Personal Q&A | Getting Engaged, Dealing With Hard Times, Turning 30

[@jessicajaso4639]

Love you beautybaby44 been here for over a decade and still love to watch and support. You and Meg feel like my old friends ❤

[@knightthezero]

You sound so stressed and sad Lindsey. I’m praying for you and Jared for whatever is going on with you guys right now that it works out, everyone is safe and everyone is healthy and well ❤️

[@MelissaFranquii]

I was terrified of turning 30. Literally didn’t even wanted to celebrate the milestone birthday. Then a couple years into my 30’s I realized that turning one year older is a privilege that many are not afforded. So with that reframing I’m much more calmer and less afraid.

[@lindseyhughes]

Yes! Such a good mindset that it is a privilege to age 🙏🏻

[@meera99999]

I could tell you were really trying to keep it together when mentioning everything you are feeling and going through. I’m sending you a big hug and all the positive thoughts 💛

[@manicmel_3102]

I’ve watched you since I was 12 and I’m 25 now 😩 on topic of the engagement/marriage. Watching your video on your past relationship made me so sad and I just know you really deserve all things good and a happy and healthy relationship ❤ you deserve the world and I can’t wait to watch all the good things that come in store for you

[@breetown]

I'm turning 30 this year too! I've been watching you since the beautybaby44 days! I've enjoyed watching how you have evolved over the years. I also am loving your new home! 🥰 I feel like this age is so confusing and scary. Growing older is bittersweet. You aren't alone. Life can be really hard.

[@EmilyHummingbird]

I’m so grateful I came across your channel all those years ago. I’m turning 27 this November and I feel I’ve grown up with you in a way. Thanks for inspiring me. Love you Linds. ❤️

[@MaddyxLu]

You deserve a break ALWAYS! You’ve given so much of yourself and your energy to all of us for SO long, if you need time to just sit with yourself you’ve done the work your entire life.. I hope mentally you can be okay with doing nothing ❤❤

[@sshmorgss444]

fellow worrier, overthinker & virgo here🙋🏻‍♀️ something that helps me is when i’m in that overthinking spiral, ask myself “is this a fact? are these facts” and 95% of the time the answer is no so that makes me feel better and helps me to just slow down and take things as they come and then go from there etc. like no point in spiraling about hypotheticals once you realize none of them are rooted in fact

[@haileyyardley3118]

love you linds! please rest and take care of yourself if you feel like you need a break ❣️ im sending love and manifesting healing and abundance your way

[@justbeingchama2796]

You are the first youtuber I ever watched back in the days Beautybaby44♥️ I remember watching you in my room all alone when i had no friends at all! And you were my virtual friend! You have changed my life in so many ways! I love you so much and I wish you find happiness and only happiness in your life! Love from Sri Lanka🇱🇰♥️

[@elly3477]

Sending you lots of love Lindsey 💕 I’ve been watching you since high school outfit of the week days

[@lindseyhughes]

💕💕

[@victoriagurrola2516]

I just turned 32 and trust me your 30's are going to be SO GOOD!!!! I've been watching since your start in your cutie pink room tour. Wishing you and Jared so much love.

[@Kristlelynn96]

I found your channel when i was looking for a good hairstyle to wear to my first day of 7th or 8th grade. Im 28 now and i love watching. I have gone back and forth between watching yt videos and not but i have been enjoying watching you so much!! Especially these last couple of years. You are a great role model. Im sending so much positive energy towards you. You deserve all the happiness, beautybaby44!!

[@YoutubeAccountx]

you're doing a great job Lindsey

[@emmaxxpeanut]

For overthinking. What helps me is focusing on the facts. As my brain likes to make stuff up and make everything worse than it actually is. So trying to ignore all the lies my brain is telling me. I don’t like to act in the moment. As I know I won’t have the same feelings or thoughts on the situation the next day. Hope this helps. As am a chronic overthinker to. You’re right about your thirties. I certainly chilled out and stop caring as much about what other people thought about me and the whole timeline of your life stuff.

[@tripppytea]

you are truly amazing brother ❤thank you for being so open and vulnerable with us, you have no idea how much it helps me with my own hard stuff. grateful for you. sending much love!!!!!

[@Erikacv923]

I relate so much. I’m a huge over thinker and definitely fall into those spirals. Thank you for speaking on this and giving perspective. Everything doesn’t always have to be so heavy! Love you 🫶🏼

[@wildsunflowers0116]

I wanted to give you a gigantic hug when you were talking about your struggles. Long time watcher and you are always such a favorite of mine to watch. Thank you for always keeping it real girl. Much love ❤❤❤

[@cloudburstorion]

I really relate to what you said about life expectancy. It sounds so naive, but I genuinely have always imagined my life span would be 100 years (probably for my own comfort lol.) But lately I’ve been hearing so much news about people who have died in their 70s or 60s or of course younger… and that freaks me out!! It makes 26 sound so much older when I shift the timeline down.

[@CoffeeWithKayli]

So sorry you’re going through a hard time. We got you! Sending you all the positive healing energy! 💕

[@SuperMusicalPassion1]

I hope you and Jerid and the pups are all safe. ❤

[@MargaretLin1]

omgggg im glad you’re ok ❤ saturn return is wild

[@ktjbpa2006]

Definitely embrace your 30th and celebrate. I did not get to have a real 30th birthday since I turned 30 in 2020. It’s scary and not perfect at all. You will find yourself missing 20’s at times but you’re definitely more confident and have more to look forward to. 😊

[@Emmype.e]

Love you and always like hearing you speak about things! And I needed this, things are feeling heavy at the moment for me and it was nice to hear the way you spoke about it. 💜

[@kaylastannard4098]

I hope you have the best day Lindsey.. I have loved following you for many many years. You have such a beautiful energy and presence. I’m proud of the person you have become and continue to be. Always hoping the best for you and your sweet family ❤

[@lindseyhughes]

Thank you so much Kayla!

[@merrymeet]

Feel for you! Been a long time watch and rarely a commenter. But as an almost 32 year old lady I relate so hard. I spiral especially at night, fellow virgo in attendance! This q&a strangely made me feel not alone so I wanted to thank you for that! I keep hearing 30s are the best and then 40s are the best, but I think we just have to take each decade as it comes... So far my 30s have been pretty challenging and I've been having to deal with that on my own but maybe 32 will be good for me... So excited for your next adventures with your life partner and all your plans following. 💖

[@allaboutjisu]

Been watching since beautybaby era. Always felt extra close because it felt like we kinda grew up together especially since our age is the same. Always wishing the best!

[@Mardiesel1319]

I’ve been watching since you first started and I love how much I can relate to you! 😊❤

[@lindseyhughes]

❤️❤️❤️

[@panicstation7]

Definitely not pushing anything on you, but praying always helps me when I'm spiraling. That purple looks great on you BTW!

[@amberrose4879]

Loved the family trip content!

[@rhoda3704]

Thankful for your vulnerability and praying for strength, joys and solid “future vision!” to make the present trials more manageable. XO

[@delaneyexpressionalart]

love you and your honesty so much! i have been watching you and meghan for so long now!!❤

[@jadenfield578]

Been a subscriber over a decade aswell! Love your videos, find your vlogs very comforting, sending so much love 🩷

[@CarolineBloomer97]

Been here since the Georgia days and your pink bedroom! I specifically remember watching your prom “get ready with me” 👗🤍

[@charlottesmith1000]

whenever i reach a new age, i just tell myself that I'm 21 with x number years of experience. cheers to your upcoming birthday! 🎂

[@jeanavery4451]

Wishing you and Jared all the best. Chin up ❤ ❤👍🏻

[@Kelly.Patricia]

I love seeing your videos pop up on my page!💛 Sending you lots of love and light!🙏🏻✨

[@rachelnelson2903]

Wishing you love, healing, and peace 💖👍👍👍

[@allisonbaker6919]

Lindsey, do you think you would ever post the story on KZbin for those who have income issues. I can’t afford going to your other accounts. Thank you.❤ I wish you the very best.

[@briannarachelle538]

Lindsey 🤍🤍 Please stay strong, I could feel your sadness in this video :(

[@coracouture]

something ive been working on in therapy is the CBT triangle (google and theres a ton of free resources/worksheets), focusing on thoughts/feelings/actions has been so helpful in managing panic/anxiety for me. literally just following journal prompts or writing stuff down helps me get it out of my brain. sending you all of my love

[@misslg4you]

👍this was such a nice a chill video

[@taylortutkaluke6099]

Love this vid ❤ sending hugs

[@eroemer13]

Last night i just had a random thought and was like, dang I am going to be 27 next year, and no that is not old but its so scary to think that not only am I getting older, but so are my family members that I am close to and my dog.

[@ohhlillyrose]

there is something in your 30s that happens and you become so confident! you get hotter, smarter, just a glow up!

[@allybaby29]

I’m 33 and I still feel the same as I did when I was in my 20s. Literally nothing changes 😂

[@MrVikingsandra]

Age really is just a number! I know people in their 40's, 50's 60's and beyond who have more energy/ enthusiasm than people in their 20's. So I wouldn't get attached to a number. You can live the 20 yr old life style even later on in life, if you choose to do so. I'm excited about the now and what's to come. I never dwell on the past even if my 20's were fun. But I'm still having fun now, just in a different way 🙂 I'm biologically 42 and truly living my best life so I wouldn't go back.

[@mandywilliamson1857]

I cried on my 30th in May and still trying to adjust it seems so dumb, but it feels like such a big step in life lol.

[@stephanieb8646]

I also cried on my 30th last year haha

[@sofiacarmody5183]

you should get a mic:)

[@emiliarose1460]

I feel like a big mirror above the bed would open the room!!!

[@lindseyhughes]

Good idea!

[@emiliarose1460]

You did the mirror!!! So cute!!

[@lindsayb9118]

First comment 😊

[@SimplyFrancesca]

I totally relate, I've always had a number in mind too. Mine has always been 80. I loved, LOVED my 30s! Best decade by far. I'm turning 42 next month and most people think I'm in my late 20s. I might be doing something right! 💪🤪

[@lindseyhughes]

That’s amazing!

[@prettygirlteee]

You are my first ever KZbinr from beautybaby44 days to now my original OG lol🫶🏽💕💕💕

[@amyworley6221]

lindsey i hope everything gets better for you and jared 🫶🏼 we appreciate you so much!