Pregnant Wife Demanded We Name Our Baby After Her Ex's Choice. I Refused, So She Ran Off To...

Pregnant Wife Demanded We Name Our Baby After Her Ex's Choice. I Refused, So She Ran Off To "Clear Her Head" - Turns Out She's Been Cheating With Him For A Year.
#redditrelationship #redditupdate

[@Nicoleandstuff]

I’ve never seen such aggressive gaslighting. I would’ve know she was cheating since she keeps trying to flip stuff to make him the bad guy but for what?

[@boblee7998]

Yep. Classic cheater behavior.

[@IntegralKing]

child support. if she could keep it up until the baby's born and then his name goes on the birth certificate, that's CS payments forever, baby

[@Steve_Raglan_aka_William_Afton]

​@@IntegralKingthe Ex-husband won the custody

[@alttablife6965]

Yeah it was at that talk I realized the relationship was already over. If there's zero attempt on her part to take blame for a 2 person argument, while being as curt/smug as she was, she's already moved on and it's a matter of time for formalities.

[@I_Like_Turtles441]

She became a terrible version of her ex

[@redline49]

The biggest plot twist was that the baby was his.

[@miguelbrandt3174]

Jajajajaja right

[@leegraves8878]

And the great mom didn't give a fk about it and gave it up.

[@allanpadang9826]

Not sure if that is truel

[@e.anthony9779]

I just want to know why people cheat? If you’re unhappy, talk to your partner. Cheating is just not the answer.

[@Renkencen]

So how is OP suppose to "understand" her when she's not going to explained everyhing about her past! I always hate this type of argument! No one is going to "get" you if you not going to open up! No one is a mind reader!

[@squiggle463]

I know. i was surprised that she was so argumentative when OP even trusted that the previous situation was too traumatic, understood it, and was really understanding about it.

[@RepellentJeff]

“You’re being a jealous, insecure narcissist!” 📽📽📽

[@tim.noonan]

How did I never think to use the film projector emoji for this? Thank you, Jeff the Repellent

[@DERTHIX]

13:35 WAIT, wait, wait... He did ask where she went and her mom and friend wouldnt tell him... That's on her.

[@pmbramucci1056]

But he was supposed to hire a team of PIs, file a missing person's report, etc. That way, she could claim he overreacted and was a controlling asshole who couldn't give her the space that she, as a grown woman, requested! You know, damned if you do, damned if you don't.

[@kaylawest2088]

@@pmbramucci1056 THIS!!

[@zayanmehdi1747]

Bro, I was seething with anger every time OP mentioned Dina gaslighting him to the max. I don’t even know this woman, yet I’ve never wanted to suplex someone to the ground so hard so badly up until now 😡🤬🤯

[@MrArielK]

Story is AI

[@zayanmehdi1747]

@@MrArielK I know, but this vid made the scenario seem real. There are a lot of Reddit stories where the writing is so eloquent that you can just tell a real person didn’t type them

[@juniormon7514]

And he kept apologizing to her too . Like dude grow some balls

[@Business458]

😂😂😂 me too, it gave me flash backs of my ex

[@Business458]

​@@MrArielKreally, I thought that they were popular reddit posts because of how similar some of them are to popular posts

[@shii5795]

I have 0 patience for this kind of emotional abuse and manipulation. The guy should have waited for her to finish her piece after she came back and then said, "Well there's the door. Because that's all you're going to get from me after this disrespect."

[@KingintheNorth-bm4co]

I will never understand why would someone go back to a cheating ex, Dina will get a karma slap

[@Zarai_Numbers]

I don't get how she could throw her life away for someone that already abandoned her. But I guess she's a cheater now, so they deserve each other 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@itsharperoffi]

Well I hope that's what will happen to her. And then she would came back beggin OP to forgive her but OP won't take her back😂

[@Business458]

Women are just like that with someone that they love This is why you should not date a woman who recently got out of a relationship when the reason wasnt that she realised that she didn't love him and especially not someone who dated men who she claims were abusive/cheaters for more than a month because that means that she is attracted to those types of men and will cheat on anyone who doesn't treat them like crap.

[@nandanisingh9225]

They definitely deserve each other...this dude tho handled it like a pro

[@lazallewillemse3617]

She's not sorry. She's only sorry she got caught

[@ThePawerStation]

She knew she was going to get nothing after the affair. Also, the parents knew about the affair. I hope Op got child support.

[@Antsaboy94]

Cheaters don't get the priviledge of expecting their best friend to keep their secrets, especially from the very spouse they're cheating!

[@tothewonder6248]

He should have ended it the minute she walked out. She's so immature and crazy.

[@lordanubis1475]

Advise: If you're significant other ever gas lights, you start recording and don't stop communicating because the moment you stop/separate you lose. Plus women please stop going back to your abusive exes and hiding them.

[@iiiHeartieXX]

so glad he got full custody. Shes a psycho!!

[@danacarter9147]

Same here, and I agree with you 💯%, Dina DOES a brainful of bad-wiring!

[@Bobrae.]

Uhm, OP still doesn’t know if the baby is his or her ex’s ex-husband, at least that’s what’s been implied on this video -not unless OP had a new update on Reddit

[@yamairad1]

I would never use the same name for another baby even if it were with the same dad. That baby is gone. This is a new person.

[@YesNoMaybeSooo]

In high school we had a teacher whose wife lost a baby around 7 months . She was unable to get pregnant again so they adopted. They named the adopted baby the same name as the baby born still born .

[@isrln]

Nonsense

[@meenakshiogirala]

​@@YesNoMaybeSooo until they explain that the name was too nice to pass up, the adopted baby will have a avatar level imagination and angst in their puberty

[@Afghanisstan]

Dina in a few months. "he left me again" lmao

[@grim_reapepper]

Bro💀she rly responded with that🏍🏍🏍

[@madambutterfly1997]

If she wants any relationship to be long-term and lasting, she’s gonna have to come clean about certain topics no matter how uncomfortable they are. And come and clean about these certain topics can’t happen on her timeline. Not if she wants the relationship to last.

[@Business458]

She knows, she was just gas lighting him

[@avencree]

She tired to make him seem like the bad guy because then she could justify her actions. But honestly, how stupid can you be that you go back to the man who cheated on you at your lowest point? Seriously, if this is real I'm glad OP got custody because a child having two cheating parents is a recipe for a broken childhood.

[@Business458]

😂😂😂 women do that all the time, they friend zone or dump guys who love them for guys who either dont love them or guys who love them but are abusive When they get tired of the abuse they find a nice guy and become emotional/financial vampires until they get tired of pretending to love him and cheat

[@Angel-uo5yi]

This is some top tier gaslighting 😂😂

[@quan1970]

Nah ,f all that her parents need to apologize op because they're crazy just like there damn daughter plus they probably knew she was cheating

[@Business458]

They definitely knew, as petty as I am I wouldn't let them see my kid or respond to anything that they want from me

[@Olimar92]

"I want to forget about all that" but won't budge on a name from that time in her life. That's a very deep Red Flag.

[@rebewtinydino2572]

She had right to like a name.

[@richardbudgell7507]

Of course she had a right to the name, but she damn well should have fucking TALKED ABOUT IT, she didn't because she was an unfaithful whore, and it would have ruined her secrets.

[@Jerweh]

Wasn't just cheating. That was pure emotional abuse

[@yamairad1]

This woman is going to be such a bad mother. She doesn't accept that she might be wrong.

[@reaper78541]

What do you mean? He got full custody. At the very least she's an egg donor but will probably never be the best mother. Probably not even the most mediocre mother.

[@Jenishasoni]

Oh my god... the wife seriously gaslighted OP. What i can't understand is why the cheaters do this to their innocent partners? 🙄

[@memeking7273]

The thrill

[@BrownLove7562]

@@memeking7273Exactly! Then when they get caught the excuses start rolling in smh

[@DarkEinherjar]

Dina will get cheated on again. Once a cheater, always a cheater. And she will deserve it.

[@danacarter9147]

Agreed.

[@Bobrae.]

She’s so dumb. Now both of them (her ex-husband) are homeworkers 😤

[@jokeathrowaway2524]

"I'm trying my best to forget my traumatic past but I'll still name my boy something from that trauma and come back to the one who traumatized me" 🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️

[@taylordaenzer4852]

Oh bullshit she's in the wrong there.

[@NessieNice]

My personal opinion is: don't get married to someone who still has relationship trauma enough not wanting to talk about it. Higher chance of baggage you're not ready for

[@amazon6761]

I’m So Happy He Got The Baby

[@DemonLucifer875]

Please make law against cheaters it getting really bad and annoying how a cheater be it, man, or women get off easily after cheating breakup if you're unhappy

[@shayanshafiee7987]

She's a huge gaslighter and manipulator. I'm boiling with rage on OP's behalf.

[@CG-yb6zj]

I really hate when people tell the problem who gave them the info they'd been hiding... Him ousting Wendy off rip burned a chance of getting more info easier for the divorce over hunting for it except to verify later. Though it's funny how he said, "If it's theres, they can keep it," like there was an option he'd still want the kid, and they wouldn't fight it in exchange for money.

[@yukarilolz]

He never explained how Dina found out it was Wendy, but I'm guessing even if he didn't say a name Dina would have figured out who told, since Wendy was the only one who knew her traumatic past and knows op.

[@niftycage74]

Wendy is a bro

[@Craig_Murray]

I would like to know how her parents reacted to her cheating on her husband while pregnant. Snd no less with the guy who apparently traumatised her before. And no doubt she goes crawling back when she is cheated on again.

[@Adarkane325xi]

It’s not a victory unless the baby isn’t named Phillip. Notice how he left that little tidbit out? I mean, he has custody, but whooptie-doo if the baby’s named Phillip. That was the crux of the whole situation, it really galls me that he didn’t mention the baby’s name.

[@Cyndi87]

Once the AP cheats on her again, she'll crawl back to OP and say she's "sorry, he didn't mean anything, was scared about the impending parenthood" blah blah blah

[@I_Like_Turtles441]

This is a reminder to not be a hero and try to fix a broken woman that blames her problems to trauma.. You aint a therapist stop thinking you can fix it.

[@AlexanderBisbee-jj5io]

I love listening to cheating stories

[@Bobrae.]

Sometimes, I wish I had the ability to know if stories like these are true, and if they are, then the power to see the cheater’s faces, know where they live and basically has the ability to inflict PAIN and bad karma to them THEN tell their OPs about it so they can update us with the sweet outcomes on Reddit. LMAO! 🤣

[@joyshekhardutta9765]

I loved the ending! Karmic justice! She lost her cheating ex due to her miscarriage and now after a successful pregnancy the baby turns out to be OP’s with full custody! Oh the pain both of them must have felt!😂😂😂👏

[@grim_reapepper]

Hello again travellers🧙‍♂️

[@TheRealBelovianna]

Heyo Mayo! 🩵

[@Estebam01]

Hello grand master

[@devhxh1558]

Always check the first before grabbing used goods... You might end up washing someone else dirty laundry. For thm to use and throw it on your face.

[@KINGtriller]

Going back to a person who cheated on you at your lowest is hilarious

[@devhxh1558]

Went back to cheating ex who cheated on her. Well feel like they deserve eachother.

[@Thaddius0]

OP: i want to have a conversation Wife: no, also you should already know where my head is at OP: can we talk about where your head is at Wife: no. hmm... i wonder if you would try to save me if i ran into traffic OP: wtf? Wife: youre such an asshole!

[@virtualatheist]

I hope OP mtold the ex in-laws that they would NEVER meet their grandchild

[@MysteryGaymer]

I would have consulted a lawyer and demanded a paternity test.

[@user-fw7fj3df5r]

Never ever marry someone that refuses to share their past no matter how traumatic. If they trust you they will tell you instead of hearing it from their friends or family members.

[@miguelarias5193]

Wait SO she can RUN OFF ON A BEACH GETAWAY AND TOLD EVERYONE NOT TO TELL HIM WHERE SHE WAS and he was supposed to fight for her and turn the whole world upside and bother and bug people to get someone to tell him something?!? Had he done that how quickly will she say he was toxic and controlling and possessive and was stalking her and her family

[@HollyGaming994]

Did she seriously expect him to go looking for her immediately??? Not everyone gets to take work off for a "missing" adult. She clearly didn't want to talk if she didn't contact him and she seems to think the world revolves around her and her cheating butt. She didn't even want to explain her past...I feel like most of us would have told our partners, cry, hug and try our best to move on with our lives. She should have told OP and explained why she wants to use the name she was going to use with Alex. Maybe then they'd have used Phillip as a middle name or something

[@ilovesports5468]

He is so whiny!!! And why would he immediately run back and tell the wife the BFF told him information? Keep your mouth close until you have everything and don’t tell who your snitch is!!

[@markanthony1004]

It's the gaslighting that pisses me off the most in these stories

[@BleachDemon69]

This guy screams desperation

[@imnotyourvillain]

Sounded like the ex-wife was mad she wasn't "saved from cheating on him" That, or she was hoping to embarrass OP by having her AP on the phone call. Or (and most likely) she just wanted a reason to attack/be mad at OP. Either way, she sounds real self-absorbed. Glad she didn't get to keep her kid lol.

[@jayblack854]

sue ap for alienation of affection and some people to him. and get childsupport for ex wife

[@Dizastermaster.]

Gotta be fake lmao. A man gettting full custody, no alimony, and full property is unbelievable

[@Asrajzz64]

It's not fake.

[@sarahreaume6659]

I’m starting to wonder maybe op was a bit of a narcissist for forcing Dina to talk about something that she didn’t want to

[@TheColombianSpartan]

This woman is the best gaslighter i've ever seen Holy. shit.

[@senecaarnold6651]

A marriage is about communication and trust

[@AjenjoAnejo]

Any guy as idiotic as to say "we are pregnant" will get this treatment.

[@revresbo101]

Aggressive manipulation and gas lighting just to be like “oh yeah I cheated sorry” after screaming for hours at how HE is the bad guy???

[@gibsy4843]

Cheaters are lever sorry for cheating, theyre sorry they got caught and hope that "apology" will keep it from becoming public

[@jadesorono6694]

Toxic gasligth hahahaha ❤😂

[@LilyLemonBlossom003]

Was the baby named Phillip I wanted to know 😂 😭

[@kotagezelman1156]

We don't need to know the kids name but since you got full custody it's safe to assume it isn't Filip

[@PapaSwall]

So glad the baby was OP’s 🎉🎉

[@YouTubeChannel-ru8ed]

Were we gonna ignore the fact that she lowkey lied about where she was

[@TelManothHexperax]

it's so so so misandrist to always call men feeling "insecure, narcisist, jealous" ... so gazlighting to blame him to speak about his feeling when she don't say shit and hide everythink ...

[@smorphous8928]

Dina makes no sense, she wanted Op to find her but her parents told Op that they didn’t want him to find her, “she didn’t want us to give out her location” which is it, so you want Op to find you or do you not?!?

[@chrisj.1608]

Wow this is like some next level gas lighting I have never ever seen it this bad before

[@tamaracherry7358]

I love a happy ending ☺

[@vinnyissmart]

Wendy is a keeper

[@xartoxis]

I hope he got child support

[@Steve_Raglan_aka_William_Afton]

You mean, his wife must pay the child support?

[@xartoxis]

@@Steve_Raglan_aka_William_Afton yes

[@BleachDemon69]

Clearly he's thinking with his little head or he himself is a child of a single mom

[@lynx9311]

Yeah I don't think that's how custody works especially with a newborn. The mother would get full custody unless they terminate thier rights

[@redrackham6812]

That's also wrong, although bear in mind that I am not your lawyer and am not offering legal advice. The court would make a determination based on the best interests of the child, at least in the United States. That could range from an outcome of one parent getting full custody if the other parent is judged to be unfit, to some form of shared custody, which is much more common. This story does not give us any of the details of the custody litigation, so it is impossible to say. The story could be made up; that it glosses over such details does call its credibility into question.

[@lynx9311]

@redrackham6812 Yeah, that's what I was implying. It's made up because I don't think cheating or gas lighting would make anyone unfit. Now, if the genders were swapped, I think it would make sense for OOP to get full custody. But there's no way they would give the father full custody just because of what was said.

[@missytanner3501]

She clearly didn't want custody, since went back to her cheating ex

[@lynx9311]

@@missytanner3501 proof?

[@saraashley464]

I would've liked to know what op named the baby

[@pmbramucci1056]

I want it to be Phillip because he decided he really likes the name, regardless of the drama.

[@maebell227]

Any time she tries to talk to u I would tell her her words mean little more than shit to me

[@redrackham6812]

He just decides he wants full custody and gets it? That sounds very unlikely. That would usually require that the court find that the other parent is unfit. Otherwise, there would almost always be some form of joint custody. That makes me question the credibility of the whole story.

[@UncleSarge]

Plenty of times where a father goes after full custody and gets it, especially with weird laws regarding marriage and infidelity.

[@miguelbrandt3174]

Or if he claims he wants full custody and she gives it to him.

[@anastasiab5846]

I feel like she probably agreed to give him custody so she could "start over" with her affair partner... She seems like the type of person (piece of shit) to do that

[@redrackham6812]

Could be.@@anastasiab5846

[@Syrin23]

The only thing this guy did wrong was not investigate where she was when she left the house. I mean didn't he have ANY concerns she was cheating on him. Dude kept taking shite and NEVER took her on face first

[@tonymacintosh3744]

she wanted closure ...........

[@renadu30]

She wanted closure by not keeping her legs closed.

[@liztewliztew]

I would LOVE to know the name is the child! Hopefully, dad chose a name that is NOT Philip?!

[@jjnix9517]

Man this story is really common

[@WingsCV]

So this auto-played and I didn’t catch the title of the video and just listen to it play. If I were in this guys shoes I would’ve been played HARD until she started acting out and EVEN THEN she was pregnant so hormones. I didn’t see anything wrong with the name as it’s not uncommon for a name to just stick for some women and they just RLY RLY want that name. I would’ve needed signs from her that she was acting up. If she was a perfect wife otherwise I probably would’ve been in a much worse place then the OP and that scares me.

[@yamairad1]

Pregnancy makes you feel overwhelmed and make you want to cry so much. That's it. It doesn't make you an a-hole. The fact that she insulted him, called him a narcissist, insecure and simply didn't want to discuss makes her an a-hole. That is not hormones it's her being a bad person and an abusive partner. She obviously doesn't love OP.

[@shawnycoffman]

OP needs to find a mature woman not this child who is still playing games. She thinks having sex equals closure? Bullshit. She went into that knowing full well what she was doing. She told him she had to work up the courage to tell him the truth but yet she could verbally abuse him and manipulate him in the meantime? Keep this in mind with your characters!

[@christianthrasher8677]

I wonder how op got custody of their son did his ex wife's ex didn't want it so she decided his love his more important than her own child

[@Zeromegas]

At least the kid would be named Philipp

[@Azeraph]

Such a nice story but the cut off is quite sudden.

[@manemperorofmankind8119]

RUN… FAR… AWAY

[@xxlouisehoverxx]

Tbh the only thing I understand is not telling her partner about the cheating ex I’ve been through a lot of stuff like that and still haven’t told my partner today we’ve been together years and that’s because it is genuinely none of his business it’s my past but the rest of this is crazy

[@arandomusername4019]

At 13 minutes in as of writing this: I understand why the wife didn’t want to tell OP, like she said, it was really traumatic, and OP asking why she didn’t tell him at the very beginning of the relationship she didn’t know was gonna last kinda made him an AH. Also I don’t understand why OP is so heartbroken, I mean yes it is a lie, but it’s very minor and doesn’t really change anything? The only new news he got is that wife’s ex cheated on her after her baby miscarried. OP’s wife still is TA by cheating (going off the title) but OP isn’t 100% innocent eithet

[@liztewliztew]

Talk about gaslighting to the Nth degree!

[@Heiura]

Should've sued for child support ... I'm just saying.

[@johnarredondo7259]

Bro this is so annoying.

[@SashAzzy]

Supa giga power doormatss

[@isrln]

Update 5: the cheater who cheated on the wife who cheated on the op cheated on the wife again 😊

[@telthev2267]

Whats the name of the actual Reddit post

[@Maninawig]

Sye Alex and her parents for alienation of affection. The latter knew and supported the former.

[@ellifsyaa]

7:58 what the hell. Why r they acting like ur in the wrong

[@chiedozieofoegbu5992]

D1 Gaslighting. Jesus Christ man

[@gailgilmour-lim9127]

Wow she is egotistical not him. She needs to stop her crap and grow up.