PREGNANCY + HEARTBREAK | LAUREN + ARIE

A little over a month ago, we got the most exciting news and we found out that we were pregnant with our second baby. We made so many plans. We bought a new house with more space, we planned how we wanted to tell you all and we envisioned our future with Alessi's little brother/sister. We were planning to share our journey through pregnancy with you, but unfortunately we didn't get the happy story we had hoped for. We decided to share this part of our journey with you, because well, we share everything with you! But also because we hope that by talking about this we can make other couples going through these times a little less lonely.
We love you all!
- Arie and Lauren
Also don't forget to also follow along on Instagram xox
/ laurenluyendyk
/ ariejr
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[@jennifernlee]

The fact that this happened just a few days ago- so in awe of you guys for choosing to share this at this time, and so grateful for your transparency!

[@jayway4217]

Arie is such a stand up guy. He’s going to heal Lauren’s heart so fast through this. Thinking of you guys and all of the other parents who have gone through this!

[@ros8951]

AND NOW THEY ARE BLESSED WITH TWINS!!! 😭❤️❤️

[@miamildh4334]

Jejjj, twins!!! 😃❤️❤️❤️🙏🍀🤗💕👍

[@Bella-uo8en]

They lost one baby so God said let me give them twins to make up for it

[@TraysonEliza]

Proves that God never closes one door without opening another since you have twins now.

[@mottom2657]

@@Cats_are_the_best_no_joke The other girl is named Senna.

[@Cats_are_the_best_no_joke]

@@mottom2657 that was 2 years ago obviously I would know now

[@tanyacollier9878]

Oh my godess when your husband knows your pregnant before you. that's how you know how much he loves you

[@katrenathings]

I love how Arie is always searching for the positive for Lauren. “We know that the baby is in the right place so that’s good.” They will overcome all of life’s painful moments.

[@jbrown7203]

Hey Arie and Lauren, my husband and I went through this November of last year. We had a very similar experience, measuring small at first, hcg rising, measuring small the second time but seeing a heartbeat, and our third ultrasound we found out we had a missed miscarriage. It was very hard for my husband especially not having anyone to relate to. He said this is the first video he has seen with a guy actually going through it with his wife and sharing his emotions. We are so sorry for your loss. Our story has a happy ending, we are now pregnant with our rainbow baby, due on the exact day in November we lost our first. Everything happens for a reason, and we pray you get your rainbow too. God has a plan for us all. Thank you for sharing your story, it means a lot.

[@kelleyshults8501]

J Brown hi, the same thing happened to my husband and I in November- December. Your rainbow baby has given me a little more hope. Thank you for sharing your story.

[@shannachampnoise1267]

Kelley i had one with my first pregnancy and now have 2 teenage boys. A high percentage of women experience at least one miscarriage. It doesnt mean it will happem again. Glad Lauren put this video out instead of hiding it.

[@dmix9352]

My aunt had a miscarriage once

[@dmix9352]

I’m so sorry for all of you

[@carlycasillas9267]

This literally just happened to us this November/December. First ultrasound was not definitive, measuring small, but hcg level was good, second ultrasound 10 days later we got the bad news, not viable not heart beat & hcg went down. Missed miscarriages are common people say & I'm glad more people are sharing & make so we don't feel alone bit definitely doesn't make it any easier. Hoping we have a rainbow baby in our near future. 🤞🌈🙏

[@jessicawilson5597]

Arie:you going to have a brother or a sister... Months later...Or BOTH love you guys

[@katieulrich8445]

I’ve had two miscarriages in five months. 3 months after the second loss I became pregnant with our double rainbow baby. He is 7 weeks tomorrow. I’m sorry for your loss. It’s never easy.

[@madisonstambaugh5662]

Arie was such a helpful and optimistic light for Lauren through this. It was sweet to see him keep continuing to reassure her despite the outcome 😢

[@stacyquinlan3659]

I remember when Shawn Johnson and Andrew East posted their miscarriage story a few years back and how emotional that was to watch too. I can’t imagine how your heart hurts or what Lauren will go through processing the hormones. I wanted to say thank you for sharing for others to know they aren’t alone. For telling us and letting us pray for you. 🤗

[@BALLOON-CATS]

This is tough. With a miscarriage, especially if there’s any uncertainty, the days are super long and emotional. We lost our first at 9 weeks. My second pregnancy, I had a missed miscarriage at 14 weeks. It was twins and it wasn’t complete so I needed a D&C which lengthened the recovery process physically and emotionally. After a miscarriage, no future pregnancies are ever the same. When I was pregnant with my daughter (my rainbow baby) I was super emotional and very scared until one day I was driving my car and I noticed two tiny clouds in a very open clear blue sky. The two tiny clouds were connected by a thin rainbow and it gave me hope. The most important thing is to keep hope alive in your heart and even though you’ll never forget the pain of your loss, time will heal your heartbreak. I’m now mom to a 6 year old girl and 3 year old boy and 32 weeks pregnant with baby #3. This is my 7th pregnancy and I think the low points we’ve been through have made the bright moments brighter. My experience reminds me to love fiercely and appreciate all I’ve been given.

[@teenyg08]

Thank you for sharing. My pregnancy story was much like theirs. Waiting for my rainbows 🌈 trying to keep the hope and really feel it.

[@TheJohng22]

I didn’t like Arie and Lauren when they first ended up together..well just shows that The Bachelor gave them a bad edit. This couple is adorable and in love. I didn’t realize that Lauren was so sweet and beautiful. Now we know why he picked her.

[@mza.28]

@@geegeelast3206 the other girl becca broke up with her fiancé so chances are her and arie wouldn’t have lasted either

[@mza.28]

@@geegeelast3206 yeah arie and becca wouldn’t have lasted

[@danhipps420]

No it has nothing to do with The Bachelor giviing them a bad edit. It's called perception. I personally love the fact he left Becca to follow his heart which was and is Lauren. I was pissed when he sent Lauren home

[@bethanysherman8693]

I didn't like them either but now that Becca's personality is more exposed, I definitely see what he saw in Lauren. She's adorable and makes for a much better partner.

[@samyleigh3246]

Agree. At first I was really upset that Erie proposed a buckeye and then took a proposal back. More than a couple years down the line lol I just discovered their KZbin page and these two are absolutely adorable they are so in love and it has been a lot of fun watching their family grow and their relationship grow. 💜💜💜💜

[@desiraehewitt-anderson5511]

“Bribe her with food”-Arie to Alessi is me everyday making decisions. But, Lauren, Arie & Alessi I am so sorry for your guys loss. Thoughts and prayers go out to you all during this difficult time❤️🥺

[@LilianaRamirez-xg4mv]

Lauren and Arie I’m so sorry for your loss. I can’t imagine the pain that your felling right now. Love you guys ❤️❤️

[@Jadiie2k2]

I absolutely cried at the end, was so nice of you to mention how things like this happen to other people. When it happens to yourself for the first time you feel so alone. I've been through 2 missed miscarriages at 9 weeks and one at 5 weeks - thinking I was 11 weeks along. I also had a chemical pregnancy at 4 weeks + 2. I've still not had my rainbow baby, however I find comfort in watching videos like this. Not because other people have lost babies too but because it makes me feel less alone. I hope you both get your rainbow baby 🌈👶

[@angelaellingson8491]

I’m so incredibly sorry for the loss of your precious baby. I had a missed miscarriage in 2018 and it was a similar, drawn out, excruciating experience. Prayers for peace.

[@AndreaIngham]

Lauren is the best combination of hilarious, humble, mumbly, motherly, sweet, smiley, and of course beautiful. Preggo or not, ain't hard to girlcrush. Arie showing us that men are so much more than just their sperm. Grow in your grief. Big Love.

[@SincerelyMaha]

I was literally tearing up so many times throughout this video. I'm so sorry this happened. Thank you for sharing this with us. I know it'll help so many others to feel less alone if this has happened to them. On a lighter note, Arie can detect when Lauren is pregnant which is pretty cool. ❤️ Sending love

[@summerdow7149]

Your twins are now definitely a blessing! They will be the best of friends and they’ll love you unconditionally! I’m so happy for you two!

[@lala-hr1ve]

This is wonderfully documented and portrayed, you guys are doing an amazing thing being so open about it. I have such respect for you both. I’m so sorry for your loss 😔

[@gkrt2474]

Don't worry, we will ALL meet our lost babies in heaven, no matter when they past on, God takes care of ALL his children.

[@bettybennett1828]

So true. I'm waiting to meet all 9 of mine.

[@tinaboyles9621]

Want it be a Wonderful Day Too! I can't wait to see my 4 little Angels.. Children are such a Blessing!

[@sheenawalker9556]

Very true

[@themissingandkilledwithroxanne]

I’m so sorry for your loss. We have four children however has experienced two stillbirths and three miscarriages. No matter what stage it isn’t easy. I will keep you in prayers!

[@Cbb2112]

Watching this means so much more to me now. I lost my baby this week. I was suppose to be 10 w and was only measuring 5 w. Waited one week to see if baby would grow but ended up finding out the baby didn’t have a heartbeat anymore. I had a missed miscarriage. No matter how common it is… it doesn’t make it hurt any less. Praying for a rainbow baby in the future just like how you both got yours ❤️

[@GabysJourney]

This exactly happened to me, I was supposed to be 9 weeks but my baby measured only 6 weeks and 4 days , a week passed and my baby didn’t grow or had a heartbeat, I had to have an induced miscarriage. It was devastating and heartbreaking. I pray for all women that has gone through this , for healing and comfort and For God to give us all rainbow babies ❤️

[@kayleeabbott9042]

Arie and Alessi waving at each other SO CUTE!

[@lizlopez808]

Lauren, I could tell your hurting and that Arie is too. Hang in there. I follow Shawn Johnson and she has a similar story to yours. You guys should connect. It took my husband and I more than 10 years to get pregnant. My heart goes out to you.

[@royallyreyes323]

My aunt and grandma have been through multiple miscarriages, we’re here for y’all. Thank you for sharing, and being brave to let other know that they’re not alone. ❤️

[@karenmanning1790]

Gone thru this twice. And ended up having 3 kids. You'll get pregnant again, believe me. Sending hugs your way.

[@travelissimas2576]

This is my 1st time ever commenting on a youtube video and I just want to say Thank You for sharing your story with us! There are so many women, families who go through the same, though no one really talks about it and women are not really prepared for this to happen. I'm sorry for your loss, I absolutely feel you! Love from Hungary!

[@jigmekelsangmusic]

I’m so sorry Lauren and Arie. I can’t imagine the pain you’re feeling but you will get through it.

[@maryjaneerving142]

You’re teaching people a lot by sharing this. Thank you and from the bottom of my heart, I am so sorry for your loss❤️

[@jordanphillips8007]

The only “positive” thing for me, and for you too it seems, that we have supportive and caring husbands that can help us get through how emotional the loss process is

[@gabrielazarate5634]

I love how Arie is so supportive and so positive. He’s such an amazing husband

[@amandamccall8003]

So so so sorry guys, there’s no pain like losing a baby no matter how far along. You are not alone, and you are making others who are going through this feel less alone too ❤️

[@ruthfortuna2508]

That’s such a hard thing to go through. I went through the same thing and the amazing thing was just the next month I became pregnant again with my daughter who’s now 1.5 yrs old! Sending you guys lots of love

[@pammeyer2185]

I went through the same thing about 10 years ago. I already had two healthy girls and realized that things happen for a reason. Saying that doesn’t make it any easier! You will have more kids and always have a spot in your heart for this one. ❤️ thanks for sharing!

[@madisonw1993]

“Who reads directions for a pregnancy test?!” *Me in the bathroom STUDYING the directions even though I’m on my 5th positive test*

[@irenakoretic732]

Same 😅

[@phillips_sadiee]

Congrats!!

[@patcorbin519]

Congrats!

[@meg-iv1sw]

Lol....

[@patcorbin519]

Well congratulations

[@stephalise9015]

My soul felt punched when Lauren said “you can be blunt with me” 😢 my heart breaks for you, I’m so so sorry!

[@AromaDome]

Hi Lauren and Arie it is very very normal after a woman has a baby that her hormone levels drop down to almost nothing. They even created a disorder around its called postpartum yet hardly any doctors ever address this!! If you get a hormone panel test including progesterone, cortisol estrogen There are natural creams no chemicals you can use once you know which levels are low. The uterus requires progesterone to be able to grow the fetus. It is so easy to bypass postpartum if the mama when she is ready to take a hormonal test to stay balanced she would not be experiencing uncontrolled mood swings or miscarriages if she just checked her hormone levels. It’s best if you have a naturopath guiding you. I am not a doctor but I have been a hands on healer for 36 years and have dealt with this with so many of my female clients in the years. Why oh why doctors do not discuss this with both parents I just do not understand why this is it’s really so simple. A woman becomes plump with lots of hormones while pregnant giving her that glow and that life force. Also it it a great thing if both partners do a colon and liver detox while trying to get pregnant since the hormones start being produced in the liver. I know you did not ask for this help but I felt so compelled to share this with both of you! Many blessings I so love you guys together it was the right move Arie!

[@camryncole4479]

Lauren is such an angel. And Arie is such a sweet, precious nurturing soul. Wishing you two the very best always.

[@joshm8015]

Amazing video. If I've said it once I've said it a million times: this is the best Bachelor couple of all time and it's not even close.

[@darlamiller2425]

Congt

[@darlamiller2425]

Ccx congratulation God 1less your family darla Miller from Oklahoma

[@shannachampnoise1267]

I will admit I was angry when Arie did what he did but after watching this video I have to admit that they are a better couple and belong together. Seems like Lauren has come out of her shell and showing her personality more. They are very cute together so things worked out the way they were supposed to.

[@neerasinha-frazer2094]

Shanna Champnoise I was very surprised when Arie didn’t pick Lauren. They seemed like such a natural fit. We all make mistakes in relationships. Unfortunately theirs was very public

[@cheneethompson5756]

Is it just me or does Lauren look even more beautiful than ever?

[@BeautifulYouWigReviews]

Aww hugs to you both! So sorry that you went through that. It’s amazing that you chose to be open about it because it will definitely touch others who have already or may experience this in the future. Thanks for being so candid.

[@katy4523]

Thank you for sharing your story ❤️ I've lost a pregnancy and it was so hard to talk about at the time. People like you make it easier to be open about something that's so personal and hurtful but also so common. I definitely feel less alone

[@kendrasnowden9107]

I had a loss exactly like this a year ago. My hormones levels were always off, each ultrasound baby wasn’t measuring where it should, but each time there was progress, so wait and see. I was 10 weeks, baby measuring about 6, when I finally miscarries. It was definitely a roller coaster. You try to stay so hopeful. People think it’s comforting to tell you something was probably wrong with the baby, but that wasn’t comforting at all. My miscarriage came after my pregnancy with my daughter who is missing a chromosome and shouldn’t have lived. If the baby we lost had something wrong, then it means 2 chromosome issues in a row. I am 25 weeks now with a healthy baby. Repeat loss is less common, and while I know that doesn’t help now because you wanted that baby you had, not another one, hopefully you find some peace that you will likely have a healthy pregnancy next time.

[@amberschumacher1499]

Thanks for sharing your story. I’ve experienced this same timeline 2 times and an additional 2 early miscarriages and it is soul crushing. Holding my rainbow baby in my arms and so thrilled to hear of your recent pregnancy announcement it’s important to normalize miscarriage and to start conversations about it and the fear and anxiety that goes into subsequent pregnancies. Thank you for using your platform for that! ❣️

[@alexandraronca2098]

Ugh watching this I relived a flood of emotions having gone through a missed miscarriage myself about six months ago. I am so, so sorry for your loss. I know that no words can take away the pain that comes from a lost pregnancy, but I am wishing you a speedy physical recovery, lots of hugs for the emotional one, and a happy healthy pregnancy when you decide the time is right to try again

[@justykarpar]

As a medical student, I know how common miscarriages are and getting through a successful pregnancy is physiologically VERY hard. Don’t worry Lauren and Arie and thank you for sharing your story. If more people spoke about miscarriages, coping with them would be easier. Thank you for this 💕

[@jasmeenrosales7722]

Arie you are so tender and sweet with Lauren, I love how you comfort her. You two are unbelievably strong, I wish for you hearts to heal soon, and the stress subsides! Very proud of both. Best wishes. xoxo❤

[@elisabethkantorik8296]

I'm so grateful to you both for sharing your story. My husband and I went through this recently, and hearing other people talk about their experiences has been a big part of the grieving process for us. We're not alone, and neither are you.

[@CarrieJugo]

I’ve had 4 miscarriages and I found out about all of them during my ultrasound appointments so I know the sick feeling of going in there hopeful only to have it slowly become clear something is wrong by the techs questions... thanks for sharing your vulnerable story. It’s such an emotional roller coaster. Praying for your healing from this and more beautiful babies in the future for your family ❤️

[@allieescobedo9508]

This is so heartbreaking. I can’t even imagine the pain that you two are going through. I’m so sorry that that you have to go through this. My thoughts and prayers go out to you❤️ thank you for being so courageous and sharing this with the world.

[@brittanymason558]

hey guys! this video really hit home for me. i had a miscarriage 2 years ago, and even tho i was no where near being ready to bring a baby into this world, i was devastated. i had names picked out, and a theme for the room. nobody wants to hear the word miscarriage & u are not alone! there’s good and bad days, but everything gets better with time. sending love and praying for ur little family 🤍

[@stephaniestack1770]

Thank you for being so open about this. After trying for 9 months, my husband and I finally found ourselves pregnant, but soon lost the baby. A few months later we found ourselves losing our second baby. It's something that happens often, but isn't talked about. Love you guys sharing your pain and experience when I know it's not easy. ❤ praying we both have our rainbows soon. 🌈

[@meganheying4085]

This is almost my exact same story. Had an emergency ultrasound when I started spotting at 6 weeks 2 days. Baby was measuring at 5w3d. Had another ultrasound 9 days later, and baby was measuring at 6w1d, but had a heartbeat. I should've been almost 8 weeks. That was May 27th. I miscarried on May 28th. It is heartbreaking. I will keep your family in my prayers. I start testing this week to figure out what is going wrong since I have lost three babies to miscarriage. I pray you don't have to endure the same.

[@kristinaharper7496]

I am so sorry. I keep thinking to your recent interview with US Weekly where you were asked about baby number 2 and when that’s happening for you guys. That would have been difficult to talk about. Thank you for sharing your story and all the wonderful videos of your family. You guys are the best parents ever

[@MsPolat2010]

I’m so sorry for your loss, but thank you so much for sharing. I really learned a lot from your experience. You all are so uplifting even during the hard times. It’s so refreshing to see.

[@leahehoffman]

Thank you for sharing your story, we also went through a pregnancy and missed miscarriage during quarantine and I so identify with the anxiety over not being able to share in the midst of the rollercoaster, Lauren. Like you, it took about four weeks for the pregnancy to end in miscarriage and it was showing signs of being non viable from the beginning - so hard. Thinking of you both as you heal!

[@xfbushy]

We just went through this last March. March 21, 2019 I lost my baby at 8w3d - they believe my baby stopped growing around 5-6 weeks. It was a missed miscarriage. But I got pregnant with my sweet rainbow baby girl at the end of May 2019 and she’s now 4 months. Sending you tons of love. I cried so much and it was so hard. I completely understand your pain. So sorry for your loss.

[@nicoletoronto]

This was such a beautiful way to share this journey and connect with those going through the same. You’re not alone and so brave for sharing.

[@kionaraemeiring7189]

Thoughts & prayers are with you ! Cannot imagine how heartbreaking that must have been for you , but you’ll get through it , stay strong ❤️❤️❤️

[@karaanderson3556]

I’m so sorry for your loss. I just recently went thought this same thing and now we are struggling to get pregnant again, which makes it extra difficult. Thank you for sharing your story. It really does help to know other people are going through the same thing. 💕 I just keep thinking, “everything happens for a reason”. ❤️😘

[@kaleyh29]

I appreciate the raw, and vulnerable content. I went though the same thing. It’s definitely one of the hardest thing I went through, you guys are not alone ♥️

[@chelsalot11]

Thank you for sharing. I went through this in January, and then got pregnant in February and am now 5 months along. Best of luck to you and Arie, sorry for your loss. 💚

[@Ren_b2]

U should start a channel when u get your baby and also congrats. If u have Instagram I would love to follow u. Have a great day know your beautiful. Don't change for anyone. Ps I'm a girl not a creep.

[@alliferris5928]

Me and my husband just went through this the last 2 weeks and I get your pain 💕 I'm sorry y'all are going through this. No one should ever have to experience this.

[@alisonkielyohara6185]

I am so sorry! My husband and I went through this 2 years ago with out first pregnancy. It was the hardest thing I had dealt with in my life. Emotions are uncontrollable. My only advice is to feel how you feel and dont let anyone tell you you should feel different! That baby was and always will be yours. Sending all my love!

[@saraberset7238]

My husband and I went through this exact same thing a few months ago. A lot of highs and lows throughout the whole process. It’s something no one will understand until they have experienced it. Lean on each other, take care of yourself and hug that sweet baby girl of yours.

[@cheyenneadelle5449]

I can't even imagine how tough this is especially with everything going on in the world right now I will be sending prayers but whatever happens the subscribers are supportive

[@rebeccamunoz8533]

You’ve always been so connected with us all, and I feel like I personally know you. You deciding to share this is so admiring. I’ll be praying for both of you. 💕

[@sarahpelayo8149]

My husband and I went through a miscarriage in July last year 1 day after our daughter's 3rd birthday. It was an absolutely heartbreaking time for us and when we got pregnant a couple of months later we were terrified of being heartbroken again but we just had our beautiful baby boy on May 4th so just stay strong and know that good things will come in the future. Everything happens for a reason. Lots of love! We ate lots of ice cream and went to puppy stores when we were hurting and it definitely helped us get through the tough times! ❤

[@veemichelle9818]

I just found out today at 6+1 weeks that my pregnancy was unviable and it was the hardest more surreal experience I’ve ever had. I am still processing it and heartbroken but I immediately thought of you guys and how you had your happy ending and wanted to watch this video again after experiencing this because you guys really do give me hope ❤️

[@stefanyelizabeth]

I am so sorry for your loss. I went through a miscarriage in September and it was one of the toughest things to go through. You are so strong. I will be keeping you in my thoughts ❤️

[@deborahb3501]

Arie I love how supportive of Lauren you are. It took alot of courage for you both to share this very vulnerable moment with us your video audience. Take care. Praying for better days ahead for your family.

[@erineberhard]

So much respect for Arie I knew from the day you and Lauren went on your first date that you both made each other stronger 🧡Arie you are a amazing husband and father. And Lauren being a mommy just comes natural for you. Thank you for sharing your happily ever after with us. The next couple of years are going to fly by. I know we all here it, but my son turned 18 in October and my husband and I will celebrate our 20 year wedding anniversary, I was 19 and he was 25 ... God definitely has a plan for the two of you and always remember when ever things seem to be a struggle. Together you make it through ❤The love between Lauren and Arie is truly a blessing that was meant to be ❤

[@momma-smashly5932]

Hey Lauren. Trust me when I say I know what you’re going through & I know it’s really difficult for others to understand the pain. I’ve had a few myself-first one was exactly like yours which was a missed miscarriage (8 weeks). My second one was worse at 12 and the 3rd I got to 25 weeks. This is my first time ever admitting that publicly. I know it’s just comments in KZbin that will never been seen but still, I get extremely choked up just trying to find the courage to actually type this out right now so I guess that’s some amount of progress right? I know you probably want someone to say or do something that just makes it go away-even just for a moment but I think we both know that can’t happen so I will say that time; like anything does help make it just a little bit easier. You guys are absolutely right that it isn’t talked about enough so I am soooooo super proud of you for finding that courage on top of everything else. Arie, you should be incredibly proud of her-seriously. I send you both lots of ❤️ and many prayers. Everything does happen for a reason and just remember to trust in that fact. You have a beautiful baby girl who just turned 1 year old and I know you guys will continue to grow your amazing family someday! Sending blessings! ❤️ , Ash & kiddos

[@jb0ys89]

I absolutely adore you guys. I love the way you are with each other. I’m so sorry about what happened. I know it’s hard. Lauren you’re so pure and good, you guys deserve the best! Ugh my heart hurts

[@nicolea1149]

My heart breaks for you. I’ve had 4 miscarriages and I wouldn’t wish the emotional pain of them on anyone. Prayers to you two that you get your rainbow baby soon. ❤️🌈

[@taylormorgan1600]

It feels weird “liking” this video, but I love you guys and I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I can’t begin to understand, but my thoughts and prayers are with you both ❤️

[@AniWey]

My heart was breaking when I was watching this. Thank you for sharing your story and being so transparent about whats going on.

[@amandanicolich9444]

Thanks for sharing this video! I had a miscarriage at 6 weeks and two months later I got pregnant with my now 2 year old daughter. Take this month to mourn for your loss, it IS okay to feel that way you are feeling and to have your thoughts consumed by this, it WILL get better♥️

[@raw8565]

Lauren looks beautiful when she got the good news in her green outfit with her wavy hair I love that look!

[@chancecampbell7631]

Raquel Weinstein yes! So stunning!

[@Mark_R_Tho]

I’ve been through this, Arie. I understand this pain as a guy who was going to be a dad once. Hugs to you both. And thank you for being so transparent. It helps people to know that they aren’t alone.

[@humankaleidoscope4989]

I totally agree. I don't think I've seen such an up-front presentation of it... I'm so thankful they let us into their journey. I think people need to know this can happen. It's weird that it's been rarely talked about until recently.

[@thatGirl411]

I’m so sorry for your loss Lauren and Arie! I’ve been there and saying “don’t think about it” isn’t fair. The grief might hit you at different moments moving forward. I especially found guilt in my initial stress that the pregnancy was too soon after my first child and felt almost like I wished the baby away. I quickly learned that those feelings were not real, not helpful and not true. This is just part of your story and you can honour this baby through your love of Alessi and any future children. My advice: is let yourself feel those feelings, don’t try to forget or not think about it, and just appreciate the love that you can share with each other and Alessi. 💕

[@michums14]

My heart is breaking for you both! I am in amazement of your openness and I pray that it touches others and helps those that have struggled to know that they are not alone!!

[@coriannevlogs8231]

You’re going to have the most beautiful rainbow baby one day. Prayers for y’all 💜

[@olgameow3804]

What’s a rainbow 🌈 baby? A gay 👶🏻?

[@caseymariedaniels6941]

Now they just had twins boy and A girl wow God is good!!!!!

[@alicox7792]

🌈 love you two. You’re amazing parents and so sorry that you went through this. Thank you for sharing this private thing you could have chosen to keep private. It really does help others out there that have went through the same thing. 🌈

[@jessicaherring3197]

My husband and I tried for 2 years to get pregnant. We finally got a positive sign and we were beyond happy and so excited for the future, only to go to the first ultrasound and hear the same news as you received. It was heart breaking. Soul crushing. I can’t even explain it, but people who have gone through the same thing know that feeling. But exactly 2 months later, yet another positive pregnancy test. At the ultrasound Appointment we finally saw that tiny glimmer of light through all The darkness. And now, we have a 2 year old little girl, AND our little baby boy. Good things are in your future. Don’t loose hope❤️

[@rhamlin21]

Lauren & Arie, You are by far two for the most incredible people. My heart goes out to you. Just know that millions love you and will support you both.

[@lexirollender3034]

So soo much love for you guys. I especially love how positive arie is throughout-reassuring lauren that it’s going to be okay. You can tell you guys work v well together. I believe you will see that little baby again on the other side. You are still it’s momma, lauren! ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

[@meaghantraynor]

Such a hard thing to share :( i experienced a miscarriage before i had my son last year. it is such a horrible heartbreak but it gets better eventually and you are so strong Lauren.

[@marysun1119]

Hi Lauren and Arie, thank you for sharing this incredibly tough moment in your lives. It is extremely powerful when celebrities speak out because your platform can end the stigma/taboo surrounding these topics (i.e miscarriage, mental health etc). Many people admire and look up to you so your words and actions land harder and have bigger potential to make a huge difference. I believe without a doubt that you guys will have another bundle of joy in the near future. On an unrelated note, Lauren, please make a video about your eyelashes and how to take care of them when wearing them!

[@ars2160]

Thanks for sharing your journey in such a beautiful way. I went through a very similar process (found out I was pregnant by taking a test to prove I was NOT pregnant), and then miscarried about a week later. You capture so well the uncertainty surrounding things not quite feeling *right* but still trying to hope for the best. Thanks for sharing your story.

[@karlamichellechase]

I feel for you. I can see you’ve been through so much. I send my condolences for your loss.

[@christinak.1357]

Lauren and Arie, I went through the same thing! It is so difficult to comprehend and a rollercoaster of emotions. You are not alone and I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers! God bless you and your beautiful family. ❤🙏

[@janecatelani3072]

Thank you for sharing. Before I had my miscarriage I didn’t know anyone who had had one,..... no one talked about it, so my husband and I grieved and mourned all alone for months before I finally told someone and then the outpouring of support was HUGE!! I found out SO many of my relatives and friends had lost their babies too, but no one talked about it!!!! I think it is important to talk about it so no one feels alone, so thank you for sharing your story, and heartbreak

[@kayceemilecki757]

Thank you for sharing this. I watched this when it first came out but I’m currently going through a missed miscarriage and this just hit differently now. Our stories share so many similarities and I’m comforted in knowing I’m not alone 🤍. Thanks for being vulnerable

[@renaribeiro]

Lauren is GORGEOUS!! How does she have the best hair and everything?! 🤗💛

[@shannonomelia3535]

My heart absolutely breaks for the both of you. I’m so sorry. I love how you both are so real and how you are sharing your story. You guys are my favorite to watch on KZbin. I’m praying for you.

[@kaitlandjobes909]

Just getting around to watching this and I feel your pain. We suffered a missed miscarriage in March and it was my first pregnancy. Just an upsetting thing but I'm praying for you guys!

[@familylifegoals453]

Thank you so much for sharing , I feel I went through a similar experience . I battled infertility and went through Ivf. lost the baby at 18 weeks , had to deliver him naturally , had many complications during birth and afterwards . Took another 3 years before I became pregnant with my daughter. Had a very complicated pregnancy , pulmonary embolisms , very high risk pregnancy . Delivered at 37 weeks . When she turned one, I did a pregnancy test for fun and was extremely surprised it was positive , but I miscarried 4 days later . The next month I also had a positive pregnancy test . At the 7 week mark , went to get the ultrasound and baby was measuring 5 weeks . Then 2 weeks later baby was measuring 6 weeks ( I was supposed to Be 9 weeks ) miscarried à couple days later . I felt very lonely . The loss still hurts but time heals . Thinking of you mama ❤️

[@rachelthornton3533]

I had a miscarriage three months ago and it was my first pregnancy. I feel like it will change how i feel about my future pregnancies forever. Thank you for sharing this. I found a lot of comfort in it 💗

[@Elizabeth-lj1vm]

I’m so sorry. Lauren, your having to go to those appointments alone is terrible. Praying for you both.

[@rebecarose22]

Lauren and Arie my heart breaks for you both 😞 Keep you chin up and talk with God. Your next little bean will be SUCH a blessing! Love you guys!!!

[@caseymariedaniels6941]

Reading your comment A year later and they just had twins boy and girl so happy for them

[@kristengaither7606]

I went through this last year and it broke our heart. It’s was mine and my husbands first child. Nothing prepares you for the news when you are so hopeful and excited. Hopefully you guys have a beautiful and healthy baby soon. Much love