Privilege Stacking: Thin privilege, What it is, How to build it, How to Tell if You have It

[@islandprincess9666]

I am petite with an hourglass shape and I have pretty privilege, thin privilege, long hair privilege, and petite girl privilege, perfect smile privilege etc. I attract tall men because at 5’ 3” tall a muscular guy that is 6 feel tall or taller feels masculine and they love that they can pick me up easily. I didn’t realize all of the privilege’s I have until I saw your video. Please do videos breaking down all of those privileges. My cousin is 6’ 2” and she has pretty privilege, tall girl privilege. She attracts guys who love a statuesque woman. It’s nice to focus on the privileges that are unique to you and focus on how to maximize all of your privileges. I love your channel and the topics that you discuss. 🥰

[@ExoticalsUnited]

@@islandprincess9666 get it girl ! Stack those privileges ! I’m glad the pretty girl club has a safe space where people won’t accuse us of bragging

[@islandprincess9666]

@@ExoticalsUnited Thank you! 🥰 I’m embracing and maximizing my pretty privileges, and I’m benefiting from them. I’m a dark-skinned exotical, and I often get asked where I’m from. When I say the state, people usually follow up with, "But where are you really from?" I also get asked what I’m mixed with and whether my hair is real. Until I watched your videos (and subscribed), I never really considered myself an exotical because of my brown complexion. However, after seeing how often people question my origins or what I’m mixed with, I realized that I do fall into that category. My DNA confirms this, as I have a diverse admixture. I’ve had my fair share of encounters with jealous women-some have sucked their teeth at me, rolled their eyes, or accused me of thinking I’m cute. Your videos really resonate with me because I’ve experienced these things firsthand. Once, a woman yanked my long hair so hard, claiming she wanted to see if it was a wig, that my head snapped backward. It hurt so much that I had to put an ice pack on my head afterward. I’ve learned to ignore the haters and pursue what I want. My cousins and I each have different types of pretty privileges, and I think the key is to identify the ones you benefit from personally, then maximize and capitalize on them. There’s no point in being jealous or feeling bad about a pretty privilege you don’t have. Instead, focus on stacking and maximizing the ones you do have. For every type of pretty privilege, there are people who will celebrate and admire you for it. If Marilyn Monroe, who was 5’ 5” with a petite hourglass shape, spent all her time wishing she were a tall, statuesque model, she would have been putting herself down instead of recognizing and benefiting from the pretty privileges she had. Lastly, women shouldn’t feel like they "expire" when they reach a certain age. That’s a lie perpetuated by men who are incels or have other issues. As long as a woman takes care of her health and stays away from stressful and draining people, she can be beautiful and sought after at any age. ❤️

[@madeleineclark283]

@@islandprincess9666 Lol. I think it's funny that you mentioned "petite privilege." All of the tall most stereotypically attractive men DO want US. (I am also 5'3.) This is funny to me, because I know a dozen girls who are 4'10 - 5'1. I'm surprised that I'm interesting to men who like petite women when I'm so tall in comparison to so many women I know, but they definitely are. I have always said 5'3 is the perfect height for a woman from the male perspective. They want petite, but not "short." There are guys that like short or tall women but I'm laughing all the way to the bank at 5'3. Very unproblematic. Very demure.

[@ZaniahSlayed]

@@madeleineclark283 I’ve always felt that way about being 5’4

[@madeleineclark283]

@@ZaniahSlayed it's a thing!

[@Faircafe98]

My thin privilege was mocked by my black family yet when I’m around non blacks it’s honoured.

[@maryamdiao1509]

Same

[@Claire-cc6xy]

Black people often aim for the thicker body shape. Idk maybe it’s bc we’re naturally more shapely but that’s my guess

[@tracyyym3526]

Same here too. It's not praised in the black community when you're small. They will talk bad about you being a size 4.

[@бронза.вафля.конус]

Thanks for saying a 12 is big 🙄 for years people lying to my face about "no! You're not big, you're beautiful just the way you are!" I'll never believe them again. Losing weight asap

[@HulaMask]

I was a 12 and I got lied to for years. I am a size 2 the smallest I’ve been as a size double zero. All I ever wanted to be with a size 6. I worked out so hard. I skipped right over size 6, what I can tell you as a size double zero I did not look sickly. And I am 5 foot 10. Now that I’m in a smaller body I actually kind of get upset sometimes when I think about how was lie to for so many years. I’m so sorry that’s happened to you. You were being gaslit. You were not crazy and you should be able to go after the body you want without people gaslighting you

[@gbrieannful]

I looked great at a size 12 but then again I went from a size 22 to a size 12 so to me it’s small compared to how I used to look.

[@hiniewinie]

We got this!!!

[@georgieleigh6282]

A few years ago, i was a UK size 20. Im now 23 and a size 8-10. I'm not done with the weight loss yet, but i honestly feel so much more confident than i did even mid last year. Im not obsessing over other people as much anymore, and my jealousy towards other women is dying. Your channel is helping me so much in realising my own self-worth and how I've been ruining my body and mental health just with my diet. Thank you so much ❤

[@chilllart]

Im a size 00-02 (5’1) with an hourglass and I used to hide my body in dumpy outfits. I felt too afraid to show it off bc most of my friends were overweight and I didn’t want to get sexualized by men. Your videos help me gain confidence and now, I am slowly wearing more flattering outfits and people always tell me that i look like a real life Bratz doll.😌

[@Whoreallycares23]

Girl this is my mother and sister. I actually cut off my entire family at this point. But my sister is huge and a stay at home mom and has nothing but time to go to the gym and my mother also doesn’t like her body. Baby that’s their personal problem

[@arielleshardae]

Megs body is perfecttttt now. The weightloss suits her so well , shes toned skinny and fit and although her butt got small now , she still looks amazing . Her weightloss ate and of course the black community is saying she is too skinny. Same w ice spice

[@ExoticalsUnited]

I agree she looks so good

[@frimunya]

Lost some weight a while back, best decision ever! I am 25 years old, 5'6'' and a size 6, never been happier ❤️🔥

[@sarah-janepryce821]

Love this for you ❤

[@puffball4484]

You know if you have this privilege when jealous women accuse you of having an ED constantly. Usually this comes from women in your own family. My mother has constantly accused me of not eating to stay skinny. No, I'm just thin. She's never been able to accept that.

[@ExoticalsUnited]

Yup

[@c.harlotte]

Has anyone else noticed that basically the more weight you lose… the more you get noticed in public. I’m not even my goal weight but even just not being as big anymore made a difference

[@sarah-janepryce821]

Omg yes this happened to me people are starting to treat me better also I started off at 210lbs which is a size 16 in the uk and I’m now mainly a size 10/12 uk in clothing so I’m now around 150lbs and I’m 5ft 6 still got another 30lbs to go before I’m 120lbs can’t wait to eventually get their 💪

[@HulaMask]

Yes. When I started losing weight, I didn’t see it in the mirror. But I remember people coming up to me and having the dumbest conversations out of nowhere. I was like is everyone on drugs? But now I realize it’s because I was getting so skinny. Like literally people stopping their car in the middle of a busiest street to talk to me.

[@perxy9006]

EU , I love being skinny and it's like people just don't understand that big backing and pigging out isn't cute. I love your nonchalance, stay snobby 😂❤️

[@meredithgrey777]

Meg Thee Stallion has actually lost weight recently - from touring and she has been putting in a lot of work in the gym. The BC is always in her comments now saying she's getting too skinny. 🙄

[@ExoticalsUnited]

Yes I saw that

[@ladylawyer8021]

She's been looking sooo good. Love listening to her songs at the gym

[@бронза.вафля.конус]

What is BC?

[@meredithgrey777]

@@бронза.вафля.конус Black community

[@msylvini]

​@@бронза.вафля.конусblack community

[@TraXs.]

I'm a size 2 (5'4, 100-105 lbs), and people either compliment me for looking athletic or try to shame me by telling me I need to eat because I must be sick. I'm always surprised about how much people underestimate my strength at the gym because I'm thin. On the positive side, people always offer to help me because they think I'm too weak to carry anything heavy by myself. Who am I to stop them from being nice to me 😊 Supplements I'm taking: multivitamins, quercetin, black seed oil, turmeric, magnesium biglycinate, spirulina, chlorella, alpha lipoic acid, vitamin D, Borage + Evening Primrose oil and Fish oil.

[@ExoticalsUnited]

right!

[@Whoreallycares23]

This!! I’m very strong I lift weights but I’m 5’7 and 120. Now at one point I was trying hard to get “thick”. I’m super over it. I’m falling more and more in love with my body. I get asked by random women do I workout. I have a curvy body but I’m slim.

[@Claire-cc6xy]

Same !!! I’m 5’5 and 108 lbs but my mother graced me with that shape. I sadly didn’t get her hips (or puberty hasn’t given them yet) but I never need to work out cause I’m set

[@Vanesslovergyal]

I love this as a thin girl myself. I personally find beauty in all body types, but I’ve experienced people wanting to get more motivated in the gym after being around me for a while or wanting to eat better.

[@ExoticalsUnited]

yes!

[@Ohsnapitzann]

@@Vanesslovergyal I feel this way alot

[@Claire-cc6xy]

You’re gorgeous !

[@Vanesslovergyal]

@@Claire-cc6xy thankyou love🥹💕

[@AFocusedLiving]

Many people assume that because I’m 5'9", I work in modeling or acting, or that I spend a lot of time at the gym. In reality, it’s more genetics, though walking helps maintain my health. I love how your topics always make me reflect on my positive attributes.😊🙂☺️

[@BestversionofKP]

Same!!!🩷

[@Bestinfobestie]

Yes genetics help but if you binge every single day you’re going to gain weight no matter what, and I’m saying this as a 5’7” and size 2 girl (no I’m not on a diet but I’m European = to eat junk food or order any take away is very rare here).

[@Skylerdubbels]

I love this channel so much. I’m a size 6 and my goal is to be a size 2. My favorite is you listing the benefits of being skinny instead of just male attention and stuff like that. Keep it up! Love ya

[@SpringAmbiance]

At my biggest, I was a size 12. I’m 5’2. All I can say is that people treated me poorly. As soon as I was back to my pre-pregnancy weight, people are so much nicer to me. They go out of their way to help me and I enjoy perks I didn’t enjoy when I was big. My 10 year old has even brought it up. We were at a theme park last week and were gifted a fast pass. I didn’t ask for it and dint even know it was available.

[@Ohsnapitzann]

My internalized body standard is Zoe Saldana in the late 00s. I'm determined to loose weight so that I can live a long fulfilling life. I'm sick of dealing with bad posture, tons of pressure on my muscles and joints and destroying the fabric of your pants near the inner thighs. Dealing with Intertrigo is painful and frustrating.

[@Ohsnapitzann]

People coming to your aid when you are in a crisis is another form of thin privilege.

[@ExoticalsUnited]

right, youre more like me in terms of body standards. i know these standards are subjective so im not trying to convince people to view things the same way as me. im just extreme lol

[@dolcesienna]

Zoe in Colombiana, her body is just ✨

[@chloerafferty9288]

omg i loveee zoe

[@c.harlotte]

Her body is so tea 🍵

[@saraann655]

Finished my 10 mile walk thanks to your videos keeping me disciplined! My anxiety had me all messed up yesterday, work and school have been keeping my schedule packed, and it's day 1 of my period so cramps are going crazy. So trust me when i say i did not want to fucking walk today. But 1 mile turned into 2, then into 3 and before i know it I'm already back to my car. Your videos just make the time fly by!

[@madeleineclark283]

Larger people male and female have a much higher tendency to treat me like I am stupid and be degrading and condescending. This didn't used to happen when I was a size 6, but it does often as a size 0 (I'm short.) They must feel an intense need to prove themselves. Like you were saying as a thin person you don't feel that way. Larger people are some of the most biased people. They instantly treat you differently if you are petite, when I would never dare to treat anyone large differently.

[@bamafencer12]

It's envy, that's all it is.

[@madeleineclark283]

@@bamafencer12You're right. I think the reason they target our intelligence (of all things) is because on some level they know how incredibly dumb it is to be 100 or 200 pounds overweight. 20 pounds is a mistake. 100 pounds is a conscious decision. A consequence that was seen coming for years. They should have made smarter choices. They know they are not very smart, so they have to try to make sure we don't feel smart either. :(

[@rawr4290]

For me, they mostly infantalized me because they thought i was cute and I'm small so a lot of my silly mistakes slid easily, they defended me, would baby talk me and praise me everyday...etc.. infantalizing can make me get special treatment, but i can see how that can easily turn sour if there's resentment or rudeness

[@chatwithmi]

Didn’t sound like bragging this is definitely motivating!!! I’m getting a bit bigger and realizing how much happier and free I was when I was smaller. Definitely frees up space in your mind and you don’t freak over cheat days cause it actually takes a while/a lot to pack weight. My face card gives model and the body currently isn’t matching lollll

[@ZaniahSlayed]

I have hourglass privilege, but I absolutely admire thin women 😍

[@ExoticalsUnited]

ooooooh we should break it down and talk about the body SHAPE privileges! tall, short, curvy, slim, etc!

[@islandprincess9666]

@@ExoticalsUnited Please do videos breaking down all of those privileges. I am petite with an hourglass shape and I have pretty privilege, thin privilege, long hair privilege, and petite girl privilege. I attract tall men because at 5’ 3” tall a muscular guy that is 6 feel tall or taller feels masculine and they love that they can pick me up easily. I didn’t realize all of the privilege’s I have until I saw your video. I love your channel and the topics that you discuss.

[@sasabonashiri373]

@@ExoticalsUnitedplease do a video about each privilege ❤❤

[@femmefatale71]

I have both!

[@ZaniahSlayed]

@@ExoticalsUnited yes you help us enhance all of our privileges and it’s so helpful ❤️

[@ebonythomas3111]

When you feel comfortable sitting with your legs crossed 🥰

[@Cozyartcafe]

Thin privilege also trumps pretty privilege. If you are at least average facially and super thin you will have more privileges than if you are exceptionally pretty in the face but average weight or fat.

[@imjoceagirl]

I notice this with a lot of wealthy men’s women partners or at hoighty toighty events, the women may be old but they’re THIN honey.

[@imjoceagirl]

Old or ugly.

[@Iambellarayne]

The put-together thing. I've had people assume I'm rich when I've never said ANYTHING to make them think that. I'd NEVER talk about money, and I don't wear a bunch of designers 🤷🏾‍♀️. I never even thought about it. If it's cute and pink, I want it. But yea, I've had that stereotype put on me. It's no one's business, but that's a true thing. People really do think this lol

[@yupisaidit-mx4is]

I'm a size 2. I deal with bloating & some belly fat. I'm starting a detox & and targeting a lower abdominal workout. Can't wait to have those Janet Jackson Abs! Thanks for sharing EU. We got this!!

[@kind-heartedgoddess]

So true. I have a perfectly flat stomach and I show it all the time because it is a feat.

[@theprivilegedsociety]

lori's routine is so crazy. i'm so inspired looking at the pictures you used of her. great video ❤

[@lasantuzza777]

but another thing is when i was much thinner i felt like all the women around me ever commented on was my body and weight and what i was doing to be that thin. they paid so much attention to my food when i was at work it was crazy lol. i sometimes felt like i couldn’t escape the questioning on my body which at times felt uncomfortable but i suppose is also a compliment and privilege of sorts

[@ExoticalsUnited]

Right , that’s a downside to thin privilege . All privileges have their downsides

[@memedicine1]

I literally say this about all your content but I'm so here for this convo.

[@Kiara-d6v]

having been a size 10-12 mixed woman who is now a size 6-8 (definitely have a mesomorph/hourglass build), i found that taking inositol twice a day before meals regulated my periods (I suffer from PCOS) and expedited my weight loss progress! I want to get to a size 4. Try getting your bloodwork done to see what you are deficient in before going wild on the vitamins btw! love your content :)

[@bethventuresx8283]

I've heard so many great things about inositol..I think this may be my sign. How are you going???

[@Basedbeauty3]

Meg has actually lost some weight, i love her size

[@ExoticalsUnited]

yes i saw that!

[@Ohsnapitzann]

My favorite vitamins are valerian root and ashwagandha it helps me get through depressive episodes. My memory retention, concentration, energy is a million times better.

[@0l0l00l0]

Does ashwaganda makes you sleepy?

[@Ohsnapitzann]

​@@0l0l00l0 ashwagandha helps regulate your sleep cycle it makes it easier for you to fall asleep and stay asleep

[@autumnof1992]

Yes

[@honeyshyne]

I personally find these kind of videos very inspiring! ❤ I'm on my way dropping some unnecessary weight and listening to your videos on this topic definitely has a positive effect on me

[@LadyAnahita]

Please never stop making these. So encouraging

[@DanielaElana]

I really enjoyed this video as someone who was thin and a size 3 in high school and put on around 100 pounds throughout my 20s. I’m 29 almost 30 in a month. I have gotten to see the side of how people treat you when you’re large/xl and around 232 pounds at my heaviest. I’m happy going into my 30s in a month that I have lost over 80 pounds over the last year and half. I look better than I did most of 20s and feel healthier with more energy. I’m now around 150 but I’m actually a size 2-4 xs sometimes even a 0 depending on the brand despite weighing more than I did at a size 3 because I work out 5 times a week and have gained a lot of muscle and try to get a lot of protein and eat cleaner. I love vitamins and supplements as well not just for my managing my weight but for my skin and hair. I’m working on losing the last 20-30 pounds because although I wear smaller clothes I still want to tone up my stomach and thighs a little more but even now I notice a difference in how people who knew me and strangers treat me. A lot of people do watch what I eat, what workouts I do. I get more views on my posts/stories and people have asked me what I did to lose so much weight. People offer me free food all the time now. They assume I eat clean all the time even though I snack a lot. Thin privilege is definitely a thing. You mentioned saving money and I definitely save more money now eating less because I get full faster and I don’t feel the need to door dash or go get fast food because my appetite has decreased and I can focus more on other goals without food noise.

[@c.harlotte]

Congrats on the weight loss! 80 pounds is incredible and working out too :)

[@DanielaElana]

@@c.harlotte Thank you and you got this!

[@Illtakeyoman]

3:02 Omgg so true, people will randomly ask what workouts I do in the gym or what dieting I do. Although I don’t work out or diet, the question is super flattering 😂😭.

[@lasantuzza777]

oooh love this topic. it’s very interesting hearing what privileges and social treatment comes with different body types. i have a skinny but still visibly curvaceous body (best celeb comparison is kim kardashian in the early 2000s) but i also have been as thin as say 2017 ariana grande when i had some health issues. to me it was actually like a lil social experiment to see the difference in how i was treated lol. im a nerd how i think of it like that. but overall i prefer the privilege that comes with being thin but still curvy. when i was a size 0 i could wear anything tho, so there was privilege associated with outfits cuz nothing was off limits. i feel like men didn’t sexualize me as much also, there was a halo of “innocence” so to speak when i was quite thinner. they still gave me attention but i feel like the intention was different. it’s such an interesting topic cuz your body type can truly change completely how you are perceived!

[@HabibaDima]

I’m not thin and never have been. When you said “you don’t realize how much these micro insecurities take up your thoughts” i was like yesss. To not worry about how your clothes fit or if you are camera ready is completely foreign to me

[@ExoticalT369]

So, here’s the thing; yes, I have thin privilege but I’m surrounded by a bunch of short, fat, mad, dumpy-looking women who are haters. So, I go elsewhere, where my thinness is celebrated. 🥰

[@ExoticalsUnited]

yup! the typical crabs in a bucket mentality. meanwhile if they could trade weight with you on the scale they probably would.

[@itscomingtogeteverything]

I had to quit a job where I loved the work but HATED my short, fat, mad, dumpy co workers.

[@ExoticalT369]

@@itscomingtogeteverything Yep. Same here. Being around women like that makes me uncomfortable, because I know how they operate (problematic as hell).

[@bamafencer12]

@@itscomingtogeteverything I used to work fat, dumpy, low self esteem women. They can make your life miserable.

[@vam9785]

You have motivated me to become very thin again ❤ I am going to lose 10 pounds. Ladies pls remind me in weeks & months so i stay on track

[@ExoticalsUnited]

Yay! Congrats on your new level up journey 🎉🎊 you’ll be snatched for the holidays and the new year !

[@vam9785]

@@ExoticalsUnited thank you I'm looking forward to that ♥🙏

[@thekarmendanielle]

Same ! I’m also 5’9” - size 6 💕

[@ExoticalsUnited]

yay! i love being tall and slender!

[@angel-gx7zy]

i’m size 0 & 5’3. i’m often in black spaces (in the south) and i’m usually seen as not as “sexy” as the bigger girls, however i’ve been with very few black guys who prefer more skinnier women (especially to settle down with.) most of the hate comes from bigger people (often black women) who openly bully & mock me. i’ve been questioned if i’ve had anorexia often, even though i’ve never even tried to lose weight & i’m just naturally skinny. they can never accept that i’ve always been this way no matter what or how much i eat! 😭

[@ExoticallyExotical]

❤ love this because I always said this and I grew up in 90s Y2K and slim was what was considered beautiful and guess what when I lost weight even as a chubby kid it was always a glow up. I have looked so good and uabw have told me that I looked sick and I need to gain weight and this happened at 2 different times in life.

[@DevinDomino]

I went from being 125 pounds to 140 pounds. I was definitely treated differently when I was 140 size 6 vs when I was a size 2 or 4. Especially by white people. Black people loved my curves. I did lose 5 pounds recently and people started treating me nicer. Especially if I’m not bloated 🤰🏽. I’m 5’3-5’4 for reference.

[@cristinag9667]

Same here white men treat me like crap once i hit 135 pounds

[@Eastern_Exotic]

Omg i remember i asked for this video like week ago, and today i was thinking when you gonna post it! Love ya EU!

[@ValMorgwain]

From the get go I have to say that I do not have thin privilege but I do have pretty privilege and also "making people feel comfortable by just standing there" privilege.

[@MeekisPetite]

Thank you for making this video! I'm naturally thin and have had thin privilege since high school. I'm 5'2", 90-95 lbs. with measurements of 32-22-33. So, although I'm tiny, I have a beautiful figure. To me, the biggest perk of thin privilege is being able to look stunning effortlessly. It's truly an "I woke up like this" experience every day. As a dressing room attendant recently told me, "Everything looks good on me because I have the perfect body." I love celebrating the natural beauty of my figure by wearing very simple midi- and maxi dresses that accentuate my flat stomach and perfect waist-to-hip ratio.

[@kaylajames3098]

Ooh, I like your style, pretty girl. I think I am about your height, or an inch taller. I am making you a skinny role model for me. I am a size 8/9. Do you exercise?

[@alicianatalei]

I’m 5’5, hourglass, have pretty privilege and a size 8 (UK). I get complimented on my body constantly, by every race. However my personal goal is to achieve a size 6, as I honestly feel like it’ll unlock another level of privilege for me. I agree being size 12 and above is fat. The black community definitely tries to normalise being overweight/obese. I also think being hourglass and thin helps lessen being over sexualised in different outfits.

[@5050TM]

Hourglass and thin is top tier. People compliment your waist size and you can fill out a dress in a stereotypical sexy way without it looking vulgar. Rooting for you! 🙏🏽

[@sarah-janepryce821]

I love this for you girl as I’m also from the UK. And I started this year in February a UK size 16 and now I’m a size 8/10 in tops and a size 10-12 in bottoms my goal by next summer is a size 6 we got this!! 💪❤️

[@alicianatalei]

@@sarah-janepryce821 rooting for you girl! I’ve lost another 11 pounds since this comment. With continued consistency we’ve most definitely got this ❤️ 2025 is our dream body year!!

[@sarah-janepryce821]

@@alicianatalei That’s amazing another 11lbs. Yes girly we have this under control we are smashing it ❤. And you’re beaut aswell 😍.

[@giseleb7807]

Omg the motivation I needed to loose these 3lbs lol. I love being a 20 bmi 😊🙏🏻

[@ExoticalsUnited]

You got this!

[@NovaDoll]

I was a size 16 and lost weight and back to a size 12. I like buying pants at old navy. I bought some sizes 12 in pants I had in 14s. People noticed me more. I am pear shaped. I agree in Texas I got a lot of attention. I'm in LA now. I grew up in a white area. I miss being a size 4. It looks like my old measurements would make me a 00 with the new sizing. Feels odd... I am also tall 5'9".

[@jayee2188]

I completely agree on the bone structure point. Although Lisa Bonet has seemingly always been healthy, as she ages you can see her gorgeous natural cheek bones all the more.

[@bxfbbxcbxc5328]

As a lesbian, I find slightly to moderately chubby, hourglass or pear shaped women the most attractive. I even like a little belly. As a woman, especially a woman of color, I feel like I have to leverage any privileges and opportunities I can get. Looks practically determine your opportunities in life, not even in just a romantic sense because I couldn’t care less about men. Even other women, regardless of sexuality, will treat you differently based on your weight, your clothes and everything else. It sucks, because I grew up with the mindset that we are all human beings and we should treat each other with a basic kindness. But that’s not how life works.

[@ExoticalsUnited]

right, my body actually helped me make more friends because i attracted more friendships from women on their own fitness and level up journeys. my body is like a conversation starter. usually someone will say they like my outfit. usually my outfits are basic, its my BODY that looks good. a spaghetti strap shirt and leggings is basic. my body just makes it look more dressed up.

[@alexbristol5602]

LITERALLY me!

[@merlinsreturn]

PS. property prices are about to plummet because of problems in the banking industry which is related to the insurance industry which is inextricably tied to property prices. If you're going to invest, research how to open bank accounts in countries outside the jurisdiction of US/NATO like the caribbean countries and deposit gold there. Not financial advice. Just something for you to research.

[@deek5295]

Heyyy EU I’m studying nutrition and also rlly into food and wellness! I’ve been taking the amazing grass blend in the detox and alkaline flavor. It keep you regular and combats bloating and free radicals I recommend to anyone !! Great video per usual 😛

[@ExoticalsUnited]

Omg I’m OBSESSED with alkaline water

[@BlacKWidoW70s]

Being thin is always in

[@nightingale4786]

tbh i think the difference between being thin and 'thin privilege' is body shape. i personally am quite short (5'1) but have long limbs for my height so i get complimented on my body shape quite a lot. i also dress myself in a way that extends my body lines and makes my waist look as small as possible bc unlike the tall girlies, clothes rarely look right on me off the rack. it's no problem for me since sewing became a big hobby of mine. some of my friends who are average height and of similar thinness have said that i shouldn't complain about feeling bloated or looking fat in their presence because i wouldn't know what it's like.

[@drecool85]

To me the privilege is when you can benefit from the advantages of a feature.

[@ExoticalsUnited]

Ooooh that’s a GREAT point you’re right it’s the physique and body shape . It’s not just “not being fat”.

[@Academiacaramelcurlz]

My goal is to get to Meg The Stallion!!! I’m 5’1 and I’m on my fitness journey now. I think Meg is just hot hot hot! Curves are absolutely beautiful and I feel like you have more feminine influence if you know what I mean 😉 when your curvy but snatched! Meg is the BEST of both worlds!

[@DoomsdayApparatus]

I just got back into my no carb diet and I feel so clean and good. I started doing my makeup so well and I'm going to look for a new winter wig. I want to lose 30lbs by the end of the year. Also, I love chaparral! It's good for a lot of things. I got a soursop and Pao Pereira supplement recently and pau d'arco to kill germs. I love it. I'm also a drinker so I take some things like glutathione and milk thistle. Oh, also wild yam (it makes my hormones go crazy 😩 idk if I still want to take but it keeps estrogen in check)

[@mercyking7646]

When you said "I don't want to be Jigglypuff" I absolutely lost it🤣 Thank you for making excellent content 🙂💖

[@taxcitybagtalk]

Vitamins: D3+B12 Gummies Collagen gummies type I,II,III Biotin gummies *some Vitamins will cancel out others so you have to take some hours later. Do your research

[@ExoticalsUnited]

Nice ! 🩷

[@Ilovekmarie]

Watching this for motivation ☺️

[@emily2k111]

Thanks for the raw authenticity in these videos. I am skinny but not privileged skinny, I am working to becoming my DREAM weight and in 2025 I am gonna make it. These videos hit home with utter truth on the reality of being ultra thin.

[@PrincessNiki-82]

I know this is a slightly older video, but wanted to write that I notice women at work that are obese causing more stress to their day by getting fast food breakfast and lunch daily and talking about it as soon as they arrive vs other convos. This results in them being late more often than not and being fixated on breakfast sausage.

[@ExoticalsUnited]

“They’re fixated on breakfast sausage” omg 😂😂😂😂😂

[@madeleineclark283]

The girls at the gym copying your sets is hilarious.

[@ExoticalsUnited]

oh yeah 😂 i noticed one was a white girl and one was an aisan girl, both times they copied by butt workouts- i feel like it was the combo of blackness and my body that made them want to try the workouts 💀

[@jules475]

Yas im working on being more skinny so this is so motivational❤

[@Iambellarayne]

I'm an 8 but I have a small waist ( less than 28' ) and flat stomach because of a TT. I'm working on being a solid 6 and 26' waist. I have people saying they like my abs (there's no abs for real lol ) or they'll compliment me in the gym. I'm pushing 43, and in my opinion, after being way bigger, I feel better over all this way ✨️💖

[@ExoticalsUnited]

ok, sounds like you do have thin privilege then ! i've seen ur pics and they look good! ❤

[@femmefatale71]

Meg is actually tiny now, US size 6 I’d say

[@Thebellreve]

Same I’m a 6/8 depending on the dress or jeans. I have a 28 inch waist too and because of a tummy tuck too. Flat belly’s are still a thing !

[@Illtakeyoman]

31:13 in hs, there was a boy who would call my ethiopian friend & i starving africans 😭😭. We stopped sitting with him at lunch cos he would poke fun at how little we ate

[@ExoticalsUnited]

Wow 😂

[@Smoll_Fawn]

Yep I have skinny privilege and never knew it. I'm 5"7 dress size 2. I get compliments on my outfits multiple times EVERYDAY. I thought it was just because i had a good sense of style, but this video helped me realize that it's because the clothes look good ON ME due to my slender frame. People ask me all the time for weight loss advice which I found weird, but makes sense now! I have both thin and feminine privilege

[@click2112]

I love this video Helps me visualise a life where im thinner. So motivating

[@jayee2188]

Caroline Girvan here on KZbin is my ideal body type. It’s so amazing what she does for the general public, making even her bootcamps free, life changing stuff.

[@lillierose5304]

I was always thin with hourglass shape and conventionally pretty. And the "privileges" I had are basics to me. I put weight on and it's really sad that you don't even receive the bare minimums if you're overweight. I'm losing the weight again and almost at my goal but it was very confronting to see the reality that THAT is what we call "privilages". Sad but it's better than nothing.

[@lexieburnafteruroll]

Love your posts as always. You alway make me look introspectively. I have long natural hair, makeup & fashion privilege. But I do wanna get back to thin privilege. There is power/social status in thin privilege and you should leverage all possible advantages to get by in life. It’s a cultural difference so I’m aiming for a size 10-12 bc that what I felt most comfortable in but when I reach there if I get smaller I’d still love it bc I have a stronger appreciation for the smaller body. Plus I got hit on more at a smaller size. I get more complements now bc I always keep myself up when I go out but more ppl were interested sexually when I was smaller vs now ppl like me aesthetically.

[@ExoticalSauce]

I have a similar shape to Meg The stallion just not as much butt🤣 i noticed i attract younger men who think im much younger than i am! They open the door flirt when im driving 🤣 its cute💕

[@jayee2188]

I “sound fat” too and nasal-like, but to be fair it’s not uncommon for people from Cincinnati like myself to talk through our nose and/or to be country. 🤣

[@Maria_Svetlana_5923]

Proud to say i have an hourglass body while i have to be cautious on my size . At 4"11 Size 12 is consider FAT to me and happy with size 6-8 . If im not happy on the clothes available ...Ill learn to make it knowlage + beauty hobbies with books on clothes making + videos

[@MissDee1222]

Right now my favorite vitamins are sea moss, black seed oil, and collagen. Swear im aging backwards.

[@LaviniaEllerton]

This is the best motivation I've found in a long time

[@sheiswildlyfree7319]

I loved listening to this while walking.

[@Moneymojo6272]

I need to listen to this video everyday. I’ve lost 0ver 30 pounds in three months and need to lose another 100 pounds, but I don’t mind jigging just a little 😅

[@GenesisHomeAndWealth]

So proud of you !! 🎉 keep pushing

[@jenme2390]

I am “thin”. Have always been thin. Yet, since I’ve had boobs they have always been relatively on the larger side. They are 30Gs. Got em from my Grandma who was also always thin. People assume I work out and eat healthy. Sometimes in 34 years they are right, sometimes they are not.😂

[@Soutthdakotaa]

Sheesh girl, how do you find bras?

[@jenme2390]

@@Soutthdakotaa lol Stores like Nordstrom regularly carry these size bras and you can also find things online obviously. I like Wacoal bras.

[@mrsbefort1616]

Omg yes I’m a vitamin fanatic! I tried Bari advantage gummies, it’s so good. My blood test always come back pristine on check ups.

[@Eastern_Exotic]

I have lost 17kgs/37lbs during last year with 12kgs/26lbs to go. Im size 8/10 rn working on size 4/6. I wanna weight 60kgs. Im 5'9 too.

[@tdr7133]

Keep up the videos, you speak so much truth and waking me the heck up!! Thank you ❤

[@drecool85]

Black male Vitamin Bro here! My favorite includes some supplements: collagen! Hyaluronic acid. Vitamin C powder. Vitamin D3/K2!Vitamin E oil. Everything for my skin! Stocky/ muscular 6ft 215. . In ATL my stockiness / muscularity is lusted after -- when I lived in NYC, I was 200 and still looked at as “big”. The super lean/ripped/skinny body types are lauded there for men. It’s wild to see ppl treat you vastly different based on where you are. I’m also very naturally introverted and I don’t like attention. The more in shape and objectively attractive I become, the more attention I get from everyone. It can be too overstimulating and unwanted, so I appreciate the times I’m considered “less attractive” & get less people hounding me. Then I know once I’m back in the gym it all starts back again. That’s why you also need a strong sense of self. You can’t be dependent on external validation. It comes and goes depending on who’s looking at it. PS I also noticed your voice sounds different on almost every video 🤣 & voice changes largely come as humans get older & after women bare children (hormones). People don’t realize how much your BODY influences how ppl treat you.

[@Shelby-s2w]

That's exactly why I work out at home and have my groceries delivered. As an attractive person, the more I'm in public the more I'm hounded, and as an introvert it drains my soul lol. I guess unlike extroverts, I feel annoyed by all of the attention.

[@spookiloowee4773]

loool im a bigger woman and i get healthy food every time im in the store, i just like to eat a lot and am a bit lazy…. its so funny that they stop you if youre thin lmao honestly when i check out people look confused or surprised to see fish/veggies😭😭 i just think thats so funny. thanks for motivating people in their fitness journeys :)

[@weronikas1307]

Please make a video on how exactly how got skinny and got skinny privilege✨💓

[@suzannaflores1164]

Ashwaghanda is one of my favorite vitamins!! And amla powder in my lemon water with maple syrup ❤

[@serenityblue9314]

Ashwanganda ❤ keeps cortisol very low

[@chicka.alexia]

I second this, some ladies on the bus or at the gym ask for my eating habits and my workout routines, I made a notion page and I share it with them whenever they ask ! I'm a size 3-4(S). And couldnt agree more , size 12 is definitely where you lose your thin priviledge, happened to my sister. Anyways, yeah, I feel so light whenever I eat now since i'm vegan. i just dont feel fat\lazy\itus when i eat anymore and it just makes me feel energized ! The best part (or worst financially!) is everything is fashionable on you! Its great

[@veeee1111]

I love your videos💚💚💚

[@Satin.B]

I want to get skinnier or smaller I notice that I attract less dust which is great for me but the one thing I need gone is this behind though I am 5’2 I think I’m size 3 in pants but I like to be petite not slim thick 😅.

[@anonymousbee]

Kimchi is healthy i think coz it's fermented.

[@user-he4lj5wl7w]

I love my thin privilege ❤❤❤

[@memedicine1]

I maintain my weight between a 2 - 4...at my thickest I was between a 6 - 8. From the waist up I look gaunt and thin but from the waist down I look ridonculous and I hate the attention it garners. When I finally grew a behind I literally 3 separate instances where men I knew grabbed my assets. After that I got really skinny. I don't know how women with BBL's handle the harassment. My body shape is similar to Caresha/Yung Miami in that I'm like 80% leg with a shorter torso. I really like the attention my legs get when I'm thin and my favorite part about being thin is showing off my legs. Omg yes if you have ample assets they literally jiggle/move to the beat of their own drum.

[@ExoticalsUnited]

Oh ok yup! I have the dreaded Coke bottle shape as well. I feel like it’s cool if you LIKE seggsual attention, but I don’t like that very much which is why I need to go down to a 0 😅 I want a little booty that’s not noticeable. I want the large thigh gap and everything 😂

[@memedicine1]

@@ExoticalsUnited good day! Based on your eating regimen and habits I know you'll get there if you're not already there skinny 4 life! LOL

[@Li-oz1ux]

Can you provide pictures of what you look like in diferente outfits?! You can blur your face or put a filter over it.

[@BlueBurb14]

I'm a teenage girl and last year I ate a lot of fast food, sugar, ect, and I got to be 122lb (5'2) so I definitely wasn't fat but I ate a lot and always felt heavy and my family would joke about my weight and diet and all so it got annoying and I decided I didn't want to feel like that. So I started working out and eating less, limiting sugar and all. And omg I feel so much better at 110lb, now when I tell my family I'm taking care of myself they're like "oh are you trying to lose weight" "who are you trying to impress" and even the clothes I wore 10lbs ago they say "oh those clothes are too tight" even though they looked a little tighter before it's now a big deal because the clothes look better on me now. Anyways I definitely recommend yall to get your skinny privilege

[@habibtiz4335]

Just in time for the stair master

[@ExoticalsUnited]

Yay!

[@merlinsreturn]

Size 2 person here. I would not have a goal of looking like a mannequin because it was created by the patriarchy. It's not healthy. Weight proportional to height is the goal for me.

[@fivemargaritasonly]

Im fanitas size right now 😭 , i absolutely hate it. I used to be a consistent size 6-7. And im a 10 now. My goal this year is to be a 6 again by Jan 1st! Im not going into my 30s a fatty!

[@animehubrecapped]

I knew i had thin and pretty privilege when people were exceptionally nice to me the other day at the grocery store. People are always offering to do stuffs for me in class too and then there's the part where you're always given extra when buying stuffs outside. And let's not forget the part where they ask for diet tips or say they admire my facial structure before going on to body shame me

[@MoonRaven7777]

I’m tall and currently size 6 but comfortable at size 2. Started a water fast yesterday to put my body in ketosis (body starts burning fat) since losing weight has to be adjusted because I’m 34 and it doesn’t go away as easily when I was a teen and early 20s. Also more mindful with using weights to strengthen my body before perimenopause starts (whenever that is). And eat for my skin health as well. Thanks I love your videos 💖