Plans for 2024, what we fight about, Helgstrand drama and more - December Q&A

[@sara.3042]

I loved Matt’s answer about lessons. I’ve had lessons for 26 years. A non-horse friend asked when I would no longer need lessons. I answered “never”. I explained that I would always need a trainer to keep my bad habits in check, catch any potential new bad habits from forming, and to help coach me with what each individual horse needs. My trainer is absolutely incredible and I’m so thankful for her!!

[@annjohnson8437]

You are correct. You never stop learning with horses. Never! ❤ 😊

[@donnapalmeri9573]

I feel the same way!! With different horses I've rode,each was a new learning experience. You NEVER stop learning!!😊

[@DHS11999]

Pablo Casals, one of the greatest cellists ever, was asked why he kept practicing the cello when he was well into his 90's. He responded: I think I'm making progress. It is essential that we never stop learning. Good on you Matt and Jesse!

[@bonnieplattner3094]

Prima Ballerinas never stop going to class.

[@londonblack9304]

Jesse is hilarious and I’m so happy these Q&As are finally bringing this out fully haha. “Does Jesse losing his ginger cause a lot of tension between the both of you” had me rolling 😂

[@ady1gilb]

"Hate is not a language" ... BEST EVER STATEMENT FROM MR. JESSE DRENT!!! 👍🏻👏🏻🌞

[@sunflowermyeyes9758]

30:19 their chemistry is so funny cause you can clearly see how Jesse gets a kick out of teasing and annoying Matt. But Matt is too endeared to be really annoyed haha you both seem to really complete each other so well. Love how you bounce of each other so easily. It’s obvious how comfortable they are with each other and how in tune. It shows you’ve been living with each other for so long! It is really inspiring to watch you and your careers. All the best for 2024 ❤ sending lots of love ❤

[@cathyn3391]

So glad to see you back with another casual Q&A video! I think many of us have missed you, as well as missing our glimpses of the dogs, the horses, and (sniff, sniff), your heavenly property. Tell Steve that we would loved to see him make a cameo appearance, too. We miss his star power! ⭐

[@paulamckibben1317]

Definitely need to see Steve again!!! ❤️🤩❤️

[@finnegan1657]

Really enjoy having Steve on with them.

[@jeiwaru]

Yea, Steve, get out here!! 😆

[@TweetyPAK7]

I have missed Steve! Loved his racking up a horse. Lol

[@rebeccasharp6455]

You two are beautiful💖💖💖I've watched your videos for years and love them💖

[@matt_harnacke]

Regarding the Helgestrand situation perhaps I didn’t make myself clear enough. The boss should always be held accountable, but question yourselves as to why the identity of the people witnessed and caught on footage was concealed? No names mentioned, faces pixelated… why? If we are to expose all abusers why are some being concealed? To me it’s clear that the documentary only intended on bringing down Helgstrand and its boss rather than holding EVERYONE accountable for their behaviour. It’s simply poor journalism.

[@kingagrabinski8849]

I totally agree with you Matt. When filming a documentary, research needs to be done on both sides. Unfortunately, I didn't see that and all the equestrian world has been put in one basket. At the end, the important subject of proper balance between performance and horse well-being has been totally missed, resulting on getting headlines rather then getting answers. Bad apples exist everywhere and if they are uncovered, everyone should know about them to protect their horses and stables.

[@Hannah-ns6mm]

Totally agree! People who really get it won’t even question what you meant.

[@BagznBirdz]

Things like this need to be brought out. Making it into a money grab isn't helping any horse that's caught in a situation like this. The grooms and other stable staff will not report as they will lose their jobs. I've witnessed some pretty appalling horse handling from a now-Olympian rider but was unable to report it as I would have been fired. I regret not having the courage to do it to this day. 😟 On a more positive note - i's obvious Jesse needs a Q&A cup, a big one, with a sippy lid so he won't lose his ginger again!

[@annjohnson8437]

​@@kingagrabinski8849Well said!

[@annjohnson8437]

​@BagznBirdz You are correct. Many individuals would be fired immediately. I contacted the humane society about an abusive trainer I worked for. And, I lost my job. I couldn't NOT say something though. No horses should be abused. ❤

[@deusmonobear]

Matt playing with Jesse's hair. So so cute!

[@lindasharp9165]

You guys crack me up! It's so cute, the way you interact sometimes, you remind me of an old married couple! Very excited for your upcoming house hunt.

[@creuvette29]

The moment they talk about the presents xD

[@elainetanner178]

You both need to give hugs and kisses to that grey horse who is constantly sticking his/her nose out for attention. Hard not to laugh because he/she was so persistent. Really enjoyed this broadcast.

[@petrakrugell8752]

Yes😂

[@morganellius6191]

The nature of your relationship is no one’s business but yours, but I have to say that you’re perfect together. Happy New Year.

[@bttrflymagic]

The horse nose at 5:10 had me in stitches 😂 Love this video and happy new year to you both!!

[@nrsjeni2351]

That horse was begging for a pet. 😂❤

[@dfb8854]

Same ❤ I kept waiting for the boys to pet him 🤣

[@isabelleprice9402]

The horses were ear wigging :) x

[@pacg__nkg295]

I love seeing so much more of your personalities in these videos, and you two together

[@Emma.Andersson]

Actually has this Helgestrand documentary made that more people has spoken up about horseabuse in other stables here in Sweden. I agree with that the riders would get reported for animal abuse but Helgestrand is the owner and has the responsibilites for the horses. And he has threatened the staff and write a secretess document that they will not speak about what happens in the stables to others. And if you want to report this kind of abuse you need to film this to have anything to report. So I think this documentary was very good! And I hope this will be a warning to other bigger stables who abuse horses..

[@FadedLightBluePink]

The thing is that abuse like this happens unfortunatelly more often than people think. I know at least a few top sport riders who do abuse like this. It is difficult to go against these big names when national federation is basicaly enabling the abuse (by pretending that this issue does not exist). I think first step would be to make draw reins illegal during competetions. No draw reins in the warming up or during decoration. A few months ago there was a "wellfare" conference with our national federation and it was disgusting to listen. What the person represenatiting our national federation told was something along the lines "everything is OK, sport horses are expensive so they are treated well."

[@lyssalou2969]

Spot-on!!!!!

[@thewildhowling5781]

YES, YES, YES to the monthly Q&A and podcast! I love seeing your personalities shine in videos like this one, Happy new year to you both!! Couldn't stop laughing when the ginger magically disappeared

[@lunarfaerie8552]

Wow, really powerful quote from Jesse-“hate is not a language”. Honestly, both Matt and Jesse are both wise beyond their years and are such positive ambassadors in the equestrian community 😊

[@samanthajohnston2654]

You should call this series - "Spill the tea with Matt and Jesse" :)

[@donnapalmeri9573]

😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂

[@australianbaroqueridingaca989]

That’s a great idea

[@jackiegodfrey]

I agree they should do a podcast called Spilling the tea with Matt and Jesse.❤

[@MishaSims]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 YASSS! 🙌

[@jackieholderhawaii]

Lol! 🤣🤠🤩🐴🌊🤗

[@8621Charro]

I'm a 78 year old woman who lives in New Mexio USA (Desert country). My dressage training came from Carol Lavell, recently deceased . Love watching you both! AND...Matt, your hair change has made you one hot hunk!!

[@Zoeybeau_1]

Jesse if you put ginger an lemon, add in a cap full of Apple cider vinegar into a jug add hot water let it cool then put in the fridge and drink each morning its good for everything. Happy New Year guys!!

[@JLTravels]

Great idea. Good health to all!

[@drummerlovesbookworm9738]

You can also freeze ginger! I didn’t learn that until this past year. I love to keep it on hand at all times. My g’kids love Chinese congee for breakfast, gray rainy days, or if they have the sniffles so I need to have it available and it would often go moldy in my refrigerator vegetable bin. Now I cut it into pieces and freeze it. I can use pieces like for congee or tea, or grate it frozen when cooking. Who knew? 🤪

[@piaandersen8853]

Happy new year ❤️❤️💚💙💞💞🐴you are so cute

[@shinebright3789]

OH MY GOD YES TO THE PODCAST! Listening to you two is literal free therapy for me and I'm sitting here laughing like an idiot and just only 2 mins into the video! I will watch/ listen to whatever you post !

[@kathleenclark291]

A relationship is ever changing a journey. Watching the two of you I most enjoy the little glances that say it all. ❤ The two of you together...perfection!

[@lildoggy4u]

Lucky to have found each other.

[@jenexten3699]

I'm sure you've been told this before, but I must say that the two of you bring such positivity and goodness to viewers... it goes far beyond your obvious expertise in horsemanship. I'm not in a position to afford a horse at this time, but it doesn't even matter. I love your videos and your approach to horses and life in general. I love to see how you interact with each other, your horses, and the wonderful results you get from your horses as you show us your progress with them. Thank you for all of the work that you do!

[@annjohnson8437]

I love Jesse's idea of writing down gift ideas throughout the year. Seems like it would reduce stress. ❤

[@antoniabaker7770]

I've been doing that for 50 years. Lol

[@belinechloe]

Matt looks SO handsome in this outfit and with this hairstyle! 🥰

[@bastian9693]

I was taken back, he looks like a Prince! 🤴🏻

[@rafaelmartinez3371]

We just watched... We love watching you both interact with the horses, but we also love watching you interact with each other. Fabulous! Lots of love to you both. 🏆👑🏆❤️👍

[@sp474]

Great video! So excited these are coming monthly. The horse noises and activity in the background is a nice touch including that cute grey nose on Matt’s side. The ginger/potato disappearance had me roaring! ❤❤❤ Thank you for honesty and authenticity.

[@traetrae11]

The horse's snoot in the back tickled me so much!! Love it! The chaos of the question/answers and Jesse wanting hot water was absolutely hilarious!

[@jonjonwp]

Andreas Helgstrand, Thomas Sigtenbjerggaard, Maria Anita Andersen and Ole Hummelshøj. These 4 riders were removed from the Danish instructor ass. It will then be up to a future general meeting whether they can be admitted to the association again.

[@femkesnoek5756]

Yes I thought about it during that Matt answered about this, I had read about it indeed. It happend not straight away but a short moment after all came out. So it is not only about Andreas.....

[@louloubjerre]

In an press release from the DRF (danish riding ass.) it said that they urged the riders (those blurred in OP X) to come forth and "turn themselfs in" to the DRF (don't know what it's called in eng.) And that if they did not, DRF would try to find the riders. "Kraftig opfordring til de medvirkende ryttere De ryttere der medvirker i TV 2’s optagelser, er som bekendt slørede. DRF’s bestyrelse opfordrer derfor på det kraftigste de ryttere, som medvirker i optagelserne, til at indbringe sig selv for DRF’s disciplinærudvalg. Skulle opfordringen ikke imødekommes, vil DRF iværksætte tiltag med henblik på at få identificeret rytterne og indberette dem for forbundets disciplinærudvalg." rideforbund.dk/nyheder-2023/november/pressemeddelelse-andreas-helgstrand-udelukkes-fra-bruttogruppe-og-landsholdsaktiviteter

[@jonjonwp]

@@louloubjerre Andreas Helgstrand, Thomas Sigtenbjerggaard, Maria Anita Andersen and Ole Hummelshøj. These 4 riders were removed from the Danish instructor ass. It will then be up to a future general meeting whether they can be admitted to the association again.

[@ramonakubik5742]

I literally want to cuddle this cute little white snout sticking out of his stall on the right side most time of the video 🤗 Happy new year to you both 🎉 you are such sweet personalities ❤

[@patriciaruth2894]

I was so happy to see another Q&A, looking forward to more! I understand what you mean about Helgstrand and the media but he is the owner and 'the buck stops there'. The hard training methods were so wide spread it is impossible for him not to have been aware of what was happening. Andreas himself has been disqualifed for blood in the mouth during international competitions (once here in Stockholm). Fortunately the documentary was shown on our Swedish channel, and it prompted a lot of debate and scrutiny into unhealthy training methods. Thank you for bringing up this subject and hopefully things will change for the betterment of the horses.

[@trudejensen8512]

As a long time follower, and I love your content, I am a bit surprised by your comments on the Helgstrand "drama". The documentary led to discussions and outrage in many countries, also in my native country of Norway. We should appreciate and support every attempt to disclose animal abuse. The focus should always be on the welfare of the horses. Andreas Helgstrand is not the victim here. I don't think it's poor journalism, and Helgstrand lost twice in the Danish court trying to stop the documentary. The court ruled that this was of public interest because of the animal abuse shown on tape. FEI and national federations have to step up their game and act.

[@matt_harnacke]

I’m not supporting anyone, I think there are objective truths on both sides. My main concern is why the identity of the abusers was concealed?

[@trudejensen8512]

@@matt_harnacke Legal reasons. My understanding is that the riders in question are suspended and under investigation by the police and the Danish federation.

[@mariaa4433]

I think you really need to watch the documentary again! The reporter/stable girl did tell her superiors several times about the abuse. About the draw reins, bleeding mouths and whipping. She even confronted Helgstrand himself! Also, there is not one bad apple in an otherwise good stable, everyone in that arena is abusing the horse they are riding. I agree their names should have been outed too, but seriously when every single rider rides like that you have an abusive system and their orders come from the top. Have you seen Helgstrand riding? Have you seen what he does to his horses in the warmup and even in front of the judges?? I have and his riding is just like what was shown in the documentary...

[@luemun]

I agree. Frankly I’m quite surprised by their (non) response to this. It was pretty obvious in the documentary that Helgstrand was very much aware of how the horses in his care were being treated.

[@jonjonwp]

The riders WERE named . Find my comment on here. I have a photo of Andreas doing roll kur from years ago. I come from Denmark and everyone knows about him.

[@jonjonwp]

@@luemun Well it was difficult for Matt and Jesse to. be too judgemental. It's a difficult situation.

[@slidenapps]

I was not surprised when the documentary came out.

[@Charbified]

I think the issue is that there's so many professional riders/stables who have some level of abuse. Or if not actual abuse, a neglect of horse welfare. They can't be too specific on things because I'm sure a lot of the people they work with come under some kind of umbrella here... I mean, I personally don't much like the way that their own horses are kept. (Not saying it's abuse, before anyone jumps me, but I don't agree with keeping horses in small individual paddocks for example). I think we as horse people need to be held more accountable, and do better over all, but more importantly I think the sport needs correcting. The rules need to be stricter when it comes to bad examples, and less restrictive when it comes to ways to ride. (Like why are people opposing the relaxing of double bridles in dressage, is it because you can't control your horse in a snaffle?)

[@kellybeaver8699]

Love watching you two! You always put a smile on my face. Jesse losing his ginger " Did a bird come?" 😂 Hoping for a wonderful 2024 for both of you, your horses and team! You deserve all the happiness and love, in your lives, for this New Year 🎉 . So long from PA in the USA

[@kathleengowarty2742]

I'm from PA also. Watching Jesse and Matt makes my day.

[@joenewman6494]

Yep I saw a bird also🤣

[@denisecaster1251]

🎉Happy New Year! I think that it’s so funny seeing a grey muzzle in the video poking out at Matt’s shoulder! So cute!🥰 🍾🥂

[@danieckenrode2457]

How do these two not have a million followers they are so entertaining.

[@choco3424]

Equestrians are sort of rare... If they were influencers in another sport or just generally they could probably have more. But I do agree!

[@brendasimmons8149]

My cheeks hurt from laughing . Jesse is my spirit animal 😂😂❤❤ Matt & Jesse, you are such a blessing to all of us, Happy New Year!!! 🎉

[@sinthaasmara1720]

I know right!!! Jesse is such a vibe. I also have add, am a horsegirl, train the way he does and love the kardashians. You must be one of "my people" too 😂❤ have a great day!

[@karynefagg209]

This was so enjoyable, great questions and answers... I love Jesse's ADHD (I have it too) and Matt's patience, if you do a podcast, which would be fantastic, please video record as well, watching you two interact is as much fun as listening. Have a super year love from Australia xx

[@brianr1965]

OMG 🤩 you 2 are absolutely adorable! I really enjoy your videos and Q&A’s, and I am so touched by the love you have for horses 🐎 you guys are very special ❤ happy new year to both of you 🎉

[@gooberbeans7972]

Cannot express how much I love the two of you

[@KarenBadrick1]

i absolutely love how down to earth you both are x

[@lindaz1290]

OMG I enjoyed this Q & A even more than the last one. I love how you interact with one another, but the end had me rolling on the floor laughing when that ginger "potato" went missing! Jesse, I love your ADD, and Matt, your hair style is my favorite one you've had.

[@TweetyPAK7]

Ok. Can I just say...the horse snoot? 😂😂😂 Couldn't take my eyes off of it. 😂😂 Y'all need a merch mug that says "Q&A Cup" so people can join Jesse with some tea. Thank you both for an entertaining channel. Happy New Year and all the best to y'all, the horses and pups in 2024! 🎉🥳🎊👋🏻 from Virginia USA!

[@jannn_ban]

Happy New Year and may 2024 bring you the beautiful new home you both want and deserve 🤗🍷🍾🎉🎆🍀🐴🤗

[@5apph1b1u3]

Every video I watch, I’m always so impressed with Jesse and Matt. Down to earth, moral and ethically centred and with a great vision of what they want to accomplish in their areas of interest long term. Thoughtful in everything they express and focused on improving their knowledge and skills, wise beyond their years. Wishing you both and all your viewers all the best in the New Year to come.

[@firstdecanpisces2495]

Yes to all of this! 💗

[@graciesmith7323]

I love you guys! You’re a beautiful couple and your knowledge of horses is amazing!

[@elisabethe8055]

You really are Jing and Yang, a great team. Happy New Year to you and your beautiful horses.

[@RodneyakaBlue]

You both are the most adorable on this good internet. You make me smile and laugh all the time, but I have to say that Jesse is hilarious. Love you both and have an amazing New Year.

[@primevaly9728]

Just the right video to end 2023 with a smile - I wish you both a happy new year! ❤

[@mpfractal3138]

I adore these Q&A videos! Such a delight to watch, thank you for sharing! I wish you both a fabulous New Year!

[@calvind2054]

As for arguing, Jesse seems to like baiting Matt a lot. It’s so funny. 😂. You two bring a smile to my face in every video I watch. And I’m learning things about horses that I might not have if not for this channel. And HorseWorld TV, a name you should Trademark to keep others from using it. I’ve been watching some of those videos and saw a business opportunity you guys could use, and maybe a TV show or something beyond KZbin alone🤔 So many subjects like trainers, competitions, jockeys and races, differences in breeds of horses, breeding, horse health, horse and owner relationships, etc. The lists of subjects goes on and on.

[@shellysonnen5698]

Omg you two Crack me up!! Haha the horse muzzle poking into the shot! Thanks for sharing!!!

[@jennifer1110]

Yes! The horse snout poking into the frame brought a smile to my face. 😊❤

[@elmavanderzalm9152]

Q and A every month ?? YES please 🥰

[@karenmahan6979]

Lots of fun in this video; hope you find the perfect place for you, the horses and your business. Matt, your new hairstyle just brings out your gorgeous eyes. Very handsome!Happy New Year to you both!

[@slidenapps]

Didn't they just move?

[@jeiwaru]

I love these! What an unexpected pleasure while making New Years dinner! 🎉

[@yanalibu-n3f]

Same!!😊❤

[@robbrent]

Happy New Year everyone and thanks for keeping us involved and entertained.

[@chrisp9012]

Matt, your hair looks awesome. You look great. Jesse, as sweet and handsome as always. Love the photobombing horse beside Matt. Great video to end the year. Love from Canada.

[@freespirit54321]

I love all your videos because it often feels like I'm going on an adventure with you from the comfort of my sofa. 😎 Just looking at both of you now, I wonder how often people stop in their tracks and look at you with envy and admiration. All the very best in 2024. 🎉🍾🎊

[@veronicawood1298]

You guys are so funny I’m in fits of laughter watching you, life in the Matt and Jesse house must be so full of laughter 😅, never change, love you both. 😀

[@cricket8438]

I support your feelings on the media skewing the information. The fact that there is so much abuse in the animal world is abominable. It is extremely important to try to shed light on the issue and stop the abuse where ever it is happening.

[@EricBryant-hc1ob]

Love that - “Hate is not a language”

[@ItsBonBons]

I love you guys! You are my fav couple on KZbin xxx I would listen to your podcast! I no longer ride horses but I still love your channel as it is my "Horsey Fix". Thank you for sharing your lives with us all! Much love from New Zealand

[@nurseyj9]

I really enjoyed this as much as I usually love seeing you guys with your horses - you are such a natural and comfortable couple and a big THANK YOU for sharing your thoughts

[@sophiea.m.4664]

Absolutely loved this, I’m so excited that there are going to be more. The ending with Jesse’s ginger was hilarious 😂

[@linnhanna]

Your hair looks fantastic this way Matt! Suits you so well.

[@ppsthlm]

You guys are so so cute together. You’re so sweet with each other, whenever you’re teasing each other you can sense that it’s all just your sense of humor. You’re lucky to have each other and it’s really enjoyable to be able to follow you on parts of your journey. And as a gay man I find the way that you don’t really literally get into questioning about your sexuality is a really classy and tasteful way to show that those questions shouldn’t need to be brought up, so you don’t. Why wouldn’t it be the most natural thing…?! I hope Jesse got himself another cup of ginger tea and I can’t wait for your next video. Happy 2024.

[@serisingh]

Yes! Please make these chatty videos monthly! I listen as i do chores ❤

[@nancyjohnson5810]

I always enjoy your Q & A video's but this time I really enjoyed watching the flock of birds that kept flying through this video behind you.

[@SarahWRah]

I really appreciate the integrity you share and the positive role models you’ve become for a wide and diverse audience. I am interested in hearing more about if and when you will be showing your horses. Emporio did so well in his 2022 debut. And I love seeing Matt’s elegant riding style.

[@delmarae100]

I hope you two understand how inspirational you are to people. My grandchildren both love watching your videos.

[@brandyburbridge4621]

“Hate is not a language.” The most truth, thank you Jesse!

[@stevie853]

Happy New Year you two handsome boys! I hope the New Year brings you lots of success, joy, love, and good health!

[@finnegan1657]

I enjoy watching you two together so much. Wonderful vibe! Loved the ginger tea diversion.

[@firehorse2008]

👍🏼So glad Matt stressed the importance of continuing riding lessons.

[@lissaarimont5863]

Happy Birthday , Matt 🎉All best wishes for another trip around the sun ✨

[@danielhansen7509]

Adore you two together ❤

[@michellep4792]

You two are so entertaining and likeable. Very enjoyable video. Happy new year.

[@cihtli]

Jesse: “Jesse losing his ginger causes a lot of tension…” 😂😂😂 Love it. Happy New Year! 🎉🎉🎉

[@justice4144]

I’m also Dutch with an imported Australian bf and I can see the same differences in cultural communication style with you guys HAHA yall are such a mirror to me 😂

[@choco3424]

”imported australian bf” LMAO

[@justice4144]

​@@choco3424 HAHA that's what he is though

[@shinebright3789]

Watched this twice already amidst the new year celebrations! Happy new year Matt and Jesse ! Hope this will be the year you two find your dream property and continue to grow as amazing people! So excited to witness the journey. Onward and upward you go! 1. Thank you for the video Matt. Missed you so much 2. Jesse, now that the QnAs will be done every month, you can be equipped. I drink a lot of Ceylon tea ( the best!) myself and always take a hot flask of tea everywhere I go. You can do something like that too when you join the Jan'24 QnA! Also, I love how you are everywhere ! ADHD or not, everywhere is exactly where everyone should aspire to be, legit amazing how you embrace your unique nature and it just makes yourself so beautiful to witness as a person. I am so glad you are born this way and it helps you to explore all your creative sides! 3. Matt, as always, I admire how organized, systematic and straightforward you are. I think that is why you have achieved so much at such a young age. Appreciate your strength to speak up at an injustice. That level of confidence is pure magic. I love the way you articulate things and how you look at the world and life in general and OMFG you just listed ALL my favorite tv shows ! All of them ! And the way you deal with hate comments is just right ! As the saying goes " Don't take criticism from someone you wouldn't take advice from" and also block 'em. Those asses are better kept out of sight! P.S: Now that Steve is there, more videos with him please. 4. Just love those chatty type videos. I learn alot from them and add so much to my life from them in ways that you don't even imagine. It is such a service and a great help. Please continue doing them and please continue slaying and being the amazing people that you are ! The only err is you both are so hot and it adds up to the global warming but keep glowing nevertheless ! Take care. Appreciate you both alot!

[@eamonbarrett7627]

Always enjoy watching both of you chat; you seem like lovely people.

[@lizsurbanroost3624]

Lessons and finding a good trainer are so important. I started out at a lesson barn and then when we started getting our own horses we found another barn, the stable we boarded at had people who barrel raced and they went to lessons and clinics every week and we started getting into it and did the same. The barrel trainer they used was awesome and we took regular lessons and barrel racing clinics from her, and her husband no doubt saved the life of my Arabian who was completely ruined by the people who tried her out before we bought her, she spent over a year in training with him and it took him a long time to get through to her but he didn't give up on her and she turned into an amazing partner, with her, I took lessons from him and then his wife with my QH. To think all of it started by finding a riding lesson coupon in the paper one day and acting upon it. I miss having horses, I lost my Arabian years ago and though I would love another I can no longer afford board, nor would I want to board my horse again. I would love another Arabian again, I adore the breed, and I would also love a BLM mustang and a couple BLM burros cause they're so cute.

[@cdmc965]

Kindness, so easy , affordable , brings joy to those who receive. Please , make 2024 a year of kindness.

[@danperry7019]

What a fabulous surprise, the perfect video to end the year. Learnt and laughed so much form you both. You are each others perfect match ❤

[@thiacari]

I hope to restart riding too! I did two years with a rented horse, lots of ground work and minimal tack, thanks to you guys!

[@Sylias-]

To be honest, i don't care that much about horses but love watching you both and your lifestyle content. Hapy new year and wishing you luck for 2024!

[@noelmay9]

Thanks for a morning belly laugh! I live on ginger tea, so I'm team Jesse today ;) I never start using a new phone without a rubber bumper case, lol! You are such an inspiring power couple. Your business genius never stops! Yes, to podcast. Love that you keep trying new things, introducing new elements to your "brand" as a couple, and as individuals. Doing your own thing is always important to a successful relationship together. Keep up your brilliance and thanks for sharing it with us all!

[@jessbordeaux9845]

You are the cutest couple ❤❤ I would love to get updates monthly. OG horsey girl and dressage has forever captivated me. Your horses, your riding & watching the beautiful dynamic btwn the two of you is a beautiful drool worthy blanket for my soul. ❤ 2 u ✌️

[@Em_.1309]

Are they a couple?

[@chrissomerville2625]

@@Em_.1309They’re are indeed. A very happy & successful couple.

[@Em_.1309]

Did they confirm?@@chrissomerville2625

[@_asantesana_squashbanana_]

@@chrissomerville2625 They don't specify the nature of their relationship. For those in *the* community or OG followers the answer is, we respect their privacy and support these two very caring and skilled horsemen.

[@rmk6693]

These two are so awesome! I love their perspective on things. They just make so much sense and are so funny! I hope you have a successful 2024! 🎉

[@JuviTheLion]

Matt's face at 6:10 had me in STITCHES! Happy New Year guys!

[@davidhorwood6741]

Well said Matt! Animal abuse of any kind should be exposed, and dealt with appropriately, not used for others to profit off.

[@Error-wp1ub]

Yes that's why it's also kind of ironic how Matt goes to these big and amazing top stables when we know that the horses are mostly seen as products and are so valuble that they don't get turned out

[@hnelson5609]

I appreciate you two always take the high road. Its one of the reasons i still follow your channel. Good job!!

[@beluugawhale]

Your banter is always hilarious. Thank you for sharing your perspectives on different topics! They're such balanced and honestly very kind perspectives, yet still with a firm personal stance (matt talking about how he approaches people with more curiousity of "why do you do that" rather than immediate condemnation is a good reminder for myself too, personally. Please keep making more q&as! But only as long as the two of you are still enojoying it. ❤

[@stephanvanarnhem]

You both crack me up love following you both. I’m an old horse 56 years but I’ve never ridden a horse. I just moved from Amsterdam to the country and I’m surrounded with horses, in summer walking with my dog i stop to watch those incredible animals. For some strange reason they always come and say hello to me, maybe one day. Happy new year to you both with good health. PS i lived in australia for 32 years but I’m Dutch. ❤

[@HoefWijzer]

Love this spill the tea with you two 💛

[@AmyWebster-u6l]

I am wishing you a lifetime of happiness. Much love from South Carolina.

[@maurettehanson3655]

Thanks guys for this video! Look forward to the monthly Q&A. Happy New Year!!

[@LolaNelson-i1v]

I think it will be great to have a monthly Q&A! You two are very funny! I’m definitely going to watch that documentary that you were speaking about. I think that every time animals are getting abused, they should be exposed! I really hope that you will take us along with you during your house hunting ; that will be great fun!!

[@firstdecanpisces2495]

Happy New Year to you both & everyone watching 💗 This delightful pair of humans restore my faith and hope in humanity every time I watch 🥰

[@equissage9701]

Nice kissing up. Are you trying to make a trio?

[@2angelsnet]

Matt when you start aging sooner and catching colds more, remember the old Chinese cure of ginger in water. It actually has antibiotic properties. Love you both. Aloha!

[@janshaw4636]

Thanks for this vlog. as always very informative and just love you two. Love the Q&As!!

[@Jan-qy5rk]

You really are lovely chaps, the life you have has been achieved by hard work, you should be very proud of yourselfs ❤ To anybody receiving hate, those that put out negativity towards others are doing so hiding behind a screen&keyboard, they have nothing going on in their life's hence the time to put out hate, it's jealousy and nothing else