Postpartum Prep - Fourth Baby Must-Haves!

[@shirlrebert4469]

I'm a grandmother but did nurse my children . What wonderful information for the new moms out there

[@PineandProspectHome]

Thank you so much!

[@rhondalcouch]

Hope you have a smooth delivery. Being pregnant was the best part of my life. Loved it. You are a beautiful lady and it makes you shine. God Bless.

[@eleanorbertin8725]

Love your suggestion about something pretty to wear. I also learned to have a book to read during the 2 week postpartum holiday, and maybe some chocolate. My 2nd birth was very exhilarating and with the adrenaline, I misjudged how much energy I had and "crashed" 4 mos. later. So it's super important to rest. Little gifts for the older children are also a good idea. I had 7, and now my house is empty. Cherish the precious time!

[@PineandProspectHome]

Aw, thank you for all of this advice, it does go by quickly ❤️

[@cindyprice5391]

~You are such a joy to watch. I agree with everything you said about preparing for baby. Slippers are great too. I also recommend a new Mama have face wipes nearby after giving birth. It is so nice to be able to wash your face when you may be too exhausted to walk to the bathroom. ❤ Also, give yourself grace upon grace.❤

[@PineandProspectHome]

Oh I love this suggestion! Thank you so much!

[@johnniealford25]

Prayers for a safe delivery and a healthy mommy and baby! God bless!

[@PineandProspectHome]

Thank you, we are SO excited!

[@twinkletwinklelittlespatul3213]

I am expecting baby #4 within the next two weeks! I have 3 girls at home. I found your video to be very validating as even though we mothers know we must care for ourselves, we often sacrifice ourselves for the rest of our family, which sadly makes it more difficult on everyone in the long run. Thank you for the gentle reminder to focus on mom.

[@lydiaromero6964]

Prayers for a safe and healthy delivery! 🙏❤ I am a grandmother to 10 precious grandchildren, they are such a joy! Your video was a sweet reminder of the important gift of motherhood. May God bless you and your family abundantly.

[@meganblake2825]

Take a lactation course! That is always my advice for new moms! Love this video! Thanks so much for sharing!

[@teeser2436]

When I had my son 46 yrs ago 😫 Everyone would say if you don’t take care of yourself and rest It will cause problems when you get older. It sounds like your doing the right thing and we didn’t have all the wonderful things young mothers have now. My husband then didn’t even get to come in with me when my son was born. ❤️

[@PineandProspectHome]

Aw, I am so sorry to hear that, but thank you for sharing this with me, we are blessed!

[@emilyschlegelmilch4212]

Since you are a leaker, my #1 suggestion would be a haaka silicone pump. I never had one till baby #3 and it was s total GAME CHANGER!!! So excited for your sweet babe

[@PineandProspectHome]

Thank you, so so good to know!

[@trinaroe5132]

Kudos for such an open and frank discussion, especially knowing you say you are an introvert. I hope subscribers and viewers will share this with any new/expectant mothers they know.

[@PineandProspectHome]

Thank you so much Trina! This was definitely out of my comfort zone, but I hope for the same!

[@ruthgoddard6539]

Brings back so many memories.wish I had rested more after I had mine. I had a c section with my second one and no one to help me after I came home.blessings to you and can't wait to see your new one.you gave such great advice Andrea.and I know it will help others

[@PineandProspectHome]

I am so sorry you had no one to help you Ruth, but thank you and I pray it is a help to others!

[@nancyoakley4727]

What a wonderful video and a true gift for moms-to-be. So sweet of you to share such important tips that can help make mother and baby more comfortable and enjoy their special time. Also, new mothers need to be aware of and prepared for possible postpartum depression. Hormonal imbalance can trigger feelings and thoughts that can make this life change difficult. Self care and help from others is so very important, as you said. Best wishes to you and family as your addition grows and develops. ♡♡♡

[@sarahwilson7576]

Amen to rest, rest, rest! I decided to stay in bed for 10 days with my third and it was wonderful and such a precious time! And I healed so well! Another thing I learned for baby #3 was to bring a silky robe to the hospital. Moving around in a hospital bed postpartum is hard, but it is waaaaay easier in a slippery robe. Game changer! So excited about your baby #4! My #4 is due in January!

[@PineandProspectHome]

Oh my goodness, I LOVE that advice, thank you!!

[@vivianstidham9596]

Andrea, first of all you look so beautiful and peaceful. Yes, I said it, you may be thinking, what?? But you do! I think it is so very thoughtful of you to take the time to speak and give loving tips and encouragement to other new to be Momma's. It's such a natural, normal thing for women to have babies that the new momma's really need a sweet momma or sister (you, ) to come by their side and say hey, just so you know, this has worked for me. Andrea, you are so sweet and precious!! Thank you for thinking of new momma's and showing them how you prepare for the birth of your little one. Please hug the boys for me, hey I'm a Nana and I've been through this. I know their all excited! I do have to admit, I hope you will be buying alot of pink. Lol. But whatever blessing you get, I know your baby will be brought up in a loving home. May God bless you and your sweet family during this exciting time! You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers! From Texas😘

[@oursweetiebirdshome]

What a beautiful time for your family! ❤ I learned the value of rest after my third baby. I was too quick to get up and go with my first two, so for my third it was a month filled with rest, and bonding. Such a treasured time. Congratulations, mama! ❤❤❤

[@oursweetiebirdshome]

Just discovered your channel today, and am LOVING IT! ❤

[@brendabradley6215]

Great information for moms to be. I am now a great grandma and things were soooo much different when my babies were born. They take the mom into consideration now so much more than back then. I think that is a great thing. You can’t take care of your babies and family if you don’t take care of yourself. You are blessed to have people offering to help. Can’t wait to see you new little angel. Prayers for a safe and easy delivery for you and your precious baby.

[@PineandProspectHome]

This is so so true and I am so thankful doctors take the time to check on new moms like this!

[@rebeccah8075]

I'm so excited for you and your family. This video brought back such lovely memories for me, getting ready for the arrival of my baby boy 13 years ago. Time goes by so fast. I wish you all the very best for your delivery Andrea. You're so right to focus on rest afterwards.

[@PineandProspectHome]

It really does go so so fast, thank you for your sweet words!

[@jenniferbarlow1782]

Mom of 12 here. I'd just add that if you empty your bladder every time before you nurse, it helps so much with the after pains in your uterus when you nurse. You have great tips. 👍 Good luck on your birth, momma! 🥰

[@1930sgirl]

Sending you all the very best for a quick and safe birth...I will be praying for you and your family. You are just the most lovely expecting Mama!

[@sacredmommyhood]

Such great advice, Andrea! I'm 48, so probably at the end of my baby days, but I did give birth to 12 precious children. I completely agree with all you've said and thought I'd offer a pump recommendation. I breastfed all of my babies except our precious number 12. She was a medically fragile baby and could not nurse. She was gtube fed. Thankfully, I was able to pump for her for 17 months, so she still received my milk. After she was born, we had a three month NICU stay and the stress made pumping very difficult. I used the hospital pump in the NICU, but only had a hand pump at home. One of our nurses told me about the Spectra 2 pump and how much it helped her adult daughter with her struggling milk supply. I ordered one right away and it was life-changing. I went from praying I could pump for at least six months (because it was just so hard to get my supply up), to pumping for 17 months, at which time our precious girl entered into the presence of Jesus. It was such a gift for me to give her my milk for as long as I did. I would highly recommend the Spectra pump if anyone in your community is looking for one. Target sells them, or they can be ordered online. Blessings to you and congratulations on the upcoming birth of your sweet one.

[@charlotterogers1182]

You are a beautiful pregnant lady . God bless you and family.

[@PineandProspectHome]

Thank you so so much!

[@lesliepowell6471]

You are just so wise! Love your thoughts and ideas! I had 3 girls, all grown. God bless you and your blessings. You will have a beautiful baby.

[@PineandProspectHome]

Thank you so much Leslie!

[@glendalafont1561]

Wishing you all the happiness with this new angel.

[@PineandProspectHome]

Thank you!

[@thechristinadiaries9428]

Andrea I’m so excited for you! Unfortunately I can’t have babies anymore but I think it’s wonderful that you share different topics on your channel. You inspire me everyday day and hope as I launch my KZbin channel I can be versatile in this way. Thank you for sharing

[@PineandProspectHome]

Thank you so so much, I hope it is a help to someone!

[@kathypenner3478]

Good job on all your information. I’m 68 and had 3 babies and there was never any information like this back then. When is your baby due? Good luck and l hope it’s a sweet little girl for you family. Love your videos.

[@PineandProspectHome]

We are due in August, thank you!

[@rachellebrooke4614]

I’m a labor and delivery nurse and mom of four and I definitely agree with all your tips! I wish new moms were more educated about the postpartum experience before hand. Support after a baby is born is a passion of mine. One thing I can add (that was helpful for me) is to make some frozen peri pads before hand by soaking in witch hazel and essential oils and storing in the freezer. It sounds like you may have listened to the Down To Birth Podcast, which is very informative and supportive. Praying for you Andrea!

[@novamccoy7992]

Such a wonderful time for you and your family. I miss those days.❤️

[@PineandProspectHome]

Thank you, we are excited!

[@susanvelez6534]

Great information for soon to be new moms. 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 I’m so excited for you!

[@mandybewkes5300]

So lovely that you have given all this information especially for new new Mom's!

[@PineandProspectHome]

Thank you, I truly hope it is helpful!

[@LifeasBekah]

Love the idea of a wrap for nursing. Also I’ve never seen the tanks like that!! Thank you expecting our fourth in September and can relate to every one of these items 😍😍

[@angelagrassadonia1585]

It’s really nice and very educational what you discussed especially for new mothers and agree with you even though my son is 34 I did the same thing you did “everything “ after giving birth and later regretted. It also gives you time to bond with baby. God bless! Hope you have an easy birth ♥️

[@PineandProspectHome]

Thank you so so much!

[@angelagrassadonia1585]

By the way you look beautiful and I hope your wish for a girl comes true! ♥️🌺

[@Refresheddwelling]

I'm going to be a first time Mom in December and am so excited! Thank you for this list and the tips. Congrats on your 4th!

[@danielacuenca5219]

I like that the video focuses on the moms....I also got the spray and undies...as you said not many ppl talk about care for moms. Good luck with the new baby. Love your videos.

[@bowler8]

I had a bath straight after giving birth, it was one of the best baths I have ever had, as you literally feel like you've been in a boxing ring.

[@PineandProspectHome]

That sounds so so wonderful!

[@bjohnson1149]

I'm 72 but I love your channel so much I watched anyway :)

[@PineandProspectHome]

Aw, thank you!!

[@karonwostenholme6533]

Bless you sweet x

[@melissabarnett7455]

Even though I’m past this phase I loved this video. I have 5 children 4 vaginal births and 1 emergency c-section, after my third baby they let me take a bath at the hospital…. And that was pure heaven!!! I would recommend adult diapers instead of pads, they might seem silly to wear but let me tell you they are life changing after giving birth.

[@PineandProspectHome]

Thank you, you aren't the only one who has said that, baths are honestly so so soothing!

[@eraber6738]

Great, practical video, Andrea! I had a lot of similar things, thankfully. I got some feminine, fitted Depends to wear after delivery and they were SO comfy! Way better than the unisex Depends (although I made do with those when my nice fitted ones ran out). And I had thrifted an amazingly comfy, fuzzy robe that I pretty much wore the whole time in the hospital postpartum. A definite must-have!

[@PineandProspectHome]

So many have said Depends, thank you, I will have to check them out!

[@tammyallen458]

, so happy for you and your family! I had 6 kids amd wouldnt trade any of those times for anything. I agree with you 100% of everything. I also bought cotton washable nursing pads. I loved nursing. I would also add the resting. Something that some moms might want to do if you don't have people bringing in food(which I loved) was making freezer meals ahead or buying crock pot items. You don't want to spend a lot of time in the kitchen. Best wishes for you and your growing family.

[@PineandProspectHome]

That. is such a good idea to add! Thank you Tammy and congrats on all of your beautiful children!

[@barbaracarbone4658]

Excellent video! I love that you talked about real life. It's about time....this subject is real and should not be suppressed. You did great! I love your little giggles...haaa. Yes, real life is funny too! Lol. Thanks for doing this. All the best to your and your baby when your day arrives. 💕🌞👶

[@PineandProspectHome]

Aw, thank you!

[@lisarosebud6404]

So exciting for you and your family. Blessings overflow

[@PineandProspectHome]

Thank you!

[@cherylmiller2334]

Andrea you are so beautiful! You are absolutely glowing! I pray you will have a healthy, quick delivery! May peace be with you and yours. Can't wait to meet him or her?💙💓🤗

[@PineandProspectHome]

Thank you Cheryl! We are SO excited!

[@nakiaskinner4968]

Great video!!!🌿🍼🐣🐑🐇

[@SarahsOctoberHome]

So exciting 🤍👏🏻🤍

[@PineandProspectHome]

Thank you!!

[@hdb80]

This is random and off topic. But would you consider doing a hair styling tutorial? I always love how your hair is done and have trouble doing it like that.

[@PineandProspectHome]

Aw, well thank you! I will consider it, yes! 😊

[@hdb80]

@@PineandProspectHome Thank you!

[@jaynebrown693]

Very informative Andrea and I pray it helps some new Moms. Every word was so important. Back in the olden days…LOL….my babies are 41 and 44…. I was picked up at the hospital and dumped at home. Deep depression… alone… summer … hot…. lived in the country so no neighbors and in a mobile home. I don’t have good memories of giving birth and new baby time….😢 I wanted to make sure my daughters didn’t experience that! Our oldest daughter gave birth to our 1st granddaughter the day my Dad died. Awful day…..! Then I was busy with a drying mother after my Dad passed away… both my parents had terminal cancer at the same time. I will say I was angry ( totally unfair to my daughter and her husband who had waited a long time for this baby)….but mad because I just had that awful feeling she would give birth the same day one of them would pass away….and it happened. Our youngest daughter lives 2 1/2 hours away and had an emergency c-section the first time…14 months later ( total SURPRISE PREGNANCY) baby number 2 came. I would go and stay by the week…one week with her… home a week…back to her. Expensive because I was staying in a Hotel 🤷‍♀️…. I did that for 3 months …through the holidays… but her husband was one of those …”it is your job…your not back to work yet😢” I’m sure there are many stories like that…many Moms going through the depression with hormones, etc….unsympathetic spouses…etc… I PRAY AND PRAY FOR A HEALTHY DELIVERY…. HEALTHY BABY…. HELP FROM FAMILY …. BEAUTIFUL EXPERIENCE 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 God bless sweet one …God bless !

[@idreamintrees1391]

I’m expecting our second baby but our first boy 😇 We are very excited!! There will be over 5 years between our daughter and son so hearing all the tips and things is very helpful because it’s been a long time in between pregnancies 💕

[@PineandProspectHome]

Congratulations! I am so happy to hear that these were a help to you!

[@idreamintrees1391]

@@PineandProspectHome Thank you so much! We are excited! And I could always use a part 2...if you have any more tips ;-)

[@maryoleary2037]

Oh my, I am now a grandmother, but well remember this joyful but challenging time. Your advice to rest as much as possible is spot on. I had three C-sections and no family nearby to help and I was exhausted beyond belief...especially with my third, when there were two other children to care for besides the baby. I am wondering if you are going to still home school your boys? This is of course, your own decision. As a retired teacher I feel that in school learning is the best. However, beyond that, it is going to be difficult to home school, care for and nurse a new born and give yourself that important resting time. Do give this careful thought and best of luck with the new blessing that your family will soon experience.

[@eleanorbertin8725]

I homeschooled all of my 7 and it was a wonderful thing for boys to learn the weakness of a woman. All my sons willingly do housework, cook and do childcare for their wives.

[@PineandProspectHome]

Thank you so much for sharing Mary, we will be prayfully considering what to.

[@PineandProspectHome]

@@eleanorbertin8725 Thank you for this perspective as well! ❤️

[@The_GreenBranch]

@@PineandProspectHome One of the things I love most about homeschooling is the older children being able to experience the baby. I was a school teacher for about 8 years, in that time I had several children. I think once my kids and I left brick and mortar school to begin homeschooling, bringing home a new baby was such a different and wonderful experience for me and the older kids. Don't get me wrong, it can be tiring and have its ups and downs, but I think pregnancy and newborn/infant stage are such a life lesson for older siblings. One that isn't quite learned nor experienced in the same way when kids are away at school all day. No judgement if you choose to reconsider homeschooling, but definitely love the benefits of homeschooling when it comes to welcoming a new baby in the home. I've had my share of both experiences. 😉

[@juliesigmund3836]

I'm so excited for you and your family. I never knew the sex of both of my boys and if I was to do it all over again I wouldn't want to know. It's such a wonderful surprise when the doctor announced "It's a Boy!" You are so adorable and you are glowing. Btw, I finally got the baby girl when my first grandchild was born. She's going on 9 in September.

[@PineandProspectHome]

Awwww, that is so special you got the baby girl as a grand daughter! I am so so excited to find out the gender as well!

[@parnellbeth]

I was 20 when my first was born (a c-section) I must have been tough I don't remember tiredness or laying around. I remember coming in the front door and laying the baby down, going to the laundry room and putting the load of laundry my husband had started into a basket and going out the back door and hanging them on the line.

[@PineandProspectHome]

Yes, that is what I did with my first. Got. right back to house work, I felt fine so why not? But I do think it took longer to heal.

[@theresamckeown8260]

In my opinion, the first month is a major challenge! If I did it again ( only had one child) I would keep the baby in my room 100% of the time the first month! My mother had 6 and would have had 9 she had 3 miscarriages. I was her first but only after 3 miscarriages! I was always in the tub while pregnant! Baths are so relaxing! Breastfeeding is the best and I did it until my son had 4 teeth!

[@PineandProspectHome]

Yes, I really really need to be sure to rest, it is so hard as a mother! Congratulations on breastfeeding so long!

[@elaine5667]

My granddaughter had great success with Haakaa 4 oz silicone manual breast pump. Also bumble bee silicone manual breast pump.

[@suer292]

It is also important to not only sit in bed for 2 weeks. You do need to move as that helps with healing as well.

[@The_GreenBranch]

I'm not sure if you've had issues with after cramps. Just thought I'd share to get something for that. I think they sell natural tinctures for the after pains, if you prefer staying away from over the counter pain meds. I first noticed them after baby 3, but I'd say they've gotten more significant each child after. I'm expecting baby 12 this fall. Also, I usually resort to using Depends (as in adult diapers) for the first days pp, because the large pads sometimes leak overnight for me. Oh, and I didn't and wished I would have gotten at least one bottle in case baby's latch is super weak. I have had babies with lip and tongue ties, one of which did not have it reversed because he was born during the COVID lockdowns. Having stress of unsuccessful attempts at breastfeeding during those first days pp and baby losing too much weight is taxing on mom's mental health, so here's to wishing you a great breastfeeding experience, but that's my tip, just in case. Having nursed so many babies successfully before my babies with ties, I didn't think I needed bottles or a pump, but having those on hand just in case might be something to consider.🤷‍♀️

[@PineandProspectHome]

Oh my goodness, 12 sweet babies! That is incredible, thank you for your advice, I am sure it is very very true! Thank you for sharing!

[@AdorkableLiz77]

Currently in postpartum and a brand new mom. My baby is 9 days old and it's so hard to rest. Breast feeding is so hard and challenging since he went into the NICU right after birth. Time management is so hard as well.

[@maryoleary2037]

Liz have hope in knowing that this challenging time won't last forever. Sleep deprivation really impacts your well being. Do as Andrea suggests and take any help that is offered. If you are in a position financially, purchase ready made meals, perhaps frozen ones. Consider having a cleaning lady and don't clean before she comes. If there is a trustworthy teenager nearby, pay her to walk the baby in the stroller, while you take a shower. The most important thing is to lower your expectations of yourself and lower your former standards. It doesn't matter if your house is pristine. It is far more important to rest. I wish you the very best.

[@AdorkableLiz77]

@@maryoleary2037 thank you!

[@PineandProspectHome]

@@maryoleary2037 Yes, she is right! It feels like it will never end, but I promise it will and it will feel like it went by so fast! Praying for you sweet momma!

[@sarahwilson7576]

Be easy on yourself! Your world just totally changed and you need time to adjust. You will figure out your rhythm and you will also do so much better once your are healed. I was so hard on myself with my first. Praying for you! You got this girl!

[@krclinton]

Have you noticed that the offers to help diminish with each baby? That was my experience. I also have four children.

[@PineandProspectHome]

I have a lot of family close by and thankfully my sisters and mom are very helpful. My husband also is always willing to help which I am so thankful for!

[@marthaneudorf1899]

I appreciate it when mothers are more private with nursing. I know the trend is to be open and nurse anywhere but it does make it uncomfortable for the audience at times.

[@buickinvicta288]

Hi pretty mama. I was always old school. I had rhe best OBGYN. I read everything I could. I am old enough to be your Mama. I did the best I could at the time. My son was breastfed and fresh food always. It's easy. and fun. I know you'll do a great job again. Do your thing and forget about the trends.

[@PineandProspectHome]

Aw, thank you so much. I am learning that sometimes that really is the best way!

[@ewahag4825]

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[@evonnebaker7605]

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[@margaretpervier8357]

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