First Time Homesteaders || Learn From Our Mistakes

We are wrapping up out first successful homestead year. Learn from our mistakes and we hope this motivates you to just take action!
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Hi! We are Phil and Alex! After leaving California in an RV, traveling full time, and helping our littlest with an open heart surgery, we've settled down in Tennessee. We found our homestead land and are learning each day how to live a more sustainable life. We are a family grown through the miracle of Adoption & Infertility Treatments. Our precious daughters are Kinsley Grace (6 years old), Callie Jo (4 years old), and Cassidy Drew (1). Our passion is to encourage families through infertility, adoption and building stronger healthier families. Thank you for tuning in! We hope you are encouraged!
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[@jessandrog5855]

Keep it all here!! I started following because of infertility but stayed because I fell in love with your family!! I love it all!!

[@bubbly4564]

ME TO !! 100% KEEP IT ALL HERE :)

[@betchabyghalewow]

Same here 🙋🏻‍♀️ sending hugs 🤗

[@loripretti843]

I think you should keep everything on the same channel. God has definitely blessed you with your garden this year!!! God bless your whole family!!!

[@geriannhorton1256]

Keep it all together as it better shows your life is “normal” in that it has lots of different and important things going on. You are a busy couple with several passions. It is interesting to see how they alternate top spot depending on the day. You are doing great with your precious girls and you are inspiring me through your love of learning new things.

[@Grateful4]

“Everyone’s life isn’t content specific” and that’s the beauty in your channel! Love this new journey you guys are on and it encouraged me to start my own garden(it thrived for me being a first time gardener!) and I love hearing you guys speak about homesteading. But, I also really love to see just your regular, daily life with your three girls, and your journey on infertility, all in one place. Your family is beautiful to watch, coming from someone who hasn’t struggled with infertility, it’s taught me a lot of knowledge in something I wasn’t looking for knowledge in and I love it!

[@buyyufo]

Keep it all together

[@staceyjohnson2946]

Perfectly put and I wholeheartedly agree!👏🏼

[@ashmoe1022]

Yes! I couldn’t say it better myself!

[@MyDivadiva]

Totally agree. Keep it all in one place. All of it is your life and it's all wonderful. You are so inspirating and encouraging. ❤

[@peggylowery8062]

I love everything you share. Keeping it all on one channel would probably be easier to maintain. Love you guys 😘💕

[@kimhorn4233]

Alex, when Phil said “this is the day” I also said “ that the Lord has made” when you did!!!❤️😊

[@danielleconsetta7488]

I think you should keep it all together! Thank you for always sharing all the things you do!

[@vickifletcher4651]

Keep it all together Homesteading is about family. As we grow our gardens we do it for the family we are growing. Homesteading is community. Each homestead has a story to tell. If you take out the growing of your family from your homestead we miss out on part of the story of your homesteading. Love watching your children grow and learn and tell what they are learning warms my heart.

[@sharonssheshed]

Keep everything on one channel. It creates more variety plus it will be easier for you guys in the long run.

[@desteni1992]

I love that your channel has everything in it all in one because like you said, everyone's life isn't content specific, having everything on this channel is real and relatable to see all aspects of your life in one. I currently am a single mom of 3 young boys and now because of your videos, I hope one day to buy a house with land and build a homestead ♥️

[@juliajones2283]

It’s fantastic to see you having this homestead, land, animals and lovely house from having the two bedroom apartment with just a balcony for outside space that you lived in when I started watching you years ago. So happy for you. Xx

[@jessicavanluyk3713]

Hey Phil and Alex, Please pray for British Columbia. We just experienced a major rainstorm which caused major flooding and damage. Thankfully where I live there is no flooding!! Our province Would really appreciate your prayers!!!❤️🙏🏼

[@PhilandAlex]

Absolutely praying for all those effected by the terrible flooding! ~Phil

[@deonshurlee]

The mudslides and floods are insane but people have lost their minds they are now panic buying 😞 hard for those that can't afford to stock up! Prayers definitely welcome

[@familyfriendzee]

Oh no, we will be praying. 🙏

[@jennamartin96]

I like having all your videos on this one channel so that it’s easy to watch everything you post without having to go to different channels and then I don’t have to worry I’m missing something :) like seeing both things you’re working on

[@commonsense6967]

Congratulations to you, Phil and Alex! You have accomplished what many dream of doing---becoming self-reliant, self-sustaining, and living outside the system (to a great extent)! This is a huge accomplishment for anyone living in this day and age! And it's also darn hard work! Kudos to you and your family.

[@chantelle7132]

Keep it all together 😊 life is a mix up and nice to incorporate it all. Thank you for always being so encouraging!

[@jillanderson1134]

Hi! I love watching you guys! I am a homeschooling, homesteading mama to 8 children. 4 bios and 4 adopted. I think you should keep it all together. Because it's all part of your life and family. People don't generally compartmentalize their lives and I love watching how each part of your life "feeds" and informs the other parts and how they all intertwine.

[@Sabouma28]

it's awesome to finally see Cassidy walking 😍

[@Ratsinameatsuit]

I think your family, fertility, and homestead are all your story and why we all watch. I’d prefer it all on one channel.

[@sherryryan345]

I have been here from the beginning. I dont think you can split up your content. We are here because we love your family. the infertility , the girls, your time in the rv and now on your homestead are a part of you and that is why we are here

[@angeemh7]

Sherry Ryan, I couldn't have said it any better!!! We love Phil, Alex, their 3 beautiful daughters, and their homestead life! Most of all, I love how they love Jesus! I love how they teach their daughters, just how much Jesus loves and really cares for all of us!!! Phil & Alex, you and your family are awesome role models for the whole world to see!!! Your family life, as it is....pure inspiration!!! God bless you and your whole family☝🙏❤❤❤❤❤☝🙏

[@rachelcooper2170]

I love how your content changes with the seasons. It gives us a great variety of topics to watch. So keeping it all on one channel is the best way to give variety, I tend to get bored with the same thing.

[@kowalskifranklin]

Please keep everything together so we can keep up with all of your fun family activities!!

[@janeclay9684]

I’ve watched you for years and it’s been such a privilege to see all your progress- both with the children and the homestead. It’s all the different aspects of your life and I personally don’t see the need to separate…. variety is the spice of life! : )

[@joanmilano5302]

I would keep them together, I enjoy it all so much. It's a part of your family life, please keep it here.

[@jennifercload9390]

I think what you are doing and what you are teaching your girls is absolutely incredible. You are raising them to not just take from the earth but to put back. You are teaching them to self sustain. I love all of y'alls grunge/gardening/farming look. And I mean that in a good way. I love Kinsley's messy hair. I mean its all so natural and that makes it beautiful. Like the old saying goes "Give a man a fish, you feed him for a day. Teach a man to fish, you feed him for a lifetime". That is exactly what you are teaching your kids. Its awesome.

[@swirko2]

Great video. I like everything on one channel, personally. I didn’t know you had another channel! I like the mix of information. 😊❤️

[@christinadennis62]

Look into Harvest Right Freeze drying your garden…. For long term storage could this be something your family would benefit from saving your harvest and keeping it fresh longer!

[@mumzieshideout3555]

❤❤I love to see Phil get all happy, and share his thoughts, he loves Jesus, his family, his homestead, his circle of friends, and us the ... the Phil and Alex Subscribers❤❤

[@DRMTTJ]

Alex, you need to do whatever is EASIEST for you. With three "littles" to care for (and you and Phil do an awesome job of that) and more in your future, easy is going to be a necessity. Blessings to you all.

[@elrikakoppeschaar586]

I would watch it all regardless of where you post. Love all your content!

[@elishab1384]

I love it all together bc its more like “life” as normal 😂 As normal as normal can be right?!?! I just enjoy seeing your life as a whole……we are family as u said we made it to the end of your vlog! You are the ONLY family I follow on KZbin. Im not much of a watcher but your family caught me before Callie was even officially adopted so Ive been around awhile🥳🥳 Happy Thanksgiving 🦃

[@angelaclausing5565]

I enjoy EVERYTHING you put out, from infertility, to family life, to marriage advice, to homesteading, just EVERYTHING.. I think keeping it all in one place is definitely the way to go because this is your lives and as someone who follows your family, I personally enjoy everything you have to offer. Plus 2 channels is hard for you to keep up with. So my vote is put it all out on here

[@valeriestroud7178]

I wasn’t even aware that you had a second channel. I just say keep it all here. However, it is totally up to you.

[@lizettegonzalez8108]

You are a great encouragement channel. With all you went through to start a family, infertility, and heart surgery now a homestead is amazing. I personally love to watch your videos. Thank you

[@anitatucker8812]

Keep it all here. Tennessee has beautiful weather even if it does get really cold etc. It tends not to last long. Many blessings.

[@olivechisholm1494]

Please keep all together thank you. Wonderful and so enjoyable

[@g5kids1213]

“Everyone’s life isn’t content specific” Very well said! I love your channel just the way it is, I started following because of how you lived in an RV and raised kiddos, it was interesting to me. I’ve stayed because I’ve fallen in love with your family. Y’all homesteading, I absolutely LOVE! We have chickens and have had them for 6 years and have been doing a garden for 8. I truly enjoy your page and it’s a place of acceptance and hope for me. Thank you

[@dawnmarieandjeff]

To answer your question...I was originally drawn to the channel because of the infertility content, but as I've watched more and more, I find it so refreshing to see a family really representing a Christian family. It's wonderful and that is why I keep watching.

[@audreyg50]

Love watching you grow your food and your family . I love that your family is truly real . That makes me think that you are perfectly normal folks.

[@kathrynmoran6491]

Keep it all together, for me its not just the gardening or the fertility journey on its own, its your life's journey as a whole I love. your Triumphs, learning experiences and work ethic of gardening and homesteading but also your family life and the highs and lows that come with it make you one of the most relatable channels on youtube,you inspire everyday in everything you do so it would be a shame to separate who you are as a whole onto different channels, also you title your videos so well that if people do have a specific interest they can easily avoid the topics that dont interest them. Your the best, Love you guys

[@kathleenkesler169]

Oh No~~ Your land is Awesome/Beautiful....my husband and I are "old" and we really envy the lifestyle you are creating!!!! Love it!!!

[@Homestead-ish]

Have you guys watched the biggest little farm? It’s incredible. I also have used back to Eden for my little raised bed garden and it was amazing. These are my favorite videos… bring on all the homesteading! :)

[@rosemariebenintend6771]

You share what you want. If there's a part of it that interests individuals less, they know how to fast-forward. We're here.

[@desyloohoo]

Keep it together! Ppl who aren’t interested in homesteading will just not watch those videos but will still stay for the family/infertility related content.

[@MidwestLife87]

All on this Channel , as it all IS your Life ❤️

[@journeetowellness5207]

I originally found your channel because I was pregnant and then suffered another miscarriage. But I love your family and I enjoy everything you share! Keep it all together. Much love to you all!

[@cecehbrewer]

I like the different vlogs. Gives it a fun surprise when we see you upload, you never know what you're gunna get and that's beautiful. Thanks for sharing your life with us. It's so refreshing from the rest of the world.

[@lanieleigh9970]

So true! It’s not what the land looks like, it’s what the land provides!

[@TheSmokie2231]

My mother always said to me “ the beauty is in the eyes of the beholder “ that something that we think is beauty could be something someone else doesn’t care for and same if someone else loves something’s and we don’t. I believe the homestead or farm is beautiful because it brings life. In many different ways it feeds the chickens and us and the chickens feed us. Is so awesome.

[@lindadickson783]

Please keep it blended. Alex you are great at telling people what you are doing and why. I love hearing about how you have bettered your garden and lives.

[@doloresclark4316]

It's all you and your life stay here. I like you guys as a family. Not for specific content.

[@michellemiller-farley2895]

I love any and all content you put out. I am a mama of grown children, but struggled through fertility with two of mine. My husband had CHD, so all things heart intrigue me. My husband beat all kinds of odds, being born back in 1968 and I marvel at what they have advanced with. I also, even at 52, would love to become self sustainable. I just love everything about your passion of sharing your lives and your faith as you face whatever comes your family's way!! Love and prayers from MO!!

[@judywelch9209]

Oh my gosh… I love all of it… I love the homesteading , the fertility journey. I love it all... you guys are such an inspiration… I was born and raised on a farm and it gives me great pleasure to see others trying to achieve the same in 2021!!!

[@abbymoore5002]

This channel is all aspects of your life! I love watching you journey through all your new passions and chapters!

[@ferallover7659]

Please keep them all together. I love both, family and homesteading. My favorite is your story about the difficulties in getting your family and then watching them grow. The lessons your teach them are amazing. Even though my family is grown and I can't learn anything , it is refreshing to watch a God loving family, very much like mine. continue in this blessed way.

[@NicoleLyn1218]

Please keep everything together!!! I found you guys a few years ago in the middle of our infertility…..but I have also learned so much about gardening, home projects, recipes, learning for kiddos, etc. too! And I appreciate seeing and learning about everything.

[@tammyroberts4272]

I think what you guys are doing is great... please keep your homestead, your family and infertility on this channel please. I love hearing about everything. Thank you for sharing your life. Bless your family

[@katieamos6691]

Keep it together! I feel like your videos are so beautiful intertwined! You can put family, infertility and homesteading all in one video and it makes sense because that is your life and your journey!

[@JLWallace072107]

I love the diversity of content and fully support keeping it all on one channel and having playlists. I love that about channels. I’d rather go to one place and look at playlists when I am in the mood for something specific than have to navigate several different channels by the same creator. I love what you guys are doing here! I didn’t have a massive garden but I did have enough for us and we were so happy with it this year. Our basil was totally out of control and HUGE! I made so much pesto for the freezer and gifted basil to several friends. That’s my favorite thing about homesteading, even if it’s micro-homesteading like what we do. To provide for ourselves and to bless others. :)

[@itsbrandymac]

I love that your channel is blended with all of your passions. I vote for all of it being shared here.

[@lindagentile2380]

I am So... PROUD of You BOTH teaching & growing your beautiful family taking good care of our planet... GBY ALL 🙏❤💙💖💖💖🤗✝️

[@Brittsreality]

Keep it all on this channel! This is your life and your journey and through it all I’ve loved to learn alongside with you! ❤️❤️❤️

[@loverslanelodge]

Oh my soul!! Alex I can't believe how much Cassidy looks like our granddaughter who is just a few months older then Cassidy. I love how the Lord has blessed you!!!

[@kelliprafke7851]

You guys are so inspiring. Maybe one week could be your family stuff, and the next week could be your homesteading subjects. Whatever you decide, whatever is easiest, I'll continue to ride along!

[@loganreese9134]

I love y’all keeping your content true to y’all. I enjoy seeing both homesteading and your family in the vlogs.

[@wendycollier1414]

I would like it to all be together. The garden, the land, the house it all has grown leaps and bounds this year. God is great. Love your channel and thank you for sharing

[@tmaug1974]

Please do more of a structured "Top 10, or 20" homesteading mistakes. My family (sister's family, myself, and my parents) will be fulfilling our dream to homestead within the next year, or two. Thank you for sharing so much with us, helping us, and praying for us! Your family is absolutely beautiful, and I truly look forward to all of your content. God bless!

[@hannahceline8978]

Oh this is SO good!!! My husband and I married 6 months ago and I am already craving this like crazy!! Hoping to find a place with land this spring and start our family, be it the Lord's will, and these tips are not only helpful but also make my mouth water for a beautiful garden and chickens and all the things! I loved the perspective this gave on how productive it can be to learn these priceless life living methods... organic fresh produce without any need to go to a grocery store sounds like a dream come true, even with all of the intense work it might involve! Blessings to your beautiful family 😊💕

[@cheyennejohnson1009]

Keep it together! I started watching because of infertility and stayed because I love how honest and raw you guys are! I remember getting so excited for y’all when you shared the news about Callie and now from California to RV life to Tennessee and now homestead life I have learned so so much from you guys and I’m so thankful for each video you post!!

[@anniebutton7453]

Please don’t change a thing, you two are the best ( & your girls are so precious). It lifts my heart when I see your post & videos, THANK YOU from the bottom of my ❤️. Sending love to you all from Annie 😘🤗😘

[@graceannjohnson3922]

Keep it all here! Absolutely love this channel for that reason! I get all the good stuff, in one family, one channel, one app. love you guys & super excited for this new journey!

[@lorifroude]

I like how you have both passions together on one channel. Hope you keep it that way. Keeps things interesting to watch!

[@carolynmichaud6967]

I think the channel is perfect I love learning about homesteading as well as all the adventures your family is embarking on. Plus as another commenter has stated it will be easier to maintain one channel.

[@leeanneuhr9226]

I love how you blend your every day life into your channel so please keep it the way it is now & I love your channel. 🥰🙏

[@faithinhumanity3390]

We love you guys and I wanted to thank you for giving me the hope to start IVF again and expand my family

[@conniebarnes7987]

I enjoyed seeing ALL the children out playing. 👍

[@christinefreche3410]

Keep it blended. We love watching your channel and will be forever followers. Congrats on the successful year of homesteading. 💕💕💕

[@zeltingerchannel7975]

All of this is who you are as a family and i enjoy seeing both passions. That is just me personally.

[@rochellefuentes6069]

In January my husband and I will be starting our search for a few acres so that we can start our homestead! It feels super overwhelming but we are both so willing and excited to tackle this adventure❤️

[@ricasears5910]

Ive been watching a few homestead channels and one ive been watching is one acre homestead and Beccy just put her garden to bed for winter. She planted over 500 heads garlic for 2022 and covered garden with horse manure but u can use chicken as u must have an abundance of chicken poop 💩 🐔🐓 then puts layer of leaves over her garden beds to let the beds decompose , and like yourself, no tilling. Love watching where you were living 2yrs ago to now, selling your condo in California, shopping for the 5th wheeler RV Camper van, moving into your dream home and starting your own homestead when u were pregnant with Cassidy. Would be interesting to see what garden transformation will look like this time nxt year. Hi from uk

[@deblilja7868]

Keep it all together!!! I love watching your family.....your IVF journey....the homesteading..... EVERYTHING! I never knew homesteading was even a thing til I saw you do it. I can't explain it but I feel like I need this in my soul. I hope to one day own a piece of land where I can grow my own food and be sustainable. And the chickens! I need to have chickens!!!

[@Corie404]

PLEASE leave everything on this page...I LOVE the blend that you have going on...I LOVE how you share your life "As it is HAPPENING"...

[@jrodgers4498]

please keep your homestead and your infertility journey on the same blog! i love to see and learn from you. and the journey with your beautiful children!! i love what you do.

[@kimritzen8474]

All together. This is your life. Like you say. You're life isn't content specific. I love to see all of it together.

[@alisonfarrugia8316]

I would keep it all together! It's your everyday life, filled with a bit of everything, showing that life is beautiful, with the ups and downs that it brings with it🥰. Alex and Phil, I love your humbleness, your kindness and the beautiful way you are raising your children. Jeep up the good work and God bless you all❤ ❤.

[@boosmimi2]

You two have done an awesome job with your garden and your chickens. Your growing your homestead is so encouraging. I’m learning a lot from you. I’m a 63 yo woman who knows little about homesteading. My hubby and I have tried tub gardening here in Florida to no avail.

[@lueear1]

I would like to see your content altogether. You balance it well and the mix and match are what keep me coming back. I am not able to do homesteading nor did I have an infertility problem but at the same time, I am learning so much about both. Thanks

[@marybaker9401]

I think keeping everything blended is GREAT!!! You guys are amazing! Love your family and your channel! LOVE MULTIPLES!! God Bless you all!! 🌻💛🌻

[@athompson5089]

Homesteading is about family. I don’t think you need to separate anything. I enjoy every video!

[@darlasnyder7923]

I love the “life content” of your channel. You’re such an inspiration. I enjoy the content blended, that’s your life!! 💞

[@louisesproul6778]

Keep it the way you are doing it, I love how you are training the girls to grow and care for things and your infertility is part of that!!!

[@21heavenscent]

I love to hear your stories and look every evening to check if you have posted a video I say leave it all in one place. I started watching because of your beauty of a family but I love hearing about your success struggles and triumphs in homesteading!

[@kriv691]

I am not passionate about homesteading but I enjoy watching you talk about it so I say keep it here.

[@McKinneyJ23]

Keep it all blended. We're here because we love you guys. And loving you means ALL of you. So mu vote it keep it together.

[@annjames1837]

Hi... as a native Tennessean, I can tell you that we've had 70 degree weather in December and snow in April 😊

[@amyrichard4311]

I'll watch all of your content no matter where u share it. I'm really loving the homestead journey. We've been growing and canning for years but I'm very Interested in watching your progress and it's so beautiful to see the whole family involved ❤

[@annettescott5884]

Oh please keep everything together on this channel - it’s fantastic having the variety and seeing the different aspects of your life - there’s far too much in life that is ‘content specific’ these days! x

[@kristinatorr3012]

Just want to say thank you once again. I commented a couple of weeks ago for the first time. I have decided that I need to start leaving more comments that are supporting and encouraging. Every video I watch is a source of encouragement no matter what I have gone through or are going through! I personal like having both infertility and homesteading in one place but if you split it into 2 separate channels I would just watch videos from both channels. I am interested in both subjects. I wasn't able to have any children and at this point I am too old to have kids but your videos on infertility help me to understand what others who are in my life are going through. Homesteading is something that I have been working on for a couple of years now so seeing what you all have done and are going to do gives me ideas as well.

[@ceilidhmcphee8733]

I’d love all the homesteading videos! I enjoy your fertility ones and that’s what got me to find you in the first place. But right now, in this phase of life and the world all the homestead content is needed!

[@robinbrownlee1521]

I look at Cassidy walking around the garden and I am just amazed at her. God is good! On another note Alex, I live in a townhouse. However, your homesteading inspired me to just do a balcony garden. It was small, but the first day I used something I grew in a salad blew me away.💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽So thank you for my new passion!

[@youtubeeagleeyeswatcher7809]

Love seeing Cassidy walking. 💕