Pete Davidson on Trauma, Hollywood, and Finding Happiness | Real Ones

Pete Davidson discusses his journey from SNL to creating his own show, sharing behind-the-scenes moments and the impact of working with legends like Joe Pesci. He also reflects on the challenges of dating in the public eye and finding happiness amidst the chaos of celebrity. #realonespodcast #petedavidson #comedy #jonbernthal
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[@justinwilliamson5500]

This is the most I’ve heard Pete talk in a personal setting. He’s very articulate and relatable.

[@milagro75]

He also did a really good interview with Charlamagne tha God a few years back - it's about an hour long but really interesting.

[@justinwilliamson5500]

@@milagro75 thanks! I didn’t know they had a sit down. I’ll check it out.

[@energyempath7866]

He's so authentic and open and self aware. I love listening to him talk!

[@theodoram658]

The Charlamagne interview is amazing, before that in 2017 he was on WTF with Marc Maron, also totally worth a listen even if it is older now.

[@justinwilliamson5500]

@@theodoram658 thanks for looking out 🤙🏻 I’ll give that a listen as well.

[@DrRockso0]

I have been telling my wife for years that I thought Pete was way insecure about bits about him, done on SNL. I’m glad Pete finally said it. Imagine going to work, everyone likes you, and you like them . And you find out they are talking shit behind your back. We love Pete.

[@XxMaddieMalicexX]

I've always been a huge fan of his and it made me hate SNL

[@esotericslayer6004]

That’s typical of neurotypicals I’d say

[@HayleyClaire]

From my experience, being depressed and sad for so long and then trying to transition out of that into happiness can honestly be like detoxing. No one talks about it or allows for it like it needs. Strange hearing someone else describe it so clearly

[@william8282]

love these jon. no bs. no celebrity nonsense. just real conversations

[@recklessbydesign19xx]

This is the most relaxed, genuine, open, and happy interview with Pete I’ve ever seen. It’s great to see him comfortable in his own skin.

[@MarkEpting-xm6cp]

I’m a psychotherapist who’s been in recovery and dealt with anxiety/depression. It’s good to see men who can talk about life issues/challenges with depth, intelligence, and honesty. Keep it going :) Thanks !

[@Alex-sy7ee]

Maybe you shouldn’t be a psychotherapist

[@sweetvonbettie1]

​@Alex-sy7ee lil that you know most therapist have issues and relate to people easier.

[@SarahMcKenzieF1]

"In any crisis there's a great opportunity" - Jon dropping gems as per usual 🙌

[@almamirela]

Pete is so relatable and hard to hate. He’s authentic and real. Jon is amazing always

[@ceej93]

bullshit lmao this guy is a fkn clown

[@1mrrichierich]

I concur

[@milagro75]

One of the things I love most about Pete is his transparency

[@Izawwlgood]

The conversation starting at 27m about losing his father is fucking hard. Really great seeing these two guys supporting each other and talking about this.

[@masterofwit339]

Pete’s vulnerability & commitment to ever growing & evolving inner peace never fails to motivate me to one day do/be the same. Saw Copland, in 97, at the dollar theater in Myrtle beach. The tunnel scene pops up in my mind more than it should 🔥 Great interview, as always.

[@stephaniemcgrath5428]

I have everything & nothingggggg - so relatable. 😂😂😂😂 I cry laugh alllll the time

[@riversauerwein]

33:45 I see you Pete. I'm navigating this now. Grateful you exist. Keep going.

[@jordanscott8369]

The Sly story, classic. 😂 That’s why Jon is a legend. He treats everyone with love and respect, but demands respect in return. What a great example to the world and young men. Let’s go champ.

[@Im_Tulo]

Pete talking about DBT was really eye opening. From someone who can understand some of his struggles, I really hope bro gets to where he wants to be in life 🖤🙏

[@Emil-ix6pp]

Can relate so much to pete’s dark humor, self insight, making humor your shield. Makes you the life of the party but lonely on the inside and when alone. Not a curse tho, lot’s of fun and good times

[@stefanharris659]

Just think where he would be if he was actually funny

[@ShelleyLouise-f3t]

That's how I felt in high school ,saguaro high Scottsdale,AZ, David Spade went there, I graduated in 1991.

[@ShelleyLouise-f3t]

I'm in love with Pete Davidson!

[@ShelleyLouise-f3t]

Crying,laughing,yes

[@jasperlevien5968]

Try being the exact opposite

[@ZOYBOT]

Jon has a gift within show business and the celebrity world, giving them an ear and a place to vent their perspectives.

[@sarahmuff8531]

I hope Jon and Pete remain humble and true and never let anyone dim their light and mold them into a soulless robot of the industry. Love you guys

[@J---L]

Its great to see real men, having real conversations being real ones. i hope this happens more for men.

[@superjock28]

Petes not a real man gtfo

[@silver_crone]

Loved this interview. I love hearing Pete talk about BPD - I got diagnosed in my 40s and it was a lifetime of looking back connecting dots. All of his points here are so dead-on, including DBT being massively helpful, that there is hope, we can improve and do better and learn how to reign in everything BPD throws at you. It’s incredibly tough, but worth it to put in the work and have a somewhat normal life. Thank you for having him in for this interview, this was so great to watch.

[@michellemcfatridge-nf8qs]

Hope you’re doing well! 😊 I was diagnosed with BPD 10 years ago (I’ll be 40 in October) and you wrote something that really resonated with me…”It was a lifetime of looking back connecting the dots”…I’m in the throes of that right now and couldn’t articulate it until reading your comment! So really, I guess I’m trying to say thank you! 💖🙏😊 And so right about DBT; it was so helpful with my therapy that I got certified to teach it. I’m so glad it helped you as well! Sending lots of love and gratitude. May you be well. 😊💖🌞

[@corriegillett2536]

I’m going to be the odd one out here but I listen to pod casts while I’m working in my shed and not having to pause it the second my kids walk in is so refreshing. If people want to hear the cussing then they can, go listen to the unedited version, but I for one want to say thanks for making it so I can listen to it more freely whilst still being able to hold my standard of letting my kids have their innocence and limit the amount of swearing they hear while they are young. Appreciate you guys🙏

[@ohivonne7338]

Yes! Agree!!

[@dylangiles450]

KZbin should make a “mute curse words button” instead

[@SnailHatan]

Swearing doesn’t get rid of “innocence”. Arbitrarily deciding which words can be said does.

[@SnailHatan]

@@dylangiles450KZbin should make a “KZbin Kids” app instead, where kids can go and listen to shit made for kids instead of censoring and limiting what full-grown adults can say amongst themselves. Oh, wait, they already did that and yet every damn day KZbin for adults becomes more and more restrictive and boring and homogenous. Awesome.

[@dylangiles450]

@@SnailHatan they just gotta do whatever advertisers say🤷‍♂️

[@chirondawn2966]

Pete, dude I am a fan of you as a person. You are inspiring. Not because of the fame and fortune and all the tabloid fotter, but my dad died when I was 2, and I relate to your story. Im a normal girl trying to turn what I love into a career. You are the proof that dreams come true through perserverence and hard work. You never quit, no matter how much your struggling you always come out on the other side, you admit you have faults and issues because EVERYONE has faults and your real enough to address and correct them and find strength in the pain and you dont hide anything. Your courage and lack of concern for the bs is commendable. So yes, your hilarious and yes you have wit and an innate ability to write and create epic works, but you as a person, as a human, and what you stand for and what you stand against is why I am a fan of you as a person. I would love to just smoke and chill with you one day. no questions, no autographs, no cameras, just 2 average people being average people. Your a good real person and being on " Real Ones" is too perfect!! You and John are for sure legitimate Real Ones!!! John, Im happy your son is doing well and wish you both the best in life!!! Thank you for the honest vulnerability you both openly share . Thank you both so much!!

[@mikemac9110]

Jon is a top notch interviewer. Great job man

[@delilahpearce5992]

I admire Pete’s growth He’s one of the greates, legend in the making!!! Love that the full interview is now on KZbin! I watched when this was first released over a year ago on Pateron!!

[@dictionplacement5467]

pete's relatable in so many ways. shame what hate does to people who are literally just living their life, if only we lived in a world where people just lived their life before tech was healthier for the mind forsure.

[@LazyEyeNZ]

I have always been a fan of Pete from his work on SNL and I especially love his film King of Staten Island. Great conversation between him and Jon.

[@EdLuvables]

The censoring is incredibly distracting you gotta stop that.

[@CharleyCarey]

They don't get that KZbin money without the censoring.

[@matthewgarland693]

Came to say that. After watching matty Matheson beep to underscore his swearing (which is hillarious) this feels so childish and hard to follow. Any kid would be too bored by a podcast to listen anyway, their attention span is like 5 seconds.

[@BEEFSERPENT]

Then they get demonetized

[@jessa1355]

Is there an uncensored version available? The bleeps and edits interrupt the flow.

[@Sageberry221]

@@CharleyCareythey are fucking movie stars do they really need the little extra cash. The censoring is hard to listen too. Change that shit son!

[@AyDm219]

I don't know if you realize how helpful listening to you guys has been. Thank you so much for being genuine and making me feel less alone during my struggles.

[@andreacardenas4919]

Jonnnn I love your podcast, I would love to see some of your Bear castmates invited to this format and get more insight on how you guys approach your scenes, the vibe on set, the improvisations and specially would love to hear you talk about Mikey which for very little screentime is one of the favorite characters on the show as well as his relationship with richie, carmy, tina and all the team

[@LatveriaCinema]

We need another interview with Shia Labeouf.

[@insane__professional]

Yes ❤

[@ohivonne7338]

Yes!

[@Chelseadram]

Please !!!

[@bobespnza-la7030]

Por favor John

[@jennifersimpson6137]

YES YES YES

[@martintraynor9938]

I've been waiting to see this full episode for so long. Thanks for uploading it.

[@Hoodlum916]

Jon is the realest of the ones for being the host of this show. It's perfection, tbr. Dark but real.

[@hlahla9479]

This is slowly but surely becoming my favorite channel to channel. Keep it up 💎

[@ZoolooTom]

Jon is obviously the shit and the best conversationalist (never feels like an interview with any of these). I’ve watched Pete since his early roasting days and watched him evolve and grow. I relate to Pete a lot and the stuff he struggles with and has gone through even though that is probably cringe but it’s true. Pete is hyper aware of himself and his issues which is his most admirable trait and makes him an amazing comedian and human. Love you Pete, don’t change for anyone but yourself man. You’re the shit 🖤

[@PattySoffer]

Pete is so cool. Don't change a thing, dude. You're perfect the way you are.

[@selflovebadass]

I’m still trying to evolve & grow daily, but have felt so “stuck” & feeling so lost a.t.m. Always sending huge hugs & positive vibes your way Jon & Pete 💚💨 Blessings 🖤🤍🌈✨💋

[@eamonnkellihere1747]

This podcast helps me so much because the guests are always some of my favorite showbiz young men close to my age and they talking about how to deal with real life problems i deal woth everyday. Thank you Bernthal

[@alexandra71010]

I love Jon Bernthal he is literally amazing punisher is chefs kiss even small roles he’s in are amazing so much range but how he opens people up and wants to genuinely listen and help is amazing. Pete is unexpectedly sweet and endearing in this. ❤

[@blazed99]

I wish pete had have continued his show...it was fantastic..😔

[@treblelatrice926]

I was a little disappointed this interview was under an hour, honestly. I wish they talked for more time. Pete is one of my favorite comedians. I enjoyed this very much, though. Great interview, Jon. 🥰

[@melissabusby12]

Pete is my favorite!! Reminds me of myself in a weird way… This looks like what you get when you can afford to go to a really good therapist. I’m lucky to have some insurance for mental health but trying to find someone good that takes my insurance is virtually impossible where I live…

[@Blvns23]

The episode I’ve been waiting for!! Pete and of course Shia - thank you for having them both on ❤

[@tracyannin5118]

OMG I love Pete! I finally got to see him do stand up live a few months ago in Wichita Ks, 1st show sold out so fast, they went ahead & added a 2nd show, which also sold out! He was AWESOME, he is so freaking funny, I love his humor, a great story teller, very relatable & he even stayed for an extra half hour entertaining us all 🙂 I also have so much empathy for him, he has gone through & dealt with so much for so long, as well as still is going through & dealing with so much! THIS MAN IS GOOD PEOPLE & HAS A BEAUTIFUL HEART!

[@chriskerr4961]

The most honest and espoused interview I ever seen, beautiful

[@CrashRaph01]

So glad I got to know Pete from a Weekend Update on mental illness and then the Staten Island bit with Colin Jost and knew his humor was right up my alley. He sounded like my style comedy. A Real One

[@cutoHuy-gh1wv]

Can we all agree that the editing is top-notch?

[@Evolutionist199]

No.

[@Father_Daniel]

Another great video! I love seeing John with people just having real, genuine conversations

[@mallorieelaine]

It’s awesome that he opened up about bpd & self harm. It’s so hard to be in your mid-late 20s still dealing with that mindset. He’s right-It’s definitely a surge of emotions that you have to overcome and dbt and cbt has helped me get through that too.

[@43Disciple]

Pop culture taught me to hate Pete Davidson, admittedly never seen him say a word out of character or a bit, never seen him candid… right now I hate pop culture more than ever for vilifying this guy for no fucking reason. What a dude. I’m on board and I wish I could apologize to him in person just for being one of “them”.

[@missbutter76]

I understand and feel grateful to be able to hear this truly authentic conversation.

[@feathr.805]

I hope it gets easier for you Pete. Keep your friends who check in on you and who keep you 💯 and focused. Thank you for sharing your personal experiences.

[@shawnbargeon4144]

I've never seen much of Pete's stuff, but what I have seen was funny. We have to remember they are human and go thru tough stuff in their lives. Much respect and love to you Pete! You as well Jon bernthal, love the show.

[@Theflowergeekcrafts]

I love how Jon’s like, I did this movie with Stallone once and Pete’s like Grudge Match, I love that movie! 😅😅💚💚

[@dedrajohnson7500]

His honesty is so beautiful. I will always look for his shows and route for him❤

[@Goonie02]

What a great interview. Very raw. I find that I have alot in common with Pete dealing with trauma. Made me realize I'm not alone dealing on how to maneuver life with trauma and the demons we hold within.

[@XxSakurafairy24xX]

This is why i love your show....You bring people on that the world loves to make assumptions and give sh!t....and you give them a safe space to speak. I find more appreciation for these people because you have a chance to really HEAR them instead of who people want to portray them.

[@alexxa8273]

Pete has always been so authentic and real! That’s why people are so drawn to him. This is the happiest and most calm I have seen Pete. He deserves it!!! 🫶🫶🫶

[@EveryHandleIsTaken979]

The thing about Pete dating other Hollywood stars - particularly those who are considered “it girls” - is that the rest of us delight in it. People just enjoy seeing who he’s dating. Some guys are definitely jealous and haters. Women know he’s funny and talkative and so we get why other women are interested in him. Also, feeling uncomfortable when things are going well is a trauma response/coping mechanism. You’re trying to prepare yourself for the next let down. Because life is all ups and downs. No matter what, it’s always ups and down. I remind myself that when I feel anxious when things are going well. My anxiety now is not going to help me later. It’s just going to make now a little less good. I might as well enjoy the ups because not enjoying them won’t prevent the downs. I appreciate Pete’s honesty about stuff. It helps people feel less alone.

[@Chaotic_Cosmos]

The book 'The Body Keeps the Score' by Bessel van der Kolk. Highly recommend this read!! For anyone struggling with all the things Pete mentions..

[@bloodmime]

My favourite thing about this podcast is that you let the guest speak. Obviously you talk as well, but when theyre talking they can talk for a while and you let us just listen. You don't see that too often.

[@Potato_on_couch]

I needed this. I absolutely love Pete and as someone who also struggles with bpd I was so glad to see him touch on this properly with impulses and how he’s working through it. Was a really inspiring and comforting conversation

[@darknightmeh1748]

I never thought id relate to someone like Pete but damn i relate so fuckin much to him. thank you Jon for having him come talk and open up and tell his story.

[@calilife805]

When he’s said “you becoming the butt of your own joke” Pete was like damn 😐😂

[@trevmint5615]

I like the way we're moving away from the idea that a "man" has to be act flawless and never talk about or confess that we're human with human challenges. Great interview

[@mommy2avanallie]

I wish I could give Pete a hug and tell him I understand the bpd and ptsd. DBT helped me alot

[@Steezo_Romero]

Always liked Benthal as an actor. After listening to many Real Ones episodes. Love the man. Real as they come.

[@MariaWelsh-lu6fg]

I love how they are both there talking about serious stuff and their wearing the same knit cap 🤣

[@melissahale3637]

Jon and Pete...two of my all time favorites.❤

[@jessicav3080]

I love that you censored because I have a toddler that copies everything and I want to listen too! Thank you

[@pagmalou1765]

Good on you Pete. Heal and just be you. Trauma sucks. You are very likeable, emotionally intelligent and honest, articulate and funny.

[@parkourkinsale]

this might be the greatest conversation/podcast ever

[@ANone888]

Love to hear he’s doing good and doing better everyday. In life you can’t choose the cards you’re dealt, just how you play them. Good on you Peter ✨🤍✨

[@jessannreece5672]

For years ppl have been wondering why tf am i a Pete fan. Interviews like this are why.

[@Brotatorito]

This interview lived up to the podcast name, great conversation

[@-X-Pixel-X-]

love watching real ones such great conversations and a lot of respect.

[@feathr.805]

A magical experience and Joe Pesci in the same sentence sounds magical. ❤😊

[@Deauxp._]

Pete deserves a lot more than being recognized for who he dates. He's super talented.

[@mchlup]

Jon, I just want to say that your podcast is a pleasure to listen to. Your guests are great and you always have real and honest conversations with them. I hope you keep doing these.

[@GoB1996]

“ I heard you’re dating ice spice?” It’s a rumor “🤷🏾‍♂️ALRIGHT…”😂

[@justagrlwithnoname]

8:07 _I have everything and nothing_ bahahaha. Love these two for being vulnerable and authentic.

[@JanetPhillips-qy3vq]

I really enjoyed seeing this interview. Thanks!❤️

[@manijak.0]

Great interview Jon, keep up the good work. really lovin these. But the censoring is distracting af. Couldnt keep up with the convo cause the cut outs are irritating af.

i dont think anyone can nail that look of concern, that look of "im listening to you" the way jon bernthal does

[@anitaanderson9826]

I love Pete he's so real and funny. Watching this was so great, and listening to him speak on his therapy DBT. I also use DBT for the same reasons as Pete and to hear him explain it all so clearly and simple for listeners to understand. He hit the nail on the head and hearing a famous person finally put it out there is a milestone for me personally 🎉❤ iwill be playing this for people I speak to now so they get it. Great interview and questions. Keep growing Pete you got this!! Fuck the small brain haters...lol...and come to nz !!

[@TheHausmanis]

Thes Benthal talks is just so amazing, dude realy, love it

[@bradhoban1479]

Why is this called Real Ones but the curses are muted?

[@crow1989]

You don't need to curse to be real. Kids like yourself might learn something 👍

[@DanielLies]

​@crow1989 true but I'd also prefer it unfiltered and I aint no kid

[@spenceboogie4884]

@@crow1989take it easy, toughguy

[@bradhoban1479]

@@crow1989 how did I insult you? I'm a retired military vet and am wildly curious to know how I triggered you by pointing out the obvious. Those quick to insult usually need to look within. And those that need to tell others of their realness are always found to be lacking.

[@Happyheartmatt]

@@crow1989this makes no sense. They ARE cursing on the show.

[@theofficialcindywonderful]

It’s nice to see Pete’s personality.

[@kinda.austrian]

These are the best. Big props Jon. Huge fan here from Lancaster Pa.

[@joerogansghost7402]

I don't know if I believe that opening story 100% or not 😂 But it is FUNNY AS HELL so I'm going to use my ONE Executive Order for the month and MAKE my wife watch this whole video with me later. LMFAO 😂

[@jimmyskoog]

I loved this conversation. Thank you both. Much love from Sweden 🇸🇪

[@senortanko]

pete davidson is by far one of my favorite comedians. its great to see him on the show and glad hes doing stuff he really enjoys.

[@allensmith9879]

Love Pete, the boxing liniment story was fucking hilarious 😂

[@selflovebadass]

I feel like Pete & I could have a lot of laughs together 😊💚💜💚💜💚💜

[@Kapua808]

Pete is awesome. I love this interview. He is a great young man just figuring out life like the rest of us. I hope he treated kindly by the rough entertainment industry.

[@TheVoyeure]

Yep! When you learned to soothe yourself from a traumatic lost, you tend to blow certains situations to that point of drama cause it's the only way you know how to soothe yourself. Sorry for your lost! ❤ Hey, I was bordeline too, those crazy relationships and BD went away when I dropped weed and alcool. It's not a forever dx.

[@selflovebadass]

Thank you for being real & the laughs guys 🤣😆🖤

[@mathildedavid2124]

These two boys' laughter is a joy!

[@thebrandonsalad]

Incredible episode. Pleasure to watch🤘

[@joeymac1994]

John’s such a great person to shoot the shit with people and gets them to open up. You can see it in his eyes that he cares a lot.

[@Tenzin62]

Copland for Stallone. Midnight Run for DiNiro. Two very fantastic unseen films.