People Who Started To Hate Their Crush

[@luvjisoo-cd7dn]

When you grow older, you regret liking that one person, and when your friends mention them you get embarrassed

[@iciinq6305]

true...

[@lapris7380]

Yeah I just cringed at the thought of them

[@EpicFloorMusix254]

the likes go 123, I want to like but just can't ruin the sequence

[@gtjk3372]

army.. hey and this is so true.

[@luvjisoo-cd7dn]

@@gtjk3372 yeah im army💜

[@momouwu1937]

that snatching phone from girl story would have had girls swooning if it was in a netflix film. But in reality, it's just a toxic behavior

[@yingvanche]

_THİS._

[@geetha23032005]

The guy prolly saw some bad 'ROMANTIC' movie and took some inspiration thinking that this is what humans like.

[@o.m9514]

True. So true.

[@o.m9514]

Never snatch a ladies phone. (And no, you do not get to decide who’s a lady). And no, I don’t mean *you* you.

[@miko-chan3443]

Me that expirienced phone snatching from my brother just now and got in big trouble because its 10 pm be like:

[@kiyo1247]

me who hated my crush because she got her friends to start bullying me when I came out as lesbian and said I had a crush on her

[@lame-y4721]

Im bi that's rude

[@littlelemon3465]

Oof, that's really rude of her

[@CaptainBulbasaur]

That’s so rude! Also because some people are saying it, I’m pansexual :D

[@clairel5858]

That’s horrible

[@rosepetunia1829]

Screw whoever she is. I hope you find someone better.

[@MrMelnur]

There was this guy in my first year of high school. So handsome that I did not pay attention to class but look at him. In another class, the teacher attributed seats to people and I found myself sitting next to him. Well, he had a sh*tty personality, a weird guy who was lifting the table while I was writing things. A total douche with a handsome face. After that day, I started to be cautious of physical crushes...

[@巨嘴鸟]

omg i relate to this- so like my school plays out on the parking lot and my crush was playing like football with the guys. they were playing near the curb and my school is like on a hill and theres a pathway to the school at the front. so my crush pushed him aggressively just to get the ball and the guy was literally rolling down the hill and everyone was watching while some kids were getting the teacher. my crush was literally just laughing at the guy he pushed... and he was in my homeroom for once and i found out that he bullies people who disagrees with his opinions... 😓

[@shrimayi8514]

Yeah I don't usually have a physical crush and even if I do it only lasts like a week lol

[@MrMelnur]

@@巨嘴鸟 ugh ... not better than my story...

[@justastaythatwillnotbename2990]

The first one made me sick Like I accidentally hurt my baby cousin when I was like 10 or 9 and I still feel guilty and sometimes even cry about it to this day how could someone be so evil-

[@getinmywhitevan1301]

Ikr when I was younger I was holding my baby bro who was about 1 at the time then I accidentally dropped him on the stairs luckily I was on one of the lowest steps but I had never been more scared in my life and I have survived a house fire. I spent 4 hours crying in my room after that so I feel u

[@vileenavalasareddy3821]

As an older sibling but dislikes little kids, I can state in full confidence that she went too far.

[@madisonlevine2519]

yea, my friend hates kids- but she pretends like she is going to hurt them but doesn’t. I don’t think she would ever be that cruel towards a toddler or baby of any sort though.

[@starkusa._.2276]

I used to hate kids, but I’ve grown to like them, and let me tell you, I would NEVER hurt a child on purpose. Honestly, I used to say I would never have any, but my friends keep saying I act like their mother, so I might actually have some one day.

[@vileenavalasareddy3821]

@@Soph-TV AHDKHSJ I MEANT SHE DID GO TOO FAR I JUST REALIZED THE AUTOCORRECT

[@ninnabuu]

honestly idk why couples literally FIGHT over paying at restaurants. if i hang out with my friends i'll offer to pay for all and if they deny it then like ok, i'll pay for my own and if anyone didnt have money i gotchu. like its not that hard 🤕 but if someone wants to pay for me then eheh ty 😳

[@dimwitteddingo]

I don't understand couples who fight over everything

[@yoonbumsstockholmsyndrome553]

People just want to be humble and nice because they care about their impressions in front of other people. Me and my friends always fight on who pays because we want to be nice, but in the end, I’m always the one thanking my friends for paying for our food,

[@ninnabuu]

@@yoonbumsstockholmsyndrome553 yeah i get that, but i've heard of people who got into actual fights over who will pay, like fights that end up with them breaking up

[@Annnabannanna]

@@ninnabuu oh

[@draygorulesdragons7693]

I think it's because not all people are like you like for example if you pay for me and I had a bad attitude I could think you think I can't afford it or I'm poor so I have to save money or other negative things. It's also like how I started a fake war with a friend who liked pandacorns and I liked dragons so we would take fight most of the time but we aren't mean to each other, I'm king of all dragons(A dragon and a dragon rider, don't ask how) and she the queen of all pandacorns

[@vivid.qreams1508]

I dont think I could ever stop loving my 2d anime men 😩🖐🏽

[@jellyrabbit4327]

SAMMMEEEE XD

[@belalalaxo]

_Hifumi is that you?_

[@ewasadina1927]

O

[@solseclipse]

I will never stop loving Jotaro Kujo >:)

[@nomnomll]

Yesss we slay Xd

[@ss-rc1kb]

Title: People who started to hate their crush ✨ that's definitely me ✨

[@microwaveeditsyt]

Same and enjoy the rest of your day :D

[@herelizabethan]

have a good day Sushii!

[@ss-rc1kb]

:0 thank you! ❤

[@rosepetunia1829]

What happened?!

[@ss-rc1kb]

@@rosepetunia1829 I didn't realize he was a big jerk until I confessed. He threw such hurtful words towards on how I look and even said it to my friends. And for the fact that my best friend rejected him because she knew I like him (another reason is that she *never* liked him anyways), he started growing much hate towards me. He would talk some crap about me and say it to everyone, shout at me sometimes, and be sensitive for the most little things (like me seating on his chair because the class was changing the seating arrangements, rolling his eyes like a girl if ever I looked at him and etc.) So I started avoiding him as much as possible. But I'm glad he transferred schools this year :D sorry if I had to keep this explanation so long-

[@Moth-]

For me it was when I heard him say "If I had a son that was gay then he's not my son anymore" and like- no.

[@serenityflies1462]

I wouldn't be happy if my son's were gay either.

[@coconutjuice7345]

Ok he is not a good person

[@tangycitrus7645]

@@serenityflies1462 why does your comment have 3 likes

[@alleniumcos]

@@serenityflies1462 Do you mean, like, if you have 2 sons and they date each other, you’re not okay with it? Or do you mean if you have sons you don’t want them to be gay/lgbtq+?

[@serenityflies1462]

@@alleniumcos I mean I wouldn't be happy if they were gay. Sorry, just how I feel. But, I wouldn't reject them, I would still love them.

[@ninnabuu]

if i saw some girl put ice cubes in her sibling's diaper i'd put ice cubes in her pad 😌

[@fortunelia4149]

Funny

[@Everyonesaytouswoo.ah3987]

Pad?

[@RandomPerson-tw8mn]

@@Everyonesaytouswoo.ah3987 I guess you don't know about periods yet?

[@ahanaa2486]

What if she wears tampons?? I am weird af

[@silveeze]

@@ahanaa2486 then just smack the ice-cubes in their face-

[@saphirarose5866]

I've never met someone who thought the earth was flat so it's hard for me to wrap my head around that some people still believe that....

[@nickixiusdangelolunala7779]

I mean at one point I believed the eartH Is round, then another I believed its flat. Honestly, I don't care anymore. And tbh who knows. Maybe the world isn't round. Well I dont care to think so.

[@oldacocimt3]

when i was like 4 i thought the earth was like minecraft and just loaded more into the world whenever you blinked

[@maple_syr9214]

I started hating my old crush when he played a ‘prank’ on me saying he has a crush on me (he told me on New Years that he has a gf and I respected that and stopped liking him) and later on I asked him whether or not he had a gf and he said ‘yes but u could become my gf’ and I flipped. Even after he told me it was a prank, I still couldn’t get over it bc that’s just sick and twisted to think that doing a prank like this was a good idea. Turns out he doesn’t have a gf and all the girls in his class think he’s weird and hates him(we’re in grade 7 btw).

[@katsu_sora7761]

Same thing happened to me kinda ,but with bestfriend.

[@sarathomas8499]

Grade 7 and dating?...... Oh honey not trying to out you down but that a horrible idea

[@ashrr0]

@@sarathomas8499 what is grade 7?

[@maple_syr9214]

@@ashrr0 basically we’re 12/13 years old

[@ashrr0]

@@maple_syr9214 ohh okay thanks

[@solseclipse]

You could say if you hate your crush, you want to *crush* them. Bad puns go brrr

[@lostshawtyy5101]

lmfaoo💀

[@vivid.qreams1508]

You deserve to be arrested for that pun 🤓🔫

[@alythehooman6549]

*get out*

[@deadmihana]

i dont think ive not seen u in a kyutie video 💀

[@disgustang4482]

I can literally see the seahorse giving birth meme lol "haha babies go brrrr"😂😂

[@fearful3652]

I hated my crush after they started dating my best friend and used her

[@shivangisaraswati8065]

Omg same thing happened with me 😅

[@shivangisaraswati8065]

Anyway do you like Nagisa from assassination classroom

[@fearful3652]

@@shivangisaraswati8065 Aw I’m sorry and yes I do 😁

[@justcarol948]

As you should 😌💅

[@remy8487]

@@shivangisaraswati8065 I know you're not asking everyone but yes

[@katsu_sora7761]

I stopped liking my crush after he asked my bestfriend out (she rejected him) ,and then told me a week later he liked me (-_-) ,He later on said my bestfriend friend was a jerk .

[@Alysser_]

Throwback to the time where this guy who id known since 3rd grade told me last year that he liked me. I openly told him I had a crush on him for about a year but it faded cause I would attempt to flirt with him but he shot me down. So I told him I wasn’t interested. He asked out my now ex best friend 2 weeks later. A week later my other currently ex best friend told me that his best friend said the guy had a crush on her. I was like 🧍‍♀️ what?

[@thelordnaevis4946]

That moment when my crushes are the handsome “cool, popular” kids at school but I’m the half emo...boy at school I’d never get to hang out with them but at least they aren’t the bully type and they’re really kind

[@sabhyata2655]

Aye I'm also half emo lmfao. In my school we don't have the "cool popular" type. We have popular kids, but we don't have those "popular guys" every girl has a crush on.

[@thelordnaevis4946]

@@sabhyata2655 exactly tho-

[@sabhyata2655]

@@thelordnaevis4946 lmaoo

[@rafiyaifti6081]

Can't relate at all, cause I never had a crush

[@M0nkey1u]

Same

[@Hana-ku9dh]

Same

[@victorviveros3397]

Yas this is going to be forever and ever anyway same

[@yoonbumsstockholmsyndrome553]

I’m asexual so of course, I only like 2d people from my manhwas and anime

[@ticketyboo2456]

Rafiya Ifti you sound emotionally secure and level headed. Crushes are normal but flawed tbh as you project your desires onto someone who you don't know well. Stay the person you are and you'll go far.

[@mochisprite9779]

that moment when you realize that your crush is a dork and clueless but a better person than all these people...and you love him for it

[@ashleyross5874]

When my husband and I were dating we figured out he made 4x as much as me so I paid for every 5th dinner. :) worked out pretty nicely.

[@alzorama2876]

That's absolutely lovely.

[@madie1656]

I had a crush on this guy and when I was in like 7th grade, and I invited him and a couple friends over and we went into my basement, (which was unfinished at the time.) We have a PingPong table and there were some plastic PingPong balls on the ground, and he would walk around and stomp on them. At the time I was stupid and didn’t really acknowledge it, and I wish I had stopped him and said: “That’s 5 dollars for every PingPong ball you just crushed.”

[@elliebrubaker6018]

Yes! You tell him!! Also, I love ur pfp!!

[@AngelA-ym2jz]

Ok but why do people go to their basement during a sleepover-

[@user-jo5bj5lt4u]

[@muskanchugh6858]

5 dollar pingpong ball?

[@madie1656]

@@AngelA-ym2jz it was unfinished at the time and we were just messing around

[@vexyn5769]

I had a crush on this girl in my PE (I’m bi) and we became friends and hung out everyday at lunch but she soon started getting to possessive and when I wanted to hang out with some other friends she would say no and if I needed to study she would just sit there near me staring. I told her I was uncomfortable but she just said “SO?!” I don’t like her anymore and made some more friends.

[@blurrrrrrr]

Whoa that is a HUGE red flag! I’m glad you didn’t let her take over your life. Smart decision :))

[@Hana-ku9dh]

Ooooh good thing u got rid of her

[@Artlove8900]

I hate people who have habit of staring 👁👄👁

[@random...3723]

I read that as possessed I'm so sorry-

[@vexyn5769]

@@random...3723 it’s all good

[@ptatcustarduwu8330]

Well I had a boyfriend and he broke up with me with the reason "she's too weird" I was inlove with him still but rlly heart broken. I didn't hate hi but he turned everyone against me and no jokes I got betrayed by my best friend who had a crush on him.

[@Alysser_]

Just be grateful you didn’t deal with a toxic ex. I ignored all the red flags. Every single one. He became controlling, brought out new insecurities I never even knew I had, got mad if I talked to other guys. And lo and behold told me he would kill himself if I left. I broke up with him and we were on and off for about a week before I blocked him out of pure anger. And 5 months later early March this year. I decide that I’m ready for love again. Meet a cool guy, we talk for a couple of days. He tells me he likes me, I liked him as well. Then, 2 days later he breaks up with me with the excuse of depression. Come to find out he never actually loved me, he just wanted to let me off easy. Though he made one fatal mistake and that was to give me contact with some of his friends. I met the most amazing and perfect guy ever. We might be on a break rn but it’s to focus more towards school. But he’s patient with my trauma and treats me well. But there’s one problem. He lives over 4,000 miles away s but I’m currently planning to move over to him in a couple of years. Anyway that’s my life story in a nutshell

[@ptatcustarduwu8330]

@@Alysser_ it's ok sis, love sucks sometimes. Wanna be friends?

[@Alysser_]

@@ptatcustarduwu8330yeah, you have tiktok or insta?

[@hey-nf5zp]

Lol I watched u a few years ago, now u show up for my recommendation, AND UR THE SAME I LOVE IT

[@blu.b3ll]

LMAO-

[@_Who__]

Amazing 👏

[@pomogrenade3515]

when you're into anime and/or kpop and have like thousands of fictional crushes who you will never hate

[@ChickenNugget-st6st]

he made a racist comment and then he made a ableist comment turns out he liked me back so i broke his heart 🥰 ( edit: i smashed his heart when he confessed that he liked me so i gagged laughed in his face and everyone saw ... whoops) 🙃

[@thecriticalthinker4527]

Good job

[@RandomPerson-tw8mn]

Good for knowing he's not a good person, but I can already see the little boys being offended and using this as an excuse to be mean to girls. By saying that girls are mean and shallow or something. Hopefully they (people who saw you do that) know it's because they ( your "ex crush")weren't a good person internally.

[@ChickenNugget-st6st]

@@RandomPerson-tw8mn yea everyone near me understood why i did that and knows what he said he's pretty cute too so lots of girls probably feel the same way about him i also understand that why i did was pretty rude but i mean he deserved it sooooo

[@garrenwebb1014]

As u should

[@heidiho8682]

Out of curiosity, what were the comments?

[@swepli]

I had a crush on this one guy but he didn't like animals. At all. He openly told me he would kill a chicken for fun. Yeah, that shit would've never flied in my presence. However, I loved stepping on those crunchy beetles when I was four, but that was my four-year old logic. And I still cry about all of those innocent lives sometimes. They really didn't deserve it. Just goes to show how stupid kids are sometimes. And how some people are. (I'm not an animal-rights activist, but I still look down upon people who kill other beings for fun. Not cool, guys.)

[@caitlyngreene4474]

I had a crush on this guy for about a year. He was in my youth group at church and was normally really sweet to me and my friends. Every summer, we have Lake days, and we always jump off this like 11 or 12 ft dock. I can’t remember exactly what happened, but my crush at the time and my brother were kinda bickering about something stupid, and then my crush was like do you want me to push you off? My brother was ten years old and my crush was 14, I kinda brushed it off like whatever, he wouldn’t do that. The next think I know, my brother is falling into the water, with no life jacket. Some other people up there were asking him if he was okay, and he said he was, but my crush just kinda jokingly said it. He went over to my parents, so I ended up jumping off too a few minutes later to see if he was actually okay. Me and my brother hardly ever get along, but I still care for him so much, and when someone is rude to him, I’ll stick up for him. When I went over there, my parents said he had been crying and his back hurt really bad, so he was just gonna rest for a while. My brother is normally pretty tough when it comes to getting hurt, so I knew it was serious. My parents kept asking me questions abt who pushed him off, and stuff like that. About 20 minutes later or so, I go back up to the top deck with who so I thought was my friend then (but that’s a different story), and my then crush came up to me and looked like he was kinda scared he was gonna get in trouble and he asked if my brother was okay. I just said yeah, bc I didn’t really know what to say (looking back on it, I wish I would’ve gotten super mad at him and yelled at him but I didn’t). When we were leaving I realized I shouldn’t like him. His family is super nice and I still talk to him and his sister all the time bc I see them at church and stuff, but I will always remember that. There’s a little bit more parts of the story that I would’ve gone into further detail, but yea

[@LeSparkleChild]

I stopped liking my crush because he made fun of me But the twist is I didn’t even have a crush on him I made a joke about it to a frend but you know what she did she told the whole class and everyone thought I was weird I liked another boy who I never saw again 😔

[@lame-y4721]

I actually wasn't expecting that

[@elliebrubaker6018]

Aww honey i'm so sorry, I liked a boy too, he showed affection. Well we go to online school, he stops texting me and I find out he moved to TOKYO! Like crazy. It's okay, you'll get over it, i'm here if you need me!

[@jemynix]

Looking back to my younger self- it’s so cringe to think that I had ever had a crush on some people- but no worries now, my standards have been set so high that I probably won’t have a crush on anyone (tv drama characters and fictional characters)

[@eternality4midnight]

Your hair looks so pretty!

[@gift_x]

My crush broke my friends glasses, they costed most likely over a hundred dollars, I threatened him after and slapped him, no one cared since everyone was focused on how much her glasses costed. I didn’t get any punishment 😎

[@draygorulesdragons7693]

Wow wish I was that brave and strong plus lucky

[@Manglethefox238]

I respect you!

[@jumpyyjasminee5315]

Mission Passed Respect+

[@Lakotashunkaha]

I had a huge crush on this girl, it was an extremely intense crush, but as I got to know her I started realizing she was very conceited. She'd ask 3 or 4 times in 2 hrs, "Aren't I beautiful" She treated clerks and other store employees like they were so far beneath her. Eventually I realized she is a narcissist. What killed my crush was seeing her kick her dog across the room.

[@jillclijsters]

Aww poor doggo, that's sad

[@arandomhuman9048]

I had a crush on this boy but I started hating him after he kicked me really hard just because I tried to help a 4 year old catch him in a game of tag

[@sprite6104]

Firstly did you ask if he had therapy because he needs some, secondly hope the game was fun, Lastly KICKED BY HIM LIKE WOT THE

[@adriannn_nn]

I- this was spicy- I just see it by the title

[@angelas.2433]

Kyutie: People Who Started To Hate Their Crush Me: you called?

[@aleah3584]

😂😂

[@kaydenl3]

There was this person I liked, but when they told someone to kill themselves, it really surprised me and all the feelings just disappeared into thin air never to be seen again

[@saphirarose5866]

You can measure a guy by the way he treats a waiter/waitress

[@random...3723]

Or a girl

[@random...3723]

But well said👏👏👏👏

[@saphirarose5866]

some of these stories sound straight out of a movie, whoa!

[@sahahahana]

I had a crush in this girl (I’m bi btw) and we were friends we hung out with 2 other people who were dating and we even joked that we were married however what killed it for me was that she talked a bunch of s*** like she’s the type of person who talks abt her life publicly and gossips abt others loudly and her “jokes” we’re just insults! Like our friend has a problem with paying attention and it’s not their fault it’s a hard task for them to do, but my ex-crush when they asked what was happening literally went “why weren’t you paying attention huh??” when they know that my friend has a problem and they private texted me that my friend shouldn’t take things so seriously...so I stopped liking her and now we’re not friends anymore but the sad part is that she used to be so nice😭

[@yararin1238]

I had crushes but never really hated them at the end I just unloved them because they can't stand a chance to kpop idols and fictional characters even if I have a boyfriend

[@MiaGrace2348]

I was in a relationship with them but they broke up with me bc I was 1. Too boring 2. Not intresting enough 3. Too short Never saw him the same way again

[@miko-chan3443]

Me who hated my crush at first then have a huge crush at him and we were like best friends then when he announced he liked someone I actually thought about it but I- kinda regret it cuz since he said shes not in our classroom. So basically its not me then he became kinda rude and we never talked anymore until COVID came hes nicer and better I kinda have my hopes higher than average- or probably just because he acts kinda romantic and likes my memes and when I left our groupchat few minutes later he actually asked why I left and got bummed out he was even sad and told me about it so he added me back. How sweet.

[@aesthetic_peach_time8184]

I haven’t watched you in years I’m so happy that I found you

[@izukutodoroki9573]

Clicked so fast I thought I broke my tablet

[@studiochibi9697]

Video : 12 hours ago Your comment : 13 hours ago *visible confusion*

[@jaenamator4803]

Love you Kyutie, keep doing what your doing! You always bring a smile to my face!

[@EBKEC_Nishita_Tailor]

My friend made an arrangement so that close friends of ours can hangout for a bit and one of them was my crush...but that day I kinda started hating him(honestly staying away from him) cuz he was cursing a lot while playing games on his phone...and I hate cursing

[@introvertstar7847]

My crushes have to do nothing much I probably lose my interest after a week or so eventually..... Cause I always get insecure and feel that they are too out of my league

[@o.m9514]

Pay for whatever you ate. Kyutie you’re the best! You have no idea how many times I waited for someone to do so much as to mention this.

[@namjoonsoldmyjamsfor3dolla404]

I once had a crush on this dude but I stopped liking him after he was really mean to my friend. Moral of the story, don’t fuck with my friends.

[@CaptainBulbasaur]

Kyutie: how can you even hate your siblings? Me: *welll you see-*

[@herelizabethan]

have a good day Captain!

[@CaptainBulbasaur]

@@herelizabethan you too :)

[@herelizabethan]

@@CaptainBulbasaur tyyy

[@ellied188]

I had a crush on a teacher for 2 years in my middle school days and one day I came to school late with swollen eyes and still crying. When I sat by my seat (at the back) the teacher I'm crushing and made comments at how girls should not come late only to be frowning. I flipped after that and my mood had gone even worse

[@reetivaish]

I stopped liking my crush when he literally started taking holidays from school to play video games.

[@lizbateson9496]

he grouped ( aka SA) me. His excuse was " the world isn't kittens and rainbows" , some nights i cry about it and have a huge wave of victim blaming myself.

[@M1a1330]

I stopped liking my crush when he told me I was stupid and that I will never be as pretty as he's ex girlfriend, well listen guy, you literally looked at my work and wrote everything I wrote. Who's the stupid one here? And I don't dress to impress anyone got that. 😒

[@karynalovesyou4615]

Sorry that happened. No way that guy deserves you

[@lostshawtyy5101]

I've never had a crush so cant relate🤸

[@ellagracexx322]

Lol

[@CaptainBulbasaur]

I thought I was the only one- :0

[@lame-y4721]

Ive only had one but then yet again im not sure if i liked them so i don't consider it as a crush so I've had none

[@Bouncyboy901]

@@lame-y4721 having a crush means you like someone stupid

[@lame-y4721]

@@Bouncyboy901 ik but i wasnt sure about it like i sometimes felt like i hated them cause people say i hate her which i started to notice was true but then there was those moments that i liked her

[@arpita3216]

I stopped liking my crush after I found out he said many rubbish about kpop or something... Saying that "Kpop is g*y... If you like kpop then you're not straight🙄... Their music suck...people should listen to their own cultural music and blah blah" Maaan... He's also a good singer... At least he should've understand what it feels like when someone says these things to your hardwork... Thank gosh I hadn't confess before knowing it cause things would've gone worse...

[@jenniessamsung3293]

I had a crush on this boy and we were just hanging out and I had a bag and Everyone was taking things Outta it to play, my bag was empty and he just SNACHED my bag without asking me and just sighed after realising my bag is empty and arrogantly giving it back... You might think I'm overreacting but I hate arrogant guys.. idk why he thinks so highly of himself... I used to have a crush on him but guess what NOT ANYMORE!!

[@caitlyngreene4474]

I like typing out my emotions and this is a story that makes me mad. It’s not about a crush or anything, it’s just about someone who I thought was my friend. So about a week ago, the youth group at my church went on a retreat. My friend from church was also going, and brought a friend along as well, who was super sweet. I’ve had a few problems with this friend before (well just call her Eve, which isn’t her real name btw), but I’m not the type of person that will express my feelings about things in front of other people. My and one of my other friends are the only girls in 8th grade in our youth group, but she couldn’t come on the retreat sadly. Anyways, so it was a two in a half hour drive to get there so we just like hung out on the bus and stuff watched Hannah Montana, ya know the usual. We arrived unpacked our stuff did a few more things, went to sleep, woke up the next morning did a bunch of stuff that day. Now time for the juicy part. Later that night, we went into our meeting area. The boys went on one side of the room and the girls went on the other side. The person in charge said we could split up into groups or we could just do it with only the girls. We talked about it, and Eve said I only feel comfortable talking to these two people, she said their names but I won’t say them, it was her friend who she took on the trip and wasn’t actually in our youth group, and it was an 11th grader who we had both gotten super close to that weekend. I was sitting right next to Eve and i looked at her like she was a crazy person. I had known her the longest out of everyone I’m that room, and I spent more time with her and normally talked to her more than anyone there. So them three got to be in group and then there was another group of three and then I was in a group with two other people. Oh and I also forgot to mention that our youth minister said that these would be some very deep questions that might be a little uncomfortable to answer, and I wasn’t that comfortable telling a some other girls who I wasn’t that close with deep things about me. They’re both super sweet, but I just have social anxiety so it was so uncomfortable. Anyways after that, we did something else. Then, our youth minister decided to turn the lights off and then we go up to people who we thought had shown gratitude this weekend and who we thought were like nice and stuff. Like I said before I have bad social anxiety so I didn’t want to do this. I heard Eve say to the friend she brought that her only people were that friend she was talking to, the 11th grader who she wanted to be in a group with earlier, and then my old crush, who I know don’t like bc of some things they did (look at another comment of mine on this KZbin video). That’s when I had so much doubt and I felt like I wanted to cry and scream right there. The only people I ended up talking to was the friend Eve brought on the trip and then the 11th grader that I’ve mentioned a few times. Eve had like 7 people come up to her and she’s always talking about how lonely she is and how she has no friends and any time she lists her friends (like I would want to know, especially when I’m not on the list) yea I’m never on the list. So I’m always like I’m your friend, and sometimes she ignores me and sometimes she’s like sure. Anyways the next thing we do after that is worship, which is always my favorite part. It was pitch dark and we were just singing and I ended up crying. I tried to contain as much as I could bc I didn’t want it to look like I was crying. We sang for about 45 minutes so after I made myself stop crying, I tried to just focus on worshiping God, and I felt so much better. Then we hung out outside and it all went away. Eve sometimes acts like we’re besties but when she has someone else to hang out with or talk to, she just ignores me, and I just lose all my self esteem when she does stuff like this. I still talk to her bc I don’t really have many other people to talk to in youth, and her father is the minister of our church and her parents are also close with my parents and I absolutely hate confrontation, so I have absolutely no idea what to do. I know probably this doesn’t make any sense at all, but i just need to type my emotions sometimes bc it makes me feel a little bit better.

[@caitlyngreene4474]

Thanks, that means a lot! ❤️❤️💗I do have real friends but I don’t get to see them much anymore bc we go to different schools and with COVID it’s hard, but I’m going to their school this upcoming school year. That girl in the story is just really who I thought was one of my only friends I had at church. It’s complicated.

[@Lanadelslay.]

I have a "best friend" like that but i ignore her (i honestly accepted to be her "best friend" was out of pity cause i don't like making people sad)

[@caitlyngreene4474]

Yea, I honestly can relate to that too. I hate disappointing other people

[@Lanadelslay.]

@@caitlyngreene4474 yup, im like: "if there real, there.idgaf."

[@EbbzSujin_Mo]

I see it's been a year now but I sincerely hope you found new friends because clearly you need them. That "bestie" of yours is quite toxic and even though it's difficult I hope you could open up to other people, give them a chance. Love from a stranger on the internet 💞

[@luna.hopecraft]

My ex-crush used to be nice to me at first, but when I get used to him, he started to hit me aggressively as a ‘joke’ and tripped my autistic brother as an ‘accident.’ Few months pass by, he confessed to me that he liked me. I rejected him as a friend, but he took it the wrong way. He began to be nasty towards me and my friends by touching them or make nasty moans. He told me creepy stuff like, “I know where you live. You live a few blocks away from me.” Luckily, my friend was there and told him to stop because I didn't need to know. One time in science class, he would get my attention and hump his water bottle in front of me in the middle of class. That's when I knew I have to cut him off of my life. Oh boy, there's more after that during the pandemic. I was going to my online class, but something caught my attention in one of my meetings list. I saw a meeting with a profile of my name in a pink heart made by him with his full name. Now, that made me have a breakdown because I'm scared of what he did to me at school and afraid that he might contact me. Thank goodness, I didn't click his meeting. I decided to check the Google Classroom to go to the counseling office for help with my creepy ex-crush. When I scrolled through the messages in the teacher's post, I saw him chatting with his friend about the letter he made for me. He told his friend that he needs to give the letter to me when we come back to school. Guess what? I cried more. I don't know what to do now. He's still in my school to this day and I always checked my surroundings, just in case. I kept having bad dreams about him doing nasty things today.

[@luna.hopecraft]

I forgot to mention that ONLY THE TEACHERS can make meetings with me. Not the students. EDIT: I have more stories that I left out in my comment. I'll update you guys when I have time to go on KZbin.

[@nobodyknows4770]

He's worse than a stalker Dang he is a psychopath

[@3terna_tea]

During freshman year of high school, there was this guy who didn't have any friends, & me having experienced it myself, I thought he could use a friend, so I reached out. (His mom was getting re-married & was depressed) A lot of people said he was weird, but I disregarded it, & hung with him anyway. He seemed really sweet, & at one point, I was gradually developing feelings for him. Halfway into the semester, a couple girls approached me & said he would glare at them for no reason. I was unsure how to respond, but I took their word for it with a grain of salt. When I brought it to his attention, he brushed it off. Odd, but whatever. Eventually, he started showing his true colors when he would glare at my friends when we would hug each other hello/goodbye or horse around. He even admitted to me that it made him jealous! Not only was it lack of personal space/boundaries, the last straw was when we hugged each other goodbye & I feel something warm touch my head. I asked if he kissed me, & it turned out he did. I felt so grossed out. Everywhere I went with my friends, he'd be right behind me, breathing down my neck. I stopped answering his calls/messages, but what really irritated me was when he would leave me voice messages being all butt-hurt. He moved away at the end of the semester, & looking back, it could be possible he had some abandonment issues. Like, I'm sorry whatever you're going through & depression sucks, but we need to hang out with other people, y'know? Last I spoke to him was 8 years ago, & nothing's changed "/

[@inlovewiththatpanda1532]

First day of class, had a small crush on the new kid. He was innocent and stuff which I admire in a guy. The next day, I let him go through my sketches I worked HARD on. He takes a gel pen and started drawing things on my sketchpad and also "traces" my drawings and lemme just say... He's AWFUL at art that I had to to teach him to draw for a whole month and he did not even improved even a bit so I had to do his project myself. Anyways, now we're best frienemies and I'm still helping him do his arts homework while he helps me with my science and math. Oh yeah, there's also this one time I got so discouraged on being friends with him. I'm christian while he's catholic. We were doing a soap sculpting project and we were fighting over MY cutter, he slips and cuts himself so as a logical person. I took a clean tissue and covered his wound... He's very smart at science and he was an Red Cross Youth Volunteeer like me but he REMOVED the tissue and my hold to do a RITUAL! WTF?!

[@vviviann]

_this was the moment they knew... _*_they f-ed up_* 💀💀 ok but like im all sure we went through that stage where we **ahem ahem** had a crush on someone but they just did one thing to mess up and after that... 📉📉

[@samanthahorman9492]

hated my crush after he asked my best friend to move so he could sit by me.... some people might think it's sweet, but thats not all he did. started treating her horribly, and trying to break our friendship so that he could have all of my attention. nope.

[@plaidcherie]

Omg, I'm early for once. This is weird, I'm usually like _really_ late.

[@heysheys2199]

Oh wow your really!!! (I don’t mean this in a bad way I jdut thought it was funny sorry if it was rude)

[@plaidcherie]

@@heysheys2199 Nah, it's okay!

[@solseclipse]

Welcome to the early squad xD

[@nathania8724]

Yeah you're really for once 😁

[@Hana-ku9dh]

Same

[@formerlyjellosworld6685]

Lol I don’t hate mine but he’s one of those people in class who doesn’t turn on their camera, or when they do they just point it to the ceiling. I haven’t seen them all quarantine!

[@MotherOfTheSea]

The way I started to hate my crush is that I realized he had many girlfriends in the past, let’s call him Steve because he looks like Steve from family guy a little, steve was a new student in 5th grade so back at his old school he had a girlfriend and he dumped her either because he had to move or another reason which was a problem. I was a new student in 7th grade which was last year but it’s about to be two years since it’s 2021, and I’m in the 8th grade and I’m about to head to 9th grade so I really liked him when I was a new student he was one of the first people for me to see at my first period in science class. Really did like him he was my type of boy until I found out he had a girlfriend so I said oh nvm and I stayed away from them because I didn’t want to ruin their relationship. Let’s call his girlfriend andrea but then in March I heard that they broke up. They were no longer together, in my elective class steve was a student there too and since that elective class only had like 8 people the room was very quiet so you could hear everything. I heard Steve talking with his best friend that’s like a sister to her, let’s call her tasha. I heard Steve telling tasha that he broke up with his girlfriend Andrea and was now in a new relationship with another girl that goes to a school with Steve’s cousin. I wasn’t sure if I heard that correctly but I couldn’t believe it, Steve had left his girlfriend Andrea for another girl that’s the most rudest thing a boy could ever do. So at the point I started to lose my feelings for Steve, he was cool and everything and an awesome wrestler but I couldn’t anymore. After that school was canceled because of covid, Steve did like me back it’s just that he never had the guts to say it at my face. And neither did I honestly, so a few weeks ago I found his new girlfriend’s Instagram. I don’t know her name because she never put it but let’s call her blondie. So blondie was the reason why Steve had left Andrea. Andrea was a beautiful girl her eyes would shine like gold I couldn’t believe that he had done this. So then right after that steve and blondie broke up and I could tell that blondie was quite upset she wasn’t active on her Instagram account and she seemed really mad. But found out 5 days ago why they had broke up. Then guess what? Steve left blondie for another girl let’s call her Vanessa. He had left her for Vanessa. And now steve is being cringey on his Instagram account posting pictures of Vanessa and saying things like “😫🥰🥺💜💚❤️😌” and then like “🥺🥰😘💍” then like “💍ONE DAY 🥺🥰😘🥺” then like “BABY GIRL 🥺🥰❤️😉🥺” then like “MY BABY 🥺💜💚🥰💍” then like “BABE FINE 🥺💚💜💍🥺” and then finally like “CUTIE HITS DIFFERENT 😩🥺💜💚” anyways it’s getting weird I couldn’t scroll through his posts because they were mega cringe. But I feel really bad for Andrea and blondie. Steve left them all for another girl, it’s getting weird like I said and he’s trash. I don’t wanna be with him, he was about to leave Andrea for me I can’t believe he almost did that but he found blondie before he could even do that, but I am disgusted by him and sometimes he says that he misses Andrea like ok bitch then why were you so garbage towards her? Andrea looked like she didn’t care cause she’s a bad bitch but if he misses her so much then why is he so TRASH. I don’t like him anymore no thanks I’ll pass and that’s how I don’t like Steve anymore.

[@ah7027]

you pretty much defined dating. You meet and hangout. Get to know each other. And if after a while its not your thing then you move on. It doesnt sound like he ever cheated and that he broke up with first girl before moving to the next. This is life. Just because one person in the relationship is head over heels doesnt mean the other is.

[@MotherOfTheSea]

@@ah7027 no no he did cheat, he saw another girl while he was dating his gf and had nasty thoughts in his mind

[@sarathomas8499]

I have a crush who's amazing and caring man but I don't think he knows that I like him like that and the possibility of me getting him is 1 is a zillion. Literally I cannot find an emoji to match my sadness 😓

[@miko-chan3443]

You mean these emojis? 😔🥺😭😣😞 are any of these emojis match up your sadness?

[@sarathomas8499]

@@miko-chan3443 close but not sad enough 😭😭😭

[@brianpickford3031]

IM UNDER A HUNDRED COMMENTS! YES! I’m new to the channel, and so far, amazing!

[@mycatisorganic5820]

I stopped liking my crush after he gave me depression and bullied me for being slightly chubby. I don't know why but I kept forgiving him over and over thinking he would change 💀

[@miko-chan3443]

You do realize being slightly chubby in size is actually what you call an average body or decent body because its not too thin or too big

[@miko-chan3443]

Plus people really that sensitive to get depressed over being bullied for size??? Plus the reason for your kind of deppression is not because of what they say but its because you cant accept yourself. When they say your slightly chubby you say thank you then they will eventually lose interest in bullying you since they know you dont care. Learn to stand up for yourself because what I said is actually the nicest way to get out of bullying plus you should try doing hobbies like swimming to relax your brain because once deppression hits it wont last long with it

[@mycatisorganic5820]

@@miko-chan3443 ok I admit I was not slightly chubby, I was overweight. I've obviously changed and loosed weight and now I'm a healthy weight. But he did call me an obese pig (i wasn't that bad but still overweight and I told him that) and that's when I just snapped at him on the last day of school 2 years ago before I went to high school. I'm just really glad that I've gotten rid of him. He was really sexist, racist and islamaphobic too (I'm poc Muslim) to not just me, but to everyone. He thought he was something and everyone liked him but everyone he bullied hated him with a passion. I just hope he's changed and he's not doing it to anyone else. He's the spawn of the devil 💀 Some girl said she was having a hard time trying to resist ripping his throat out and I was surprised because she's that one girl that always helps out and smiles at people 😭✋

[@miko-chan3443]

@@mycatisorganic5820 alright

[@CosmicbelieverinChrist]

My crushes are usually the smart people and understanding people so yeah. But, if I ever have a crush on these types of people, I'm ready for revenge.

[@sweetiepielarae]

That first girl is scary. I understand disliking kids, I can't stand them, but that she actually wants to hurt them and tries to is disgusting! 😖

[@heyyyyooooo7777]

(This was a while ago) My dad's brother (and other ppl) broke my dad's leg... :/ I think they did more to him but that was the most damaging bcz he's a taxi driver and couldn't work for a while. I wouldn't even have expected that bcz they all lived rather peacefully in the same house bcz of the little interactions they have My dad was in his early 40s i think

[@user-cm9kj4rb8d]

I was a solo photojournalist and my crush was a sports photojournalist in a Collaborative School Newspaper.... went on a contest.... his camera broke so he immediately ran towards my camera and said "hey i will have to borrow this" and stole my camera without my confirmation... so i had to use my more "advance looking" camera (in our competitions, we are only allowed to use point and shoot cameras with 16 mp.. both of my cameras are point and shoot with 16 mp but the difference is that the appearance of the other one is more advance looking that it looked like a smaller DSLR and the other one is the normal one) i went to my contest room and started the contest.... we were roaming around to take pictures of the theme "Journalists in Action"... we bumped into each other while taking pictures and he saw my camera... he grabbed my arm and walked fastly towards the Journalist Proctors and told them that i was using a DSLR.. i got disqualified and they let me out without explaining... i was crying hard and tried to enter but they wont... then the PHOTOJOURNALIST JUDGE saw me and asked why i was crying.. i told him everything and he said it was fine to use that camera since it was 16 mp... so i came in... the contest already ended... he said sorry to me afterwards while smiling.....

[@eunjikim4893]

I'm the type of person to pick every bad thing that I could ever find about my crush. At the end of the day, I'd feel disgusted when they ask me out because I knew too much. I don't know why but I've always had this feeling of hating the person I like as if it's a necessity to do so.

[@miko-chan3443]

Its just a gut feeling and gut feelings are never wrong since they sense something you dont its like a video game and they sense bad aura and alerts you thats how a gut feeling works

[@monkekit_the_o.g]

I don't like kids too especially noisy one but I don't hate them to inflict such damages actually I might scold them for acting bad but never raise my hand on them.

[@karunasingh666]

And there's me Who rejected her crush after he confessed 😂😂🤣🤣🤣😀😀🙂🙂😥😥😢😢😢😭😭😭😭

[@princesserika9899]

I stopped liking my crush when I found out he is a bit toxic. He used to be my friend but once we became more close, his behavior starts to change. He became more sarcastic, arrogant, self-centered, manipulative, and a bit condescending. There's this one time where he wrote an apology letter to me but when I said "I understand. And I'm sorry too for being naive", he said, "Yeah you should be sorry. I'm always right". I was like "Bruh..." then we stop talking for weeks and I'm glad. -_- What's more strange than his arrogant, hypersensitive, and stubborn attitude is he keeps sending me heart emojis, and months ago he was flirting with me. He asks me twice if I still like him or if I still had a crush on him then I said no because I already moved on, I regret having a crush on him because back then he was nice and cool however he's a bit defensive tho Edited: Lesson learned. Be more aware of red flags and strange behavior 👍

[@green7982]

I stopped liking my crush because he called me all sorts of names and told me I only care about myself when I said I didn't like him because I was embarassed.

[@Sandy-Jameson]

That first person sounds like they stan suju

[@randomwidge7463]

Most of these problems are caused because people are looking at physical attributes and not peoples personality. If you want to have a future with them you gotta be the best of friends first :3

[@gabi175]

I used to have this crush when I was younger for like the longest time but after talking to him once, I was like "disgustang"

[@emobr0wnkxtty698]

I started to hate my crush after I asked him if he supports lgbtq+ and he said that they're "disgusting".

[@random...3723]

Well it's his opinion tbh.... But yeah sure, you can hate him if you want it's your opinion too dear

[@soitmineel_11]

My school doesn't have any nice people with manners or even good looking people. I'm in 6th grade and literally NO ONE from all of the past years while being in this school looks good. Also I would never have a crush.. 😅 Sorry- :_)

[@gracie_321]

Happy to see she’s not homophobic

[@sailoruniverselol]

Oh boy, I’ve gotten over so many crushes for all kinds of reasons.. and I still can’t get it right today XD •Stopped liking my first love because he started vaping and doing other terrible drugs.. wasn’t into that. •Stopped liking 2nd love cause he was gay and was super toxic to me (always left me out). •Stopped liking third love because he was in a relationship and I knew a few days after starting to like him but continued to still like him for a few more months XD •Now I have a crush on someone.. but they’re older than me and they live in a different country. Fun times :D

[@_Who__]

I hate my crush because they don't exist.

[@athena_the_avocado]

Oh I have a story for this.... So basically, me and this guy got super close, and he literally knows everything about me. My embarrassing stories, my life, the things I like, dislike, etc. Anyways I never knew I would like him a lot, to the point where I will do anything for him. Before I liked him, I was handling a rejection from someone I liked for 2 years. He knew how much that guy meant to me, so he did his best to comfort me and stuff. Anyways a few months pass and I'm over that guy and start to develop feelings for this "new" guy. I tell him I like him and he says "ok" so I thought, "huh, this guy has a really big ego". all of a sudden this guy changes personalities so quick, and whenever we're on the phone he makes fun of me and says I can't do anything without him. I get mad ofc, and said I was gonna block him. He then says "you'll be lonely forever if you block me, I'm the only one you have." And this hurts. Like. Really hurts. So I can't take it anymore so I say: I'm going to take my life tonight I was being serious I literally couldn't take any more pain from him, and from the people around me. It was so toxic. And all he said was: uh ok And it hit me this guy never cared, and I was just an object. I told him all that was on my chest, how miserable he made me feel, and all he said was "ok". It was as if my feelings never matter- they do. Everyone's feelings matter and no one should feel like that. If you so happen to feel this was, just know you matter and you're worth it. And if someone makes you feel miserable kick them out of your life, cuz honey they don't deserve you.

[@aya.mandaa]

I feel bad for u but, just bc someone is being toxic to u doesn’t mean u have to take ur life away bc there are a lot of ppl that love u even if u don’t know it

[@blurrrrrrr]

DUDE WHAT- he’s a fucking narcissist, your life matters!! People like that think they’re so much better than others and it ticks me off. Srsly so proud that you kicked him out of your life (I’m assuming you did) I hope he learns his lesson someday. Going through something like that is tough, and you don’t deserve a friend like that. Every. Fucking. Life. Matters. And nothing can change your worth.

[@lame-y4721]

For a second at the start i was like damn this dude is a stalker...

[@athena_the_avocado]

@@aya.mandaa aww tysm 💖💖💖it means a lot :) Ilyyy

[@athena_the_avocado]

@@blurrrrrrr IKR! I hate toxic people 😒 Also thanks so much! It means so much to me, and yes I did kick him out of my life and I feel great now 😌 Ilysm you deserve the world 💕

[@crissyy4081]

My ex use to hug and play footies with other girls while me being there but then gaslight me into thinking it was my fault 😐

[@Yun.x1]

The first one is cruel!Even I can hate kids sometimes but I’d never go that far!

[@solseclipse]

Girl: *dances suggestively in front of her cousin* SWEET HOME ALABAMA-

[@littlelemon3465]

Why did I find this so funny XD

[@Kategory5]

Stoppppp

[@solseclipse]

@@Kategory5 Stop what?

[@Phinehas46]

Nothing wrong with that. You can do your cousin and it doesn't count. In NY state you can marry them.

[@Alysser_]

@@Phinehas46 what 😃🔫

[@hdclips1158]

I liked a guy until he turned really rude, got with the popular kids and began being an eshay😬😬

[@lame-y4721]

Imagine actually being popular

[@malavika.u6972]

@@lame-y4721 Can't relate

[@reiilun8648]

I had a crush on someone and he still believes the earth is flat I cannot believe this 🚶🏽

[@Aurochhunter]

I think it’s hypocritical to dislike children, since we all start out that way, think about what it must have been like for our parents. Now to hate a particular child who’s an obnoxious little shit, that I can understand; but most child don’t actually go out of their way to be naughty, they just need something to do to keep them occupied, and hopefully there won’t be any trouble.

[@Pipopipopi_123]

I can have a huge crush on someone until I find out they only use their charm to flirt and keeps neglecting their studies. Automatically makes me think there's no hopefull future for it. Lol

[@namra6060]

1:07 Oh damn even I don't really like kids and all my siblings are older than me so i never grew up with kids...but recently my sis had kids and i absolutely love them and my brother have a son and my nephew lives with 24/7 and it sometimes get annoying when he cries but i wouldn't do such a thing damn specially not to my family's kids!

[@weirdst_]

I had a crush too, and well, I was a little obsessed. Like every time I saw them, I'd hide, get really red, and cringe things like that. Well we had a lot of classes together, so I was happy "we" could see each other almost all time. Reminder: one of my friends was friends with my crush, so that friend helped me a lot. In P.E. Class, we had to leave our bags/backpacks in some benches. Everyday, after class, I'd help my crush get their bag out of the benches (the bags sank in the benches' holes). Remember that friend who has a friendship with my crush? Yea, one day they told me about a talk they had. In that talk, my crush said I was weird, strange and they were scared because of me helping them get their bag out of the benches' holes everyday. Yellowish flag. What did I ever do to you?? I was trying to be kind, I was trying to help you! And yes, there was a chance my friend lied, but I know they didn't because after that day my crush asked me to stop. I was like "Oh yea, get your 4ss out of my way then!" Geez I was trying to help.

[@krisweaver226]

That first girl has shamed the community... we already have it bad enough

[@nusaibahzohura5516]

You look pretty cute in this hairstyle! :3

[@ZaneGamesOfficial]

My ex was a nice guy, but this year, he started bullying my close friend. LOL idk what was so attractive about him.

[@areyoulostbabystay5590]

I started disliking(since hate is a strong word) my crush because he broke off our friendship and hated me after people started shipping the both of us. Now he sits beside me in class and we pretty chill now.