Hooking Up With Your Best Friend's BF?! - PRETTY BASIC - EP. 221

[@xmlauj8260]

My tip on working out in the morning is just to get up and not think about it because once you lay there, you start making excuses: “too cold, I didn’t get much sleep last night, I’m bloated, etc”.

[@mrsbebeeledger]

I need to get back into working out in the AM!

[@itzelsegura]

THIS! I also have my outfit picked out/gym back ready so I just run out the door. Sticking to a routine is so crucial for my ADHD to keep me motivated through the week.

[@ElizabethAxoxo]

That’s what I struggle with on my days off lol

[@mrsbebeeledger]

@@itzelsegura yes!

[@xmlauj8260]

@@ElizabethAxoxoI usually go on my work days and rest on my off days. Give myself some mornings to sleep in.

[@NaturallyWavy21]

The moment Alisha says, “am I the problem??” And then yeets the conversation to talk about an embarrassing story about Remi 😅. Girl, I think it takes strength being introspective and looking inward with the whole dating world and realizing that yes, it may be us sometimes. I’ve had to do the same thing and once I realized that and softened/opened my heart, talked about it in therapy, made some personal changes..it brought in a whole new different pool of men, different backgrounds etc. I found the man of my dreams. I honestly had this “idea” of what I wanted which basically came down to how I wanted him to look. Surface level things. And the guys I was attracting were just that. Surface level attractive asshats that wanted to say all the right things for one end goal at the end of the night. Then I realized what I actually want is a high quality man who wants the same things out of life I do and to be married some day. I started having more real conversations on dating apps and weeded people out fast. Be real with yourself and open your heart to that ❤️

[@Janariemacalalad]

I super relate with Alisha in terms of dating and putting yourself out there +++ overthinking why they are single and basically looping so much thoughts HAHAHAHAH at least we all in this togetherrrr

[@chelsearae468]

Remi’s lunch date story 💀

[@prettybasicpodcast]

toooo good

[@tracycolbert5194]

Once i changed from checking boxes to looking for my life long best friend everything changed for me in the dating game and it opened up my heart to true love. Money comes and goes, looks fade, but can i laugh with you at 80? Can we communicate properly? Do we share the same core values? And most importantly, if it’s not a heck yes it’s a heck no!

[@prettybasicpodcast]

THAT LAST SENTENCE

[@shanelclark2949]

Hearing Remi talk about the struggles of dating is so awesome and comforting

[@josefinejupin5714]

love how you manage to be relatable and talk about realistic problems everybody experiences, it’s nice to relate

[@TheLifeofKiara]

Literally have NEVER seen VPR & I watched season 10 because of what y’all spoke about 😂 the teaaaa. Crazy season! Def watching next season

[@ingridmeza2414]

Because of this podcast I paused the podcast, binged all of vanderpump rules in 2 days and then came back to the podcast to listen to your take on the whole situation. Thank you for that

[@AliciaDeRoia]

literalllyyy what i just did!!

[@LenaHillOnTour]

Hey Remi, about the structure and gym: my boyfriend is a full time KZbinr, so he spends all day at home. I am a cosmetician, so I work from 10 to 7. He usually pics me up and we ho to the gym together. It's great this way, because he get's out of the house and structures his day around my working hours and the gym is a fun activity to do with your partner. We do different stuff there but I go over to him between sets and tell him about my day 😊

[@LenaHillOnTour]

Afterwards we ho home, eat and go to bed. This means he isn't up too late and he get's up aroud the time I leave the house 😊. I love, that he get's his work done during the day, so we can spend the evening together.

[@lyssasmith6486]

Omg the VPR segment was amazing!! I need more of this!! And please go to all the spots and do food/drink reviews!! I’m living for this!!

[@swimwearho32395]

Alisha!! Maybe try looking into different attachment styles? (E.g. secure, anxious, avoidant, disorganized attachment style etc) And see if you can relate to one of them? I mention this because you mentioned that you were into someone but then got turned off when they started showing you nice gestures to show that they care. Avoidant attachment styles usually dip out at any sign of possible commitment and/or when things get real/serious. Everyone has an attachment style when it comes to relationships/dating, and it’s definitely very insightful and helpful to have awareness of your own to see why we react the way we do to certain gestures, etc and how we can work towards a secure attachment style. Hope this helps!

[@prettybasicpodcast]

waaaait we should make her take a test

[@alecuario]

i vividly remember watching remi’s night routine in middle school! i wanted to be her so bad (still do) 🥲🫶🏽 remi’s been my aquarius sister for almost a decade now lol

[@mrsbebeeledger]

Remi is an Icon

[@alecuario]

@@mrsbebeeledger that she is 👑

[@prettybasicpodcast]

MY SISTER

[@veeenusaurrr]

I loooooved hearing about Alisha’s dating updates! 💕

[@gabyyyfelix]

I agree with Rem When you find the right one it feels peaceful.

[@clairetrestrail7876]

I love watching you guys podcast so much because you give so much good advice and talk about topics that people relate to ❤

[@prettybasicpodcast]

i love you

[@clairetrestrail7876]

I love you guys too

[@IconVlog.]

Alisha you are going to GAG when you understand the whole lore of this show. Vanderpump is INSANE

[@marissamorales7537]

Alisha, I’m 31 and my boyfriend is 49. We’ve been together for 3 years. If you were to ask me if I would EVER date someone so much older 5 years ago I would say NO! My partner is my perfect person. The moment I let go of preferences and kept standards, I found THE ONE. 38-40 is a great age for you! I think LA is immature in general, so you just have to look a little deeper.

[@jmelll93]

The part about not watching content when it’s posted way after is so true. Which is why I never watch anything of tks 😢 she’s always 3 months later and we’ve already seen/heard it all

[@barkey-ng1xd]

i swear she posted some vlogmas in like february lmao gurl no

[@bellebrowder1954]

This is my fav episode! Please please please do a vanderpump recap when new episodes start coming out!

[@Abby-uw4pm]

ugh this was easily one of the best episodes y’all have ever recorded 😩😩

[@lizquartieri8288]

Where is Remi's shirt from?!? Stunning color on her💕😍💖

[@celenag7157]

Alisha’s hair literally looks sooo amazing omgg

[@callmedora41]

Morning workouts are the best! I am a teacher and I get up at 4:30AM Monday, Wednesday and Friday to workout. The sleep that I lose comes back because my working out energizes me so much!

[@brandessaletcher7212]

Looked all over for the cooking w remi ft Alisha 😭😂

[@mrsbebeeledger]

I cant watch it until I eat lunch because I WILL be starving lmao

[@brandessaletcher7212]

@@mrsbebeeledger SAME !

[@chocolatericecakes]

Moment of appreciation for Remi's outfit 💖

[@daixyray]

OMG STOP! I grew up with similar parenting styles as Remi, They weren't super strict. I also had a friend who was seeing a guy on my street and tell her mom she was sleeping over. She would get dropped off and picked up from my house, but was not there over night hahah. Also including the hot sauce for talking back, or curse words. lol I ended up loving hot sauce. Idk if it was an Orange County thing, I am from Laguna Hills (:

[@internetdiary]

alisha i love this shade of red on you! it looks intentional. while the darker red is a bad bitch vibe, the lighter red is fun/carefree. i feel u tho, i had red hair for years & i obviously preferred my roots touched up than grown out lol. i say enjoy it for the summer! but do u girl, u r beautiful with any hair color 🖤

[@jennalynclow1438]

I think Alisha struggles with dating because shes looking for the issues, if u look for issues ur going to find them, even if it’s just something ur making up in ur head

[@prettybasicpodcast]

maybe!

[@valeries3829]

Alisha is comes off as very similar to my mom. WAYYY too high / unrealistic expectations. She's going to be single until she can take a look at reality. She will probably be single for a long time if not divorced quite early. She seems unpleasable 🙄

[@stephanierivera9116]

Remi and me same person actually having a strict or set Routine truly gives me anxiety so I rather not have a routine but just be aware of everything I have going on

[@mykalaofarrell6883]

I refuse to believe the lunch date story actually happened...I'm cackling omg. love you gals sm

[@Janariemacalalad]

Delulu always>>>❤🥳

[@mrsbebeeledger]

the best way to be! Dreams come true that way!

[@prettybasicpodcast]

ALWAYS

[@thelmajohn4149]

OMG Alisha the fight schedule guy?!?! Am I crazy cause I would've SWOOONED 😭😭😭

[@tedddybear]

I’ve had to become a routine person in order to train. During the school year I didn’t work out at all, but now over the summer I have to balance an internship and training for a marathon which means I either get up at 5 am to run (no way) or run in the evening when it isn’t hot. Im really trying to work on my discipline this summer because sometimes it’s so hard to be motivated to workout, especially after a full day of work.

[@laurenmelissa13]

Thank goodness you guys watched VPR. I needed this 2 weeks ago

[@thesandravshow]

This conversation reminds me of a Matt Rife Tiktok where a guy built her a build a bear on the second date 😄

[@AshleyJade18]

Talking about dying hair... I'm 35 and i randomly stopped dying my hair 4 years ago because i was curious what my natural hair looked like since i'd been dying it since i was 14 and i realised that i was dying it for NO REASON 🤣 NOW, my head is full of greys and i don't give a crap.

[@CrystelNicole]

Alisha, you need to buy a color depositing hair mask. This will change your life! ❤

[@mrsbebeeledger]

I have always wanted to try those, have you before??

[@CrystelNicole]

@@mrsbebeeledger Yes! I used to have red hair and it changed my life lol

[@mrsbebeeledger]

@@CrystelNicole I have naturally red hair and I want some green strips for the summer! Thank you, I’ll try some out!

[@katlollipops9008]

Agreed!

[@chelseylynn1659]

@@CrystelNicoleppppppppp😊😊😊

[@sashyabbabyb3798]

I’m an OG VPR watcher been watching since the first episode. Never did and still don’t vibe with Kristen but stassi baby is everything. Lol. Watch it you’ll love it!

[@SavvyMarion]

Yess I started dying my hair in 2nd grade ❤ we LOVE supportive open minded parents

[@rosemarie8309]

I've let my daughter since preschool she's going into the 1st grade and currently has half pink half purple hair, and last October, it was black and blue 😊

[@Dink_13]

Was thinking the same thing.

[@heyakua]

Girl, that lake house morning routine was my favorite video lol!! 😱

[@B.entries]

As a non American : I never knew washing mouth with soap was an actual thing. I always thought it was just an expression .😅

[@naomicharnley7803]

The bagged lunch story had me dying

[@CelesteQuesada-zw2mm]

I’m here for all the VPR talk!!!!

[@karlafernandez6268]

My husband and I met when I was 23, he was 29! 6 year age gap. At the time I was dating people who were up to 10 years older than me. You never know Alisha! Your 40 year old soulmate could be waiting for you to change that age gap on the dating app 😜

[@mrsbebeeledger]

I could live off of Sushi and Burritos omfg

[@jackiemoreno8731]

Finally hearing about Alisha’s dating life! 🙌🙌

[@sydneybelle5787]

I recommend watching Vanderpump Rules starting at season 1. IT IS WILD!!

[@nadiadansani2139]

I think the French onion SunChips are my fave

[@gracieflanders]

I loved this episode it felt like old PB!

[@nicolette7731]

Omg the loopy fruit loop vodka (by three olives) and the Mountain Dew flavor was all the rage when I was in HS/college. I am triggered 😂

[@KaliLaster]

When I first started driving I chose a car with no backseat seating. I didn’t want to be in charge of anyone else’s life while they were in my car! I also didn’t have to worry about people using me for gas. Basically when my kids start driving they will get a car with no back seat. 😂😂

[@mia_m_butler]

Y’all saying 22 and 30 sounds crazy😂 my husband and I are 31 and 22 phahaha but my maturity is through the roof so it works!

[@MeahCervantes]

i’ve missed you guy’s!! my explorer page hasn’t shown me y’all’s videos in like 2 months

[@lesliexcaro]

For a moment this episode felt like a MASIVE DEJAVU

[@barkey-ng1xd]

maybe because they talk about the same thing every week lol

[@RachelHennessey-cc9it]

I relate to the not being a routine person

[@honesttogod_]

This is my favorite episode

[@TheKrystube]

I feel like waiting to date guys in your thirties now that you are in your thirties is definitely still dating among peers, the idea at 22 to date in guys in their thirties is to date outside of your peers.....not telling you what to do, I just wanted to provide a different perspective on that topic...

[@giovannisandoval2728]

14:48 you guys made me laugh and i was eating cherries and stared choking 😭

[@AbbyRebeccas]

Alisha- it would be interesting if you looked into using a matchmaker or matchmaking service for dating!

[@kate-ec4pj]

that sounds like a nightmare to me 😂 i feel like alisha is picky so idk if that would work but it would be funny for sure

[@prettybasicpodcast]

maybe for the content hahahaha

[@AbbyRebeccas]

@@prettybasicpodcast haha PLZZZ content baby content! and ya never knowwww 🤷

[@brennakelley7579]

The lunch date story has me dead 😂😂

[@shoppertattoo]

Red hair looks amazing. I really wish I was born a natural redhead. But yes it is a pain to keep it red. I currently have blonde, red, and black tips and I have to wash my hair very minimally in freezing cold water. Beauty is pain!!

[@aprilwood4589]

KEEP THE RED HAIR! It suits you too well

[@Emma.Camacho]

When I have kids I want to have a word that they can work into any sentence that I can get them out of situations without their friends knowing they told me. (I am pregnant lol)

[@kelsielewis22]

I am very much a scheduled and routine person because I will go crazy if I don’t. I have to have certain things done by a certain time so I have my time to unwind at the end of the night. And for the gym I would say go early in the morning or in the afternoon. I force myself to go after work or I won’t go

[@christinatulip17]

This episode made me smile !

[@talkswithlizbethpodcast]

Such a good podcast episode

[@talkswithlizbethpodcast]

❤️❤️

[@mariahvigil849]

fav episode of pb😂💗

[@PYIEREALANNAH]

What the hell is a wet burrito? 😂 Smothered? I’m from New Mexico and this term is nothing I’ve ever heard. 😅

[@prettybasicpodcast]

hahahah it's a burrito with salsa on top

[@bumbleb4226]

I did the same thing with hot sauce!! I made myself “immune”😹😹

[@kseniak8781]

alisha talking about her dating life. Me screaming at screen: MEEE

[@MadelineAngelicaLee]

As a New Mexican, I’ve never heard someone refer to a smothered burrito as “wet”. The more you know 😂

[@emslice]

10:25 same Alisha lol

[@martinaschlagl3882]

Loved the episode .. I also can't imagine being with someone that much older tbh even if I would want someone more mature 😅

[@TheUnderratedMama]

The scandal made me watch all of it again! I stopped watching years ago I’m on season 6 now and can’t wait to catch up

[@Txcxscream]

Not me waiting for truth or drink with Alicia to come back😭

[@elizat3270]

REMI ! Unrelated question but where is you’re pink top from 😍😍🙏🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼 LOVE YOU LADIES !

[@chickyaria6406]

Alisha Would Love Below Deck!

[@honesttogod_]

I feel alisha on having a very youthful personality compared to your actual age

[@aliciaaaa1989]

He did NOT pull out a lunch!!!!!!

[@rachelburrow9478]

REEMMIIIII- need the link to that shirt stat 💖🤩

[@prettybasicpodcast]

i think it's skims??!

[@Lexxx739]

I’m lol I’m here 23 and my sons dad is 39 😂😂 just date whatever age you want girl 😆

[@GirlsInTheWestPodcast]

New Podcast Here!!!

[@m5981-n5y]

Please have Mama Marie on!

[@karenengelhardt8486]

Men dont mature until they have children, they need something to be committed to.

[@parisalena]

what was the show they were talking about?

[@katieec1020]

LOLL I'm 36 and lately I've been dating guys in their late 20s and early 30s cause I feel and look too young for guys my age or older haha!😂

[@leannebuentipo]

alisha i love your jacket whres it from!

[@kobi2256]

Wow I’m so early. Shoutout to Korea time.

[@MagicBubbleQueen]

Alisha, are you going into these relationships or dates looking for the problem right off the bat, rather than just enjoying the moment and letting things happen naturally? I think maybe you're trying too hard?!?!? This is just my opinion from someone just listening to your stories.... but it seems to be the same thing everytime

[@SnidySenses]

I just....could never understand why people were attracted to Sandoval. But also only saw clips and he always seemed like a turd to me lmao. But I too know every detail of the affair and scandal without every watching a complete episode. The way Scandoval filled up all of my feeds is insane (but I was/am so into the drama of it).

[@ms.gaeta16]

Okay Alisha needs a hunky country boy that’s it

[@girlboss8299]

Alisha! you’ve mentioned that when you’re dating you care most about who they are as a person, maybe u would be attracted to women or queer people? I don’t know if you’ve spoken about it before!

[@saskiasani3111]

Alisha I love you but not Tom Sandoval 😂😂

[@prettybasicpodcast]

fair response lmfao

[@christopherlewis2194]

304z been ran through now theyre mad dudes don't want to commit you're not in your prime

[@danisaurtaylor3758]

Dont do it

[@thebenevolentpatriarch424]

Yt pple just age different man. She's 30?! Though more like 37. Jus sayin

[@debbie9226]

Alisha you are immature about dating and you are also overthinking things

[@prettybasicpodcast]

hahahaha thanks debbie

[@kseniak8781]

she is my fav immature dater

[@ruebenromero2497]

@@prettybasicpodcastlmaoooo

[@Lilcesar001]

FIRST

[@aviannacicilese5501]

loopy vodka! Its the brand three olives!🫶🏻