PRIDE MONTH! The LGBT Tag with Bee

[@ellamaraschino]

“watch this video get demonetized immediately” sPITS OUT PIZZA

[@NyxRising]

THE COUNTDOWN BEGINS

[@Clownbunnycosplay]

What Bee’s 29? I thought she was like 20 or 21,

[@ogabooga2235]

Dead Prince Cosplay SAME

[@momosworld1489]

Dead Prince Cosplay I THOUGHT SHE WAS LIKE 19-

[@suzy4quinn]

Dead Prince Cosplay me too

[@AngelXDTaty2]

Same! I was like "WHAT??? WE ARE THE SAME AGE???"

[@brakattack3824]

Riiiight? INCREDIBLE skin lol

[@57daysproductions]

Have you noticed the nyxrising casts names line up with the Acronym? L'nyx, Good Sasha, Bee, There's Chase, and Quack. All our faves. Also thank you for all the love and support towards the Ace community!!!

[@emmaw2152]

oka the gecko jack but with a Q at the start

[@katielemmon2581]

To anyone HAVE AN FANTASTIC DAY FOR ALWAYS AND ALWAYS AND ALWAYS.

[@weirdtoast9879]

OMG THANK YOU HAVE AN AMAZING DAY

[@TheDiplomancer]

Bee is my LGBT icon

[@jobrosrdaoriginalJB]

l g bee t i'm so sorry that was dumb but i couldnt resist

[@LiebetJoubert]

This video is so beautiful and relatable it makes me want to cry. I absolutely needed this right now; you are the best and this is why I love the channel and everyone who's part of it so much. Thank you! I'm also constantly trying to figure out who I am and where I fit in and it helped to hear this. I think I identify as bisexual and possibly demisexual but I just never feel confident. Most importantly is that I just can't imagine that someone's gender or sex would matter in feeling attracted to them - it's all about who they are as a person. Something I find extremely frustrating is how people would ask whether you've ever been with a woman before when you say you're bisexual. It's horrible that people assume you need to have slept or been involved with someone of the same sex to know, but even worse is that they never ask whether you've been with someone of the opposite sex in the same scenario. Or at least, that's been my experience. Either way, thank you so much for the amazing content you all create. Every single video uploaded on this channel is beautiful and means the world to me.

[@TheBastet613]

When my daughter told me she was attracted to both sexes her father and I told her that love and respect were the most important thing. We said when she finds that special person we will welcome them and not care about gender as long as they are happy.

[@professorx3430]

We love a pride month Queen!!!!

[@sorchabaker7038]

“Watch this video get demonetised”

[@beccakatee]

Holy crap this made me cry! As someone who's been questioning their sexuality for quite a few years I can't tell you how thankful I am for this. I've been trying to work up the courage these past few days to tell at least my best friend that I'm bisexual - hopefully I'll be brave enough to do it soon

[@_KITTSU_]

Becca Kate same I give all the bravery to tell your friend!!

[@philosynfonie7307]

Becca Kate wow, are you me? You sound exactly like me in my daily life...

[@roberthrenko5466]

i mean youve told us so why not them? unless coming out would put you in a dangerous situation, go for it! :)

[@beccakatee]

@@roberthrenko5466 I have now, I've been out to my friends for two years (didn't realise it was long!) and it's made me feel so much happier :) One day I'll hopefully tell my parents but they can be a bit homophobic so I need more bravery for that but now just being accepted by my friends and being myself at university is enough :)

[@leonkrusemark2587]

Bee is such a beautiful bean! I love them.

[@tekeybo6339]

I came to this channel mainly because of steve carlsberg cooking by the book, I stayed because holy damn, this channel has supported me in understanding and accepting myself on so many levels. I surley didn't know I signed up for friendship and support when I started following fun cosplayers. Thanks a lot.

[@a.kennerly6327]

Thank you so much for acknowledging myself and my fellow aces in this, and expressing your support for our small percentage. When you mentioned that you briefly identified as ace and brought up your support, I started crying, because we are rarely noticed in media. I, luckily, have not experienced much of a lack of support but I know that there are other asexuals who experience discrimination or a lack of support, and I am so glad that you are open for your support of us. Thank you Bee and the rest of NyxRising Industries for your support of the LGBTQ+ community. You are all amazing, and need to continue doing what you do. Thank you so much (I can not say this enough) ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜🖤

[@improvingtheimpossiblesinc9587]

If this gets demonetized, I'm throwing the people who did it to the wendigos.... I love you guys so much and you are such an inspiration. ♥️♥️♥️

[@Septumnism]

Wolfie Rees or to the archdemon xD

[@improvingtheimpossiblesinc9587]

Brent Wiersma send them to both make them suffer!!!! xD

[@Nikki-ux9ib]

Or maybe to the Skin Walkers! (If you don’t know what those are, look them up, they’re legitimately kind of terrifying)

[@Oliver-vs1kd]

I can't express enough how much LOVE I have for you. I'm not gonna lie, I cried several times, bc it's just feels so personal and I can relate to things you're saying. thank you so much for making this video. HAPPY PRIDE MONTH 💛💚♥❤💙💜

[@Xandless_Space]

When bee said that it's not okay to have the answers, I actually started crying because people have told me that it's okay to not have the answers until that moment and I really felt like it was okay that I didn't have all the answers of who I am. It was so nice and touching.

[@Kibo24601]

Bee is my LGBT+ icon

[@TheHawkarrow]

Thank you for posting this. As someone who is deep in the closet around their family, it gives me hope to see other people who are open and okay with being different. You and your friends are amazing and I love you all!

[@jayk9043]

I can't even properly express how excited I am that you've made this video. As someone who faces almost the exact same experiences-the nerves of coming out, not knowing which label really fits me, biphobia etc., I can't thank you enough for openly speaking about this. This sends a great message to everyone, who currently struggle with any part of being in the LGBT community-you are not alone! Don't be ashamed of who you are or what you like, there are always going to be people who will accept you no matter what.

[@Kris-jt8hg]

Ah! I can't get over Bee's hair! I loved the video btw, thankfully my mum was really accepting when I came out to her and it's good to share stories to give others hope that you can expect the worst, but the worst is usually just a thought of paranoia. Either way, if anyone is having problems with their family, there is always someone who will look out for you.

[@AB-xy4bc]

It is a privilege to hear about your experiences and perspective. I relate to a lot of what you talked about. Thanks for touching on ace inclusion! Ace and aro people deserve to hear a positive message. You seem like such a lovely person and I'm happy for your happiness in life and happiness with Nyx. And it's always okay to still be exploring yourself. :) I know many can relate. Happy Pride!

[@Nyanwroo]

Dear Bee, A lot of things you said resonated with me so much and I feel like I went through much the same emotions in my life only instead of 13 I finally came out to myself almost a full decade later. Still the experience was much the same. I found my identity when I got into fandom. (I learnt English through reading a small library worth of slash fics.) I even feel like the mistakes I committed in my first relationship were the same as yours. Your honesty about all of it truly brought tears to my eyes. And me too at 26 am still looking for the exact corner of the LGBT community I could completely feel describes me. What I hope to be in the future is to be as calm and accepting about this path finding as you are. Your words truly bought me comfort. Thank you so much. Love, Em

[@purpleofpluto9694]

Love the hair!

[@Thewritersnookproject]

First I have to say thank you for making this video, bringing more awareness to others is so important. I can completely relate to not knowing what I am after about 7 years, I thought I was just bi but now after 7 years I say I’m pansexual and non binary, but still doesn’t quite fit me. Knowing that it’s fine to not been 100% sure what you are is something I wish I had known when I was younger and making others aware of this is so important! Anyway thank you so much xx

[@neekitsart]

This really speaks to me on a level I didn’t expect, your interpretations of your sexuality and the community are so similar to mine in a way I don’t think I’ve ever found before, and it’s a feeling of validation I didn’t anticipate ever feeling about how I was. I’m not in as good of a situation as you are now in terms of my security as an LGBT person in the life I’m in, but this gives me a bit of hope for when I can get out of it and express my life the way I wanted to. And I’ve really admired you for awhile now anyway so it’s great to feel like I’m even just a little bit like someone like you. Much thanks, Bee

[@casmccracken7422]

Ah your little section about what you want to tell the world made me cry. Thank you!

[@madtophatter1020]

This video is so important! As a bisexual/asexual (and questioning gender identity 😅) I love seeing all the love and support going on and celebrating love and just getting that beautiful message out #LoveIsLove

[@Paladin_Guide]

This is the best video I have personally ever seen when it comes to LGBT because it is just so relatable and is just so inspiring it almost brought me to tears and it personally gives me confidence in myself because I’m still trying to find myself and it’s just really nice to know that it okay if you don’t know yourself or what you identify as and for that bee I am really great full so thank so much

[@kdrankins]

Thank you, Bee 🖤🖤🖤 I'm 33, married to a (sometimes gender-questioning) woman, but even at MY age I'm still questioning what label I like other than "queer". I use "lesbian" for shorthand, people dont ask followup questions, but I'm in more of a gray-asexual space with romantic attraction to women and aesthetic attraction to every gender ... and that is probably the best way I've ever put it. I really appreciate you sharing so much, especially about the bits that don't fit into easy boxes. Stay awesome, and happy Pride to you and Nyx 🖤

[@DoucheGoth]

As a young bisexual (I am currently 15), knowing a lot of influencers identify as I do, it's extremely comforting. Knowing that people are open, and happy, it inspires me beyond belief. Knowing that in some circumstances I won't be accepted is diffucult, but then I see people like Bee being happy and in a relationship is..Forever comforting no matter what.

[@silverfalconcosplay]

You and Nyx are adorable and I wish you both nothing but happiness

[@teaghost6488]

This video was very uplifting and really helped me out, I'm quite an anxious person when it comes to LGBT+ things because I feel that someone I'm around will take it the wrong way or they'll pull out the bible card. From now on I will be more proud of who I am as a person, thank you NyxRising. xx

[@jodie2763]

i literally stopped talking to my girlfriend to watch this i’m so excited

[@BratPrincessJoja]

You don't know how to express things through words properly?! WHAT?! This was absolutely beautiful (and so are you)!! You made me cry! Quite a bit of what you said resonated with me but the last 3 minutes or so... just wow!! much love!, thank you so, so, much for being so open and honest! it meant so much to a lot of us still trying to figure all of this out!

[@08eks]

It's nice to hear that it's okay to be confused... people are so often trying to get me to tell them what boxes I'm in... and honestly I don't know for sure! I hope we all can keep searching and learning and discovering! What a wonderful message, thank you Bee.

[@Soffhime]

I've absolutely fallen in love with this video. I listened to this while working on an embroidery project for myself, and at one point I just put it down and stared at the screen in awe. When you explained Love, Simon I almost cried. This is...a beautiful video. Thank you for sharing this with us, Bee! If other members of NyxRising would like to do this tag, I'm interested to hear everyones stories.

[@artimiswindsnap9179]

I cried at the end. This touched me on a whole other level and I think more people need to show that the lgbt community isn't just angry people fighting against other people. There are so many beautiful wonderful aspects of love that people just don't see out of ignorance and its so hard trying to show that to people who don't know anything else. And I related a lot to some of your experiences and others I envied you for having such great people in your life. More things like these need to be shared more often. Not just when bad things happen. Good things too. And just your average day normal things.

[@greencupcakes1]

Damn, you got me with that ending... just tearing up at work now 😂😭 thank you! You have no idea how much I needed to hear that.

[@hollynewell5854]

I relate and look up to you so much, Bee. You're honestly one of the most inspirational people for me and this video is so helpful. Thank you so much 💙

[@carolinc.6479]

Those last sentences almost made me cry. Thank you so much for your kind words, I think there are a lot of people who need to hear them

[@shellieng2809]

I'm so grateful I found this video, honestly. I'm questioning at the moment, I think I might be bisexual, but I still don't know and I've been very worried lately. Hearing you say I don't need to have a label or just talking about how you are still finding yourself was a relief for me. Thank you.

[@SillybilPI]

Just started watching this video and as a sex repulsed ace myself I want to thank you for your comments about asexuality. Luckily the people who are most important to me are completely accepting and supportive. But I have myself faced so many comments and questions that may seem innocent but can actually be very upsetting. ‘You’ll find someone some day’. ‘But what about [insert random celebrity the person views as ‘hot’]? Surely you like them!’ Like seriously. Thank you.

[@scooterbug8515]

Wow. Thanks Bee. Your message was incredibly powerful. Your final notes of not needing and having a label got to me quite a bit. Particularly in conjunction that you are still figuring your self out at times. I strongly relate to that and appreciate you sharing. Thanks.

[@themasquerade9136]

This just I love this video so much, in the beginning when you said you still haven't figured out exactly what you identify as, it really hit me and really just made me feel so much better because I'm struggling with that so much recently. My dad always called bisexual greedy so when I finally told him I was bisexual he quickly accepted me. He still made jokes about me being greedy at the fact that "I could have anyone I want so might as well have your options" My dad never meant any harms and it just means a lot to me that he didn't change anything with our relationship (even his bad jokes) because my dad is really important to me. Anyways just comment on the bisexual "greedy" comment

[@CarrieDAway12]

1. This was so lovely, my heart is full. 2. Your hair is fantastic

[@Data_HEX]

I really needed to watch this today. It's been a struggle the past month for me mentally and emotionally, for a whole slew of reasons, and this.. This helped me feel a little better about myself. Thank you

[@NikolaiHewitt]

Thank you for being so open Bee. It's something that's so hard to do and share with others.

[@Heidiblackrose84]

Your channel is amazing 😉

[@theweirdbee6076]

This video is literally to greatest thing ever. I'm sitting at my desk at work literally trying to hide my tears. You're amazing!💕

[@catfall6997]

Bee is such an amazing person! I totally agree with her! I regrate so much for not watching Love Simon in theater when it came out I didn't realize its lgbt based. And base on the book! Now I want to cry.

[@booterbox689]

Seeing you get emotional about Love, Simon gave me so many feels. That movie means so much to me. Thank you for making this video. It really means a lot that you shared these parts of your life with us.

[@aliyahdevenee3155]

I'm Bi and have been out for a few years now, the troubles I had to face was quite challenging but I got through it with the help of my girlfriend. My mum was quite accepting but my Nanna and most of my family don't really understand the LGBT+ community, my grandma was obsessed with thinking that it was a 'phase' or because I was so young I 'didn't know what I am' or 'I'm confused'. But I've started to prove to them it's not. Also this is off topic but I love all of your videos and they have made me so happy when I was going through a lot of hard times so thank you so much. Love you all and keep up the good job

[@satan6954]

I'm going to a pride festival on Saturday and I have reeeeaaaaaly bad social anxiety and I'm nervous af but I'm going to try my best and try have fun. Anyway I love and appreciate you so much 💙 *Edit* Okay so... my friend kinda ditched me so I guess I'm not going 💁 but thank you for the amazing replies!❤❤❤

[@kkatieloisxx]

I have anxiety too but I found that being surrounded by the overwhelming love and support of the community I found a place in outweighed any negative feelings I had. I'm sure you have your own ways of dealing with your own anxiety but if it gets too much for me then I go and find a quiet place with a friend to just sit for a bit. Really though, pride is an amazing event to experience and I hope you enjoy it.

[@Lou-Lou-]

Mr. Mattie maple man • HAVE FUN!!!!!! Lucky though because I want to go to one SOOOOOO badly! 🏳️‍🌈

[@ramble4395]

12:19 Awww thank you for that that was really nice and I love how your sticking up for asexuals out there who may be facing discrimination and I’m sorry that you had to deal with that.

[@KateriEcho]

Happiest pride month all! Bee, you are wonderful! Thank you for doing this vid! It's such a privilage that you shared this with us. You are wonderful and amazing!

[@ramble4395]

Omg I’m crying. Thank you for everything.

[@aquariusblack8702]

Well, I will join you in le community, my friend. You’re my role model, Bee and you’re really inspirational. You are really open with who you are and you don’t let it hold you back, which is really cool and inspiring. I honestly think life is full of opportunities and it depends on the glass and the water. Either way, you’re amazing!

[@brittanyBSBbabe]

This is so beautiful. I'm tearing up but of happy feels. I, myself have known for a while that I was 'different' but I wasnt sure. I never really thought one gender was more attracted than the other. When I was in college with one of my best friends, we agreed we felt the same about everything. And she helped me realize that it was okay to feel the way I did/do. We started dating in 2016 today, we don't consider each other as our girlfriend but she will always be a huge part of my heart. I still love her, and always will. 💛

[@rurousha04]

Oh gosh. I watched Kirkwall Coffee first, so when you make certain expressions, all I can see is Hawke. Love your Hawke.

[@melzy00]

This touched me bee! You are an amazing and beautiful human being! I loved this video and i hope you find happiness wherever you go or whatever you decide to do in life !!! The LGBT community is so open and accepting, and as a straight person I stand with the lgbt community!!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@deltaylor6393]

As someone who is almost 29 herself it is nice to hear someone else say "I don't know what to label myself." It's nice to know that I'm not by myself.

[@TyLeeslilsis]

Oof that last little bit has me in unexpected tears. Don't mind me while I wipe those away real quick. Anyways lol. This is so sweet. There's something about the way you're speaking here that is so calming and peaceful. It has a very reassuring "you'll be okay" effect. It's so very much needed. Thank you so much for doing this and talking about your experience. You and the entire Nyx Rising crew are wonderful beautiful people. Happy Pride month to you all! And to everyone here!!

[@hatty3492]

Thank you for talking about this! I related so much to what you said and I have to say, i smiled so much throughout watching this. Especially the end there. And funnily enough,i saw love simon for the first time about an hour before you posted this!

[@ghoulb0i]

Thank you for sharing your experiences. I love hearing other people’s stories because it makes me feel normal for once. LGBT+ isn’t big where i am. I don’t know anyone in the Community like that except for my closest friends. Thank you for reminding us that we are valid and we are loved because sometimes we forget. Much love ❤️

[@sarahconolly3510]

Thank you so much for making this. I know it's difficult to talk about this sort of stuff so openly sometimes, but as someone whose still struggling with all of this it's incredibly comforting to know someone I admire is on my side (as it were). Thank you.

[@caspercassiecas7878]

Bee, I just wanted to say: you look incredible in this video!! You look like an actual Disney princess!! I'm getting very strong Ariel and Anya vibes (Anastasia isn't a Disney film but it's the best way to describe this) and I'm so inspired to draw you rn

[@SadicMoutExt12]

"Being asexual is valid" Say it louder for the people in the back, and especially my mother, who still believes such thing can't exist.

[@claudiatomas8758]

Thanks for being so great and so supportive to the ace community

[@madmax1510]

Thank you Bee, I love you so much and thank you, I must say I have actually discovered more of myself after watching this for a second time after watching Chase's video and I love you both so so much and the same for the rest of NyxRising, I feel more safe and comfortable watching your videos and learning so much more, thank you so so much for sharing what you have xxx

[@Alexander_Darling]

Thank you Bee 💜 I understand the indescribable feeling from Love, Simon. It was what I wished I had growing up but I was so happy to have it now and to get to see it help people. It was an incredible film

[@allystardreamly]

I love this!! Got me wanting to do this tag!

[@elicoffie854]

Thank you so much for doing this Bee. I love you guys so much and I'm do happy to have you talk about this💜💜💜

[@lamp_to_my_moth7878]

3 of my friends went to see it and I was only barely able to keep my tears back and let me just say it was a very gay ride home filled with lots of jokes and gay humor along with trying to get one of my friends to stop crying. The whole experience was great.

[@LavandiaLovador]

becki bebbe!! it's so interesting to hear your point of view and!!! very good to hear that you made good experiences with your own journey as LGBT person! since i don't want any romantic relationships in my own future i always forget how difficult it can be for other people to be openly free having a non straight partner or even coming out. especially because it's not only a sexuality thing, but also an identity thing. i hope many people have as much luck as you had with their family's reaction! you're a big inspiration to many people, i'm happy you share your thoughts! thank you

[@blueriver.]

This is so beautiful. Bee, you are an amazing person, thank you so much for being so open and sharing your story with us. I have no doubt this also meant a lot to many other people - it certainly made me tear up! You are truly wonderful.

[@Charcoalgreetings]

I feel those Ace feels and short hair feels. Not fun having that word yelled at you across a hall... Thank you, Bee. 💙

[@SucculentSys]

I have only just managed to watch this but I realised as soon as you said "watch this video get demonotized" that I didn't get any ads during this.

[@brilo1959]

I love this so much; I'm in tears

[@meganpalmer1829]

you guys are amazing and always give me hope. unfortunately I'm now 19 and all my friends know and one family member know but coming out to my parents I feel may never happen. you are so brave and inspiring and give me hope that one day I'll be able to be myself woth my parents.

[@juliaaves722]

I adore you, Bee, and how honest and open you are. I love all of you so much.

[@swagmeister3000]

thank you so much for this! a lot of your story is very relatable to me and i’m sure to a lot of others watching. this video is really comforting and helpful, i love you guys so much! ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜

[@remyhanes9568]

This is such a powerful video Bee, thank you for sharing this with us. Happy pride month to all of you at the nyxrising industries. 🌈🌈

[@claudiacon]

Bee, you are a wonderful person, never change! ♥️♥️♥️♥️

[@nyxjefferson2513]

I'm really late to comment on this video, mostly because i didn't know what to say, but... thank you Bee, and thank you Nyx. Honestly, you're the reason i know i'm partially genderfluid (i fluctuate between female and nonbinary), and you also helped me figure out the name i use when i'm nonbinary, honestly. I fell out of watching you for a few months, when i first got together with my partner, and about a week later i changed my nonbinary name to Nyx, and i cut my hair similar to how Nyx's was (All without realising it). Now, on my 2 month anniversary, i am happier than ever, and this video helped me realise it's okay to not know who i am, it's okay to be something different than what i said a year ago, two years ago. You're all amazing, everyone who ever appears on this channel, you're all amazing at cosplay, and just happen to be the reason i went to MCM this year and met new friends. Thank you.

[@ramble4395]

Love, Simon is amazing and I love it still. I had wanted to see it in theaters but I live in a very conservative area so it was only in theaters for two days before it was taken down.

[@momosworld1489]

Aww Bee. Im glad you were able to open up about this ♡ We all love you! Happy pride month ♡♡♡

[@_Deckany]

This is the best video ever. i cried a couple of times from relating so much! i agree with everything you mentioned. I honestly am still struggling with what i want and im about to be 23! i also struggle with self love as well and its just been so hard for me really. i dont know but when i look at this video and listen what you had to say i felt so drawn in! (partially cuz of the accent! honestly love an accent!!) but because i dont know anyone who really understands so i feel so alone on things. watching this video i felt like i was talking to a friend. Oh how i would love to have a friend like you. but Anyways. Happy Pride month! to anyone really reading this just know its okay as long as you're yourself and living life how you want to! :)

[@jess-dn3zo]

I almost cried at the end of this cos I relate so much to this thank you so much for this xx

[@sophie-mia5455]

i love this so much

[@revelreads]

A wonderful video.

[@clasichoney2355]

I love you guys so much. I always thought Pansexual growing up or bi but as I got older and got a boyfriend I knew I was straight but I never stop loving LGBT community. Everyone deserves the right to love who they want and marry.

[@Lou-Lou-]

YAY! HAPPY PRIDE MONTH! This is the first pride month I'm really carring about because resently (I can't spell sorry) I came out as having no label. And what I mean Is call me male or female I'll respond to both 😊 I'm not nongender, gender neutral or trans. It's hard to explain but I just...I don't really care what you call me I'm happy with myself and you can't stop me from being happy about myself. 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈

[@virginiav.hartmann4491]

Thank you so much for this honest and open video!

[@XmysteryinthemakingX]

Bee, you are such an incredibly beautiful person both inside and out. I know loads of people are going to benefit from watching this video and listening to your story. It's a beautiful thing and we thank you. P.S. you look like a baby and I mean that in the most flattering of ways 😁

[@shauskha]

honestly listening to this just made me feel so Valid, I honestly have no clue what I am so I use "pansexual" or just go I'm Gay" which works well, Thank you for sharing your experience Bee

[@NovaVirgil]

Love this. I have had gay friends basically my hole life but I only just found out that I was bi a week ago and partly because of you guys. You all made me realize that it's ok to be who you are. Thank you

[@sjey6396]

This is such a powerful video for me, and I just REALLY love it so much. I can't really say how much I appreciate this and you (all of you

[@JAYfromspace]

also! phase =/= experimenting, exploring identities, developing into a different identity than what u confirmed u were before

[@janedoh1823]

I used to tell anyone that wanted to know that I'm pansexual, but almost always I would get made fun of and told I like pans, so i stop telling people. And i never knew how to express my sexuality but i think you did an amazing job at the beginning of the episode, saying its about the person not the gender. So thank you😊😊😊