Pour Minds - Episode 197 - You Not My Man Hun

Hey y’all! This episode we discuss doing relationship things but not in a relationship, do single men brag about dating married women, female erogenous zones and more!
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[@uhsauntae_7335]

I find myself saying “Damn it’s strict in this bitch” whenever somebody tells me no 😂

[@arie2683]

Drea’s nonchalant humor gets me everytime!!! It’s not always attitude, it’s the delivery of her jokes/humor. Everyone won’t get it.. Lex is just boldly hilarious and it’s a great dynamic!

[@aprilbrooks]

Lex always look like she had one weed 😂

[@DreaAndLex]

LMFAOOOOO

[@ldkea05]

Sounding like somebody granny lol wit that one weed

[@lovelyj7125]

😂😂

[@_Tree]

That'll never get old 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@babufits1584]

Make me one of them weeds, chile 😭

[@shadthagod8033]

The fact ur own tour and still dropping episodes shoutout to ya for consistency blessings to u

[@DreaAndLex]

Thank you!

[@lifeofd.shunta3261]

I love when Lex say “I had a grand ole time” 😂😂😂

[@MerryJaguar-je2mw]

Okay so if you don't find lex at the Starbucks she at folks restaurant WINdy hill, aye! 🤙

[@z.shari11]

Lex is definitely the friend who plays way too much and so am I 🤣😂 I feel it for Drea.. i can tell they really love each other, for better or worse 😊🥰✨

[@oreabejide]

the looks that drea was giving lex the whole episode was killing me omggg

[@ArinsSecret]

Drea’s looks are priceless 🤣🤣🤣

[@jusiyaindia]

Yess 🤣

[@michelledombrowski1120]

I love when they never stay on topic it makes the show so good because it’s just 2 best friends messing with each other 😂 love this pod ❤

[@_Tree]

The moment that Drea paused when saying the intro.........you knew that there was going to be some Shenanigans 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Bossnursejara]

Drea was very snappy on this episode 😂

[@shaniquacooper5703]

She need one weed.... She'll be fine

[@gbanks4000]

@@shaniquacooper5703 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@seductivecosmetix5851]

Y’all should come up with a wine , I love wine 💕

[@ladiepink]

I def would buy that !!!

[@juicymiss87]

For sure!!

[@Landed_inParis]

This

[@23ablekeya]

Drea was definitely irritated on this 1. Can tell lex was trying to keep the joke coming to keep her laughing but still a great episode.

[@scoopfreeman]

It seemed as if it all started after lex said well that’s you when they were discussing holding hands…and then drea was like yea it is😂 after that everything went downhill

[@cedebee422]

Nothing new to be honest

[@jawanajackson7243]

I love it when it’s just Lex and Drea

[@johnsonsdistrict]

I’m 1000% with Lex! Lmaoooo if it’s in the moment and will make me happy idc! 😂 I met this man on a vacation and spent that whole night curving niggas saying no I’m with my husband. Lmao he was 6’5 and handsome, it’s was fun!

[@dejoutdoors]

The notification hits different when you’re ALREADY 2 glasses in. 🔥🔥🔥 let’s go ladiesssss

[@DreaAndLex]

Ayeeeee

[@WilliamsPinch]

48:35 “not paying my bills, you bitches are disgusting” *LEX* 🤣🗣

[@DreaAndLex]

😂😂😂😂

[@Lmao10752]

I just found yall because of the breakfast club and yall funny af. The girl in black is hilarious🤣🤣

[@vavoo5181]

“Why for you to buy me a Birkin we gotta be together?” Mood 🤣

[@juicymiss87]

😂😂

[@MerryJaguar-je2mw]

BIG mood 😠

[@BennieValentine]

I be staying up waiting for y’all to post every Friday , love from 🇮🇪🇮🇪🇮🇪🇮🇪🇮🇪

[@lextalk901]

I legit got tears from the Bigen story 😭😭😭 “ I took the top off” get me off this floor ☠️

[@Monique670]

Drea’s face when Lex whispered in her ear about the guy she didn’t like lmao 😂😂

[@angelh6345]

I love Drea in braids so much. Both of y'all switch up the looks i can't wait to see what's next

[@tiffanymeriwether7687]

I love when they go off topic. 🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹

[@DreaAndLex]

Always 😂😂😂

[@kellabillingsley5141]

Its Drea being so into this TGI-Friday's story lol

[@jeansdreamcateringandbakery]

My Friday night "special"! Yaaaaaaassssss honey! I look forward to yalls video EVERY week! Love you ladies! Blessings to you both and your families.

[@zahrafarah212]

Lol y’all are hilarious! And Drea has deadpan humor. How do y’all not get it?!?!

[@Money132215]

Drea why u look like u was rea swing on Lex off that failed ear attempt 😂🤣😂🤣

[@ohcoffy]

All dope boys took me to TGI Friday’s back in the day 🤣🥴🔥

[@quashaylacobb4734]

Lex P is funnnnny asf 😂

[@cupofchi_]

Hey ladies. Y’all look great as usual 💕 Congrats on y’all’s hard work and success. Y’all deserve all the vacays plus more ! Ik what lex means about the difference between McDonald breakfast and lunch 🤢.

[@shayonce_]

This episode was hilarious. Drea I’m surprised Top Dolla wasn’t your bop of the day 😂

[@RobandSijay]

imagine if men could have this chemistry lol this episode was hilarious especially Lex touching Drea's arm and Drea's Laugh

[@fashiondawes4353]

Drea face at lex this episode was priceless 😂😂😂. Y’all had me Ctfu!

[@rochellesutton9823]

Yessssss it’s my girls 👑 ! & I got the bottle of wine on deck tonight 👏🏽

[@jayegray5884]

It's giving yall mad irritated with each other this episode... Pms maybe lol Yall definitely felt bothered bout each others comments...can't wait to see nxt episode

[@DreaAndLex]

At this point, we honestly don't care what it's giving because we know what it is.. lol.. Thanks for watching

[@jayegray5884]

@@DreaAndLex lmao ummm watch ya tone and keep yo hands on yo head..chill out..I bet this was lex lmao

[@msmatts427]

@@jayegray5884 that attitude there screams Drea

[@jayegray5884]

@@msmatts427 lol

[@theegiftofgabb]

My girls! I’m proud of y’all; keep up the good work! Y’all keep a girl CRINEEEE not crying but CRINEEEE😂

[@pscih7149]

I loved Chilis! Them $10 meals got me through college

[@EverydayEJxo]

I love lex so much, she’s never serious 😂😂😂 I’m the same way ♌️

[@christopheratkins666]

I can understand that sometimes I go out to eat by myself and it's just the crowd that helps me in the mood of whatever I'm feeling of highs and lows but it's more or less of the customer service of the waiter that has me tip bigger than the meal but it was the conversation and entertainment that Drew me into the nice evening

[@lifeofd.shunta3261]

Come on TGIF sponsorship in the making! Now I’m hungry 😩😂

[@AllAboutNick]

This episode gave Wine Down Wednesday vibes 😭🤣 but I loved the episode & topics this week. ❤️

[@chrissyyyx6535]

Love catching these episodes early 🫶🏾

[@loripaige887]

I can wait for more tours! 🥹🫶🏾please come to New Orleans and LA soon! Love yall!

[@potentspirit8448]

Damn I love this show. Thank yall for the entertainment and discussions.

[@noway8224]

LMAOOOO Lex and Drea in the bed segment are literally hilarious

[@Thenicolevon]

Lex needs a nail cam 🥰😻 I love it

[@isabellepierre2873]

This episode was extremely hilarious 🤣

[@ericlaster5911]

I agree with drea, women are definitely more likely to brag and run their mouth when it comes to dealing with someone that’s married. Men know that women are less likely to deal with someone that run their mouth, so a lot of men learn early to keep their mouth closed. And yes both men and women have emotions but in general women are more likely to act on emotion while men tend to be more rational. Keep up the good work!

[@noellashae]

Lex my big sister in my head. Like I’m convinced, even my bf said y’all act just alike 😂 yes he’s a pour boy 🤭💜

[@bri7917]

I definitely agree with Drea! I see way more females online posting dms with married men or men in relationships. Not saying that men don’t do it, but we see way more women. How many times have women’s dm made it to the shade room 🌚😂 I love when y’all have a good debate ❤️

[@darronwilliams4641]

Cuz men keep it 2 our self lol. Y expose a woman n lose access 2 her?

[@christopheratkins666]

It's the way the glass is formed when the air hits it that enters into your taste buds that has a certain flavor that is rememberable to the senses of the tongue

[@quineishahill6031]

Drea had me weak this episode 😆 I love y’all

[@ebonistarr]

Fridays been my favorite casual dining. And they got the sizzling chicken, just not the chicken ANDDD shrimp.

[@jamein545]

Yes TGI Friday’s is where u go to get ur first drink

[@paulaa.1445]

Drea you were about to kill lex mid episode like calm down

[@jaeeluv]

💯

[@conspire941]

Lol she's passionate, don't you and your friends be having such discussions?

[@paulaa.1445]

@@conspire941 we do but not to the point where we wanna kill each other damn

[@DreaAndLex]

@@conspire941 lol.. thank you

[@conspire941]

@@DreaAndLex We know it's all love ❤️

[@RavenEkirah]

I wish y’all would come to Mississippi !!💕

[@gabreellebatista1203]

Ladies I feel like y’all two are my best friends yeah just give great advice and great talk. Love both of y’all my best friends in my head lol. Sending love from Brooklyn New York🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍

[@TheNial120]

Chili’s and TGI Fridays is fye. Only chain that was nasty was Applebees

[@covergirlzaria3536]

Lex is a literal character 😂😂😂😂

[@Emilythegoodguydoll]

Tank “Can’t let it show” came out 1 year ago oops🙊 🤣🤣🤣but I AGREE DEFINITELY DEFINITELY my fav r&b singer

[@douse89]

Lex singing at the end had me weeeeaaakkkk! 😂😂😂😂😂😂🤣

[@ArinsSecret]

Happy Birthday Lex 🎂

[@miaprice9652]

I been waiting all day🤞🏾🤞🏾

[@4Ntech]

They are hilarious, when they come to the DMV I am there.

[@tiagarner8923]

I feel the same way about Cheddars! Once the pandemic hit they took “My Mama Meatloaf Better Then Your Mama Meatloaf” off the menu! Ain’t been back since.

[@christopheratkins666]

Is very nice to add different lyrics to the song other than the original because that's what makes it custom in any relationship is just that part right there that makes it magical in all relationships that no matter how many lyrics you get right it's just that one thing you get wrong in the song that customizes the love forever

[@imeldalouis1884]

It was the song at the end for me ! “My very first time” Lexxx need to stop ! 😂😂😂😂

[@christopheratkins666]

I think the realness that you show is what people relate to everyday you know that's why I had a hard time trying to follow what your podcast was and this is the first time I was able to find it because I have limited resources so when I do get my time to use my resources I said oh okay that's the podcast it is let me tune in and it's more so better for me to hear the voice of women's opinion who I value as Queens no matter what the time it took for the edification is just nice to sit around these things you know it's one thing to sit around and chop it up with your boys but it's another thing when you want to study the women that interest to you in the way that you like women to be anyway and it just makes it better for me to understand to pursue others or to just listen to the news of two getting together to talk about others

[@chickybaby118]

Oh the intro is giving 💜

[@chanelbankz449]

Dreaaaaa!! 😂😂 period!! Never kno when you might walk by- fantasias voice know

[@sexi_symone]

Y’all are 1 of 1! 😂😂😂😂 love it here 😁

[@DreaAndLex]

Thank you!❤️❤️

[@yourdigitalbestie8376]

Drea expressions this episode is so funny

[@christopheratkins666]

My grandfather's blind and that's the right way to read a post for a blind person to know if they are turned on by the handshake in the caress of the arm to continue this situation and well if that doesn't work for the blind person then he finds another way by the cuff of the arm to see where there's a natural sliding of the arm of the waist where he's being guided but at the same time if he knows that vibration in his comfortable for a blind man to reach down and get guided

[@JewelPray]

I think the sizzling chicken and shrimp is only on the Applebee’s menu now 😭 I remember only getting it from there

[@belladon9601]

The jack Daniel’s wings at TGI Fridays. 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 omg I haven’t been in so long

[@Artistrybygen]

Caught this before the 1st hour uploaded . It’s going!

[@rhondamoultrie3187]

That's right ladies 😷 up. Ready for the show 🥃🥃🥃🥃🥃

[@juicymiss87]

It’s true about TGIFridays I worked at Outback and we would drink with them after work and they did have to have Flair is what they called it back then. Basically Benihana for Bartenders 😂😂

[@christopheratkins666]

That's nice I like both of those like I said at first got on one social media and had options on a lot and I didn't really like all the table topics that was there so I stopped but then I know that's when my significant other has sped up on what that was so instead of looking at what she was writing on the internet I was more interested in what she was watching and reading to get me a broader understanding of how the mood may change to the good or bad but it elevated me in that one study to when I had enough time apart to explain what goes on in time if there's not enough attention in the room of conversation of table topics

[@KanoniNaire585]

Lex, I cannot! You are too funny. omgg😂😂😂😂😂

[@christopheratkins666]

I agree it doesn't take a lot to let go to find out if it wants to come back naturally if you let that person go and then time has passed and you both had experiences outside of that and you guys see each other again you can talk about the times where it was just like I should have never let that go but then you hold on to glue stronger after then adhesive then adhesive was mixed with a better bondage

[@shaylarichardson2989]

When y’all back in Chicago please come to my fridays because we turn up like lex said 😫😂😂

[@theSimoneShow]

Y’all gotta get on that Riesling too though it’s up there with Pinot Grigio 💯

[@ldkea05]

And is !!! It's a lil on the supa sweet side ... but u can smoooooth drank a whole bottle while chillin

[@xfghjuga6480]

Riesling, the big girl moscato!

[@VC-pq3ui]

Drea so funnyyyyyy. She love pointing out low standards. Ahahahahhaha

[@aidenvega9416]

love the consistency and punctuality. i do be waiting at 6:45 like 👀 one of y'all fingers wanna slip n upload early? 👀

[@DreaAndLex]

😂😂😭❤️

[@pinkpaisley4844]

😂😂 ya'll we're cutting up, I thought Drea was going to choke Lex out 😂 💛 ya'll 💛

[@slicelifeart]

Lmao at 1:04:16-1:04:22 Drea’s face reaction to Lex 😂

[@9etherbeing785]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@KanoniNaire585]

I couldn’t breathe omg😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@kellabillingsley5141]

Drea said he had a graffitti artist!! took me over the moon!🤣🤣

[@jojoluvzu]

Dreas face has me deaaad all episode !!! OMGGGG... Lex do some goofy shii, Drea *straight looks* LMAOOOOO

[@christopheratkins666]

So I have a question too am I being too formal of what I am trying to express is my words not explainable enough to be discreet or is that just too forward I'm not sure on how to proper to try to be discreetly about my prior relationship because I hold it very valuable to my growth today to appreciate what women have been through and what I have been through to not repeat the same thing but grow better

[@naturalllyz]

Y’all going back and forth naming sauces 🤣🤣

[@__GeeHoney]

Uncorked is a really good movie! Taught me a lot. I’ve always wanted to be a bartender..maybe one day

[@Honeychell]

That wine movie is good af💯

[@damncanihelpu]

The erongeonus zones topic: Lex always taking stuff to 1000 😄😄😄 Yes! being a gentleman is a turn on

[@christopheratkins666]

What is a night like when you're at home and what is a night like when you guys are together that separates the two conversations individually when you can look at each other and just know that the silence in there it means a lot before you say anything that is mesmerizing to the brain where you take your sips of wine like y'all do

[@christopheratkins666]

The best Masters where they have rechangeable filters they have smaller ones that look a little discreet it's just you got to look around or if you know how to make the mask you can custom make them as you sit your face is on how they look individually

[@christopheratkins666]

Specify what is dating is that just having one with conversation or having one with possible benefits but what if the individual just enjoys the space to be able to find a place where things may be in a realm of possibility but not just in the realm of the possibility what may or may not come natural in time

[@christopheratkins666]

So do you like to take out the individual for possible upgrades or do you like to find places yourself or the guest that you are being taken out with somewhere that's very secluded but very privately around where you guys are around but you have time to get to know each other without everybody being around

[@photogelic3135]

😂😂 No Cap just bought moms some hush puppies from long John silvers 🎣like 3 days ago.. that’s all she like from there 😄

[@DreaAndLex]

😂😂😂😂