POUR MINDS Episode 263- A T-Rex named Lex

Hey yall!! On this weeks episode, we unknowingly had an intervention/therapy session for Lex P. Lex made some shocking realizations about herself and took accountability for her actions. We discussed how having a victim mindset while dating can ruin your relationship, dating a man thats Bisexual, bending your morals/values when you're in love and a listener even asked for advice about velveteen rubs. This was an enlightening and wild episode, so grab your drank and pour up Pour Crew.
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[@Chrysyyyy]

Drea hates when Lex says anything negative about herself. Lex can shoot 30 men & Drea gonna find something each of them did wrong to deserve it. 😂😂😂😂😂 I love it so much. I’m the same way about my sister.

[@NikiLuna333]

Literally she hates it!!! Always did! Definition of a friend that won't ever let you be down for too long. She give you space but after a minute GET TF UP MY GIRL!!! ❤

[@Chrysyyyy]

@@NikiLuna333 RIGHT, Lex can say “my lips chapped” & Drea be like “girl, no they not, stop saying thatttt” 😂😂😂😂 true friends.

[@timmijohnson8455]

I love that Lex talked about this. I had to realize my anger issues too. Even though I’ve gotten better there’s still room to grow. It’s definitely not what you say, it’s how you say it.

[@eeyorezbabii]

I think having TY as a guest one day would be great! We love our sis and we wanna know more about her 🥰 come have a seat on the couch, honey! 👏🏾☺️

[@lisavslisa101]

Thanks for your transparency Lex. A lot of us have deep rooted issues with men. Whether it was bad experiences or just something we've seen men do/done. I can relate. Its like a silent rage within. Kudos for acknowledging it, and addressing it. It takes real courage to display vulnerabilities and emotions in front of thousands of strangers. May you start heal hun❤.

[@DreaAndLex]

Thank you!

[@klovemehrd]

The guest are great but there’s something about when it’s just the two of them 🥹❤️

[@Key__314]

I loveee when it’s just the two of

[@UneakTershai]

The only shows I reach for ❤

[@draysanatomy]

“Shxt finna get ugly…akademik” is WILD(ly accurate) 😂

[@miakeys1089]

I love the open and honest conversation between the two of you. This show has the perfect balance of personality.

[@DreaAndLex]

Thank you ❤️❤️

[@javonnenoell-dt8qj]

Drea just so calm bruh it’s like a trex and a Barbie doll yall the perfect match😭😂

[@DreaAndLex]

A T-Rex is crazy 😭😭

[@AllThingsKosha]

😂

[@javonnenoell-dt8qj]

Idk if it’s one of lex drunk symptoms but the way she buss out singing in the middle of a conversation is hilarious 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@lakenyagaddis974]

The cut of Ty shaking her head was hilarious!!

[@WilliamEnwezor]

I thought she transformed into Issa Rae lol

[@JazmineLue]

Lex looks absolutely stunning this episode 😍😩 the makeup, the hair, the boots !!!!

[@_Tree]

I appreciate Lex's honesty abt her anger issues. It's hard to publicly admit that. 💯💯💯💯💯

[@Emilythegoodguydoll]

“Thank you Havey, for your testimony”is crazy😂😂😂😂 THIS EPISODE IS LIFE!💕💕💕

[@amirajackson7049]

i really appreciate lex’s transparency and her willingness to change. conversation like these are extremely important and definitely display yalls range. the funny and sex parts are the foundation but sprinkling these type of convos put yall on another level

[@mekellabuggs3994]

This is honestly one of the best, most mature conversations yall have had ‼️‼️I enjoyed this conversation

[@DreaAndLex]

Cause baby you gotta know we ain't mature 😭😭

[@mekellabuggs3994]

Yes y’all are omg😂😂😩😩sometimes 🥴🥴😂😂but it’s called ✨balance ✨

[@Beezus3]

I would like for y'all to have a segment where Drea gives the word of the day and Lex gives as a random (space) fun fact 😅😂

[@Avaren619]

Such a good topic and convo about Lex's anger issues. I loved Lex's honesty. And Drea hit the nail on the head when she said you need a man that knows how to handle your emotions and one that don't make you wanna react like that. Great episode

[@tamikabrown2927]

This is BEAUTIFUL Lex… you’re helping so many… keep being transparent!! We love it! ❤

[@Thejuicybrat]

“I was not a lesbian…stupid bitch!” Got me weakkkk 😭

[@C_dubbs17]

I be loving the guest but I’m ngl I was so happy when I saw it was just the 2 of yall ! Lex be cutting tf up and I be loving every minute! Keep it up ladies ❤🫶🏾

[@EbonieTH]

I relate to lex when it comes to relationships. I’m also not confrontational. My anger was bad in my last relationship. There’s a lot of trauma that I haven’t properly dealt with. Even the things he’s done or said to me that were disrespectful I hold onto it and internalize it. This is why I love this show, because I was just reflecting on my actions the past few days. I thought I was mostly innocent, because it wasn’t my intentions to do wrong. Y’all are my therapists lol. I can’t even afford better help anymore. I did two months, so I lost all of my progress.

[@marie_frzr]

Lex deserves a f*@king academy award for keeping a straight face well reading and giving advice.. I could not do the same when mouthing these words .. " You deserve to take out your teeth. " ... 😂😂 That's wild!!!🤣🤣 Don't gum on that man in the dark, warn him😂

[@NaysiaDee]

Usually the bisexual conversation from straight women is ridden with homophobia. And I think people ask deeper questions (not always in the most respectful way) to get women to realize that sometimes that preference is rooted in homophobia. A lot of times when women fully explain the “preference” it’s just a disdain for gayness which is homophobia. BUT also we can’t force no one to like something that they don’t like 🤷🏽‍♀️ I appreciate the way yall approached the topic and the questions Lex asked were brilliant.

[@DreamofJerine]

I see so much of myself in Lex’s honesty about her anger issues towards men. I have them too. I just also came to the realization that it’s something that I need to heal as well. I thank you for speaking your truth & taking accountability because that’s the beginning of the journey. I can’t wait to see us both on the other side. I know that love for the male species is hard for us to maintain for whatever reason but we got this! You got this! Love you Bookie. Happy Healing 🫶🏽

[@Iamashleyamour]

Nahhhhh the ‘meeting in my bedroom’ karaoke got it 😭😭😭 I’m literally crying

[@KadijahDickey]

Drea said “gym is life” 😂😂😂

[@DreaAndLex]

It's the gains for me!! 😭❤️

[@antoniopena7306]

S/o to Lex for being so transparent. I’m on the same page as you and I’m realizing so much about myself. It isn’t easy admitting and coming to terms that you have anger issues but it’s an amazing first step. This made me feel so much better to see someone I could relate to

[@lilimama2cute4u]

lex is funny as always. I can't believe its been possible for her to look better n better every episode!

[@tyovannaclingman4103]

I love that level of accountability. Knowing that there is something you have internally to work on and not blaming others for “bringing it out”.

[@gamerschain61]

Thank you lex in the beginning being so transparent about your anger problems it's called growth ❤

[@EverythingWorksOutForMyGood]

Proud of Lex for being transparent and vulnerable in this episode and owning her part. It’s not easy, sending you well wishes on your healing journey 💕

[@Mimi8402]

I know that the dating scene is brutal these days, but never let a man reduce you to someone they’re just talking to when y’all are really dating. If they can’t even say that they’re dating you, they’re not men to take serious at all. They probably the type that have never been to a wedding, got a baby mama or 4, and a family where no one gets married. Don’t waste your time with those types.

[@nengram8045]

Lex, you’re a fire sign like me. Our tempers are known to run hot fast lol

[@keionar5171]

Such a great friendship. I’m Drea when it comes to my friends. I don’t see any wrong and I don’t want them to be down on themselves.

[@amani940]

Lmfao yeah I learned that ankle crossing thing being in the church choir 😂 cus baybeee them church ladies was mad af I was up there and had my legs crossed

[@thisgirlisfancy]

😂😂😂

[@theperfectbrother]

As a man for me that's the most important thing to me is how you act when your angry because if your trying to tear me down like I'm your worst enemy then im done with you❤

[@megc7947]

i love yalls podcast so much

[@KNicoleLux]

I love that you two are able to just have these candid conversations with each other and us. These are the conversations we need in our spaces. Love it here!

[@NameIsCaraBeara]

no shade no tea but it feel like this becoming lex show & drea just there to piggy back off her because she opens up and shares alot more than drea, would love to see drea open up more & talk about her and her experiences

[@DreaAndLex]

It will never be just Lex show, we share pour minds 50/50 because we built this shit together.. Never had to "piggy back" off of anybody.. I'm too raw for that, that's why y'all so highkey interested in knowing more about me.. lol

[@prettykaayy3524]

Thank God for a soloooo episode I wasnt clicking it if it wasn’t☹️🤭

[@Mtp1029]

This why I love Lex ❤💯 she a genuine spirit

[@stoniestarks1045]

I love when I be watching the pod and I pick up on when Lex is lying lmao I love this show

[@beautyfolse4249]

It’s just something about when it just them on the show. I’m going to click immediately every single time. I enjoy some of the guest but the dynamic duo does it for me. Bring Karlous back. 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@Lexbillion]

Lex did so well reading the denture letter. I would’ve been on the floor.

[@thisgirlisfancy]

Lex your lip color is GORGEOUS! Please share the deets...

[@DreaAndLex]

Musebeautycollection.com

[@SoPrettyInc]

“Shit finna get real ugly, akademiks” 😭😭😭😭

[@GardenofVenus5]

"You woulda let me eat that thang." Got me cryingggggg!! 🤣😭

[@Patsdawter]

Lex you’re not wrong and good for you taking accountability despite Drea trying to lighten it up for you… only you know the person within… keep striving to be better and you’ll find it.

[@jamyaharris1888]

Thank you for sharing lex because I can definitely relate and something I’m trying to work on

[@tahje_]

Lex looking good in that all white 😍

[@Chellie4854]

I loveeeeee ya’lls conversations!!! Listen to understand, not to be right. ❤️❤️❤️

[@javonnenoell-dt8qj]

Drea got ptsd from that incident 💀🤣

[@serenityreid2686]

one show yall in a relationship next show yall single lmaooooo. yall like me!

[@genesisrodriguez553]

Lex, i relate so much it’s crazyyyy. My anger issues always go from 0-100 when i feel betrayed, disrespected, or UNHEARD. I spazz. It’s only with men never with women in my life. I feel like at my big age i should have it under control but in an Aries i be feeling like it’s in my blood. lol i need intensive therapy chile 😂

[@jackies_world]

I laughed so much this episode from beginning to end 🤣🤣

[@videogworl]

"That's my pee. That's my urine 🙂😐" took me OUT.

[@BossK89]

I can agree with you Lex, my man says I talk to him crazy, but I know it comes from old trauma that I haven’t dealt with. But thank you for speaking on it. ❤ and y’all both look so beautiful ❤

[@amahjahv]

WHEN THEY PUT LEX HEAD ON A T-REX ON THE SCREEN 😭😭😭 THE SCREAM I SCRUMPT

[@PrymeTracks]

you know the drank kick'n in when Lex say: "I know this is off topic" lol!

[@taylormuscovalley]

Lmfaoo yo the no teeth convo is insane 😂 the first time I saw my grandma with her teeth out I screamed

[@marlenascales3180]

I love friendships that hold each other accountable and lol that’s right drea tell when she lying in certain situations you shouldn’t lie for friends especially if yall really rocking like that!

[@officiallyjada]

When lex starting singing put it on em make em wanna marry u 😂😂I DIED

[@gataylor100]

I’ve been watching forever and haven’t figured out who rapper bae is. Now I want to know 😅

[@nimoprosper]

I’m seated ❤ can’t wait for the Houston show tomorrow

[@cameronnicole869]

She said it’s finna get real ugly AKADEMIKS, mannnn I’m cryinggg

[@findingreese]

Ty been sipping she was sipping lol 😂😂

[@javonnenoell-dt8qj]

“That wasn’t no incident bihhh”😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭that was a catastrophe

[@naelynn9582]

I thought she was gonna say it was less than an incident 😂😂😂

[@wordym.3435]

“You think niggas be kissing?” Is hilarious but do they?! 😅

[@joi12345678]

I really enjoyed this episode. Very insightful and transparent. For a very long time I’ve said that how you treat people is a reflection of you. People think “matching energy” reflects how someone made you feel but it truly just reflects who you are. That’s just accountability. It’s very easy to say “You did this so I did that” but in all honesty no one can make you do anything. You can only take it there if it’s in you to take it there. Different people can bring it out of you but that’s still on you. I’ve definitely been there and learned my lesson very young. I can relate to Lex 100%. And Anger is NOT BAD. Sometimes anger is useful. It’s about integrating all parts of yourself to become a better you. Anger and all.

[@BriRabbit]

They don’t know nothing about that FIRST SOLANGE album….. STAR 😂

[@Tess-nd9co]

Accountability is very vital for growth.

[@whitneyb5890]

We appreciate your transparency Lex and you’re not angry you are disturbed it could be a mix of things from losing your father at a young age to the energy you are picking up from sleeping around. I would pause and figure out the deeper issue

[@neshiajohnson1486]

Lex must be a Leo ♌️ because she just exudes that energy

[@amberjones6653]

Unpopular opinion 🤣 I love when yall do solo episodes!

[@jasmineford35]

Two wrongs don’t make a right, but sometimes women disrespect their man because he keeps disrespecting them. Your friends usually don’t disrespect you in that way, which is why you wouldn’t take it there with your friends. There’s a mutual respect there. That being said, it feels good to reach a level of maturity where you don’t respond to disrespect with disrespect.

[@leejohn_bns]

This was a great episode. Y'all got deep.

[@NyiahMikel]

Love y’all down ❤❤❤

[@Nie_xoxo]

Great episode. You both are right Lex needs healing but she also needs a man who won’t trigger her. Love this

[@tp31824]

so who is rapper bae?

[@amandaevee]

I loveeee Allen Stone! Y’all stay w the great music recommendations 🙌🏽

[@EbonieTH]

Talking to me is hanging out, texting, maybe or maybe not fking. Dating is going on dates kinda often. I’ve been in talking stages, and we didn’t go on dates. It never went that far.

[@mygoodsis1933]

59:56 it’s daddy issues lex, same here girl same here

[@6milejuu]

Dem pour lil babies!!! Lex got that white rage 😁🙏🏾

[@DreaAndLex]

White rage is crazy 😭😭

[@marybutidk]

38:24 in and this is a GREAT episode!!! The transparency and accountability is refreshing, really why I love y’all! OAN: I wasn’t around for rapper bae but I heard his name bingeing episodes and I’m glad y’all can be friends now fr. That and this whole episode really shows your growth, Lex!!! We’re proud of you ❤🙏🏽

[@andrianahale2114]

I just want to know who is rapper bae fr

[@moneydraco315]

A for Accountability ❤️❤️❤️

[@Keishandria__]

Me & my “man” just basically broke up and I can say that I understand LEX 💯. For a long time I thought everybody just had me f.cked up but the truth is it’s a me problem that I have to work out. My ex def. bent his standards for me and that’s why I’ll always appreciate and value him even if we not together.

[@gamerschain61]

Lex with the denture letter I was here in tears 😅

[@joi12345678]

I’ve loved Allen Stone for yearsssss. Yessss 🫶🏾

[@cameronjohnson7382]

Allen Stone . I’d put him in the blue eyed soul category. Saw him live a couple times. Doesn’t disappoint

[@J.Rebel1]

Lex’s new nickname is T-Lex 😂

[@akwarren9832]

We need the deets on that body suit, please ma’am!

[@nicolegoodwin5596]

34:18 there Drea gp...randomly moaning 😂 Im surprised Lex let that slide lol ❤

[@DreaAndLex]

Omg!! 😭

[@videogworl]

Love this. If this reflects how yall are in person to each other, then good for you both. Stick together and hold each other accountable with LOVE. 🫶🏾

[@naelynn9582]

11:16 ty 😂😂😂

[@Howfineisjasmine]

Awe this was a beautiful episode thank you lex

[@ashleymiller1210]

The way Lex p had me busting out laughing when she started singing that Solange song def telling of age🤣🤣🤣

[@lisavslisa101]

Hey gurls! I wish Drea would make a try on hall page for makeup and outfits cus she be puttin that shit on! 💅💋💄

[@jasmineprimus1100]

Yessss 😍😍

[@brittmars1439]

Nah the end of this episode has me in real tears😭

[@showe31]

I love it when it's just you sweeties. (I do like your guest) but just you 2👌🏾🤌🏾👑🥂

[@Sohko00]

Houston show tomorrow !!