Pour Minds Episode 205 - Lil Shirley

Hey y’all! This episode is Just Us! We discuss, Male Sex Toys, Dating men with full custody, & many more topics. Grab your wine and come kick it with your girls
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[@ambersheffield982]

The episodes with no guests be the ones for me. Drea and Lex’s energy alone makes for a great episode. ❤

[@HavInspires]

When Drea said she almost went to the upper room using that sex toy took me completely out!!!😂😂😂😂😂

[@crystalrubbie9383]

Imagine if sukihanna was a guest on the show 😩😩😩🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️

[@ew5713]

Suki with the good PUSY

[@irisrising6329]

Two words: too lit 🔥🔥🔥

[@jawanajackson7243]

She was six months ago

[@FreshhCutz]

no ice spice!

[@indyiacooper3099]

Yessssssss🍁

[@jasminedorsainville1112]

“Every time drea come over I get sleepy” TOOK ME OUT 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@itsdesange9776]

One thing about it, ever since Drea came out with MUSE BEAUTY… Lex lips been glazed. A trueeee friend. I love y’all ❤️

[@daeenicolee]

I was saying last week we need a episode with just yall two 💜

[@jaquelhill9159]

I wonder if Lex ever be shocking herself with the stuff she say 😂😂😂

[@_Tree]

Nope 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Jamescampbell4661]

Hell No ! 😆

[@eastside3478]

And she be free styling that foolishness lol

[@JustAnisaa]

😂😂😂

[@lextalk901]

“Not the Daddy gotta breastfeed” I’m weak 😭😭🤦🏽‍♀️

[@santiaspivey693]

When my baby wake up at 3-5am, me & my momma be like, “Shirley up and ready for her shift at the post office.”

[@lalakeeshiex]

Lex you look tf good!!! And your confidence is shining through. Love you sisss ❤❤

[@amberbug90]

Congratulations on your weight loss Lex! 🎉🎈

[@ashantimonique9578]

Loved this episode like everyone else the episodes with no guest be my fav’s cause y’all energy is A1. Lex is completely correct random strangers (woman or not) asking to touch you in personal places or sexual things is def some form of harassment lmao

[@crimirvin225]

I don’t know y’all but I’m really proud of the growth I’m seeing from watchin the show

[@celestejames5228]

Lex p imitation of her baby nephew was funny and adorable 😅

[@ceejay4850]

Lex overseas cutting up right now! I don't like comment on women's body, BUT LORD! Lex u radiating such good energy ever since the breast reduction! U look so happy, your energy! My friend did the same, and her glow was different! Happy for u!

[@amahjahv]

Lex looks so happy, I love it😍😍😍

[@monicachantee]

“I got ant bites, two bee stings” Lex kills me!!! You look damn good lex 💓

[@PrettyQuee2]

I love the way Lex say “Hell Naww” 😂😂

[@draysanatomy]

I dated a guy who has full custody of his son, and I don’t have any children myself. I loved how mature/responsible he was but we were at different places in our lives. He was 9 years older than me and wanted a wife, I wasn’t ready for that at the time so we broke up. But I’m definitely not against dating a guy with full custody of his kids. Just make sure you both want the same things

[@WilliamsPinch]

Yes, men like that are looking for you to be The Help. So you made the right choice 😅

[@breadwinner8585]

@@WilliamsPinch just because he wanted a wife doesn’t mean he was implying she or any other female was the help.

[@stellakamau6994]

Lex: Not he got 2 kids in the house Drea: And he about to have a third Me: 🤯

[@anniemae19]

Funny how the full custody topic came right after @mousejones was on ☠️🤣

[@dejoutdoors]

I’m just here to appreciate you ladies. You speak of things that we really deal with. not giving y’all the responsibility of mentorship or nothingggg cause everyone’s on their journey, but y’all really help give perspective when ppl should hear it .. We love y’alllll.

[@_Tree]

I've watched Lex & Drea for years and they are as real now as they were back then 💯💯💯🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@mmason6852]

Full disclosure: Drea and Lex at any weight is a whole vibe!!!! 💯 Drea needs to be somebody wife.....like mine lol

[@tayway2225]

Drea it’s giving Godiva chocolate & you look AMAZING SIS😍😍😍🍫

[@genesiarobson8317]

Episode name, "Lil Shirley" my mama name is Shirley😂 ...No, they ain't naming kids that any more.

[@Q................]

When Drea says what? It last for 6 seconds ....love it!😁

[@ThePrincessjazzy5460]

Hey lex & drea, I love y’all & y’all pour your heart out segment advise has grown so much & I’m so proud of y’all! 💕

[@conspire941]

Walking around with Gatorade 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 56:10 that giggle was so cute 🤣😭

[@HeyRuuuu]

Lmaoooo the imitation of your nephew going off in his own language …my nephew is the same 😂😂😂 I had to keep going back😭

[@kenyettab310]

Not lil Shirley 😂😂😂 Ain’t nobody naming they kids that in 2022 Lex 😂😂😂

[@pscih7149]

I enjoy when y'all take time to talk about dieting. Seeing pictures, you think people's bodies are effortless. Whole time, like Drea said, she's cutting out potatoes, bread, and rice. This is prob 50% of what I consume lol.

[@TishaTeee]

OKKK matching hairstyles! lol love y’all down!

[@Frija_the_goddess]

So I be drinking 🍷 when I watch this and I normally respond while I'm watching but it's too much to say tonight and I just want to say that I love y'all...I agree with both of y'all and you guys are the dynamic duo for sure🤌🏼👌🏼‼️💕💕💕

[@curtist9256]

Lex reactions be top tier😂😂

[@cutitoutyo]

Lex is speaking straight facts in the confidence segment!! 💯

[@guccicxxchiecoo]

Y'all was a kii this episode. "she get a few followers and think she is a social media extraordinaire" 🤣🤣

[@amahjahv]

Great financial advice for the first question. Thanks Lex!💕💕 & s/o to the girl who asked the question bc I needed that

[@photogelic3135]

The Patreon AD music got me doin a lil 2 Step and shoulder bop😄

[@brefussell2140]

Drea must’ve had a date that night, don’t be trying to leave us that fast 😂😂😂😂

[@Chrysyyyy]

Also, we need “let me take a sip of the yak” merch. 😂😂😂😂😂😂 I would buy something, very much something😂😂

[@pscih7149]

Y'all had REALLY good topics this episode.

[@amandar8699]

I agree with the sentiment of date ppl who also want to date you. People be too worried about what other people prefer. I ain’t checking for nobody who ain’t checking for me.

[@prettysmallz]

I’m almost caught up!!! Ima miss binging these when I have to wait weekly lol

[@thereallolamarie]

Drea cut out on us 🤣🤣🤣

[@pscih7149]

Lmao Drea said she doesn't think men care about bodies as long as the box isn't trash. I can see that.

[@emiliowilitez2087]

I'm dead. You gotta put it in a higher speed for the thick ninjas

[@chaneldig893]

I can’t wait till ya’ll come back to the dmv like I said befo “I LOVE IT HERE”!!!!

[@jaquelhill9159]

I caught this real early this time and my gworls looking tf good as always 😍😍❤️

[@Beezus3]

I gotta study for an exam tomorrow but first Pour minds 🍹

[@CVL219]

The fact that Drea said it men out there that STILL like women with natural bodies let us know it's a problem 🤣 Men love all women but I think those women arguement are that the media makes it seems that if you don't have that body type then you not it.

[@Sohko00]

so in love with the new intro 😍😍

[@IAmNessaFBaby]

2 words to describe Drea this episode...freakin hilarious 😆

[@NikkiKNuvo]

There’s plenty jokes in the “if a guy has ONE custody” slip up 😂 Y’all have be cracking up unintentionally lol

[@Ariana-yv2cg]

Lex, you are too damn funny for no reason! I love you 🤣

[@daisey1624]

12:45 “NOT THE DADDY GOTTA BREASTFEED” 😂 omg

[@theclassicbeauty8244]

I agree with Lex! Dildos and vibrators are TWO totally diff types of toys. I don’t insert anything besides a real life D. I may use vibrations but a P pocket or butt mold, and Dildos are not for me those are all the same type of toys but I wouldn’t own anything like that. I think the D Ring is okay too lol.

[@CT-hz6mz]

Lex stay on her Bobby Proud shit lmao....aw this was one of the best episodes.🥺💜

[@cj10109]

Y’all are twinning!! 👯‍♀️ love this episode 💜

[@foreverang7080]

I love that it’s just the girls today 💖

[@Lovejoyful606]

"It's the soul that need surgery", Beyonce said.

[@tineeeify]

I knew Lex p looked different that weight loss made your face real slim

[@angelh6345]

lex being real great auntie-ish on the toys for men lol I'm all for it ! I'll buy him one and command him to use it. 😈

[@dari4303]

Lex is a whole mess but I love her down!😂😭❤️

[@aszeanlee2379]

Mess never girl But she's a whole vibeeee🤣😭✨

[@cecesopretty]

😂❤ yes love her down 😂

[@roadtovictory9387]

You ladies are the best! I can not wait to meet you one day . I am def manifesting an interview with you one day. 💚

[@lkvthompson]

Lex the man gotta have a job. He can't just skip state with you

[@Prettiestintheroom]

Im with Drea on the babydaddy topic. Lil shirley can come😌😌😌

[@IAmMeHaileyB]

I really enjoy watching you two. 😊

[@Dejavon]

Drea : why are you lyinggggf like this 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@cupofchi_]

😂 talmbout some “bad Shirley!” 😂😂😂

[@prettysmallz]

That two finger pop is a classic… aht aht!

[@GeranikaMycia]

This was so good🙌🏾🔥😮‍💨

[@phoenixreturns9905]

It’s them calling the episode Lil Shirley foreal 😂🫶🏽

[@AllthingsKd]

I call myself dating a single father with no village. For one I have no kids but I don’t think he actually wanted a girl friend. He needed some help. 2 weeks into talking he wanted me to do the babies hair (oh yea it was 2 under 5yrs old ) help with homework , bath them and cook literally everything. The kids also slept in the bed with him and wet themselves sometimes. He told me to quit both my jobs and he will work. After 2 weeks of talking !! Baby it was a HELL NA For me.

[@deannagreen2006]

Lex p congratulations on your 20 pounds weight lost Drea you glowing on this episode 10/14/22 keep going gurls on your podcast Pour Minds .

[@aprilbrooks]

“Influencer extraordinaire” 💀

[@kellabillingsley5141]

WHY ARE YOU FUCKING YOUR BATHROOM WALL 🤣🤣🤣🤣 SENT ME OVER THE MOON

[@drippydlg2807]

22:41 Lex fucking kills me lmao “I luv the kids 😄” 😭😭

[@kellabillingsley5141]

You want a little Gummy lol.. in my Drea voice 😂 night night JR.

[@BeautifullyBrown]

Drea’s face when Lex be singing is UNMATCHED. She be so DONE. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@adorable193]

I agree with Lex with the s*xual a**ault topic. I feel as though if somebody feels violated or uncomfortable, then that’s what it is. Whether they were asked for consent or not. Overall, this was a great episode. Keep it up ladies! ❣

[@mitchell4f401]

Wheewww I wish I could call in… i married my husband last year.. 3 teenagers…. Mom is out living her best life and im here with no kids… it ain’t bad but makes me feel crazy trying to have kids

[@davebrown5559]

They got defensive when home boy was talking about natural woman 😂

[@rhondamoultrie3187]

Great commentary ladies y'all look🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥💯

[@m.b.4551]

I must like almost every aspect of segggsss because I don't think anything yall mentioned was weird. I want everyone to enjoy pleasure how they see fit as long as it doesn't involve animals or children and everyone respects boundaries and every single thing that has to do with consent(whether they change their mind 5 minutes often or 2 seconds after.)

[@SaintLagniappe]

Lex said she can’t be the same size as Ronnie 😂😂😂😂😂

[@countessstevens63]

This episode was so funny. Y’all are hilarious

[@pscih7149]

I loved everything in my Muse order

[@pscih7149]

Lmao "And no offense to him if he watches this"

[@tianaevans5229]

"Let me take a sip of the yak and don't talk back" lmao

[@jaedavis3701]

Lex was in that mode this episode I like dat

[@Tyra_Night]

Lex lost me with the Adult Toys stuff 😅😂 lol

[@casandraihedoro3316]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Lex be lying she said she saw a baby named Ruby @ the hospital🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@pscih7149]

Lmao Drea what was wrong at the end? You ended that so abrupt.

[@NyiahMikel]

Loving y’all ❤ fr

[@lboogstakeslifebrowder4566]

Not Y’all bickering like a married couple 👀 Congratulations on your weight loss Lex 🎉 I get what you mean about dating a man with kids.. when you free to do you it’s hard to slow down…your spontaneous and it’s just not where you are in life🤷🏽‍♀️ Men have the option why can’t we 🥰🥰

[@HeyRuuuu]

Maybe the “regular girls” being back in comment could be referring to mainstream representation (seeing people of all looks) not necessarily being wanted. But I also agree that certain comments can be condescending and we should be conscious of our messaging especially when it comes to women’s image because what does putting anyone down accomplish? Like y’all said regular girls are not one type and go where you’re celebrated, always!

[@MarciaJohnson-p2i]

❤I watch y’all to death yall are beautiful woman get it up Marcia from Virginia god bless ❤️❤️

[@Nadjamilano]

Lex I feel you. Imma find an African man in any city and go crazy !

[@angelh6345]

I also think the natural vs enhanced body debate is so tiring and not so much weird but unnecessary. I agree that ppl have different preferences and that natural or enhanced should not be pressed to feed into that silly narrative on social media. I think enhanced bodies are gorgeous as well as natural.