Prince Harry showed his TRUE COLORS in SPARE | Q & A Part 2

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[@SandraLovesSun]

your analysis is pretty spot on wow going to start from the beginning looking for part 1 in description

[@drewwilson9149]

$10 for a box of cereal seems like a whole lot. Especially when I see a different commercial for it every week. Regardless, your commercial was the best one so far.

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[@NintenGamer8957]

Do you think that Harry and Megan will get divorced?

[@grandmufftwerkin9037]

The correct title of Prince Harry's book is Waaagh.

[@BaggageClaim]

Haha yes!!

[@Honeybees1005]

i will forever refer to it as this

[@AggieC819]

Perhaps he should be Prince Waaaagh?

[@AnotherfromEngland]

Why dese 'umiez keep scream'n waaaaggg without ‘da slaughter'n?

[@ichmich9324]

​@@AnotherfromEngland he slaughtered his career, personal life and his former Family harder then Ork Waagh of the beast slaughtered the imperium of Man in the 32 Millennium

[@laurelsilberman5705]

“Narcissists abhor boundaries unless they’re their own.” Wow. You hit the nail on the head with that one.

[@thekelleejean]

🎯🎯🎯

[@alexanderroorda1985]

Not disagreeing, necessarily, but my personal experience is that they don't even know what a boundary is. They conflate 'boundary' with 'ultimatum', and it is only okay if they are the ones doling those out (before almost immediately acting in a similar manner that led to their ultimatum in the first place). Essentially: I don't think that they have boundaries, and they don't allow anyone else to have them either.

[@laurelsilberman5705]

@@alexanderroorda1985 hmmm. I think that’s kind of parsing hairs and just changing the labels of what you’re calling a boundary, because the descriptor “boundary” is too healthy a label for narcissists’ rules. But I get what you’re saying. I just don’t think we actually disagree on anything

[@invisibleman4827]

sounds like my boss

[@jodiegordon5559]

hey, this floored me! I've been struggling with the possibility that my own brother is a Narc and it was very difficult n upsetting to see the signs in him but I didn't want to believe it. The final straw was that I put up boundaries on how we would communicate going forward because I started noticing the abuse he was doing to me. I haven't heard from him since and he's bad mouthed me to 1 half of my family, including my dad who's 82!

[@MyHam-os4bq]

I’ll admit, I never thought much of the royals, and Kate in particular. I just didn’t care. But, ironically, Megan and Harry’s constant screaming for people to like them and hate the other royals has done the opposite; I actually have tremendous respect for Kate’s poise and grace in this situation. I feel like American celebrities could really learn from it.

[@strongarmhs]

Me too. Plus Kate is trying to help young kids and child development. ❤

[@justanotherhappyhumanist8832]

Same here! I’m actually a Republican (in the actual, rather than American, sense). I’ve never been a monarchist and still find the institution itself problematic in the 21st century. I didn’t really care either way about most royals, but my opinions were more negative than positive. However, Harry and Meghan have made me empathise with the royals enormously, especially the Queen, Philip, Camilla, and, in particular, Charles, William, and Kate. I didn’t like them before, but Harry and Meghan have caused me to have a newfound respect for them. I empathise with the pain they must feel, and feel less negative about their own wrongdoings now that I have realised just how much worse things could have been. Harry and Meghan certainly have helped the monarchy - but not in the way they thought that they could.

[@crowsarefab]

I am exactly the same. I had no interest in the RF but Hank and Skank have really changed that.

[@amlacy9127]

I agree. Kate’s poise while Harry and Meghan attempt to harm the institution she’s devoted her life to upholding has highlighted the power of not being reactive. Sometimes silence really does say everything that needs to be said.

[@southbug27]

Me too. I’m American & was morally opposed to the monarchy, but now I’m pro British Royal family. I can truly see how important it is to have consistency & someone to carry on the values of a culture; I think that became even more crystal clear after the Queen’s death. I was shocked at how sad I was at losing her. In comparison to the trashy H&M, it really seemed like her death was the end of so many values, civility, & even sincere, public practice of Christianity seemed to die with Her Majesty. I had the same type of feeling when Pope John Paul II died even though I’m not Catholic. The Western world has gone to hell even more since the Popes death.

[@abab9622]

My ex-fiancé (a decade ago), was a narcissist and it was difficult to re-build everything he destroyed in me. Thank God I’m in a good place 🙏🏽 Harry is not himself or he seems to be the worst version of himself. I hear ya and can relate for sure. I hope he overcomes this too.

[@seriouslyjoking2]

Harry is not the person that the media portrayed him to be. His wife has brought the Narcissist in him. They are made for each other

[@roserozainah7630]

Couldn't agree more... As much as I don't like what he's doing and hurting the BRF family members, hopefully H will be able to find his way back home behind close doors 🚪 and heal himself inside out. However I also agree with Arya Faaz. 👇 Kredit to Arya Faaz, who wrote a comment in TRG YTs. *Prince Harry ONLY wants to have FUN _ ALL.THE.TIME !!! 👎👎👎😅 Pre-Meghanlomaniac, he wanted to get away with as little work as possible - being making sure he stays on TOP of the LIST of the MOST POPULAR royal. He discovered the SECRET recipe to achieve this since young. "If you make people laugh, they will LOVE you, NO MATTER WHAT". 🤔🤦🤷 It was NOT the BRF PR machine that did this because the Press had REPORTED all his MISDEEDS and BAD BEHAVIOR, with ZERO interference from the Palace. Yet, the UK Citizens LOVED him because he made sure the camera lens caught him "PERFORMING" all his CUTE, HILARIOUS and WHACKY CHIPPY-CHAPPY antics. He sure did a lot of HUGGING on camera _ BABIES, CHILDREN, ant the ORDINARY MEN and WOMEN on the street. He RULED them all with his CHARM OFFENSIVE. He escaped from all the UK Public CRITICISM, so he kept PUSHING the BOUNDARIES with his MESDEMEANOR, like he DID in Las Vegas, thinking that the UK Press would NOT track him there. When they did, still the UK PUBLIC forgave him READILY and simply rolled with laughter at their "BELOVED PRINCE'S" naked body on FREE SHOW!!! 🤦🤷 So HARRY, the MAN he has become, believed that if he could RULE the UK Public just by being HIMSELF, surely he COULD RULE THE WORLD 🌎 the same way too. 🤔😅🤭 ALL HE NEEDED WAS A CON'S-CONSPIRATORS and ACCOMPLICE WHO HAS THE GIFT OF THE GAP and THE CHUTZPAH. 😅 Unfortunately, he NEVER expected to WORK SOOOO HARD and he would have to FOREGO ALLLL THE FUUUNNNN 🤣😂😅🤭 Poor poor HAAWWWYYYY ... Why you look sooo SAAADDDD all the time...🤭🤔🤷🤦 Awww...Poor Boy...* 😭😂😅 Pcycopath H... 🤦🤷 kzbin.info/www/bejne/naa7dKBvh7SgbJY kzbin.info/www/bejne/fKvOZX6Mrdlsb7c *** What goes around will always comes around... *** Should he be invited to the Coronation? Here's several insight from YTs who's been DEBUNKED many many lies of both Dou. kzbin.info/www/bejne/jaCmhI2prZlohrM kzbin.info/www/bejne/jZmUaoyabNynpsmg

[@rw4754]

Looks like Harry has Borderline Personality Disorder - comorbid with histrionic & and paranoia. BPD is a subcategory of NPD.

[@marysylvie2012]

harry is not the victim of markle. harry is far worse than markle. he will never recover because his mind is lost in drugs. He is in another world but his world is violent and full of hatred. In other words, he is a monster.

[@1313fina]

That's why I like Henry Cavill, because he's all about professionalism and not mixing work with pleasure. Even though I haven't watched any of his work, just his stance on sticking to the lore of The Witcher is enough for me.

[@Karmingiry]

In Africa you wouldn't marry someone without meeting her family. Even if someone is orphaned and an only child you meet the extended family.

[@michaelaharris-sutton9002]

I have always found it strange she almost never lets go of him in public. Even when he feels uncomfortable (UN meeting.)

[@maef7026]

I was friends with a narcissist and what you say is so true, the best thing to do is to ghost a narcissist, which is very hard to do when you're a good person. Ghosting feels bad to a good person but you can't let people continue to abuse you just because the other person tells you that they need to continue to abuse you in order for them to feel happy. Does that sound like someone who actually cares for you?

[@MandySam13]

Narcissists are only happy when they are controlling someone. If you don’t want that you need to move away from them. I once dated a narcissist and didn’t even realise till many years later. I ghosted him in the end and that was the only way. They are very selfish and don’t care about anyone but themselves. They also act like everything is your fault. Good decision on your part to cut lose your former friend.

[@hanrockabrand95]

Sorry to hear you went through that. I told a narcissist why I was cutting them out of my life, so it wasn't technically ghosting. But since they literally can't absorb anything that conflicts with their narrative, it must have seemed to them like I vanished in a puff of smoke. 🤷‍

[@Countess88]

My mother. She was becoming so much more critical, cruel & horrible to me, that I completely ghosted her for 8 months. Then, Xmas was coming. My poor introvert Dad begged me to come home for Xmas. I did it to please him, but had to tolerate the subversive crap from my mother while I was there.

[@hanrockabrand95]

@@Countess88 That really sucks. One human being to another: it's perfectly OK to advocate for what you want and need - even if it conflicts with the desires of a loved one. Those who love and respect you will try to meet you halfway.

[@janedoe3648]

​@@hanrockabrand95 i don't think people should just not care about or cut out some family members just because some family members are bad. That is selfish/cold and would result in most people being cut off and isolated from most families/other people, and that is even worse for her/anyone in the long run

[@TwilightWolf032]

I think Harry has long crossed the line between victim of a narcissist and another narcissist who's hurting others for his own gain.

[@klavr]

Was looking forward to part 2. You're shining a new light on their "story". Thanks!

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[@hanrockabrand95]

You make a good really point about oversharing and trying to paint it as a mental health PSA. I'll admit that I'm guilty of the same thing, and I'm trying to be better about that. I'm starting to use a term I thought of yesterday - "emotional littering" - which I was initially using to describe the instances where I fail to filter out my generational trauma and thus litter other people's emotional landscape with the negativity I inherited. But I'd also like to use that term for when I just overshare the negative feelings I have with others. I don't want to just dump all that garbage onto someone else's day. Ultimately, it's something that can be very effectively addressed with healthy boundary work. Don't give garbage, don't take garbage.

[@BaggageClaim]

Completely agree! Well said!

[@destinyhntr]

Agreed. It can be very tempting to release a bunch of stuff to someone else, but when I'm on the other side of it, I always feel weighed down and awkward. i don't want to do something like that to someone else, especially when it doesn't improve the situation

[@Silverfox-oj4cw]

What crap is this?????? Pile of nonsense!!

[@mallorycarpinski1160]

I like that term. I kind of think of it as gossiping (what H&M do definitely is) even if gossiping about yourself, but definitely if it includes generational trauma because then it's essentially gossiping about your family. It can be really hard to see that though when we think we're just talking about ourselves or being self deprecating.

[@lmm8960]

I’ve always called it trauma dumping!

[@melindah2428]

I have been separated from my narcissistic husband now for 6 weeks...its hard, really hard. He has started to just turn up ( I'm still in our family home), and last Friday, I realised why he was doing this.. he needs fuel, and I have been giving to him good, bad, or indifferent. He came last Friday because and I quote, " You didn't answer the phone & I needed to know which account to take money out for diesel for my car." Me " the same account you take it out of every week! Why are you here?" Him "so, this is no longer my home?" And on it went...= fuel given... Narcissist 1 me 0. 😳

[@heathercontois4501]

Okay you beautiful strong human. First, get a good therapist. It's okay to change to different one if you don't think they are a good fit for your care. Second- he's out of the house, change the locks and refer all his questions to your lawyer. Always. You are not required to answer anything about separating your life from his without your lawyer. It expensive, but worth you safety.

[@melindah2428]

@heathercontois4501 Thank you for listening ( I know it's not the right word, but you know what I mean) 🥺 you gave me good tears xxx thank you!

[@SNOW.STORM30]

I’m so sorry you’re going through all that. A divorce in itself is hard but to break free from a narcissist is another level of struggle. Sending you lots of positive energy and if you can, get a therapist who can help you navigate all the emotional manipulations he’s going to try put you through.

[@heathercontois4501]

@@markroberts5183 How dare you! Get your narcissistic self OFF THIS CHANNEL! You have no idea what the mental and emotional abuse does to a person. I don't care that she is in the family home, she has a roof over her head and so does he. It sounds like there was financial abuse as well, since it seems she didn't have anywhere to go. Abuse has no economic demographic!

[@heathercontois4501]

@@markroberts5183 I highly suggest you look up credible statistics before you go saying all that. You sound really uneducated as to what the system is doing completely wrong in all of that.

[@wefinishthisnow3883]

That ending from 21:30 onwards was absolutely mind-blowing. It really needs to be not just its own video but its own series of videos. There is so much 'baggage' to unpack there. Amazing work.

[@miav7160]

Couldn’t agreed more! ❤

[@-NoneOfYourBusiness]

Maybe they should create two separate Titles: Prince of Wales and Prince of Waaagh

[@anneparsley8739]

...sad when one bald guy calls another bald guy bald

[@oldcatlady3803]

Diana would never have had the opportunity to do all her "good works" if she had not married Charles. She would have been a good Nanny or teacher.

[@gabriellefletcher3523]

Thanks for explaining “baggage claim” - a very thoughtful and helpful video

[@terrymartin7147]

As some one who has had to deal with a malignant narcissist in my own family, at first I was fascinated that the RF would have to cope with the same situation. Maybe I could learn something. Now the Harkles just weary me. Your grandmother was right, “silence is golden” and separation by 3,000 miles is even better.

[@irena4545]

Question: How do you think Harry feels about Sasha Walpole coming out and tearing down his narrative about their sexual encounter? - I also wanted to say, yet another great video. Having been married to a narcissist, this content helps me to deal with it.

[@ziigy4545]

The putz wanted to sue her for, get this, violating his privacy. He put their private encounter in his book without warning her, leaving her open to discovery & public vivisection by the press, but she "violated" his privacy. By her coming forward to tell her version of the story, she took back control - and good for her! Fortunately cooler heads prevailed and he has abandoned his plans to sue her. He's still a putz tho.

[@irena4545]

@@ziigy4545 Ah, so he didn't like the taste of his own medicine? Good! Personally, I'm really glad that she called him out on his BS because, while not indulging him is good for the public image of the RF, I think the lack of resistance also emboldens him. Someone standing up to him and having him eat his s*** must have been quite a surprise!

[@cc2016]

I couldn't marry someone if I haven't met their whole family first... it's just weird that he didn't.

[@juannell4124]

To not meet your living father in law

[@CodyCEngdahl]

Your ads are the only ones I don't shuttle past because they're so entertaining! You're absolutely brilliant.

[@BaggageClaim]

Haha thank you!!

[@SmegmaBukaki69]

I love how even your Q&A videos are really thoughtful video essays. KZbin doesn’t deserve you😂

[@wistariawhispers937]

One big mistake the great Queen made: not letting Charles and Diana divorce years earlier.

[@hedaheda1609]

It was an even bigger mistake to arrange this marriage.

[@HolyGround777]

I am beyond happy I found your channel! Your answers are delivered in such a honest but kind and compassionate way, I am not sure if you said where these questions are from but good job to everyone, allowing for the subject to be studied in from so many different angles😊 Just great job all around!

[@patwats8860]

Will is balding harry hasn’t looked at the mirror for the top of his head lately. He’ll be so disappointed!

[@lylyc8315]

Harry is definitely a narcissist and it's about time people realize and accept that. Let's be clear. His wife is revolting. She is a narcissist who is using him. But he is also using her to perpetrate a vile and unjustified revenge against his family. He has always been a narcissist. In his book you can tell by his behavior in his early years (prior to the loss of his mother) and his description of it. The way he treated people and thought of them since a young age is already very disturbing. And there is no wife to blame then. His behavior toward people just worsened over the years and was kept as hidden as possible from the public because the Palace did a spectacular job protecting him. He left, lost his safety net (against which he rebelled constantly) and simply exposed his true colors without filter. The wife is the perfect catalyst to his narcissism because it serves hers, and it is now showing in full force. The thing is, between the two, she is the most powerful narcissist. When he stops being of interest to her (which is closer than most may think), he will be discarded and smeared by her. He will less successfully attempt to do the same to her and things will take a very nasty turn.

[@admirallily]

Last point of the segment was exactly what I’ve come to learn and what brought me out of years of angry anxiety. I’m so much happier now knowing the truth and power of personal responsibility.

[@kate2create738]

Question:Has there been any follow up of Harry’s involvement in Aspen Institute? For those who don’t know, it’s basically a group of people advocating that they be the ones to chose what is true and what is not, aka censorship. Harry is part of the commission team, as well as Katie Couric. Not many people are aware of this organization and it could be a good time to brush up on this topic.

[@ziigy4545]

Excellent question and one I'd love to hear the answer to as well.

[@Freestylestar900]

I had a huge crush on Prince Harry when I was young (he’s 10 yrs older) but as I matured, I see him as a WEAK MAN and Meghan knew.

[@LizRealGirlBeauty]

I still want to know what they think his family should be apologizing for. Refusing to abdicate so Meghan could be Queen and Harry Prince Consort? That's it, isn't it?

[@maureenchallener1529]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@bcnotpc659]

QUESTION: can you please give us more analysis on the royals! I love it. You’re quite good at this.

[@BaggageClaim]

Will do!!

[@josephbassey1501]

​@@BaggageClaim hope you have voice acting gigs and audio books cuz your voice is so relaxing Like melted honey You could also do ASMR if you're feeling naughty

[@SNOW.STORM30]

A year ago we started hearing that after the book they plan on making 2023 the year of reconciliation. I thought it was crazy because who plans to attack their family, the values and legacy then start efforts for reconciliation, these are people you’ve hurt and betrayed. Imagine my surprise when suddenly Harry who couldn’t say to Hoda during an interview in 2022 that he missed his brother & father, suddenly wants them back in his life and would even like a role in the monarchy but not only that, he’d also like apology. It’s unbelievable!

[@LariTanner]

OH so good to SEE you now! I've been lurking and following for a couple of years now. I don't ever post. I love your educational analysis of the subjects of your videos.

[@BaggageClaim]

Oh thank you!

[@LariTanner]

@@BaggageClaim You're so welcome, I enjoy your analyese!

[@iinvaderrand]

Thanks for answering my question. This is really informative and clears up my thoughts.

[@ralpho5389]

You are quite brilliant on your research of the royal family and the dynamics with Harry and Meghan... It really clarifies the situation. Thank you 💞

[@chubbybunny915]

I absolutely agree with you 😊

[@gregariousclarke]

Thank you so much for transmuting your suffering into valuable insights to share with others who can benefit from hearing them.

[@TheSeedpearl]

Great answers to the questions. I agree with your entirely about a narcissist. We dealt with one who married into our family. She was a classic narcissist, but we didn't know at that time.

[@wokeisajoke6806]

Again, not my comment. What gives? How is my user name being cloned?

[@maepletea]

22:04 This is extremely well said!! I'm so glad that I found this channel

[@sabeensalman7954]

What a sensible conversation. Loved it

[@essiebl]

Thoroughly enjoyed your QandA session. Thanks. You saying how people shouldn’t dwell on themselves too much really struck a personal chord with me. When I was a teenager I used to get depressed rather a lot and in these periods it would only take the smallest imagined slight to make me sink even further down. Got talking to an older chap one day and asked him him how he dealt with such feelings and his advice was to get off myself. I’ve followed his advice ever since and, although I’ve had (as we all do) some extremely sad or cross times, there’s been virtually no depression.

[@pennylando3145]

Agree 100%. Today there is so much focus on "self", and in my view that is contributing to the upswing in mental health issues. That and the cult of looking for offence - or "offence mining" - as I prefer to call it. There is a tendency among the young to think that they're doing a good thing by calling out 'offence' and 'hate speech' or 'micro aggression', but this is training their minds into focusing on negatives which, as psychologist Jonathan Haidt said, is the polar opposite of CBT therapy which, in part, is designed to counter negatives and depression.

[@MirandaSinistra]

This is excellent, as always. I'm pretty sure I'm married to a narc but I've made my bed and I've chosen to lay in it. Props to those who have/had the strength to leave.

[@BaggageClaim]

It’s very tough to leave. I can understand why you haven’t.

[@p.maryyayabear7078]

Be aware, narcs will discard.

[@sarahcoventon1638]

I was in a relationship with a narcissistic for 5 years it is really hard to leave, there are videos about how to deal with them, just remember to take care of yourself.

[@billcynic1815]

0:38 "When I was in a relationship with a narcissist..." Suddenly, this channel's interest in Meghan makes a lot more sense.

[@BaggageClaim]

Yup my whole reason for analyzing their relationship is to learn and share lessons regarding narcissists.

[@marymiranda2687]

16:41 It's same thing happening with this whole drama with Selena, Hailey and Justin. While Selena is commenting and liking TikToks hating on Hailey, clearly looking for a response from the Biebers, Hailey and Justin are just staying quiet, ignoring the hate and living their lives unbothered. And I feel like this silence from the Biebers' end is really getting to Selena and her fans because they haven't stopped bullying the Biebers along with their family and friends.

[@lorettathanksjesus]

Thank you for including Insta and YT questions. 👍 I do not have an Insta account & miss out on some interesting projects as a result. 👍

[@jeffeby2218]

"A lot of happiness is faked online." TRUTH!!!

[@Pigruli]

Has anyone figured out why they always walk/sit holding hands? It looks like they are afraid that someone will come and pull one in a truck or smth

[@kimchristianson4743]

Love your content. I needed to hear the grey rock strategy today to deal with a narcissist I thought I had excised from my life

[@wcolautti]

You’re so profoundly wise for such a young woman. I love listening to you!

[@shelley2he844]

I've actually started thinking that Harry is the narcissist in this equation. He has always been a spoiled, entitled, arrogant, jealous, bitter little man - it's all there in his book. The blasé attitude with which he refers to people he killed in conflict. The palace did an amazing job of covering up his real personality. He used meghan as an excuse to do what he's always wanted, she gets the blame for everything and people still feel sorry for him. You could just as easily say that HE has isolated her, from her family and his. All she's got is her kids and the fancy house and she's stuck there with him. And her reputation is destroyed beyond repair. She's infamous.

[@sarcasticmouse]

That is very interesting! I haven’t heard enough people talking about this theory…

[@mistermagnificence2112]

This is a pretty good point too. Honestly, the more I see, the more it feels like they are BOTH narcissists, and are feeding off of eachother

[@QuinnzeyQ89]

I think Meghan pulled a lot of negative emotions out of Harry that he was harbouring. Her need for attention and her hatred for her own family gave Harry an outlet and “sympathetic ear” for his own “plights”. It can’t be easy to be the “spare” and have lost his mother so young while living in the spotlight. However, at the end of the day, the Royal Family is his family and his betrayal of them is his own. And seriously Harry, the whole “Heir & Spare” thing doesn’t work in the modern day. You’re 5th in line Harry. You should be grateful for being born into the House of Windsor and you should do better to honour and respect what your grandmother lived to uphold during her entire life and reign. Shame on you Harry.

[@kirstenanderson1435]

I believe his core personality is fundamentally rotten but for most of his life he was surrounded by fundamentally decent good people, so this kept him in check. However, once he met MM (who encourages his dark side and spurs him on to wicked behavior), he now feels justified in acting out in an awful manner and attacking his perceived enemies. She manipulates him for her own agenda, but he has been a willing participant and in some ways he is worse than her because he has betrayed people who have always treated him better than he deserves.

[@shenanigans96]

In his defense, he probs didn’t handle the grief of losing his mother in such a public, horrific way that well since we know how much pressure is on a person in that family to keep it together so to speak I do think Harry is a decent chap-he can’t be that good of an actor in all his interviews/interactions pre MM-but I think he’s v easily manipulated due to not being the brightest lightbulb (his mom wasn’t that smart either…but was v kind like Harry was before too)

[@JamesG12]

"We want privacy!" 🤣

[@sweetmeme1987]

I always wondered about the channel name and I just love the reason behind it ❤. Please keep up the good work , the message that you are spreading is so important.

[@BaggageClaim]

Thank you so much!!

[@wokeisajoke6806]

Excuse me...@wokeisajoke6806 is my user name. What happened? I didn't write this comment.

[@gabe-po9yi]

Harry’s war stories were - stories, as in lies. He flunked pilot training and not only did he not have a kill count of 25, he never even got close to engaging in combat. He did indeed stay holed up in a bunker - when he was even there, which wasn’t often. (Note the lack of military bearing, discipline, emotional immaturity, wearing a beard with his uniform - all huge clues he wasn’t a soldier.) Anyway, your channel is really helpful in understanding not just the H$M debacle, but the universal elements contained within. I’ve really been stumped about a number of things, so this has been incredibly helpful. You explain things very well. Thanks for the info and insight.

[@melindah2428]

I'm so glad you're back 👏 I could listen to you all day! ( I'm not some weirdo. Just enjoy your content 🤪)

[@kimchristianson4743]

Hi. I am a retired Social Worker and much of my message to my clients was about personal responsibility. I try to live my life that way as well. It is not easy seeing yourself as the source of your own misadventure but it is better than the misery of believing that other people, institutions can make you happy. thank you for the reminder

[@-NoneOfYourBusiness]

Yep. I was waiting for that upload as well. Like others already mentionned.

[@BaggageClaim]

More to come!

[@Tyrs_Finox]

Very interesting, I had never thought of these celebrities in a psychological context before. Also after like a dozen videos watched I found out why you have your name! 😆 Good vid! 😀

[@animula6908]

I think for a lot of us it is natural to withdraw emotionally when we sense our emotions being manipulated. Emotionality really doesn’t contribute as much to civil discourse as people have pretended it does for the last ten years, and I notice myself shutting down emotionally and feeling put upon when I’m demanded to engage in hysterics as part of any conversation. I’ll start calling it the gray rock method but to me it’s just pure sanity in my heart.

[@gangaishvar954]

👏🏾👏🏾 touche!!

[@hedaheda1609]

Emotion does not equal hysteria. Without emotion, there is no empathy.

[@animula6908]

@@hedaheda1609 empathy is a waste of time and energy.

[@rebeccamae9720]

Yessssss! Most of us find it easy to blame someone else rather than claim our own baggage. I'm learning to take more responsibility in my own life. It's easier to blame everything on a bad childhood, true... But that's not the right thing to do.

[@robertnguyen9493]

Being the youngest of 4 children myself I do understand the jealousy that stems from being the last child born, and always feeling like you’re the outsider in your own family But I don’t understand throwing your family under the bus attempting to make yourself look better

[@michelletallon6667]

Never paid more attention to the royals than now, so there is that...I am 52 and I could not agree with you more about 'claiming your baggage'. Definitely what I see and how I feel, and beautifully said. and I loved your point about young people falsely believing everyone else is happy. Too many victims out there now, and victim wannabes. Not good for society or really even them. Thanks for this, sometimes I feel alone too :)

[@Jesus_H._Tap-DancingChrist]

Great commentary. You're smart, witty, incisive, and beautiful. 10 out of 10.

[@bluebutterflywoman]

Excellent ending to another great video! Thanks for the insight.

[@neo7566]

"We want privacy!"

[@arvuti36]

"The more I was thinking how wronged I was in the past, and how my anger and resentment was Growing. Even the happiest person, if they really think about all the ways that their life sucks- they will likely find it" - Every black person in the US should hear this

[@ab-gail]

0:28 This makes so much sense! Especially since a good way to stop feeling depressed and anxious is to do things for other people like charity work.

[@DarkForcesStudio]

This is an absolute treasure trove of great insights. Plus a shedload of wise words. Everyone needs to see it. Thanks. :)

[@krupnikowygar5125]

I waited with bated breath for this vid! Thanks Love, so glad to see you again ♥

[@MsSparklesNGlitter]

My father always told me that in life there are two mindsets. Victim or victor. The victor doesn't see himself/herself as a victim and the victim will never be a victor. Both #5 and the cable actress have the victim mindset.

[@samoharachilds]

'Spare' is simply so on-the-nose a title, 'Part' would've been the most hilarious choice

[@gideon11]

thank you for the video! great insight on the age of social media and perceived suffering

[@kar00]

I know H&M videos are like circular references, but I will always watch your videos on them because you called it early on and your analysis are so well presented.

[@shivanimahajan218]

Love the way you explain... so glad I found this channel

[@tamaramarie968]

Where have you been all my life!? You are SO spot on in every point you've so eloquently answered!! So glad your channel popped into my feed 🙏 Subscribed! 💜

[@bperez185]

Love your opinion at the end. ❤

[@jessicaalbright7429]

I really love listening to your clear logical thought process..and you have a great speaking voice too! Thanks for this very interesting video!!

[@BaggageClaim]

Wow, thank you!

[@TheUpsideNYC]

Great answers! Just found your channel. Your comments on narcisstsis is spot on!

[@kbo8029]

I really liked how this ended and the message. Working the 12 steps and helping people in addiction recovery I see people who have truly suffered horrendous things and yet the path to recovery is through responsibility and agency. The only thing that you control is what you do. No matter what. Even if tons of terrible things happened to you, you're responsible for how you respond and are present. The victim mentality is really poisonous.

[@charnerademeyerharris1427]

I really enjoyed this video. I find your work to be very concise, informative and entertaining. Keep these great analyses coming!

[@cherylcurry1127]

Great video you certainly know what you are talking about-a breath of fresh air. Fascinating information presented in a logical fashion. Thanks!!!

[@wokeisajoke6806]

Once again, not my comment. What is going on?

[@nancytoulouse6973]

Thank you for sharing your wisdom.🌿🌷🌹

[@carolineowens1364]

Absolutely brilliant analysis. Thank you 😃

[@lauratogni4906]

You are so good at telling very hard and difficult concepts in simple words !! Love you channel

[@fuferito]

Thanks!

[@BaggageClaim]

Thank you!

[@Francis-kw9ui]

It's like hanging onto anger... it feels you up for a while, mostly with adrenaline, but getting past it, and simmering down, is a responsibility of self.

[@thekelleejean]

Loving these Q&A's Mizz BC! You are so talented & your insights are next level at helping us understand the mess these two make of EVERYTHING they touch. 🎯

[@annahart69]

Its healthier to think more of others than obsess over ones self.

[@trishaharding4682]

Everything you said at the end of this was so true. I'm in my 70s so was lucky enough to grow up without the pressure to be perfect, thank goodness. I fear for the social media generation.

[@WiseAilbhean]

Speaking of gray rocking, a perfect application for this method would be for the cameras during the coronation to avoid them completely. And everyone involved should just ignore them.

[@hedaheda1609]

Ideally, but impossible. It goes against human nature. Humans are curious beings, and this need must be satisfied.

[@baronessboomer3865]

Excellent, as always! Thank you. 💖

[@jodiegordon5559]

How am I only just discovering you know?! I love your channel already after only watching 2 vids! Amazing actual truth on the internet! And your community , I've never related to comments so quickly!

[@burntumbrage6868]

Wonderful, succinct and, I’m becoming aware 😉, your usual perspicacious summary of the situation. Thank you

[@oc2538]

Meghan has a death like grip on him at all times. I personally want to hear from her ex husband.

[@R.Omar82]

Apologising to a narcissist is the ultimate self inflicted blow you can give yourself while he/she stands there smirking knowing they have control over you. Don't give them the satisfaction. Keep Calm and Grey Rock them 😘

[@MirandaSinistra]

I don't remember where I heard this, but there's a story about a woman sitting on her therapists couch talking about her problems. She tells the therapist that she hopes all the things she's complaining about are her fault. When the therapist asks her why she would want to be the root of her problems, she tells the therapist that if it's her fault, it means she can fix it. If it's not her fault, then it will be more difficult to correct her problems.

[@ryananthony3104]

I enjoy hearing you talk so much that I actually watch these videos on a subject I have zero interest in. I mean that as a compliment.

[@BaggageClaim]

Wow thank you!

[@michaelidarecis]

You can't look at the narcissist as it is all their behavior. The enabler needs to be with a narcissist and that enabler is a covert narcissist

[@JenniferMcMahonhawaii78]

The crying closet photo was strange AF.... it's like keep it in Kodak collection don't post it to the world.

[@JollyJoker369]

Wow! I’ll hand it to you, you are very insightful and your research is top notch.