Ex-Mormon Speaks Out - Why Did He Leave? 🇺🇸

[@PeterSantenello]

This is the last video from the 6-part Mormon series: kzbin.info/aero/PLEyPgwIPkHo6jjSMpNn5YxgxHYmCJcQXX. In this Mormon series we made 3 videos about those in the church and loving it, 1 video about someone who left the church, and 2 videos about Mormon fundamentalism (which is completely different from the mainstream Mormon church). The goal was to give you a range of perspectives. Like all of my content, it’s about showing you what I come into contact with and I hope you learned something from this series. With that said, I chose 3 stories about those happy with the mainstream Mormon church and 1 story about someone who is against it. I could have done the opposite. Watch my content, watch other people’s content, enjoy the freedom in forming your own opinion. No one person has all of the answers or the truth. And to all Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints members, I was trying to reach an audience out of the church to bridge understanding. If I titled these videos by your full name or LDS, no one outside of the church would have watched. Everyone knows Mormon, most people don’t know LDS. I apologize if that was cringe for you. Thank you so much for all off you who participated in this series!

[@willmallory9085]

Peter, my Brother. You covered the Native Alaskians, the Native Americans, Gangs in LA, hoods of Detroit & Chicago. You're the man!

[@lifeaccordingtotheo9643]

This is a necessary video. But the church is sue-happy so prepare for that possibility!

[@AceRamone]

1. How do Mormons look at mental illness and people with mental illnesses? 2. I have a severe mental illness which makes me disabled. I cannot support myself so the government does. There's no way I could financially support a wife and kids. What would the Mormon church say to me? Would they want me as a member?

[@MDS53162]

Sad that you had to go down this path with this video. Religion is under attack in the United States. All religions. As religions die out...Evil excells. Not a bright future. Soooo much of this attack towards good. I love your content but I didn't see you calling out the gangs and exposing the death and destruction they cause.

[@RadicalEdward_115]

​@lifeaccordingtotheo9643 if they sue its sort of a bad look on the church 😂

[@TwoTreesVisuals]

I was all in. Mission. Married in temple. Ready for a life in the church. But I can vouch for this man’s story. I lost my faith at 38 after being dumbfounded by what history the church left out. It’s been the most painful and rewarding experience of my life losing my faith. Love to this brother for sharing his true story.

[@miguelolvera2538]

What exactly did the church leave out? I knew all of this before even being baptized.

[@TwoTreesVisuals]

@@miguelolvera2538 haha if you knew about a rock in the hat, Fanny algier, Joseph’s 14 year old wife, blacks and the priesthood, Joseph’s treasure hunting, marrying other men’s wives, and still got baptized…then you’re exactly where you belong brother.

[@zachsimpson2008]

@@TwoTreesVisuals😂

[@FUNNY02100]

Yes, pick and choice what you want to believe on. Don't bother actually doing homework on the subject.

[@miguelolvera2538]

@@TwoTreesVisualsevery one of those things has a completely rational and understandable explanation, or is no less believable than the events in the Bible. If you believe Moses separated the Red Sea using a staff that channeled Gods powers, the hat should not be an issue. The priesthood issue was a mistake that was corrected. B.Y. Let his prejudice influence him, he’s a flawed man as any other.

[@JozefCG]

I never would have guessed I would watch multihour series on YT about all kinds of mormons

[@PS-lv1mr]

right lol 😂

[@joshuabray37]

Ha! Same here! Peter is great at showing compelling stories.

[@kwillie47]

Same😂...riveting TV especially if you know or live near them

[@Kristy_not_Kristine]

The Book of Mormon is true, but it's meant to bring us too Christ as another witness that He's the Saviour. It's not to bring us into the LDS Brighamite church, or any other church for that matter

[@sh-df1bb]

Right! 😊. I can't stop watching Peter's videos! He's singlehandedly bringing people together

[@amypatton6730]

IF THERE'S NOTHING TO HIDE, WHY NOT SHARE? that says it all

[@JohnBrown722so]

That's what masons do

[@dawnbourque8885]

The difference is Masons are a fraternal organization who 1) Isn't converting anyone and isn't indoctrinating children. 2) It's a philanthropic organization 3) The "secrecy" is more to adhere to ancient codes within the union. Not because they're trying to hid anything bad.

[@ginchen33]

@@JohnBrown722soJoseph Smith was a 33 degree Mason.

[@Mikefngarage]

Oh yea it is full of hidden information and lies and deception. Satan is the liar.....who creates these false doctrines

[@Homepageturned]

And the Masons received or tried to preserve theses ordinances from the original Temple ordinances of the temple in the old and new testament. So yes, it will be familiar. The difference is that God restored these ordinances in the last days through a prophet. Book of Revelations "An Angel shall fly through the midst of heaven having the everlasting gospel" If it was still on the earth, then why would John the Revelator describe an angel bringing it forth in the last days? Don't be so quick discount the Saints and what they have. There is more to it then most will understand or even want to understand. Narrow is the path and straight is the gate that leads to eternal life and few be there that find it.

[@PeteJohnsMusic]

This is a fabulous video and gave me an “aha” moment. Social media and the internet has its problems… but if it helps folks find their truth, that’s an amazing benefit that we didn’t have 20 years ago.

[@AtypicalM]

The best KZbin channel by far. Never a dull interview. Thanks Peter!

[@cowshottv5867]

Agreed

[@IAmHereForeve]

Normally I don't subscribe to channels but I have subscribed to this one.

[@bepositive4494]

YES Peter has that MOJO Million of views you slaying it PETER

[@keithbalke6352]

Oh wow Peter Phoenix boy here…..well done. Mormonism is a typical pipeline of “conforming”to ridged behaviors….or else. CULTISM defined

[@user-l4y7r04wy6iv]

He needs to dig deeper in Dearborn, MI . . . No, that could prove fatal.

[@Fix_em_jets]

Also, Peter, your interview skills are amazing. It’s easy to just point a camera at someone and say “speak” but to ask tough questions, present counter arguments and keep the interview on track is something the media lacks these days. You and your wife are doing an amazing job. Can’t wait for the next video.

[@jills.tillotson5388]

Totally agree. Been thinking the same thing.

[@ianarines8123]

Truth will set as free, The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Days Saints Has its Truthfulness

[@ceebee8042]

Thanks Peter.

[@georgeschmitt4330]

Great job Peter

[@RogueWave2030]

Excellent point

[@KaylynPNW]

I left after 65 devoted years. Words can’t express how terribly hard it was. Some days I jokingly say “leaving the church broke my brain” but it’s kinda true.

[@RogueWave2030]

❤

[@djstaley3015]

Your having to rethink your whole identity

[@KaylynPNW]

Yes! Identify, life, beliefs …everything. I cried and grieved for months. @@djstaley3015

[@cowlelujah5752]

I feel for u

[@HaleStorm49]

Everyone who leaves (that wasnt a teenager at the time) talks about how devoted they were.... But in my adult life I've _never_ heard someone say they left due to praying, fasting, attending the temple and studying the scriptures to get answers to their problems or doubts. It's usually some ancillary distraction or social issue. Satan gets cheap labor rates on these deals.

[@AdriannaFaber]

I grew up Mormon and I never fully believed. I always felt as if people were putting on a front all the time, and I sensed that as a kid. Not enough transparency and everything seemed so orchestrated. Never sat well with me. Recently I looked into the church again as I now have five kids of my own and I decided once and for all that it wasn’t the right way to go. That being said, Mormons are some of the nicest, most genuine people I have ever met. Not all of the members are judgmental like some of the stories out there. There are many amazing people within the church. We have friends who are Mormon and don’t judge us. I think that what the church is based on isn’t something I agree with, but so many of the people have pure intentions. I do not regret growing up Mormon, I do think that it helped shape my values. I took what good I could get from it and left the things that weren’t good behind. I definitely have mixed feelings on it but overall it’s not something I’m willing to commit to. I am thankful for what I got out of it and the wonderful people I met along the way.

[@busybody1474]

You need Jesus Christ in your life same as anyone else❤

[@HaleStorm49]

Reading this comment was like riding a seesaw.

[@AdriannaFaber]

@@HaleStorm49 hope you enjoyed the ride! 👌🏻

[@pattiwaseta2921]

You said it yourself! You are not willing to make the commitment. That doesn't have anything to do with the church. It's a personal choice.

[@davidgraham4807]

@@HaleStorm49 Why you such a buzzkill?

[@sellingpeck]

I’m a mainstreamer, but I love how you got the points of view from all the angles. Fundamentalists, Ex Mormon, and mainstream. You, and the folks you interviewed all gave respect to all of the differences etc. you have a gift Peter, people open up to you because you respect them.

[@PeterSantenello]

Thank you!

[@ztebazile]

came here to say exactly this. Absolutely stellar journalistic integrity as always ❤❤

[@anchorbrandranch]

I second this!!⚓️

[@eightysixcommunism2827]

@@ClearThinking101 I think he was showing the truth of it. Truth hurts cults.

[@paitesmith9133]

Totally agree! Mainstream LDS lifer here and I enjoyed all the videos on polygamy, fundamentalist and this one. Haven’t watched the having dinner with a Mormon family yet bc I already know what that’s like. I lived it! But I will watch it, too. Thank you for being so thoughtful in your questions and allowing the guest to speak w out interruption. This was a great interview.

[@tinjadog]

This is a terrific series. I’m going to be sharing it with my son as part of his greater education on religion.

[@EJH-jn6mo]

I don’t believe in any of Karl Marx’s philosophies except one thing: religion is the opiate for the masses.

[@NobodyImportant-m1x]

❤ Its an honor sharing this world with you and your family.

[@craigorford9932]

Tell your son to stay away from any religion,its poison to the mind and body

[@peteronister1488]

Amen brotha, wishing you and your family a blessed holiday and prosper life :)

[@Jesus_not_God_he_worship_him]

See what God said in the Qur’an about Christians: O People of the Book, do not go to extremes in your religion, and do not say anything about God except the truth. The Messiah, Jesus, the son of Mary, is the Messenger of God, and His word He delivered to Mary and a spirit from Him. So believe in God and His Messengers, and do not say three. Stop It is better for you, but God is one God, Glory be to Him, to have a son to Him belongs whatever is in the heavens and whatever is in the earth, and God is sufficient as a Guardian. Christ will not disdain to be a slave of God, nor the angels who are close to Him. Those who said that God is the Messiah, the son of Mary, have disbelieved. Say, “Who can possess anything from God if he wants to destroy the Messiah, the son of Mary, his mother, and all those on earth, and God has the kingdom of the heavens and the earth and what is between them, He creates what He wills, and God has power over all things.” And the Jews and Christians said, “We are God’s children and loved ones.” Say He did not torment you for your sins, but you are human beings who were created to forgive whomever he wills and punish whomever he wills.O People of the Book, Our Messenger has come to you, explaining to you during a period of the Messengers, that you should say: No good tidings nor warners have come to us, for there has come to you a tidings of good tidings and a warner, and God has power over all things. Those who said that God is the Messiah, the son of Mary, have disbelieved, and the Messiah said, “O Children of Israel, worship God, my Lord and your Lord. He who associates with God, God has forbidden him Paradise, and his abode is the Fire. And the unjust have no helpers.”Those who said that God is the third of three, while there is no god but one God, have disbelieved, and if they do not desist from what they say, a painful punishment will befall those who disbelieve among them, so will they not repent to God and ask His forgiveness, and God is Forgiving, Most Merciful? The Messiah, son of Mary, is nothing but a messenger, messengers have passed away before him, and his mother is a believer. They used to eat food. See how we explain the signs to them, then see how they misrepresent.Say: Do you worship besides God that which possesses neither harm nor benefit for you, and God is the All-Hearing, the All-Knowing?Say, O People of the Book, do not go to extremes in your religion other than the truth, and do not follow the whims of a people who have gone astray before, and they have led many astray, and have strayed from the right path. And when God said, “O Jesus, son of Mary, did you say to the people, take me and my mother as two gods besides God?” He said, “Glory be to you, it is not for me to say what I have no right to say. If i said it, then you know it, you know what is in my soul, and I do not know what is in your soul, that you are the Knower of the unseen. I only said to them what you commanded me to do: to worship God, my Lord and your Lord, and I was a witness over them as long as I was among them. So when you caused me to die, you were the watcher over them and you were a witness over everything. If you punish them, they are your slaves, and if you forgive them, then you are the Mighty, the Wise God said, “This is a day when the truthful will benefit from their truth. For them are gardens beneath which rivers flow, therein to abide forever. May God be pleased with them and they will be pleased with Him.” That is the great victory. And they said, The Most Gracious has taken a son, Glory be to Him, but rather honored slaves.They do not precede Him by saying, and they act by His command, He knows what is between their hands and what is behind them, and they do not intercede except for those whom He is pleased with, and they fear Him.

[@summerlake356]

This is so much better than sensationalist documentaries. Deep dive and people are allowed to say their piece. No judgment, no added drama.

[@Plethorality]

Yes. Much better.

[@liviabunzen]

“A church should be in the forefront of change in society, not always decades behind.” SO POWERFUL

[@Haceli_MAŞRAPA]

Galileo ve Copernic tavsiye ederim.

[@joehall3340]

Church is almost irrelevant now. The more we're education the less we're willing to believe nonsense.

[@AWM8841]

Christianity isn’t supposed to be if the world which is why it’s supposed to be unchanging. The world changes and if you follow Christianity not merely believe in it you will not be of the world. Like Amish. That’s how it’s supposed to look.

[@MrMuaythai84]

so the western world has gone gay and weird and communist like agenda. religion should follow suit? religion was made to keep people moral and inline and behave. human world especially run by government does the opposite. government now even think they own your kids. so whats the different between church and government if both think they can brain wash your kids?

[@DeborahFlorian-gy6lw]

What a phenomenal education this series provides. Peter is truly an ambassador for humanity.

[@Sewbasic1]

Todd's story is some of my story. I was married in the Mesa Temple as well. It was a painful experience going through the process of leaving mormonism, but so glad I did. Thankfully, my husband and kids left too. These stories need to keep being told. Thx for putting this out there. People need to know!

[@spagetti001]

so I wonder, are you just not part of the church anymore or did you also stuff believing in all the stuff they preached?

[@pattiwaseta2921]

You're loss!

[@clairecallas2238]

I’ve known ex-Mormons & they are so terrified at hearing even the mention of similar ‘doctrines’..it makes it more difficult for them to find their way out of the labyrinth!..& many times MAY ‘over-correct’. In some of the ‘stories’, I noticed a tendency of the those still inside, to take a very simplistic, narrow view..even of life..& in their humor. I commend your fairness..but I see how most are ignoring the ‘elephant in the room’. I fear for Tim/Catherine Ballard! The ‘underbelly of the bus’ must be quite fearful..😦

[@fufrasking]

Mesa LDS is buying up land like crazy. It is shocking trying to deal with them,

[@Sam-xt5gb]

@patti so Christlike! lol

[@garymapes6955]

I absolutely love your videos I can watch your videos all day. I'm a truck driver and sometimes will just put your videos on and listen while I drive. So thank you for your content it helps me pass time while I drive and I learn alot as well.👍🏻

[@PeterSantenello]

Thanks so much, Gary! Glad you enjoy it. You guys keep this country going.

[@lucianaromulus1408]

When I drove nationally I would have died without podcasts. Music alone gets boring after a while 😅

[@Lucylicious79]

I too listen 🎧 while doing house chores 😊

[@moeday99]

Thanks for doing what you do. As Peter said, you guys truly keep this country going. Without you, we don’t eat, shop, anything. Thank you.

[@believestthouthis7]

Perhaps try listening to a free audio KJV Bible. There is a good dramatized one in my playlist and the one narrated by Alexander Scourby is considered a classic. I know of a trucker who learned the Bible really well this way. I pray that it is a blessing to you.

[@bodeinebrazy]

The straw that broke the camel’s back for me was going through the temple endowment for the first time and being tricked/deceived into participating in a Masonic ritual and not feeling the Spirit in the celestial room where we’re taught the veil is the thinnest and you’re closest to God. Nothing could’ve prepared me for what happens in the temple. I was expecting to go in there, kneel at an altar and make covenants with God and then go to the celestial room, and that is NOT what happened. It was uncomfortable and felt wrong.

[@Plethorality]

Because it was invasive and without informed consent. That is abuse. 2:47

[@AmyPigula]

Can you share what went on in that room so ppl can get an idea?

[@MrMuaythai84]

it kneel to moroni a demon

[@xxxgabaxxx]

My first time in the temple was amazing. I cried a lot. 10 years I learned that it is just a twisted masonic ritual. I hate how the Mormon church messes up with its members. The temple ceremony is weird as hell

[@courtneyfetterman5193]

Oh my gosh same! Everyone oohed and ahhed over how special the celestial room was but it just felt like a room?? And after the weirdness I just went through it was… eerie? Idk I felt like something was off with me because I was the only one apparently not having these rapturous spiritual experiences.

[@markmcgee2417]

"Do you believe in heaven? " "I don't know." That is such an honest and sincere answer. I love this! I feel that getting to a point where I felt comfortable saying "I don't know" has impacted my life in a very positive way. We should normalize that response.

[@AR15andGOD]

No, no Christian should ever say anything like that at all whatsoever. A Christian does not deny the words of God.

[@ginamiller6754]

⁠@@AR15andGODbut it’s because they were blindsided by Mormonism. Once they find out how much the Mormon church lied to them, they tend to doubt everything. My husband is ex Mormon. Thankfully he never lost his belief in God, but he was very suspicious of any type of church for years. He went to church with me for 10 years before he accepted Jesus.

[@2rocco]

We CAN know that there is heaven because Jesus came back to life to tell us.

[@evanabt8578]

I been saying I don’t know my entire 42 year life.. it’s not fun or cool.. it’s pretty sad.. I wish I could believe in God and have that comfort.. I envy religious people.

[@spawnskgaming]

​@@2roccowe don't know either of that, you only believe in heaven and jesus resurrection. What's your proof of the resurrection of jesus ?

[@patrickbateman161]

Enjoy the channel Peter. Im a former Mormon from Provo, UT who served a mission. I left shortly upon returning home because I no longer believed Joseph Smith was a “prophet”. Yes there was hardship with family and friends at that time. With that said, being raised mormon and having a positive structure blessed my life. I believe my upbringing led me to a relationship with and eventually marriage to the most amazing Christlike woman. She has greatly enriched my life. Today, most of my coworkers and friends are active in the church and good people. I’m grateful that they are in my life and we focus on a common belief that Jesus Christ is our Lord and Savior.

[@harlanlang6556]

Did your missionary experience contribute to your loss of faith?

[@marbleswalker630]

Well said. There is a parallel here w Catholic Church where I was raised. Many of my very close friends are part of LDS.

[@patrickbateman161]

@@harlanlang6556 Yes, I would say it did. With that said however, I view my mission experience as a positive one. It taught me a lot of valuable lessons, such as self discipline, how to take care of myself and that I can work with and learn from other people from a variety of backgrounds. It also helped open my eyes to see that I truly lived a very comfortable life compared to most.

[@robertdrake7082]

Amen brother~

[@paulhoward5703]

an uncommon rational opinion posted in the comments thank you sir

[@Eugene-k2e]

Peter, your channel is by far my favorite. I was born into the LDS church and have lived in Utahs bubble my entire life (34 yrs). It's been a real treat being able to see other cultures and the world through your channel. The world is so different from the tunnel vision I was raised in. My father is a "religious extremist" and raised me with some really harmful beliefs. I left the church 20 years ago, and with the indoctrination from leaders and parents, it still causes me to feel guilt somedays. After struggling for so long with the back and forth about if I'm making the right decision, about a year ago, I decided to shelve the battle. Since that day, I've felt mostly peace for the first time. I've been surprised with the mental struggle of leaving something that was pounded into a core belief at a young age. I really appreciated this series and the respect that you show to all walks of life. Thank you.

[@twstephanie50]

Jesus is the Only way to heaven.Not some individuals ideas and mormon add on that were LIES created because he wanted more wives.I read it and i thought it was fake.The whole moroni story was fake.Yeah and No more gold plates.Off course there were NEVER any.TRUSTING in JESUS AS OUR SAVIOR and LORD and following HIM IS THE ONLY WAY TO HEAVEN.Never go by mans teaching if it doesnt line up with the REAL 66 BOOKS of the bible.

[@theod6898]

Look into an organization called recovering from religion, i know many many people who have heavily benefited from it

[@theod6898]

@@twstephanie50don’t listen to this guy

[@gps9715]

@@theod6898 "Don't listen to this guy, listen to me." lol

[@theod6898]

@@gps9715 yes falling out of one cult into another never helped anyone

[@KBiz801]

I was raised in the church and have been inactive (not practicing) for 5 years. I was a mostly believing member up until about 3 years ago. My approach was different then Todd's where he did a lot of history digging. I never did that because I knew I would find things I questioned. My approach was relying on spiritual confirmations and revelations. At about 18:06, Todd talks about going to the Kirtland Temple in hopes of a spiritual confirmation that he never receives. My approach was similar as I was struggling with my faith at 32 years old. I remember being desperate and praying for a spiritual answer 3 specific occasions and for the answer to be, "Go back to church and live it's teachings." I never got that overwhelming confirmation that that should be my path going forward, so I never went back. My wife and I have discussed many times what 'feeling the spirit' may have been over the years. We had always been taught that the feeling was confirmation that the church was true, that what we were being taught was true, that we should adhere to it. Our answer for that now is it was probably of feeling of peace and love. What we were participating in was still a form of worship/meditation/prayer. A stronger connection to ones spirit/soul, universe, karma, creator, etc. was being made. I have special love for those who have had to or will have to dissect their faith in the LDS church. It has been incredibly difficult and is still a continuous process. I continually ask what the valuable principles taught to me in the church were that I want to carry with me and what are those that do not serve or make sense to me moving forward. Happy journeying 🙏

[@rebekahodell7186]

I am 39 and left the LDS church on my 18th birthday. My parents are still very in love and involved with the church. When I was younger they were very judgemental and had a sense of superiority towards others because they have the "whole truth" and feel responsible for sharing it. They were saddened when I left and said the words "where did we go wrong." It is believed that if you grow up with the "truth" and then later deny it, you are worse off than someone who has never even heard of it before. My parents literally grieve myself and my siblings who have left, because we will not be together forever because we don't want to be a part of it. However now years later my parents have truly become the most unconditionally loving people in the planet. They no longer judge us nor push their beliefs on us and rather accept us and love us for who we are even though we are not in the church.

[@meganh1603]

I hope my parents get there... Or even better leave the church themselves someday

[@davidinc.6351]

Similar here. Grew up in a large Mormon house (8 siblings). I started to leave (as much as I could) about freshman year. I had been literally dragged to church by my dad. I got so tired of them sending mormonites (what I call missionaries) I finally let two in my apartment in my twenties and got one of them to leave the church. I now feel terrible about that but I am still the black sheep who is invited to everything and go to a lot of family events. They are disappointed when I show up. Obviously this still affects me deeply. Wish I had the reaction you did.

[@Dawn-zi8pz]

Heaven is the carrot at the end of religions stick.

[@clearstonewindows]

​@@Dawn-zi8pzheaven can be hear and now I love the restored gospel of Jesus Christ

[@Kristy_not_Kristine]

This is beautiful ❤. I hope my parents get to this point... my dad hasn't spoken to me in 6 months since I told them I had had my name removed from the lds Brighamite church.

[@tzipikathleenhartson6275]

Wonderful interviews. Thanks to everyone for being open and sharing a difficult journey leaving The Church.

[@KasaniNatania]

I’m an ex- mormon from Alaska. I moved to Utah at 19yo with plans to go on a mission. Two months after I got there I left the church because of the same reasons explained in this video. I can attest that leaving the church is a very painful process and depending on the person it can take years to heal. Thank you Peter for all your recent uploads. I genuinely enjoy watching and you find great spokespeople.

[@jake8882]

Oh I wish I had the thought to look deeper at the history.

[@ThisIsLeeBird]

I just left. Nobody ever said a thing to me 🤷‍♂️ but I’m from Kansas.

[@Itsallillusional]

​@@WatchingwaitingG2DYou're in denial

[@jake8882]

@@WatchingwaitingG2D oh because you have the power of discernment? Hahaha

[@ramadandekar884]

Are you from Fairbanks?

[@pommom1988]

His story is so relatable.. this is indeed what has happened to many of us. It hurts to hear the sadness in his voice describing losing his testimony. It is unbelievably hurtful to find out what you’ve been indoctrinated to “know” is all false. It feels like betrayal, robbery of your life. I have been out for 20 years and have gotten over a lot of these feelings, but it takes time. It is grief. I wish him peace and healing.

[@pattiwaseta2921]

Oh boo hoo

[@mediocreman2]

Part of that 'indoctrination' is deciding on your own what you believe. Sorry you missed that in practically every single lesson lol. I'm not in the church either but even I know that part.

[@pommom1988]

@@mediocreman2 uhhhh I did decide on my own, when I was a legal adult and could. That doesn’t wash away the 18 critical mind shaping years prior of being force fed a religion that didn’t actually leave any room for doubt when your whole world and every person you know is also part of it? Lol…

[@kwillie47]

Great story Peter... I actually worked with Todd some years ago, didn't realize he was LDS but now it made sense. Glad to see he has some peace and courage to tell his story. Not to mention he introduced you to Joes Farm Grill which is fantastic ❤

[@wrkAhaLik247]

Thank you for doing this video specially. I live in Utah and left the church as well after leaving my ex husband after nearly two decades of domestic abuse. The last straw for me was going to my church leadership for help and counsel only to be told to go home and obey and they would speak with him. They spoke with him and he came home worse than ever! More than ten years later I am still dealing with the effects of all of the years with him. Living in Utah makes it much much much worse!!!! I appreciate your openness to hearing both sides of this religion. Thank you. ❤

[@Kristy_not_Kristine]

I can't wait to get out of here...

[@d.martinez-rodriguez333]

I hope you find God of the Bible and the non Mormon version of Jesus. I can't imagine how that all would mess with your mind. But there is a God who truly Loves you and doesn't put RELIGIOUS hoops for you to jump through to be saved. Prayers for you sweetie🙏❤

[@nadineratuita2705]

Step mom abused me in the church bathroom. Not one lady stepped in to stop her. That was the biggest reason I excommunicated myself. The false teachings was the other.

[@Leslie.dogmom]

I agree. I was born in Logan and hated the church and the people. No one was nice to me. There were too many people. I obeyed and went anyway. We moved to AZ and people were really great. My ex was manipulated and an all around horrible person. My boyfriend has never been a part of the church and he’s a better man than any male member I know someone else that was physically abused. She got out but it took her awhile to have a good life again. I’m sorry you went through that. I had a bishop turn on me cuz they believed my ex.

[@kh5603]

Holy Moly...ive been dating a (semi) ex-mo and had to end things bc of the emotional abuse after 6 years...I can see the "trickle down" effect (and the narcissistic family system mirroring the religion) of gaslighting, blame-shifting, denial/deflection, shunning/stonewalling & never taking any responsibility/accountability...I also lived in Utah for a few months in 2018 and one of my good friends was Mormon and worked for SLC family services, also saying there was a lot of abuse (domestic and sexual)... I was raised Baptist and so many things are very similar to Mormonism (interestingly, they were created about the same time in US History) and also thankfully they're getting exposed too

[@christinegreenall9054]

Todd, thank you for sharing your difficult experiences in separating from the church. Peter, thank you for your thoughtful and fair minded interviews. I am a member of the LDS Church and appreciate a greater understanding for those who choose to leave the church and hope we can change the church culture that causes pain for people in and out of the church.

[@theonlyonect]

As a friend of a Mormon family, I totally agree with you. Your guys are nice people. But I agree that the church has room to improve in terms of openness.

[@BreakOutOfTheAlgorithm]

🙏🏽💞

[@mattmurdock2868]

The "culture" of the LDS is a culture of lies. You all worship false gods, that's what causes people to leave. They leave when they no longer believe the lies.

[@twstephanie50]

​@@theonlyonectThey need to stick to the Regular bible and do what JESUS says and not the rules of a CHURCH.I have a morman add on.that joseph smith stuff needs to go to the trash.

[@ldjd3698]

I agree that culture can be improved upon. That said, is that enough? Church history is problematic at best. There are so many painful things that were done and continue to be done by the founder and leaders of the church that cannot be easily dismissed.

[@JohnSmith-kr7xd]

*Some people worship the church and Bible more than they actually do our Creator.*

[@yeshalloween]

I’m the great grand daughter of a prophet and the great great grand daughter of a prophet and the great great great grand daughter of Hyrum Smith. My entire, entire life was the Mormon faith for 40 years. Every decision I made, every thought I had, all my feelings, they were all tied up in my faith. I was betrayed. I was mislead. My trust was misplaced. I made the excruciating decision to leave. My sense of honesty wouldn’t allow me to stay and play along. I have suffered tremendously in my journey out. I have lost friends, I have lost associations, I have lost community, my children’s grandmother no longer speaks to them. She (my own mother) no longer speaks to me either. We are now apostates. We are now a lost cause. To lose your entire worldview and everybody you thought you had and every hope you thought you had and all the answers you thought you had, it can’t be understated how devastating that is, and how psychologically traumatic it is. I did nothing wrong. I spoke the truth that I had found that had been hidden for me, and I was ostracized and gaslight for it. This man’s story mirrors my own.

[@believestthouthis7]

I'm really sorry that this happened to you... On the bright side you are free now and you can get to know God for real if you so choose. It has been my personal experience that true believers become your real family when you get saved. That may or may not be blood relatives. And it requires no church membership or tithe, etc. Even Jesus said that his real family were those that truly did the will of God and He wants to dwell with them for all eternity (for real). Please don't give up hope because God is still on the throne! No, we can't be gods like Him, but we are meant to have a relationship with Him, our Heavenly Father and our Creator. Mark 3:33-35 KJV 33 And he answered them, saying, Who is my mother, or my brethren? 34 And he looked round about on them which sat about him, and said, Behold my mother and my brethren! 35 For whosoever shall do the will of God, the same is my brother, and my sister, and mother.

[@DebraCollins-fq4jo]

Your ID name and thumbnail is Halloween? You do realize how satanic that is, right? 😮 It's great you were able to leave a "religion" at the expense of losing your family, but don't leave or forsake the love for God. 😊 All holidays that Christians celebrate are pagan in origin and should be forsaken. The truth is in the KJV Bible, the word is truth.

[@rainbowiam]

You are right. No one can understand your experience the way that you can. I wish you peace and joy in your journey and send hugs through the ether (internet) to you and your kiddos. You are doing the hard things so that they can do less hard things. I see you mama!! 💕

[@cherilynne1946]

Hi Yeshalloween-When I was 19 years old, I converted to Mormonism. Shortly after that, I met a returned missionary who insisted that God had prepared me to join the church so that I’d be ready to marry His faithful servant. I bought into his narrative-hook, line, and sinker-and married him in the DC temple a little over a year after my baptism. After years of emotional abuse (and meetings with bishops in which nothing was done to correct the abuse), I ended my marriage. (The loneliest seat in a Mormon chapel is the one where a divorcee sits.) I am now on the list of “less active” members. The fact is that I stopped attending church approximately six years ago. I am very much at peace with where I am today. Kindness is the doctrine I follow. Patience is my journey (at times a very rocky journey). My sisters and their husbands are still active members of the church. We’re as close as ever. I know that in their prayers, they pray for my return to the fold. I also know that if I told them some facts about the church, their testimonies would fracture, but I won’t do that. They are happy and secure in their beliefs; I wouldn’t think of taking that away from them. I wish you peace and joy throughout your life.

[@cindymeyerson2099]

Love to you and yours. Whatever the path you take. ❤❤❤

[@stevemarsan5381]

Starting at 22:11 this is why Peter is so amazing! He always creates a human conversation, well done!

[@runninggirl2765]

The way you ask questions is so kind and so patient. Unlike many interviewers, they will add leading questions and it ruins the integrity of it all. Thank you!

[@Knaeben]

I lived in rural Utah for three years in high school, and as a non-Mormon it was hell. I had a 'free period' each day that was meant to go across the street to seminary, but since I didn't go I often just sat in the library. They made life a pure hell for me. You really find out what it's like to be a minority when you live in rural Utah as a non-Mormon. They had church days in the park on weekends, and if I came to the park that day they would ignore me as if I didn't exist. "We can't make you leave, but no one will talk to you." My mother had a German welcome sign on our door "Willkommen" and the church sent a committee to our house. They stood on the lawn and wanted us to take down the welcome sign because they thought it was a 'Satanic" symbol. I told my mom don't take it down, but she took it down because she was afraid of the Mormons. Several kids were not allowed to talk to me and I wasn't welcome in their home because I wasn't Mormon. I still have Mormon friends today I met back then. I don't dislike or hate them or anything. It was an interesting experience. But I wish I hadn't lived there for my few precious years of high school.

[@bytejourneycodes]

This sounds absolutely horrible. I have always struggled socially and a lot of the times I get people who I can see don't want to talk to me for whatever reason and that hurts like hell. Most of them Christians by the way. I cannot imagine how hard it would be if that was to be the norm. That would have brought depression over me or maybe worse.

[@h.r.1523]

Clearly none of that particular congregation went on any missions to Germany. There are also some Pennsylvania Dutch that have some symbols that have been used in New Age religions that may have been similar to something on your sign that freaked them out. Regardless it was your property, not theirs. I can imagine it must have been hard living in a small town and feeling isolated. They missed out on getting to know you and your family. I should add, it does and can happen inside the Latter-day Saints of Jesus Christ Church as well. If people don't fit the "traditional" both parents mold it can feel isolating as well. They really need to be better at the way they approach people, non members and members as well. 💗

[@magical8013]

The same thing happened to me. Raised in Utah, not Mormon.

[@missuscarmen]

Very racist ideology I can’t imagine why anybody is still a Mormon other than they don’t know what else to do. I encourage you to check us out over in the mosque.

[@missuscarmen]

Investigate the horrendous incest rape case and involving Dr Herrod in Sierra Vista AZ who ignored his status as a mandated reporter of child sexual abuse. He was an elder of some type and the man who was raping his own children confessed to this doctor and the church covered it up. Find out if he is still working for this cult. He resigned as a physician.

[@jordanalexander8099]

Leaving the LDS church was the best and the hardest decision I have ever made. So grateful for my Mormon up bringing and so grateful for cutting ties.

[@elieshasteffanson5758]

Same

[@davidfrey5654]

Interesting. Joining the church was the best and easiest decision I have ever made. And I've never looked back.

[@jordanalexander8099]

that’s fantastic! I wish you all the best, friend.

[@JP-kv4ug]

David if your a convert. Your basic logic and research skills are very bad. I would understand if you grew up in this and were indoctrinated these ideas. I feel bad for you. One great note is for how gullible you are I am glad Joe Smith got to you before L. Ron Hubbard did.

[@richardmurphy2841]

Exactly the same sentiment for me. My parting was extremely hard and upsetting to many, but the sense of clarity that I've gained since then has been monumental.

[@eryaviel]

I grew up Mormon in Mesa. Watching this was honestly kinda surreal, seeing places I grew up. So glad to be out now.

[@ERichestLarainington-hj9zq]

Same jackrabbit here

[@Therealgirlinthedesert]

Same here. So grateful to be out. I found spirituality my own way.

[@azcardguy7825]

I grew up Mormon in Gilbert. Super surreal… I went to the mesa temple before leaving on my mission. Happy this guy escaped the cult.

[@kssthmn]

I'm so glad i left. leaving the church was the real beginning of my authentic empowered life through psychedelics and INDEPENDENT spiritual journey. Psychedelic shamanism is the oldest religion in the world. Can't beat that, sorry morons edit: Mormons*

[@KoltenTVC]

u are strong, i am praying you find the real jesus and not the evil version joseph smith created

[@nancydespain7304]

My husband was born and raised LDS, very strict and enforced in the home and community. My in-laws are lovely souls and I love them with my whole heart. But unfortunately, there is division between my husband and his family because he left the church and asked to be removed from membership, which means he is ex-communicated. My husband has been through a lot of emotional pain and sadness. Church should never make you feel outcast, Jesus is inclusive not exclusive. I am so happy that people are speaking out and bringing the truth to the forefront .

[@KoltenTVC]

i am praying your husband grows close with the real jesus who can heal every pain, lds perverts the real lord and savior and it breaks my heart some people blame the real jesus because the evil version joseph smith made broke their heart but the real jesus can heal it

[@Sublime_37]

There is a very great testimony of Micah Wilder on KZbin. If you type, “former mormon high priest speaks out.

[@Plethorality]

Joseph Smith did not care what Jesus said. Dont get the two confused.

[@PatrickThreewit]

You must not read and study your Bible. Most Mormons don't.

[@BLUNA5955]

How was he able to leave? I have tried for over a decade..they still show up to my house saying they are searching for me.

[@Bsk2994]

Amazing content as always Peter. I grew up a Jehovah’s Witness and left the church shortly at 19. I can relate to much of what is presented in this video.

[@LittleMissLion]

There seems to be a lot of crossover between us ex-mos and ex JWs. Solidarity to you! Xx

[@MJ-ku5xt]

I was protestant and when my sister left, the pastor and his wife told her she was going to hell.

[@nyendwa]

​@@MJ-ku5xt weird that people think it's intelligent to even threaten someone with hell. Holy shit...

[@kylesmithisawesome]

Was that a pun? ​@@nyendwa

[@carolyearsley]

Thank you so much for including this segment in your series. We former members are often silenced, and left to deal all on our own with the excruciating pain of leaving. While I was watching the number of views jumped from over 78,000 to over 92,000.

[@EasternDreamer615]

This is a wonderful interview, thank you to Peter and his guest for taking the time to share.

[@jennesamarie1297]

I'm in the process of leaving, after a really traumatizing experience i went through as a young mother. It happened 9 years ago, and its been a difficult process to say the least. I grew up most of my life in UT county, and now live in Soutern UT. I have so many bitter and sweet feelings towards my own experiences within the church. It is painful, and i dont have ANY animosity towards the church, despite going through something truly awful. I love my fellow church members! They're some of the most humble and loving people! I just feel more love and closeness to my Lord in other Christian churches now. Its the "mormon culture" I think i struggle with the most in Utah to be honest. Its so strong that members dont even know that they're doing it! I loved the LDS church in Missouri so much. We were a mega minority in the town i lived in, and it was so different to be on that flip-side. The transition out is such a mental, emotional, and spiritual process. But i FINALLY feel peace, and a true relationship with my Savior since switching to a Baptist church. I feel things I've never felt in an LDS church. And i recognize that my journey is specific to me. I dont judge anyone! My mom and dad are still very active LDS, and we have open conversations often. I'm going to end this by saying that i LOVE your videos Peter! You have an amazing presence, and your style is perfect ❤️ i also have extremely close family ties to the FLDS church (I'm a Blackmore), so i've thoroughly enjoyed this series! You are WONDERFUL!

[@busybody1474]

Give your pain to Jesus Christ and he will fill you with joy❤

[@VICTOR7oh2]

You heeded the voices 🤦‍♂️.

[@Hackbridge1963]

God bless you! From Brian in the UK 🙏🏾🇬🇧

[@Daximousx]

Kinda a fun feeling to be watching this and you guys literally driving past me at 6:02 😄 As an ex Mormon from Orem Utah that moved down here to Mesa about a year ago, everything this guys says you can feel the truth, love and pain in all the experiences and stories he tells. Its been nice watching this little Mormon series you got going on, making me feel a whole lot less alone. Thank you for the time and effort you put into making a good video

[@SparkyTuttle]

That's got to feel kinda of cool. Good thing that wasn't me because from now to forever I would make everyone watch , the day I became a back up star! Lol!

[@Ms_Princess_Zelda]

For real though I think this was the day I was on Alma School near the old BofA building and went down Southern. Literally think I passed by in the video.

[@wrkAhaLik247]

That’s funny if it really was you

[@mindyabidness1578]

That’s so cool

[@victorspresence1263]

Can you handle the heat?!

[@dwdilworth1]

Well done interview. Very respectful discourse. As someone who also left the church for these very reasons. I can confirm re-creating your reality mid life was an extremely painful experience for sure.

[@sethbr]

Thanks Peter and Todd for this video! I'm a member of the church and I thought this video was great. I know quite a few people who have left the church and while I do my best to be normal around them, I think a lot of us still in the church find it hard because in our minds they have rejected something we love so much and is such a big part of our life. Because of this video though I'm going to do better-everyone has a different story and deserves to feel understood

[@sethbr]

I also thought Todd was a great person to interview for this! He is well-spoken and I thought his comments were for the most part fair and respectful of the opposite side

[@DesertPrimrose]

I also try to remain friends with people, but sometimes they are super angry and that anger can be toxic. I do put up boundaries when I feel like every interaction is an attack on my intelligence, my critical thinking skills, and my faith. I respect others' boundaries and do not preach at or pressure people who have left. I just want to continue loving sibling bonds and friendships. It only becomes a problem for me when my boundaries are not respected.

[@JenniferMull93]

This is interesting, has anything he said made you think twice about your beliefs? Hope that is not disrespectful to ask

[@missnewzealand6103]

If your world view is so narrow that anyone who doesn’t accept your world view is triggering you, there is something wrong with your worldview. Most of the rest of us can happily accept the majority of people as normal, even when they are different from us. It’s my experience that only in Mormondom do you start to see language that creates categories of worthiness for people. For example Mormons like to call me “unworthy”, “inactive”, “unsealed” but the rest of the world just sees me as a fellow human. IMO Mormons are among the most judgemental people I have ever met. If you could practice your religion and not feel compelled to bring everyone else with you, you might be able to engage in sincere relationships with people who don’t share your faith nor want to.

[@yummyjackalmeat]

​@missnewzealand6103 I understand your pain and I'm sorry.

[@charlettecooper9457]

They also told me that I couldn't drink coffee or tea. By me watching this video about the church that I go to it making me have second thoughts about joining the church now.

[@Harry_Nguyen]

They also told me that too and it almost been a year since I been there

[@carlloeber]

It is still the best community in the world ..

[@annachristie377]

Cult

[@thefullgamutofShit]

Check out the CES letter to see a summary of the problems with the church. It's not everything but it's easy to see the church isn't what it claims to be.

[@jeffstewart3170]

Stay strong in your faith. It's true and will help all who truly follow its teachings be more Christlike.

[@steadydeucer5313]

Been awesome watching your videos. It’s great to see someone show all the diversity in this country without condemning it. America is a melting pot. Thanks for reminding us what being American really is.

[@Rootiga]

The US used to be a melting pot. As I heard it described by a Singaporean, the modern US is a salad. Rather than blending in as something would in a melting pot, people are more like a salad. As a salad is a mixture of multiple different things which are still unique, but are present in smaller forms. I mean most people coming to the US these days don't even know or bother to learn English, so he was 100% right.

[@allyjmjm]

@@Rootiga I think immigrants still learning English are more American than Mormons. Utah is a very dystopian place.

[@johnquinn4680]

Mormonism was invented in the United States in the 1800s. What are you talking about dude?

[@apologiamixer]

It has become a mixed bag of religious cults.

[@zacsdiyguns]

Exactly, people are so spoiled here they forget what they actually have.

[@HumanOptimization]

What a great series. As someone who has also left due to doubt, this one was beautiful.

[@judypratt2868]

Thanks for posting 2x this week!

[@PeterSantenello]

Thanks Judy! But this was all my wife, Natalia, who pushed this. She pushed 2 edits this week on her own which is quite a lot of content to go through.

[@chrys8478]

@@PeterSantenelloyour wife is the MVP! This is an amazing series!

[@jimmycreighton4344]

@@PeterSantenellorespect for giving credit where it is do, the mark of a great man to be sure!

[@TheoCahillVarella]

I was a member of the LDS church from the ages of 5 to 27. Being an effeminate child and young man in a very conservative church left a lasting and somewhat negative impact on my mental health. I tried as hard as I could to fit in, to be "worthy," as they say in the church, to serve, and to be "healed." I served as a full-time missionary, as many young men do. There, I got to know the church from the "inside out" and gained a better understanding of things. Upon returning, I still tried to fit in but realized that getting married to a woman would be damaging for both her and me. Other unrelated challenges took a toll on my mental health. As I tried to find solace and understanding within the church, I found judgment instead, for not "living up to my potential," and for "surrendering to the temptations of the world." The funny thing is, up to that point, I had never acted on my sexuality, maintaining distance from relationships, sex, and any other "sinful, unnatural" interactions with men or women. Then I learned: The LDS church is not evil; it is just like any other human organization. Humans are imperfect, and God is forgiving. Why did the church judge and blame me for so long just because I could not fit the expectations of a Mormon priesthood holder? Is God as hard on people as the church says? I've been asking these questions ever since. It has been six years since I started what I call "detoxing" from Mormon culture and religion. I had to relearn a lot about myself and others. I had to reshape my relationship with my family, who are still active in the church. I had to find confidence in myself and turn to God with my heart and mind. The funny thing is, He has always been there for me, always loving and accepting of me, and always by my side. I still don't understand a lot of things, but I can say I'm healthier and happier, more humble, and more meek. Becoming a better person is a process, and it takes time. I'm thankful for the good things the church did for me, but now I'm more thankful for myself and for God for parting ways and finding who I am.

[@marygabel2868]

WOWWWWW!!! I’m so happy to hear your story, and I do believe it is somewhat common in all religious groups. Thank you for sharing and God bless you(our God💓)

[@GoodnightAgain]

Detoxing…perfect word for it. I love that you feel close to God. Same here. I felt close to God when my parents took us to a different church before they became Mormons…and am happy to so feel that awe as I consider a more benevolent God than most churches (Mormons included) box up for sale. Congrats on getting out! You are enough!!!

[@jesta_minit]

Been following this story, it's all very close to home, I was bought up as a JW and left years ago but its amazing how similar these 2 'religions' are. Well made and presented, nice work Peter 👌

[@melodylady99]

Yes, as you might know, they were both formed during the bizarre spiritual movement called the second great awakening

[@believestthouthis7]

@@melodylady99 Yes there is the same spirit shared among these groups. They are different but have much in common.

[@MJ-ku5xt]

I beg to differ. JWs have been visiting our reservation home at times unlawfully entering. Not similar at all. They don't believe in blood transfusions and if a person really needed it... they can't.

[@bmo5082]

I worked at a company that was predominantly JW. I found them to be really nice people and their actions and words tended to mimic my Mormon religion. I will say though, that I felt that the JWs were a lot more controlling with what they allowed their members to read and listen to.

[@believestthouthis7]

@@bmo5082 They are warned to never read or listen to anything that is critical of their religion. They believe that they will lose their salvation if they leave it.

[@djstaley3015]

Ephesians 2:8,9 For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast. ❤and prayers Thank you for sharing your journey

[@blueeyesftlaud6593]

Amen and amen!!!

[@Mikefngarage]

cant deny that. salvation is a gift of God....Jesus is the Savior who can give you this gift by his blood. The Book of Mormon contradicts the Bible that it is suppose to support.

[@VICTOR7oh2]

​@Mikefngarage the book of mormom has the fullness of the gospel of jesus christ

[@busybody1474]

@@VICTOR7oh2 That's rubbish.. You got played. Joseph Smith was a scoundrel who threw that half-ass religion together only a couple hundred years ago to line his pockets. You're stupid book of Mormon is just a comic book, smarten up and study the words of Jesus Christ exclusively

[@Homepageturned]

May I add Revelations 20:13

[@Thescholarlysavage]

This series with the Mormons is dope. I like that you speak with members and non members without judgment. Thank you. I grew up a black apostolic, non- denominational Christian. I'm 40 and left the church at 18. I've been borderline atheist, definitely agnostic. Now, actually deconstructing for real.

[@periculumesse1525]

I hope that deconstructing for real, means finding God in your way. A belief in God helps in life. However, you can't get it from someone else. That is stolen wisdom. Need to get it by struggle, so it is your own.

[@talldude1412]

​@periculumesse1525 I think belief in God is damaging. Much better to believe in people, as messy, and disappointing, but incredible, good, and strong as we are.

[@evanabt8578]

@@talldude1412people are weak af.. take a look at the world.. turn the television on. Listen to music.. watch movies.. 90% of things being shoveled down our throats is not cool at all. A lot of it is filthy and dark: dog eat dog world everyone out for themselves,

[@evanabt8578]

@@talldude1412the older I’ve gotten the more aware I have become to not idolizing people,

[@talldude1412]

@evanabt8578 certainly can't idolize ourselves, that wouldn't make sense with how often people do bad/ dumb things, but as individuals and overall, people are just trying to do their best, and we should support each other in that effort.

[@bbmomof3]

As a lifelong Christian I can relate so much to the feelings this man shared. We don’t realize what a powerful hold a church can have on a human being in the name of faith. So many churches of every denomination seem to sweep sexual assault under the carpet and people in the churches are afraid to speak up because they don’t want to make the church “look bad”. Or they’ve been manipulated to think that it would be gossiping and that’s a sin. What they don’t realize is how much harm they add to the situation. 😢it’s very sad.

[@PatrickThreewit]

What makes a person a Christian?

[@DCPLMinistry]

⁠@@PatrickThreewitif you say with your words and confess that Jesus is lord and savior

[@Plethorality]

​@@PatrickThreewit tp some, it is culture. To me, it is obedience to Jesus' commandments to love. Not worshipping a church or leader instead.

[@PatrickThreewit]

@@Plethorality You have to rationalize a lot. Since there is no original copy of the Bible or any original manuscript or manuscripts that were translated to make your Bible, there is no way that you can be sure that your Bible says the right words. So you could be misquoting Jesus. People believe in Jesus because they want to. I did, for 40 years. If you aren't afraid, you can really study, not just read, a Bible and learn the history of Christianity. And you can do all this online from college lecture courses from the top religion schools in America and even from divinity schools. That's what I did. But if you want to stay firm in what you now believe, then don't EVER read and study that Bible. Just follow what your leaders tell you to read and be obedient.

[@PatrickThreewit]

And Mormons don't worship Joseph Smith. They worship Jesus just like you do. And they believe all those impossible Bile stories just like you do.

[@joydurham5437]

It is heartbreaking to watch this man’s story. His voice still trembles at the thought of losing his marriage and family over his doubts. My heart breaks for him. God bless you, sir.

[@carolburke9153]

We can be pleased he found freedom from this cult ...

[@meganh1603]

Proof that it is a cult

[@diannamaree7854]

His wife and family are actually still with him. The story is heartbreaking and his pain is still evident

[@carolburke9153]

@diannamaree7854 it's so sad ... I wish him well .

[@Itsallillusional]

​@@meganh1603Proof is in front of your eyes if you choose to see. It's your journey you do the work

[@owenburge4007]

This LDS series has been so interesting!

[@athaliahgrunburg8574]

The one I've been waiting for. Thank you Peter!

[@harrymyhero]

Blessings to you Todd for stepping up and sharing your life. That must have been hard and it was appreciated.

[@amz.garrison]

I started having doubts about the lds faith at 16. I kept it to myself until I left my parents' home at 18 for college, and once I entered the adult world, I had more doubts. Prayed about it because that is what I was taught and never received any answers, so I left and have never looked back. Best decision I ever made. My family just told people I was in- active but still supported the church in ways that went on for 20 years. Some years ago, at a family function, I think it was a family reunion at a a testimony meeting by the fire pit and I was asked in a group scenario to share my testimony. When it was my turn, I just came out with it and said I haven't had a testimony since I was a teenager. I personally left and haven't gone back to church since my early 20s. I do not believe. I am not sure what my mother has said, but I don't consider myself lds or Mormon at all. I am about to turn 42 in 2024. My extended family has not treated me differently to my knowledge, and I'm still accepted, but I don't share why because they haven't asked me. I figure if they want to know, they will ask. It's been 6 years since that day, and I feel I'm in a better place with family than I was as a teenager because I just tell it like it is.

[@dm96177]

Thank you for sharing your story. They may never ask because they don’t want to know what you do. You can still have a relationship with God/ a higher power without the guise of religion

[@TRUTHandLIGHT4809]

Testimony is not a BELIEF, it is a knowledge. You are to gain knowledge so Lucifer cannot make you his. We are all in this test. The entire test is will we conquer our body or will we allow our body ( it is made from a fallen earth and is carnal and devilish) to conquer us. When you want raw truth, there is no other place. Go meet with the missionaries and tell them your story. Then DO what you are told and then you will KNOW

[@ethankpetersen]

I think it is important that you are making an effort to get the perspective of those from both inside and outside of the LDS church. If possible, it would be awesome if you could speak to someone like Don Bradley, who is a leading author and historian regarding the churches history. He was raised in the church and later in life left the church because of what he learned about the church's past. Then, he rejoined the church based on further study of church history. I think he would be such an interesting person for you to connect with as he has a very unique view of the subject given his personal past with the church as well as his area of expertise. Based on other stuff I have seen him do, I would guess he would be more than willing to do an interview with you or something. Also, I love your channel and the approach you take to exploring these topics, so thanks for what you do.

[@hailiegarn7665]

Yes Peter I second this!

[@anchorbrandranch]

This would be interesting for sure

[@briancaldwell3510]

I’m so grateful for how thorough you are showing us all sides transparently! Thank you Peter!

[@selvadeconcreto]

Applause from Mexico. ex mormon after 25 years! Great job and thank you

[@spizzerinctumone8113]

Deep honest transparent testimony. Refreshing. You can have a relationship with Jesus without organized dogma.

[@evanwildermann7034]

Amen

[@SwiftyTravels]

Another great interview- thank you. These people are so brave to tell their story

[@Enoch840]

Thank You Peter for your being nonpartisan and allowing all to tell their unique experience whatever it be. This is a courageous man and so is his wife and children. In 2019 I was blessed to meet with several members in the process of leaving the Church in this man’s home for support. What a blessing. To all wherever you are at in your journey with The Mormon Church, Be Blessed. I love you ❤️

[@TheSherrybaby65]

I was a Mormon too In Mesa and Gilbert AZ Been to Joes Farm Grill ... this was a good video.. I still care about the people I knew when I was active,,, good people... I just have the same questions and reasons that this man and many others have for leaving :) Good series... thank you Peter :)

[@Plethorality]

How are people who protect sexual predators good? Polite, maybe. But not good. Good people do not stand aside and cover up crimes.

[@catfoodenjoyer2779]

As an active Latter-day Saint, I appreciate you finding someone to speak to who has a very nuanced opinion of the Church. There are many who, like you said, want to see it all burn to the ground, but Todd was very respectful and I appreciated everything he had to say. He made a few over-generalizations (especially about those of us members who live outside of Utah / Arizona), but besides that I thought his concerns were valid and it makes sense why someone overwhelmed with what he saw and experienced would choose to leave. I wish him and his family the best. I would love for you to continue exploring less-known religions like this! I would be very interested to learn more about Jehovah's Witnesses, for example - I know a lot about them, but almost nothing first-hand (they are discouraged from talking to Latter-day Saints as far as I have experienced). Again, Peter, thank you for your incredible capture of my religion. I hope many people are able to learn for themselves what we are about.

[@bjornegan6421]

The Bible says Jesus is your Creator, the Creator of all things. That He has no beginning. He created all things, and He is God. And there is only one God, no others. Why do you not believe that?

[@PeteQuad]

​​@@bjornegan6421because Homer's Iliad and Odyssey predate the Bible and don't mention any of that. It teaches more about Poseidon who the Bible conveniently leaves out. At least I know who Homer was. The Bible is just a bunch of random writers.

[@BenOakbottom]

@@bjornegan6421 Mormons accept that Jesus is the creator of all things and has no beginning. If you had read Mormon scripture, then you would see it's pretty obvious. Some of the most obvious examples are in the literal title page of the Book of Mormon, it states that the purpose of the book is to convince people that Jesus is the Eternal God. Another good place to read would be Doctrine and Covenants 93 and 88 which is a revelation regarding the eternality of the Father and Son.

[@bjornegan6421]

@@BenOakbottom No. They do not. they claim satan is the brother of Jesus. They claim they become gods one day. They follow an invented false gospel.

[@BenOakbottom]

Again, if you had read any Mormon scripture before making such erroneous claims, then you wouldn't sound so unintelligent. We do not claim that Jesus it the brother of Satan. Satan was cast out of the family of God for rebellion, he is not brothers with God. Since evidently you failed to read the material I gave, I'll paste the passage from the Title Page of the Book of Mormon for you to read: "And also to the convincing of the Jew and Gentile that Jesus is the Christ, the Eternal God, manifesting himself unto all nations" What part of Jesus being the Eternal God leads you to believe Mormons think he is a created being and didn't have a role in the creation?

[@GoldenSnoopy.]

I grew up in the church but fell off in my late teenage years due to the blatant sexism and hypocrisy. I just found your channel and this whole series has been fascinating. Thank you for these, your style of conversation in search of genuine understanding is wonderful to listen to. I can't wait to listen to all the other series you've done,

[@chess598]

Fantastic series, Peter. It's always so nice to hear people's experience to better understand how and why they choose to live the lives they do. Like you, organized religion is not for me, but I understand how it can help foster community, structure and life goals. I was very happy to see that you included someone who has left LDS church, as it is very important to show what things can lead folks away.

[@azcardguy7825]

I’m an exmormon and left the church right after getting home from my mission. Seeing the church from the perspective of a missionary in a third world country really opened my eyes to the absurdity of it all. Leaving was really tough and it still affects me to this day. That Mesa, AZ temple is the first temple I ever went into.

[@christinamorales6887]

Peter such a kind listener and would make a good counselor. He holds space and presence for people to tell their stories and he sees and hears them.

[@physynergy5252]

Cults shouldn't be heard.

[@Post-MoMitch]

Great series Peter! As one who left Mormonism two years ago after being "all in," I can vouch how hard and painful it can be to leave. But also how beautiful life can be afterwards as well. I loved hearing all these different views on Mormonism; from those in the mainstream and in the fundamentalist parts and to those who left both. You're a great bridge builder and example of someone I want to be like. Keep up the good work! You've got a new lifetime subscription from me.

[@jamesricks]

Russell Nelson is the greatest Mormon prophet of all time. His pride and self obsession made it super easy to see the problems with the modern church, and inspired many to look into the truth of the origin.

[@zacsdiyguns]

When things are painful or hurts when you leave something especially for years is guilt isn't it?

[@Post-MoMitch]

@@zacsdiyguns not at all. If you'd like to hear my story I'm more than happy to share.

[@zacsdiyguns]

@@Post-MoMitch "how hard and painful" lol. That's what you said, your choices are on you so no not really interested in a story. Thank though

[@Post-MoMitch]

@@zacsdiyguns yes, I'm aware of what I said. It was hard and painful to know what to do after my whole worldview crumbled. It was painful to have people I love and care either stop talking to me or telling me "just to have more faith." Or "doubt your doubts" It was difficult to go through the most distressing thing I've ever experienced to date and instead of trying to actually help me and care for me, my bishop decided to take away mine and my wifes temple recommends for simply saying "I don't know" in response to the question "do you believe that RMN is the prophet of God?" It was painful to have to tell my wife that I don't know if I believe anymore and what does that mean for our future together and our temple sealing. It was extremely painful to learn how much the church has hid from me regarding it's history and past temple rituals. So yes. Lots of pain. But I can guarantee you that none of it had anything to do with "sin" or guilt. In fact one thing that led me to start to question the church was that I finally overcame my porn habit without Jesus/prayer. I'd encourage you to not assume that everyone who leaves the church does so just because they want to sin or they don't want to repent... You never know who in your circle may leave in the next few years. Best of luck to you friend. If Mormonism brings you joy, I have no problem with you staying in the church.

[@charliecharlie7898]

As a descendent of the LDS of Jesus Christ, I found this interview to be very interesting. My family was visited by Joseph Smith in Freedom, New York. They were Methodists and converted to the LDS. My Great Grandfather, whose middle name is Moroni, did not go on to Utah, where his parents are buried in Ogden and instead went to live in Michigan. I've often wondered if I should join the church of my ancestors, but instead have found peace and joy in my non-denominational Protestant church.

[@ValerieGriner]

I would definitely stay with your non-denominational Protestant Church(and I have similar beliefs to yours). God Bless!

[@dianethulin1700]

We sound related. My father’s middle name was Moroni. He was born in Ogden in 1926. Part of that family joined in Vermont as part of the Colesville branch. Others joined in New York and Pennsylvania. Some of my family who joined in Norway lived in Michigan

[@anthonygrantham7226]

Don't listen to the Nay sayers, the church is perfectly true and guided by the Lord Jesus Christ.

[@DWaseem89]

lol nay sayers

[@DM-lc2cf]

Joseph Smith was a snake oil seller, be gratefull you weren't brought up in that. History confirms it to be lies.@@dianethulin1700

[@PurpleLazerWolrd]

4 Years and still watching your content man, cheers! No words to describe all the happiness , virtual journeys and continuous path of learning watching your channel man, buena fortuna viejo!

[@duanegray6434]

I wish all your interviews were on a major network , you do a wonderful job with all your stories and content. Thank you and keep doing the great work. You’re a powerful journalist.

[@philandrews2860]

He is awesome :) I think it's better that Peter stays independent. Otherwise he'll have bosses that try to tell him what to do, in a way that would probably hinder his style, and mess up the good thing he has going :)

[@jills.tillotson5388]

True@@philandrews2860

[@newfreethink]

As an ex mormon i get what he is saying first hand. This is the same for anyone leaving an organization they were a part of. In the end the enemies of the church will use things like this to tout their own religion or beliefs. The people who have left are good people that didn't fit in in some way. God loves us all regardless. I know this first hand. I don't need anyone or church between me and the source of all love. God the father and Jesus. These are just humans doing their best like all of us.

[@ant....]

i'm no mormom i grew up in the city to see folks like you betray your heritage in the face of all they built and pretend like it takes some sort of courage or hidden knowledge or that it's commendable when really it's supreme weakness is just another one of those instances that remind me of how awful humanity really is these communities look like heaven from our perspective, do you know have any idea how many people would kill to be born in your shoes? yet you still find a way to take it all for granted, it's incredible. all you need is 5mins to get on youtube and find some garbage that reaffirms your negligence and apathy so you can convince yourself that relinquishing control to your base desires will in fact not be destructive to yourself and everyone around you wake the fuck up

[@tomp6685]

Well said

[@America_is_now_MAGA]

Thats where you are wrong! A disciple of the mormon church is on a higher tier than the non-believer subhumans.

[@debbiemarquis3231]

I was Pentecostaland I understand where he's coming from....

[@debbiemarquis3231]

​@@America_is_now_MAGAspoken like a true religious clone..

[@jenn_madison]

Thank you, Peter and Todd, for a very interesting, insightful interview. Great job with the editing, Natalia, thank you❣️

[@lab_rat_24]

Im an ex Mormon and my aunt and uncle went on a mission in Africa. They came home and gave our family a whole presentation of their mission. I wish i knew what i knew now I would have asked them a lot of questions during that presentation 😂 It is so freeing being out of this religion/cult. I feel bad for those who havent woken up to how untrue the church is. Im so glad the internet and youtube (you) are bringing much need information to people in the church or considering joining the LDS and hopefully helping them question the religion.

[@pakabe8774]

The funny thing is, good work in video taking or video cutting means, that as a viewer you don't notice it in general. But, it is amazing how you manage to take the videos, to focus and change focuses so perfect, while at the same time you are in discussions, listening attentive and asking the right questions. It is so amazing what great job you are doing!

[@robertdrake7082]

Indeed! Peter would be the first to tell you, it is in large part the immense gifted skills of Mrs. Santenello! She is the production editor of his video's. Both of them truly make the magic of this channel! Unquestionably the essence of two becoming one!~

[@rchrisutoob]

Not to mention holding that camera stick or stand for such a long time 😮!

[@thewholenesshome]

Oh my gosh you are RIGHT by my house! My husband and I were married in that temple and since have left the church. Wow.

[@fullswingtv904]

Amazing Series so far! Keep crushing it Peter! 🙌

[@DominieRobinson]

Thank you Both for Pursuing Real Truth in this matter !

[@UTV-A]

Todd, you are very brave for sharing your story. Todd and his wife are awesome people. I hope that members of the church such as myself can take this story and help us to love our friends and family more and support each other better in every way.

[@evanabt8578]

How cool of you to be so humble about this while being a member of the church. ❤️

[@HaleStorm49]

Brave like coming out as transgender brave?

[@zachdavis7536]

Peter, Thank you for this video. I am researching the LDS church this winter and I have found LDS members and Ex - LDS members to be wonderful people.

[@watchmanonthewall14]

Yes, there are many wonderful Mormons. Many. But Mormons are not Christians. It all boils down to different views of Jesus. Mormons see Jesus a A god. Christians, being taught from Biblical scripture, see Jesus as THE God.

[@hus390]

@@watchmanonthewall14if Jesus is the god, then what is his daddy? I’m an Ex-Muslim, now agnostic. I actually find the Mormon Church to be a net positive for society. It doesn’t preach violence, and its emphasis on the structure of families is amazing. Utah has the highest percentage of children to adult ratio, and they are the least to live in poverty. - One thing will earn the charge +A from me, let members drink coffee and tea!😂

[@watchmanonthewall14]

@@hus390 I agree with some of your points regarding Mormons. The problem is that they are a works-based religion, just as Islam, and all other major religions of the world. The Bible tells us that "ALL have sinned and fall short of the glory of God." And that "we are saved by FAITH (in our Savior for what He did on the cross to atone for our sins), and NOT OF WORKS, lest any man should boast." IF we could be saved by our good works, just how many good works will save us? The answer is not defined in any major religion, because no one knows. It's all arbitrary. The sticking point in all major religions is not "god", it's Jesus and who He is. The Apostle Paul tells us that Jesus is foolishness to the gentiles and a stumbling block to the Jews. Jesus said that in the judgment, "MANY will come to Me saying, 'Lord, Lord, did we not do many great works in Your name?'. "And I will reply, "Depart from Me, you workers of iniquity. I never knew you." Those are sobering words, indeed. I do appreciate your post, sir, and wish you all the best.

[@lottikokonut1250]

@@hus390 many cases of abuse too....

[@Stacy_AtHomeMom]

I have found that once you realize that one religion is not true, you start questioning everything. You start studying other religions, going all the way back through human history.

[@harlanlang6556]

Great thinking! Have you ever wondered if there was some kind of connection or relationship between all the historical religions? Could they all be an expression of truth tailored to the needs of particular times and people? Sort of like grades in a school, where we are taught basic addition and subtraction in the first grade because that's what we're ready for. Then the teacher of each grade thereafter builds on the foundation of the first grade teacher to expand our understanding of math. The teachers in the school of religion would be such as Jesus, Moses, Buddha, Zoroaster, Krishna, etc. who presented the teachings that his era needed. This is consistent with the idea of God being a heavenly Father who loves and cares for all of his children, and provides the divine education for all, not just one small group.

[@apologiamixer]

God gave us a brain for a reason.

[@BobbyEngels-Natsariym]

That’s right! Religion is not the key. God does not expect us to be in a religion to be with him, he expects us to have a relationship with Him. Religion will not get you anywhere but down the broad road of destruction that Yahusha spoke of in Mathew. There’s a significant difference in “religion” and having a relationship with God, who’s name is actually Yah and not God or lord or Jesus….

[@bonniemitchell5841]

Yes, but I think Jesus is the savior of the world and that includes all religions. He is savior of all, not just another great prophet.

[@bartonbagnes4605]

​@@BobbyEngels-NatsariymI thought God was El, Aher was his Wife, and their Sons were Baal the rebellious one and Yahweh, or at least until they switched to monotheism shortly before the Babylonian Captivity for wickedness.

[@liualoe]

I watched the clip while hunkered in from Helene Storm in Orlando. FL. Interesting to learned that the Ex Mormon had his 2 years mission work in Taiwan. Growing up in Taiwan during the 70s, I recalled seeing young westerners 2 at a time riding bikes dressed in perfect looking white shirt n tie. I learned they were Mormon missionaries who could speak Mainderian nicely. I learned back then that the Mormons do not embrace Bible to the entirety. Mormons upheld additional teachings outside of the Holy Bible......appreciate Peter, thanks for sharing the interview and visit to the Mormon community in Arizona. Love learning with Peter's recordings.

[@Jon-wf1sn]

Ex-Mormon here and I agree fully with what Todd has expressed and shared here. I've also had several friends leave the church as well and it's been amazing. Thanks Peter and Todd for doing this video.

[@trumpdanusan]

no one actual thinks lds is for realz?

[@hus390]

I’m an Ex-Muslim, now agnostic. I actually find the Mormon Church to be a net positive for society. It doesn’t preach violence, and its emphasis on the structure of families is amazing. Utah has the highest percentage of children to adult ratio, and they are the least to live in poverty. - One thing will earn the charge +A from me, let members drink coffee and tea!😂

[@trumpdanusan]

@@hus390 danites? Mountain meadows massacre. Full it bro

[@trumpdanusan]

@@hus390 Lds believe polygamy many muslims have herrims wives. Did you know lds book stole Articals Of Faith out Koran?

[@daylehudson6810]

I was excamunicated from the Lutheran church. Years later another litheran church reenstated me

[@DAITION]

Respect the focus on both sides Peter, admire your work ethic and film style

[@greencontact]

He is a very intelligent and well spoken man. Respect.

[@bartonbagnes4605]

Unfortunately he is poorly researched.

[@brianbales1855]

@@bartonbagnes4605 We found the LDS

[@elissarn8529]

This man provides great info and personal insight. Jeff Durbin is a pastor in AZ, loves the Mormons, but preaches the truth to them!

[@BiigiieCheeese]

I lost my religion but strengthened my faith when I left.

[@ChristConvicted]

Love that!

[@pgerry9400]

Please read what I posted prior to your post

[@biggzzify]

Faith in the god of the religion you left or what? Unless you found your own new god then cool.

[@tomelroy]

I’ve been hooked since Titus. Keep up the great work!

[@jwcinc12]

super hooked since Titus

[@ReelHifi]

word@@jwcinc12

[@believestthouthis7]

Here's a hint as to why. Titus is a Seventh Day Adventist and Mormonism, SDA and Jehovah's Witnesses were all groups formed during the same time period. They were all straying from mainstream Christianity and thought that all other Christians were apostate. They all have extra-biblical books, prophets and a works based salvation system. So essentially religious cousins... Just not actually Christians as so many may think.

[@AubreyWilkinsWursten]

As a Mormon, I was kind of expecting a hit piece. I LOVE being pleasantly surprised, so Merry Christmas to me! 😅 You've done amazing work. Thank you for giving everyone both a voice and a chance to hear other voices. I want nothing but the best for everyone following their conscience.

[@MarsUltor1990]

hello from Romania! i really love the way you do your documentaries. So laid back,easy to watch,no filler junk. I am a subscriber for like 2 years and will continue to be! Good luck Peter and best wishes from me!

[@justinturman]

Statistically only like 30% of people in a Mormon ward in the US are practicing. Numbers are lower outside the US around 20% in Europe and as low as 10% in parts of South America. So at least 70% have left. The guest did a fantastic job representing the huge range of the stories of the majority of the church.

[@jeffs4483]

Sounds about right. They claim 17 million members, however only about 3-5 million are active fulltime. Since this cult requires active participation, it's safe to assume that those that don't have already left.

[@princessadora]

there are people that don't attend that still love the church and believe

[@charlesmendeley9823]

There is a thing called "lost membership records". Many disaffected members quit by stopping attendance, and when they move house they do not update their address, leaving a record with an invalid address behind. This is especially true for converts who were talked into baptism. Thus, in countries where missionaries were pushed to perform lots of baptisms to increase numbers, you have lots of "list membership records" which are fake numbers.

[@samdung5630]

Peter always seems to find the nicest people to interview.

[@raynelson6575]

I do love this series. It seems very balanced. My experience with members and ex-members is very different. I am a Latter-day saint. My family has been very staunch LDS for generations. I grew up in So. Cal. I had, and still have, many friends who are not LDS. I have never felt that the church teaches that parents should have conditional love for their children depending on whether or not they stay in the church. I have a child who has left the church and I do not love her any less. We do things together. No judgment. That's what I believe the church teaches. Members and even the leaders are human beings who are not perfect. The only perfect being on earth was Jesus Christ.

[@ginamiller6754]

You are much kinder than others. My husband is exmormon. His dad continued talking to him when he didn’t go to their church or temples. As soon as he announced that he had become a Christian his dad was angry and won’t speak to him. His parents are no longer married. His mom is different (still LDS) and is very loving to all of us. Only one of her 5 children is still LDS. 3 have converted to Christianity.

[@mrbiglicks8267]

​@@ginamiller6754lds are Christians

[@HaleStorm49]

@@ginamiller6754 LDS is Christianity when done as God intended. It's peak Christianity. What you are calling christianity is more like cafeteria discipleship. You don't convert to it... You downgrade.

[@ginamiller6754]

@@HaleStorm49you don’t make any sense 🥴🤪🤣

[@HaleStorm49]

@@ginamiller6754 I'll use more emojis next time.

[@Ezrasghost]

Praying for all Mormons and ex-Mormons!🙏🏽✝️

[@mariafrmdaBX]

Unfortunately most ex Mormons come out atheist and that’s so sad because Jesus Christ is real and loves them!!

[@Rebeka1589]

I’m a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints, I have been for 11 years no one else in my family are members but I love the church so much and it has honestly been the best decision I have ever made. I’m grateful my parents have supported me in joining although it was incredibly hard at first for my entire family, I can’t imagine how they felt but it’s been wonderful for me. I believe life is too short, everyone should do what they feel is true and right. You deserve to feel happy and at peace so I respect this man’s decision to walk away and I appreciate how he spoke with respect, someone in another comment mentioned this. For everyone that has left not everyone is mean after you go, many members love everyone in any faith. Most do in my opinion but when it’s a loved one fear I’m sure plays a role in their reaction. Anyone who really follows Christ loves everyone like He did. I hope you find so much peace and Love in your life you deserve it

[@phila5971]

Well said sister.. 💙💙

[@mojavemike6522]

Having lived in Utah since 1987, and a non member, I wish more members of the LDS faith felt the same as you. God Bless you Rebeka.

[@tonymiller9084]

Thanks, Rebeka, I"m a member and love and have many coworkers of all beliefs whom I respect and am friends with. My sister left, became a meth-addict and now lives in a group home. Who pays for her group home every month? My temple-mission parents and me and my siblings (all active in the church) we still lover her, we actually feel bad for her. She has made terrible choices. She is the one who distanced from us as she made different choices than all of us............not the other way around.

[@jamesdeclan7538]

Yall are diabolical... wake up.

[@xaverrogers4910]

How family forever work if they all think Joseph is liar scumbag deny lds as Satan's Church. Just you?

[@cameronseibold5453]

You should talk to Seventh Day Adventists.

[@seppyq3672]

Quakers too. They are my favorite religious group!

[@toyvillageandtrains.2420]

Forget religion..be a Rationalist Morsl person. Or better, be like Roger Williams of Providence,Rhode Island. No non-sense religion. Google or Wikipedia Roger Williams.

[@Cristypie016]

I love your videos

[@jennywinks7979]

My husband and I were sealed in the Swiss Temple. Husband graduated from BYU. Raised six kids in the church. Sent sons on missions. We have never been happier since we decided to leave together. The world expanded for us. Yes it is hard to leave, but it can be done. We are better people for having left. We still have some adult kids in the church. They love and accept us for the individuals that we are. We all have our own paths to walk. We are very glad we got brave and stepped away and into an even better life together. Married 53 years. We have only gotten stronger from leaving.