Performance Anxiety | Menisms Ep. 2

[@oyindamolaige5433]

Ladies also sometimes have performance anxiety too, contrary to what Murewa asserted, and some of us are also very particular about giving back as much as we receive. And making sure that it’s a mutually satisfactory experience. Great show as always Guys! Cheers!❤️

[@berylianngekwi543]

This podcast is so underated😍Absolutely love it

[@kesienaa5073]

Gotta hand it to y'all, absolutely spot on conversations. You balance it well with proper analysis of past experiences and reflection from a removed and more matured perspective. Murewa's first time was insightful for several reasons 😅. Some key things to note, that'll be great as content for the next episodes: 1. Murewa was cheated on and emotionally blackmailed/manipulated into his first time. Any way you cut it, that's some BS. You really only hear the women's perspective on that with the "men are scum" movement. Be great to hear what/how other men handled that. 2. Michael was pressured into his first time, largely against his will, but not his hormonal instincts. One can argue that's assault 🤷🏾‍♂. There's also the fact that she only really did it to win a bet. If the objectifying shoe was on the other foot, men won't get nearly as much "grace". What do you think and if it is, how do you think men should handle the growing double standard better?

[@madeauxafrica]

This is very insightful observation! Thank you for this 💪🏾

[@johanna6550]

I absolutey love this channel. This channel will go very viral, just keep going with the transparency and your own views of it. Banger channel!

[@madeauxafrica]

Yes! 📝

[@twikhozay]

This conversation is loaded! Big ups 💪🏾

[@Iphie2019]

Good content and super real!!!! This is the podcast we didn’t even know we needed. Having conversations definitely helps us enjoy ourselves better cos it should be about it pleasing one another.

[@madeauxafrica]

You've got that right!💪🏾💪🏾💞🎙

[@Naijamomlifeqmoves]

very informative. Good to hear from a guy's perspective.

[@_eneji]

I’m just gonna keep lurking and binge to this channel. I love real conversations. Big ups✊🏾❤️

[@elijahogah8586]

I'm binging this ting. I really love ur page and I've been on it since morning. Big ups to you guys.

[@abelyabo2192]

This was a lovely episode. I related to a lot of what was said. Especially the last part about having the lady make the first move for consent purposes. Unfortunately it has left me with no action for months on end 😂. This was nice. Kudos to you both.

[@madeauxafrica]

😂😂 don't worry Abel. You'll get some action soon

[@king_shedy]

this has been one of the most entertaining video for me today.... you guys thrashed virtually erythang..... 100%

[@nafisatalao4912]

This is so informative and the talks are so deep and analyzed! Love this !!

[@madeauxafrica]

Yay💫💫🚀🚀

[@twikhozay]

Sonariwo is killing me 😂💯

[@hughestemilayo4675]

This honestly is mind blowing,having open thoughts on this and putting real life experience 👍👍 Hopefully I get the opportunity to be on it

[@oluwatosinjustinaabe8379]

This is really educative

[@madeauxafrica]

Good see you were paying attention Tosin. 💪🏾

[@knowingdebby]

This pod is going to be an addiction for me 🥳🥳🥳🥳

[@madeauxafrica]

Glad you like it Debby 💫💫

[@Purple-lavenderstudio]

I love this podcast 😍 crushing on murewa

[@ebony6108]

I really liked this episode lol

[@Bg_tee]

You guys rock and I agree with what guys go thru no cap

[@madeauxafrica]

Thank you Tosin !👏🏾👏🏾🤗

[@mentoclockwithmo]

This piece is wild…great duo

[@madeauxafrica]

Real Recognizes Real 💪🏾💫

[@f-young1515]

U guys are the best.

[@madeauxafrica]

Real recognizes Real 💪🏾💪🏾

[@cryptoairdrops2270]

You guys are awesome.....alright so a quick one,Morewa. ..I actually really want to grow my beards but mehn its not easy. What do you suggest actually, maybe some beard products or a particular diet; what worked for you in particular?

[@pelumiashimi5733]

I really enjoyed watching this

[@madeauxafrica]

There's more amazing content coming your way !

[@aniekanakpakpan3127]

great podcast!

[@madeauxafrica]

YKTV

[@full2087]

I’m now a big fan

[@madeauxafrica]

Welcome to the A Team🤝🏽

[@belloabdulquadri2118]

The older you grow The lesser you care 100% bro

[@madeauxafrica]

Nice point of view👍🏾

[@southworld8221]

Dope stuff.. good job guys

[@madeauxafrica]

Thanks Man !🚀

[@AlexysLifestyle]

I love this guys

[@madeauxafrica]

👏🏾👏🏾💫

[@soalaiwari8131]

I appreciate that its from a mans perspective but you are 70% wrong about everything on the womans thoughts. Women talk about everything! everything!!

[@CapreDiem42]

Aye when he said the female friends he has don’t talk I was like yeah cos they on code cos those girls talk amongst themselves ok 😂. It’s only as we get older we limit the information we may share amongst our friends/associates and even family members as people are people at the end of the day.

[@Onyinyeojike]

Still not all women talk about these things to be honest. Not all

[@sashacobbs1687]

Yeah my first time was about 25 mins .. didn’t finish too crazy stuff

[@madeauxafrica]

Hmmm🤔

[@chimachiamaka6582]

Really love this podcast. I feel there should be a female guest to set some things straight. Cuz sometimes I be here screaming that's not true at some assumptions.

[@madeauxafrica]

Lool. Hmmm maybe we will

[@thepanafricanman]

Bad idea

[@eliakpa6317]

@@madeauxafrica bad idea don't do it

[@ceciliapaul7432]

@@eliakpa6317 I agree. It's legit titled MENisms. It's a male perspective podcast. Women can always come on the comment section and share their perspectives. Let's not complicate the Podcast and turn it into a debate or an argument. I love it the way it is.

[@abena3982]

I think it’s nice to just hear the male perspective. We as women know how we see these situation so it’s nice to see the male perspective without any interjection.

[@moremiarowosegbe7665]

The light guy’s story is painful though 🥲

[@teezeeeee]

Are you on Spotify???... I need something to listen to when working out ☺️

[@madeauxafrica]

Yes we are! Menisms!

[@agm4597]

Men do overthink...doesn't matter if you like it or not....in a sober state most times anxiety is as real as your breathe

[@jessjess367]

I think olumurewa is really smart

[@madeauxafrica]

Ofcourse he is !

[@CapreDiem42]

Listen he’s been giving me psychologist vibes more over than what his occupation/qualifications are. Very impressive young man and his cohost is very impressive too. Their chemistry on this podcast is gold.

[@nomia_precious]

Love it

[@madeauxafrica]

Yayyy💥

[@changetocome100]

What I'm curious about is how many other men are as evolved as these guys, do you guys have these conversations with your own friends outside?

[@yang2382]

This jidenna looking guy is smart frfr

[@Ray-bz5vx]

😂😂👏🏾

[@yang2382]

Port Harcourt babessss😂😂

[@akingbola]

Murewa na CU student?

[@TheTydike06]

Do women face sexual performance anxiety?

[@madeauxafrica]

We believe everyone does

[@CapreDiem42]

Yes we do but it plays out in different ways partly because of our anatomy

[@dorischichi3460]

I think olumurewa is right abt females not having much anxiety than males cos most times the males are ontop giving them females less work to do during sex. For someone like me back in the days I used to be that selfish girl in bed but in recent times I also want to enjoy sex so bad that I put in more effort so both me and my BF are on the same level of performance… By the way I like how calm and open minded olumurewa is great content guys

[@madeauxafrica]

Thank you🚀

[@iamhaleesah292]

Audience from the overly hyper alpha male clubs on YT need to be directed here cos this is kindda nice😀

[@madeauxafrica]

YKTV

[@sashacobbs1687]

Nice

[@madeauxafrica]

💫

[@adedolapookekunle]

Yaay

[@madeauxafrica]

Yayyy👏🏾👏🏾🥰

[@chiomaumezinwa5892]

Okay??? We die here!!!!!!!

[@madeauxafrica]

😂😂😂

[@ladyjnd86]

Almost every partner I'm with has performance anxiety the first time. Y'all hype yourselves up too much. Nobody put that much pressure on you but you.

[@madeauxafrica]

Lol Okay. The pressure is real though.

[@CapreDiem42]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾thank you sis. They really do be doing it to themselves especially when they talk that talk n then can’t back it up😩

[@teecee3250]

Michael o😂😂😂😂😂😂this your first time gist

[@madeauxafrica]

😂😂

[@Ben-gj6is]

The darker dude sounds like mick Jenkins..

[@eniolathecitygirl]

Can one tell a guy, the first sex together was not good at all?

[@CapreDiem42]

Sure why not? Be mindful, it’s not what you say it’s how you say it😉

[@eniolathecitygirl]

@@CapreDiem42 how do you then say it, that It is not offensive

[@CapreDiem42]

@@eniolathecitygirl ok you can start the conversation off by going over what had led you guys to have sex in the first place like you know a casual conversation… So let’s say you two went to the movies before you both ended up having sex yh. Talk about that a little until you reach to the part of the performance. When you get there you can express to them what you did like n what you didn’t like. Some men forget that foreplay is not only just the kissing sucking and biting but also mental stimulation as well. Like one experience I had with a “fvck buddy”(no strings attached) whom I could have also considered a very close associate. Anyway I noticed when ever we would do the do this guy would last for about 7 mins max(that max is on a good night ok🙄)like sir 😳WTF. Although on average I’d get like 2 rounds out of him n if he’s good for it maybe 3 for each round after the 1st 7 mins add another 2. So after experiencing this quite a few times I just told him straight up listen you be getting too excited you’ve got to pace yourself when you feel like you gonna buss slow down n come out breathe n then come back in. I learned that most times is women have to tell these men what we want and where they are lacking in that department. The ones who would appreciate it are the ones who truly want to please as the ego maniacs would hate you for a time for telling your truth and giving them guidance. No Wombman nor Man should suffer in silence in regards to these issues especially if it’s with a person they care for or like very much. I hope I was of some assistance. Ps No he didn’t get mad he did take my advice. Eventually we stopped messing around but still speak or an impromptu chill when we occasionally run into each other.

[@eniolathecitygirl]

Thank you for this

[@niolab7]

Hope it’s not too late but keep that for your ancestors. My cousin told her husband this, they got divorced 5 years later and he still mentioned it to fam as one of her offenses. He never got over it 🥴

[@tadeytravels]

Lol

[@anthonyemordi7357]

She was not a virgin… you can’t disvirgin a girl in one day I might be wrong but it will hurt

[@madeauxafrica]

👀 Says who?

[@anitaseidel6645]

We give u kids I beg u guys can take this one especially us risking our life woman die daily from childbirth

[@changetocome100]

You guys need to have a woman or sex therapist on here if you want to delve into pleasing a woman in bed or what constitutes good sex. You almost touched on things but you grazed over it, everybody seems to fear going in depth...go deep boys😊

[@anitablack9163]

Do what ? lol some girls will humble you