People Who Have Had ENOUGH

[@js8303]

Literally the first man is just something else. Like sir, YOU try bleeding there and getting cramps the equivalent of a heart attack. He has no say in what she’s comfortable with wearing. It’s HER choice, not his!! Unless he gets his period monthly, he needs to just mind his business!! Honestly hate men like that, that care so much about this kind of stuff that they don’t even go through

[@js8303]

@Can'tthinkofaname THIS!! You have no control over what your wife does, let alone her period!

[@lunarialoonatic]

And also like how would he know? There’s literally no difference between a tampon and a lad. You can’t tell either way

[@js8303]

@@lunarialoonatic Exactly why would it even matter-? It’s whatever she’s comfortable with wearing

[@fictions_in_motion_07]

That 'consulting' idea sounded so wrong because it gave me a feeling that he wants control over his wife.

[@wisteria3032]

so sorry if I sound stupid but English isn't my first language and I'd like to check... tampons are internal and pads are external, right?

[@jennabunny7840]

To the girl who left her home, I think she did the right thing. I hope she finds a great apartment and a safe space even away from that friend who victim blames her for the abuse that she gets from her family. The woman in the heels had every right to take her shoes off. And I think she should call off the engagement because that family is toxic.

[@himeoni5238]

I'm so glad people think she didn't do anything wrong by leaving home, here in india they see it like it's a crime to leave your parents no matter how they treat you, it's up to you to decide and yet..! Ugh, so frustrating

[@jennabunny7840]

@@himeoni5238 That's really rough! People need to be able to make their own decisions

[@nancybell1282]

I agree about the heels. there are woman who cannot wear heels my mom was one she had to wear nursing shoes. Give back the ring!!

[@chantwins2191]

And the fact that like the parents do this every time something wrong happens and it's happened before it's like a threat and she's in the right like she had the right to and I'm pretty sure she's an adult then like the fact that dad like I can make you homeless if I want you you just did what they wanted and what they would have done

[@daniella9787]

That lost story is a red flag honestly. And I'd question the relationship in it's entirety. Has there been other red flags that she'd just brushed of or ignored? Neither my partner or his mom have ever or would ever force me to "suck it up".

[@lunarialoonatic]

It’s sad that she thinks the problem is that she embarrassed him and she should have sucked it up. The problem isn’t even that he lied. It’s that he forced her to wear heels because she’s short. Then had the nerve to say she should always wear heels and do him a favor? Then on behalf of short girls, don’t marry a short girl.

[@annhans3535]

@@lunarialoonatic Poor girl. Does not understand these people are trying to control her.

[@hannahlatham9208]

@@lunarialoonatic As a short girl, that would be so embarrassing and humiliating if my fiance told me to "suck it up" when I'm in pain. So glad that my fiance doesn't force me to wear heels, I do it on my own will. ❤️ I hope this girl finds someone that will love her no matter what ❤️

[@cgamejewels]

@@annhans3535 She's in that relationship bubble. She's so happy that she has a fiancée that she's willing to do anything and everything for him. Some men and women think their worth as a human is tied up with dating/marriage. The bubble doesn't burst until they have kids and reality punches them in the gut and kicks them in the face.

[@daniella9787]

That second story. Don't disclose anything else to the friend. She's on the parent's side even after the explanation. She'll def stab you in the back and either give out your location or tell your parents to come when you're with her. 🤐

[@himeoni5238]

Ohhh that's true, she's untrustworthy

[@jgw5491]

Dump and block her.

[@cgamejewels]

yep

[@vanillabeans4205]

For the second story, they aren't in the wrong at all. It's the parent's fault for being like that to her. They provoked her many times with that threat, so it shouldn't be a surprise that she left. Also, it's her choice if she wants to talk to her parents or not, the decision shouldn't involve or be in the hands of the parents or her friends that she is obligated to go and speak to them. Again, the parents threatened her with kicker her out / leaving her homeless multiple times, so why should she even come back to them if it's already a possibility they will use that threat repeatedly just to try to control her? It's good she left them as not only is she independent, but can prove that she won't take anyone's bs. And honestly, her sister should also move out and live with her once she is financially and mentally stable so that her sister hopefully doesn't end up taking up the parent's side completely.

[@avea8505]

Of topic but what is the character on your pfp ? They look cool

[@annhans3535]

She did exactly what they wanted. But she needs to find housing soon and new a friend. That one is too preachy...

[@3d3ntr3]

I think the problem would be the parents contacting the police and telling the OP was kidnapped, which could cause problems. But the parents don't deserve sympathy and it's OP's choice to speak to them or not

[@jq8164]

@@avea8505 Me too, I wanna know who the character is on their pfp.

[@ithinkmypfpiscool1311]

@@avea8505 I wanna know too. That character looks cool.

[@booklover1298]

1st Story: No uterus, no opinion. He was wrong when he told his wife that she should've consulted him before starting to use pads. It's her body, so she is the only one who has a say in what period product/products she uses. Her doctor told her that she can't use tampons. The husband needs to grow up and apologize to his wife. 2nd Story: The person shouldn't disclose their location to the friend they visited. The person explained things to the friend. The friend is on the side of the person's parents. I believe that the friend will/would back stab the person by telling the parents the person's location. The person made the right choice when they chose to leave home and cut off communication with their parents. 3rd Story: I agree with Kyutie that the guy is controlling. This woman needs to end the relationship with the guy. She also needs to cut ties with his family. He is toxic and so is his family. He lied about why he wanted her to wear the heels. He also told her that she should wear heels more often. He shouldn't have a problem with her height. A person's height doesn't matter. She had every right to take her heels off.

[@annhans3535]

🙏

[@tianaantonie10]

Yep! Also Her name's Ellen (◍•ᴗ•◍)

[@inspirationpixel6084]

Yeah, on the third story… my mom is in the 5’ range as well. She would’ve left him at the altar! 😂

[@Scarlett.Granger]

"no uterus, no opinion" is so amazing, I'm gonna use that for annoying folks xD

[@BeautyMonster1000]

The guys upset over periods and heels really need to grow up and get a life. No man has any business or right trying to control a woman. Do we tell them what shaving cream, body wash or deodorant to use? Do we tell them what clothes to wear? No. So they have no right trying to tell us what toiletries we are "allowed" to use. Our bodies belong to US, not them.

[@arleneclark6369]

Yeah that guy with the period problem is insane I would laugh if my husband said that to me. He said if she's gonna wear pads she can sleep somewhere else?? I would be like ok I'll be staying at a hotel..bye

[@cgamejewels]

@@arleneclark6369 he would have gotten kicked out of the house.

[@directioner_101]

Ellen is the most unprobelmatic person on KZbin ever. She keeps to herself and thats something I rlly admire abt her

[@rosepetunia1829]

Yeah. She is my #1 Favorite youtuber. The only reason I haven’t been active that much is cause I have been very busy. But I still love watching her videos and always will

[@Saamniferu]

For a second I thought you meant THE ellen. The not very kind one.

[@directioner_101]

@@Saamniferu you mean Ellen Degeneres? Yeah no definitely not her unless its sarcasm

[@justatouchkajm]

bro why does the husband think he can dictate a woman's menstruation routine ?? broo😭😭

[@himeoni5238]

The first one and the last one are the perfect examples of a toxic relationship that slowly and painfully eats away at your mental and emotional health, those girls really ought to saperate themselves from such gross Bs

[@riel4553]

That first story; he must think that pads leak and tampons are like a plug.

[@reyj2532]

In the second story, the parents didn't want them to leave because they wanted to control their child, they aren't "worried" about them they are worried they have no control over them anymore

[@pomii_sukii]

Honestly felt relatable on the 2nd story. I'm a freelance artist, so most of the time I'm at home sitting on my chair but sometimes i do house chores too and help out the house but only at night because i only wake up at night. But my mom and stepbrother always told me how useless i am for not even helping out on the chores when in fact that's not true at all. I try my best to balance out work while doing house chores and earning money for them. But with the amount of verbal and physical abuse, i've become depressed and anxious. Like the story, they even threatened me that they would kick me out if im useless, stupid and i'd be homeless. Even if I'm not there in that house, they can't even tell the difference because they feel like they are a complete family even without me. It's suffocating, i can't breathe in that house. It even made me push into suicidal attempts. It felt like no matter what i do i will never be ENOUGH. I went mad and decided to use my savings that I'm supposed to give them and decided to move out with my girlfriend. Luckily, it was pandemic at that time, so I wont be able to see them even if they found out my address. For a year, they barely visited me (not even on my birthday) and they lied to my relatives that i was homeless and unemployed. They criticized how i live and why i spend cat food on my cats. .I went to therapy and slowly I'm recovering from my trauma. Recently they have been contacting me to ask for money. No " how are you?" "how have you been?" just directly asking money with a bunch of excuses. It made me realize how they see little value of me and that i've accepted that i have no parents anymore. And finally blocked them on social media and deleted their contacts. I won't lie, even if it's the best thing to cut them off i still miss them. But for the sake of my mental health, i've decided that this was for the best. --- (PS: I've tried so many times to talk to them how i felt and how I'm not mentally okay anymore. They would tell me they understood but behind my back they would laugh and say i was SENSITIVE. I was always on the topic of their family dinner as the laughing stock)

[@annhans3535]

Stay no contact. You don't need toxic people. With time and effort you will become confident and strong. I had to cut my family off because it was taking too much from me, I am their bank and money tree. There is nothing more awful than feeling like you are nothing to these people but the money tree. There is no how are you doing, are you well, Or how are you kids doing....nothing like that. Just the Ann we need money for whatever reason.

[@krohme8005]

2nd one: they should be the one to decide to tell their parents. And they decided. If the parents care so much to kick them out and repeatedly threaten to do it again then they have no business worrying. Their family situation sounds unsafe, so I'm glad that they are out of it. 3rd: If he has a problem with her height, then he should be the one to suck it up. Also if she has to wear heels to make himself feel better then maybe he should deal with that on his own. Not force it onto her. Also him being dishonest just to get her to wear them is not pretty. If he's gonna make such a big deal about her height, which has no bearing on a person or their relationship/status, then I don't think the marriage is gonna last long.

[@diaryanjo]

The second story I can relate too on a personal level. I've heard that threat so many times growing up. It was my parent's and older sibling's go-to threat phrase to get me to do ANYTHING for them. Never had any civilized conversation with any of them at all growing up. They were only interested in their own self and really didn't know how to communicate at all with me. My last day living in that house with my parents, same threat came out of my dad's mouth to just get me to do what he asked. Didn't care about my own mental, physical and emotional health. Just NEEDED me to do as he said and abused his authority for living in his home by threating to kick me out. After I finished the task on hand, packed up and left to go live with my now fiancé. I was an adult by then as well. They couldn't stop me. And I was glad the cops got involved too. For my own safety and my fiancé's. The last threat that came out of my dad's mouth was basically threatening to shoot me like a dog. Too bad the cop didn't understand our language. Really wanted to translate that for the cop. This is not a regret for me. It's a relief from the emotional and mental abuse. My siblings can make the excuse that "We only say that because we love you." No. That's not showing love. That's manipulating and threatening your own family to do things for your own gain. That's not how you communicate with ANYONE. They love to bring up the fact that I seem to disrespect or don't care for any gatherings they plan. There's a lot of problems with that too. They claim they informed me, yeah you're informing me like not even a week before the gathering. Or I was never informed yet they push hard that they DID send me a text. Say I somehow show up to the gathering, well now I'm in a dispute with one of them over something. Any conversation or topics just gets turned on me as if I'm the one who's in the wrong. It's suffocating. Hearing the same thing over and over. It's just better to interact less with toxic people who never have the intention to be there for you. They don't want to understand. They don't care. They make up their own little fantasy of your situation as if they understand and know how to read between the lines from just a few sentences. Yet they don't even actually interact with me on a day to day base or even live with me. Their entitled to be vocal about my life choices is absurd to the point I just laugh. Because I know my choices have saved me mentally and emotionally. And I know the truth about my relationship with my fiancé. That's all that really matters to me right now. I don't regret walking out of that house. Where I went after walking out, is none of their business. The person in that story, has every right to decide for her their own sake.

[@himeoni5238]

Agreed agreed agreed a thousand times over, I can kind of relate because my childhood is filled with crying in the bathroom because both my parents are the "tough love" type and don't really know how to show their care, now that I'm older I get that they care but when I was younger I suffered a lot to understand their personality and it made me hate them a lot, now even if I understand it's impossible for me to care for them, they did this to themselves, scaring a child at a young age leaves a permanent scar, but i too would just let it go if they showed even the slightest bit of remorse for treating me like that and hurting me but nooo they think they're not at all in the wrong and LAUGH at me for making a big deal out of something that happened years ago, it's always the most insensitive little things that hurt the most, so I learned to stop caring about them altogether, they supported me financially and I'll do the same for them, end of story

[@runway5338]

Damn I wish you did get a cop who understood your home language so that you’d have been able to get a restraining order. That’s quite a heavy situation and I’m so happy you got yourself out of that toxic environment. You cut the cycle of abuse but who knows what your siblings will do w/ their own family if they ever have one. At the very least you can keep yourself and your fiancé safe. May you have a peaceful and joyful home life from now on. Don’t forget that you’re strong for having put up w/ that BS and leaving it behind.

[@notreallyagameranymore]

That's great that you left your toxic family

[@kazuhasgloves]

That first story is absolutely bonkers. I won't ever treat my future significant other in such a way, oh my goodness.

[@lara7927]

"When you come home you just want to feel safe"... This just made me tear up. God knows how long have I craved to feel safe and relaxed after coming home :(

[@phoenixkwon]

If my man said I needed to talk to him before I used pads I would have shown him the door

[@marcywu5005]

So many people that just need to run from these relationships as fast as they can.

[@js8303]

I have had enough, PERIOD. Kyutie is what keeps me going😌

[@kimtaehyungswife9272]

Watching this while I’m feeling pretty burnt out and I already feel a thousand percent better. Kyutie is such a mood. 😄Thank you for being you, Kyutie!😃🥹

[@stayxarmygirls4253]

ARMYYYYYY!💜

[@dawnwright9178]

Threatening to kick their child every single time they have an argument is awful. I was in the foster system and one of the families I lived with did this same thing and it is so traumatic and creates so many future. It’s a good thing that she decided to kick her family out of her life. They don’t deserve her and she doesn’t deserve being treated like this.

[@ashlismith8596]

I've had enough. Periodt!!! But as a Christian, I gotta be positive and accept that life is crazy

[@lunarialoonatic]

My life 😂 trying to keep everything zen

[@breannesmith8580]

At my college graduation I was so nervous that I had fainted while in my high heels. Luckily, I didn't hurt myself and there were people there to help me but the best part of all was that I had brought flats and left them with my boyfriend just in case something like this happened. I sat in my assigned seat barefoot until he came to give me my shoes and I was a little embarrassed at first but it was better than falling over again in my heels.

[@connordoesexist1807]

imagine if heels can be detached and can work as flats

[@himeoni5238]

Awww that boyfriend seems like a keeper now, I hope he'll keep treating you nice and it'll go well with him from now on too

[@breannesmith8580]

@@connordoesexist1807 That would be a great invention 😁

[@Neighbor-assistantYN]

I was out of highschool and my mom had me in a 9pm curfew. Sometimes I was late due to traffic, work or due to weekend random traffic stops since a jail is near by. Usually I was early. One night after 9pm my mom Flipped out, threw a thin blanket and my work clothes on the porch, then locked the door and told me to sleep in my car(in freezing temperatures, was not allowed a key) so I drove to a friend's house. I had work in the morning, so I definitely wasn't getting sick. She blew up my cell asking why I drove off. Obviously to stay somewhere warm. She yet again threatened to kick me out for being late again from work. I grabbed a duffle bag, got extra clothes, my mini cash box, a few necessary items and told her I'm moving in with my BF. She woke my dad to tell him to make me stay. He just handed me a $100 bill, told me to be safe and went to bed saying he ditched home at 15 due to his chaotic family issues, he's not a hypocrite. Mom was fuming.

[@ladyofthemasque]

That guy at the end has zero consideration for his fiancée's health & welfare. No, he thinks only of whatever "looks right." DUMP HIM, HE LITERALLY IS NOT HEALTHY FOR YOU.

[@Queerlien]

The second one was way too relatable. My parents were exactly like this person's, once I finally left I cut contact and you better believe my parents turned around real quick and begged for my attention. The threatening to kick me out thing was just the cherry on top of everything else.

[@qnkendra1523]

After enough threats of being kicked out sometimes the best answer is "bet?" and leaving. I'd probably have left a note or something a little biting and go straight no contact and anyone pushing for contact would also be excised from my life. Well when I was younger I did forgive and let the 'rents back into my life but enough times of bad behavior on their part has taught me to take them at their repeated base line and better my life by keeping them removed.

[@darkbladetri]

Interesting fact high heels were actually designed for men not women as height was a social status thing back than

[@OrphanDefenestratorODK]

Heels story: when it's over in the middle of the night ducktape high heels to his feet and when he wakes up say "It'd time for you to feel the pain" spend a day out with him and don't allow him to sit down by bringing around a mouse trap or something and when he says "it hurts let me take it off" just say"Suck It UP"

[@lunarialoonatic]

The dude in the first story- excuse me sir no uterus, no period, no opinion. But seriously she could say she was wearing a tampon and he wouldn’t know. How does a pad bother you that much. Would you rather have blood on the bed?? God I hate when men get involved in WOMEN matters. Girlie can do what she wants. Sleep on the couch then buddy

[@zainabtanweer2910]

Ellen's mismatching earrings are so pretty and they always suit her well🥰🥰

[@thekathrynwest]

With the heels story- I wore heels to church one day to be taller than my bf, then got tired of them and proceeded to walk around church for an hour and a half barefoot due to an event and I was over heels. No one batted an eye, but also most of the girls in my church will walk around barefoot if they’re wearing heels and have an event that goes longer than normal service

[@relaxium3618]

And I mean, if short wife doesn't fit his aesthetics, he should have just married someone taller. If your SO needs to fundamentally change the way they look in order not to embarrass you, they are not the right person for you, that's the basics.

[@thekathrynwest]

@@relaxium3618 exactly. I’m lucky that I got one that doesn’t care if I’m in heels and taller than him. He also doesn’t care if I’m in flats and shorter than him. He always tells me it’s my choice what I wear

[@thereal47bullets]

Last one make him wear heels for a whole day like he made them do then if he takes them off yell at him and say he's embrassing you like he said

[@Black_Trojan]

I may not comment on every video but I really these videos, no cringe, no hate, just storytelling with a pretty narrator with a soothing voice. Support Ellen all the way!!!✨🔥

[@degen83]

IF your parents have a history of kicking you out for a week here and there and you are now over 18, and they threaten to kick you out again, leaving is the right thing. It would be good to tell them you are moving out but the parents seem toxic. I've seen loads of girls take their heels off in public, its not big deal. It might be more of a big deal at a really posh setting where they care more about apperances than comfort, but if thats the case better to learn that now than later.

[@ZombieLeo94]

For the third story I think she should have stepped on his foot with the heels 👠 🤣

[@harryboyes2812]

First story. I'm a guy and I think that first "man" is 100% an idiot. Her body, her choice. End of argument. Last story. Again, her body, her choice. If he's this controlling now then how the hell is he going to be once she's actually married him? Best thing she can do is swap those high heels for running shoes and run for the hills as fast as she can.

[@himeoni5238]

You said it so well! Completely agreed!!

[@harryboyes2812]

@@himeoni5238 Thank you. I have a lot of female relatives, so you could say I've learned a thing or two.

[@hakeemahharisu4113]

Sometimes, these stories are just so heartbreaking.

[@Erika-wr1pb]

As soon as I saw the notification I clicked it. These videos are what I'm here for! 💙

[@cruxal216]

The first one the husband should be hooked up to period simulator so that he understands how his wife feels every month. Idk why some guys feel the need to dictate their partner’s body. Ima say it and ima say it again no vagina no opinion. The wife in the first story doesn’t need to consult her husband to use pads it’s her damn body why tf does she need to consult him. The husband knows better he knows that doctor advised against his wife using tampons.

[@ashleigh9255]

The period one reminds me of about a year or so ago when polititians in the UK said that girls can't use periods as a medical reason not to do something such as sport at school because we are born with it and its not a medical issue. Like no, sorry but one, people can be born with medical issues...and two some people are told to go on to contraception to help them to stop bleeding to the point where they feel dizzy, sick, tired and lose their appetite. Therefore, that is a medical issue if they are on medication to help them feel better

[@Krisna_K]

Okay, I’m up to the high heels story and NTA on all so far! I’m short too and I cannot do heels and have refused to wear then! I got married in 2019 and wore flats! My husband has taught right by his momma about women as far as things he can’t control! When you are the one who bleeds, you make the decision about what products to use! That guy need to go home to his mommy!

[@gamergirlmimi263]

Ellen I hope you live forever because Your amazing personality and you are just so beautiful you Inspire me everyday 💕💕🥹

[@mega_marcin2423]

Kyutie always makes me relaxed with her videos. Her videos are both funny and soothing. Such a relaxing voice 😇

[@JeannetteMTroy]

That’s a yes,no situation. Time for a sit down talk, but it should be through counselor. She can be the person who makes sure each person has a right to say what ever they want and no one else should interrupt they can talk when you are done or anyone else who’s talking. Tell them how bad it makes you feel every time they say they going to throw you out. As far as housework there should be a list and everyone has to be on that chore list. Then you write down what you can contribute and the rest of the family does the same. Try to make it a competition. Don’t forget dad has to be on this list. Good luck and have fun with it.

[@june_clouds1687]

okay let me be honest my dad called me useless too but i wish i had the courage to talk back and actually left the house at that moment without just standing there in disbelief and crying my self to sleep till now lmao

[@howdoyouchooseayoutubename2660]

About the woman who was told to wear high heels more often, wearing high heels for too long too often can actually cause long term and even permanent damage

[@elizabethdeal3928]

Currently pregnant but i used to argue with my husband about tampons. Turns out i have a tilted uterus and tampons really are tricky. Just a note: he grew up with only sisters so i can understand why he is biased. He didnt argue very much about it but it was annoying when he did. His female relatives bugged me about it too, so it wasnt him being petty and controlling. I dont think he will argue now that he knows i have a medical reason.

[@Strauberry69]

I was bored and kyutie posted. Perfect timing :)

[@XxBrittany20xX]

I applaud the person who left her home. She has toxic parents and I know cause mine were the same way but worse. Mental, physical and verbal abuse along with threats of being kicked out and so forth. I cut them off, told my parents off and blocked them. Yes they tried to trace me down also and get numbers from my friends and some ppl who knew knew took their side when they said lies about Me. So I havent spoken to them in 6 years. I been happy ever since. They have burned their bridge with me. I won't allow them to hurt me anymore. I'm 30

[@ni1281]

I love the colour of the lip tint she's using 😩

[@noticeme6412]

I feel like people who say to stick with family members have never grown up in an abusive family

[@himeoni5238]

Agreed... I personally think if they don't understand the abuse even after being explained, even if they didn't personally go through it, it should still be understandable to a certain degree after all, if they can't even comprehend that much, they're sure to hurt their own children in the future carelessly cause they don't even understand that it's abuse... It's just what I personally believe though, so I can't feel comfortable with people who don't understand or at least try to show they care even if they don't understand when I'm going through shit in life... Ever problem is a problem, big or small regardless. Even if a knife doesn't kill one person, another might still die from the same knife stabbed in the same spot because it just affected them way more and made them bleed way too much... Every person is different so even the way they handle a situation will be different, if you can't get along with someone it's best to be with someone you CAN get along with

[@scrollingiswhatido0.o845]

Videos like this make me feel glad I’m single, and I’m completely fine with being single for the rest of my life. Some men are just such inconsiderate bastards 😒

[@camillebabin7144]

The fiancé of the last story, is a jerk. Who care if is girlfriend is tall or small , love have no height.

[@ParagonEos]

When I wear heels I ALWAYS bring a spare pair of shoes along. Not only that. If something like that embarrassed him, he’s in for a lifetime of embarrassment.

[@yulingxie7855]

YESS THE QUEEN POSTED 🥰

[@shadowboxer1]

I don't get guys who are so obsessed with the menstural cycle. Seems like every guy I ever knew was something like, "Ewwww, gross!"

[@colinloh6427]

The first story is where the line 'My body, my choice' comes in.

[@Birdie10_26]

2nd story sounds like my dad, without actually kicking me out ever. Honestly, he loves me I know and also cares for me, but his temper and choice of words are so arrogant, he would say things like this and when I would argue back he would say I am being disrespectful. I am an adult and in our culture we don't leave home when we turn 18, some do leave but most don't. Some men even stay with their parents after marriage. Mostly he is nice and tries to help as we are only two members in our family, but taunts like this always gets me. The last argument we got to end up him being said that he would kick me out, and no one in my age group is jobless anymore. I answered back that I'm jobless because I am forced to stay at home because he is ill, and not to ever threaten me again or I might just leave, and he would be hanging there with illness and no one to look after him because of his arrogance, whe had a bit of argument after that but didn't say much more, and later I felt bad because I know he cares for me and he loves me dearly, but God his attitude and arrogance can be too much at times. Honestly, sometimes I feel like to just pack my things and leave without ever looking back, but he is ill and we omly have each other.

[@annhans3535]

Good that you stand up for yourself. You have to in order to show them that you are not weak and useless, as they think you are. Just because they love you don't mean that they can't be abusive. You sound young, don't spend all your youth caring taking care of someone (even a loving father) because that time will be gone so fast and one day you wake up middle aged with no job, skills or ability to take care of yourself. With depression, burnt out and nothing of your own. Take this time to get an education, get a job and you can pay someone to watch him. 💛🌻

[@Birdie10_26]

@@annhans3535 Thank you so much, this means alot 💖. I am actually looking for jobs now, I have completed my Masters, but the gap have been so huge now, I completed my Masters 3 year ago and my suddenly fall ill which he is still recovering from, so the gap is making it hard for me to find job, and I think I'm also being picky about the jobs, as I had mentioned earlier that my dad is ill, and I am looking for job that will enable me to both work and take care of him. But as you said trying to do both might just end up in disaster. Thank you for the advice, I'll keep in mind :)

[@Shreya-fc4bi]

Omg Ellen I love ur hat and outfit!! Super cute!

[@minrui]

Its pretty common in my city (and country) for women to take off their heels at public events. weddings give slippers as like attending gifts... so yeah, it is indeed pretty common

[@missincognito452]

That fiancé sounds like a real drag and she should give him the boot. At my wedding my heels hurt my feet so bad that after our ceremony, my husband insisted I take them off and walk around barefoot. I forgot my flats at home, but we lived a mile away from the church, and before I knew it he had gone home and come back with my flats. If someone is more concerned about someone’s opinion over your well-being and comfort, they’re not marriage material.

[@amybrock2592]

That third story- she should take that as an early sign that she should call every thing off. It's not only super-controlling behavior from him, but from his family as well. Is he going to dictate how she styles her hair and what she wears as well (wouldn't be surprised)? Get out now, or be prepared for a lifetime of emotional abuse.

[@nancyomalley6286]

Reminds me of the husband who brought the dress to dinner that he wanted that OP to wear instead of the floral dress she chose.

[@jennauwu7336]

Literally just staring at her earrings the entire time

[@Black_Trojan]

Seriously, these boyfriends deserve to be single

[@JesusKreist]

First story: It is not about her choice or not. He feels he is the man in the house so only his word alone has power. The old "women should be in the kitchen raising the children" trope. On steroids. Second story: If mom and dad were "good parents" it would be understandable if they are just worried about OP's safety. But they are not. It is about a renter (I bet for the "privilege of living here" some amount of "help" was "requested") and slave labour that suddenly fled without notifying the masters first. What is going on is the classical "golden child syndrome". The sister is precious and should not be bothered by lowly housework. The overworked, tired and hardworking failure should do it. And be glad. Third story: It was never about the heels or the height difference. It was a variation of the same "the woman should do what *I* say!" issue. Not only the flag is red. The flag pole and the grass around the foot are as well. Get away from that toxic family ASAP. If you "just suck it up", they gradually will destroy your self-confidence and leave you traumatized.

[@marytichelaar7225]

I'm getting a sense of deja vu. Like again? Honestly I'm only going to say this once...... men you don't have a period, and unless you get one don't talk to us. Or more appropriately don't complain about it unless you know what we're going through don't complain about it. Seriously the first guy was bad enough with having a problem with tampons even though it's not affecting him. And this guy...... let me spell it out for you........ it's doesn't affect you! Therefore you should have nothing to complain about. So therefore you should stop trying to control the women in your life and actually focus on your own life! That's all I got to say.

[@connordoesexist1807]

No uterus no opinion. Period.

[@qwertyuiopasdfghjklzxcvbnm3093]

@@connordoesexist1807 .

[@thatonequeen4837]

@@connordoesexist1807 Why cant they have an opinion? Yeah they don't have a period, but they still have to be around someone with it. I understand him having a preference, but your wife's health should be more important than that.

[@connordoesexist1807]

@@thatonequeen4837 I just recited a meme quote. No need to be deep.

[@thatonequeen4837]

@@connordoesexist1807 I'm not being deep, just simply asking a question jeez....

[@mahnoorsalman876]

first one: throw the whole husband out.

[@tintinismybelgian]

The last lady should get her fiancé a pair of heels as a wedding present and have him wear them for the wedding. See how long he lasts.

[@h.s.l2503]

The second story reminds me and my dad. Except I stayed with friends.

[@ivnoormann7151]

Man these men really need to take accountability for their actions

[@carlajones9506]

Tell him you do not like the way he looks in the mornings and to leave at 3 am so you don't have to see him.

[@mazieglick563]

The first story is just wow.

[@Kyutie.]

right? :(

[@SavouryGalette]

That fiancee is a horrible, selfish person. Forcing your fiancee to do something uncomfortable to them for _your_ sake just demonstrates how selfish he is.

[@naymurdock827]

Period cramps are equal to heart attack pain doctors said... that first guy is a bad person

[@krohme8005]

I love your earrings !!! Your super awesome 😎

[@thegreatmoustachio7545]

"you're marrying your partner, not the fricken guests" is my favourite Kyutie quote

[@ellorasg4525]

The first story reminded me of my bratty cousin lol He would try to tell his sister what to do but their mom set him straight lol

[@pewcam]

some people have no brains

[@markcollins2666]

Back when i first started seriously reading books, the definition of "man child", was that of a young boy, with exceptional maturity. Now, it's like completely the opposite. WHAT THE HELL HAPPENED?!?

[@markcollins2666]

@루나 the Pug 🌸 YES!

[@nowhereman7398]

What is the matter with people these days? My theory is all the chemicals in the food we eat, the air we breath, and the water we drink.

[@Nates_anime_artwork_yt76]

Yes I love your vids to death. Keep it up💯🔥💖

[@HannahsMusicAndNovels]

I feel like we need to hear from everyone's else's side of the story, bc some of these stories that Kyutie reads are pretty fricking outrageous. Not saying that they're wrong, but I know some people will throw in or take out extra details that may or may not drastically change to storyline. I always like to get the story fron both sides, abstract what's common from both sides, eliminate the bs part, and come up with a plausible conclusion. These stories don't really give you the chance to dissect the story since we only hear one person's side and not the full story. Again, I'm not saying that the people are lying, I'm just saying that I'd like to hear from the other side to better understand the story & truth.

[@aoifemuller3751]

Yup, like this view a lot. Though honestly the one with the pads is weird either way.

[@HannahsMusicAndNovels]

@@aoifemuller3751 Yeah, that one is a case of a male Karen lol 😂😂😂

[@niki-nz2lp]

agreed- i think for the heels one its not that bad but she could've sat down instead of like, straight up taking them off although there isnt much wrong with that for the pads one- yea we dont need a second pov for the one where they got kicked out- i mean you should tell them ur ok but idk what id do in that situation, it sucks

[@dreaminsomnia8487]

@@aoifemuller3751 maybe the husband has mental disorder related to cleanliness

[@aoifemuller3751]

@@dreaminsomnia8487 I really doubt it, but even then the whole thing just seems stupid. How are pads dirtier than tampons, especially when the person you're supposed to love and care for will get hurt using them?

[@anonymorse1335]

the last person should RUN RUN RUN as far and as fast as they can. this is the universe showing you a snippet of what these people r like. Run as fast as you can

[@Black_Trojan]

4:31 this story is so relatable

[@annasilvestre2984]

Some of y’all are talking about that first story and saying that sleeping with a pad is her choice. While that sentiment is true, the issue is far worse than that. You’re not supposed to sleep with a tampon in, period. (pun not intended). If you don’t replace tampons regularly, you could contract toxic shock syndrome. It’s normally not a concern if you’re switching out regularly and staying clean, but how on earth are you supposed to replace a tampon if you’re sleeping? I repeat: DO NOT SLEEP WITH A TAMPON. EVER.

[@MeemahSN]

That first guy is just- I don’t even know. Just get him out. Divorce him, please

[@pewcam]

first girl needs a divorce

[@lunarialoonatic]

So does the last one rip

[@charmanderfan1]

I've never worn heels but i'm pretty sure those things are torture devices

[@yumerei_vt]

now i love me some high heels but those things make me so uncomfy after a while. its not easy to stay in them when they start hurting

[@creepynugget6641]

I hope in that second story that they drop that 'friend' before they do something bad.

[@dindog22]

I hope the girl in the last story called off the engagement. if that's how he treats her now, it won't get any better

[@kozume323]

For the first story Divorce The second story Cut your friend and family off And the last Call off your engagement, marry that man and you’ll regret it

[@nuwailaboorany6689]

Bro you so prettyyy

[@Kyutie.]

brooo

[@justinchristoph3725]

Last story: I would make the fiancé kneel on grains of rice for hours, then tell him to suck it up when the pain got too bad.

[@monstermcboo7282]

People, please let me offer some advice as the mother of a grown son and one half grown son, and as the daughter (survivor!) of a woman who has some serious mental health and emotional maturity issues: as soon as you are old enough to work, start saving money. Do not blow it all on trends and instant gratification. In my many years, I’ve seen even “good” families come unraveled and even “stable” parents freak out and jettison their kids from their homes and their lives. Save that cash! Money is independence, and independence is power and control over your own life. If a choice doesn’t serve your goals, don’t make that choice. I myself was homeless a few times as a teen before I finally left at age seventeen. My children have always known they always have a soft place to fall with me. I have taken in a few stray children over the years and paid for hotel rooms and rent deposits for some scared and poorly-equipped young people, so I know what I’m talking about. There is no shame in coming from less than ideal circumstances. You can’t help that and you do deserve better. Start where you are and take care of you. You can parent yourself and grow inside by making wise choices. You don’t have to eat crap from anyone.

[@pancon9947]

People get irrationally angry about height. I'm very short and have never gone a day of work without a customer telling me I'm too short and the would prefer someone else. I'm a cashier which last one I checked doesn't have a height requirement.

[@Lunardoesart]

I understand the heels thing as I have EDS and it cause my joints to dislocate very easily and can be very painful, for this reason I wore some converse high tops that bedazzled to my prom instead of dress shoes because they don’t have any ankle support, well on teacher that a lot of student hate tried to dress code me and tried to tell me I wasn’t allowed in because my shoes weren’t appropriate, luckily the school nurse who knew my situation said that she couldn’t do that and it would be discrimination, I was allowed in

[@AditiSingh-ie6fy]

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