Believe me you don't have any narcissistic traits. Narcissistic people never accept or acknowledge that they are narcissistics. Therefore they never try to change themselves. The very fact that you are willing to change your arrogant (in Australia we call it FIGJAM) behavior proves that you are just another self-important, egotistic person who's full of yourself. Or at least you used to be one. But believe me you are NOT a narcissistic. Remember narcissistics don't change, they can't change.
That's exactly my husband. But I was very late when I figured this out. One main point is reactive abuse. They only talk about our reaction to them but not about what triggered us. They mainly go for very strong partners and show their true face when their partner gets weak. For example, mine showed his true colours the moment I got pregnant.
@PinkRoomShashini9 ай бұрын
Understanding helps you to cope with it , without getting hurt or feeling guilty. Hope you have the strength to face it. Always remember you are not alone ❤️
@@talesofjapan1109 Aney this comment really got me. Living in a hell as you have mentioned I know this feeling, may god be blessed you my friend
@talesofjapan11095 ай бұрын
@@FathimaDalal ❤️❤️ Thank you ! I think I’m strong enough to face this now . I’ve my own plans to fulfil in future for myself , not for my family life . I’ve give up the love , affection , family life and all the things . Sad ,but this is what I’ve to face .
@talesofjapan11095 ай бұрын
@@FathimaDalal Thank you for your kind reply
@dil76679 ай бұрын
I faced this situation with the ex boyfriend but i was lucky, i ended that relationship
I recently ended a relationship with such a guy. The main point is no empathy at all. He blames me on my small mistakes and when I reminded him of his own mistakes and ask him to think how would i feel when you did those things, he fired up. Bcz he never accepts those. It's impossible to argue with them. And he has been in many relationships but very few has lasted close to a year. Now only I understands why. And he always put the blame on the girl. 20:07 20:07
ශා. මම අද තමයි මේ වචනේ ඇහුවෙත්.. Very important topic. Perhaps younger generation should be educated on this එයාල partners ලා හොයාගන්න වයස එනකොට 👌🏻 (Parakrama from Sydney)
I also have a experience with this kind of personality person. He was my boyfriend. I was truly loved hime and last for 7 years. After i brokeup as i couldn't bear the pain anymore. That time i didnt know this kind of personality disorder is exist. Now i know and i feel sorry for him. I want to help him and dont know how
@sitharafernando45336 ай бұрын
Can parent show Narcissistic behaviour towards their kids??? If so a person who grows under such a parent what happens to the children and how they recover from the past trauma. Would like to have a video please ❤
@PinkRoomShashini3 ай бұрын
Yes
@sitharafernando45333 ай бұрын
@@PinkRoomShashini I need to know more info. Please can you bring new video regarding that matter. I highly appreciate if you can help me with that.
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@praveenpakianthan3632 ай бұрын
Depression maybe a mood disorder but is part of NPD since narcissistic wounds can cause them depression. The narcissists who suffer from depression can be more likely a malignant narcissist. Malignant narcissism is combination of Psychopathy, Narcissism and Sadism which can be denoted as being mad too. So If a woman is called "Pissu" by her partner and suffering from depression then she can be a malignant narcissist too. They are mostly likely to pull out the feminism part too like she is being a good mother and victimize herself too. The overt narcissist may hide their insecurities like having depression but the covert version may try to garner sympathy from others which is the most scariest form of narcissism (Covert narcissism).
Is constant blaming game a part of narcissism? My husband is a constant blamer who blames for everything as iam the worst person on earth, I was a very attractive personality with higher qualifications than him in every way but still he treats me like I’m dumbed and as if he is the most smartest😂 doesn’t know a proper word of English yet doesn’t act as of such. For the slightest things all the filthy words comes out of his mouth I have begged him many times not to use those inappropriate words in front of our 4 year old still he doesn’t care or accepts what the damge it causes, he says that I’m the one triggers him to say such things, with my circumstances I can’t leave him and get separated rather than being used to this abuse 😢
I've seen the movie "The Great Indian Kitchen". How can a newly married woman put up with so much abuse from her husband and his family. Women think they can change their partners after their marriage. It's never going to happen. So run for your life when you get a chance. Its better to live in a hut eating bread and drink water than live the rest of your life with a narcissist. Please get help ❤
This kind of behaviour is very common in Sri Lankan men/ husbands. This was created by stupid cultural beliefs, because men were always given authority to govern the family, treated better than the girls when they were young by parents. I had this issue, still going through it, I had depression because this issue and I couldn’t even face my colleagues at workplace, still this man couldn’t understand what he’s doing to my life. I’m being patient because of kids. Very unfortunate for another few years…. till my kids grow older..