Picking Up Girls at 40 With Braces

[@raymondbryantjr.11]

Being 5’9, I stepped to a 6’7 woman and got her number. In regard to rejection, yes it hurts but I’d take rejection over never trying any day.

[@BulldogMindset]

100% correct. Nice work Raymond.

[@raymondbryantjr.11]

@@BulldogMindset thanks, John.

[@SirJoelsuf1]

5'8'' here and some of my favorite chicks have been taller than me. Not 6'7'' or anything haha, but approaching the 6' mark fosho. I love women who are taller than me.

[@raymondbryantjr.11]

@@SirJoelsuf1 lol awesome!

[@drock430]

Dude...who suggested you put elevator music in the background of your videos? Just stop

[@deepenwadhwa4027]

Haha, that's what you focused on?

[@litjellyfish]

@@deepenwadhwa4027I agree with him. It’s distracting

[@SirJoelsuf1]

No one's willing to put in the effort. They just want results with the perfect partner without making themselves better. Then they'll just blame all these dumb outside forces that don't mean sh1t. All the stuff everyone complains about when it comes to chicks? Bra burners? Girl bosses? Karens? I JOKE about that stuff when I'm WITH chicks. I openly talk about sex with em, too. Often right from jump on the approach. Not in a creepy way but matter-of-factly, like I'm talking about cooking or working out or something. They don't like it? Cool, gimme that L as fast as possible so I can move on with my life. But at least I'm putting myself on the line. That's the difference, kids. Get out of your own f**king way and be willing to take some Ls.

[@Aleh_Loup]

I'm also a forty, 5'5 1.65cm, a bit overweight (still getting in shape @o@") Tried 2 times each night I went to a night club, got rejected in all of them, and each rejection hurted xD (I like the way you said, if I lost confidence it was never confidence to start, but arrogance!) However, its natural for low effort to bring low results, I need to put high effort if I want high results

[@BulldogMindset]

Nice. I recorded a video response to this comment. It will post next week.

[@Aleh_Loup]

@@BulldogMindset thanks, really appreciate it. Will check it out for sure

[@litjellyfish]

I did some pickup around 2006-2009 Then I was in two longer relationships. Last year I turned 50. Got single and wrecked one disc in my back. Lost muscle. Got semi depressed etc. This spring I was finally off all painkillers and my back / sciatica started allowing me to move rather normal. I went clubbing. Was I rusty? Yes. Did it go well at the start? No. Can I go out now and now and then pick up a hot girl between 20-30 if I want. Yes I can’t. Am I tall, handsome and rich? No, I am average height and looks average with a normal job. How is this possible? Well I don’t take myself to serious, and tries to be an overall value giving dude that also don’t hide that I love hot girls.

[@BulldogMindset]

Exactly.

[@Optioning]

man did you record any infields? would be great to watch

[@BulldogMindset]

I wish I did, but unfortunately I didn't. I never thought I'd be able to post them because of my situation, so I never recorded anything. Man, some of the stuff I could have recorded, it would blow you away. You would not believe it. Some day I'll write it in my memiors.

[@Optioning]

​@@BulldogMindset I believe it, I remember your video "Framing: Making People Like You" and thinking you must be going out picking up girls often for you to understand, embody and execute that concept live. Would def be interested in any memoirs or even videos on that journey/adventure

[@monchichipower6334]

Braces you can remove after a few months but balding isn’t that easy unless you got the money to fly to turkey for a hair transplant

[@BulldogMindset]

You can wear a hat. You can't cover up braces. You can also shave your head.

[@litjellyfish]

@@BulldogMindsetexactly. Many girls find a shaved guy hot. Just look at all the sport stars

[@guyguy467]

Thank you

[@scott.joshua]

Yeah I don't know what I was worried about. How could I have any excuses if you: a 40-year-old with braces who is super jacked super rich famous super good looking and suave can even get girls. Why can't I? What was I thinking?

[@litjellyfish]

You just made excuses 😅

[@scott.joshua]

@litjellyfish actually just described someone else. Didn't say anything about me or what I was going to do.

[@willberg12]

My problem is meeting people. I'm not interested in the type of women that go to night clubs/bars

[@BulldogMindset]

All types of women go to them. Not all women frequent them. This sounds just like an excuse.

[@SirJoelsuf1]

Soooo don't go to those venues to meet chicks. Join local sports leagues, cooking classes, gym classes, community stuff...options are endless.

[@Barbarian646]

Doesn't mean anything. ... .you have the HEIGHT which is a factor .......doesn't mean any random can do what you do

[@DutchinBrazil]

True

[@BulldogMindset]

Maybe not with braces, but without, yes.

[@BulldogMindset]

Besides you are missing the point.

[@Barbarian646]

@@BulldogMindset no........getting women is nothing to do with what you say

[@litjellyfish]

@@Barbarian646it has all to do with what you say, how you act and what you do. How you look is important but if you don’t get the other shit together you aré screwed

[@monchichipower6334]

How about 43 and a receeding hairline

[@Codikas]

Plenty of fixes for that.

[@BulldogMindset]

Finasteride + minoxodil.