Getting a Girl is 100x Harder Than You Think It Is

[@henrydembski1032]

Money, Muscles, Frame and Game. Master these you’ll never have issue

[@ZM-dm3jg]

As a 6'3 guy I think it's incredibly simple: Be 6'3 and aesthetic. Don't not be 6'3 and don't not be aesthetic

[@Aleh_Loup]

Great response! A slap in the face, but a good slap: slap back to reality! Like you said, I see it as encouragement. Thanks John 🙏

[@BulldogMindset]

Awesome. You are welcome.

[@NonyaBusiness-uh1zh]

I envy single guys. Life before marriage was so simple, relaxing and enjoyable and had comfortable amount of money. Now I can't have a moment of privacy and peace in my own freakin' house, living paycheck to paycheck. So yeah be careful what you wish for my single bros. The grass ain't greener on this side.

[@Codikas]

Why paycheck to paycheck if you're splitting expenses?

[@NonyaBusiness-uh1zh]

@Codikas In theory that would be great but I've made that mistake before and it's not ideal. If you share expenses (especially rent and utilities), women tend to use that as a leverage to gain more control and say in the relationship. Ofc this is just my perspective.

[@BulldogMindset]

I might do a video response to this, but read Masculine in Relationship or email me and I can help you.

[@TomNook.]

If she isn't adding to or complementing your life, you're better alone.

[@NonyaBusiness-uh1zh]

@@BulldogMindset wow thanks a lot for the reply John. Your videos have helped me a lot throug the years. I will absolutely read it. I'd be happy to email you. I appreciate it and I'm thankful for everything you do. 🙏

[@litjellyfish]

1. Talk to women as much as you can. 2. Be confident. Be proactive and NOT reactive 3. Don’t hide your sexual intentions or apologize for your interest in women. 4. Follow something you are passionate about and share it with others. 5. Don’t be a whiny quitter I would say those is all you really need. Then yes. It’s great to be tall, rich and good looking with charisma. Not if you don’t follow the first it matter little. Wealth can be projected even if you have normal income. You can dress well and exercise, groom and style yourself well. Charisma is important but some girls like a funny guy and some find the “boring” stoic man sexy. The hardest I think is social status as it’s hard to fake. Then if you follow your passion in a field you will gain status. Or enter a field where there is women but less men to compete with. That’s it imo

[@jackrobertson5423]

Hey John, glad you're back! As you may be able to tell by the picture update, I have a girlfriend now, and a pretty perfect match, too; her Dad mentored me in first aid and first responders over the past year and a half and gave me that confidence that I always needed. I am wondering if you have any advice about how to move forward in terms of intimacy and closeness, as we both (her parents and mine included) think we'll end up getting married, but it's early days. Yeah, maybe a call in the group is better, but you could help more people with a video. As I am typing this, I just reminded myself about your podcast with your wife. (Hope you and the family are in a good season of life) All the best, and thanks for all your help and encouragement since we've known each other, and in future too Your bro Jack Ps. For extra context, you were completely right about how she should be the icing on the cake of your life, that you should have your indipendance and let a bit of distamce be there to start with. I feel very confident and independent and happy nowadays. I am keeping to your advice; don't give out more than her (if anything very slightly less), treat her like a princess and make sure she treats you like a King. And we do, hot chocolates whenever I want, food and snacks made for each other whenever, and I always show up at her work with a gift that let's everyone know how great she is. Your advice 100% works.

[@BulldogMindset]

I’m happy for you! Glad to see you found someone.

[@Bwilli1990]

Money and muscles fitness and finances do those women will notice you I started weightlifting and put on 13.4 pounds of lean muscle. The difference in attention is amazing 😂😂😂

[@nobodysperfect06]

Yeah I'll always be angry and bitter and resentful that I didn't have my first girlfriend until my early 30s, around 32, me and her are not together anymore though. I know I've spoken to another guy like this who has a similar story who says he never had a girlfriend until he was 30, he has the mindset that if he was born a woman he would not have been alone and single that long. I remember one guy said this to me and he really pissed me off when he said to me: "Why would you be bitter once you got what you wanted? Even if it took that long why does it matter? You can still enjoy the fruits of your labor now" Because I didn't get into my first relationship until later than normal that's why I feel angry bitter and resentful. And plus being a guy, how the dating game has always been different for men for women in which I know I'm not the only guy that has this mindset and that is men always have to be the ones to put in all the work and effort in order to land a girlfriend or in order for a heterosexual relationship to happen or start. It's like men are the only ones that have to know or learn so many skills and behaviors on how to attract a mate but not the other way around. I get more mad and angry that people in society say that men are not supposed to view that as work or a burden as in men always having to be the ones to take the lead and Court women and lead the interaction, I will never understand why men are supposed to enjoy and embrace that role. Should be obvious as to what I'm talking about, yeah and I get even more pissed off that people and Society say that women also have to learn dating skills on how to meet men or how to attract men when it never will make sense to me since women don't have to do jackshit to make a relationship happen. Speaking of my lifelong hatred of men always having to make the first move all the time. Didn't happen for me around the time people normally have their first relationship. I get very angry and pissed off whenever people and Society have the mindset that it's better to be a man. I remember another guy said and he only added fuel to fire which made me more angry and pissed off when he said: "Boo fucking hoo. We also don't have to go through child birth and we're strong as fuck. Testosterone gives us ambition + mental and physical strength that MANY (not all) women are lacking. Being a man has many benefits and with great power comes great responsibility. Stop crying about it and get your fucking shit together" Let's just say he pissed me off so much that it's not appropriate for me to say what was on my mind when I read that comment. Yeah I don't understand why a lot of people have the mindset as to why it's better to be a man at the end of the day. Yes it does truly feel unfair being a man at times. It only pisses me off even more when people say "thats the way it is, or so what?". it just fills me with a lot of anger and rage. Yes I already know and I'm completely aware that there's no such thing as fairness never has been never will be but it truly does feel unfair being a guy at times. Whenever people and Society make the arguments as to why we should feel thankful and grateful to be a man it just fills me with a lot of anger and rage. For example comments about what that one guy said above about testosterone. It really pissed me off a lot. Even some other men's dating coaches have said this and that is women just have to exist that's all and they are guaranteed options or suitors or just attention from men and when all you have to do is simply just exist that's really no skills you need there's really no skill development or skill learning in that part. Yes I'm completely aware that women have their own problems to deal with that are different from men. I get more angry and pissed off whenever people make arguments that it's still better to be a man at the end of the day

[@LakeCrystal]

Build yourself up first then chase woman

[@BulldogMindset]

Yes, 100%

[@Bulldog_Creations]

I just found the girl of my dreams .🎉

[@henrydembski1032]

There is no such thing

[@Bulldog_Creations]

@ I hit the jackpot

[@henrydembski1032]

@@Bulldog_Creations Women are utterly incapable of loving a man in the way that a man expects to be loved. There is no ONE. This is the soulmate myth. There are some good Ones and some bad Ones, but there is no ONE.

[@bobdaniels3692]

at the night club there no good girls there

[@nKm-2023]

That's John in the video, he's a guy 😜 😂

[@ChrisPatrick8199]

No = Next. You will fail many more times than succeed. I ice skated and fell about 10,000 times on my face on the ice over 16 years. I got good. But I failed many more times than succeeded. I have failed more than most people even try. Most people try less than once.

[@BulldogMindset]

Truth

[@ChrisPatrick8199]

@@BulldogMindset much love to you man, I found you through John Anthony, who has been a life saver for me, quite literally

[@Bulldog_Creations]

Quit looking for a woman and start looking for THE Woman!

[@drock430]

Mike Sartain says pickup is dead and it’s all about social circle game.

[@dzllz]

well, hes selling a product about social circle game.. so ofc hes saying that. he lying

[@Codikas]

Pickup will never die, it'll keep working as long as men are brave enough to interact with women in social situations.

[@BulldogMindset]

I don't see how pickup could ever be dead. It's harder. He's promising something easier. I'm promising you the feeling of knowing you conquered your fears.

[@litjellyfish]

@@BulldogMindsetexactly. sure social circle is important. But then again a lot needed to gain social circle status is same path as what you need to challenge yourself with when picking up women right? Because do you want to be the one in a social circle that gets the left overs or hope that by chance some hot girl in the social circle will pick you. Also I must say I don’t think social circle is easier in the long run. It’s as much investment is just as you mention in this clip the harsh feeling of rejection slapped in the face. It’s softer and you have already been phased into such throug life. Same as some might be nervous first time attending a company party one is afraid to approach women. But after a while it gets more normal. Also I might add again. All the things I learned when wooing women I have had used for in all other life situations