People Who Had The AUDACITY

[@lifeisbitvlover171]

My parents would love him more for not being a typical manly man, and actually helping around the house with chores

[@Kyutie.]

SAME!!

[@lunarialoonatic]

And I would love him more too 😂

[@thirtyonepigeons9539]

Same with mine :) I remember being like 12 and told my dad that I’ll wash his plate for him and he said something like “No no its ok I’ll do it.” Then I kinda nagged him about it because I didn’t think it was a big deal to wash it. He then stopped me and told me that he was refusing to let me do it because he wanted to teach me that I should never be cleaning after a man or my future boyfriend/husband. Never forgot lol

[@marie34K]

My husband was a disaster with DIY .But it made me laugh . He could run the house and the kids perfectly when I had a job trip , but I was the one who tackled anything around plumbing or electricity , and it suited us both .

[@deannal.newton9772]

That's great to hear, I'm not in a relationship with anyone but if I had a man who isn't really handy or isn't a mechanic/plumber by trade I wouldn't care because I my dad taught me and my sisters a little about cars since he's a car mechanic and an electrician. So I could do a little of the technical stuff like with electronics, but I wouldn't be opposed to getting someone else to fix things around the house either.

[@macarenaledesma4837]

Perfect

[@laurentiare]

As long as the man treats his wife/girlfriend with respect and love that’s all that matters. I don’t care what you can and can’t do. As long as you put in the effort to respect me I will do the same for you. ❤️

[@laurao.o]

Also the girl needs to treat her husband/boyfriend with respect too :)

[@Zino_Kohiruimaki]

YS

[@raysonh4896]

If only more women taught this way

[@laurentiare]

@@laurao.o I literally just said that. Hence “I will do the same for you”. It’s called mutual respect sweetheart. ✨❤️

[@laurao.o]

@@laurentiare I'm not assuming genders here sweetheart, you could be trans or nb or anything else.

[@kazuhasgloves]

Damn, the first story was mad infuriating but he had the right to stand up for himself.

[@chloeeng6811]

she see him as a servant not a boyfriend

[@melizabernardo3124]

I got mad at the girlfriend. Seriously, girl? Don't ask anything than what your man giving especially if he's treating you like a queen. That's why you're working and earning money to pay someone to do the job that neither of you two can't do. Be grateful to your man that even though he can't do handyworks (don't know what it's called) he's willing to do house-works without telling you that it's your work as a female. My gosh the audacity.

[@elizabetholson1561]

(For context, I have little to no experience with actual romantic attraction and I suspect that I fall onto the aromantic spectrum.) Do people really not see these red flags while they're in a relationship? I know there are people who manipulate and gaslight their partners (which is terrible) but these situations make it seem like they just haven't seen that side of their spouse before or something. It feels like every time I watch one of these videos where there is a marriage/relationship issue, my first reaction is always "Get a divorce!" or "Break up with them right now!"

[@hannahgallagher2676]

Ace and maybe aro here. I wonder the same thing sometimes and I think there are a lot of reasons. Not having very healthy models of relationships growing up, thinking they can fix someone, being too afraid to be alone, etc.

[@meghaghosh2545]

Sometimes people only begin to show their true colours after they think they have you ''trapped'', like marriage or pregnancy. We do throw around the word narcissist casually but these kind of behaviours are more common than most people think. Most just shrug it off and don't care and the actual victims spend their days blaming themselves for all the issues because these people are excellent at making you believe its your fault.

[@ricebeansrockroll882]

One thing with these people is that they are usually not honest. Normally when you are with someone and discuss what you want in a relationship, share strenghts and weaknesses etc you can expect the person you speak with to be honest (or atleast try), but then there are some people that will just straight up just tell you whatever they think you want to hear. You say you value equality, _they_ value equality. Etc. And then they also sprinkle in other lies they think will make them seem like better people. Like family matters to them etc. A lot of these things are things you might never have a chance to "test" until something happens that makes you stuck (moving in togheter, marriage, mayor life crisis like someone dying and needing to lean on your partner etc). Like you discuss with a partner that you want kids, and they are so excited to have kids to! Lots of them. You talk of it often, then you eventually get married... few months in you bring up kids. Kids? They never wanted kids. (And not in the "oh, I have realised I might have had a change of heart" honest answer, but straight up gaslighting like they never wanted kids or implied it).

[@T_Cup]

Just to add to what's been said already, I think the permanency of marriage changes people's perspectives. On one hand, while dating or engaged, a lot of people let red flags go because they don't have that same concept of "Oh, this is how they're going to be forever", coz there's still that chance that the relationship and/or the person will change. And on the other, people do change once they get married, as though that feeling of "you're stuck with me now" almost gives them permission in their minds to lean into their worst behaviour as though marriage is an unbreakable vow

[@chloejarvais961]

It's because they love that person with everything they have, that is the partner they chose to spend their life with, it's extremely hard to give up a relationship that easy, people think that those red flags are just the qualities they dont like abt their partner, I understand them completely.

[@gred_and_forge]

Story 2: found the post on r/AITA cuz wanted to know if ther was an update, hopefully with OP deciding to leave husband. ther wasnt one but oh boy did the info i find make me hate the husband even more... there was 2 edits in the comments i found from OP. 1) someone asked OP why she still went home rather than stay with family or friend. OP said she moved to husband's town *away* from her friends and family, who she visits twice a month (was honestly shocked to hear husband lets her visit them that many times but wouldnt be surprised if he's tried convincing her to limit it to twice a year🙄....) For those who immediately had the same thoughts i did in that he's trying to isolate her here's the irony... 2) he's accused HER of trying to isolate him from his friends. reason why: remember how OP mentioned she was uncomfortable talking to the friend who complimented her dress choice and tried video chatting her. I figured it was cuz she was still upset and didnt want to make situation worse with husband by chatting with that friend. NOPE! Turns out that friend of the husband is constantly flirting with OP whenever he gets a chance, has made her uncomfortable (if thats what implied when she states he's been "overstepping") and is the friend that visits them *most* . OP has told her husband, but he brushed it off accusing her of making it up to isolate him from his friends 😡😡 I hope OP gets out of that marriage soon...

[@delaneyrall5805]

My brother had his grad party this past weekend and my mom decided to put up a picture of him in a Cinderella dress when he was 3 on his wall of shame. This boy decides that the best thing for him to do when he spots it is to yank it off and tear it up, but of course that only gets everyone's attention onto it then. All he wanted was for no one to see that embarrassing picture and yet that's exactly what happened cuz of his actions. Similar thing with this man in the second story. He was the one making a scene about it when everything would've been fine if he didn't.

[@haleyolson8365]

Wait, so your mom shamed your brother for wearing a Cinderella dress when he was three?

[@booklover1298]

1st Story: There is something wrong with the woman and her parents. Her boyfriend does most of the chores around the house (cleaning, laundry, etc), cooks, and treats her well/right. The woman doesn't deserve him. He deserves someone better. 2nd Story: Her husband doesn't care at all about her style/what she is comfortable with wearing. He wants her to dress a certain/particular way when they are with his friends or family. He definitely spilled the wine on her maxi dress on purpose, so that she would have to wear the expensive dress he wanted her to wear. The wife did the right thing when she chose to leave after he did that. The husband cares more about himself and is controlling. 3rd Story: Rebecca need to break up with Joe. He is toxic and doesn't have good sportsmanship at all.

[@NekomiSon]

Agreed. Being upset that he was able to do chores is just weird. I think it’s okay if he feels nervous using tools.

[@adeckard7517]

I love how much effort she puts into making a video every day

[@shadowboxer1]

0:05: Not all men are good with tools, and not all women are good with domestic chores. What's the big deal? 3:56:What a jerk! The fact he had the dress he wanted her to wear after he spilled wine on her proved he spilled on purpose. If he liked the dress so much, he should wear it! 8:38: Joe seems like who has to constantly one-up people, and when someone one-ups him, he acts like a petulant child. I shudder to think how he treats Rebecca. Also, it seems to me like the boyfriend in the first story got emasculated more than Joe did.

[@angel-nv7jk]

Rebecca was no better. She is too much of a coward to confront her boyfriend and so therefore has to take it out on her friend instead. Both are losers

[@weirdlycurlyplantstem8231]

If I was in the 2nd story, my petty self would dump some wine on the "backup" dress. "Oops! I guess I can't wear that either! Oh noooo, now I have to go home!"

[@rosepetunia1829]

First one: I'd like to see HER try fixing a door hinge.

[@ix_reii]

lol she'd probably defend herself and say something like "bUt iT's NoT A wOmAn'S jOb"

[@juliaqian6480]

And I would like to add why doesn't she do the "woman's chores" it doesn't make any sense. Why she would shame him for not being able to do something while she doesn't do anything at all besides work. Such a hypocrite

[@iiamyannii]

@@juliaqian6480 the only reason why she isnt doing chores is because hes at home im pretty sure if it was the other way around and she was working at home she would be doing chores

[@serenalin100]

My Boyfriend does all the chores too and is a chef who actually also likes cooking at home. As a kid/teen he’d rather spent time with his Mom in the kitchen than learn how to fix things around the house and never really liked power tools and stuff. I think that’s more than okay (him not being able to fix things) and I love that we‘re equal partners when it comes to doing chores. I‘m good at fixing things and feel comfortable using power tools. I teach him if he‘s interested in something particular and am absolutely all right with him not knowing or not wanting to do whatever. I think he‘s amazing just the way he his.

[@piegirl8263]

These people should nope out of these relationships

[@JeannetteMTroy]

Yes. When we were first married he started telling me how to dress. One day we were going to his friends for a cookout. I dressed accordingly. He said I needed to change because I was to underdressed. So I said ok and changed. When we got to their house we walked in and she was wearing an outfit that was shorts and halter top. When we got home I told never again tell me how to dress. That he made me feel like I thought I was better than anyone else. That’s how I learned I can wear whatever I want. Now I have to tell him how to dress for certain advents. Funny how things change over time.

[@mejustaverage9927]

1 story: She should be happy she has a man like that, yeh he doesn't fix things but he cooks and cleans and treats her right but if that doesn't satisfy her then there's something wrong with her 2 story: I think the woman should go with her husband's friend, I think he's really genuine and her husband doesn't even care about her style, he just wants her to be what he wants her to be and that's not how that works 3 story: That lady really should break up with him, he sounds toxic, obviously he has never been taught "good sportsmanship"

[@gred_and_forge]

Im gonna leave a comment about story 2, but decided to leave a reply here cuz i think you'll find this info veeeerrry interesting.... I found the original post and let me tell you: that husband's friend is NOT genuine. He said she looked great but only b/c he's constantly flirting with her. OP stated he always seems to flirt with her whenever he has a chance to, has overstepped in the past, and get this, comes over to visit more frequently than the other friends. But the real kicker? OP has voiced concerns of this to her husband and he not only didnt believe her BUT claims she's trying to isolate him from his friends, like WTH??

[@Lacxin]

@@gred_and_forge OP needs to gtfo of that relationship, seriously. That guy and his "friend" = human trash 🙄

[@superrandomuser]

i dont get why we're only focusing on joe tho, like bruh rebecca didnt treat her friend very well either yk..

[@gred_and_forge]

@@Lacxin 100% yes! Even worse he's the one isolating her; she admitted she moved to *his* town when they married, away from her friends and family. I will pray and hope that that poor girl gets out b4 that trash friend sniffs out ther marital problems and tries to make his move 😬😬

[@mejustaverage9927]

@@gred_and_forge obviously the lady in the second story needs to get outta that relationship and find a guy who would let her do what she please and not try to make her into something she's not

[@thefanmark5165]

That first story infuriated me. My grandfather did everything construction and around when it came to houses but I hadn’t had the opportunity to get that much experience but not being a handyman shouldn’t be a reflection of what a “man” is I mean can we say outdated and pointless mindsets

[@js8303]

I can’t believe some people’s audacities!

[@weresolovely]

9:40 I- This man has such a small masculinity for being mad over a game, also saying that she CHALLENGED HIM FOR A WALK? I-😂

[@Kyutie.]

HAHAHAHA for real!!

[@joelbusald6416]

Story 2 she did everything right except she didn't mention handing him divorce papers

[@froopster3425]

Omg 😳. My hubby does cooking, cleaning, laundry and all the grocery shopping. Hilariously I’m the handy woman 🤣. Been married 28 years so 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@roseydarksouls]

The first story infuriated me. Like what is a “man” supposed to be!??? I would’ve been happy to have someone like that🙄

[@chloeeng6811]

Me too people like him are rare to find

[@kimtaehyungswife9272]

Watching this after a very bad day. I already feel a trillion times more better thanks to you, Kyutie. ❤️It’s been one of the worst days of my life for reasons I can’t get into.💔But I feel so relieved after watching your videos. Kyutie, you are such a wonderful person. Thank you for being you, Kyutie. Keep up the good work! And give Coco a hug for me!❤️❤️❤️

[@Kyutie.]

i hope you feel better soon! just gave coco a BIG HUG!!

[@kimtaehyungswife9272]

@@Kyutie. Thank you, Kyutie! You’re the best!❤️

[@nineplustentwentyone26]

I hope that your day gets better! All the best in whatever you do

[@kimtaehyungswife9272]

@@nineplustentwentyone26 Thank you very much! That means the world to me!😊

[@yeet8627]

the line “every man should know how to fix things around the house” kinda irks me a lot. my family says it all the time too. it’s kinda like the equivalent of “every woman should be in the kitchen” second story: hmm I don’t think the husband was trying to control how she dresses. she can wear whatever she wanted when not with his family or friends. i kinda understand him because maybe he didn’t want his rich parents to know that she is only from a middle class family. i heard many stories of rich parents wanting their children to marry partners that are just as rich. idk i could be wrong. the husband is still wrong no matter the reason. he shouldn’t be embarrassed. the girl did the right thing

[@kurisuchiinu1206]

The parents in the first story reminds me of what our 'Dad' would want us to be. Girls are expected to know how to cook and do chores around the house. He would belittle our Mom when she cooks every time for him but not appreciate it. Instead, all he ever sees are mistakes.

[@symph0nyofdestruction.]

You always upload when I'm eating and looking for something to watch. I've always, and still do, loved your videos Kyutie! :)

[@solargomez2490]

Miss Ellen you are literally an angel you deserve everything. I love you as a person. Seriously you're the best.

[@Zino_Kohiruimaki]

As long as the man treats his Girlfriend/Boyfriend or Wife/Husband also Vice Versa with respect and Love, that’s all that matters. I don’t care what you can and can’t do. As long as you put in the effort to respect me I will do the same for you. ❤️

[@weresolovely]

For the first story I would be grateful if I had a husband who did the chores and cooked food plus isn’t that just a normal thing to do? Also pls the stereotype that the man does the work and the woman does the cooking is SOOO old 💀 It’s a basic thing to do both, like both of my parents cook, clean, do chores, and work

[@grussell76]

After seeing these stories, I'm happy to be single.

[@igotthejams4020]

This is why I hate stereotypes

[@who.o]

If I found someone like the boyfriend in the first story, I'd feel like the luckiest person. :>

[@chloeeng6811]

Me too

[@techochananyone8167]

You should go over stories that have updates to make it interesting😊

[@Aurochhunter]

Somehow, I knew you'd bring up the 'girlfriend can't cook' scenario.

[@ashlismith8596]

I don't blame the guy from the first one. At least he got help

[@o.m9514]

Thank you!!! Love the video!

[@theecholegend4988]

The audacity of some people! I wonder what goes through these peoples heads🤔 Thx for the vid!

[@rockyember]

your eyeliner looks so good today, ellen!

[@addy3542]

i love your vids! they’re always so entertaining and you always seem to upload at the best time! you’re amazing, Ellen :))

[@Kyutie.]

awww!!! thank u!!

[@JeannetteMTroy]

My husband also didn’t do any work around the house.he also didn’t help with housekeeping or cooking. Over time he has learned to do some of the work around the house. Also does try to help around the house with housekeeping. At the same time telling me that I could do things differently. That upset me because I cleaned cooked ect for years and when he finally starts telling me that I do everything wrong. We have been married 50 years so I let it go because it’s not worth it. I focus on us just being happy.so she should be happy that he has helped out from the beginning. Why doesn’t she learn how to do repairs around the house.in my opinion him being able to help her with the housekeeping then she should be happy.

[@sarahvlaskoo3519]

All these people are in the wrong relationship in all of these stories

[@nuttmare9438]

The girlfriend in the first story should be ashamed of herself

[@this-is-a-very-annoying-update]

Ifkr?

[@rosepetunia1829]

I know this is kinda “lame” comment since it’s not about the stories, but I have a question; Where did you get those earrings?? They are beautiful! 🌙

[@asteria2007]

I was thinking the same thing! They're so gorgeous

[@nobodyandahalf]

Kyutie your earrings are SO CUTE 🧡🧡🧡

[@-bassy-9433]

MAN I KINDA HATE IT WHEN THEY HAVE A GOOD COMEBACK AND IT ENDS THERE, LIKE I WANNA KNOW WHAT THEY SAIDDD

[@vixxy7856]

I stopped painting just to watch this i love you so much

[@connievankley8002]

For the last 2 stories: Whole man disposal services. Yes, the entire man.

[@jclowe735]

It sounds like the boyfriend/husband in the second story is self centered.

[@snowassassin2177]

First story. Dude, get out of our relationship super quick. Does she not do anything when she gets off work? Like yeah... dealing with rude customers one thing but not sharing the responsibilities is kind of irresponsible. Also being rude to you when you cook clean and do majority of the chores. No.. Second story. Girl divorced his ass right now. If you don't have any respect for you when you to have no kids and ride after you're married imagine when you do have kids. Having a father like that is absolutely horrible. My mother used to be like this at sometimes because I was a wild child and I prefer to wear comfortable clothing I could get dirty in and not dresses. I think it was mainly my grandmother's influence but I didn't like and I always would pitch a fit. Because I wanted to wear a Looney Toon t-shirt and sweatpants but I was always forced into a nice dress or nice clothes just to visit her. Three, Tell Rebecca she's being an idiot and if she doesn't treat her right now he won't treat her right later. Those are the toxic traits of someone you don't want in a relationship with

[@gamergirlmimi263]

It be the people you least expect i swear

[@apretztail1330]

He's complaining about a 60 dollar dress... here I am wearing dresses below 20

[@karasanchez9720]

Ahh loved it ellen make sure you and coco stay healthy and happy 😊 💜💜💜

[@carolynmurtaza1180]

Second story...I would refuse to go to anything involving his parents or friends as I don't want to embarrass him. Then if his family ask tell them the truth.

[@tracy238]

2nd story, she should have stopped his crap the moment he brought it up.

[@breeinatree4811]

My hubby and I have been married for 47 years. He doesn't know which side of a hammer to use. I loath doing dishes. So he takes over the jobs I hate and I'm remodeling our whole house. The things we don't like to do, we do together.

[@jasoncar7215]

2nd story. Put the $300 dress on and 'accidentally' spill wine on it too

[@this-is-a-very-annoying-update]

Yoooo!!! That's such amazing idea lmao

[@kristenswanepoel1449]

2:17 if it's so "trivial" then why doesn't she do it? She has hands and feet...and so she should use them. All of us can't do and understand everything...

[@hedigardai3507]

This yt channel is my safe place🥰❤

[@Jennasaur]

if second story happened to me... it would be divorce time cause i will not deal with that

[@randomapple64]

My favorite part of the day seeing when you've uploaded a new video!

[@helen.8975]

I cant watch your videos right now since i have finals 😭😭 wish me luck 🖤

[@anoniukas]

About the second story: maybe I would change the dress, but I definetely would tell all of his friends, that he bought me the dress, which I didn't like at all, tried to force me to wear it and made to do it by intentionally spilling the vine on my dress which I actually wore. Then, I would consider about going home on my own.

[@strawberry_yt7903]

The moon earrings tho- Amazing❤️

[@estherpoules8363]

Your earrings are so cool

[@amaadu-gyamfi1915]

I heard the first story on a different channel, the gf blew up on him calling him selfish unfair and lazy :/

[@cloverenbeerin137]

Nah, the first one though…he basically does everything. Why don't YOU learn how to fix things? What, you wanna be lazy and not do ANYTHING? You're a terrible girlfriend-

[@angel-nv7jk]

So it's okay that ladies don't have to fit the stereotype of doing all the house hold chores but every man should know how to use tools??? WHAT IS THIS DOUBLE STANDARD???

[@julianbigelow2794]

2:50 You know what they say about cliff hangers...

[@ruthlewis6678]

The poor woman in the first story: You screwed yourself big time.

[@plsdontforgettoeat]

1:26 geez girl! >:(

[@ashlismith8596]

I mean, really. The AUDACITY!!! What's wrong with these people? They need Jesus

[@parkgimmy4225]

I can't belive it's already been 3 months since this video was uploaded. That's just how fast I've wasted my time

[@spinasoul]

About the guy who wasnt a "real man" by his gf and his gf parents I have no idea why someone would say that, whenever my bf says he knows how to do something I call my dad to instruct us lmao

[@Vida7354]

Guy in first story should remains her that all she does at home is just sleeping and eating right when he is doing all the chores right in front of her parents

[@Dianiiii-k9b]

Your vids are the besttt keep it up!💜

[@madeline8831]

i found your account again yesterday and im so glad i did, ur vids are the best

[@ATM2306]

Hello everyone! I hope your week is lovely :)

[@shadowboxer1]

Another golden finish for Amaya! ====> 🥇

[@js8303]

Congrats you’re first! :)

[@ATM2306]

@@shadowboxer1 Thank You :)

[@ATM2306]

@@js8303 Thank You :)

[@cgamejewels]

First story: this is why you don't spoil your S.O. He should have called her out in front of her parents. He should have asked her parents what they thought a "real" woman is. Then broke up with her right then and there at her parent's house. Second story: why did he marry her if he was embarrassed by her? His friend who complimented her is trying to hit on her. 😜 I wonder if the husband knew that and that's why he married her. Her husband is so immature and controlling. She needs to leave him. Third story, Rebecca needs her head checked. Why doesn't she want to break up with an abusive boyfriend? It's not OP's job to make Rebecca's boyfriend happy. She should end her friendship with Rebecca.

[@polinadruzhinin1195]

The 2nd story she not exactly right before marriage he told her that she had to wear brand expensive clothes only with his friends and family the rest she could wear whatever she wants and if she didn't like the dress she could exchange for another one expensive dress little more of her style. And one more thing he shouldn't do that but he also felt uncomfortable with her dress

[@amateurflor13]

tbh i hope the first op broke up with her, idc why did second op marry that guy😭 and he has a creeper friend, nooooo

[@19WolfGirl74]

I’m a woman. Have no problem doing handiwork. I cannot cook to save my life though. I mean there are some simple and easy things I can make like toast and spaghetti and little things to survive, but otherwise I need directions

[@camilacastaneda3140]

just wanted to say that i love your vids and you are amazing!

[@shadowboxer1]

Second! Here's your silver medal! ====> 🥈

[@ashlismith8596]

Why should it matter what someone wears? And to "accidentally" spill something on it. Grow up!!!

[@bestie_jess]

For I think the second one the guy should let’s the wife wear what she wants cause the guy even said she looked nice thank you for the stories Kyutie !

[@kazzythehumangamer6107]

is it bad i would've packed the dress i wanted and "accidently" spilled wine on myself and that $300 dress

[@flowerjpotter1629]

Rebecca sounds as bad as Joe in her own way.

[@guysistarfiremillion]

Hai, kyutie. I watch you everyday and I’m quite a fan :D I just have one question where do you get your earrings? I think they’re so cute!

[@amrahedmond6814]

omg where do you get your earrings?? i love every single one in every single video

[@kshrali]

The first story, I think the parents made her grow up to think that every man should know how to use and handle tools. But I won't tolerate the way she doesn't understand the man when he treated her like a queen. The second The man is controlling as fuck. Good thing you left him, bae. The third, Joe is toxic, leave him.

[@gordon_rat]

I like cows Moo

[@emmagoodman6579]

Honestly for the $300.00 dress story I would have said thank you and use the expensive dress to get the wine off my dress and say now we can throw this ugly dress that you wanted me to wear away.

[@michaelkurtz1967]

She wants someone just like her daddy. Because he is perfection.

[@kondeko]

W upload.

[@rin-cp2mj]

I might just be dumb but how does a dress cost $300? The most expensive one I have is barely $15 and it’s pretty and lasted me for 4 years

[@blobbythepotato7062]

❤️

[@buck99]

❤ U

[@Zino_Kohiruimaki]

RZ

[@leviswindexrag]

girllll

[@rosepath3943]

IDK WHAT TO SAY BUT IM EARLY SO YAY IG?