PRO-STYLIST APPROACH TO A DIY BOB HAIRCUT ON CURLY HAIR

[@ceystal]

Okay but that look when your hair was brushed out LOOKED AMAZING. That volume made you look so glamorous!

[@VeronicaGomez-nq6cq]

I agree! I loved it!

[@mindyheimer9893]

Agreeeeeeeed!!!

[@scpjij]

came to say this! it was so good

[@jaynewestgarth2808]

I preferred it fuller too! Looked great 😊

[@jpop-qg5gj]

Yeah… bigger is better & waaay cuter on you too!

[@Itsadarknight]

I used this tutorial to cut my curly hair into a bob. It came out fantastic thank you. Hair dressers never listen to me when I ask them not to cut my hair like it’s straight and it ends up way shorter than I want with awful thinned out layers and the curly hair specialists charge a fortune. Thank you. Thank you

[@itsamandapasceri]

LMAOOOOO NOT ANTHONY WITH THE DISCLAIMER AT THE END. I am proud of you sir!!! The man learned how to edit within a week to get this up in time 😅 round of applause!!!

[@DanielleMari]

Thank you so much! I'm an old lady with grey hair and big thick curls, so I wasn't sure a) I could do what you did; b) if it would work with my hair type; and c) if I was too old to pull this off. BUT- I did it! (Took about 7 inches off.) Everyone comments on how cute my cut is, how fresh it looks, and how much younger it makes me. I wish I could post my before/after shots because it's pretty great. Thank you so much for the clear instructions and for giving me the guts to trim the hedges!

[@nancymcdermott880]

Excellent video - both content and editing! I've been cutting my own hair due to your tutorials. Recently I had a cut in a curly salon and basically got a $260 moisture treatment and trim, not a single new layer or piece of advise. No need to go again when Mell and crew are so helpful and generous. Thank you!

[@joanneyetman9821]

I guess I'm cutting my hair tonight...

[@pedromartinez2347]

How'd it go?

[@allyh85]

Same 😅 I haven't restyled yet. We'll see

[@joseecampion7098]

Me too

[@artsE866]

Good for you!! I'm doing that today too 😅

[@asmabachirbey7330]

We r

[@kimzimmerman3958]

Added Note: He did an excellent job of editing! Seriously flawless!

[@eliseraifman4766]

Love the bob on you! Your curls are gorgeous. I have been using your styling tips and my shoulder length curls are looking great and lasting longer. Don’t have the guts to cut my own hair but thankfully my sister is a hairstylist so I don’t have to. Thanks for your tips and being you. You are so much fun to watch!

[@ManesByMell]

I love that you have a hairstylist seester! Thank you for watching even though you dont plan on doing this yourself LOL

[@shawndanewby8941]

​@@ManesByMelljust wandering if you're hair was natually straight instead of curly would you still do all these videos

[@Dogandcatmom51]

@@ManesByMell, I’m trying to learn how to cut my hair myself. I like blunt layers, meaning that I want layers but want the ends of the hairs to be blunt and not cut into. Will the pigtail cut yield that result? I think I want a 90 degree cut, but I want the perimeter slightly rounded and full. How would I do that with pigtails? My hair is the same length as yours here. Thanks!

[@Dogandcatmom51]

@@ManesByMell, what happens if you do a pigtail cut with hair at around this length?

[@tashab-lu6we]

You use alot of different brushes in your videos. Which is your favorite for bouncy curls?

[@Mili0711]

I love her hair

[@Mili0711]

Oh my goodness SHE PINNED ME EEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!!!!☺️☺️😊😊😊😝😝😝🤫🤫🤫☺️☺️☺️

[@dm5129]

Her hair is very thick with curls, my hair is thinner so a blunt bob actually looks super, lol

[@lilacfields]

@@dm5129idk i have fine hair but my blunt bob looked terrible 😭 wish i would’ve had this vid back then

[@StregaSaggia]

That “tilt the head back” comment was a game changer!💡 The whole video was actually!! And it was funny & you’re absolutely gorgeous so that was also nice 😆. Thanks for making this video!👌🏽

[@shankornfeld1541]

Anthony did well with both the editing and the life wisdom. It was like seeing his view of Mell rather than Amanda's. Mell, stunning job!

[@franceska2228]

Okay so now I’ve watched this video about 10 times I’m ready to cut my bob all by myself!! Thanks Mel! Wish me luck 😂😅

[@Blessedafieryredhead]

How did it go?

[@gnashgoulash]

I'm a guy who's growing my hair out for the first time (and learning I have curls!); I haven't had a haircut in a while so my hair shape is all... chaotic and I'm just finally barely learning enough on how to care for my curls, but hearing your "low styling" prep for a haircut helps me keep in mind what I can do for a low-maintenance hair care routine! Also I may never cut a bob on myself but i watched the whole video lmao. also my hair is way finer and thinner (30 yo white man haha) but every new piece of info helps me care for my hair better!

[@acuherbalista]

Hi Mel ❤ I fought my curls for many years. Love you for teaching me how to embrace my curls and how to style it. I rarely wear my hair straight now 🤗

[@raleighbowker1116]

Looks gorgeous! You make it look so easy to cut your own hair! But after some disastrous self haircuts back in the 80's.. I finally learned to leave it to the pros. I did have my hair cut into a bob 3 weeks ago, I used to wear it like that all the time! Forgot how easy it is to style and so glad I did it! Thank you for the inspiration!

[@mad-iy9kt]

I tried this on my extremely EXTREMELY overgrown bob and it turned out wonderful! Genuinely can't believe I did that, and it was my first time cutting my hair apart from occasional trimming. Thank you so much for this!

[@ManesByMell]

I’m so happy to hear that!! Glad I could help you 🫶🏻🫶🏻

[@robinduke3446]

So so good. You make it look so easy but I know better than that. Would you consider featuring someone with curly gray hair. Texture is different now that I’m gray and could definitely use some tips. Thanks for all you do.

[@sherrylivering4149]

Yes! I would love that!!

[@michellemariano418]

Just cut a bob last night and I love it!! LIVING for the curly Bob.

[@92_lolo]

I really loved seeing your hair without styling products and styling. It really shows the difference it makes! Absolutely gorgeous natural fluffy and gorgeous defined and product!

[@deadheadfarmstead]

I cut my long hair tonight with this video. I absolutley love how it came out!

[@mochar2027]

Just did this cut ✂️ ❤🥰 and I must say I am feeling fabulous!!! Thank you so much Mel. I'm a curly girl, had long hair like your seester Amanda and I just chopped it all off 😊🔥

[@becdiane]

I’m so glad you fell in love with the bob, so chic

[@ManesByMell]

I love her so much. I feel like I was meant to have this haircut ❤️ thank you for watching 😘😘

[@fieryrouge]

Congrats Mell and Amanda and now Anthony. 👏Mell you always impress. I could not bend to cut like you did. Long hair is one thing but a bob. Wow. I know your a pro but wanted to give you 👏 for that. Been watching your channel for years. Love the energy and positivity you bring. Cheer to 800k 🥂and to many more. Great cameo at the end by Anthony. Your very lucky to siblings that not only can you work with but to laugh with. Not everyone is that fortunate. Congrats again and see you next week.

[@autumnsmith3878]

So I have thick curly hair always scared to cut above my shoulder but I have low energy condition and I can’t keep up with my hair anymore. But your look is exactly what I needed to see to take the plunge. I will be getting my hair cut, using your pictures as what cut I would like. I just think or hope it will turn out as gorgeous as your! Thanks for always be a bright, bubbly, intelligent women that inspires me to key trying ❤

[@JodiLynnCosmicArt]

I just adore you! Not only are you so good at what you do and the tips you give, but your humor and personality are priceless! Not to mention you are beautiful Xx

[@angeliquegalligan3263]

Your hair looks amazing and after watching this video this morning. I followed your steps and cut my own bob! I think it looks fab and now onto growing healthy curls!! Thank you for all you do ❤

[@ItsNotOurLessonToLearn]

I never knew I had wavy curly hair until a year ago. I’ve always had a bob haircut but blew my hair straight. I love styling my hair. It’s always been a time in my day where I work on my head both physically and mentally. Am I the only one? Mel, you’ve inspired me to embrace the curls I’ve discovered and just go with it. As a free spirited 58 year old woman I feel like my curls illuminate the essence of who I truly am. I’ve had not only friends but my own therapist just smile and say the curls match my personality. So, for any woman around my age who feels inspired to not fit in the frumpy box, do it! Peace baby! ✌🏻💗🥰

[@april6620]

45 here, and I wholeheartedly concur! Although, I'm probably considered "frumpy" with my no make up, in my usual yoga leggings and t shirts while I chase after my 5 & 9 yo boys... while parenting on my own, I've got nobody to impress except myself and kiddos! (I have vascular and nerve issues in my legs anyway, so the compression really helps with aches and pains.... just so hot during the summer.) And I actually do practice yoga and yoga nidra, so the mobility helps with that too. Much love to you, fellow free spirited curly gal!❤

[@danielar]

Making this a family gig is another way you have set your brand apart from the rest! Keep going, you are doing great as a young business woman! ❤. Thanks to the bro for putting his touch in this one.

[@christina6254]

You are so inspiring! I love how you empower us to get what we want and need out of our curly hairs!

[@annazabinski194]

Honestly, Mel, the content is always on point. And your personality just pops on camera. I totally wish you could be my stylist

[@silkestadler2647]

I am wearing my natural curls for 7 months now but always was wearing them in a bun because I was so selfconscious. Thanks to your Video I was able to identify what I didn’t like with my hairstyle (middle part with a bob and sagging in the back) and was able to fix it. Since doing that I wear my hair open every day - and it really changed my style (if not my life 😊). I am now very scissor happy and chisel away at my hair every few weeks 😅. But I like my bob and also it’s not too bad to get that heat damage out. Thanks so much! Love your content ❤

[@tatumpretorius1226]

This was really good Mel. I wanted to ask if you had some tips for grey haired ladies and how I can get less frizz please

[@adioh4215]

Watching this after I did the same thing! I hacked away at my hair for hours and I achieved what I wanted. Tomorrow is style and refine day! It feels so light and bouncy.

[@symoneh4402]

Although you didn’t inspire me to cut, I did have to grow out a pixie that was cut after bleach damage. It’s about the length that you cut your hair to in this video, and you really help me feel pretty in it, because you look so beautiful 😊 so thank you for helping me feel comfortable in my hair Mell!

[@shellyclayton202]

11 months later and this video! is helping me today!! i have had my curls cut properly once in my life and this bob cut was it! so excited to try myself! i stated cutting my own hair after several nightmare experiences that left me in tears. not sure why people seem to think that cutting curly hair means short when you want it lay down as we can see here its the opposite! lol blessings : ) thank you

[@Daniela-2208]

I have been following you since you started youtube and you are my GO-ToO girl for my hair care", hair cuts, etc. I did a big chop shortly after yours but ended up with a bell shape, and it was so short that i was scared to cut any more. I just tried this technique, and it absolutely fixed it without removing length. Just, what I needed! Thanks mell. You slayed... AGAIN!

[@kendralovorn7281]

Omg! I just busted out laughing when you turned the clipper on and you said, “In case the sound confused you….” 😂😂😂 I apparently know what you were comparing the sound to 😉

[@sylvialessa3133]

I have been trying this haircut for about a year. This last attempt seems to be my most successful. At first I don't think I got all the steps right. I have not washed and styled it yet, but it's looking more like what you did. My hair is wavy curly and very thick, so more slippery and dense to cut, which seems harder to do. I did not use your method for the bangs as it didn't work great for my level of curl. I found another video for that, which gave me exactly what I was looking for. Practice makes perfect, or better and better. 🎉

[@TheLopez13]

Would you please share the video you used for the bangs?

[@michelleE-k7v]

I’ve watched this video twice now and both times have cut my hair straight after 😂 Getting a little gamer every time. Mell you are awesome. Sending love and a huge thank you from Western Australia ❤

[@gabrielleprice480]

This is amazing! I have recently decided to cut my own hair from now on after a number of bad haircuts at salons. The last one I got in salon was a big chop and it was not the style that I had asked for. It literally looked nothing like the reference picture and I was too embarrassed to go back and tell them I didn't like it, so I've been trimming it myself. I've spent the last few months trying to grow it out a bit, and I think it's finally at the length I can create a bob like yours. I had just been at a loss for how to create the stacked shape in the back and make it balanced on the sides without being too bulky. I know I'm a little late to the game here since this video was posted 6 months ago, but this video is EXACTLY what I've been needing and I can't wait to give it a try!

[@dagnolia6004]

a new HAIRa.....Mel is the QUEEN of the understated PUN!!!!

[@vegafem]

Owner of a curly bob here! I'm 2,000 miles away from my hair stylist and so, so close trying out your amazing tips. You're an outstanding educator and so much fun to watch.

[@debbiedean3165]

😊 I have watched this so many times, especially as I started trimming my hair. I kept going back, watching, trimming more off, it looks so much better, thank you Mell, your tutorials are very specific 💕

[@michelerichards233]

Thank you, lovely Mel. I'm an ole gal that has been dealing with my curls alone all my life (cherry Jerkens was my go to styling product in the 70s, yikes:). For the last ten years the bob has been my go to. But I was avoiding trimming it because I loved where it fell but now I know I can troubleshoot it and why and where to cut. You are like hair meditation for me! And you're gorgeously fearless!

[@aczu12345]

I needed this exact video, thank you! My daughter gave me the same chop the other day. So excited to add shape. It's also making you look so much like Jennifer Grey as Baby. ❤️

[@jenniferguevara2809]

Mel, I hope you are well. Your haircuts are the best. Thank you so much for providing the videos for us, they are much appreciated and we have learned so much from you. Keep the great videos coming. You are the best🥺💙

[@ManesByMell]

Hi Jennifer ahhh thank you so much for being here and watching, it’s a pleasure to share these moments and education with you❤️

[@AdeanerFerreira]

I absolutely LOVE THIS! & I'm SO excited that you posted this. I got my mine cut literally 2 days after you posted the reveal of yours, and I'm so loving it! But now it's grown out so fast, and I'm getting triangle. It's giving Dora, and I don't love it as much, so hopefully, I can recreate this 🤞🏾😬

[@PChuu22]

You absolutely inspired me to cut my hair into a bob...and it also is growing out. So this is a very timely video! ❤️

[@neahwalker3804]

Mell I know I’m super late to the party but I just tried this tutorial step by step and let me tell you!!! My hair has never looked like this before and I absolutely love it! When I initially cut my hair short I regretted it because I wasn’t sure if it fit my face and my hair felt so heavy like a helmet. But after following this tutorial I am back in love with the bob and will probably never go back!😁😁thank you so much!💖

[@Menditha]

SO BEAUTIFUL!!! Don't think I could ever cut my own hair. So thankful for the tutorial in case it ever becomes necessary.

[@gabriellepaisley2946]

Looks so amazing! I liked having my hair shorter, but I'm lazy so I didn't keep up with the maintenance. My favorite recent hairstyle you did was Amanda's wedding hair ❤️ I would like to see more of one and done hair products. I'm 8.5 months pregnant so I need easy! Love you guys. Congrats on your milestone!! ❤

[@nancyb2003]

This was really helpful! I chopped my 3b/c hair to barely inches several months ago. Looking at your 'mell' , I see my future 'bell'. I just can't do it myself. No spatial skills. I see a long talk with my stylist in my future! THANK YOU for keepin' it real. You're stunning and teaching me so much about proper products!

[@lorrainemarcketta3011]

First of all, you are completely adorable! The way you present yourself and your obvious talent as a stylist is so engaging - and really just wonderful! Thanks so much for sharing.

[@raissaalbuquerque340]

Mell, thank you so much for posting videos like this! I live in a small town where there stylists don’t really know what to do with my hair and your videos always gives me courage to cut it myself and to try new things. Actually went a little bit scissor happy and cut more that what I was planning, but I’m still in love with my new bob 🩷🩷✨ Love your videos and your vibe

[@monsuuta]

Absolutely would love more videos like this! This is definitely the video I was waiting for. You are stunning. Also, it absolutely killed me when you said you we're turning it back into a Bob before it became a Robert

[@dbas2863]

Was not expecting that at the end! He did a great job! And so did you. So adorable that haircut suits you so well mell🥰

[@sibagasser]

Cut my hair for the second time with your video and for the second time I had a blast AND my haircut feels amazing once again. Thank you!

[@sophiaaloeristok]

I absolutely LOVE this cut on you. Thank you for helping us re-create it at home. If I cut it, Im going to need this video on repeat lol ❤

[@melindaseymour5819]

Mel, thank you for the DIY graduated bob hair cut video. I am excited to try it out on my hair. I have to let it grow out a little before taking the plunge. My hair is thinning, so this cut will be great for me. I have been applying some of your DIY hair cut videos to my own hair and love the outcomes. I greatly appreciate the time and effort you put into your videos, and for sharing your professional tips. Anthony did a great job.

[@NYC1025]

I’ve said before but I’m going to say again, I’m new to this channel. At first I was like what is this personality but quickly became obsessed. You are adorable. Just saw a crying video today and you even cry adorably. Your family is so cute and funny too.

[@aida087]

You're so GORGEOUS Mel!! I just did your pigtail haircut yesterday since my hair grew into the dreaded pyramid shape😫!! But I so want to cut my hair like this again especially, before the new year to start fresh!!❤

[@odalysruiz4]

Gorgeous cut! You are amazing. Love it. I'm a stylis/colorist for 38 yrs. My hair is thicker. I'll go slow. And I pray for a good result. 🙏♥️🥳😘

[@gabiturner4394]

I am in love with this channel, you, your hair, brother and seester! It makes my heart happy to see how you guys interact ❤ reminds me of my family dynamic. Love the HAIR, YOU AND ALL THE CONTENT OF THIS CHANNEL. Keep up the FABULOUS WORK! 😊

[@missanyolette9272]

Lo que yo estaba esperando!!!!! 🫰🏼✨💖🌈💌 Gracias Mel! Tus consejos me han cambiado la vida. 😊

[@rturba]

I'm loving your bob phase! I've always learned a lot from you, but now I'm getting so many tips with your shorter hair on how to manage, cut and style my own short hair! Love this new phase for you and me, lol ❤

[@hopeguidry7023]

You look amazing!! I love the bob cut on you so much! Congratulations on 800k!!🎉

[@oliveyule]

I've been so excited for this video! Hopefully no more bad haircuts for me because this is almost the exact shape that I prefer.

[@gabygabygabys]

Gorgeous!! I love all of your haircutting videos, they are so soothing to watch :)

[@brandysterzik8683]

Mel!!!!I NEED YOUUUUUU!!!EVERYTHING YOU TEACH about CURLY HAIR sits with My Soul❤ Gorgeous, love all the Volume.

[@kyliev97]

Omg your tips on graduation are exactly what I needed! I’m gonna try this tonight! & Super funny Anthony! 😂 Thank you so much!

[@monicastricker4270]

So glad I found this. I've been cutting my hair myself for over a decade. There are so many people that do not know how to handle curly hair and cut it exactly like it is stick straight. I was aggravated with all the videos on social media where the get it completely wet and cut it. Idiots, thanks you for the tips.

[@lisacockrell7668]

I love it!! I have curly 3c hair and yes, recently inspired to cut off several inches. Loving it! ❤

[@kellypollet7130]

Girl, that cut was made for you! Absolutely gorgeous

[@oceaned4153]

Thank you for this video, I cut my hair at home because where I live it's very hard to find a hairdresser who knows how to cut curly hair. I have the same type of curls as you and I learned to cut it trough youtube videos, now my hair looks better than ever!

[@dovesong4jc]

I SO NEED this hair cut in my life!!! Thank you once again Mel for the clear instructions!!! You look FABULOUS!!!

[@wandygonzalez8078]

Wow you are definitely a PRO!!!! Love your new haircut. And your brother did a good job editing. Hope Amanda is having a great time in Africa!!! 🎉

[@5estrellaN]

Congrats on 800k subbies!! And your hair turned out beautiful 😍

[@zulemaportillo2724]

Thank you so much Mel for all your videos so helpfull, I did it! I cut my own hair and this video is very need it because soon I have to get the courage to do it again, thank you from the bottom of my ❤for all the time you put into your work. By the way I got many complements on my hair and I love it also! I love yourmnew bob you look Beautiful and happy, besaré and enjoy the Holidays! Blessings 🎅🤶🧑‍🎄❤❤❤And the reason I had to cut my own hair is because my husband was not well and I did not want to spend time out there and leave him alone at home.

[@nicolesawford5548]

Oh my goodness , I want your hair!! Your looking so gorgeous with your bob Mel. Congratulations on 801K subscribers. You deserve over a Million ! Great editing as well.

[@Heyitsshelbz]

She has such a beautiful profile and personality. Thanks for sharing! May get crazy and cut it tomorrow.

[@karine8738]

Let be honest ... you look amazing with no products and volume... the look before going to shower was so BEAUTIFUL GORGEOUS Pefection on you!!!! I am jealous ❤❤❤

[@suehumphreys2999]

LOVE it as much as you do!!!! It looks so professional and absoulty adorable on you!!!

[@lsmilek]

This is amazing! I wish I had the confidence, coordination, and overall observation skills to do this, but the way you break it down and explain it so well, makes me consider it! My daughter is going to hair school now, so once she has some cutting experience, I think we can get a great cut together :-) Looks gorgeous!! ❤❤❤

[@CindyHolman]

You inspired me to cut my short fine curly hair into a Bob - so I bought some shears and it took me two tries but it looks adorable! Thanks for the tips!!

[@nildabonilla1987]

I will try it, I like your honesty and simplicity plus you are funny !

[@zimtt1276]

From one flat head to another, thankyou for the stacking tips. I rushed to the mirror to cut, my hair is still wet but I know it's just what I needed.

[@Nokabro]

Great video Mell! Glad to have a short curly hair tutorial. Such a cute cut!

[@MariaReina18]

So so beautiful. I cut my own bob too, it’s curly but yours is more curly and so gorgeous!! Thank you!!♥️

[@jamemo1972]

I was just about to give a shout-out to your seester for her mad editing this tutorial when I read that it was Anthony. Way to go! Perfect look for you Mel.

[@DeviantDayDreamer]

After watching your bob reveal video a few weeks ago, I was inspired and made the chop for myself and I couldn't be happier! I'm so glad you posted this video so I have tips for maintaining my beautiful new bob.

[@debbiedean3165]

I love your hair, it's gorgeous. I don't know if I cut my hair myself, maybe a trim 😊, you give people a lot of confidence, thank you Mel ❤️

[@mondayrabbits4119]

my hair stylist always does it wrong, my hair has NO volume And since i’m way too shy to either tell her (which i already did too often) or go to another stylist, i decided to just try and cut it myself 🤷‍♀️ I honestly don’t even really care what i do, plus if i fail i can go to another hair stylist anyway :) This video made me more confident about cutting my hair, and i also better understand how i could cut my hair now yeyy

[@amixeblu]

Damn girlfriend, that looks *amazing* You did such a good job. Love the graduation in back. I had one haircut like this but it was cut straight and blown out each time at the hairdresser. Most of the salon cut these bobs shaved and with a ledge in back, he wouldn't. He would spend the time creating that graduation in back. Now, I have thick hair, normally (it thinned out recently, badly due to "protective" styling too much). It was super thick and looked really good! I loved that style!

[@DominguezJuanan]

Cutting my own hair without the pigtails had very bad results in the past for me LOL but is really entertaining and inspiring. Watching you doing this and how well you teach 🥰🥰

[@KimbiW]

Turned out awesome! I got laid off earlier this year, so not professional 💇‍♀️ for me. This is really helpful. Good job Bro on the editing!

[@rebeccagrice917]

Thank you for this update on your cut. It saved me from living with a very bad haircut that turned into an unwanted bob.

[@rebeccaharding7793]

Love this! Love the vids! Love you! I recently decided to chop off a good chunk of my hair (well, didn’t decide so much as just pulled out the scissors and started cutting). It was shorter and cuter than my previous look, but I wasn’t in love with it. I used to just pile all my hair up and tie it in a bun and be on my way, but I wanted something that would show off my curls with less work for work. Then I found your videos and used a few to sharpen up the look. I am definitely going to try this out to give the current cut some much needed volume in the back. Thanks Mell! ❤

[@little_blue_cloud_nehiyawuk]

How timely! You make it look easy though. 🤣 I hope you could maybe address those of us who do not like bangs--I also have a side part. I am one of the ones inspired by your tres chic bob cut this year and went ahead and got my long hair chopped off. Unfortunately it wasn't the cut I asked for and now have to grow out some crazy layers but plan on taking care of future trims myself. I so appreciate this video! Thank you thank you thank you!

[@lamiakhaled582]

woooooow it have been a while i watched your videos. your short hair cut is amazing

[@juli3836]

Love it, this bob looks very chic on you!!! We have really similar curl types and I also went brunette recently after years of being blonde😂 Your videos helped me sm when I started my curly journey a few years ago❤