Gezz, that 16 year old kid that confronted his ''dad'' only to find out he wasn't his dad makes me really sad. He hated someone his whole life for a lie.
@wolfpackflt6705 жыл бұрын
Thats when those ancestry tests can come in handy
@naamuelric7015 жыл бұрын
Dude the mom is human trash
@jamesluqqy36975 жыл бұрын
Thats when you gotta step back and realize that his Narcissistic bitch of a single mother is the real bad guy here. Lied to her kid his entire life over some petty child support payments
@AllenTax5 жыл бұрын
@@jamesluqqy3697 I be cautious to people like that. If female & or male has any of the mental conditions. I worry to child or children being like that.
@caitlinparker17155 жыл бұрын
My mom did that to me to be honest, my whole life she told me my dad was this dude named James and I hated him because he wasn’t there. Well, I met my real dad at 14 and she had been keeping it a secret from both of us even though we were in the same town. She got drunk one night and told him. he immediately stepped in as my father, I’ve lived with him since then, even now I’m 21 and crashing at his house while I’m in college. I was so confused about all my feelings and anger that I held onto for so many years to a person that I didn’t know. After I met my real dad all those feelings of hate and anger went to my mom.
@protonjones545 жыл бұрын
I find the lack of cigarettes in this story disturbing.
@existence_95225 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@billylardner5 жыл бұрын
Fnord Fnordington Look at the thumbnail.
@Hetsu..5 жыл бұрын
@Fnord Fnordington And? I see millions of people smoking, the government isnt doing jack shit
@motooppGTA5 жыл бұрын
@Fnord Fnordington i think its just you fucked up Americans Canada is wonderful cigarettes are legal weed is legal natives sell rollys for $20 for 200 everything is fine here should move
@seantaggart73825 жыл бұрын
@Fnord Fnordington hey well smoking is --- *you know*
@Glace_cakes5 жыл бұрын
All of those who left their abusers are incredibly strong. Makes me very grateful for my parents being not shitty.
@thecoolnerdplaysvr56745 жыл бұрын
Its the hardest choice they can do. But when they leave they leave the hate behind and life gets better. Those in abusive relationships. It not your fault. And theres no good in their heart.
@jasonmartin47755 жыл бұрын
@The TacomaKid Go away CIA
@bee59175 жыл бұрын
@@mr.serious707 Hey bud, it's okay to leave an abusive relationship. You don't owe them anything
@xLionsxxSmithyx5 жыл бұрын
Ughgh... receiving Abuse is basically my entire life, I got me and my Older brother away from my mother after realising she had been abusing and brainwashing us for 18 years, I'm 24 my brother is 27, I have numerous Mental health problems and my brother is "Normal" for the most part, he just can't break away from the brainwashing and learned behaviour, which basically means I saved myself and my brother from an abusive future but as my brother struggles with change all he knows how to do is give out abuse, alot of people are trying to help the both of us but my brother is ignoring everything everyone is telling him and it's getting real close to that time where I'm just going to have to abandon my brother for the sake of my own sanity and health as He is reflecting the abuse he witnesses my mother giving me. Sad times and I know he won't be able to manage on his own but I have to put myself first at some point otherwise I could end up dead and I'd prefer to avoid suicide... I'm very intelligent but I am an extremely broken person so I struggle with life, Smart thing is not to die though. Suicide isn't the answer for me either, the world has taught me that as 17 times I've walked to go off myself I've always walked into a friend who has no Idea to this day how many times he's saved me and has no Idea how bad I've been. One day when I'm doing much better or even when my friend feels like he's a bad person I'm going to let him know
@thenewwistler60895 жыл бұрын
Yeah but literally everyone on redit lies
@lycaneen5 жыл бұрын
Can we get big respect for the boss who set him up for a new job
@nickkohlmann5 жыл бұрын
Yes.
@flippinin5 жыл бұрын
Mega respect.
@cowbats5 жыл бұрын
That's how mafia works
@nrggvrn55765 жыл бұрын
Respeccatory respectation in meganess of the highest order
@elgeorge4375 жыл бұрын
That was amazing
@Centurian-mt1ob5 жыл бұрын
My dad has been playing hide and seek with me for 18 years but I still can't find him
@redtankgaming78815 жыл бұрын
Maybe under the table
@DaPootisBird5 жыл бұрын
maybe in alabama
@anxbis47185 жыл бұрын
maybe in the liquor store?
@stray_bad_dog_5 жыл бұрын
Maybe at the grocery store, or the park?
@reggaekira12645 жыл бұрын
maybe he is the best hide and seeker
@renegonzalez82585 жыл бұрын
5:03 Gotta give credit to the boss. It always amazes me to see some unexpected help from others.
@gunnasintern5 жыл бұрын
12:16 “I know my username doesn’t reflect it, but I’m a Mom of two boys.” “[deleted]” Ok.
@raquanphillips14825 жыл бұрын
🔥
@ryanzumwalt45055 жыл бұрын
this question is from 2015 lol
@cherrykuromi08235 жыл бұрын
it was u/sirlongfarts
@ww96225 жыл бұрын
thank you marinette, very cool
@DaemonsAdvocate5 жыл бұрын
fatima ʕ•ᴥ•ʔ should I ask how you know?
@lunschski78235 жыл бұрын
Sad how many of those are men being abused by women and who are not believed 🙄
@nickkohlmann5 жыл бұрын
Yup. Both parents can be wrecking a family apart.
@iamjacquelinemichelle26734 жыл бұрын
Lunsch Ski totally agree. If a woman hits a man she should have consequences as well. Violence is not the answer.
@robloxarabicgaming38474 жыл бұрын
LovelyRamirez FamilyChannel ah yes a respectable woman
@NoBody-zv6bh3 жыл бұрын
Yes
@nanakoblamna96323 жыл бұрын
You saying this just proves how better of a woman you are compared to those cheap people. Heck even if you’re a guy you’re still a better person than them
@TheOneWhoWatchesInfinity5 жыл бұрын
The one at 7:45. "The blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb." It's TRUE meaning is that the family you choose is stronger than your blood family. It is just misrepresented and people think it means the opposite.
@davinderc5 жыл бұрын
Woah dude... That's awesome to hear that!! This video and all its stories are taking me on the feels train, partly because I went through something similar.
@julietberg22735 жыл бұрын
Thank you! Someone said it. It always bothers me when people get this saying wrong and misunderstand its meaning. My dad uses it all the time, telling my sisters that I 'chose water over blood', and I just laugh because even when corrected he just won't have it. The guy never acknowledges he's wrong, and he's always wrong. xD
@epsilonalpha24305 жыл бұрын
That's false bro. That was made up after the fact
@OneEvanescent5 жыл бұрын
This has been debunked, the "covenant/womb" bit was added on to a mistranslation. "The traditional proverb is believed to originate from medieval German poet Heinrich der Glîchezære’s 1180 fable epic Reinhart Fuchs (meaning “Reynard the Fox”) in which he states "ouch hoer ich sagen, das sippe blůt von wazzere niht verdirbet", translating to "I also hear it said, kin-blood is not spoiled by water" in English. It’s believed this refers to familial ties not changing due to distance over the seas." www.quora.com/Where-did-the-phrase-The-blood-of-the-covenant-is-thicker-than-the-water-of-the-womb-come-from
@natkatmac5 жыл бұрын
where did you hear that? Because it's been debunked.
@luxidoor21735 жыл бұрын
Im glad my dad never did this, he went to buy some milk 13 years ago but he should almost be back
@nobullshit97214 жыл бұрын
Lolice damn traffic lol 😂 milks gonna be warm
@jaxmorris68654 жыл бұрын
Lolice got some gas and left yo ass
@sweiland754 жыл бұрын
It's obvious why he left you.
@236Nahidwin5 жыл бұрын
Man this makes me very grateful for the awesome family I have, 99% of my parents, sisters, uncle and aunts are the best and I couldn't wish better. Thanks God.
@cockroach-q9i5 жыл бұрын
What about the other 1%?
@236Nahidwin5 жыл бұрын
@@cockroach-q9i there has been this uncle on my father's side with alcohol problems and was just generally rude and stuff, but he died around the time I was born. And a nephew who has big time money problems but doesn't want to listen to our family even though they all lend him help, but they won't fully support him until he stops being so stubborn and listens to them. But those are just 2 "rotten" (not even that bad) apples in my family. Either way the nephew is still a nice person overall, just stubborn and in a hella lot of debt. He probably also has alcohol issues but either way, my family overall is awesome.
@alexmai39475 жыл бұрын
Same man love my family and I am blessed 👌🏿🤟
@themindset41645 жыл бұрын
Same dude. I've gained a whole new appreciation for my family
@save_the_bees5 жыл бұрын
Ayoubelk please hug and tell your family you love them, I’m very jealous of what you have. Never take advantage of what you have been blessed with.
@honeyandclay5 жыл бұрын
I have a pretty depressing story to tell. Basically, around 7 years ago I was just chilling around my house when I hear someone frantically ringing my doorbell. I’m a very paranoid and cautious person so immediately I was freaked out. I checked who it was and turns out it was my middle school crush! Now I haven’t spoken to him since middle school so this is very awkward. I opened the door and let him in, asking stuff that most people would’ve asked in this situation like “What are you doing here?” and “It’s been so long, how are you?”. He was shaking a lot so I asked him what was wrong. He didn’t really say anything at first, but eventually he opened up to me. He tells me about how is life has been shit for how long and that he can’t take it anymore since he has no one to talk to. I started to think the worst, that he might kill himself. He asked to stay for the night and I said yes. I didn’t have a place for guests to stay in since I had lived a pretty solitary life at the time so he slept on the couch. Flash forward a bit to midnight-ish and I hear lots of crashing and rummaging sounds. Once again, me being paranoid thinks someone just broke into my house. I look into my living room and see my friend seemingly looking for something. Now if I was close with him I would’ve went OFF, but I wasn’t so I was concerned about his mental health by now. I approached him and he is shaking like crazy. When I asked what he was doing he turned around to look at me and started sobbing. He walks over and starts hugging me and crying on my shoulder. I was then very uncomfortable but I liked it you know (middle school crush remember). I didn’t know what to do so I just hugged him back. After around a minute or so he stopped crying and tells me he is going to the bathroom. I am very worried now and wait for him on my couch. After how long, he still hasn’t come out. I check and the door’s still locked. I open it with my keys and he’s not on the toilet. I instinctively open my shower curtains and there he is. He had slit his throat with a knife he found somewhere in my kitchen Someone who I haven’t talked to in 10 years had just killed themself in my bathroom. Skipping all the boring stuff about calling 911, if I murdered him, blah blah blah, it ended up with me having to decide what to do with his body. I chose to let him be buried. To this day it still fucks me up whenever I think about it. I could’ve stopped him and he might still be alive today. Where ever you are Henry, I hope your doing okay now.
@silversmoke83985 жыл бұрын
That last part about "I could've stopped him" No you couldn't have. It's not your fault. You did what anybody would've done. A lot more, actually. I wouldn't have let someone I haven't talked to since middle school sleep on my couch.
@honeyandclay5 жыл бұрын
SilverSmoke Thanks for that, this is the first time I’ve told someone this story and knowing that it might’ve not been my fault helps a lot
@stancedcreator84925 жыл бұрын
You did so much more than you know. That’s a fucked thing to go through, but you handled it so much better than anyone could have. Stay strong ✌🏼
@christianbuscemi4305 жыл бұрын
You did the best you could and its not your fault
@shannond15115 жыл бұрын
Whos henry? The middle school crush? Im so confused, i thought you said he died, so how could.you wonder where he is or if hes.ok??
@bakurasensei5 жыл бұрын
Listening to some of these stories really makes me appreciate my situation alot more.
@ferrin63265 жыл бұрын
The more serious questions on Reddit do the same for me
@LiLiKOiOiOi5 жыл бұрын
Same. I never had to run away except for this one time.
@AbuRashidIbnArabi5 жыл бұрын
Ikr man Love yall have great lives may we meet again and not know we ever met on youtube
@chaotictae16425 жыл бұрын
YA PLAYA HATERS YOU SHOULD LOVE YOURSELF BRR HOW ARE YOU EVERYWHERE?!
@bakurasensei5 жыл бұрын
BTS Kookie What? 😂😂
@Donjuanantoine5 жыл бұрын
5 states in 12 hours?!?!? You fast. Or live in the North East.
@qwertyasdf40815 жыл бұрын
Antoine Wright any other Northeast boys here besides me?
@emmetropia66865 жыл бұрын
Pulling Your Leg nah
@emmetropia66865 жыл бұрын
Yeah
@acasualescapedscp44185 жыл бұрын
How about 6 in 10 hours? THAT is how you road trip
@047Kenny4 жыл бұрын
Antoine Wright north east.
@doorlocke80095 жыл бұрын
7:16 I hate when people quote the blood is thicker than water saying because they always do it wrong. The full saying is “The blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb," meaning the bonds you forge by choice are stronger than the ones of family. It literally means the opposite of what most people think it does so when I hear it misquoted it bothers me.
@eskimoassasin67645 жыл бұрын
Intresting. Thanks for the info
@mastershadowreaper5 жыл бұрын
Is that so? A much cooler quote ngl
@maskedbadass68025 жыл бұрын
Thanks for that info. Very interesting.
@leafyeevee59395 жыл бұрын
I know what you mean, it really bother me too.
@desi95585 жыл бұрын
Googled it out of curiousity and it has nothing to do with family or relations. Its meaning points to the bonds of soldiers in warfare.
@Jun-fm1kp5 жыл бұрын
My dad is a great magician, he disappeared but he said it was tricky to reappear, I hope he figured it out after 20 years
@jake403415 жыл бұрын
Sometimes we just gotta say-" I'm boutta head out"... and walk out of a shithole relationship/ situation we're in
@vinxk34695 жыл бұрын
Xbox friend: alright im going offline
@xLionsxxSmithyx5 жыл бұрын
*appears offline* *continues playing online* *joins the same For Honor match as me* Me: Oh, looks like you lied, guess I'm going to constantly murder you until you appear online again. *Records the decimation of "Thorn"* (That's a part of his name)
@ribeyemgtow17835 жыл бұрын
@@jadsmvs8651 But WHY did he leave? Meow
@thisisntsergio13525 жыл бұрын
2:50 was a great line. "Car can't go in reverse. Don't care, I'm only going forward anyway."
@Uejji5 жыл бұрын
"Blood is thicker than water" means "The blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb." It literally means that the ties we make when we make a commitment to one another are stronger than the ties that are forced upon us by being related.
@natkatmac5 жыл бұрын
Source? Google search says otherwise.
@beepmeep32585 жыл бұрын
@@natkatmac maybe it's just an alternative interpretation
@natkatmac5 жыл бұрын
@サイレントボイス Kind of. The first inscription is from Reynard the Fox from Medieval Germany. "Kin-blood is not spoiled by water." I haven't read the epic so I don't know the context. Though, fun fact, a Navy Commodore used the phrase as his reasoning for helping a British ship during the Second Opium War.
@oatmeal75635 жыл бұрын
It’d be nice if that’s what it means tbh. Not that I don’t believe I just haven’t heard that before
@ninalavorne20274 жыл бұрын
*Me literally just thinking about the one lyric from Hey Brother by Avicii and y'all are over here with this*
@lil_woody_4205 жыл бұрын
Reddit story: "years" Every reddit speak bot: "YURS!"
@aresrobinson35865 жыл бұрын
Ay. Blood is thicker than water doesn’t mean “family is stronger than friends.” The full phrase is “the blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb.” Essentially that relationships formed through choice are stronger than those through birth.
@ashishere7715 жыл бұрын
New fav quote
@natkatmac5 жыл бұрын
That's been debunked.
@eemelisaurila99405 жыл бұрын
natkatmac well technically it is now true, as people are using it like that nowdays What is true cannot be debunked now can it? And language and meanings change So it is nowdays said like that so theres noting to debunk
@dabossman56505 жыл бұрын
Ive heard it also rephrased as that tho TBH
@natkatmac5 жыл бұрын
@@eemelisaurila9940 The 'full phrase' is new, true. What I have beef with is people claiming that it's centuries old and that the short phrase is the butchered one. Look around these video comments for that.
@rockonmyfriend5 жыл бұрын
9:08 I hate it when all of my friends are doing math. Darn mathematicians.
@zoombabweeggwipe62635 жыл бұрын
My daughter got thrown in jail. The cops told me she was a math addict and I told them. Why the hell you thrown her in jail!? She's just a good study, it's unbelievable that people can get arrested for studying. So proud of my lil girl ❤❤❤❤
@yesman57725 жыл бұрын
0:05 and where did you come from, cotton eye joe
@Anonymous-xu9ld5 жыл бұрын
If it weren't for cotton eye joe, I'd been married long time ago, where did you come from where did you go, where did you come from cotton eye joe? I remember his song from chrome web store extension Cat Pet Meow or something like that.
@brandonfleming71185 жыл бұрын
@@Anonymous-xu9ld last time i heard that was when i went to Tennessee lmao
@andrososo62465 жыл бұрын
Man, I wanna join the navy.
@essennagerry5 жыл бұрын
This was (I think?) my favorite song when I was a kid and couldn't understand the lyric at all bcs I hardly spoke a few words of English. :D Not sure if the memory is made up tho… but I sure loved the song haha
@user-df4zw7yb4v5 жыл бұрын
No Man
@uwotm85 жыл бұрын
Americans "I drove 12 hours and was still in the same country" Me "I drove 12 hours and ended up in Germany (from Manchester, UK)"
@undead8905 жыл бұрын
Hell, if you are in the right place, you can drive 12 hours and still be in the same state.
@qwertyasdf40815 жыл бұрын
undead890 yeah some of our states are bigger than countries. Look at Alaska. Wow. That thing is like 5 small countries combined.
@undead8905 жыл бұрын
@@qwertyasdf4081 Alaska is smaller than only 15 countries in the world.
@karimhemdan014 жыл бұрын
undead890 from the top of California to the bottom is a 12 hour drive exactly
@leathernluv4 жыл бұрын
When the travel ban is lifted, I will drive 4.5 (10 hour) days in as straight a line as possible (to get home) and still be in the same country never having left it.
@gageboyce28615 жыл бұрын
We'll im about to be part of one of theese types of storys, wish me luck.
@bckatus5 жыл бұрын
Good luck I'm right behind you
@operaaa54495 жыл бұрын
You can do it!!1
@joyfuljo13225 жыл бұрын
Gage Boyce good luck buddy.
@lucasplasma16175 жыл бұрын
Good luck, make your life your dream
@leafyeevee59395 жыл бұрын
Good luck, be safe
@annaloopenheimer5 жыл бұрын
There’s a difference between being blood and family. These people might share your blood, but they aren’t family if they treat you like that.
@clexis145 жыл бұрын
When your smallish hometown gets mentioned in one. Holy shit that felt weird
@thiscouldbemark5 жыл бұрын
Pasco
@thiscouldbemark5 жыл бұрын
Or newpot news
@quill_bee5 жыл бұрын
I'm like 30 minutes from Pasco, it does seem weird
@celesteledore39135 жыл бұрын
Bruhhhhh west richland is where im from
@nanabat315 жыл бұрын
Newport news? I'm from a nearby town so that was weird
@michaelvincent52325 жыл бұрын
I have one and would glad if you read it. :) So this isnt my story but my brothers but we've had a rough couple years since 2015 my mother has been dating an arse hole of a guy which me and my brothers and sister had to deal with for a long time he has physically abused us and mentally scared us as well but one day was a day i dont think i can forget,A chill evening im watching my brother play his video games with his friends enjoying himself as well with my little brother watching too, We're watching him play then my mothers boyfriend calls down my older brother to have him do something he may have forgotten to do as maybe something simple as a chore (dish in the sink,take the trash out etc.) Call him down and....... it went to hell so fast the previous night they had a little argument because they dont get along very well neither of us do soo, but he calls him down to yell at him for something he didnt do and sh*t escalated quickly and (we'll call him bob as my mothers bf) and bob grabs my brother and yanks him into a wall now keep in mind bob is like 35 my brother is 16 huge difference there puts a whole in the wall and continues to bang on my brother while im watching this from the top of my steps from my room and i call 9 1 1 while my mother is trying to get bob of my brother finally hes stops my brother walks outside and just keep walking while he was walking bob took his stuff and tossed it onto the porch (game,clothes,everything) and my brother hasnt been home since lives with his best friend of probably 6 years now and he's been doing amazing since that traumatic night works a part time job gets good money has money saved up for a car almost has his license ready and has a trip to Puerto Rico for his gf family and i really look up to him cuz my father hasnt been much help with the situation and that was abt 3 years ago so dont worry life has been pretty good since thanks for letting me share :)
@-Anita--5 жыл бұрын
I'm happy that you shared, it usually makes feel better to talk about such things. Have a good day, both you and your family!
@yuno91215 жыл бұрын
R u still living in the same house as Bob
@squeguinquack25705 жыл бұрын
The title is slightly different from the actual video. Still, great video :D
@DeathnoteBB5 жыл бұрын
The title is the thread and the comments are the comments from said thread. The video is exactly what it says it is, people just keep telling adjacent stories that don’t answer the actual question.
@eugenesmells53735 жыл бұрын
Went out for cigarettes means leaving without notice and never come back
@booty_hunter42075 жыл бұрын
@@eugenesmells5373 but also it says where did you go and not many said that
@colorbar.s5 жыл бұрын
@@booty_hunter4207 obviously not everyone can say that
@gonkdroid39595 жыл бұрын
“Went for cigarettes” is an expression for lying about something, going and not coming back.
@satisfiedjelly5 жыл бұрын
I know this isn’t reddit but I’ll tell my response here : I left my old life 2 years ago and it had been the most difficult but best decision. My father had a tendency for kicking me out and then getting pissed when I would actually leave so he would call the police. They always caught me at school. Well he finally did it during summer and I took that opportunity to get the hell out. I was 15. My mom lived 16 hours away but somehow after about a month I convinced someone to drive me. And even though some negatives have happened I feel like if I hadn’t left he would have bullied me so badly to the brink of death. I’m still not in an amazing state but I just got an apartment with my partner of 8 months and right now I’m feeling good. So I say if you have the opportunity to leave a shit situation fucking grab that bitch by the balls.
@clement3705 жыл бұрын
gl with whatever you doing stranger!
@satisfiedjelly5 жыл бұрын
clement to you as well!
@chloegold76935 жыл бұрын
Honestly the timing of this video being posted seems like a sign
@chloegold76935 жыл бұрын
TiaHaruka0 that’s exactly what I was thinking. I wanted at least to know the next step, but honestly watching the video just left me more confused than to begin with. I want to believe in the idea that you can start fresh, but honestly I don’t know how realistic it is... kinda sucks
@savvivixen84905 жыл бұрын
The secret... Getting to the point in your life where you don't care what has to be done... Feeling that anything that could happen from the point you step out the door could not be worse than what would happen (or what you would do to yourself) if you stayed in said situation a moment longer (or ever again). Balls to walls is a terrifying place to put a human being... for both parties engaged.
@yousefa11475 жыл бұрын
I thought I was the only one who wanted to take his rusty pos to Cali and never look back. I needed to hear that story😭😭
@cryptocruise715 жыл бұрын
I was 14 on my way home from school. It was my birthday. I texted my mum il be home after dinner as my aunty was gonna make me dinner with all my cuznz. I never went back home. I just stayed there till i left school. *my mum was in a abusive relationship with my step dad.
@eldara35 жыл бұрын
What the hell is a cuznz
@cryptocruise715 жыл бұрын
@@eldara3 cousins
@doublenaut4435 жыл бұрын
Wait so you went back home or???????0
@cryptocruise715 жыл бұрын
@@doublenaut443 nah i never went to that shithole i called home. I moved back with my mum at 17. But the damaged had been done to her from my step dad. She was scary to me. So i left again. And never lived or really talked to her since. She'll leave me drunken msgs but thats about it
@nickkohlmann5 жыл бұрын
@@cryptocruise71 Hope you're good now, wishing you the best!
@edwardgaines65615 жыл бұрын
To everyone who had the courage to leave a bad situation, pat yourself on the back. *AND KEEP SHINING!*
@kohtea5 жыл бұрын
"i'm 36, and i'm older than my dad ever was" shit that broke my heart
@agoddamnferret5 жыл бұрын
Dude, these legit made me feel really awful. Each and every one of these people deserve any happiness they found.
@daveyishere555 жыл бұрын
Couldn't bear my life in America. I felt like I was wasting my life, so one day I bought a ticket and moved to Argentina. Best choice ever
@tereasdownes97934 жыл бұрын
at 18 i moved out of a abusive foster home in Ireland I havent been back to that house in 4 years and i dont ever want to go back there again
@cait1594 жыл бұрын
Tereas Downes I live in Ireland so that makes me sad
@Kat-tr2ig29 күн бұрын
Dude, I did the exact same thing. Have been living in Argentina since 2002.
@nickyball13875 жыл бұрын
Actually, the one around 8:40 is my boyfriend. And I'm the girl his family was 100% against. :D
@chanellelloyd8955 жыл бұрын
Ooohhhh
@joelangrehr61845 жыл бұрын
Lies
@meowmeow66765 жыл бұрын
I was in a really, REALLY bad relationship with my mother for years. Four years ago i realized i was done with her bullcrap after a huge argument. I was crying and said that I'll go for a walk to cool off. I took only my wallet, phone, charger and nothing else and just never came back, moving to a different city. She didn't even message me after for once.
@edim1085 жыл бұрын
The Family ones really got me in the feels. My Mother is an Alcoholic and an Abuser that tried to kill me on multiple occasions when I was a toddler- she almost did once but on that day my Dad came home early and saw her drunk with a knife standing over my bed. Honestly, we hear a lot about Shitty Fathers on Media, but there are also Shitty Mothers who shouldn't be allowed to keep a pet rock, let alone a Child.
@oscarmendez20435 жыл бұрын
Women are angels fallacy
@malhunt7 Жыл бұрын
It's true, good or bad parenting is not a gender issue! It's a human one.
@iaxacs38015 жыл бұрын
Watching and reading threads like this makes me so grateful for the caring supportive family I have
@airdrizi15125 жыл бұрын
i love reading these and understanding that random strangers can be more genuine kind and happy for you rather than your close ones
@aikou28865 жыл бұрын
7:43 Actually it is but the full quote goes as follows: "The blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb"
@KP-ru3oy5 жыл бұрын
Actually no it doesn't, stop believing shit you read on tumblr
@mikasaackerman62245 жыл бұрын
Throne Deathfall actually yes it is, a two minute google search would tell you this. But it’s actually an old quote that actually means that blood shed in battle bonds soldiers more strongly than simple genetics. Even though we commonly use it to suggest the strength of family ties, it doesn't refer to family at all.
@jordans43935 жыл бұрын
Throne Deathfall family is what you make it. If it’s through genetics or friendship. It all depends on the circumstances
@rstriker215 жыл бұрын
Mikasa Ackerman I did the 2 min search, it actually does refer to family, and how being across seas from them doesn’t weaken that bond.
@graviitea5 жыл бұрын
I see *[deleted]* everywhere, meaning that I see this person in every reddit video I watch. This person must have a lot of stories to tell.
@funnyfunnyvalentine79915 жыл бұрын
I'll be leaving in a few years tbh
@gunnasintern5 жыл бұрын
Hideous Hank same, but i’m in no rush, i’m just letting the flow of life do its thing and not worry about what anyone else thinks
@MachineStalkerWolfie5 жыл бұрын
@@gunnasintern For me it will be 4 years +/- few months for searching jobs far far away
@bckatus5 жыл бұрын
I agree I have a nice place but idk who is going to sell me out
@EricMtuhuru5 жыл бұрын
I'm leaving in a few weeks. I wish you all the best.
@nickkohlmann5 жыл бұрын
@@EricMtuhuru So do we to you!
@alexasulger5 жыл бұрын
These stories give me hope that I'll be okay when I run away from my abusive family. Thank you for posting this.
@coconoisette5 жыл бұрын
9:41 *"It isn't YOUR choice to move"*
@Devilinaf5 жыл бұрын
My mom lived in California, was in college, worked two jobs and was in a very abusive relationship. Her (obviously now ex) had smashed her table and that was the moment she decided enough was enough. She packed everything she could into her car, drove across the country to NJ to stay with her dad. She got a job, made new friends. Her friends asked her to go out for a night (two weeks into jersey) and that's when she met my dad and never looked back. Its been over 25 years:)
@Vlodkkdksp5 жыл бұрын
What if you don't have a life?
@RichRacc5 жыл бұрын
100 Subs No Content Challenge hey. You will get 100 subs.
@bckatus5 жыл бұрын
You probably will just be careful of the women in your life, They can become vipers at a moment's notice
@Reshi99845 жыл бұрын
He doesent have a life tho..
@somenbwithabadhistoryteach58725 жыл бұрын
We're halfway there boys.
@tylerajohnson035 жыл бұрын
I will help you on your quest
@Tiogar605 жыл бұрын
This just reminds me that no matter what bad situation you are in, the only one to blame for still being there is yourself
@Bigfoot_With_Internet_Access5 жыл бұрын
I don't even have a life to leave behind
@diegoarturo70875 жыл бұрын
You are not dead
@jerryboy11545 жыл бұрын
Same I could leave to a different country and the only person that would know/find out would be my mother
@nickkohlmann5 жыл бұрын
It never has to stay that way. Do something about it.
@augustkrummel67855 жыл бұрын
You always have one to start
@andrewsilver70485 жыл бұрын
How did they get the money to escape? I love hearing these stories, but the pain of knowing no one is there to support you or catch you when you fall is soul crushing.
@Dylan-tv4fx5 жыл бұрын
Imagine spending your whole life trying to find someone just to find them and they're not the person you're looking for
@anniesamuel47875 жыл бұрын
When I was 24 I got up and walked out of an abusive marriage. Hardest thing to do EVER. Didn't tell him (or pretty much anyone else) where I was. Lived in 6 different places in 10 weeks until I got myself sorted out. He was a narcissistic sociopath. I had what I would consider PTSD from the experience. He called me 7 years later and asked me why I left. I very calmly told him all the things I could think of off the top of my head. After that phone call I started getting better. 10 years on after THAT and I'm doing well and he has left the country.
@cww24905 жыл бұрын
That first story may one day happen to a cousin I know. Some woman told him he's the father and for like 2-3 years he was this kids dad. He moved to find better work opportunities and be closer to family in another state, and to my knowledge stated in contact with the mom and the kid. Well, him moving away and not being around, and her unwillingness to follow him probably lead her to finally reveal he wasn't the father and she got into contact with the real dad. I'm pretty sure the cousins name is on the kids records and if it one day turns out that this new guy isn't the father as well I can see the kid one day looking him up thinking he's the dad who left his mom. Even if still together the kid might make a phone call to talk to his father of 2-3 years. Side note. This whole situation had made adamant about asking any girl I'm with in the future who gets pregnant, girlfriend or wife, for a paternity test. I get its probably insulting to the woman, but I wouldn't back down about this. If the relationship gets serious I'll probably bring it up before any planned or unplanned pregnancy and hope hearing about my cousin won't make them feel I don't trust them. Seriously, I'm not taking any chances.
@johnhancock17485 жыл бұрын
A real woman should be able to accept that in my opinion. Especially if you tell them your intentions before they ever get pregnant
@shannond15115 жыл бұрын
Thats dumb
@alfredjones61305 жыл бұрын
Tbh the thought to run away is very appealing. I have nothing much to look forward to. Thinking about just getting in the car, driving in a direction , walking when the gas runs out, and just do whatever I want until I drop dead.
@emilysmith35945 жыл бұрын
7:30 “My grandma knows my parents are crazy.” Someone with this family dynamic explain why your relatives don’t believe their own mother. In my experience, mothers ALWAYS know which of their kids turned out the craziest.
@AdobadoFantastico4 жыл бұрын
Lesson here is that when someone walks away silently, it's generally because they feel unable to explain themselves or have tried and failed.
@literallyasuka29965 жыл бұрын
"Narcissistic Personality Disorder is more common in men than women" "Men only abuse women" Both sayings are completely incorrect in my opinion. Reading these people's experiences, most of the abusers are women, very narcissistic women, and most of the victims are men. I can relate to this. Most women in both my dad's side of the family and my mom's side of the family are narcissistic. My abusers have all been women. As a bisexual man, no male that I've dated treated me like dog shit, but the women I've dated have. Men that are victims never come out to admit it because society expects them to be emotionless. My mother abused both me and dad for so long, and we knew if we stood up for ourselves, we would be the ones in trouble, not her. I only know a few sane women in my life right now, my dad's gf and some friends that are girls. Again this is my opinion, okay?
@oneofmanyparadoxfans54475 жыл бұрын
From what I've read, narcissism is somewhat equally spread throughout the population as a whole, but it tends to show more often in some bloodlines than others simply because people are incapable of standing up for themselves without fear of repercussions. More often than not, abusers are made from narcissists who have found somebody to control, not born independently of them.
@cait31964 жыл бұрын
you cant say a personality disorder being more/less common in a sex as an "opinion". a statistic is not an opinion. you are using a couple of personal stories to make a very general assumption.
@TheKingDrew4 жыл бұрын
Yeah it’s kinda a way for them to lie :(
@bababbabababababababababba50405 жыл бұрын
I was with my friend the day her mother decided to abandon her and her family. We were around 8 or 9 years old and I still remember perfectly when her mom said "I'll go to get a new haircut, I'll get back in a few hours" When it was getting late we started to worry, we spent the rest the day searching in every hairdressing, until all of them closed, asking if they had seen her mother and all of them said no. A few days later they got kicked out of their house (the owners were my friend's aunts, how can you leave your 8 y/o niece without a home??). Years later her mom returned, and told her she left her bc of her drug addiction and promised her that wouldn't happen again. The promise lasted 2 months... My friend hasn't seen her mom ever since But now my friend is happier, her father stopped taking drugs, he got a job and is a really good and tolerant father. And she has a lots of friends and is loved by everyone :) she's really kind-hearted, it's impossible not to love her
@yellowdrapes55365 жыл бұрын
"Blood is thicker than water" You know what else is thicker than water? Shit. Just because it's thicker, doesn't mean it's better.
@tacitakoe50045 жыл бұрын
Yeah, and the original version of that saying is 'the blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb' - meaning the exact opposite of what it means today. The bonds you choose are more important than the ones you're born into.
@mrjay69345 жыл бұрын
Tacita Koe “original version” :’)
@YourDadsUnclesFriend4 жыл бұрын
Not my shit.
@smoovii30215 жыл бұрын
Man the family stories make me so grateful for my family.
@Theninjadeathhawk5 жыл бұрын
not surprised that many of these are because of abusive women
@kae28185 жыл бұрын
@Lavish ....what does gender have to do with this
@Theninjadeathhawk5 жыл бұрын
@@kae2818 you always here about a man being abusive but you never here how women can be abusive to men and this brings it to light
@muff99705 жыл бұрын
It’s actually really interesting. It may be because this is how men deal with abuse compared to women, which is why this subreddit has a male focus. But regardless, a lot of the mothers/girlfriends/etc. In this thread sound awful.
@ravenclawthestral39645 жыл бұрын
Lavish If someone were to comment this about there is a lot of men, they wouldn't be able to hear the end of how it's all feminist BS. Gender really has nothing to do with this, both genders can be equally horrible.
@m-train13285 жыл бұрын
Women are more likely to abuse their children
@bobbythewedge57265 жыл бұрын
I quit heroin and meth, left Bkersfield, CA, and moved to San Diego. Best thing I've ever done w/ my life. EVERYTHING is getting better and better, albeit little by little.
@owenw.16435 жыл бұрын
as someone who's lived abusive with family all my life and plans to move out soon this was the most motivating and satisfying video i've ever watched.
@uramalakia4 жыл бұрын
Don't daydream about it. Sit down and plan things out and make preparations (get a job, save up money, etc.). Best of luck.
@bryceweston89165 жыл бұрын
The kid that moved to Alberta really hits hard cause I live there and all of these stories seem really far away but it’s crazy thinking how many people live in abusive homes and leave just to be safe.
@sharlene89175 жыл бұрын
4:27 hope he thanked that friend like, *a lot*
@nickkohlmann5 жыл бұрын
Yeah
@Automatons.5 жыл бұрын
I can hardly even keep hearing this. The bravery and courage these people have.
@pixelpudding39145 жыл бұрын
5:58 Can we get a round of applause for this grandma
@bkallday805 жыл бұрын
It can be a real eye opener to here someone's life story so unfiltered but it is what it is. My parents were strick but cool, I remember thinking that I cried to my parents for cool shoes in middle school, so immature and spoiled. If you ever get a chance to see the world, do it. It will change your prospective.
@daijoubougie5 жыл бұрын
Can somebody help me figure out which poster is my dad?
@Verschal5 жыл бұрын
lmao
@somenbwithabadhistoryteach58725 жыл бұрын
@@Verschal what if they're not joking.
@CazzyVR5 жыл бұрын
I think it's the one with the Abusive Mother... not surprising really. Unlike what they want you to believe, statistically women are more likely to be the aggressor in abusive relationships. But what they want is for the man to hit back and then the media becomes in a uproar and accuse the male. Disgusting really
@daijoubougie5 жыл бұрын
@@CazzyVR what in the god damn hell are you talkin' about
@somenbwithabadhistoryteach58725 жыл бұрын
@@CazzyVR the unspoken truth
@georgeclinton45245 жыл бұрын
"Sometimes I see people I used to know, and sometimes they recognize me, but mostly I just keep to myself and spend time with better people than those I left years ago." I think I'm in the middle of one of these sentences right now =(
@mimismayhem76475 жыл бұрын
i wish i was in a situation to where i could leave. My mom gets emotionally and a little verbally abusive. And she drinks at least five beers a night. If i could leave i would. I would do almost anything. but i cant (legally or without causing a scene). props to you all for having balls enough to get out. Always remember all types of abuse are abuse, you are not invalid.
@crimson66634 жыл бұрын
4:41 imagine chilling in your house and your friend from 5 states away shows up and wants to crash on your couch
@Smellie0695 жыл бұрын
I love these more up beat comedic videos, please keep it up! 😂
@rancidraw5 жыл бұрын
yeah lmao fuck those other "comedy" reddit post this is the real shit here
@nickkohlmann5 жыл бұрын
...What?
@extraslayar45855 жыл бұрын
The brother one is a very good one. Making sure hes okay and what his intentions are and since they weren't to harm himself to let him learn the way he needs to.
@casht.40675 жыл бұрын
This makes me wanna run away though I have no reason to lmao
@cait1594 жыл бұрын
Username checks out
@phos4us5 жыл бұрын
I like how that guy’s boss set him up with a new job. One less thing to worry about and quite a large one too.
@hamk33305 жыл бұрын
I feel like I just watched a sad AMV. Anyone that’s going through tough times just know that one day it will all get better
@HydraxSly2025 жыл бұрын
These kind of comments and videos make me incredibly grateful for the life and familial relationships I have. My heart goes out to so many people in difficult situations.
@heatherslove5 жыл бұрын
That all happiness thing just made me wanna leave home
@koal40425 жыл бұрын
I feel so bad for all these people. Having an awful home life is something I can't imagine living through. You all have my sympathies.
@tjsilvestro45695 жыл бұрын
My mom went to the grocery store and hasn't been back for 7 years. I guess she still can't find the milk. Ha! I love my mom!
@twinsgangtv69462 ай бұрын
What happen
@Chahlie4 жыл бұрын
All these people are victims of a narcissistic parent, and are usually the scapegoat of the family. And they were all lucky and strong enough to get out in time. Best thing ever for them!
@CodySpoor5 жыл бұрын
Me: *sees title* Also me: *makes joke about missing dad* Everyone: 😂👌
@kachiechan5 жыл бұрын
I sorta did this. Mom was very abusive/mentally unstable. We were losing our apartment. My grandparents in the Midwest offered to take me in. I told her I was going to live with my grandma after I graduated. Didn’t make it till then. As soon as she found out I was trying to leave, she became 10x more abusive. She would slap/push me if I passed her in the hallway, she would stand in my door way just staring at me refusing to move and trap me there while she screamed at me and called me names. She wouldn’t let me leave the house. Then she would also keep saying “you won’t leave, you’re too stupid to be on your own” and wouldn’t accept it. I told her during this “if you treat me like this, I won’t ever talk to you again when I leave. I’ll cut you off forever.” And she rolled her eyes and didn’t listen. Moving day came and she basically didn’t even say goodbye to me, just sulked. I took a moving van 3 days from the coast to the Midwest. Promptly blocked her number and everywhere else. We didn’t speak for 3 years. Reconnected later for a visit mostly to see my sister and Grandma; she said “you left and never even looked back!” And I said yeah that’s what I said :/ I blocked her number again. Family supports my decision. Sister moved in with me as soon as she was 18. My mom considers me “estranged”. I had to drop out of school my senior year to move early bc of the abuse. Going back to get my diploma this year. :)
@danieldutoit26975 жыл бұрын
Hide and seek champion 18 years
@tacitakoe50045 жыл бұрын
This was a lot more inspiring than I thought it would be. I was actually expecting more of these stories to be ones where a person ditched their spouse after having a child with them because they weren't ready to be a parent yet and went on to regret leaving, but never having the stones to go back.
@suclox12yearsago565 жыл бұрын
Gonna prank my dad when he comes home! Day 818: Gonna prank my dad when he comes home
@LunaticMcGee2 ай бұрын
As a father this hurts me. My son is my everything. I can’t ever imagine hurting him like some of these “parents” did to their own children. Ugh !
@tamiddy5 жыл бұрын
Imagine thinking youre about to roast your dad, just to find out your mom was actually sleeping around and somehow couldnt find the real biological dad... how upsetting.
@jahimuddin73805 жыл бұрын
That kid held a grudge for 16 years only to find out he had been hating the wrong person his entire life.
@MaceEtiquette5 жыл бұрын
Earlier this year, a close friend of mine did this. She just packed the essentials and moved to another state without telling anyone beforehand. She's a lot happier where she is now, and I get that she had to leave to make her life better, but I miss her more than she knows.
@invadervim90375 жыл бұрын
I wish I could give every one of these posters a hug.
@nickkohlmann5 жыл бұрын
I am with you. +1hug to everyone from me.
@stevensilveus74565 жыл бұрын
2:00 The lack of emotion in the parents voice is relatable to my parents
@emanueleragno56165 жыл бұрын
my dad was a real pro at russian roulette he only lost once after that i never saw again him tho
@parkeraskew5 жыл бұрын
the story at 7:47 hit me hard because i love my father and he is a caring man to me and my family, and to just see that someone lived longer and knew nothing about their own father hits in a way i cant explain
@EvanJones-jn7nu5 жыл бұрын
OP lookin for his dad, also WHERE DID YOU COME FROM WHERE DID YOU GO, WHERE DID YOU COME FROM ABANDONING PERSON
@chaytonnnn5 жыл бұрын
Where did you come from, Where did you go, Where did you come from Cotton Eye Joe
@cecilyvincent61735 жыл бұрын
*Banjo banjo banjo*
@chaytonnnn5 жыл бұрын
@@cecilyvincent6173 thank you. You made my day
@sunshinesolace35405 жыл бұрын
*Banjo intensifies*
@cecilyvincent61735 жыл бұрын
@@chaytonnnn no prob your comment made mind:)
@funtimeslondon5 ай бұрын
The guy who left his girlfriend who it always had to be about - i had a friend who was always getting made redundant from her admin jobs - because she could NEVER NEVER take feedback and it was ALWAYS someone else's fault. Eventually I stopped being in contact. Years later I had the chance to tell her exactly why I stopped being a friend. It was great and I THOROUGHLY recommend it!
@rachelfajardo96405 жыл бұрын
The guy who left Pasco Washington surprised me. Pasco is in the tri cities, which consists of Kennewick, Pasco, and Richland. I live in Kennewick
@astro_king11565 жыл бұрын
Me too I live in Richland near costco
@astro_king11565 жыл бұрын
Rachel Fajardo I would who he was
@astro_king11565 жыл бұрын
Rachel Fajardo I lived here for a year and mostly I seen mostly Hispanics in pasco
@user-bm6wu9zw9m5 жыл бұрын
Wow. I'm glad I came from a loving family. Nothing but love and support in my family.