Independent Woman is Desperate to Find a 'Perfect Man' | Filipinas Give Hot Comments

[@philippinefamilylifewithle2673]

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[@jerkinmcdikus6603]

Trust me American and Western women are terrible as wives mothers and lovers I'm not looking for a wife in America they are not worth it

[@Caznainthehouse]

Great job Leah. You are doing god's work. Please do not stop calling out this behaviour in western women their venom run's deep and their behaviour has destroyed many good men, old and young and is continuing to do so. It is now a majority of western women blaming men because they partied away their 20's and bring out the blame and shame game because no man wants a 30 to 40 year old with a bad attitude. And children from multiple partners. It is getting measurably worse, with the younger generation in particular. So many young guys have never been close to finding love nor will they, with very average girls sexualising themselves and never looking at normal guys due to their options and attitudes.

[@tsukaime3235]

i thought dating sites like these were illegal in the philipenes?

[@mikestiffler2712]

I like the answers your guests are giving today I agree with what thay are saying thair is no perfect person

[@CarlosAlberto-ii1li]

Worst people in this world are false religious fanatics pretending to be good people whilst waiting for you to sleep with your mouth open so that they can steal your teeth.

[@julieanna8495]

I am a traditional housewife and Mother in my 60s. What these beautiful Filipino women are describing is how I have lived my wonderful life with my husband for over 35 years. I love these ladies.❤️❤️❤️💪🏼👍🏼

[@GladysOnLove]

Thank you Julie, I'm happy for you ❤

[@ronprince1478]

Hey Julie just wanted to let you know how many of us out here respect you, and the way you living your life. Good luck to the both of you.

[@glianderik]

The problem we western men have with western women is that we dont feel like we are valued. We always feel like we are expendable in the relationship. Like we are a lamp in the corner that they can just throw away and replace without a moments thought. When I met Gli, at first I thought she was scamming me because she was so nice and attentive to me and I didnt know how to react. It felt awkward to be cared for like she did for me. After a month together, it finally occured to me that all my life I was brain washed to believe that being treated the way western women treated me was normal and acceptable and now, I know I wasted my entire life working hard and doing everything I could to make women happy without them ever caring about what made ME happy. Gli saved my life the day we met and I have been grateful for her and our relationship every day since. We are getting married early next year and for the first time in a long time, I'm learning to open my heart and believe in love again.

[@Caznainthehouse]

Now that's Perfect.........

[@redpillrebel]

I'm very happy for you, Erik. I've watched some videos on your channel before, and I think you and Gli look very cute together. I wish the two of you all the best in the future. PS: I've also met a kind Pinay who will hopefully be my future asawa one day. Sana all!

[@wolf30324]

My advice to any man, get your passport and see the word, and meet people along the way, and some day love will appear.

[@Cons2911]

And it’s alright to watch out for red flags, there are good ones but there are also bad ones. So my advice to guys is, get to know them, even though there are bad ones here too, you have a higher chance of finding a good soul here. Treat them well, and they will reciprocate much better than the west

[@gmmonomotapa2889]

Congratulations Erik. Live your best life.

[@babblingalong7689]

Women like them are why the passport movement exists, lmao.

[@kidagave1]

Exactly!!!

[@buffalo.blackk]

They were talking about being independent as a positive throughout the middle section of the video, which is disappointing. So, they do have some feminist ideas, even among these ladies in the Philippines. The lady on the left of screen in pink also talks about a guy not being necessary and just a “bonus” in her life and she says, “you don’t need a guy for anything”at 17:00. They may be more feminine than American women, but make no mistake, some Filipinas are still feminist, their brand of feminism is just less in-your-face. They are more gentle and soft and feminine. But they still see being an “independent woman” as a good thing. Which is sad to hear personally. I thought Filipinas were the most traditional. I guess not. 🤷 I genuinely believe that wherever the English language spreads there will be some level of feminism among that country’s women. This is why I learned Spanish and Arabic, and why I eventually I want to learn Tagalog, Indonesian, and Japanese.

[@woodspirit98]

As a guy I love living alone. 20 years now. I work alone too. Life is wonderful. I tried dating and mostly I got rejected. .y eyes weren't blue. They're green. I'm 5"10" not 6ft. I love being outdoors, not partying or going to bars. Rather go fishing or hunting. Raised my two kids by myself alone. Got tired of being rejected. It does my heart good to hear there are so many unhappy and miserable american bul dyke princesses. Can't help but smile 😊

[@daveofyorkshire301]

Feminine women in the west are becoming as rare as rocking horse s**t... You ask a women to put a dress on she will explode in a tirade of feminist rhetoric... You even talk to a green hair feminist and she's likely to scream in your face... Would you do that, or would you keep your distance...

[@TheDarrenO]

@@buffalo.blackk I've watched a few videos of the one on the left and she's very much adopted the Western feminist mentality. I actually broke with a girl recently who started exhibiting the same behavior. If I wanted a Western woman who 'doesn't need a man'. I would have picked one from home. The Philippines is about 20 years behind most Western cultures so if these Filipinas do trend the way of Western women they're gonna have a long row to hoe down the line.

[@ST-TV]

A woman who is good looking at 53 likely has been stunning in her early 20's. That is why she still expects a perfect man. She has had plenty of those while she was young and pretty. Time has passed her by, but she has not been able to adjust. Thus she is alone and most likely will remain alone, most likely for good.

[@edwaltz2732]

PERFECT, that is all I hear. She'll never find what she wants, because it's never going to be good enough.

[@Caznainthehouse]

PERFECT and ME ME ME ME..........

[@Cons2911]

True, I mean just try asking around how much they want their ring to be, or their wedding dress.. a lot of Filipinas would be happy with. Cheap wedding dress

[@woodspirit98]

I can answer that. She wants a man without children that loves hers and her grandchildren. And of course those children and grandchildren come first followed by the dog and cats. Then you. You need to have an expensive car, be six foot making six figures and six pack abs. Perfect teeth a complete head of blonde hair and blue eyes. You have to do all the cooking, cleaning and laundry. Jump when she says jump and take her on holidays around the world. Simple.

[@BruceCinader]

Sounds like you and the other girls have a great attitude, too bad most American women are not like that, and that is the reason men are looking for love in the Philippines. I married my Filipina 24 years ago, and no regrets.

[@Cons2911]

24yrs, damn, coming up to 25..glad you found a good one

[@ejtaylor73]

Already subscribed to Gladys' channel, I think she's a great addition to any video. She's very well spoken, educated and honest in her opinions, she doesn't just sugar coat it, she tells it like she sees it and is very refreshing to hear. These western women holding out for the "perfect man" will be single and alone forever. The "perfect man" doesn't exist, just as the "perfect woman" doesn't because NO ONE is perfect, you have to accept others for their faults and try to help them overcome those faults and grow together to be the "perfect" partner for you. As long as these women keep listening to other SINGLE women telling them what they need/want/expect in a relationship and believing they DESERVE the world when they have nothing a man values in a woman to offer him, they will NEVER find a partner. STOP letting others tell YOU what YOU need/want in a partner, ONLY YOU know what that is, figure it out and go out into the REAL WORLD and find it, Prince Charming doesn't use dating apps. The 1st video, she realized she's not going to get the "perfect man" yet goes on to say she's still looking for him, so she obviously didn't come to any realization at all. Ask her to define the "perfect man"? She won't be able to, proving she doesn't even know what she wants, so how will she ever know when she's found it. She won't lower her delusional standards so that even 1 man can achieve those standards, and won't admit SHE is the problem and won't change/fix herself to be a woman a man would be interested in committing to. All she is saying is I want, I want, I want, instead of saying this is what I have to offer a man. What a woman has to offer a man to make his life easier and better is what men want to know and value in a partner, and those things are on the inside, he can't see them, she has to show him. She is showing the very definition of hitting the proverbial "WALL". Gladys, I would have to disagree FOR NOW, "She's pretty for 53," lets see her without all the make-up and filters on and see what she looks like. Then let's see what's ACTUALLY important to men, who she is as a person on the INSIDE before deciding. It doesn't matter how pretty you are on the outside, if you're just rude, selfish, disrespectful, with poor personal character on the inside, you are far uglier on the outside, and that's an ugly make-up and filters can't hide. Shay, the reason there is no empathy from men, is because men have been telling women, just like her, for LONG enough now for them to get it in their heads, what they will/won't accept in a woman they will commit to. Men haven't changed much in what they want for HUNDREDS OF YEARS, and these women just don't listen to them and go on continuing to do whatever they want and do things men WILL NOT accept in a partner. These women in their next video will be insulting, shaming, putting down, and hating men for not wanting them, they have brought it upon themselves and still won't change (This woman proves that, she allegedly realized she's not going to get the "perfect man" yet still refuses to change and wants the "perfect man" when she doesn't even know what he is), and the reason there is no empathy from men. These women won't admit and accept accountability for their own actions, and will have comments from 1,000's of other women giving her "empathy", telling her it's not her fault and she doesn't need to change or "settle" (Or the way I look at settling is COMPROMISING), it's all the men's fault. There are THOUSANDS of videos on KZbin from men reacting to these type videos, giving an opinion from a mans point of view and why these women continue failing in relationships. If these women truly wanted a partner, they would STOP listening to women remove accountability from them, and start watching videos and reading comments from men, they are telling women EXACTLY what they are looking for in a woman they will commit to, men don't give subtle hints, they say things bluntly. Tough love is still love. Until she admits to herself SHE IS ACCOUNTABLE and takes steps to fix her problems and show men she is trying to be better, men will have no interest or empathy for her. I think you ladies did a good job dissecting these western women's videos. Maybe watching a few hundred more will give you a lot more insight into their mind set, and see why men are leaving and why those men say/do certain things and are guarded and cautious with women, these are the women they've been dealing with. BUT, these women aren't ACTUALLY realizing anything, because they're not changing to fix whatever that alleged realization was. Let these videos of western women serve as a great learning tool for Filipina's interested in a foreigner. These are they type women, the attitudes and behaviors foreigners are FLEEING their own countries to get AWAY from, act/behave as these western women and your chances are all but 0 a foreigner will be interested.

[@GladysOnLove]

Very well thought out response. Thank you for subscribing ❤

[@joemelo1372]

The three of you ladies are making very good point. The one thing I did not hear any of those women in the video say is that they wanted someone to spend the rest of their lives with and be happy. I'm a divorced man I live alone with my daughter. I go to work I come home I cook I clean I do my laundry I do all my household things. I don't need a woman to be my slave and do everything for me. I want someone that I can spend the rest of my life with be able to talk to and enjoy my life with I finally met someone in the Philippines. All we want is a traditional woman here everyone has a bad habit of saying a relationship is 50-50 that is not the case the relationship you both have to put 100% into it in order to make it work you have to support each other you have to help each other grow as individuals and people. If I do more financially than the person I'm with does more in other ways. It should never be about what someone can do for you it should always be what you can do for each other help each other. None of us a perfect none of us will ever be perfect people just need to find someone who is perfect for them. Sorry for being long-winded just putting in my two cents😂😂😂

[@lorandmagyar]

I did most of the cooking, cleaning, laundry, house repairs, car maintenance in all my relationships. I had the time and knowledge. She typically worked and had kids. She deserved breaks and relaxation. How hard is it to spend a few hours cleaning her house ? No great burden to take her kids to soccer practice.

[@joemelo1372]

@@lorandmagyar my point isn't doing all the work my point is I want a woman to spend the rest of my life with I'm not looking for someone to be my servant or my maid I can hire someone to do that. My comment was referring to all the women who were looking for people or men to do things for them all the wrong reasons

[@ronprince1478]

Thank you ladies for your comments. To explain a little, a lot of women in the west have treated men so badly that a lot (maybe 40%) have decided not to get involved with women at all. Instead they concentrate all your efforts on the career, sports and hobbies. I am one of these people and have been for 25 years. But now it seems like there are women in the world that think like me. For my woman I am gentle, kind, supportive and proud of her accomplishments, ferociously protective and loyal. In return I expect pretty much the same. Total faithfulness is given and expected. In the west, a man expecting these things is asking way too much. Thank you ladies.

[@Maarten8867]

Here's something to ponder: if someone is truly independent, both emotionally and physically. Why would that person ever even desire to have anyone else in their life?

[@JohnSmith-ks5xw]

Because they enjoy relationships.

[@GladysOnLove]

That's the paradox. We want individuality and we also want connection. We all crave for that sense of belonging and be connected with someone

[@joedoe7706]

The lady in pink....wow! Her response is a perfect Godly response. So so beautiful! It is so refreshing to hear someone give that kind of input!!!

[@StanHasselback]

Another good video and topic Leah. All you ladies understand that you need to work on yourselves to feel fulfilled and happy. No man is going to do that for you. Being in a relationship with someone enhances your life. It can make it easier but there are also times when it could make it more difficult too. That's why the wedding vows are "for better or worse, richer or poorer, sickness and in health. I've said that in American the vows should be changed to "for better or even better". That's what scares me about American women now. I can date them but I don't really think that most of them can handle anything difficult happening to the relationship. Over 90 percent of college educated women in America initiate their divorce. Also 56% of marriages end in divorce. I'm looking for women who take relationships and marriage more seriously. All 3 of you are mature, caring, intelligent women who would have very little problem getting married in America because there are so few of you.

[@dale7436]

I have been married twice now to a western woman and I find that when a marriage is negotiated by proxy instead of ACTUALLY discussing what is expected of one another, a marriage from a woman's perspective is always about changing a man into what she wants. My last wife snored so bad that a guest thought we had a BEAR in the house, at first I hated her snoring but then I loved her snoring because I knew that she was alive beside me, and I also realized that she had sleep apnea. So, why did I divorce her? Because she was a control freak. Anything that I did was always criticized.

[@IQscan51]

A BEAR in the house. 🤣🤣🤣

[@Metache1]

So funny😂😂😂😂

[@GetOffTheLawn]

Just wanted to pop in and comment how random the snoring part of your story was.

[@Paul-McB]

1st woman is alone. It's the same in the Philippines for her age According to the PSA ( Philippines statistics authority) Filipinas her age make up less than 3% of marriages in 2021. It's an age issue just like it is here in PH. 2nd woman, good advice. It is like that here is PH. Many women with children still live at home where they are co-dependent. Most are looking for a man to take care if them, especially foreigners, because they have money. 3rd woman is a Brit. Just the same as Philippines. Not much of an opportunity for women above the age of 35 here. This lady waited to long and has aged out. The panel should realize the situation, because they look her age and it's slim pickings. Most Filipinas her age end up with a 60+ aged pensioner. Men, Philippines is just as disfunctional as Americans and Brits with a slight difference in culture. For the men, please have some pride in your country. You dont see Filipino men badmouthing their women. By putting down your own culture, you're coming across as a sellout. I can understand you may be infactuated with a beautiful young filipina. No need of bias between cultures.

[@dickeyspaz3222]

Western woman train of thought. "My money is my money and your money is our money." There is no "I want to help my husband" in western women. Married 18 yrs to a pinay who does it all and is the best mother, wife and friend you can share a life with.

[@babblingalong7689]

BTW I've found that Filipina's are strong & resilient! While not being feminists! It can be done!

[@thelegacyofgaming2928]

Yea, being a WOMAN is already good enough. Trying to be men- er, feminists, generally makes them look weaker.

[@trammel907]

Your new guest is pretty ❤️❤️❤️

[@williamwhite1596]

The farther from God the crazier people are !!!

[@TheHibener]

I am 54, male and want to share my views and feelings about this Video.For the first Lady, very attraktive for her age. We don't know about her past so it is hard to say that she really means what she says. I recently had a Date with a Woman my age at a nice Restaurant. We both agreed in the Chat we had that we would pay for our own food because it was our first date. Both of us earning a good amount of money. Didn't turn out good because I didn't wear Designer clothes 🤣. She had no idea that my suit and shirt were tailor made, really worth the money in the long run. First red Flag for me judging me solely for my outfit. I ordered Salmon with spinach and garlic sauce, of course with tagliatelle. I love Italian Food. The second sehr heard that I am ordering fish, a 20 minute rant began about how Fish is awful, stinky, full of harmful chemicals and Just not eatable. She ordered a "healthy salad". With Mayonnaise, lots of it. Women my Age in the West are either divorced from a wealthy man or have never been married. Not worth the effort, sorry. The second "Woman" ... i would run as fast as i can immediately. Heavily spoiled princess attitude, just unsufferable. Lady number 3 is just sick of her career, working hard and making money at 40 !!!!. Men start their Carrer at 30 and work to 65 or older. Again, she wants princess treatment and a Man that provides for her unreasonable spending Habits, because she's tired of working for herself, just hilarious. To sum it up I had a wife and kids for 16 years and was happy as can be because we grew together, learned from each other cherished our marriage before our kids to be strong for our kids. I am still happy to have had this experience and would never settle for less

[@EamonnHogan-eu3qc]

Oh please, 25 word's or less, or no one's gonna read your crap😅 I didn't 🎉😂

[@RonaldDavis-m3r]

this is much more positive then the last one. Good job

[@saulgoodman7221]

See what we deal with here ! I gave up on dating. I’ll wait until I get there and find me a good province girl. One who will complete me not to compete with me ‼️

[@Kevin-to7dz]

Beautiful, thoughtful conversation Leah.

[@George-ux6zz]

I think she's a very spoiled girl. She's used to having everything handed to her on a silver platter. Guaranteed, she doesn't cook, she probably will not do laundry, but she'll definitely go shopping as often as possible.

[@jameswoods3062]

I’ve not dated a western woman since my divorce of 22 years!!! I’ll be in the Philippines for good in 2025. Can’t wait

[@joshuabaird9405]

I’m traveling to the Philippines tomorrow

[@BeastMaster629]

She’s built a life for herself and wants a man to join her life. That’s not gonna happen. A man builds his life and woman join him.

[@thecoolintroverttv8381]

Yup😊

[@jamez2u]

How is it these young ladies have figured out what men want and the western women with their degrees and careers can not. Do you think it is the parents or do you think it is just the western culture? I appreciate my Filipina, who is always trying to improve herself and works to make our relationship stronger.

[@julieanna8495]

I think it is a little of both. The Mothers no longer teach their daughters how to be good wives and take care of household work. As if that is beneath their daughters. 😟😔😑. And western culture teaches women that men are not to be relied on, as women used to rely on their men decades ago. 🫤. That knowledge that men are no longer useful or needed to enrich a woman has degraded our entire society. 😑

[@Cons2911]

Culture, but also bec culture change, it usually takes a while but sometimes just a few years (eg feminists)

[@danielstefanrobertsen7931]

Excellent comments! You have so adorable personality and culture.

[@dopyojj4974]

The more they talk, the more boys are running to the passport office 😂😂😂😂

[@wesgarland9498]

Luv you guys. Good advice. I wish it were easier for american or western women to view these videos. Good job!

[@texasaggieinorlando2396]

Newly subscriber here. I love the topics that you’re discussing.

[@davidhelfert7249]

Very interesting subject. I love it❤❤❤❤❤

[@mrlarryhill666]

She probably had good men in her life multiple times but the grass is always greener on the other side and she most likely threw them to the curb.

[@tonyste12]

Yup, now that 'no one' is interested, she still wants the 'perfect' man?

[@BowenJD]

No one is perfect, and people need to stop looking for someone who will never come.

[@bookemdanopinay7427]

It's like buying a house. You may not like everything in that house, but enough that suffices you and makes you happy

[@andrehenriques2]

Wow you are all beautiful and smart, well spoken , grounded, feminine and incredible mature in your outlook. North American women do not make themselves emotionally available to a loving relationship. I dated over 11 women and ended up finding a beautiful Philipina who loves me. My Philipina is a business woman with a heart for serving God and making a difference in her community

[@TruthFinder7839]

Bonding is the essence of fulfilling our life’s purposeful goals together. Each of us are responsible for bringing our best selves to give to one another and anticipate the wants and needs of the other in the good times and during the rough patches as well. I loved these three women together, great job, looking forward to many more.❤🙏

[@paulkusbach5987]

It was nice seeing you at Ground Zero the other day

[@fcruz43215]

I enjoyed the video ladies...hope you are all well and happy 😉

[@mikesample6104]

Good afternoon Beautiful lady's yall are being very kind to the independent western woman. It was a great question to ask would she date herself ? Yall have a great afternoon

[@GabrielVelez-ym8wn]

Thanks so much my 3 beatifull teachers. The class today is unforgetable is a lot to learm from u Amores bellos. Just ur voces give me peace. Thanks again. God bless.

[@sebastianheuwagen9317]

lets all be better than we have been in the past. not be egoistic be kind and helpfull. figure out things together. have fun with family and friends. give something back in life even when its small things. we all live together on this planet. lets share what we have. take care all you wonderfull human beings. Greetings

[@dalibor1510]

You're all very intelligent women. Love this video and your opinions. Most Western women want only a domestic helper and a walking wallet in one man, or a few men would do also, I think.

[@antowalk2743]

This is what I like about good Filipinas they show compassion never if it's to someone entitled like these western women. Love Filipinas

[@beaulong]

The struggle is real!!! 😮

[@MrWhitehomeboi]

I love it how Leah is sitting there listening too the two women (wonderful women btw) with the "you're being too nice to these western women" face.

[@frankpeeler4278]

53 year ran them off is why she can't find any expecting to much from the guy.

[@robertrehrig8416]

No, you are hearing them right. So many are like this and worse. The stories I could tell would make your head explode. I can't pick a winner too save my life. I gave up looking 15 yrs ago. My dream is to come there, meet a nice girl and settle down. Build something good with the years I have left and leave her better off than I found her when my time is up. I'm a good guy, my daughters love me, I just can't find an acceptable partner.

[@Cons2911]

Travel and see the world, maybe you’ll find a good one

[@govoni08]

Beautiful and intelligent ladies

[@jspice-kl2wc]

Such a great video with a great topic, I think the three of you can fix the world. Also, it was funny. Thank you. 🙂👍👍👍🙏

[@luciorj3893]

Shay I love your attitude so nice and modest Excellent-comments all of you💗💞

[@darrellbarnes2096]

Y'all were laughing at the 53 year old lady, but you beautiful women showed your compassionate Filipina ways!❤😊

[@bookemdanopinay7427]

When you hold back and don't take a chance to take the risk to love somebody you innately are putting a stumbling block between you and love

[@TheDarrenO]

Leah, I've watched quite a few of your videos now and I quite enjoy them and your views on life and what it takes to be happy. The relationship between you and your husband seems solid and it appears to me that you work very hard to keep it that way. Of all 3 of you in the video today you had the most realistic attitude. All this "I don't need a man' stuff is pure Western feminist influence. The fact of the matter is that we need each other, we depend on each other and both the man and woman in any relationship have roles to play, we must support each other, people say that relationships are 50/50. I don't believe that. I think relationships are 100/100 ...each person should give 100% to make sure the relationship stays solid and harmonious.

[@luciorj3893]

Yeah 🎉Do it when your young and wild like Filipina’s..❣️

[@wolf30324]

I would like to be forwarded and speak with Shay....

[@themalejodietaylor2599]

Look on the bright side. Huge market for wine box, cat, tissues and antidepressants in a neat subscription package for long term value. Exclusively for independent, Western women.

[@Bobc308]

😊😂😊

[@booshank2327]

No cat deserves that.

[@George-ux6zz]

Sometimes you can find the perfect person for you.

[@George-ux6zz]

Nobody is absolutely perfect

[@jamessims4802]

It's consistently said, the confusion of the western woman is the reason we western men feel a need to connect with women outside our country. So, now we as masculine men need to focus on how we can deepen & enrich the lives of the women in our future. We need to understand & bring the kinda happiness to the Filipinas, that comes with knowing & understanding these women.

[@spinnetti]

You've got some wisdom there, Good for you! The women in the videos aren't talking about real relationships - they just want somebody else to do tasks they don't want to do. That's no basis for a relationship and has nothing to do with a connection. Sounds like they want a handyman. Why don't they just hire out?

[@CarlosAlberto-ii1li]

In search of foreign mobile ATM.

[@abelanc1090]

Expecting empathy from the internet is wild. 😩

[@stevesteel6066]

Shey is beautiful ❤

[@bookemdanopinay7427]

I love these Karen's that you put on. They're extreme over the top. Laughing out loud. Eating my popcorn

[@bookemdanopinay7427]

We all suppress our ability to express our loneliness within ourselves

[@dk_kito4767]

I agree on the independent thing. Both my great ganrdmother and grandmother had that issue when there husband died in there 80s they had no idea how to do financine pay bills etc. They just never had to do anynof thoes thing there entire life. Both times my dad has to move in with then for a week or so and teach them how to be independent.

[@Matipid_Lolo]

The Philippines dating is just like the West with one huge dufference. Age Gap. If Western single moms would be willing to date men 20, 30, 40 years older than them like the Filipina will, they would not be lonely. Unfortunately most 35 year old Western woman are not willing to date a guy collecting social security. They want men closer to their age. Age Gap is the key that allows the Filipina more options.

[@stevencohen5494]

So as a western guy, I couldn’t be involved with any of these women. Personally none of these women are independent all they really want is a robot. Fortunately for them there are guys who are equally in such bad shape, they’ll go along with them, and it just last for a while, they might even become codependent on each other, making them equally unhappy. This is pretty common problem here in the west.

[@adamwelch6217]

Love is easy to find if you live in the real world and aren't looking for some fantasy character from a romcom. There is no "perfect man".

[@Ajax-wo3gt]

The first woman being reviewed thinks you can’t force love (true), and that you can’t make love happen (no true). Love making (I’m specifically referencing to s*x, but also that) IS made by two people being committed to the process of building a relationship. It’s an enterprise, not just a spontaneous occurrence that manifests and Carrie’s is off to a magical realm filled with good feelings. It takes work getting to know one another, deepening our understanding of the other person as well as ourselves, and surrendering to a much more grounded and mature form of love that can only be earned. This woman just wants a fantasy that she will never experience.

[@davidbraxton6600]

HA-HA-HA LEAH ❤ YOUR NOT ONLY BEAUTIFUL BUT HILARIOUS AND FUNNY 🤣🤣🤣

[@lorandmagyar]

I never got the "boys night out" ? We nearly always went out together. My male friends liked my gfs more than they liked me ! Of course she didn't have to go....but if she wanted to...she was always welcome.

[@derekmartin6700]

Hi Shay. I would like to meet you there in the PI.

[@markinbama4173]

TIme 17:00 ....... I think the word that you ladies are looking for is "inter-dependent" (yin & yang?)

[@bookemdanopinay7427]

Be unpredictable has nothing to do with being independent. Reach out. Take a risk to love somebody and then to know when to pull back if you are not happy

[@GladysOnLove]

Good point, agree

[@frankborg1534]

Top blog Leah these women have to move sawan from their feminists world for start and I agree no one is perfect it’s what you both put in. The ladies with you are my type , speak well, good view overall in their thinking . Ladies hit me up would love to get to know you unless taken. I also had enough here in Australia I intend to move there Filipinas are awesome as other Asian countries also .. Frank

[@bookemdanopinay7427]

We only hold ourselves back by trying to find the unreasonable and unrealistic perfect or right person

[@wolf30324]

I am sure when she was younger, she over looked a lot of guys that didn't measure up to her standards. And now she is on the receiving end of being alone at 53. I didn't think people are being hard on her, certain things you should never put on social media because people have their opinions, and just be prepared to receive what ever response people have.

[@jefflay8515]

Yes, at 53 her body is breaking down. Maybe gaining weight. A few more wrinkles now. She is not attracting men like she used to.

[@julianbud7334]

Its team work the saying there is no later I in team so it takes two to make things go right.

[@woodspirit98]

As a man i love living alone. I👍

[@Colinh394]

I am planning on visiting the Philippines in 1 to 2 years. My plan is to be there for a month to 2 months. For first timer going what area would be best recommended? Also this would just be myself going.

[@gunasekaran8309]

Iàm alone for 13 year's

[@vlogcritter]

All those men you passed up being independent…I will wait for Shay

[@WalterPetrovic]

BTW -- just as there is no perfect woman, there is no perfect man. The worst part of it all is when the effort is put in and it is shit upon, then where is the attempt at perfection?

[@Bitcoin_hodl_4_LIFE]

I am fall in love with a Filipina woman i cant Explain the emotion about it

[@LordWinter-l7o]

20 seconds in and Leah already figured out the heart of the problem: They Watch TOO MUCH TV. I'm serious. 99% of these unrealistic expectations can be traced to groups of women who got together and decided they were going to do something about a problem that exists only in their minds... after watching talk shows and getting themselves worked into a tizzy. Let them see one woman get abused over here, and 20 minutes later they've convinced themselves that ALL men are abusers. It is difficult to even compliment a woman without being called sexist. If you are a man and you say the words "That dress looks nice on you." I can guarantee you that at least a dozen women will complain that you're being sexist.

[@KB-dm7nt]

I think the last American woman mistakes love for a handyman! Love is not an occupation!

[@stevetravels6160]

Mathew 7 1-5 Practice what you preach.

[@jameswelch3624]

I was always told by my married guy friends (I am single male and straight) that they stopped looking for love in their early 20s and it found them. Each of them except 1 is happily married and have been so for 10 plus years now. The 1 that isn’t married is so by choice. He’s never been married and never wanted to be. I respect all my friends for their choices but, I’m starting to get tired of hearing about the happy married lives they have. I’m 37 years old, I work my butt off and I have pretty much given up on finding love about 10 years ago. I say pretty much because I see happy families every single day everywhere I go and it’s too difficult to completely give up on it when it’s in your face 24/7. Even my step niece is able to get a boyfriend easily and she’s bi. Maybe it’s my resting face that makes me look like I could hurt someone just by looking at them or maybe I give a standoffish and dangerous aura? It’s not like I can change what I normally look like, I think I look alright for a guy and I’m not a hostile man. I’m actually quite friendly and welcoming. Maybe I need to go overseas too.

[@Cons2911]

Go overseas, and you don’t have to look for one, treat it as a vacation, stay a while , smile (esp if you’re in the Philippines), don’t forget to smile. And about family, yes it’s not for everyone. But as a father, I love both my boys, but that tender age (maybe until 9yrs old?) man, it’s precious and time goes fast Sometimes I wished I spent more time with them at that age, esp with my oldest son, I’m making it up to him though. I guess I’m just saying, if you ever get a kid..enjoy those early years or you’ll regret it, cherish it

[@khure711]

James there are many more men like us than you can imagine, I’m 37 too. Never married no kids. I’ve dated women with and without kids. I retired at 36 and want for nothing. But for me these modern women play to many games and have zero commitment to having a loyal relationship. I would like nothing more than a wife and kids, but the woman I date always break my trust, I plan on moving abroad soon and at this point it’s the only option I can find to combat these modern western women and their toxic feminine tendencies.

[@AlcHeMiSt55]

THATS A GREAT ACTING JOB FROM A 53YEAR OLD WOMN. BUT SHE BE LYING..... GREAT JOB ON THE VIDEO LADIES. GLAD TO SEE YOU ALL ARE REALLY SEEING WHATS BEEN BREWING WITH THESE LADIES.. RESPECT YOU ARE ALL WHAT WE REAL MEN ALWAYS WANTED AND RESPECTED, WE JUST DIDN'T KNOW THAT THIS WAS POSSIBLE... WE HAVE BEEN BLINDED IN aMERICA.

[@outdoorsman2b918]

Leah, Love the two guests you have on this video. Wise and dark skinned. The 2nd video left me sick to my stomach. How can you complain about basic adult responsibilities like cooking, making a medical appointment or calling your insurance if your car breaks down? Gladys was generous on her comments: certainly she is young, but she is young and stupid. Shay nailed on the head. Regarding the rest of the video, this independent thing is a programing American women swallowed out of ego and stupidity. There is nobody who is independent. At best we are interdependent. A a man I may pay for it but at time I will need a lawyers, accountant, plumber, electrician or mechanic. So I depend on them even when I need them very rarely. Same with everything in life. The mighty USA will collapse if Mexico, China and southeast Asian countries stopped at one manufacturing our products. Or if the countries who produce petroleum stopped selling it to them. They depend on USA as well for other goods. Bringing it to relationships between men and women, beyond the romantic and sexual stuff, we rely on each other. We combine our talents and hope your weaknesses are my strengths, and your strengths compliments my weaknesses. That the only way a relationship will grow. Helping and complimenting each other. 100% agree with Shay about self-improving to be the best version ourselves to be ready for a relationship when the right person arrives to our lives. A woman can chase or at least approach a man. Just do it with class,, not slutty.

[@thelegacyofgaming2928]

A lot of women in the U.S. do watch a lot of tv in general, especially K-Drama and they believe what they see on the screen is real life. It's so sad

[@thecoolintroverttv8381]

Delusions😂

[@michaeljones4715]

Another great reaction video, and yes I agree she does have an annoying voice.

[@StevenNagle-e7g]

I love that phrase "I want my person" - meaning she's more interesting in woke language than men. Go figure. Good men aren't in bars, clubs or other such places, try places were masculine, traditional men hang out. Those are the only men that are worth bothering with unless you want a man who will be a doormat.... besides, women who already have a life established that men have to 'fit into', that's not going to work, as men want to build a life with you, not have "your ideal life" imposed on them. At 53, it's also going to be tough to get a commitment, particularly whilst you have antisocial media.

[@sillybilly8028]

I have never met a perfect man or woman. 😮

[@Last-Ninja-1]

38 seconds in = NAILED IT The woman on the right is really laughing, she is in a little state of " That's Unbelievable " and she is allo thinking if her man meets me. It's a wrap/rap/rapping/raping/wrapping/wraping

[@MrAsh1989]

Hahahahaaha, these videos are so funny

[@TheHillbilly8757]

"Where is he? Where is he?" I'd recommend checking SE Asia, ma'am. Because that's where you chased all the Western men to.

[@gotaplay]

Haha there is such a thing as the perfect man ...but I'm busy 😂😂😂😂😂 joke lang ... Ohhhh my godness , there's Shay 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂👋👋👋👋

[@Bobc308]

😊😂😊