Personality and Why It Matters | Jordan Peterson | Best Life Advice

Dr. Peterson explains why it is useful to understand your personality and how it impacts your behaviors, actions and relationships.
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Big 5 Personality Traits
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Psychological researchers often define personality in terms of five core traits, which can be thought of as stable dispositions that drive behavior. The five-factor model of personality encompasses these basic traits:
- openness to experience
- conscientiousness
- extraversion-introversion
- agreeableness
- neuroticism
The traits, often referred to as the "Big 5," are summed up by the acronyms OCEAN or CANOE. Every individual manifests each of the five broad dimensions of personality to one degree or another, and the infinite variety of ways individuals differ in how the traits are expressed is what makes the study of personality endlessly fascinating. Using questionnaire-based testing, psychologists measure the degree to which each of the traits is individually manifest.
The five-factor model is used to help understand and predict relationships between personality traits and success in social, academic, and professional circumstances. The model has been criticized for its limitations with respect to the number of personality traits evaluated and for the fact that it is a data-driven model and not based on a psychological theory. Proponents of the five-factor model argue that it delivers consistent results and that such a description of personality must come before, not after, a theory of personality.
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Jordan Peterson's "2017 Personality" videos are a series of lectures recorded from his psychology class taught at the University of Toronto.
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[@ignisninja5867]

I really appreciate and respect Peterson giving credit to his student like that.

[@Elizabeth-yg2mg]

I noticed that too--it's good. I worked in research with a bunch of academics who took credit for their staff's ideas. It was demoralizing and unethical.

[@vanillagrizzley]

This is why he is so easy to like and appreciate!

[@leytonzhang5607]

Jordan is in the 99.99th percentile in both wisdom and intellect

[@johnehurley7547]

Yea well that's what real teachers do.

[@brainactivity737]

Giving credit to your team is a sign of confidence and good leadership. Bravo Peterson!

[@amihere383]

Don't go looking for friends. Find yourself, and what you want, and live within that, and your friends will already be there.

[@AbdulSamad-dz4vw]

👏 right

[@human7491]

Easier said than done, for we are not alone.

[@amihere383]

@@human7491 If it’s easier done than said then it isn’t worth doing

[@QWERTY-gp8fd]

already did. financially independent still no friends, no woman. lonely miserable life ever since the parents died. money cannot fix this.

[@mitthrawnuruodo1730]

I spent a lot of my life trying to fit in and find my crowd when I should have been trying to find myself

[@EdwardGFunk]

oh

[@yaboiplank6764]

This sounds like a song,but I can't put my finger on it...

[@justinkim7202]

Exactly how I felt

[@Jesterj13]

I found you! Your on you tube comments

[@Chrispullin_]

Your just a typical human being no big issue bro you’ll be fine 💀

[@bahaanaldo]

"You're not the plan. You're the thing that overcomes the obstacle to the plan." -JBP

[@jerrygreene1493]

@Brandon Stewart Is that supposed to be useful advice? How?

[@obviouslykaleb7998]

jerry greene Because plans don’t adapt, but people do. Likewise, a single plan is good for a single scenario.

[@jerrygreene1493]

@@obviouslykaleb7998 Posit An Ideal: 'Our research has shown if people conceptualize an ideal, what do you want, if you think that through and reach for it, you are less tormented by uncertainty, here you are alive and everything, if you are not capable of manifesting some relationship with the fact of your being, there would be nothing useful to do. You can make a case for adopting that strategy....' [Seriously dude. You had to do research to come to the revelation that if you decide what you want you then become less uncertain about what you want? Here you are alive and everything manifesting a relationship with the fact of your being? Dear JP did you manifest a relationship with the fact of your being today, and what did that action look like specifically? We are here and alive and stuff? That is some serious intellectualism.] I guess JP helps lost souls who are inspired when someone on YT tells them to clean their rooms, all good. As an intellectual though, JP is a complete idiot. An embarrassment to even the faux academia fields of psychology and philosophy. I can't use my eyes as electron microscopes? Real elements are real? If I do something that hurts I tend to not do it again? Thank you Jordan.

[@hassaan1670]

I read this in my voice first then Dr.Petersons voice. XD

[@timothyj1966]

THIS should be MANDATORY Marriage Counselling!!!!!!👍🏽

[@JFairhart]

The sooner you know your traits and accept them (along with the limitations) the happier you are in life.

[@tentimetex]

Okay but for introverts who are creative, there is literally NOTHING that we can do in life. It is not monetizable. Industry is not looking for that.

[@JFairhart]

@@tentimetex - ok, accept that and be happy. Don’t complain or use excuses. Earn a wage and be dependable. That’s it.

[@tentimetex]

@@JFairhart thanks for the advice and tips.

[@JFairhart]

@@tentimetex - for souls like us, it is a very great accomplishment to be humble. The ego wants to be somebody in this world. But our destiny is to overcome ego and attain spiritual advancement which is extremely difficult if you don’t recognize the true purpose of your birth. And if you accept this life as it is, your next incarnation will be more advancement than imaginable. Good luck brother.

[@laramatthews2082]

Not too soon in life tho. There's alot of fundamental wisdom created in curious exploration and experimentation. This is why I can't get behind the "transkids" movement ... It negates/robs immature humans of that natural curiosity, exploration, and experimantation that is so fundamental to developing personal character. Not soon enough can be detrimental to maturation too tho ...

[@ecurb10]

4:40 "The advantage of working with a conscientious person is that they're gonna work like mad....the disadvantage is that they're gonna work like mad.." Haha....that's right.

[@indridcold8433]

I work alone. I have worked alone since 2001. I do not even remember what it is like to have a coworker. I do not even see other people save the security guard at the guard Shack at the entry to the facility.

[@ecurb10]

@@indridcold8433 And do you like it that way? To an introvert like me that sounds like heaven!

[@indridcold8433]

@@ecurb10 I do not even remember what it is like to have a coworker. It would seem like an awkward and intrusive experience to have a coworker again. For work, I would have it no other way. I do not like the work I do. But the isolation and the pay is great!

[@ecurb10]

@@indridcold8433 Do you mind if I ask you what you do? Do you even see/talk to customers or clients?

[@indridcold8433]

@@ecurb10 I am a mechanic for the plant and vehicles of Estes Logistics North. I work third shift so I have no coworkers. I just repair the forklifts, machinery, lorries, even company cars and occasional employee vehicles as a benefit to them. I come to work, look up my assignments for the night, and get to work. The customers are handled by a different department. Most employees work at day. I am an in-house, nocturnal, grease monkey. But it pays extremely handsomely, thus I stay with it.

[@bh9262]

He has such a smooth way with words.

[@philiphicks1273]

When building a team I like to get people with vastly different traits and strengths and show them what they can accomplish together by using each strength together.

[@Julebstube]

Yeah I know, like a Wizard, Elf, Dwarf, Barbarian....

[@BLITZY261]

@@Julebstube ..and a serial killer...must have at least one of those.

[@tahah.babikir7698]

@@WordToTheWise dude thats not an appropriate response...

[@ninjabeatz905]

@@BLITZY261 People are hired for their psychopathic traits - Wall street

[@dc1397]

Like the movie with Adam Sandler in the Longest Yard.

[@brettbod5273]

The world as we have created it is a process of our thinking and so are we. It cannot be changed without changing our thinking

[@KARRIEMABDUL]

I just love this man. Thank you for sharing.

[@rachelring2542]

Introvert, orderly, industrious and boring here! I like to relax too.❤❤

[@ecurb10]

Me too, except the "industrious"....eek!

[@isaorozco778]

Gosh me too and single lmao ... Single by choice 🤣

[@BREAKOUT444]

Introvert on the internet seeks introvert on the internet

[@j2582]

Cozy.

[@jimjabal]

To quote The Fray, ".. you've found me. you've found me".

[@nightfighter7452]

0:54 slow down buddy, I don't even have a personality yet

[@katedemenok8340]

LMAO

[@BrotherTree1]

Become your own helping hand. Find another that does the same, and you'll be helping yourselves as well as each other and you'll develop a proclivity for moral guidance and harmonius balance in order and chaos, safety and strength, and emphasis and compassion for the individual as well as for the wider community. That's what we need when couples start families and have children in my opinion. It sets them up more well and healthy and respectable for the kids and adults alike and opens up the door for further moral and practical knowledge and competency.

[@pthompson2113]

So true. My parents did the opposite!

[@MrTrollbaby]

this was put in a way that i can accept. thanks man

[@fransmoolman5687]

Thanks for actually posting videos related to the title👌👌👌

[@lordvoldemort4242]

My father is extremely extremely low on agreeableness

[@kirkjohnson9353]

Maybe he has a son who is just like that.

[@winx4930]

Try one that disowned you for no other reason than an evil sister

[@UserName-ii1ce]

Dont minimize others problems because you think you had it worse

[@ErikaK]

We are all unique and different but we tend to strive better when we surround ourselves with those who have more similar personality traits :) we have better and stronger relationships ♡

[@scottyben191]

Erika K ✌🏼❤️

[@ErikaK]

@@scottyben191 much love Scotty!!

[@scottyben191]

Erika K Same! Hope your day is full of love and positivity!

[@ErikaK]

@@scottyben191 :) :) yours too!!!

[@tahah.babikir7698]

I hereby pronounce you as boyfriend and gurl friend.

[@Turtleportal]

This is a well made video, kudos. Clean editing and syncing.

[@thinker8682]

I wait every week for these videos.

[@davidwilliams7552]

Brilliantly concise and accurate this is so helpful

[@piercehawthorne8124]

Thank you!

[@nextphase1752]

He just described 90% of American marriages lol 😂

[@salomebrunner7667]

😂😂

[@csebastian3]

I wish I saw this before I got married.

[@seshwondo376]

I’m miserable single and miserable with a girlfriend, life is suffering regardless of your state in it

[@kirkjohnson9353]

You have things in common with your wife- she is no doubt saying the same thing.

[@blueboat9581]

@@seshwondo376 ask yourself what do you want. Then go after that

[@gracekestler4116]

I spent a lot of my life trying to fit in and find my crowd when I should have been trying to find myself

[@karentashua.14s13]

Oh so true .... all around

[@VinnyTheory]

*Posts a Jordan Peterson video again* *instantly clicks*

[@WordToTheWise]

Always good to see you around :)

[@VinnyTheory]

Hey we’re on the same journey, I’m just way behind you haha

[@VinnyTheory]

Psychonaut that’s like saying if Einstein was on Benzos for a couple months then all of his work is meaningless. You need more than that to hurt a mans reputation. You’re just a hater and the fact that you are even watching a Jordan Peterson video confuses me

[@VinnyTheory]

Psychonaut I’m not going to fight with you, I just feel bad for you that you consider yourself to be intellectual when you haven’t heard anything Jordan has ever said or know anything about him. By default all of your judgements are invalid. Once again, it is like never knowing any of Einstein’s work and attempting to spread word to people that do know his work that he is an idiot, which is laughable. I didnt compare the two because of their fields, I compared the two because they have the same level of genius. You would know this if you were 2 hours into one of Jordan’s lectures, but all you do is read headlines. I have nothing to prove to you, and the fact that you continue to try to take down Jordan’s reputation with the mere fact that he’s on prescribed drugs is hilarious haha. You’re such a snowflake liberal if you care about that. Have you ever seen the show House? He’s also a genius addicted to Vicodin and no one cares, all the viewers are absolutely in love with him. Why? Because he’s once again a genius and an amazing person. Drugs don’t reflect character, especially prescribed legal drugs. Einstein was a great scientist but was also well known for his knowledge of philosophy. Jordan’s an even greater philosopher, and both are genius’s. Although I’m wasting my time arguing with you, considering your opinion on Jordan is one that uneducated and unjustified, I’m not surprised because Jordan is the only person I will always stand for regardless. And honestly, I’m not even going to continue this discussion. If you want to hate or judge a person you know nothing about then fine, be an idiot, and if you want to actually provide a fair analysis then go watch Jordan’s actual lectures. Goodbye

[@albrtl]

@Psychonaut *Casually compulsive response towards invocation of Godwin's Law Contrary to what others may think, I suspect your story contains merit-- SYKE! *STEALS YOUR DRUGS WHILE READING THIS!*

[@oumarsountal6628]

I strongly suggested we need more people like you

[@bloodsuckingflea]

This is an exceptionally good video. Thanks for posting it.

[@sineadbeel1917]

My husband was orderly and conscientious, I am much more relax and chill kinda person. He was disagreeable and I was agreeable. So he'd sit there and tell me to cook and clean and make sure everything was done while freaking out about it all not being done. I use to pretend I was asleep just to get down time.

[@70msubscriberswith6videosc2]

Brilliant!

[@kelleymcbride4633]

These videos are a wealth of useful information thanks for the up! 🔥🤙

[@oumarsountal6628]

It's true enough what you are saying thank you very much for sharing

[@GearsinMotionGraphics]

And this is the sum of all fears, which is the greatest connection we all must look for.. beside what somebody looks like. If you do not have a compatible feel and intent where somebody is just going to fall apart

[@robfolks]

Huh?

[@pthompson2113]

What?

[@andredelacerdasantos4439]

@@pthompson2113 Excuse me?

[@Demkoekje]

But even so for example that both parties have different personality traits, if love is really on the table, each would make sacrifices, adjustments for them to be compatible. They will endure for a time their different traits, then learn how to understand it, so they could move forward. But if one, even if one only won't make the efforts to match with the other, then it's best to leave the relationship.

[@randyrussell6246]

Education and all the advance studies is nothing to Jordan Peterson in what makes him stand out above most others, it's that he places it within his abundance of common sense. Look at Dr Phil , he sells common sense. I'm not a follower of Dr Phil but gotta drive that common sense point, I will follow and listen to the free and great counsel of Jordan Peterson for as long as he lends himself.

[@MorenoKing1997]

Thank you for the great video! Love your content man! I escpacially loved the ones where his voice is like echoed. Would love to see one of those again! Keep it up.

[@WordToTheWise]

Thanks Moreno, I'll look into it ;)

[@majorramsey3k]

I'm one of those annoying people who go around engaging in conversation.

[@ConvictedHeart]

*gasp* YOU MONSTER!

[@evangeliamintzai6302]

Me too!!!

[@Me-by8qi]

This is what some would say: Please stop, I have work to do. Also, I'm most likely carrying your load. (Pareto) But I just work from home.

[@indridcold8433]

I write to avoid interpersonal interactions with others and to practice my English written vocabulary. But I do not talk to others. Why talk when I can write to anonymous people thousands of kilometers away? If we do not like each other, it is not a problem. All you know is my name and we never write each other again. On the opposite end of the spectrum, we can never like each other because we do not know each other. We correspond for a spell then never write each other again. It is great, random communication without consequences!

[@TheyCalledMeT]

then leave your office- and get a sales job

[@yaboiplank6764]

It sounds like this guy knows what he's talking about.hope he becomes successful one day💪

[@wavewithmichael8780]

Lol he is a very successful man, Type Jordan Peterson on KZbin and you will find out how big he is.

[@adriannagulto]

Hes jordan peterson bro

[@calebc2067]

I think he was joking guys.

[@yaboiplank6764]

@@calebc2067 thx

[@davyroger3773]

@@wavewithmichael8780 r/Whoosh

[@nonhlanhlapreciousRadebe]

This makes a lot of sense. I think I am definitely industrious. I prefer to be busy with something useful.

[@PankajKumar-em7sb]

Thanks Dr. Peterson

[@Wozniak_15]

The best speaker in the world

[@fenkellmoney8034]

Learned about this guy from a random chat room and he’s a genius !!

[@sailorholiday]

Bravo! JP yet again…Nailed it! 😎🤜🏻🤛🏻

[@handssolo7980]

Bereft of curiosity, a silent cold chill moves with the fog that quells what remains.

[@tentimetex]

What does that mean?

[@handssolo7980]

@@tentimetex stay curious, or be forgotten in the mist.

[@kameronerdman5870]

Such an articulate person

[@DaveE99]

Where your different will generate a constant source of conflict, watch for it predict it and resolve it before it becomes one. Set the frame from the get go.

[@joesackbaron]

Opposites may attract ... But they can never last. Companionship can only really come from similarity.

[@katestratford6561]

I'm glad this video popped up in my feed... turns out I'm a conscientious and industrious person, not just a nervous wreck that can't sit still and covers up anxiety by doing something all the time, LOL.

[@youtubewatcher6854]

I wish all teachers were so enthusiast on what they taught because it's so engaging and interesting this way with the passion and makes you want to pay as much attention as the enthusiastic one. Just imagine how much education would change in contrast to that.

[@erfannomore2828]

I wish i was that good of crediting people of what they did and remembering statistics

[@mirellatorrisi1397]

I love it- "people with low productivity were wiped out by those with high productivity" hahaha...IF ONLY- there's so many more people to GO

[@costinnitu3813]

So in a few words: don't be too different but don't be too similar either.

[@onlyfacts4me]

Is it possible to transform one's personality traits through repeating thoughts and actions aimed at creating new habits?

[@perceptionascending439]

If you're watching at 3:30, amazing mind to the student mentioned shortly after:p

[@gauravgarg8962]

Wow, just wooow...🙏🙏🙏

[@123Goldhunter11]

Fixing other peoples problems can be satisfying whether you are a heart surgeon or a plumber. When you leave the job, people can go on with their lives.

[@ritikaaggarwal3480]

That's true

[@techpriest6962]

That’s been something we have been trying to pin down for quite some time. What is optimal for a good relationship. For awhile it was this idea that there needs to be this counter balance. (Opposites attract.) Though we found that to be wrong mostly, though there was something about it worth mentioning. Then obviously its been said the more similar you are the better. Though yes, in some respects. Though also no, because the desire for a relationship stagnates if they are exactly the same. After all, humans are a reactionary species that only lived for 30 years or so. So now we sit at a cross roads between the two theories. After all balance is needed in all things, or so the saying goes.

[@namanydv_garud]

It was good, made me think...

[@linhngo7398]

Mr. Peterson you are so smart and Intelligence. :)

[@TheHelghast1138]

Well that explains a lot of my past relationship failures lol

[@atlas3732]

It's nice to have an introverted woman to relax & chill with. And an extroverted one to build & grow business with.

[@harryfitzgerald260]

I’m not in any way understanding of everything Jordan speaks about. However, I’ve spent a lot of my youth teaching those seeking advice or guidance, that in order to fit in with people, or in this case, a significant other, you MUST figure out, understand (change if needed) who you are.

[@onceinawhile7]

I think about conflicting personality traits a lot. The way I see it, if you both find it difficult and nerve grating to be around each other, it’s not that either one is wrong, it’s just the wrong fit. It shouldn’t feel like work and a lot of tongue biting just to be around each other. Same goes for personalities too similar to yours. It’s hard to respect or grow w a person w the same flaws as you.

[@RehmanClips]

Goggins would say to triple down on your weaknesses

[@janick01ify]

WOW

[@kendrastrange18]

This is all given info...

[@bing12345678901]

20 years into my relationship and according to these metrics, we are doomed...

[@momentumflux8863]

Same here...

[@stephenbell8337]

Tolerance transcends into ever deepening varials. How much you can tolerate it for tat, given your own imperfections is unique to a degree. But I still agree with Jordans thesis.

[@Apudurangdinya]

I have no idea how to socialize so i joke everytime I'm with someone, like a lot to the point of no one takes me seriously, i was ok till life slam your face to the ground and show you what he really is, joke no longer hide who you are you can't denied yourself anymore

[@mattkaczmarczyk6953]

Same

[@bagonzaabraham1828]

This is the only true thing I have heard this guy say, and I have watched plenty of his videos

[@avancalledrupert5130]

I'm intj. I need an observer to stop my perfect plans failing due to my administrative incompetence. I know it's the admin and my se weeknes because I've written business plans for more sencory aware people and they have done well. I've tried twice and failed twice.

[@KaraokeNig]

Maybe twice is not enough.. try more times that may even improve your administration. Strong will.

[@RoyceWhiteOfficial]

@A Van Called Rupert-It's called Positive Accountability (the observer you speak of). And it's not only for those with "administrative inability". Those with Conscientious personalities (those with admin ability) are only 25% of the population, and even though they are Task Oriented, they can still accomplish the wrong things. Further, when they start to succeed, they need people oriented skills to lead properly or they will begin to fail. So in reality, we all need someone of our opposite personality to be strong where we are week. Also, your def of "admin incompetence" is needed to make sure we're talking about the same thing. I am doubly Outgoing, with half part Task and half part People orientation. And I need positive accountability to make sure I stay on target and get the "right" work done-activity doesn't equal accomplishment. My bride is 97% opposite of who I am and is strong where I am weak and is a great accountability for me-as I am for her-in personal and business life. Knowing your personality, hire someone who is opposite to be who you cannot or will not be. Lead them well and get to the success you are looking for. Or bring in someone you highly respect who is willing, and let them be your positive accountability. In all cases, a good understanding of personality allows you to know why you do what you do and how to connect with your opposites (and even your similars) so you can build rapport and understanding to get to your definition of success. Press on!

[@NewWorldFungus]

My wife is an extrovert. I love it. Doing chores give me time to myself. 😁

[@brookescott9598]

LISTEN to this man BEFORE you find yourself in a quagmire. Truly.

[@authenticallytrish]

I’m definitely annoyed by mess!

[@felsgamer]

I always thought that it would be a mismatch if both partners are extroverted, since both want to talk 24/7

[@InnovAce]

For some reason he reminds me of Rick from rick and morty

[@kendrastrange18]

Cause Rick is a "know it all" ass who doesnt really know it all...

[@InnovAce]

Kendra Strange lol hm

[@TheElectriczil]

@@kendrastrange18 idk seems to be the only one traveling dimensions and all that jazz seems like he might know more than jerry

[@mrzombiebrain]

i think becuz ricks knows "everything" in his world and Peterson has a way of explaining things that makes u think he knows everything

[@artsby9449]

Hey i have a question i dont have a personality i see the situation and the outcomes and act according to it and is happy with is am i normal?

[@chestersouth601]

Does anyone know if Jordan Peterson ever addresses wanting to balance out your traits yourself. Ie does he believe someone who’s lazy can become more industrious and keep to it. Or is his position, you are who you are? Thanks comments

[@caitlynvayne435]

What about the remaining traits Neuroticism and Openness to Experience? What can someone that usually score high in neuroticism do to navigate in relationships?

[@ebinvarghese3615]

Where can I find the link to the entire video?

[@WordToTheWise]

Links are in the description under "Video Sources" :)

[@SiddharthKapurtrust]

Can our traits be altered?

[@thembigwala8563]

where do u do these test thou?

[@baraka256]

My theory, sort of, as to why stars (extroverted) turn to drugs, they are so used to having people around that when they disappear for even a moment, they are lost and can only find solace in drugs. The introverts seem to live out their lives long because they are okay being alone.

[@baraka256]

Gustavo Joris Haha... my observations could be wrong.

[@BrendanRiley]

5:50, me and my girlfriend.

[@billygundum]

See, Peterson's not always wrong.

[@blakeavila4409]

So what should you do if you and your spouse have opposite traits? Like you love being goofy and they love being serious.

[@lemortedbrian6070]

mutual respect is the key when spouses have opposing qualities. ideally a couple should have opposing but not extremely opposing traits so the child can gain both your strengths and no weaknesses, and so the spouses themselves can work on their own weaknesses by learning from the other's strengths. ideally.

[@blakeavila4409]

Unlocked That’s a smart answer. I would add that the action of doing what doesn’t please you in order to please your spouse is loving them in its most basic form. And on top of that, the more you love them, the more love they will be filled with to then pour out back on you. And the kids can learn how to love by observing the two parents doing this to each other. It is typical for men and women want opposite things, and so sacrificing for the other person’s sake is usually always available to each spouse. But the man should sacrifice more for his wife than she does for him, as men are commanded to love their wives as Christ loved the church, who gave Himself up for her. (Ephesians 5)

[@kendrastrange18]

Funny too because his mention of sex is opposite in my situation.

[@Safikkusu]

do you think of a question then try to answer with negativity and positivity

[@tahah.babikir7698]

You mean pros and cons...

[@shaynearmstrong9290]

Has anyone noticed that most all of comments are from extroverts. Which is obvious from the comments themselves. What I'm getting to is " I'm glad for KZbin ect. " Being able to share a little at a time has helped me change my personality from an extreme introvert to move ever so slightly on the scale of opening up a little more. It still blows me away how people need people though. I just can't make since of it. I'm not trying to upset anyone.

[@orderingfoodwgoogledoxesu3113]

How do you know if you are extroverted? I'm 26 and I still have no idea. I have no problem talking to people, I really enjoy it, but it also tries me out. I'm super motivated by people around me, but desperately need occasional alone time. Every personality test I take yields different results

[@pfireball9383]

You're like me.... I'm in between both. A good balance I think

[@orderingfoodwgoogledoxesu3113]

@@pfireball9383 good but tricky, its hard to solve social problems because I dont know what kind of personality I have. It's like i have a different solution to the same situation based on what mood I'm in

[@pfireball9383]

@@orderingfoodwgoogledoxesu3113 take a " big 5" or 16 personality test online... it's free

[@Oxfordstudios]

I close my eyes and he sounds like kermit the frog.

[@NinersGuy04]

Craig Storer I was just going type this exact thing, but checked the comments first for it lol.

[@kelseyabbott5836]

Oh man now I just hear Kermit lol

[@poerava]

@Crom Triggered? JBP disciple? Is there anything wrong with sounding like Kermie?

[@poerava]

@Crom Is ‘firing shots’ telling someone they sound like Kermit the frog?

[@poerava]

@Gustavo Joris My friend is a 180kg big guy who sings falsetto. He sounds like a 12 year old girl. Sometimes the contrast is compelling and striking. Peterson speaks very articulately with big words and has great story telling artistry. His voice also sounds like Kermit the frog. This contrast, like my friend that sings (and makes a living from singing) is unique. It’s pretty cool too. It makes people unique and calling out the contrast is not being ‘unpleasant’. It has, in my observations, assisted in building the unique listening experience and his brand idiosyncrasies. Do you disagree? As someone well versed enthusiast of mythology, allegory and parable, Peterson certainly knows the potential power of an invisible dangerous entity just like ‘satan’ in Christianity. The narrative requires a nemesis of epic proportions. Scary and infused in many life situations. An imminent threat that can possibly make you obsolete and cause you harm. He needs the ‘left cultural Marxist regressive’ for his brand to exist. It’s how he began his notoriety and he works meticulously to perpetuate the existence of this monster. The pictures of screaming blue haired lesbians after trump was elected or some kids who screamed over him at Uni were perfect visual validating characters that he has used to, in his own words, ‘monetise the left’. If you were raised through early childhood with Christian mythology, you will probably have a subconscious affinity with Peterson and his sympathy to the supernatural Jesus story. It will probably feel ‘familiar’. Jordan speaks to narrow-minded individualism, obscure metaphysics, and existentialist angst. If you prefer a little more evidence and reason, look elsewhere. Here’s what one of his old friends has to say about him: www.thestar.com/amp/opinion/2018/05/25/i-was-jordan-petersons-strongest-supporter-now-i-think-hes-dangerous.html I’ve just finished practicing clinical psychology for 5 years and are doing some more post grad studies now. This is my informed and to a degree, qualified opinion. I have purchased his book and attended his speaking appointment here in Australia. He says some cool things. Some very harmful things too. Like most people. Was that unpleasant?

[@kepadrestardespierto]

in a few words, be alone

[@xyoungdipsetx]

I’m a introvert. It puts me at a disadvantage to succeed. I don’t know how to act in groups of people. How can o succeed if I’m so lazy and don’t like being around people because I feel so uncomfortable?

[@oleandra3759]

Joseph find success in flow with who you are. Think of successful authors as one example. Besides, you may consider yourself lazy because you’re thinking of activities you don’t enjoy. What about activities you do enjoy?

[@jeziscricket4448]

This speech is missing the salt of the earth _-|-_

[@indridcold8433]

Not everyone likes salt.

[@ravishingtwinkle3811]

I wonder what it is for INFJs , appear to blend in and fit in everywhere with all personalities yet not really feeling belonging.

[@KARRIEMABDUL]

Try a fellow INFJ or ESTJ.

[@ravishingtwinkle3811]

@@KARRIEMABDUL what's with estj

[@KARRIEMABDUL]

@@ravishingtwinkle3811 Meyers Briggs compatability profile for INFJs

[@pepimar5236]

It feels like " I like sharing with you, share thoughts, but I like more be with me"

[@ravishingtwinkle3811]

@@KARRIEMABDUL given me enough pain 🤣 sorry cannot handle estj

[@OS-yg9fr]

i love you all

[@rosstully5960]

It is so hard to believe that women are higher in agreeableness. That flys in the face of every experience I have ever had 🤣

[@stollerreinhard]

When I look at my life, I see how I have a wonderful woman, who is different enough from me, but not too different. I also have a call to pastoral ministry, which make complete sense because of my extraversion and intellectual tendencies. It's funny how God works everything out.