same with plants. Telling roommates: Please stop bringing home plants you don't water/take care of! Then giving them to me to see if I can fix it. Yes, I (usually) can, but that doesn't mean it becomes my plant. 😡

[@maliablossom7340]

@@goofyrat2938 I agree but imo nobody is wrong or right. The girls shouldn’t be demanding an apology when they were the ones giving him a hard time. It would have been rily bad if god forbid they called the cops on him and nobody could vouch for him (honestly tho it’s definitely sus that nobody realized what was going on outside tho). But the guy should understand where they were coming from too. Bottom line, just move on. Why would an apology be needed when both people were doing what they thought was right?

[@ourlesbianbuttscould367]

For the first story If a girl is so drunk she can’t function and a guy is dragging her to his car girl code says you make sure she’s safe and give her a false alibi No selective hearing, just pure concern, tho they could’ve at least tried to give him the benefit of the doubt Also why didn’t he show them proof?? Just saying “this my girl, back off” ain’t convincing shit

[@leylavandriessche9976]

For the first story, it is totally understandable what the girls did, I would have done that too. I would ask him if someone could verify his story. I don't understand the 'you have to apologize' though

[@maliablossom7340]

Exactly. I understand both sides but why the flip would they need an apology from him when they know he’s the boyfriend. Unless he punched them across the face and knocked them out to go- there’s no reason why he needs to apologize when he was just trying to get his drunk girlfriend home safely. Just move on

[@princessofhell4639]

@@maliablossom7340 he should apologise cus he was mean to girls who were only trying to look out for his gf. Imagine if that was some random dude who was taking them then he'd be grateful they acted the way they did. They have no way of verifying if he was truly their gf or not. Edit: Sorry I mean if he was truly her bf

[@jeanbean_bc]

@@princessofhell4639 He shouldn't have to apologize and the girls didn't have to get aggressive really in the first place (unless he escalates things) they just should've asked somebody to verify who he was like the original commenter said

[@terryfilkohazi2237]

I've seen something similar, where they asked the guy to show a photo(s) of the couple on his phone to prove they were a couple. Problem solved.

[@chloeeng6811]

Yeah I understand both side

[@eileenconway2966]

The girls in the first stories weren’t being bitches, they were trying to protect her.

[@cgamejewels]

That's why they demanded that he apologize.

[@maliablossom7340]

@@cgamejewels he shouldn’t have to apologize ?. He was being clear. That’s his girlfriend. I get being paranoid but upon realizing the truth later, they shouldn’t be mad? Honestly if I were them I would be apologizing for the misunderstanding and explain my side. Neither are I’m the wrong tho

[@kurapikakurta1997]

@@maliablossom7340this!!! If I was in this, I’d let it off as a simple misunderstanding on both sides. An apology wasn’t needed, he didn’t hit them or anything and was trying to help his gf.

[@Rosarium2007]

The “dress” story - if Bride doesn’t care about comfort of all guests that speaks volumes about her and makes one wonder if she even cares about the Groom, or just herself.

[@philraymond2543]

If someone, anyone, were so audacious as to dictate what I MUST wear to their wedding, I just wouldn't go.

[@malcolmholder3149]

Story 2. With one out of every two weddings now ending in divorce what's the betting that this marriage won't last. Nearly all Bridezilla's marriages fail within the first two years.

[@PratyushaMishra]

Story 1: the girls really were trying to help out to be honest! There have been multiple situations frequently where the other person has told the said girl to be a gf and later turned out it was not! I understand both sides here but the girls didn't do anything wrong when the gf was in an intoxicated state and not clearly able to state he was her bf.

[@maliablossom7340]

Yeah I agree but i don’t think an apology is needed unless the guy hurt them or something

[@alfonzoy5]

I would've definitely done much worse than op in the second story. If the bride couldn't respect my identity, I would've shown up in a dress. Maybe slightly lacey... White... Long tail? Maybe include a veil?

[@JesusKreist]

3:03 Dress code for guests is fine as long as it is "no flashy colors and outrageous designs". Anything beyond that is a big, fat *NOPE* .

[@bloodgutsandangelcake6079]

Imagine that for a wedding dress code tho 😭😭 "This is a wedding, not the Met Gala. Do with that what you will."

[@sweetsea3607]

That story about having to wear a dress reminds me of another story. A trans man was invited to a wedding but the bride demanded he had to wear a dress so he's like, "Okay." He wore the dress and posted a picture of himself to the bride. It literally looked like a man was wearing a dress. You'd have no idea this guy is trans. 🏳‍⚧

[@markcollins2666]

There are other options. Kilts, kimonos, or saris. I'm straight, but would feel perfectly comfortable in a kimono.

[@jeanbean_bc]

@@markcollins2666 I don't know why you said, "I'm straight but would feel perfectly comfortable in a kimono" Both men and women wore kimonos. "Kimonos are traditional outfits worn by both men and women and aren’t gender exclusive on one single side. However, colors, designs, patterns and ways to style your Kimono tend to very, obviously depending on what gender you decide to wear your Kimono Robe with."

[@bloodgutsandangelcake6079]

@@jeanbean_bc Traditional in Japanese culture, yes, but in Western society, it would be seen as "gay" or "feminine", which is (presumably) why he felt the need to say he'd be comfortable with it. Whatever another society says, Western society says men shouldn't feel comfortable in that.

[@jeanbean_bc]

@@bloodgutsandangelcake6079 True, true (annoyingly). It's so dumb though knowing that things that were traditionally masculine in the past are only seen as feminine now because women started doing it. Also the only way being seen as feminine would be considered "bad" is if they decided women sucked or something. yk yk

[@jeanbean_bc]

@@bloodgutsandangelcake6079 Also nice profile picture I love it

[@lost_friend3391]

The one with a afab person forced to wear a dress made me mad but I almost fliped when I saw the photo! It looks just like a dres! What the hell! I am a women who wears a suit to functions and I never had that problem. The only reason they saw that it wasn’t a dress was basically looking under there! If anything that would make me call the bride a creep if I was there! The person didn’t ruin the wedding but I would if I saw that happening. Just cuz it’s ,,your day” doesn’t mean you get to be a pos

[@alfonzoy5]

Like... a romper basically IS a dress. OP could have worn a dress that looked exactly the same with short underneath and its the exact same thing. What someone wears underneath their clothes (whether attached or not lol) should not be anyone else's business besides your own.

[@lunarialoonatic]

What’s annoying is that she didn’t even notice she wasn’t wearing a dress Lmao.

[@Yipyipyay]

​@@lunarialoonaticshe didn't even notice he* wasn't wearing a dress Op is trans enby/masc, that's why they didn't want to wear a dress.

[@Jaemou]

Story 2: The bridezilla ruined her own special day by throwing a fit over the pretty romper. OP did nothing wrong with wearing the romper. It was the perfect compromise to a disrespectful request from the bridezilla. The bridezilla's lack of class and decorum will be the lasting memory of this wedding.

[@gamergirlmimi263]

Good jobs to those people ❤❤❤ we need more people like them

[@andrewvega5567]

First story, he should of really just grabbed his phone and showed them photos of him and his gf together 😂 Def no one is wrong, girls trying to help But as a guy, it's still kind of..idk.. offensive? like how else is he supposed to get his gf to the car? It's just frustrating, trying to do good but to be accused of stuff like that

[@winniethepooht5776]

We know, it's not you. It's just that it is so incredibly common for women to be raped while drunk. So we ladies automatically look out for each other. Whenever I see a young woman in a setting where a man is clearly making her uncomfortable, or she is the only woman, my radar turns on. We don't want to assume the worst about people, but we unfortunately have to at first to stay safe. Thousands of women are raped every day, many under the influence. (Men are also rape victims, i'm just speaking on why women react the way we do.) Please don't take offense, it's not you. It's the sickos that ruin it for the good guys. The only thing those girls saw was a clearly intoxicated woman being dragged to a man's car. I would've done the same thing. I'm sure you're really cool, but you have to take into consideration the uneasiness we experience every day. Whenever we feel something is off, our minds automatically go to 'how can I defend myself if he makes a move.' Ignoring catcalls can get you followed (it's happened to me). Simply saying no gets women killed. So yeah, we are very defensive of ourselves and other women. We look out for each other. We don't hate men, we're just anxious and prepared for situations like that because they're so commonplace and we've just accepted that.

[@DinoTamer-22]

Yeah it’s unfortunate that we live in a world where girls have to be on guard all the time and guys are immediately labeled as having bad intentions even when they are trying to do good.

[@maliablossom7340]

I think neither are in the wrong but no apology should be needed, if anything I would be mortified if I were the girls and found out I was being defensive for no reason

[@princessofhell4639]

OK but don't be mad at the women who are trying their best cus they don't know you and don't know what you're capable of and you could be anyone to them. Be mad at the men who have given you a bad name and be grateful other women are willing to look out for your gf.

[@andrewvega5567]

@@princessofhell4639 I'm gay so no gf sorry. But lmfao I aint hating on woman bro, it's just like damm is this really the best outcome? 💀

[@gred_and_forge]

story 3: I feel like more info on daughter/bride's relationships with both parents was needed, as well as reason for divorce, as it could provide the reason she invited her mom's bf and kids but not OP's wife and kids. I'm guessing it could be 1) she was a daddy's girl and was deeply hurt her dad allowed their family to seperate which only made it harder when she saw her dad moving on with stepmom therefore always held a grudge against stepmom for this, 2) she was closer to the mom and after harboring more hate towards stepmom and her kids, she might've been more willing to accept a new man in her mom's life cause she wants mom to be happy, or maybe even 3) she thinks something bad happened that was kept from her, like an affair, and she thinks dad is to blame, esp since according to OP, all she knew was that they were a happy family and suddenly her parents were divorcing out of the blue. story 4: "they got upset with me bc the dog likes me and its obviously my dog" no, absolutely not. taking care of something/someone is different than loving them. teachers and parents both take care of kids, kids learn things from them, depend on them for certain things, but the love teachers and parents hold for that kid is different; for teachers, its an obligation, sometimes it turns to genuine care, but for a parent they care out of genuine love for their child, its not the same. They think the dog is his bc the dog likes him?? of course it seems that way bc theyve been ignoring the dog, if they were the primary caretakers before neglecting his care, i bet if they started showing that attention again, the dog would happily show more affection to them than the dad. "of course the thing likes me, i take care of it. which i dont want to do." fair point. it might make people mad to hear OP refer to the dog as a thing, but it just goes to show how detached he is to the dog, and knows his heart isnt in it when taking care of the dog. taking care of the dog doesnt sound like caring for a member of the family, it sounds like a chore no one wants to do anymore, which is just sad for the dog. OP is right in offering the dog to be rehomed with his friend who does like dogs.

[@Idklol2866]

Last story is correct I have got my cat during Covid times but even know I still take care of her maybe not as often bc I have less free time and I have a lot of stuff to do but I still make time for her and take care of her If you won’t care for it after why even get it?

[@SlushAYYY]

Sometimes I wonder if anyone watches one of these videos & recognizes themself in a story

[@Feathered_Crow]

I wonder that also

[@kenniengland]

5:17 he shouldn't even have to wear a dress at all. He should get to wear a suit or something along those lines, as long as it's still formal. The fact they even went through wearing something that probably made them dysphoric--I feel so bad for him as a non-binary trans person myself. I've been forced to wear things that make me feel dysphoric too and I know it can't equate to this but I can put myself in his shoes. The bride clearly wants an excuse to be a transphobe.

[@dylancastellanos87]

Had to delete my comment because I read their Reddit and see that even though they're not fixed to any any gender binary, they do lean more towards masc/Agender, use he/they pronouns, etc. I apologize. Because I never saw this in the video, I assumed that you were assuming OP was Trans and used male pronouns. I'm sorry about for my initial comment.

[@kenniengland]

@@dylancastellanos87 you are completely fine! I reread their Reddit initially using they/them in my original comment, and I like to try my best and use preferred pronouns. We all make mistakes, and even as a nonbinary folk I have to be very careful not to assume pronouns base off of "looks". I was raised in a transphobic household and I'm still unlearning and relearning many things and trying to get better myself, so I completely understand

[@samantha-fu5no]

I feel like the 3rd story I would have the same.. If she's not comfortable with her dads family y should she invite them?

[@malcolmholder3149]

Story 3. The daughter is inviting total strangers in the form of the Mother's BF's sons but not inviting her own Half Siblings. OP NTA just go LC or better yet NC with her.

[@BabyDoll-ym1zm]

I think that the story about the stepmom can go both ways because we don’t know how the daughter was treated by her stepmom

[@QuokkaWaka]

The daughter wedding one isn't that clear cut, I don't think. If she's 27 and still resentful to his wife specifically and not her mother's boyfriend, then it's possible she has an actual reason that her father doesn't see through his rose-tinted glasses. Sometimes parents should trust their kids and be unconditionally supportive, though whether or not this is one of those times I'm not sure.

[@anarchyneverdies3567]

My kid’s dad decided to get fish (2 giant fish tanks) and a cat then rather than taking care of then decided he’s just going to forget they exist. I like animals but I’m allergic to the kitty and the fish tanks have to be cleaned almost daily and I never agreed to this- I straight up said “if you bring them in my home, you will be taking care of them because I already work, cook, clean, take care of the kids, take care of my brother’s rabbit, and pay all the bills. If I have to spend all day cleaning up the hair I’m allergic to and the fish tank that’s smelling up my work area, I won’t have enough time to work.” So, I’ve been taking care of all those animals he promised to take care of for two years now and we’re becoming impoverished because I had my schedule perfectly timed to deal with the house/kids/work/school, but now my schedule cannot work or the animals will suffer and although I didn’t want them I do respect them as much as I respect the lives of humans. It’s so messed up when people get an animal then lose interest and pawn it off on someone else (or let it die if that person decides not to help)

[@chokream5399]

4th story, I have no say bc I’m only a sister not a parent😢, I warned my family to not get the dog and they said no it was too cute, I hated it since I didn’t want it, after it left it’s puppy phase, they still told me to clean up after it, to feed it, and to walk it, I told my mom I warned her, she complains abt the dog and just never gets rid of it

[@HannahsMusicAndNovels]

I feel like with story 3, OP's daughter isn't all too in the wrong. We know parts of the story, but we don't know the full story. Did the daughter grow up with her dad's new family or her mom's? Did she see her mom's new boyfriend as more of a father figure, or is she really just being a b*tch? We don't know. From my perspective, I think the daughter was just more comfortable around her mom's new family than her dad's. Maybe they felt more like a family to her than the one she once had. We honestly don't know. I can see how it comes across as hypocritical, at the same time we don't know the full story.

[@minisamuri2]

I agree that I think there's something we're not being told, either because Op doesn't want to share it or because Op is unaware of it as well. Like maybe it's something like what you said where she sees the mom's bf as more of a father figure, or maybe the step mom is treating her terribly behind Op's back or something.

[@icequeen8736]

@@minisamuri2 She's a grown woman tho I can see where it may have been a teen but if she feels a certain way then wouldn't she tell her father.

[@maliablossom7340]

Still tho, whether you’re on the daughter’s side, the fact is that the dad doesn’t have to come. It’s his family too and if she can’t accept that than she should be able to accept that the father won’t go

[@HannahsMusicAndNovels]

@@maliablossom7340 I completely understand that. I still feel like unless we hear the daughter's side, we can't completely say who's wrong or right here

[@lunarialoonatic]

@@HannahsMusicAndNovels atm I don’t think either of them are tbh. Neutrality

[@js8303]

I always look forward to these vids!! So sorry for missing the stream yesterday, I was worn out after staying up for the Superbowl 😅

[@Nates_anime_artwork_yt76]

@Ba Gawk Yeah I also missed the stream. But hopefully I can hop on tonight's stream and hopefully I can see you guys there

[@js8303]

@Ba Gawk 11 hours??? That’s insane!! If I get on tonight’s, I will only stay for so long because I have school so I need the sleep😅

[@js8303]

@@Nates_anime_artwork_yt76 I hope to see you there too! 😁

[@js8303]

@Ba Gawk Priorities are important! 😌

[@TigerLily12345]

I like that dress one. In the place I used to live that would have been great to wear because of the amount of upskirting that goes on there.

[@deannthomas6142]

But the girlfriend shouldn’t make her boyfriend apologize. The daughter was in the wrong.

[@princessofhell4639]

Yes cus the girls were only trying to look out for another girl and it could've just as easily been a random dude with bad intentions trying to take his gf then he'd be glad The daughter can invite who she wants and there's probably a reason she doesn't like the new wife like there's more context we don't have. Plus she can be sad her dad's picking his new wife over her but ofc he can still decline the invitation just know it will speak volumes to the daughter about who he actually cares about

[@Kuralai95]

I feel bad for the girl who’s dad refused to come to her wedding. We really don’t see the full picture but there must be a reason why she feels comfortable with her mother’s new partner but not her father’s.

[@shellecebusiness7244]

Story 2 pisses me off I would have left after the yelling.

[@justven24]

story 2 caught me off guard, i’m also genderfluid and autistic-

[@who.o]

Happy Valentines Ellen!!

[@Smugglenuglle]

For the first story, honestly, I think he should thank the girls for trying to protect his girlfriend. There are a lot of creeps that pretend a drunk girl is their girlfriend, so words are NOT reliable. Thank them and hope that the next time his girlfriend is drunk and a real creep is taking her, they would be as vigilant as they did with him. He at least know that if they're around, his girlfriend would be safe the next time she drinks a lot.

[@theresaeng5330]

1st story...HE TOLD THEM A NUMBER OF TIMES that she was his g/f. They then had to leave it alone. And if they still had a problem, see if they can go into the party and find someone who knows them. So the girls who were 'helping' are more wrong for being pushy. I understand they thought they were helping, but after a number of times him telling them she is his g/f, they needed to let them go.

[@Torchyc]

Just because you say something does not make it true. Lying is a popular kidnapping tactic. The girls should have asked for proof and/or the boyfriend should have given proof.

[@poptart6519]

Nah they did the right thing. Girls looking out for girls. The girlfriend was completely drunk and in no state to defend herself, any guy could easily say “oh yeah that’s my girlfriend I’m just going to take her home”. Luckily in this case it was the truth but still better safe than sorry. In any other case the girlfriend would have been another unfortunate story on the news.

[@koriandrstarfire9514]

Tons of people use the, "that's my gf/bf" line on people they have drugged to make themselves look innocent. While it's not the girls' fault for being persistent about taking his girlfriend home they could have asked for proof, such as a picture of the two of them together or something. The boyfriend also wasnt at fault at all because he was telling the truth and in this situation he really is her boyfriend just tryna get her home.

[@samgnz3n530]

Agreed there was two why not have one keep harassing the poor guy and another go inside and make a fuss, like really strangers danger is a thing yes but defending it that girls protect girls are masking the fact that girls can be vicious bullies to other girls and criminals themselves, he doesn't need to apologize for being a bf to his drunk girlfriend and crusaders getting it wrong, like if they were really serious or concerned why not record his face by filming him, call security, or other party goers also this interloper-Karen that was at the party and heard it through the gossip vine has no place ordering others because "they were justified to act like that thinking a guy helping a drunk girl means r*pist".... only the girlfriend can be the judge of how he handle it and we don't even know her reaction to all this.

[@theresaeng5330]

@@Torchyc so that is also why I said, then one of them should have gone in the party and said HEY does anyone know this guy or something. Don't just assume, not in this sue happy society.

[@mattydesteno9523]

HAPPY Valentine's Day K your the greatest .❤️❤️❤️❤️🍉🍓💐🌷🌹🌷🌹💐 Matty from Australia

[@reginacoeli7106]

First sorty: No A-holes Here -The guy was trying to keep his drunk girlfriend away from strangers(to him) and she was too drunk to recognize or not the others. She couldn't even walk on a straight line, so of course he's not gonna "hand her over". -The other two were trying to help a girl in need. There's just so many stories out there about guys putting something in a girl's drink, and pretending to be with her to get her out of there. A lady just can't be careful enough, and it's hard to believe one person when the other can't even stand up and confirm or deny the story. (Like that other reddit story: a girl went to a bar with her friends a got a little tipsy. In her drunken state she saw a man grab a girl's butt, so she went straight to fight mode and sreamed a the guy. Then the lady calmed her down and said: "That's my husband, don't worry, I agreed to it!". So yeah) -Both should apologize: I believe the girls should apologize first, and take accountability for not believing the dude. They chose the safest option to believe she was in danger and tried to help, instead of living with a burden of not knowing what happened to that girl. And the dude should apologize for the "rudness", but the world is not perfect where everything can be solved right away with a dialog. His girlfriend was drunk, and there were strangers wanting to take her away, he couldn't let her go in that state with girls he never met, because he also can't be sure of their true intentions either.

[@cgamejewels]

Exactly. Just because they were girls don't mean anything. They were strangers. What sane person is going to let their loved one go off with strangers just because they are the same gender? What got me is the girls got on social media demanding an apology. What was that all about? Were they out there trying to pick a fight so they can brag on social media that the "saved" a fellow woman? The behavior sounds like "karens".

[@lauralove528]

In relation to the last story, my family and I live in Texas, but I didn't move here with them. I stayed in Washington state with my grandfather for awhile. During the time that I was staying with my grandfather my family got a dog. P PREGNANT stray dog. She had 7 or 8 puppies. Then I move in with them again and they're all still there. Eventually they give away all of thr puppies but 2. Eventually 1 of the puppies that we kept passed away because of a brain issue he was born with. So now we just have 1 of the little girls and her mom. My parents are the main ones that have to take care of them despite the fact they were supposed to be for my SIBLINGS but my siblings really don't take care of them much until our parents threaten to give them away too. They're predominantly out door dogs and stay in a dog house in our moderate sized backyard. No one really takes them out for walks because they were VERY much a handful when my older sister and I tried to take them on one. But I've taken care of them too, and they're not even really my dogs, as my family got them before I moved in. But they have a problem with barking at our neighbors dogs or even just barking in the middle of the night when people are trying to sleep. Sometimes we bring then inside and try to put then in a medium sized carrier, but they get restless and have to go outside again. Our neighbors have threatened to call the police if we don't get them under control. My parents are VERY ready to get rid of them. Most likely take them to a shelter or something. I honestly don't care because they didn't get the mom for me, but my younger siblings are the ones who still want them. So HOPEFULLY they'll take care of them and give them more attention than they do.

[@idkwhatthisis6270]

11 hrs and counting Ellen, I've been waiting for this video to finally go to bed 😂 kidding not really.

[@Nates_anime_artwork_yt76]

Hi Ellen looking beautiful for the camera like always. I saw this pop up on my KZbin feed and I just had to watch cause I love the heck out of your content Ellen keep it up. I love you be safe and have a great day💯💖🌸

[@saramccormack3025]

S2 - I do get th@ it's her day n all, th@ she n the groom have full right n say about hw they want their guest to dress on the day. but she didn't even notice anything was a miss until the most important part of 'her' day was over then she starts moanin over some thing so petty. If ur goin 2 invite transgender people 2 anythin important u really should keep in mind their feelings n hw they would react 2 b made 2 feel uncomfortable. Either th@ in2 account or polite explain y their nt invited.

[@rachelmartin5187]

I think we're missing a lot of key information on story 3. I feel like something happened between Ops daughter and her step mother and half siblings, but he refuses to share. Either way, OP will be an AH if he doesn't go. It sounds like his daughter just wants him to put her first.

[@maliablossom7340]

It’s his family. I wouldn’t go either. Sounds like the daughter has some unresolved issues and blames her father for the divorce. If she can’t accept his family why should he go and support her new one?

[@kanikagaral7637]

@@maliablossom7340 dude he is the father of the bride. His new family is not important here. This one day it's this girl and it's her big day. For one time he can just be there for his daughter. He ain't a guest he is the father. And I agree there is lot of info left out possibly on purpose so the op can look good

[@snowwhite19376]

Happy valentines day ellen

[@Nikita-wj1ls]

im, a woman, actually prefer when "dresses" have shorts att the bottom. it feel much more secure lol. i dont see the issue..

[@Silencer796]

Happy Valentine’s Day!!! ❤❤❤

[@cassandraleon5257]

Can you do more happy ending gut feeling stories and scary stories with a happy ending?

[@kaneki18-d1t4]

About the first story. These women causing a scene weren't real friends or else they would've known her boyfriend. They are the ones who should apologize for acting like they were besties of the girlfriend when they were just trying to harm her. Seriously the audacity they have

[@pandorasangelxx]

You completely misunderstood the whole situation. Those women saw that a man was putting a drunk girl into his car. They thought that he was trying to kidnap her so they pretended to be the girlfriend's friends in order to protect her. They weren't trying to harm her AT ALL. It was the complete opposite. This is something that women were taught to do when another woman is drunk and they think she is in danger of being kidnapped by a man; we pretend to be that woman's friend in order to get the potential kidnapper to back off and get her out of that situation. Obviously, in this case, OP was actually her boyfriend and was just trying to get her home safely, but those women didn't know that. He did say that he was her boyfriend, but how could they have known he was telling the truth?

[@Bloxburgiscool-u4w]

6:56 well im prolly gonna do that one day but i have an actual reason would i be wrong

[@lightningsamurai4134]

Happy Valentine's Day

[@blobbythepotato7062]

❤

[@shadowboxer1]

Second! Here's your silver medal! ====> 🥈

[@ricebeansrockroll882]

I'd like the daughters perspective on story 3. Obviously she is ok with her mom finding someone new, so the whole "she can't accept the divorce"-thing doesn't hold up. Is his new wife actually nice to his daughter?

[@maliablossom7340]

She probably just is projecting. Maybe the father initiated the divorce first and so she blames him. Either way she can’t have her cake and eat it too.

[@alfonzoy5]

You're incorrectly assuming someone who would do this to her father possesses any logical sense. That's why it doesn't make any sense to you, because it just doesn't make sense at all.

[@chrisspears9937]

First story the boyfriend was not in the wrong he did not know the girls is girlfriend was way too wasted to be able to say anything coherently and with the way things are in this world today you don't know them you don't go with them or let your very drunk girlfriend go either.

[@pandorasangelxx]

While I do agree that OP wasn't in the wrong, those women were just trying to help his girlfriend because they thought she was being kidnapped. That's why they were so adamant about keeping him from putting her into his car. They didn't know she was his girlfriend and were just trying to protect her. It's unfortunate that this is something people have to worry about, but this is the kind of world we live in.

[@memelessnaiki]

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[@WittyRoseKoi]

I love your videos kyutie

[@tananoor2533]

Oh hiii!! Happy valentines dayyy

[@notsofunnyjokes1040]

Why's the puppy an it

[@AAntonop535]

Smart snow 96

[@AnnieCamer0n]

It sounds like she invited her stepdad and stepbrother but not her stepmom snd half siblings. That makes it a bit messed up that she’s not invited her siblings but she can invite who she wants. Why be mad that her dad won’t go without his family though

[@WittyRoseKoi]

Shadow boxer I’m i fifth

[@shadowboxer1]

Sorry. Twelfth.

[@cgamejewels]

First story: I don't understand why people drink to get drunk. I think the girls are lying. They should have asked if they were asked if they were boyfriend girlfriend. Picking a fight is not how you help someone. Everybody saw them come to the party together. The only thing I don't like was that he was driving even though he was drinking. Why would the guy trust his drunk girlfriend to two rando girls just because they are girls? Trust goes both ways. Why was she even demanding an apology? Shouldn't she be the one to apologize? That's the clencher. Definitely getting "Karen" vibes. Second story: That's a pretty romper. I didn't know they come fancy. I've seen plenty of pants that look like dresses, and I love them. Third story: Applause to Pops. He did the right thing. The daughter is being a jerk and hypocrite. Why does she love her stepdad so much if she wanted her parents to get back together? Did she think her dad would get jealous when her mom got remarried? He is literally behaving as an adult should be. The bride needs to grow up and go back to therapy. Fourth story: I agree with Kutie and the husband. The wife is just as immature and irresponsible as the kids. Shameful.

[@pandorasangelxx]

Those women were just trying to protect her because they thought she was being kidnapped. That's why they pretended to be her friend. This is what women are taught to do when another woman appears drunk and we think she is being kidnapped. It's for safety. There are many cases of a man pretending to be a a woman's boyfriend while she is drunk/drugged and will take her home with him to do awful things to her. And yes, obviously women are capable of doing bad things as well. Nobody is denying that. But in that moment, all they were thinking is that they were helping another woman who they thought was in danger. Nobody in this situation was in the wrong. I do agree, though, that OP doesn't need to apologize because he didn't understand what was going on and was just trying to get his girlfriend home. Those women should have realized their mistake and apologized to him, instead, for the misunderstanding. Also, there is a possibility that those women didn't go to the party and didn't know they were together.

[@crazyducklady5500]

The dog story is legit my life but instead the adult and their children wanted the dog and made me care for it when they moved into the house.

[@amateurflor13]

imo, if the guy in the first story needs to apologize then so do the girls. it was a misunderstanding and neither party was intentionally doing anything wrong. why should he be the only one to apologize for trying to protect himself and his girlfriend from people he thought was crazy w/o them also having to apologize for trying to protect the girl they didn't know was his girlfriend?

[@heikedixon4968]

I think the girlfriend in the first story is the one in the wrong, she shouldn't have gotten so drunk she couldn't even tell the other girls that he was her friend.

[@pandorasangelxx]

While I do agree that it is a bad idea to get that drunk, only because I would never do that myself for safety reasons, she is allowed to do whatever she wants. It's ultimately her decision to make.

[@omniscientamoeba]

early for once 💀

[@princessofhell4639]

For the first story I really think the bf should apologise. I don't think the girls would've been "convinced she was their friend" or whatever and more concerned about her so claimed that in hopes it'd make him back off cus they don't know who he is and are just trying to look out for other girls. It's what we have been taught to do to survive as girls. He shouldn't yell at them and instead be grateful he can count on others to look out for his gf cus it could have just as easily been a random dude trying to take her. They have no way of knowing if he's her bf. For the second one first off that person is so transphobic I wouldn't even want to associate with them and even if it didn't look like a dress or still shouldn't be a big problem. Why do people feel like their weddings is their chance to be a d*ck to people smh. For the last one the daughter did NOTHING WRONG. It is not hypocritical to not invite people YOU DON'T LIKE TO YOUR WEDDING. If she gets along with the mums new bf ect that's great but she doesn't have to get along with her dad's ones as well. She's also allowed to be upset cus it is quite sad her dad isn't coming to her own wedding but he still can say no obviously. She can choose who she wants to come and if he doesn't want to then he doesn't have to but he also can't be surprised if she stops talking to him. Also this perfectly shows why she doesn't like them, she feels like she is second to their family as this post shows. He clearly likes his new family more then her and has little regard for her feelings. It's no shock she doesn't like the dad's new family. Also it's clear the dad understands this which is why he was only asking about if he was wrong to decline the invitation, I think there's more we weren't told. For the last one this is lowkey animal abuse by the rest of the family. It's so sad how often it happens where people buy an animal and once its no longer young they ditch it and that's coming from someone who also doesn't like animals. It's their responsibility so they need to figure it out. The OP has already done sm to even find a new home cus they clearly can't take care of an animal. An animal isn't just another toy you can disregard and only use when you feel like. It's a commitment and one the family clearly wasn't ready for.

[@voyagerNO]

So you are thought to see all men as predators. That is toxic.

[@qbbi]

What are you taking about?

[@Salem-pg6eh]

If you don't see all men as predators when you first interact with them, you're gonna get raped.

[@jeanbean_bc]

It's not toxic. However what is toxic is them demanding he apologize, and what they should've done is ask someone to verify who he was. We have to be alert because let's say they hadn't done anything and he wasn't who he said he was, something bad would've happened to her.

[@voyagerNO]

@@jeanbean_bc As I said, you are learned up to view all men as predators.

[@voyagerNO]

@@Salem-pg6eh Oh, here we go. All men are rapists.

[@imseansleader8098]

First

[@shadowboxer1]

Here's your gold medal! ====> 🥇

[@B1gbootyB0y]

Do people still watch you, I haven’t seen one of your videos sense 2017