PREPARING FOR BABY!!! Stroller Shopping, Nursery Planning, etc...

[@JadeTheLibra]

Click here sbird.co/3H0KXlB and use my code JADETHELIBRA55 to get 55% OFF your first month at Scentbird. What’s your favorite fragrance? Comment below!

[@mehchocolate1257]

Are you having a boy or girl

[@bloodymary3008]

@@mehchocolate1257 she said boy

[@brittanyw4783]

Could you maybe compile a list of GOOD scents from scentbird?? Also, lip color?? 💋

[@betterhegehogShadow]

I don't know if you are still responding to comments in this video but don't get your dresser from IKEA, Target or any of the big companies! Get it from family stores. They Import wood illegally from protected places and build them cheaply. They are so cheap that the weight is off once you pull the drawers out. Many babies and toddlers have been crushed to death by them and the numbers are rising. It's becoming a problem.

[@sararichey]

As a fellow spooky mom with a 11 month old and pregnant with baby #2…I am LIVING for the spooky baby content! 🖤🖤🖤🖤

[@JadeTheLibra]

Ooooo fellow spooky mom and soon to be of 2!!! CONGRATS!!!! Also, I may need all the tips especially any advice on strollers/must-haves cuz we're planning on 2 lil gremlins as well!!

[@sararichey]

@@JadeTheLibra right now we use the Graco Trax Jogger 2.0 stroller and it works great on bumpy trails and I feel super fancy with it. Whenever my son was a newborn we used a Graco stroller system very similar to the one you showed in the video and I did not like that stroller at all! It started getting squeaky and couldn’t go on gravel or grass very well…so we upgraded!

[@sararichey]

@@JadeTheLibra I have no idea what I want to do whenever this new baby is here, they will be 18 months apart so I’m not sure what type of stroller would be best yet! I’m just going with the flow. 😅 I do have must have recommendations! The double zipper sleepers are amazing, avoid any sleepers with buttons. Velcro swaddles were extremely useful and muslin burp cloths are the best ones to get! They are very absorbent and super soft. As for car seats, we got him an evenflo with sensorsafe and I love it! It has an app that will notify you about various things, like if your baby is too hot etc. Oh, and one last thing…a car mirror or video camera system so you can safely glance and make sure baby is okay during car rides.

[@janetteders1731]

Are you going to get a changing table to change the baby's diapers ? Tall so you don't have to bend over to change your baby diaper. The stroller is nice. Sorry, I can't help on that. I had my daughter 12 years ago. You can get I forgot the name slang to put you baby in like you carry your pup in. The pillow where you can breastfeed is nice. Baby will get heavy holding him while you feed him. Good luck. I hope you have a healthy baby boy. I love it. You call the baby a little gremlin.

[@k001daddy]

@@sararichey I read that anything you put in the back seat (mirror, cam, etc) could be a projectile in an accident, and to avoid it altogether.

[@kristischutt6993]

Honestly for me, any stroller that's light and you can easily fold down, flip open and lift it in the car was key. Hauling all the baby stuff everywhere is a whole vibe. Your stroller is like home base. Has to be easy to pack.

[@KaraJ1992]

Hi Jade! I wanted to give some recommendations for your registry! My mom was a pharmacist and something she noticed new mothers would forget to put on their lists were infant pharmacy things. Like tylenol or ibuprofen for infants, saline spray, an aspirator, gas drops, butt paste or aquaphor for diaper rash and gripe water. Everyone swears by the gripe water! I just wanted to share this because I still do this for any baby showers I go to 😊 It's something you don't really think about until you need it so I just wanted to share! So excited for spooky baby vlogs!

[@JadeTheLibra]

This is such a great tip, thank you!! I definitely want to be all set when the time comes cuz I’m sure nothing is worse than a pharmacy being closed when the baby is starting to show symptoms of illness!

[@xxvi2666]

I second on the gripe water lol!

[@cinlakech888]

Just wanted to say you absolutely do not need any pharmacy items for a newborn! Maybe a natural butt salve and that's all. Coming from a mama of 3. Follow your intuition and not big pharMA

[@michellecoria8655]

Yes saline spray and the bulb syringe! My oldest was 2 weeks old my husband had to run to a 24hr walgreens at 3am. Baby had a huuuuge booger lol stuck he couldn't breathe and he was piiiised lol anyway yes! Get that stuff before.

[@tragedie8]

Also nipple cream and breast pads if you plan to breast feed

[@samanthastark4875]

As a mom of three gremlins my youngest is going to be a year in a month I would suggest a stroller that has the option of them facing you even when they’re out of infant stage. My youngest is very shy and doesn’t like people he doesn’t know and will cry if he can’t see us, it makes it easier for store trips because they fall asleep looking at you, and it’s easy to give them a bottle and treats 🖤

[@halloweenhorror2139]

I wish I knew to get one of these when mine was a baby ❤

[@Lemonade_Stand_]

My nephew is 5 months and hates being front facing. He wants to see the world and will scream if he isnt facing out.

[@shamrockinit8747]

I realized (I was GERIATRIC pregnancy too and my girls are fine 😁) when people hear you’re pregnant they LOOOVVVEEE to tell you their horror stories!! 😲. Put only positive vibes out into the universe and celebrate he is great!!! 😁😁

[@justjamieyes2812]

Girl! I had a baby at 40. It was fine. Also baby will be attached to you for a good 6 months. I didn't stress the nursery being done by the birth. Are people sending you tons of stuff for the baby in the spooky fam mail? I rarely used the stroller. Get you a super comfortable rocker chair to rock bebe. Love you!

[@JessicaNicoleSearcy]

I have the Uppa Baby and it is 100000000 percent worth it. My son is almost 3 and we still use it multiple times a day! The car seat function from car-stroller was always so easy and then the toddler seat is equally as amazing. I’ve had the graco and I can say uppa baby is worth the extra money it just rides so much smoother and on all types of terrain it’s easy to maneuver ! Thank you for taking us a long on your journey it is so special watching you both go through this new season

[@lifewithcarrie88]

I felt the same way with my appointments I was always bracing for bad news because I had a miscarriage in February 2022 so becoming pregnant again In May 2022 felt so unreal and surprising. I recently had my rainbow baby on February 2nd 2023. I think it's natural to feel those feelings of caution. Just take it one day at a time and enjoy the moments

[@luzelenaaaw]

It makes me so happy to read that you got to have your rainbow baby & so many others 🥲💕

[@lifewithcarrie88]

@@luzelenaaaw Thank you ❤️ 🥰

[@JadeTheLibra]

Thank you for this, and I’m so sorry for your loss. I can’t imagine the joy and pain and reluctancy all happening at once! I’m so glad your rainbow baby made a safe arrival into this world, and I hope you’re having the sweetest first moments together 🖤🖤🖤🖤

[@lifewithcarrie88]

@@JadeTheLibra It was definitely a journey. My husband and I are feeling truly blessed and we are enjoying every moment with him ❤️

[@theknkmommydragonslayer5426]

Jade, I too was a "geriatric" mom. 👻 I had my girls at 37 & 39 after miscarrying at age 35. They are now almost 15 and 17 (in need of gainful employment and less sass!). You are doing everything great, enjoy every minute of it. Graco was our go-to for strollers, car seats and booster seats.

[@terryannanderson8812]

I hated hearing I was having a geriatric pregnancy. LOL. But my son was born when I was 38 and 20 years later, he's wonderful. I can't recommend a flavor for the diabetes test, because I don't think I had a choice. Due to family history, I had a lot of holding my breath and waiting for the other shoe to drop. Just remember to breathe and enjoy every moment of this time. As for the nursery, you don't have to have everything done. I loved having the car seat/stroller combo. My kid slept in his car seat more than once when we traveled. Relax. You're going to rock this. Congratulations again.

[@Darmok_onthe_ocean]

We’re the same age, but I’ve got a 15 year old. The urge for more babies is so intense when you reach your mid 30s!!! But I really can’t imagine changing another diaper or doing another 15 years of school runs. But also, being a mom is the BEST.

[@brie_momof3]

Hey Jade love the baby content ❤. I have 3 kids and we swear by Graco. Single stroller we have the Graco modes which converts from a basinette into a regular stroller seat. We also have the Graco double stroller which you can use 2 seats with or one with a bench seat for the older child to sit on. We love both. All the baby products are overwhelming, hope you guys end up making a decision you're happy with 😊.

[@shelbymelissa3301]

Just remember no matter what stroller you choose, you will make it work for you! It's just the greatest time! Enjoy it!

[@tiamack8562]

As a mom I'd 100% recommend a stroller with a parent cup holder 😂 it's the little things

[@amlistens6277]

Get whatever stroller that the carseat moves directly from the car and snaps into the stroller. You DO NOT want a fancy stroller with a bassinet only that requires you to take a sleeping or warm baby out of the seat to put in the stroller. Particularly in the Midwest, we didn’t use a stroller to just go out and about in the winter anyway. We loved the simple Graco seat with the caddy stroller!

[@melissayoung1060]

The top two frustrations I had with strollers... 1) Knowing and being able to collapse it down to fit in the trunk! 2) How often will you take it shopping? Larger strollers do not fit well in most shopping stores ( between racks and such). So happy for you and Dallas both, thank you for sharing with us!

[@elizabethsalgado21]

As a first time mom and libra don't over think it! practical is best trust me i hardly used a stroller honestly i live in the midwest so just like 2 months out of the year when the weather is decent lol focus on essentials and don't forget your baby shower you get everything ❤️ is always that first baby that gets spoiled facts lol 😊

[@melodymurray7742]

Hey Ghoul, Hey! So excited for you, Dallas, Neens, & Baby Gremlin! Love everything about your pregnancy situation! ♥️Your adorable baby bump, your quest for the just-right stroller, your food cravings, the precious ultrasound, your nursery plans, etc! ♥️ And yes! Neens will be the perfect companion for Baby Gremlin! Dogs are so darn smart. She will be so loving & protective, it will be very sweet. ♥️ Thank you for including us in your pregnancy/baby journey! ♥️

[@JadeTheLibra]

Thank you so much, Melody!! So excited to have you along for our journey and can’t wait for the spooky family to meet the baby gremlin!! Y’all have been my family for all these years, this feels like such a full circle moment! Thank you again for being so kind, thoughtful, and supportive it means the world to us 🖤🎃🦇

[@melodymurray7742]

@@JadeTheLibra this 70 year old grandma (yaya) can’t thank YOU enough, Jade! Including all of us is so nice of you! You & Dallas will be the best Spooky Parents! Please don’t ever doubt that! Just enjoy this wonderful time in your lives. Just when you think your heart can’t love any more than you already do, along comes precious baby boy gremlin!! 💙🧡👶🏼Yay!☺️

[@ginamoon8433]

I had the Chicco stroller and loved it! The cup/snack/bottle/binky holder is NECESSARY!! You will use it for everything. I liked the feature of having my babies face me at all times, it also kept people from reaching in and touching my babies without permission. So excited for you guys!! My babies are already almost 15 and 16, so getting my baby fix through your videos!

[@Rvddbaby]

I miscarried my baby bat on the 11th, watching your baby journey makes me hopeful for my next baby. I was so excited and bought a few outfits for them but now they will be saved and used for my next baby. So excited for you

[@faerie2007]

I have baby fever so bad, and I’m loving that I can live vicariously through this (cause I’m good with just one kiddo 🤣)

[@annakorn9353]

After raising two kids, having a daycare for 30 plus years, a black recliner/rocker is way better than a glider. Not only can you rock and recline but nurse, feed, cuddle and sleep better in a recliner. The softer arms verses the wooden arms are so helpful and more comfortable. Good luck with everything! Really enjoying your process!

[@LisaBrown-wy9hi]

Thanks to you and Dallas for inviting us all along on the baby journey! I am so excited for you!

[@debratarte8204]

I love the aesthetic for the nursery! I have three girls and I learned very quickly that purchasing a light weight stroller is the way to go. It gets to be a bit much when taking it in and out of the car. Can’t wait for the next vlog!

[@ashleymalfoyy]

As a mom of a 7 year old and 3 year old and one on the way (due in August!) I went with the Graco click connect system. We got it when we registered for my oldest and the ease of the carseat clicking straight into the stroller frame and then easily transitioning into the bigger seat with the attached snack tray is great! And it has lasted years! We used it for my oldest, then again for my 3 year old and are planning on using it with this next one too! And you really can't beat it for the price!

[@cynthobeauty]

I have a 1yr old and 2 yr old back to back pregnancies. Youngest was high risk low birth weight and small, had to go in EVERY WEEK to have scans to make sure she was OK. I wouldn't wish high risk on anyone. Partner and I are both small people im 5ft partner is 5ft 7 and oldest daughter has always been small too. Giving birth to our youngest she was born and there was a true knot which is SUPER RARE. I couldn't believe that we went in every week, and they never spotted it. She's thriving in the 4th percentile which is great (for her) and just a sweetheart to her older sister. Take things as they come, you've got this love your family, and the spooky baby content♡♡♡

[@ZetsubouJazz]

Goth mama of 2 here. We used an Evenflo travel system, it allowed for the infant car seat as well as a bassinet then eventually conversion to a normal stroller. I loved that it allowed for backward facing as I had my little one towards me so no one could just get up in her face when walking. We also use Evenflo carseats, they have great every stage of life convertible seats. The one we have right now in my car (main car) has a sensor safe and alerts your phone if the temp is to high or low, if the baby has been in the seat too long, and if you leave them buckled but leave the car. We just have a normal every stage evenflo in our secondary car. Definitely would recommend A

[@alexandriacicero2260]

As a mommy of an 8 month, I’m loving the baby gremlin content and am so excited for you both. Also I just converted from the infant Evenflo Pivot travel system (affordable and easy to use) to a Nuna Rava and Nuna Trvl stroller. I am loving Nuna and it comes in ‘caviar,’ super black and goth lol❤🖤

[@clancybolton]

OMGHOUL, the orange flavored drink for the gestational diabetes test made me so damn happy when I was pregnant with both of my kiddos. Tasted like semi-flat orange soda. After fasting until almost lunch for my test, it was glorious. Passed the test with flying colors. 😂

[@shamszakhour6076]

Jade, here are my comments without having read any of the other comments - I've raised two kids who are now 30 and 28. First, you tested the strollers when empty. I'd stick something weighty in there and try again - they can move very differently when holding weight. Second, unless you plan to only use the stroller when at home, you *really* need to test folding it up and unfolding it, since you'll be doing that a ton, I assume. How easy it opens and closes (and lifts into/out of the car) and how smoothly it moves when there's a heavy baby in it, are the most important. The first stroller I was given had to be returned. It was very heavy, was a bassinet style, and didn't easily collapse. We loved the stroller I ended up with (can't remember the name), but I *also* got a simple umbrella stroller for later. They aren't that expensive and was great for the toddler stage. My kids were two years apart, so I never needed a double stroller.

[@xlittlelolipopx]

Never had a kid, don't plan to, n I am enjoying you talking about the strollers and keeping us updated with baby talk

[@witchinthenorth4735]

I have 5 children my favorite stroller was my last made by Jeep. Fangtastic stroller I had a double stroller bc I have “Irish twins” (born exactly a yr apart) 😂❤ That bish was durable I could trek it through snow etc… so excited for you both!! Y’all are going to be awesome parents!! 👻

[@stefanilemminn7572]

My son is almost 17 now but the ONE thing I will always recommend for new mommas is a boppy. I freakin loved that pillow!! It basically became part of me. Whether you breastfeeding or bottle feeding… I highly highly recommend one!! They probably have spooky covers for them too 🤔 Take your pregnancy day by day… don’t stress about potential problems.. you’ll make yourself crazy. My mom always told me not to borrow tomorrows problems!! Love you Jade!!! And the lil gremlin ❤ Dallas too ❤ I feel like you all are family ❤

[@stefanilemminn7572]

Oh!! I remember when my son would literally do somersaults in my belly!! I would put the remote on my belly and he would make it fly off 😂 The BIG stretches were insane!!! My son was 9lb2oz so he was reeeeaallly movin and groovin in there!!! Soak it all in! You’ll miss it!!

[@stefanilemminn7572]

Maybe do a black old school type rocking chair.. like a black wooden one and either get black cushions or see if you can do a custom printed cushion!!

[@lindasherryrichardson3902]

3 separate strollers. I used all the time. Baby jogger, compact narrow stroller, reg size stroller w/ face out/in options, roomy. I love them all according to the activity. Oh yeah, baby Bjorn!

[@w.m.8126]

Not even remotely a mom yet (one day), but I've absolutely loved the baby/pregnancy videos !! It's really cute and wonderful to feel part of this new exciting and life-changing journey and I absolutely love how true the whole "what do I get of these baby products?" convo are because it seems so complicated. (and I just love that Jade is the kind of long-talker she is!; literally same girl and the insight is so fascinating/fun to listen to) Edit: I love that Neems is adjusting well and hearing she's good with puppies was the cutest. She's a cute lil soul

[@MJae204]

My favourite thing EVER is when I went to baby shower on the invitation it said instead of a card please bring your favourite childhood book and write a message inside for baby. I thought it was absolutely genius because let’s be honest a card can cost as much as a book and most the time they’re going right into the bin after that holiday/celebration is over.

[@StephanieGrace19]

I have been a part of the spooky family for a few years and am pregnant and about 3-4 weeks behind you. Girl…. I DONT KNOW HOW YOURE FUNCTIONING?! Women are amazing. I have HG so I have been bed ridden, all food aversions, puking 10+x a day for over 3 months, weight loss, not able to walk some days… man this is the worst I have felt in my life. I am so glad when women don’t have to deal with this during their pregnancy because I wouldn’t wish this on anyone. ANYWAYS, I’m so glad you’re doing well and I get what you mean by expecting to hear the worst at appointments. Fingers crossed for a healthy baby for you and me both! Best of luck girlfriend ❤

[@JadeTheLibra]

Omg you’re my hero/a whole ass warrior for what you’re going through! HG is a whole other ballgame!!! The nausea I got in the beginning I was such a wuss about it!! You seriously deserve a medal or a huge meal you can actually enjoy when this is all over!! Wishing you a healthy and quick delivery!!! ❤❤❤❤

[@shannontrucks1708]

Here to say that the double stroller, for me, was only used when my youngest was still in the infant carseat. If you do have two kids, the Wonderfold Wagon (or something simliar) is where its at! My older one hated being contained in the stroller, but tolerates a wagon much better.

[@brittneygonzalez6951]

As a mom of 2 what I used for both of my kids and was super helpful from birth up until my son 5 years old was a stroller that had the carrier carseat because they usually use the carseat until 1 year old and then they are the perfect size for the stroller seat and it lays down for sleeping and sets upright. My children really loved it by the time they fit in the stroller seat they loved looking around taking everything in

[@jessicamcarthur972]

For the glucose tolerance test, make sure you bring a straw and drink through it. It helps you drink faster and it misses some of your taste buds. I had to do 2 of the one hour and one three hour test and every time they gave me fruit punch flavor, it wasn't bad just super sweet.

[@TheDMLOL]

I have that IKEA Dresser, and I use the top as my babies main changing table (got one of the cheap foam formed ones off amazon, cover it with cute covers). It has saved my back, and I'm only 5foot 6in, the regular changing tables are sever inches shorter! ALSO! at IKEA definitely get the SKUBB Drawer organizers for the dresser! As foor stroller combo, I got Britax B-Free & B-Safe Gen2 FlexFit Travel System - Midnight, it is all black, and rolls really well, and the handle bar is adjustable so it rotates to go higher! Also love that the stroller folds really easy and opens well too. I love the large SOLID rubber wheels, no way for them to get a flat! the only negative is that the stroller doesn't have it's own baby handle bar across the seat for the baby, and I added a "hanging" basket with cup holders for the handlebars.

[@chelseamendoza7257]

Short and sweet from a mom of 5. Never used the stroller... Used the HELL out of a carrier... I swear by it... And you already carry neens in her little satchel like a pro! 🤣🖤

[@colleenriordan9734]

If you're going to be doing a lot of walking or jogging with your baby, I'd suggest one with the one big jogger wheel in the front. The four wheeled ones are really difficult for longer distances or over bumpier terrain. Lots of storage space, easily foldable, and part of a travel system are nice perks too. My Graco jogger travel system has served me VERY well. Everyone has different needs though, so do what works for you. 💜 P.s. Clementines were one of my big time craving foods too, along with cantaloupe. 😸 P.p.s. Sorry for adding so much... But as a fellow "spooky mom," it's always better to sacrifice the black or grey color option for better function. It feels kind of crappy when you buy whatever it is, but you're always thankful that you made that "sacrifice" afterwards. My travel system was grey and lime green, but I'm so happy I chose it over the all black option with lesser features. You can always wrap your baby in goth styled blankets and hang your skull printed diaper bag off of the handle bars to "spook" it up! Spooky stickers are nice sometimes too. At some point you'll be too tired and stressed to give two craps about all that anyway... 😂 Good luck, honey! 💜 Edited for spelling and to add points

[@ikrobiee]

I don’t want kids myself but this journey is still interesting to follow. Thanks for bringing us along. 🖤

[@JustDiane71]

So FREAKING excited!!!! Oh baby moving is so fun and exciting! One of the best feelings ever.Congrats and love going on this adventure with you.

[@catherinesackman7633]

Hey ghoul hey!! You look amazing! Just wanted to say, I had a spooky little baby last year (around the same time you're due) so I'm living for your baby content!! Also want to share: we have an Uppababy Cruz and we love it, but we are city dwellers and use it often. This model does not convert to hold 2 kiddos, but it's more narrow than the Vista (so easier to navigate through doorways etc.). We also have a Nuna car seat, and a Nuna TRVL (smaller, lighter stroller) that we love and use regularly. With the Nuna car seat we just purchased an additional piece (not expensive) that allows it to click into the Uppababy stroller. Pro tip: If you get an Uppababy carriage, don't buy the bassinet (though I think with the Vista it is included in the price? I could be wrong) you can usually find parents selling the bassinet on Facebook Marketplace on the cheap. The issue is the babies don't fit in it for very long, and they're usually gently used so people want to try and get rid of them! All of the soft parts of the bassinet can be removed and are machine washable as well...... ALSO-- ghoul, in case you haven't heard of these websites for spooky baby stuff, please check 'em out: www.witchinghourbaby.com www.skeletots.com www.babyteith.com ... Sending lots of cozy spooky vibes your way!

[@saraemily9529]

As a fellow spooky mom of two and a medical professional you works in women's health, the diabetes/glucose drink i would pick would be lemon lime. It tastes like flat sprite. Love that your sharing you mom journey with your spooky content as well.🥰

[@alexandriazahirniak8028]

Yes the lemon lime was just flat spriteesque

[@laurenszyper6455]

I love ❤ the inspo for the nursery! The dark mystical aesthetic is wonderful! I’m so excited to see how it comes into reality as well as hopefully see some footage from your baby shower and see the baby bat items. I’m so happy for you and Dallas and Neenes.

[@MileinaJuarez]

We had a few names picked out. When she was born I just knew what her name would be. Milagros, miracle in Spanish, short Mila. Her brother was stillborn from the same condition that our miracle baby girl was saved from. She was so strong, when the doctor pushed her back when my cervix gave in at 21 weeks and stitched my cervix closed, our baby girl held perfectly still, it was a true miracle and we made it almost full term. Our anatomy scan saved her life because the tech saw that my cervix was opening and we found a specialist to do a cerclage, to close it. I am so happy we have these Scans these days. Congrats on your anatomy scan , that went so well! You’ll know the perfect name when you hold your baby! And it’ll be perfect.😊

[@kimivdot]

I used they Graco keyfit for my son and LOVED it. It came with a car seat base so I could click it in and out of the car easily without having to take him out of his car seat, and it could pop into the stroller and go. It worked as a backward facing and forward facing seat, had special padding that we could remove as our son grew, and we used it as an infant seat and young toddler seat. When my son was finally too big for the car seat portion, we were still able to use the stroller without the “car seat” attachment.

[@hollymejia7073]

Love my evenflo pivot expand. It was easy to use don't have to worry about purchasing a bunch of extra attachments separately. The under carriage is a lot of room and easily accessible with 2 kids, I've seen a lot of moms with double strollers struggle to grab whatever from the undercarriage. And most importantly I was able to get this stroller in and out easily for solo trips. Also make sure you can fit stroller in car.

[@CS-06]

I have the same one and I love it.

[@kellyem2]

I have the Baby Jogger and absolutely love it. Going on 5 years and that thing has still held up. I find it really easy to collapse and pack when we're going places and the wheels hold steady when you have to push on grass or something like that. The snack tray you mentioned is also super helpful with a bigger kid, and it's really easy to clean which I love.

[@abbymcelroy8604]

I have a graco travel system and I love it ! However I stopped using the stroller a lot once my little one could sit in the shopping cart.Personally with my next baby I would baby wear as much as possible in store/ shopping because the stroller limits what you can buy because there’s nowhere to place your items! But if you plan on a lot of outings, trails, zoo, ect I would invest in something you love.🤎 Also I highly recommend a bed side bassinet. During those late nights it was so nice to just sit up in bed and feed little man and it eased my mind having him right next to me. I also recommend to all my first time moms a weighted sleep sack, velcro swaddles, and large burp cloths. Hope some of this info was helpful!!! I love that you are allowing us to be apart of this baby journey it’s so special! 🤎

[@Downisar]

I HIGHLY recommend a baby swing. I know, I know, you aren’t supposed to let them sleep in it but hear me out. My baby that is now 2.5 slept in a swing almost every nap and when he was sick especially with RSV. We were always present when he slept in the swing but it saved our lives. Also a bassinet that vibrates or moves. Just know you will never know what your baby will like or what will help you until it happens. Don’t spend a fortune on anything except a crib and a car seat. A stroller that holds a car seat is amazing but you will change your mind about what you need at the year mark.

[@JessicaDaviss]

I have an older modle graco double with all the extras(bassinet, 2 extra seats, and infant car seat) which I've used for 5 years across 3 Littles and it has stood the test of time. It's huge, heavy and a pain to lift into my trunk. I used it 90% for walks around the neighborhood. I love it but I HIGHLY RECOMMEND (Jade and everyone) to get a binxy baby. It's a hammock that straps to a shopping cart and can hold your infant or carseat. It saved me so much hassle when going to the store. I hope you see this. Sorry for the jabber @JadeTheLibra

[@nicoledarling9646]

Oh, I love that look for the nursery. My boys are now 31 and 28, so I would be overwhelmed by all of the stroller/car seat situations! Glad everything is going well, continued good luck and health to you, Dallas and Neens.

[@_gotharella_]

Ohmygosh I'm loving all the spooky baby content 🖤🖤 I'm unfortunately unable to have baby bats, but watching your updates and following along on this little adventure is so lovely

[@jrsmile6946]

Stroller advice: make sure you can push it with 1 hand, measure your trunk and make sure it fits, and splurge. Had a friend who didn’t and ended up growing through 3 strollers. She ended up with the bob and loved it. I got the Nuna because the car seat was light weight and the system is so easy. ❤ luck!

[@lindsaydiecidue]

probably way too late, but i think after having my baby almost 2 years ago, and with how much we used and still use the stroller system we got, we decided on something in the middle range, i am happy we DID NOT go with the top tier system, because it gets covered in milk, then snacks, maybe barf and poo too? i think something in the middle was a good choice. i believe what we have is the GRACO Modes 3 Lite DLX Travel System with SnugRide 35 Lite LX Infant Car Seat ? and the perks of getting something cheaper...if you dont love it, you can always upgrade. i had a really small baby, so she was able to use this specific car sear until about 19 months old, and now we use a toddler car seat with the same stroller.

[@jessicasheridan9051]

I didn't use my stroller much. I baby wore alot due to ease and that's what my boys preferred. Online may have more colors available. Orange and lemon lime glucose drink, I didn't struggle much with my test, maybe a little shaky. Chico is also a great carseat/stroller combo. Agree with stroller advice!!

[@alleyj826]

Jade! I just found out I’m pregnant too! I’m so glad I get to follow along with your pregnancy as a fellow spooky ghoul 🖤 I’m gonna copy everything you buy 😂

[@JadeTheLibra]

OMG CONGRATS FELLOW SPOOKY MOM!!! So excited for you!!! 🎃🎃🎃🎃🖤🖤🖤

[@alleyj826]

@@JadeTheLibra Thank you!! Can’t wait to see your lil babe! 🖤

[@kathyl4217]

I highly recommend the Uppababy Vista, Jade. The wheels roll the best, the bottom cargo bay is so spacious, and the frame is nice and light despite its generous size. It has wonderful touches like the way the bassinet and stroller seat collapses for transport, vent windows, and an extendable shade net on the bassinet. It clicks together nicely with the Uppababy Mesa infant car seat. It is absolutely the most versatile and adaptable system of them all. It also has an adjustable length handlebar to accommodate people with different height/reach.

[@kathyl4217]

My husband and I absolutely loved it. It also has good accessories like the rain cover that comes standard, and the optional additional winter muff liner.

[@artsygirlmarilyn6296]

❤yess. Uppa baby sounds perfect especially for sleeping in safely. ❤

[@mykallorin455]

Oh my gosh I am so excited about this!!! Congratulations!!! You are one of my favs and I’m also pregnant and I keep watching videos about stuff like this, but there’s so few alt/goth moms that I’ve found. So excited to see what you found!!! 🥰

[@maryfiorillo4871]

One other suggestion: unless you are a tireless scrapbooker - keep a LARGE tub (with a lid, think rubbermaid) and as you get drawings and pictures from your little guy and just put them in the box as you get them. Then, one day when they are older and you have time, you can pull them out - newer to older - and then put together a scrap book. Best advice I got when I had mine.

[@tragedie8]

I have 3 kids, twins and then 1, and Graco makes strollers you can use from birth to toddler for a fraction of the price, I had a Graco for all three. The bucket seat would just click into the stroller seat (facing you) and when they outgrew it you put them in the normal seat. It was super helpful just unlocking it from the seat base in the car and snapping it onto the stroller.

[@angelagoldsberry6541]

So excited to watch the baby decor hunting with you and good ole baby gremlin in his skeleton costume. For the glucagon, I did lemon-lime for both of my gremlins and it wasn’t much different than drinking soda

[@ladyred6994]

My bub is 8 months old, I went straight for the jogging strollers. Big wheels, shocks, the ability to take it literally anywhere, we ended up going with a BOB stroller. We traded a bit in exchange for the weight of the unit (it's a little heavy), but it's nice. It fits babies up to like 4 years old, the back has the ability to recline, and the handlebar is adjustable to accomodate height differences in parents.

[@luminousenchantress]

I really like a stroller with the attached car seat. I have three children and Iv owned one for all three. I can't imagine not having it honestly. It makes the transfer from car to stroller/shopping cart so easy and if baby is sleeping you can safely move baby and let them sleep without waking them knowing they are safely buckled in. IMO it's a must have

[@thewonderfullyjadedjonquil6253]

So glad things are going good! What you're feeling is called anticipation anxiety. It's normal to a certain point. You can talk to your OBGYN about it

[@karenreynolds1979]

Im so excited for you both 😁 you two are just the cutest couple & cant wait to see how you decorate the nursery. Def get his nursery done before you get too much further along. Im so excited I can't wait 😁😁😁😁

[@exinilda]

Hey mama ghoul hey! 🥰❤️so happy to hear the little one is growing! We liked the Greco stroller with car seat option. You will probably use a sling for the first few months. 🥰

[@nadinenettleingham2985]

A mum of 2 here! I personally would save on the stroller. Once they hit 5 months and wanna sit up and look around a bit/lie down after a while I just got a basic push chair that’s easy to put in and out of the car and saves space. Once both outgrew the bassinet I didn’t bother with the bigger stroller as it’s so hefty and awkward to constantly get in and out of the car etc. Also I didn’t plan for a second I just keep hold of the stuff we bought to hand down 🙏🏻xx

[@NancyBrown1975]

Wow Jade, the baby’s heart beat is strong! Thats wonderful! About the stroller, I believe its important to get one that will be sturdy and not fall apart like a wheel fall off or something. It needs to be a safe one most of all. If you go shopping a lot and go places a lot you would get your moneys worth from it. If you don't go out too much and not use it as much pay a cost for the best safe one you can use. If you find your life style changes you can get a stroller as you need it. Or if you get a two carrier stroller you can ether put Neens in to ride or store extra diapers and baby supplies in it and not have to buy another. You may want to just get a bassonette stroller now for when the baby is tiny and then upgrade later if you want another. You are definitely going to need pampers. See if the dollar store has them. If you want to get your own basics, in case you don't get them from the baby shower, get little bibs, tiny cotton shirts to wear with the diapers, pacifiers, baby bottles if you use them, baby socks to keep his feet warm, little shoes, put little socks on his hands so in case he scratches his face when exercising his arms and hands, lotions for when changing his diapers, baby foods and things like that you will need. You will know what you need as the time comes if you're not sure. I’ve noticed some nice long maternity shirts in Target. Your black house coat looks nice. Oooo I love that black crib! Get whatever makes you happy to look at whenever you walk into the nursery. Not much happening here except I have been craving baskin robbins icecream. Lemon custard and very berry strawberry is my favorites. Love you Jade the Libra!!!

[@thesleeplessspook]

I can relate to you feeling the way you do about your pregnancy scans. As a fellow mom who had a 'geriatric pregnancy', you're always kind of expecting the worst news and then it's surprising when you're told that everything is okay. Just take really good care of yourself. All the complications I had happened literally in the last half of the third trimester with absolutely none prefacing that period, so it was weird. I'm not saying that happens with all of us slightly older ladies when we're carrying a child, but I believe it's statistically more common vs developing complications early on when you're younger. If your blood pressure is good and your doctor approves, definitely do some pregnancy pilates to start getting your body ready for delivery. It'll make a world of difference. You're doing great, though! I can truthfully say we didn't buy many fancy or expensive things for our little one, as we (correctly) figured our son would be our only child. All of the items we purchased really just had to last as long as our son needed them and anything that survived got donated to other moms or charities that provided to needy families. We literally got by with an umbrella stroller that cost about $12 at Toys R Us (when Toys R Us was still around), though I can see the benefit of buying a fancier one with actual features. I believe I speak for all of us when I say that we can't wait to see how you and Dallas set up your little gremlin's nursery. Just enjoy it for the first year and a half or so because you're probably not going to be able to do much in that room re: Halloween until he's out of the "grab everything and put it into my mouth!" phase, much less the destructive toddler-kindergartner phase.

[@shrirajuli]

Oh also the bob stroller is the best one on earth! You have to get the car seat attachment separate but it’s seriously amazing to do quick turns in the isle of tj maxx

[@JustJennyKelly]

I paused when you started talking about the “too good to be true’s” and waiting for the other shoe to drop…I think when you have health issues you kind of anticipate a wrench in the plans and I know I felt that way. My daughter wasn’t even suppose to even have been a thought and everything went SO well! I was expecting everything to be so much worse! My advice- try to enjoy the small things and celebrate allllll the things! So excited for you both and thank you for taking us with you! We just found out our oldest (26 turning 27) is expecting with his girlfriend. All my kids are all almost grown so these vlogs are getting me in gramma mode lol ❤❤❤ P.s. I had a Graco and was 💯 happy. I had my 2 back to back and that one graco worked for both lol. At one point my mom in law got me a consignment double single file stroller they could be laid down in or sat up in. I sat up my toddler daughter in front and laid down my newborn son in the back. You adapt as you go ❤

[@chrissybunny222]

We nickname ours Gremlin too as she has liked to growl for fun or excitement since month 1. Gizmo was her first Halloween costume. Also we call her baby bat lately because she will try to hang upside down and just loves it. Currently she has just grown in her insisers before her two front so she has little fangs hahaha

[@kirafaith8581]

Too cute 😭

[@gothicbubbles]

So excited for you! Quality and safety are so important for deciding about baby stuff. Pricing is hard to deal with but things like quality baby clothes are a must.

[@ZettasMama]

I don’t know if anyone has said this, but I had bought a fancy stroller that converts as they grow. Honestly my baby preferred to be in a sling instead. I barely even used the stroller until my baby was about 18month old. That’s when I used the stroller like almost everyday until the age of 3-4 yrs of age. So don’t rush into a stroller just because you’re running up on your due date, you ll have time, plus you’ll find it hard to put baby down at first 😉. I’d focus on a good car seat first. Anyway food for thought! Congratulations and enjoy the journey. It goes so fast, my baby is now 15 already and it stills feels like yesterday when they were a baby. 💚

[@evadiaz9748]

STROLLER IDEA!!! The stroller I’ve considered buying for a future baby is the wagon type strollers. They are good for the infant seats and can be used as a bed to lay the baby down with out the car seat. They are also perfect for multiple children and or pets (I want one that I can have the kiddo and the senior pupper).

[@quentin-_-99]

When youre laying down relaxing, take a deep breath, and listen. The baby will tell you its name 🖤

[@cheyennebooras5575]

It’s amazing how when I look at my kids I can’t imagine their names being anything different than what I picked out!

[@CindyWilson1991]

Personal experience...Invest in a good baby carrier or sling/wrap to use for chores and errands/shopping. I've also heard good things about the Doona stroller.

[@LadyCastlevania]

With my first I was not the mom that went out on walks every day, and did all the fun activities. When I was pregnant with my 2nd I thought “for sure this time.” Nope. It was too hot in the summer to take a ton of walks, also postpartum is so exhausting, you’re sore and cranky and tired. So take that in to consideration. Definetly get a stroller that will last you into toddler years, that has good space underneath for storing things, a snack tray is very useful. And get one that has good wheels that push nicely. The one we got is so nice. It’s from target and it’s the Chico? The..thing you put up over the baby to block the sun can face like all the way front and back so that’s nice.

[@lyraserpentine894]

I would choose the stroller with the best safety rating that is also SIMPLE to set up. Because if you've got one or two crying/screaming demons, you're frustrated, and trying to put something together, you want something easy to set up.

[@Kay-zz9ky]

I felt the same way while pregnant. I am so incredibly blessed my son came out completely healthy, but the whole time I felt like something was wrong. Even now at 9 months old, I can’t believe I made fingers and toes. Like how wild is that. Lol.

[@zombielessthan3]

Hey I’m a mom of of 2 my youngest is 15 months and my oldest is 3y. I had the Graco with my first . It works great and no complaints I’ve used it with the second as well and just had to buy another car seat so each kid could be in one. When I had my second I actually got a wagon instead of a two kid stroller because by that time my big boy was wanting to get out and walk a lot but I also liked the option of being able to strap him in if we were in a hurry. There are a bunch of all black options. There’s room for neens and other kids as well as bags and coffees and everything you’re gonna drag to the zoo or playground. So I like having the stroller and the wagon for options. Ok the end. P.s. it’s ok to put a wagon on the registry because lots of times groups of people who want to buy for you but don’t have the money can all pay a portion . My work girls did this for a new mommy recently and she had most of the big things taken care of by the time baby got here.

[@HaleyAnneBechler]

We love all the baby content, it's so exciting! I have to say I am in love with the nursery.. Like I would decorate my room with those colors, so pretty. Much love and all the best wishes! 💖

[@azshoppingprincess4298]

Jade you’re nursery is amazing. I hope it all comes together for you ❤

[@brooklynhope9374]

I love the evenflo pivot modular stroller travel system! Baby can face forward or backwards and it has the bassinet, car seat, and toddler seat and if you get the evenflo pivot module xpand it will convert to hold 2 baby’s!

[@mymonkeysmycircus1527]

Hello I'm a mom of a 4 year old and 3 month old. We have used our stroller a ton with both of my boys. It's worth the money to get what you want. We have a Graco stroller and I love it, I don't know much about the other brands. 🙂🙂🙂

[@kristiesmith89]

I love graco products and I do highly recommend a light weight stroller because it becomes overwhelming to unpack that and baby from the car. Congrats and I hope you have a happy healthy pregnancy! Also I choose the orange drink for the sugar test and it tasted like orange soda and definitely not as bad as ppl make it sound lol

[@tinkpix425]

As an old Mother..I have soon to be 12 and 14 year old boy's. I would suggest getting strollers and as many expensive thing's as you can second hand. You have to get a new carseat because of safely regulations but save your money for other thing's for your son because he will grow incredibly fast. I honestly didn't use a stroller very much.. so I wouldn't stress on the stroller situation. I pretty much got everything from FB marketplace, secondhand store's, Wal-Mart and the like just because of how fast kid's grow and how hard they are on thing's. I'm excited for you and hubby on your new journey and love that your family is growing.. having a child is the greatest experience a person can have! 🖤✨️

[@simo764]

I just had my baby 3 months ago, and when my baby was in my tummy he used to love waking me up during the witching hours around 3am-4am kicking me for food! I wouldn’t spend a lot of money on a stroller. Just make sure never to get super huge wheels on the stroller cos it’s such a headache manuvering it around stores and putting it into your car… I just got a simple Evenflo pro one in red and black.. it comes with the infant car seat and I know in a few months he will grow out of it.. I love looking at your baby Vlogs! I love baby shopping !!!

[@s_kelli_ngton]

I have the Graco Evenflow system and I LOVE it... the stroller is so smooth and the carseat is just perfect. I would honestly say tho don't stress too much about a stroller, I rarely use mine but when I do use it I'm glad that I have what I have.

[@alexandriazahirniak8028]

I have a very petite 21 month old and we have been using the Graco Snug Ride car seat and stroller combo since she was born and absolutely love it. We got the black and purple set which fit my aesthetic so that was a plus.

[@hollyneal355]

Any brand you buy just know- the safety standards are the same whether it’s Walmart or Neiman Marcus. The safety regulations have to be the same across the board so don’t let sales people guilt you into spending more than you can afford. We have the Gracco with the Chico car seat that clips in the car dock and transitions really easily to the stroller and we’ve loved it. Sneaking an infant from the car to stroller by keeping them in the car seat was awesome, and the cover kept it so dark I hardly used the tube sleeve cover. Never once felt we had needed a bassinet. Plus the Gracco has cup holders for you and snack tray for baby, vs needing to buy a separate attachment. Also, if you return baby items (strollers/car seats, etc) stores aren’t allowed to reshelf them to sell again. They go immediately to the trash.

[@OliviaVazquez4]

Okay. I have 3 boys years 2, 4, 9 and I’ve had many strollers, most expensive stroller was 1400$ Quinny to 300 evenflo pivot. I would suggest graco Uno to duo. It’s small for one baby and then you pull the bottom out and it turn into a big two seat stroller. You do have to buy both seats but you can get the other seat once second baby is in tummy. Also all together the stroller and chairs are 400. They do have it in black and the charcoal part is charcoal.

[@dafnesinger2528]

As a mother that did a lot of research I got the Peg Perego Agio. The travel system comes with a stroller and car seat for less than $1,000. They are made in Italy and they have a higher standard for testing the car seats. I don't personally think the UppaBaby is worth it. Definitely look into peg perego, they have the same quality if not better! Also BuyBuy Baby carries some of their strollers so you can test them out!

[@morphin3lips]

9:00 mama- I just gave birth 7 weeks ago and the entire pregnancy I thought the same thing. I was anxious and didn’t feel like I could really feel happy yet. When they handed her to me.. it was insane..she was beautiful and perfect I was like HOW?! Haha. I highly recommend the doona it is amazing and so freaking easy.

[@morphin3lips]

Also… it really is rough out there for dark aesthetic parents! Esp in KC! Rhea Lana’s has a sale coming up.. I recommend you look into it! I got a ton of stuff from there a few months before she was born. I believe it’s in Lenexa