"productive" week: planning, cleaning, meal prep, mum life

[@barbaraurquhart3190]

Judea give yourself some grace. It's okay for you to feel how you feel. You lost a piece of your heart mourn it. You are an Amazing mother. Everything you do for your children is so beautiful to see. Sending you gentle hugs. ❤❤

[@fayehendra4508]

Your vulnerability is your strength, as is your level of self reflection and insight. It will help you in the long run, but you can be your own worst enemy. You're an amazing woman and you handle yourself with grace and dignity. You should be really proud of yourself. Thinking of you and your lovely children and will remember you in my prayers xxx

[@Thaoiiiz]

I think making a special keepsake box to store Noah-Lee's meaningful items that you intend to keep forever wouldn't be a bad idea- her clothes, blankets, hair accessories, photo albums etc. This way you can mentally prepare yourself each time you wish to go through all the memories. XXX

[@LMCEK]

Judea I'm sorry that there are people online who are being very hard on you. You are doing your best. No one can possibly ask for more. Hugs 🤗

[@tinaevans6407]

well said!! 👏🏼👏🏼🤗

[@delphinium5555]

It's very early days in terms of grief. Those early years are the Very Worst. Thankfully the waves of intense grief lessen as the years pass by but they are always there. Over forty years on since losing our baby boy they still happen regularly, at times daily or lots of times a day, especially around anniversaries but they become a welcome sign that my boy is always remembered and loved. I'm happy to take that. Sending love, you are doing amazing. Big hugs for the week ahead. It's a day at a time, hour by hour.

[@tarahpeterson4696]

Best momma ever!!! You’re a GREAT mommy and i love how you involve Echo and Ever with your healing and love for Noah Lee. Precious!!!! ❤️🥰

[@nashenkadurgadin886]

Judea, you are your best therapist. You are so sensitive to your feelings. You show so much emotional intelligence. Listen we never Win everyday. I really admire you, your vulnerability is beautiful. I don't think you have realised yet how amazing you are.

[@lexismom9341]

Judea, you are amazing. You have gone through something no mother should ever have to go through. You are such a wonderful mom and such a beautiful soul! xoxo

[@helenrhall]

Maybe you could make two patchwork blankets/quilts for ever and echo out of noah-lees bedding and clothes, that way noah-lee can still give them a cuddle?

[@brennapetersen8522]

Thank you so much for showing the real moments. They're incredibly vulnerable but important and valid.

[@Raumatijd]

The oh my god feeling, is it maybe disbelief? Really feel for you Judea. You’re working through your grief so well ❤

[@debralanguet4951]

Judea your a amazing mommy and my heart hurts for you when it comes to your precious daughter Noah-Lee 💕👼 I’m sending you all my love and prayers and the biggest hug to you 🫶❤️ You are doing amazing with your beautiful children and every day life, don’t let anyone make you feel different!❤️ Keep up your positive attitude, and God bless 🙏❤️👍 Sending you lots of hugs and love from Debra in Maine 🫶

[@eveyfitzpatrick]

Awh, Judea, seeing you hold Noah-Lee's bedding and at her house made me sob. 💔 🥺 It's so unfair 🤍 sending you all my love, you're incredible! ✨️

[@msangelz]

We are here for you Judea take care. 💜🙏🏼🌈✨

[@LeighanaBartlett]

I felt the anxiety when you heard the door knock! ❤❤❤

[@angievincent3416]

The brown floral outfit looks absolutely adorable on Ever! I’m glad you can include Noah-lee in your’s and your children’s lives. I lost my baby to SIDS 30 years ago and I feel like a piece of me died with her and that I will never be a 100% person no matter how much time goes by.

[@piapod]

Sending you all the love, Judea 💜

[@annaw8402]

Judea, you are so beautiful on the outside, but more importantly you are beautiful on the inside. We see your heart, we see your love for your 3 babies. We admire you so much. Kia kaha lovely lady 💕

[@tinaevans6407]

omg..Ever was looking sooo adorable in her new suit..❤😊🫶🏼💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖

[@emmawilkin6560]

Aww 🥰 how adorable did Ever look in that outfit & bow xx

[@summervibes2847]

🌻liking, then watching...

[@pauleengould998]

You have 2 children who need you to do the practical things every day. Noah Lee is always with you and you shouldn’t feel guilty about doing such a great job with Echo and Ever.

[@gearlesashley114]

Just know judea that you will get to see your baby in heaven one day . She is smiling down from heaven

[@sallygotitall4104]

I dont have space as well, but also I am attached to many things, memories, gifts, past etc. and ofc its hard to keep it all and tidy and whatsoever but I found those space bags and its perfect, everything that i keep but not actually use fits into this bags and yeah.. maybe try this, so you can keep everything what belongs to Noah-Lee

[@Itsjudeaaa]

🥺🤍

[@hayleyl1166]

Sending love ❤️

[@kaylaklover]

You are so strong!

[@patricialoney8919]

Judea, you don't have anything to apologize for. There are some mean spirited people out there, that get some kind of enjoyment out of criticizing others. You are an outstanding mother to all three of your children. Baby Ever is a beautiful, healthy, and happy baby girl. Echo is just way too cool, well adjusted, and happy, and Noah-Lee has the hearts of people all over the world. So the next time someone has something to say to criticize you, just consider the source, and flick them away like the annoying little mosquito that they are.

[@BBBAB-2016]

One thing at a time mama! This has been the best mind set shift I needed so I don’t get burnt out. 🫶🏼✨

[@AmberPayton-bb5co]

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[@charlenefriesen8286]

Your so right I have all my kids bedding some how I still can’t part with anything! My oldest is 32 and twins are 28. Bedding is personal ! You look great! Ever is the cutest little girl. Noah’s~Lee knows you are thinking of her. You will have good months and bad months some will be better than others hang in there your a great mom!

[@hsw1015]

Hi Judea, how would you feel about having Noah-Lee’s bedding turned into a wee bear. I saw someone making these out of recycled baby clothes. ❤

[@lyndsayhammond6884]

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[@jackieedwards2023]

Hi judea I wish I could give u the biggest hug in the world I feel for us so much it must be awful for u the love u have got for Noah lee is heartbreaking u r the best mummy ever I hope u have a better week with your beautiful Children take care thinking of u from Jackie 🏠🎀💞🧸🌈🫶

[@cookwithmacybrooke]

I’m so sorry that Noah-Lee isn’t here. ❤ 😢 Thank you for all that you share and letting us into your world. Don’t get rid of anything that you don’t want to. As minimalism serves us; keeping what we love is okay too, especially something so sentimental. You don’t have to get rid of anything that belonged to Noah-Lee.

[@robynconnor489]

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[@viviankaldahl4546]

What a beautiful moment to catch on camera

[@tarabithia4509]

Snack fuel is good for milk supply ❤

[@creavallekarawana8093]

Aawwww 😭😭😭 girl! This vlog got me good! Haha you are an incredible mama! ✨ your babies are so lucky to have you as their mummy! Including Noah-lee ✨ grief is just something else! Thank you for sharing 🫶🏽

[@amosbsb6]

I think as far as keeping Noah lee’s belongings if she was there she would be taking up space in your home so it’s perfectly ok for her belongings to take up space.

[@emu9520]

Noah Lees grave…I mean the fact that you have to say that…it is beyond hell…I’m so sorry ….you are a beautiful mum to your children and you are their everything …you are so needed and loved by them…all three ❤❤❤

[@JeanDickson-ed9go]

❤❤❤❤❤❤Judea I would say time is never a healer ........grief is grief forever.......however you are doing an amazing job being the most selfless person .....no one can see youre grief only you feel it .....talk about it when youre having a bad day ......even if youre at the coffee house with friends ......true friends will understand.......you would listen to them in moments of despair........i think that acceptance of what happened may give you a different perspective youre beautiful Noah lea will always be youre 1st baby taken in the most awful circumstances.....this doesnt mean its right its so wrong but it was beyond anything that you or Brogan would have ever imagined to happen .....ps i hate to see you so upset but through it all the love you show youre children is so beautiful ❤❤❤❤❤❤ thinking of you Judea x

[@aleksandramoreva74]

I have exactly the same feeling of uselessness or "unproductive" while being with my children when they sleep... So unfair.

[@googlenutzer3998]

We all do. We shouldn‘t… 🥰

[@daisy346]

Me to, all the time! but the times I get so much done and don't just hold me children and end up feeling guilty about that.

[@nonna6122]

1 day your holding your baby and then she gone joedea l feel so sad for you 😢 l wish l could give you a hug

[@Leesliie]

The door opening at Noah lees little house was (I think) a sign that she was there w you and listening and just wanted you to know she hears you and is always w you❤️❤️❤️

[@yesiv4944]

Judea has mentioned she doesn’t believe in these types of “signs”

[@yesiv4944]

You can also see it was super windy that day

[@rainbyrne691]

Hey judea have you ever had a sign from Noah lee to let you know she’s with you when you go to see her? It’s just I’ve seen a lot of videos lately where children look like they can see someone and respond to something also I saw a mother wishing her son a happy birthday and there was a wind chime gently moving as she sang, the weather that day was calm with no wind at-all Hope you don’t mind me asking? Xxx

[@Al-kb2xl]

Aussie’s moan about the cost of groceries but good lord it’s so much worse in New Zealand! No wonder my mum is always moaning about it. They need to get Aldi already

[@andreawood991]

I can only imagine maybe a baby girl triggers u rememebering noah lee more ❤.i thjnk acceptance is the key to healing and that comes with time. I have learnt from loss i grieve long and hard its been tiring 😢❤im a heart women and i am only now after 9 yrs after loss am starting to feel like i am allowed to live. It sounds to me u have learnt to compartmentalize which i learnt to do. You see a trigger and kinda stop the normal reaction and ur mind puts it into a compartment because its too hard to deal with but this action can become very tiring after a while 😢i feel its a good too know and use occasionally however it is also suppressing ur grief 😢which i dont think is healthy for ur mind and body. Ive learnt its best for me to let my emotions out rather than hold them inside❤❤❤acceptance of how u grieve is a very valued gift to oneself. I think positive affirmations and saying the serenity prayer daily also helps me get by ❤.u are strong ,u are beautiful and u have endurance ❤ u got this.❤❤❤

[@kasia9582]

🩷💛💜

[@Chan-785]

Try the pics peanut butter without salt. Game changer it’s sooo much nicer!!

[@angelamylany7429]

🫂❤ IT must be so hard to just "get on with your day". I admire your strength to keep going.

[@melissapearl1]

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