Pregnant and missing: What happened to Bethany Decker?

[@paulasteinjeffrey]

So, the mother knew she was living with a man who was abusive, threatening her and not allowing her to leave, but doesn't think there's something wrong when she doesn't hear from her daughter for 3 weeks? The mind boggles

[@denicesmith4620]

Mother is an idiot

[@Mookara1st]

Paula the koala smh...same thng i said!!

[@Bethany0420]

I think the mother is responsible, she's ignorant!!

[@indakgalak]

Amber Phillips-Hall Exactly! I noticed the same thing... Oh my gosh! It gives me chills how calloused and cold she was the entire time... Even Vicky was teary during their encounter and the Mom was all smiles... What the heck?!! I say, investigate the mother too please...

[@lzlz21213]

Mom has dead eyes, no empathy.

[@stephaniegonzalez3747]

Anyone else think it's weird they didnt mention she was married in the beginning? Just threw it in there like, oh yea! Weird..

[@johnzelenak9432]

BABY? THEN SAID MARRIED THEN SAID HE WAS IN TOWN DAY BEFORE! NOW APARTMENT EMPTY, NO MENTION OF MENS CLOTHES NOTHING!

[@ellydevino832]

I was saying that to my mom 😂

[@peterf.229]

@@johnzelenak9432 she was living seperately from her husband iwth the BF who possibly killed her, or the husband .

[@jerrypino5608]

selena brandt they have to get it to it it has nothing to do with the story

[@Emogirlkickass]

John Smith so you’re saying she deserved what happened to her? “Play stupid games, win stupid prizes” Because that statement is literally putting ALL the blame on her and saying she deserved what she had coming to her( maybe she deserved a break up but not being killed/disappearing...most people don’t deserve to die), saying what you did also sounds like you’re saying “if she didn’t cheat she wouldn’t have been in that horrible situation/killed/disappeared”....that is totally fckd up and is victim blaming, which is even more fckd up,

[@ambermullenax9813]

She was married to a guy who seemed decent... and yet had an affair with THAT?!?!

[@gb_the_accuser]

@Jamilla Dobson that sounds depressing, unhealthy and lonely. Don't be afraid to find a healthy healthy relationship. The world is a beautiful place.

[@sayianin]

@Jamilla Dobson where did you find info her husband was abusive? all I can find is they had "marital problems due to him being away for long periods of time" which I think translates she was lonely and bored so she found replacement:P

[@jasonvoorhees6416]

Yeah she doesn’t sound like such a great girl. That guy is in a place with people getting killed daily and she’s home fucking that gangster dishwasher

[@SP-qo3pd]

I agree- she married a stand-up guy who served in the war to protect all of us, not just his wife and son.. only to start fucking a guy who fell in love and couldn't let go. The real victims are her son, husband, and even the BF.

[@lauriefaithprescott]

@Jamilla Dobson im.with u. I stay single. Besides too busy to date

[@mick5330]

It’s been 9 years, so her mother has probably reached the point where she’s accepted things and she just wants to get facts out.

[@jamellfoster6029]

TRUE... Her poor Mom... May God continue to give her strength...

[@scottydoo29]

@@jamellfoster6029 there is no god empty head

[@sirenege]

@@scottydoo29 dude, chill, some people believe, others may not, let people believe what they want and try to give emotional support as they want=

[@jamellfoster6029]

@@scottydoo29 Oh yes there is a God. And He sees, hears, and knows EVERYTHING!!!! Only a fool will say that there is no God. It takes a real basket case to be an atheist... I could NEVER be friends with an atheist as their very thoughts make my stomach turn!!!!!

[@Bulskee]

Scott francis just because your heart is empty don’t force your unhappiness onto others

[@yummyjackalmeat]

A 16 min video??? Not in 5 parts??? They finally listened!!! Wow

[@robertonocturno4043]

yummyjackalmeat 💪

[@Itsbearguy]

Just a re-upload of a 3 part story that they first broadcast on October 6th and 7th 2015 that they put into one video.

[@TwistedBlueEyes]

Right? Thought autoplay was on, lol.

[@heighton7206]

yummyjackalmeat yayyyy

[@Starrlight1989]

They should do this with every video...wonder how long it's gonna take until they finally get it.

[@michaelreyes9283]

The woman is a terminator, broken neck and a bullet in the head, still got up and ran for help

[@deadspazz]

Adrenaline is a wonderful thing.

[@euryarzate8699]

It wasn’t her time to leave this world 💪🏼😇

[@amandahann3896]

That's what I'm saying if she has a broken neck how the hell is she running and a shot to the head on top of that no way her neck was broken she wouldn't be able to move without stumbling or move at all

[@gb_the_accuser]

She is amazing!

[@cierrasunset460]

@@amandahann3896 that isn't true my friends dad dove into the pool drunk broke his neck and didn't know it until he woke up sober at 2am. I guess it would depend on what part is broken and how badly

[@sopht1033]

I’m confused why not speaking for 3 weeks wasn’t suspicious when the mother was looking after her daughters kid???

[@tracypatzo2024]

That is kinda odd

[@alejandravega3347]

Good point I would have went looking for her after a fue days of not knowing where she is and and more when she didn't do anything to find out about her son

[@My6lvs]

Because Mom is an idiot. Knowing everything that was going on and still did nothing to help her get out. And she’s not worried that her daughter isn’t picking up the phone,looking for her son ?? After 3 weeks she asks the grandparents to go down there instead of her, and has the grandparents call the police. Ignorance at its finest

[@monica-ke1dk]

I barely go two days without texting my mom. I’d be concerned after a week, at most!

[@cokecinderella5520]

i study in a different country from where my parents live and when i once disappeared for 5 days my dad almost bought a ticket to come out and see if i’m ok 🤣🤣

[@ladylacy64]

As a parent who has lost 2 children I have to say I get the mom. She is coming from a place of detachment. Its her way of coping.

[@macyb8914]

Im sorry for your loss.

[@jamellfoster6029]

TRUE. Plus she's raising her daughter's child...

[@HazelsMomFurever]

How did you lose 2 children may i ask?

[@ladylacy64]

Marissa, in 2000 one of my 5 yr old twins was in a drowning accident. His twin is 26 now and happily married. In 2010, my oldest son was murdered was murdered in a drunken brawl. I tell people to live every moment. Share your love. You never know.

[@alysononoahu8702]

What I thought

[@shannonwalburn7159]

Am I missing something here? Her daughter, who's child you have, is in an abusive relationship, you don't hear from her for three weeks and you don't worry? I'm sorry. There's something wrong with that picture.

[@yaima0901]

Shannon Walburn hell im not in an abusive relationship I’m 31 responsible af and my mom still calls me every single day and she makes sure she speaks to me lol

[@CulturalOasis]

Don’t forget that she was cheating on her husband.

[@Wynyan6]

its already a year after last time my mother call me

[@yanitataylor20]

I would say sorry not sorry. You shouldn’t say sorry to the mom bc she makes it seem like she doesn’t care

[@michellecornell9308]

Dont be surprised my husband beat me 1 week after my wedding did they help ? No 18 years of torture dont talk to me about family

[@ninaferg]

I find it weird that the mother wasn't concerned after not hearing from her in 3 weeks... very suspicious

[@vp363]

Nina Ferguson ... Right... if I don’t hear from my daughter in one damn day I’m on my way to the school... GOT ME MESS UP!!! ✈️ 1st class!!!

[@simonw1313]

Beyond bizzare giving the troubles she was having with the Ronald character. He had three weeks to tidy up after presumably killing her, if he only had a day they'd have likely got forensics on him.

[@cindyholloway7441]

Nina Ferguson Right? I’m over 50, live fifteen mins from my Mom and if she doesn’t hear from me in one day she is calling. Very weird on her Moms end.

[@snoop4470]

I'm 35 year old male and dont go more than a couple days without talking to my parents. She said havent talked to her in 3 weeks like it was completely normal.

[@Megan-1017]

I don't go a day without talking to my dad. Like 3 weeks, never ever. My dad and I went a week and he asked please keep in touch every day, I said okay. Mom is weird.

[@ceciliamagicworld239]

This mom is giving me some weird vibes.

[@My6lvs]

Cecilia Magicworld she’s an idiot. She knew everything that was going on and did nothing to help her daughter out of that nasty situation. But now she’s crying out for help we’ll it’s too late now for her daughter.

[@eatate4]

i know right. its not normal at all if close family members dont contact or say hi after 3 weeks esp going to college.. usually parents talk to you the moment u hit your dorm...

[@briannacortinas2773]

RIGHT !!

[@smalltowngirlbigcityheart3724]

Cecilia Magicworld Same!!

[@smalltowngirlbigcityheart3724]

I am so sorry to say this but I hope she took the polygraph too.

[@Olivia-ek9ib]

Everyone needs to stop saying the Mom isn’t “emotional enough”. Stop. That’s not how grief works. Everyone processes things differently. You don’t get to decide how someone acts while talking about the DEATH OF THEIR CHILD.

[@LolaMerazRico]

👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

[@theartofbeingfemale]

👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏💯💪

[@stickwithlene5906]

Get the hell out of here with that ...she was missing 21days until her mom report her missing..her mom don't give a shit if u did y would she not talk to more often her mom knew about the abuse n also she had a kids plus one in the way so it be almost a month until her mom notice something was wrong... u would think she would call everyday or every other day due to her situation ...so let feel sorry 4 her mom fxxking sike!!!

[@fundisiwefundi2625]

Honestly!!

[@cholebell8306]

She’s not dead stfu

[@phieq]

Her daughter's baby living with her and no contact for 3 weeks...odd!

[@darkkiss7247]

Very odd.

[@icedmocha5264]

Not that odd. The woman seems like she makes bad irresponsible decisions all the time.

[@sarahkelly3234]

Not sure why the Mom wouldn't talk to her daughter every day or so regarding the little kid. Did he not wanna hear her while she was doing school & away? Shady Granny.

[@AshleyLewis]

sarah kelly sometimes mother’s do not care about their children to that extent. Sometimes they just unload their kid off on someone else and goes about their lives like nothing is wrong. I’ve seen it first hand

[@lovingpurrs8388]

Sophie M-S yeah but she was a cheater a free spirit so obviously not caring about her past love child lol

[@FRSHDUMBLED0RE]

the mom kinda gives me the chills

[@jenniferstuart1473]

So true.

[@kevin6293]

She’s a Fox.

[@jennycheeks9215]

Omg she totally gave me this chills right before she showed the pic.. literally chills

[@cardsharkmaster]

exatcly! she has those cock eyed steve buscemi eyes

[@diegorockerqt4244]

Is anyone else surprised that this episode is actually an episode? 16 minutes and 35 seconds long??? Good job, Crime Watch Daily!!! You listened to the people!

[@rosem1740]

Right lol

[@robertonocturno4043]

diegorockerqt exactly I thought it was going to be a 5 part thing

[@Itsbearguy]

Unfortunately it is just a rebroadcast of the case they did October 6th & 7th of 2015. It was a 3 part story that they just put into one video without any new information.

[@bayareabezzy4087]

It's also a rerun lol

[@diegorockerqt4244]

It's okay if it's old or a rerun. I'm just happy it's all combined into one segment so I don't have to go searching for parts 2, 3, 4, or 5! Lol

[@hrstackhouse]

Stop calling it a relationship, it was an affair.

[@destineebernard9973]

ikr

[@elle9563]

It's an affair only when men do it 😶😶😶😶

[@SunniDae333]

Yeah, it seems like they're trying to paint her in a better light but it was clearly an affair

[@upsidedownyt7584]

A FAT affair

[@upsidedownyt7584]

An affair with a couple of fat as’s

[@cellyspeaks1062]

This story sounds very, very messy and the mom sounds completely emotionally detached.

[@AshababyO]

LovelyMayhem Defense/coping mechanism. I feel she cares. But she has to cope. She is raising her grandson.

[@catsNplanets]

Her friend showed more emotion than her own mother.

[@malefic2272]

That's weird I would be crying a waterfall..Just saying that's a little weird..

[@roleat]

She's been dealing with it in a different way. Has a grandson to take care of so it's better she maintain composure.

[@TheSFCjaymo]

Amanda K in the podcast I heard the Mom wasn’t even in the picture!!! It was her grandma that had custody of the Bethany’s baby!!

[@TheSFCjaymo]

Amanda K oh the podcast is called “Crime Junkies “!!!

[@thatcaliforniabeauty818]

Maybe she’s on antidepressants? They make you tell nothing, no matter how bad you wanna feel something.

If my mom doesn’t hear from me for 3 hours she panics, and I’m a 23 year old man. How could this lady stay calm for 3 weeks not hearing from her daughter?

[@morley364]

I'm 22, and I was too busy to text my mom back for 12 hours and she called my work looking for me. Then another time she couldn't get a response from me for 2 days (she had accidentally blocked me), and she had my entire family spam me with texts and calls. 3 weeks is absolutely insane.

[@wilkoweers_8612]

I call my mom every 2 to 3 days and I visit her sometimes it’s not that bad

[@karizmamarousek8914]

Bigudi Müzik Exactly

[@kbheda]

Exactly that was very strange

[@reverie8223]

My parents don't keep up with me so it makes perfect sense... not every parent is overly attentive of their grown-ass sons/daughters

[@paradiseplayer5103]

It’s crazy to me how people will be married with children and stuck in a love triangle all at the tender age of 22. Damn!

[@justinmarshall5774]

Yeah.. I don't feel sorry for her at all.. I know it's fucked up, but I don't. 💁‍♂️

[@yenbig101]

But her husband was out in Afghanistan. She was worried he might be dead.

[@Kuwkay]

@@justinmarshall5774 thats not a reason to kill her 🙄😕

[@QuietBloom]

I agree! And looking at her mom, I can’t believe she’s old enough to have been the mother of a 22 year-old who had gone missing 9 years previously!!

[@MelancholyArmy]

I mean she was doing the same things many 22 year olds do in college because they are immature. That's why most people can't handle being married that young, and I can't imagine the stress of going to college and having a full family at 22.

[@star_light_kid]

My mum doesn’t hear from me in three weeks? Best believe she’s on the next flight out.

[@ginaflood8246]

Shit for me if I don't hear from my daughter for hours I'm already thinking something is wrong. But that's just the kinda mom I am.

[@thequeennijah9854]

Star light Kid My mum doesn’t hear from me in the next the Minutes! Best believe she on the counter looking

[@madysonworrell9094]

More like 8 hours

[@morley364]

Based on past experiences, if my mom doesn't hear back from me in 24 hours, she will have my entire family call me and will call my work looking for me. I'm pretty sure she would call the police after 3 days.

[@ItsmeBish584]

Yikes. All the commenters here seem have over bearing mothers!! I couldn't stand someone smothering me like that. Seriously.. a couple hours without hearing from you and they will call the police?? That's not being a good parent, that is being over bearing and borderline mental illness.

[@lizmarie6953]

I mean she cheated on her husband and she had talked to the mom about the guy being abusive. And the mom is okay with this?? Knowing shes married to another man?? The morals of this family are nonexistent.

[@Nicole-si3ck]

Liz Marie yep but shes did not deserve to die!..

[@simonsi9027]

Jeannine Lewis that was not her point. The point was that her mother didn’t seem to have bother to talk some sense into her daughter when she told her that her sidefuckboi was beating the shit outta her while her husband was deployed.🤷🏾‍♂️

[@KrDizzy14]

That's all you could focus on with this story? Really?

[@bonzie321]

Liz, I thought that she was nuts in the beginning when she was getting a degree in global environmental change.

[@waypay1]

@@bonzie321 Same.

[@lorenzoelliott2429]

Mom sounds like an old teacher talking about her student she sort of remembers lol

[@brittanysucks2955]

Lorenzo Elliott LOLOL

[@valhorbie9489]

I seriously thought she was just reporting not the grieving mother

[@masynfranklin670]

But if you think about it, Lorenzo you’re really being rude. How would you feel if you got called an old teacher who can’t remember anything. This is a stressful situation, and it’s hard to remember everything in this case. So please don’t be rude about this, i had a family member go missing and i still can’t Remember what exactly so please don’t make fun of her.

[@jessicawhite1437]

@@valhorbie9489 K

[@vanessadotson8067]

@@masynfranklin670 God bless you

[@pretty-in-pink5816]

To everyone speaking on the mother: it's been nine years. she's done her thinking many times over. this is her coping, her shutting off her emotions in order to speak.

[@mtio2807]

She’s cold. She knew her daughter was a fuk up and didn’t care. Only reason she went looking for her after 3 yrs is because that child support money hadn’t come in.

[@jleighbo]

Parents raise your sons to respect the women in their lives and raise your daughters to love themselves enough to walk away from any type of abuse or violence !!

[@robertonocturno4043]

King Ghost fact

[@robertonocturno4043]

Parents raise your sons to respect women obviously and raise your daughters to respect men and not cheat it's a 2 way street

[@yvonnesaldana7347]

Raise your children to respect people who deserve respect and to not cheat on their gf/bf/husband or wife.

[@icedmocha5264]

Raise your daughter not to cheat on their man.

[@lovingpurrs8388]

Jleighbo Parents raise your daughters good enough to do not bring strangers home to sleep with around their babies specially when they r married lol

[@lunacally4903]

She seems pretty happy for losing her daughter ...

[@happydayz7857]

Luna Cally she did?

[@DiabeticlySweet87]

Maybe her somewhat calm demeanor is her way of coping with the situation

[@kasiak3315]

All y'all sound so fucking illiterate.. Really why would a parent be happy of losing her child whyyy???? She cry about it yes, but she had to stay strong for her and her daughter baby. And yes she get to keep the baby but she have to cope with the little boy asking where is his mom all the time she it hurts her it really do. She's a mother that lost her daughter you don't know how she feel at all, so y'all needs to shut up.

[@Mookara1st]

Luna Cally lol how ??

[@betterbetty3542]

Luna Cally she wanted permanent custody of her child

[@nomic6131]

“a little bit of a pattern of abusing his girlfriends” strange word choice

[@brittaolson6550]

Nomi C Yes, and now it looks like he’s committed a little bit of a murder. What were they thinking?

[@yellowblanka6058]

He also did a little bit of drug dealing, pimping and had a slight tendency to hi-jack freight trucks, but otherwise a fine young man.

[@upsidedownyt7584]

A pattern of abusing his FAT girlfriend

[@jblue705]

@@brittaolson6550 😂

[@vibrantlotus8154]

@@brittaolson6550 😂

[@Johansen1000]

Why do a "good" and "smart" girl cheat on her husband "just because he was deployed overseas" with some total scumbag that abused her.

[@lifted3466]

Good riddance 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@showboat4613]

It happens all the time and it’s sad

[@WonderWoman48]

That's typical of a military dependent.

[@driley5004]

@@WonderWoman48 honestly, i need to know if that's a true statement. I see it all the time 😶

[@kaskaskas]

@@lifted3466 shut the fuck up that does not warrant murder you idiot. lmao if anyone cheats on you we know why

[@vjimenez8]

I thought the mom was just a news reporter lol

[@melissaivy5309]

Lol. I wasn't paying attention in the beginning, and I thought she was a lawyer.

[@didi012578]

Me too. I was only listening to this in the background and had to come back to replay 20 seconds to see who she was. I was surprised! Strange woman.

[@jamiehunter3387]

Me too... strange 👍

[@isabelramos4459]

miss_torres9 me too!!! She sounds so detached

[@sylviarose652]

she doesn't look like she's sad even towards the end while she was pleading if anyone has seen her,she kinda looked like she was smiling, how damn weird.

[@waddledee332]

I thought her mom was a reporter or something else than her mom

[@jasonfuentes4497]

Me too...i thought she was one of the detectives

[@jasmeen2334]

Me too and she don’t look like her daughter 🤔

[@MrDavid849]

I thought the same thing at first. I think the actual reporter had more emotion about the situation.

[@Amy_Stanmore]

Yes she’s nuts

[@bp7671]

Same

[@vmkoz]

why are people so afraid to just be single wtf

[@robertonocturno4043]

Some people can't face the reality of being single depression sets in

[@xL0stKIlah]

depression over what. . .

[@Dashiegamer2010]

vmkoz in the case of an abuse victim, it’s insanely difficult to leave. Especially after you’ve been degraded and worn down mentally. That and the constant fear that your abusive ex could try to kill or hurt you or someone you care for just to get you back. And like with the second woman, she got shot for trying to leave. And if you’re referring to why the guy abused his girlfriends to try and make them stay, he’s obviously a control freak. He needs things to go his way all the time, including not having consequences for his actions. If one little thing is out of place, it sets him off and well he is very much capable of killing someone. Idk if this helped to answer your question at all, but i hope it did 😊

[@sannahsaurus7025]

vmkoz I was with my ex for over 1 year, I was both mentally and physichally abused, the reason I didn’t leave was not cause I was afraid of being single. It was because he brainwashed me into thinking that’s all I deserved.

[@krizzsanchez4708]

I been single for over 5 years still happy lmao

[@eunicestone838]

I lost a daughter 33 years ago to cancer. There is a huge hole in my heart and in our family. I will never ever go a day without thinking of her. I too speak in a detached way. If I don't put up the strong front I would crumble. I have 3 other children so I can't very well do that.

[@eunicestone838]

@Claudine 27 I have Lupus. It is horrible

[@eunicestone838]

@Janice Brown I'm 62

[@eunicestone838]

@Janice Brown I will never be ok. I just get by.

[@eunicestone838]

@Mike Oxmall 62 and I'm a n OG.

[@SKC193]

I lost my daughter and only child 26 years ago. I know exactly how you feel. People are always so damned quick to judge! I’m sorry for your loss!

[@ounsselhachemi4896]

Mom: yes 😊, I think she is in danger 🤗.

[@xbtx6497]

"call the police 😍"

[@gregeggeddyed]

Yeah he was abusive 😀 didn't hear from her for 3 weeks lmao 🥰🤗

[@aquariusgreen7674]

Lmao yes

[@mileslrt9539]

Lmaoooo I feel kinda bad for how hard I laughed at this. The situation isn’t funny but this comment and the replies are hilarious.

[@maafia3855]

First Name Last Name i feel so bad for laughing😭

[@livingforJesus2120]

Wtf? In college, military wife, a mom, and in a relationship with another man... What do people be thinking? 🤯🤯🤯

[@Kim_Naine]

She wanted to change the World in a positive way 👌👌👌👌👌👌👌

[@rebelrose1385]

"What do people be thinking?" that literally doesn't make any sense.

[@valerieshaver2404]

Ida Floyd You said it.. not thinking at all

[@dalegribble5661]

Only about themselves

[@debbietuggle5356]

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[@nursey22]

-We're not sure she was the one posting on FB. -Who do you think was posting? -It had to be someone who had her account access. Thanks, Capt Obvious.... you're a regular Sherlock Holmes

[@bellaeva4348]

cyn 😂🤣

[@peterf.229]

really three suspects. husband, bf, mom. my guess still is on the abusive boyfriend, but I cant rule out from the info in this the other two suspects, least likely is the mom tho. husband might have found out and killed her or something, hell for all I know she is alive in some paradise somewhere but that is less likely of all scenarios. the bf using a lawyer is not like a shocking thing either. many people are innocent and hire lawyers. some arent innocent and hire lawyers. many people use public aide probono defenders after they are arrested.

[@niahsvision]

this comment😂😂

[@tommesiacooper1258]

Or a hacker 😳

[@tashawilliams8093]

😆

[@charmainebriggs4068]

When I first found out my son had died I was alone and I cried my eyes out the next day I had to put my grief aside to be strong for my daughter in-law and grandkids no-one new what I was going through because it never showed but when I was alone I cried and focused on the memories of him from his birth and right up to end Now I put all my energy into being there for his kids . Don't judge what you don't know

[@TeeNicole10]

RIP KING💙🙏 MAY GOD CONTINUE TO ORDER YOUR STEPS🙌🙏 AND BLESS HIS WIFE AND KIDS💞💞💞🙏

[@amandan6912]

Okay. She admits to her parents and friends how abusive this guy is and they do nothing about it??? If I said the word 'abuse' to my mother, or even the word 'control', she would have stopped what she was doing and drive multiple hours to my place and have my stuff packed and ready to go in no time to rescue me. This is soooooo off....

[@vickyham2013]

Really? So it's ok for a mother to start packing her grown daughters belongings and what, force her to leave? She's an ADULT, you can't MAKE her do ANYTHING!

[@amandan6912]

I'm aware of that. But most women that are being abused aren't strong enough to make a move like that. That's screaming for help. Look at what happened to her now.

[@krisquigley4497]

It's a mother's duty to at least TRY for crying out loud.

[@RBLong0928]

I would have used my 380 and if somehow that flubbed, my three brothers would have taken care of that problem in a hurry.

[@amandan6912]

@@krisquigley4497 YES!

[@brendaababey]

If the mom knew he was abusive and she was in danger why wait 21 days to report her missing or go check on her :( sad overall .

[@janashockley8263]

Brenda B Exactly!!!!!

[@GhostOfKotori]

I KNOW RIGHT

[@icedmocha5264]

she's busy raising her daughter's son.

[@avalonpark1574]

Her mother is really calm, I thought she was the detective talking about the case. Her friend actually cried, and her mother did not, that is strange.

[@Amy_Stanmore]

Avalon Park yeah same here I has to rewind it again

[@La.TrinasWorld]

Omg I thought the mom was a detective tok she is weirdly calm my grandad died 6 years ago abs I still cry and sometimes can't talking about him without ateast getting teary eyes so just imagine what a mother feel like she is weirdly ok with it and calm

[@infinitefire7212]

Avalon Park maybe they had an estranged real... that’s the only reasoning I can conclude as to why, regardless of what the relationship was, she didn’t report her daughter missing..the grandmother did...it could be also because she survived...

[@alexclementine3966]

@@Amy_Stanmore i

[@alexclementine3966]

Well I have this thing were something so unbelievable happens that my emotion slips away.

[@SuperTonyony]

The comments section in a nutshell: half the people want the mom to show more emotion, and the other half think the victim deserved to die. There, I saved you from having to read them and possibly throw up.

[@nycduppy9661]

She didn't deserve to die she just went out her way to die

[@tangrey6208]

The mother is very strong emotionally in my opinion

[@LUTfam4]

That's exactly what I was thinking. People can be awful. Smh

[@erickr.5142]

The problem is not that she doesn't show emotion, the problem is that she knew her daughter lived with an abusive man and still didn't report her missing after THREE WHOLE WEEKS without hearing from her. Her friends noticed she was missing before her own mother.

[@agentcrypto7741]

@@nycduppy9661 ayooo

[@alldemmochalattesxoxo16]

Three weeks since her mom had talked to her before she became alarm knowing she had serious issues with a man who was abusive?? 😒🤔 ok

[@janashockley8263]

AllDemMochaLattes xoxo Exactly!!!

[@tinamcleod3928]

AllDemMochaLattes xoxo I know right... lightbulbs anyone... That was totally bizzaro !!

[@ThursdayASMR]

I thought the same damn thing. Something tells me they were not close at all. Why else would she tolerate and be a part of such toxic relationships.

[@bequietkitty]

I rarely talk to my mom. So.

[@brittaolson6550]

LOTS of college kids are busy and overwhelmed and don't keep in touch. My kids are like that. And we were called inseparable when they were kids. It's a stage of life.

[@stephihampton]

I'm gonna say Bethany went long periods of time without contacting her mother, so therefore her mother didn't get alarmed right away. Secondly her mother was already taking care of her first child yet she is pregnant again? I'm gonna guess Bethany wasn't very responsible. Doesn't mean she should have died, I feel for this family!! We all make mistakes.

[@R.Oates7902]

@Steph Hampton No one ever deserves to be murdered. Yet another tragic story!

[@svetlanamishina]

I don’t feel bad for a slut who was cheating on her husband who is protecting her freedom and ability to live in peace.. she deserves all she got..

[@kalen3719]

So let me get this straight... the mom didn’t think it was weird that Bethany hadn’t called in 3 weeks to talk to her son? No. No excuse.

[@sayianin]

just shows what kind of person Bethany was:/ it must have been in character for her to just don't give a fuck. I personally knew a girl who left her 1-year-old child with family and went on a trip which supposed to last a week but got prolonged to 2 months. Didn't call once they only knew she was alive because of Instagram photos she kept posting. She only called and promised to come back when family threatened her to go to the police and file child abandonment case.

[@Bravo-Too-Much]

The mom was fucking Ronald too. Read the latest articles on this.

[@margoty5654]

These cops are incompetent! Can they not look to see which computer made the FB posts after her disappearance? Seems like they aren’t trying very hard. Sad

[@fernandgamboa2848]

Well... Look at them do they seem competent to you ?

[@kryscynthiasilguero5448]

Her friend is showing more emotions then her own mother.

[@JustKelso1993]

How devastating for her husband though. Imagine finding out all at once that your wife was cheating on you, was missing, and wasn't sure if the baby she was carrying was yours. And all of that after being in the middle of a war. That is just heartbreaking.

[@svetlanamishina]

She is a horrible human being and yes her dyin is horrible but karma is a bitch.. that’s what she gets for cheating on a man who is fightin for her freedom.. don’t feel one bit bad 4 her.. she chose to be a slut and knew he was abusive.. if she wanted 2 be a scum everything is on her!!! Don’t feel 1 bit bad 4 her lol

[@charlesberry6440]

Oh, go cry the blues somewhere else you prick! That guy deserves no sympathy

[@svetlanamishina]

@@charlesberry6440 oh but he does cause his wife is a cheating whore

[@TooHooWrong]

In more recent updates, it was revealed that he already knew the baby was that guys. He came back from deployment for about two weeks, they went to Hawaii and at that time he already saw she was 3 months pregnant. There was no physical way the baby was his, and he straight up said he didn’t care at the time because he just wanted to spend time with her and their son.

[@carlycavagnaro8937]

So glad im not the only one who seems to think her mom is a lil chilling

[@juliaciepiela7747]

it’s her coping mechanism

[@ItsmeBish584]

@Piatequila thank you!! Finally someone who gets it.

[@mindysmith8078]

She hadn’t contacted her mom who was raising her child for her in over 21 days and the mom didn’t take notice??? Until friends notice Facebook post not sounding like her 🙄

[@jacks433]

I find it crazy that her son didn’t live with her. I’m a full time student and have my own apartment and full time job and a 4 year old. I find it also crazy that she had time to date but not have time to watch her son.

[@indiashante1560]

A little thousand miles away from my mother and I am 35 years old if I do not text or call my mom by at least 2:00 p.m. she's on my phone calling me.

[@fernandgamboa2848]

I couldn't believe it too , but then I saw the mother giving the interview and I said to myself oh ok I see why now .

[@happydayz7857]

Ladies PLEASE LISTEN! Stick to school and forget the boys for a while ok? Get your foundation established, a career. Guys can wait.

[@happydayz7857]

N T I said guys can wait. Never said all guys are bad.

[@corinnefrusciante3706]

Establish a career before dating or forming a relationship?! Are you mad? College is the time for making mistakes and learning what type of people you want in your life. Someone having had a terrible experience doesn’t and shouldn’t mean that women should be nun like until they’re older. This was a rare occurrence, not common place. And if lessons aren’t learnt while young they’ll simply be made when people are older. Youth is for living not being solely concerned with a career

[@hankmoody940]

@N T because you have sense.

[@hankmoody940]

you need to learn to live a little and learn to not let others actions cause stereotyping or cause u to make others around you pay for mistakes they did not make.

[@mr.sneakunderyourbed2353]

N T Knowledge>>>>>>>Laid

[@ariannah4256]

She is the least emotional mother I've ever seen .. talking about her daughters disappearance like it was a news article.

[@becca-u5w]

Arianna H some people handle things differently

[@ItsmeBish584]

It was a news article. Its also been years. She knows her daughter is dead. Crying and being emotional wont bring her back.

[@taynalara2713]

I seen some who don't cry for a lost one I seen her not shed a tear for her son she only did that when she was alone

[@Kekkndslgnlwnh]

shutting her emotions off is probably how she can even get a single word out or how she copes with it

[@Saddiesinclaire]

It is emotional blocking. Lots of people do it when experiencing trauma.

[@gooberbeans7972]

How do all these people who love her go 21 days without talking to her?

[@didi012578]

@Piatequila So do I but my mother would've been blowing up my phone!

[@JuicyJ2013]

Didi Cortez agreed

[@ItsmeBish584]

Some people just dont have that type of relationship with family and friends. I haven't spoke to my mother or siblings in months. Not because we dont care about each other but because we all have really busy lives. Many families dont talk to each other daily. Its actually quite normal. Not to mention in this story the abusive bf isolated her and cut off contact with many people in her life, he also used her phone and pretended to be her on social media and through text messages with family and friends. So if you're getting updates on social media and text messages from who you think is her then you wouldn't think something is wrong.

[@kayt4564]

Right! My mom and sister would’ve had the swat team at my house just after a day or two of not hearing from me.

[@macristo33]

It is amazing how smart the victim was in high school, a plus 4.0 GPA. But when it came to making decisions outside of school, book smarts did not prepare her for reality. I am noticing that most crimes happen as a result of bad decision making (i.e., committing adultery, doing drugs, hanging out with the wrong crowd, having a kid way too early on in life, etc.).

[@jimwerther]

Absolutely

[@orchidtreasure1484]

Book intelligence certainly does not always transcend to street smarts or common sense. I hope Bethany gets full justice, and that others learn from her story.

[@peggypeggy4137]

It's so sad because the potential to be anything is there. I think when it comes to what they think is love/attraction, all sanity can temporarily go out the window. Bethany was a beautiful woman who made the mistake of falling for a very bad con man who must have been charming in the beginning.

[@catcater7532]

She was 22 married had a kid and cheating..... too early for everything

[@AM-rj9xb]

I dont understand what this comment has to do with someone killing her 😕

[@AM-rj9xb]

@dank I didnt say you were but you must feel like you are. She didn't die because of an affair. She died because the person who killed her...killed her.

[@Beefer-e4j]

And her mom has her kid. Smh.

[@laurenmorgan3939]

I had my first kid at 24, married young. Even at 24, parenting was hard.

[@thisisthebestnameever9090]

@@AM-rj9xb With that logic you aren't being arrested for murdering someone you're under arrest because the cops put the cuffs on you... Her affair may be a main contributing factor to why someone would feel like killer her. The murder is wrong but there is a reason for someone to murder them most of the time

[@bethjedd392]

This creeps me out. It's awful to have a mom who knows ur in danger and doesn't act . I relate to that. Being a mother now I can't rationalize that kind of coldness, aloofness or denial....idk why she wouldn't act sooner.

[@lisalaws7427]

bethany jedd EXACTLY 👏.... It doesn't make any sense. 3 weeks is a long time to not talk to your child at all! I'm 34 and my mom talks to me everyday and if it's been a few days and I won't pick up she will text and call my husband or check my social media to see if I'm ok. Then the fact her mom had her son and didn't find it odd! Abusive relationship and still nothing. Like those are huge red flags

[@lisalaws7427]

I'm also sorry you've felt that way about having a mother who doesn't really care. I have a 9 yr old and I could never imagine being that way and I'm lucky my mom cares so much also. At least you know what kind of a mother you want to be.💗

[@shannonwalburn7159]

I'm 48. If my mom can't reach me she calls the whole family. I do the same with my 26 year old daughter. This makes no sense.

[@tauruso4799]

Exactly, My daughter is 13 & have already put the fear into my daughters friends that she's got one crazy mother & would go to any lengths to keep her safe from fake ass friends & abusive future boyfriends/husbands be afraid be afraid plus she has daddy & 3 older brothers! Why would she keep staying with that second scumbag? I know cause she does what every woman in an abusive relationship does & that is to believe they won't do it again! But her Mom knows about this shit & took no action? I would make sure someone like this asshole would be looking down my double barral shotgun BYE BYE FELECIA she apparently didn't shoot to kill right in the face, head, left side of the chest & the dick he won't be moving after that!

[@indakgalak]

Totally agree with you all! Her mom and how cold and calloused she was the entire time is sooo bizarre and chilling... She's even smiling all throughout! 😳😰😱

[@redd-fit2512]

Have an affair doesn't mean you should die. People man...smh

[@tinamcleod3928]

Ricky Fontaine um exactly.. All humans make mistake that’s what makes us all human in the first place! Thanks Ricki well said 👏🏽👏🏽

[@mr.sneakunderyourbed2353]

Tina McLeod well. Murder is a mistake.

[@samimotag]

Exactly! It's not a fu*king death sentence. Some people are crazy to think that.

[@icedmocha5264]

Yes, but it does make one less sympathetic to her.

[@ballkans]

@@tinamcleod3928 Seems like most woman make the same mistake by whoring around while married.

[@katmeowsmakeup]

Most of these cases involve 1. Unwanted Pregnancy 2. Affair 3. Someone trying to leave the relationship.

[@heide-raquelfuss5580]

Or not wanting a relationship with some man.

[@johnsain]

...and choosing the wrong creeps.....

[@driley5004]

@@johnsain true. But you would.be surprised how many men are wolves in sheep's clothing

[@saoirseL]

Most of these cases involve 1. A man 2. A violent abusive man 3. A murderous brute,..of a man

[@johnsain]

@@saoirseL ....and an unwise woman.....

[@brandyfreeman4098]

I can't believe you people are saying that she got what she deserved because she cheated. Cheating is certainly not right but does not justify being killed or abused. Cold hearted folks 😈

[@stormyzimm797]

Totally agree:(

[@anitacrumbly]

It's scary actually how many people have no empathy or give a pass to this dude because he is in the military. People there is no excuse for abuse! you aren't happy in a relationship then please leave it or seek help and abuse victims are stuck in relationships because of the mind games and the toll the abuse plays. The worst case scenarios end up like this one. :(

[@Coldheart61595]

I hate people who cheats from a loving partner but getting what she deserve in this way is too much

[@destinyf81]

They just try to sugar coat what she did and I think it’s funny that the only good thing they can say about her is “oh she was good in school”

[@anitacrumbly]

@@destinyf81 Well she was so young she hadn't had time to do much in her life.

[@lindastonebraker2512]

A possible answer to everyone's questions about Bethany's mom: if it were me I'd have to be medicated to deal, maybe she's prescribed something for anxiety. Also, this did not just happen. Happened in 2011... 7 years ago. She's had some time to process the horror of her pregnant daughter missing. Also, Bethany's mom believed Bethany was busy working, it was normal for them to go a bit without talking. Not everyone talks to their mom daily.

[@kari7403]

I agree. Not all people wear their hearts on their sleeves either. Some people, especially a lot of wealthier and reputable people, don't like showing emotions or weaknesses. There are every day people who shut down emotionally when faced with trauma.

[@anehelengangdal5820]

agree! I am in college and I am super busy so me and my mom don´t talk for days, maybe weeks even

[@Witchygirl22]

Linda Stonebraker you're exactly right, 2 of my children died. I have been on xanax for years because of it until recently, I quit taking them. But it's also been 10 years since daughter died from sids. And 7 since my son died from aspiration in his sleep so I feel like trying to cope without meds. It's been a long time. It gets easier with time.

[@carmencapa6945]

She also has her grandchild to take she has to try to move on. Not forget her daughter but move on and take care of her grandchild

[@jky98mrn0]

I thought her tassel said 17 lol. Must have been 11 then!

[@tahjnabanton1056]

The persons I feel the most for are the lil baby Kye... And the navy husband.

[@Simon_Sez]

Seriously, it’s honestly disturbing how they show all the wife’s friends and family claiming she was such a good person when she literally got murdered because she wasn’t being a good wife or mother.. but it seems like there’s no accountability on her part as if it was just some random stranger who killed her and not the guy she chose to cheat on her husband with

[@ItsmeBish584]

@@Simon_Sez it seems theres no accountability for her murderer either. Wtf is wrong with you? She fell for another guy because her husband took off to fight a senseless war leaving her to be a young single mother and bear the burdens alone. She told her husband about the affair. She tried to break it off with him but he insisted they work things out. Signing a piece of paper that says you're married doesn't stop people from falling in love with someone else. You cant help who you love nor who you no longer love. Her having an affair doesn't make her a terrible person. Her personality, characteristics, and qualities make her a good person. Im honestly shocked that people are not blaming the murderer but blaming the victim. Sickening.

[@Simon_Sez]

Jessicalball I agree the war is senseless but that’s as far as I’m gonna read your comment lol if you care to have a logical discussion I would suggest sounding less angry and maybe don’t call names or be condescending... If you’re just here to release some pent up anger or whatever then I’m glad to be your punching bag and please keep sending me incredibly long comments that I will not read or have legitimate responses to

[@ItsmeBish584]

@@Simon_Sez you don't get to police tone people. Im don't need you to have a conversation with me. Its obvious you lack logic. Not sure where you got the idea I'm angry or that I called you names but if you want to play victim go ahead. My comments are not much longer than yours, although It does take a lot of explanation when you're talking to someone who blames a dead girl for her own death rather than the murderer. If you're not reading no more than a few sentences of my comment then how do get the idea I'm angry or name calling? You're making up excuses because your statements are flawed. You're wrong and you know it.

[@Simon_Sez]

Jessicalball okay cool so you *are* just being condescending and disrespectful based on whatever issues you have in your life. Good deal. Glad to know I still don’t have any legitimate reason to read past your first few sentences from any of your comments

[@lm5796]

If I knew my daughter was in a messed up relationship, I’d call her every day. Not to mention I was taking care of her son. Just saying.

[@iy4563]

Mom should of told her what she was doing was wrong instead she added it,she was married and should not have been in a adulterous affair while her husband off fighting for freedom her bad choices cost her her life and mom should of been a mother and instead that in her Bible says adultery is punishable by death!

[@It-is-me...Melsie]

@@iy4563 Ahhh, the big fictitious book of crazy! No wonder you're both sounding so mean and judgey Perhaps daughter didn't want to be phoned every bloody day. And you ignorant folk assume the mother never voiced her opinion to her daughter. Typical god botherers!

[@samanthamurray8526]

Not judging but her baby boy was living w it th her mother and it was normal or at least didn't alarm her mother they haven't heard from her in 3 weeks.....what kind of mother doesn't check on her baby for 3 weeks and that's normal. Call my family weird but my mother would have called the police the next day. Like I said I'm not judging but jeez poor little kid.

[@dsmusicbird]

You're making a good judgement call and observation. Nothing is right about this story. It's alarming.

[@sayianin]

I personally knew a girl who left her 1-year-old child with family and went on a trip with some guy which supposed to last a week but got prolonged to 2 months. Didn't call once they only knew she was alive because of Instagram photos she kept posting. She only called and promised to come back when family threatened her to go to the police and file child abandonment case. There are unfortunately people like that.

[@chilambda83]

Detective: "We're not so sure she was posting them." Reporter: "Who do you think was posting them?" Detective: "It had to have been someone that had her account access." Reporter: "Thanks for your time this morning, detective."

[@brittaolson6550]

Yes, what a brilliant interview!

[@Douglas_Hamilton]

Not the sharpest knife in the drawer

[@dhoopz1357]

😂😂

[@RH-tv9hk]

🤣😂🤣

[@Healthylife10129]

So her husband is serving over seas, her mom is taking care of her CHILD so she can “go to school” and she ends up cheating and really living the single life / childless life???? How disgusting

[@THOMAS-ms6xc]

hmmmm plot twist Mom kills lying cheating daughter to keep the grandchild?

[@Pouchy17]

@Ilovecrimeshows one she's still a piece of shit person.

[@jadechristina3510]

Ikr Annoying as fuck!!!

[@Grantford1993]

She left a good man and dissed her kids for an abuser who ultimately ended her life. Its ok to be with the"boring" person. Stop these affairs, unkempt humans do crazy things off emotions. R.i.p to her

[@pinkpugginz]

he could have killed her regardless if they dated or not. he could have stalked her

[@anjuliquesvlog6935]

You put it in a very nice way and I applaud you👏🏾My grand mother said if you have nothing good to say, say nothing at all. I was gonna say some things that would have everyone all in their feelings. There is no need, she’s already gone 🤐 May her soul Rest In Peace. I hope women that are alive today can watch and learn and know you never know what’s in a persons heart. To see the red flags and not ignore them, we all get them but love blinds you as some would say. Instead of being unfaithful, leave the relationship completely or wait until you’re fully able to do so and leave completely. The times are getting so serious you can’t underestimate anyone and I mean anyone. Don’t try to be vindictive or selfish. Don’t hurt people thinking you’re trying to get even. It always ends bad, I’ve been there myself so take it from a survivor ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@svetlanamishina]

I don’t feel one bit bad 4 her.. she knew what she was doing and doing it to a man who was protecting her peace?? She is a horrible person

[@eyebeensleeping]

after reading the story it really sapped much of the sympathy, but she still did not deserve what happened to her

[@lestki]

Three weeks? My son lives overseas and I speak with him twice a week. If I didn't hear from him for a week, I'd be on the first plane over there, let alone three weeks. I'd be beside myself.

[@icedmocha5264]

Some families aren't that close.

[@malina1239]

Three weeks since she was seen and she hadn’t talked to her mother?? I talk to my mother at least two times a day and she lives five minutes away..

[@diesel92kj1]

Why would you need to talk to your Mum so freuquently ?

[@malina1239]

diesel92kj1 because I love her and want to see if she is ok. I also talk to my brother every day. Family is everything I learned that the hard way when my dad died when I was nine..

[@himynameiswhat3966]

My mom wouldn’t know I went missing for weeks either -__- we talk but I also cut her off here and there for days to weeks when we bicker , bad cycle .

[@maura1686]

Congratulations! All daughters should be like you.

[@malina1239]

Himynameis What that’s so sad. We never know what’s going to happen in life. I unexpectedly lost my best friend this week, she was only 34. So glad I talked visited her the day before and I always tell the people in my life I love them, even when we don’t see eye to eye. Life is so fragile and we can’t take anything for granted. Life changes in seconds, then it’s to late..

[@kw6217]

She's no shining, highly intelligent and successful golden child. ...She's a flawed human being

[@analisastruck9347]

Who isn't flawed?

[@gb_the_accuser]

@@analisastruck9347 we're all flawed but she chose a psycho over a military family man. The military man probably was not exciting enough for her.

[@sayianin]

​@@gb_the_accuser and out of the house for months at a time... some women just can't keep their legs together for this long. Happens to military man, truck drivers and many other occupations which force you to leave home for longer periods of time.

[@chintzyhall8731]

Were all flawed human beings, especially those on here judging her and her mother

[@anabanana312]

Three weeks. THREE WEEKS??? That’s almost a month of not hearing from your kid and you don’t think something is wrong until people point it out for you??

[@breevb960]

I can’t really judge the mother on this. My siblings and I tend to go awol for months at a times. It’s not like we mean to though. Yeah, it freaks my parents out when we do this, but they also understand that we have lives and families of our own now. Our parents will just leave us a bunch of voice mails and texts until we do call them back.

[@maressawalker4998]

Exactly three weeks and she has a son that ain’t the grandparents watching or someone was like if she hasn’t seen him in three weeks wouldn’t you be worried

[@erickr.5142]

@@breevb960 But this girl was in an abusive relationship and her mother knew she was physically abused.

[@abcdefg1142]

“I want them to know that I love my daughter” *while shaking head no the entire time*

[@jorelpri]

LESSON: DONT MAKE FRIENDS AND DONT GET MARRIED.

[@Simon_Sez]

WillFanofMany lmao foreal idk how everyone is missing the real lesson of this story

[@yellowblanka6058]

Don't get married/pregnant before you've completed your undergrad degree, and then cheat on your husband with a controlling psychopath AND don't befriend people who do these things and you'll be fine.

[@melosidhe779]

Don't cheat. All but 1 of these stories I've watched have all included someone cheating.

[@nycduppy9661]

You mean don't cheat

[@Lovely-yg7ie]

People, please don't cheat on your spouse. And if your friend or family member is in an abusive relationship, don't be an idiot and think its okay to go 3 weeks without hearing from them.

[@user-si2wi4sk2u]

Isn’t it weird that Bethany didn’t try to talk to her own child for 3 weeks?? How didn’t they figure out something was wrong in a few days?

[@maressawalker4998]

Exactly strange how the ain’t think or see that and waited three weeks

[@gloriaambrose2840]

Her mother takes care of the child while she schools and defile her husbands bed with an abusive man

[@jameseaton28]

She had a husband that was in the Army but said yes to a dude she met while her husband was deployed..

[@JerkingLegacy]

She’s trash

[@cecem3]

And your point is? The girl is dead and you’re pointing out her affair so she cheated whoop she deserved it

[@cecem3]

Phil Hammy the girl is dead and you’re talking ill about her? It really shows what type of person you are

[@Psyopcyclops]

I ho ho hope her family recovers from this horrible situation.

[@cecem3]

@Zeljko Trifunovic First of all what a horrible person you are. I never said that cheating is acceptable but even though she made poor decisions and “sinned” she did not deserve to get murdered and does not deserve to be dragged and trash talked in these comments the girl is dead...

[@jeffgoff6761]

To all women that thinks they are in a loving relationship, please remember this story.if a man. Hurts you in any way! LEAVE! He doesn't love you.

[@joannwilderman8921]

The mom is crazy..she knew the. Abuse and didn't hear from her that long...what the heck..

[@Simon_Sez]

Joann Wilderman she knew her daughter was cheating on the husband with the grandkid in the house and apparently didn’t question it at all

[@minae9935]

I’m glad my mom is overprotective sometimes. I didn’t reply for 2 days and she showed up at my house looking for me.

[@MyNameIsAshleyyy]

Mine too. But it's also circumstantial. I am a recovering addict and if i were to go missing for days or weeks, shit, even A DAY, they'd know and they'd act on it. But for a child who isn't in trouble or done "bad" things, ignorance is bliss for some....

[@KimaD.]

my mother is coming. she will kick the door in even though she has a key!!!!

[@angelapietras1235]

Three weeks is a hell of a long time as far as I’m concerned.

[@angelapietras1235]

If I didn’t hear off my daughter in one day I would be wondering why and checking it out.

[@Bravo-Too-Much]

No matter what, the victims are always talked about so highly, no matter how shitty they were.

[@Psyopcyclops]

"Bethany, at only 22 years old, had a husband in the military, a baby at home, and another man's penis in her mouth." Just doesn't sound the same, does it?

[@JustKelso1993]

@@Psyopcyclops At least it is honest. Lol

[@ericmatterson9905]

Cheating while husband risks life in Afghanistan, makes her unsympathetic.

[@shutupandlisten4562]

No one deserves to be murdered... but watching this I honestly had more sympathy for the husband. His wife was having an affair while he was deployed. She was basically living with this ‘boyfriend’ while her husband was away and was pregnant with some other guys child. Her whole family and her best friend knew about this affair and basically excused it by saying ‘people make mistakes’ .

[@pirakalak2212]

Can they not check her Facebook login history to see where those weird posts came from???!!!

[@diannh2894]

Right

[@peterf.229]

it depends, technically I believe facebook has that information of IP addies for hwen people login but I doubt they would share it with anyone.

[@gracecaroline9138]

Exactly their location can be traced

[@lindsay33333]

@@peterf.229 the FBI could get it

[@annastascia878]

Peter F. Facebook was literally selling people’s information, i doubt theyd be that opposed to showing it to feds

[@LewisKay89]

If your last name is Rolden, how dare you name your child Ronald. Ronald Rolden? No wonder he’s a maniac.

[@lucyavarda1742]

Kaylyn Lewis sounds like Ronald Reagan doesn't it?

[@nikki.nikkiF]

Kaylyn Lewis 😂😩

[@SKC193]

Kinda like Richard Dick.

[@Brazealen]

BEFORE YOU JUDGE: Kim (THE MOM) has lived with this for over nine years, now. Bethany's friend probably doesn't think of it that often, so when she does it is still fresh and she becomes more emotional. Kim must cope on a day-to-day basis with this and share her memories of Bethany with her son, because that is all he has of her. When she talks about Bethany to Kai, she can't constantly be in tears, emotionally overwrought - there needs to be a healthy process and it's been many years. She SHOULD be able to talk about it without breaking down. She deserves to be able to. Hate, fury and pain corrupts. What point is there? To let it eat up her life? Or to display it for the edification of an audience of strangers?? I'm sure it's taken a long time and been very difficult to get to this point. Would we judge her for not living in perpetual grief for the rest of her life and what kind of environment would that be for a child to grow up in? I'm happy for her and her grandson - thankful after this trauma that she can. Kim knows her daughter is dead, that Ronald Roldan killed her and she wants justice at this point -- to bring her daughter's body home for burial. She's already made her peace and told Kai his mother is in heaven. I hope none of you judging her have to find out for yourselves by walking a mile in her shoes...

[@judybrown7601]

I hated my ex....prayed for him to die. I should havw left the first abuse.

[@virginiaryno2631]

Why is this mother so nonchalant? I'd be frantic over the whole deal.

[@nickie1b]

Virginia Ryno I must overreact. My college freshman son knows to call me daily or at least text. If not I’m calling his papa whom he lives with. I may even go to his job. My daddy and bonus mom 3000 miles away didn’t answer their phones for a few hours and I had the police do a welfare check. They always answer now.

[@ItsmeBish584]

@@nickie1b yeah thats not an over reaction, that's fucking psychotic. Leave people alone and let them live their lives. They prob didn't answer you because you're smothering the shit out of them. They're adults, treat them as such. You sound like you need therapy.

[@Rosey0120]

@@nickie1b You need serious help

[@jennifertrejo7109]

Nickie Sarjeant thats creepy

[@niahsvision]

Virginia Ryno people cope with things differently. can y’all hop off her mother’s tip? dang

[@romanoman6391]

He was definitely responsible WTF

[@dalepress1581]

So the family and friends are all in on the fact she's cheating on a husband away in the military and no one even bothers to...oh to heck with it, she got what she got

[@nycduppy9661]

Thats what I'm saying

[@SednovaNova]

Amazing how they can paint a cheating wife as such an "angel", crap happens all the time to military personnel the worst women are those that cheat on a service member. Grades don't make up for the character, however, she didn't deserve this kind of horrific death. She had issues with her commitment society loves painting all women as vibrant and innocent.... :/

[@kalexlou5327]

Thanks so much for speaking the truth nova...tired of women cheating ,breeding kids from 4 diff men and clubbing and searching social media for more men for sex..whilst poor men pay alimony

[@pinkpugginz]

😑 men get vasectomies and wear condoms. problem solved

Vickey is a true gangster! She refused to die. Just amazing!

[@Simon_Sez]

Oh yes, let’s praise the woman who had a 99.99% chance of not getting murdered if she didn’t cheat on her husband

[@Simon_Sez]

UsulPrincess yeah you’re right, I noticed that after getting further into the video and unfortunately couldn’t find this comment again to apologize in a more timely manner :) sorry friend @Mrs. Arthur Morgan

[@TheRealNativeSun]

That Mom is creepy. That smile disturbs me.

[@daisycassidy2448]

This young lady made bad decisions unfortunately. Too much happened to her at a young age. RIP.

[@j0e11e_8]

Her mom had no emotion, did she really care about her daughter

[@nickmotsarsky4382]

I'm about to blow your mind. Different people handle upsetting events in a different manner.

[@isagame6653]

Joelle i think she was upset but cryin wont bring her back if her daughter is dead 😶

[@saramalik274]

@@nickmotsarsky4382 thats true but i think all the mothers have same emotions for there kids..

[@jessireland7792]

Maybe she’s numb inside....after losing her daughter

[@julianneyvonne560]

How the hell could you say this!?? You have no idea how she feels inside! You only know what is in this video! Her daughter died and she didn't deserve to die! When you know someone did that to your kid but police can't prove it for some time, how do you think you would feel? She is doing just fine and getting a message out. You are ignorant I hope you know that!

[@jayjackson9250]

No loyalty to the Guy putting his life on the line deployed.

[@ImaBearXDnewaccount]

He’s probably cheating on her too. Military men dont exactly have a good reputation of loyalty either.

[@jayjackson9250]

@@ImaBearXDnewaccount yeah right ..in the middle of the desert sweaty and dirty fighting for your freedom...

[@jayjackson9250]

@Rebecca Buschhorn you chose him...your fault

[@diannh2894]

Right

[@pudgeonabudget]

Both men and women have potential to be unfaithful. Being a Veteran I know for a fact that just becuase you in the sandbox does not mean you can't cheat. That is why there are laws against it now. Becuase husbands were bringing more than themselves back from the sand. You have no idea what was going on in the marriage. They both seemed like tge rocky relationship was mutual so chill out with the woman hating. Sounds suspect

[@missy6807]

Abusive boyfriend who wouldn’t leave but then he’s living at his moms / he deff did it

[@christinerudd4008]

I've shown more emotion when my order is wrong at Mcdonalds than this mom has about her own daughter.

[@parichawlaa]

Ikr. Even the best friend is more emotional than the mom.

[@marissaa4196]

It’s been 9 years. I’m sure she’s just accepted what has happened. Just wants to get the shit out

[@niahsvision]

maybe she just accepted the fact that she’s gone & wants some closure on her daughter’s death.

[@screechingonions2365]

Why would you want to eat there? McDonald’s is shit food.

[@ChrisDR77]

Screeching Onions they have the best food

[@ellafacebooktruecrimecases3644]

The mum and daughter had not been close. The daughter seemed very immature and prob not ready for family life. She stepped out of her marriage and seemed to pay a heavy price for her choice. Very sad. That guy she cheated with is guilty imo.

[@bankergeorge]

So the mother knew she was with a next man and was proud

[@shllewis9]

When your marriage is in trouble you dont run to another man, you run to friends and family who would help you. Bethany mom has no emotions none whatsoever, either shes holding the faith that one day she will be found or she havent except the fact that she is gone, but peoples grieve in they own way Roland killed her, i believe he did, also 2 go 3 weeks without calling your daughter n you have her child...*eyes rolled* if you knew that shit turd abused her you couldve said something

[@njkdragonhouse2986]

Wait if the mother knew what that man was doing to her, why didn’t she pick her up?!

[@Johansen1000]

The story clearly don't give us the full picture, that mother did not behave like a parent that cared about her child.

[@stephanie.420]

thank you for not putting this into 5 parts!!!!

[@wpgngaming-videos888]

Girl marries man in the military, cheats on him when hes away, then disappears. Nope, im not surprised at all.

[@angelaroberts684]

The mom is freaking weird.. How can she smile whenever she talks about whats going on😑 hmmmm

[@icedmocha5264]

It has been 7 years. It's not a recent missing case. She has had years to process this.

[@ailenelovelly1051]

icedwhite mocha right smh

[@lillym5908]

A lot of people smile in hard times to help them get through it, or because they have hope, or because she's glad to be there for the interview, spreading the word about her daughter. It was also a very long time ago that this happened

[@Amy_Stanmore]

Lilly M what utter garbage. Her mate and the reporter had more emotion than her own mother geez.

[@lillym5908]

Angharad R as I said, everyone has their coping mechanisms

[@catladyk1111]

The girlfriend who was shot seems like such a kind person- while she was laying in the ICU, likely dying, one of her first thoughts was to try and save another girl/bring peace to another family. I just wanna give her a big hug and hope she's doing good now.

[@jeffreyrivers1983]

Look at people talk her up; The Halo effect... husband risking his life, takes care of his family... this is what she does.

[@sayianin]

happens all the time to military ppl unfortunately:/ I was unknowingly hooking up with a girl who had soldier fiance serving in Afganistan:/ dumped her immediately when I found out but unfortunately, I chickened out and didn't tell the guy

[@Pouchy17]

@@sayianin pussy

[@Bravo-Too-Much]

He was a computer geek in Kuwait. The most dangerous thing he ever did was eat at that subway on base.

[@peterf.229]

@@sayianin why would you tell the guy? that is playing with fire with a person who know show ot use firearms and might be angry as fuck with you .

[@peterf.229]

@@Bravo-Too-Much those silent types are scariest of all :P