EULOGIES FOR THE LIVING - Sharing gratitude with those we love

When we lose someone we love, we suddenly feel free to speak beautiful, flowery sentiments of gratitude, affection and admiration; words that we’ve kept bottled-up for years. And now that we’re finally ready to say them, they can’t be heard by the person who needs to hear it most.
Let's not wait for another funeral to tell someone how much we love them. Time is startlingly short - let's give eulogies to the living - memorialise them face-to-face. Speak all the words of love, to those we love. Say everything while they can still hear.
Let's celebrate life and those who matter in our lives, every day!
This film, which chronicles how the global Gracenotes movement began, tells the story of the first Gracenote that Andrea ever wrote, a eulogistic tribute to her father.
Featuring Andrea Driessen (www.AndreaDriessen.com and www.Grace-Notes.org)
Filmed in Seattle, USA.
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Who is Reflections of Life? We are Justine and Michael (previously known as Green Renaissance). We use our passion for filmmaking and our love of storytelling, to remind our audience of one simple truth - that we are all human. The more that we understand and believe in this interconnectedness, the more we will treat ourselves, one another, and planet earth with a greater sense of compassion.
Filming - by Michael Raimondo
Editing - by Justine du Toit
Sound mix - by Tamryn Breakey
In collaboration with iNous, we recently released a beautiful deck of 52 cards - each card containing a quote from one of our films, paired with the activating visual muses of Lanon Prigge. The aim of this deck is to rekindle child-like curiosity and creativity, helping to navigate the shared waters of our human experience with grace and joy. If you’d like to consider purchasing your copy, shop here - tgc.link/refle...
The following music tracks are used in this film, all sourced from Epidemic Sound:
Amaranthine - by Alan Ellis
Tell Me Again - by Miles Avida
She Waits - by Indigo Days
Grandpa - by Infinity Ripple
Mending - by Hanna Lindgren
As She Grabbed the Sky - by Lama House
A huge thank you to these guys, who gave so generously of their to time to help with translations, enabling us to provide subtitles in the following languages:
Albanian - by Denis Skendaj
Arabic - by Frihat Oussama
Bulgarian - by Polina Stoyanova
Chinese (Traditional and Simplified) - by Shun-Ying Lu
Dutch - by Karla Greven
English - by Justine du Toit
French - by Amélie Macoin
German - by Tanja Pütz
Greek - by Vicky Polychroni
Indonesian - by Ary Nuansa
Italian - by Grazia Gironella
Korean - by Hotae Devin Noh
Polish - by Anna Konieczna
Portuguese - by Sibylle Steinpass and Lucivani Valvassori
Slovak - by Zuzana Beratsova
Spanish - by Paty Aguirre
Ukrainian - by Sofia Bespalova
Vietnamese - by Thi Le

[@hatsjkedee]

I honestly think it may be better to swap all the self-help/self-improvement for these types of videos. Instead of focusing on what is wrong with us and our lives, this shows us how to be grateful, loving, humble, compassionate, and above all, how to be real. Thanks for the content

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Your words mean much to us. A great compliment, thank you. Nice to know that you see so much value in what we share. Sending much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@michaelduncan6287]

I learned to write as a child by writing thank you cards for EVERY gift I ever recieved. Letters to my grandparents, extended family, cousins, friends,,,, as one gets older and people pass on the letters become fewer,,, till one day they stop. Now my thoughts go into a journal, who will read, who will care? I've NEVER discarded a letter or card, I've got boxes, drawers and envelopes full of them. Now at a time going through my moms things,,,, she to had saved every note and letter I'd ever written and the childhood memories of and entire life,,, two lives return.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Wow, this goes goes deep, thank you for sharing. Much to ponder on... Sending much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@michaelduncan6287]

@@ReflectionsofLife The lives of the people you share help us to appreciate our own lives or to aspire to live deeper more meaningful lives. Keep up the good work, you do touch a lot of people!

[@joyceconnolly1065]

I am 81 and have kept every letter and card that I have ever received. It's nice to hear from others who have done the same. Thank you for sharing. 💖

[@peterdelmonte9832]

I have to say that at 75 I’ve kept almost nothing in terms of letters, cards or photos. I used to; I had boxes of them. My experience is that such habits keep you rooted in the past, looking backwards not forwards. I’ve tried to constantly learn new things and develop older interests. Musical instruments, vegetable gardening, rope flow and cycle camping. Veganism, bird watching and better cooking. Reading about minimalism and realising your stuff (anchors to your past) are immediately junked when you die. I measure my happiness to some degree by the cubic feet saved when I donate, sell or discard my clutter. Throwing away my school reports was the best of all! I just don’t equate with the gratitude notion at all.

[@louisianarainwater]

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[@YanaWanderlust.]

This woman is a happy one because she had a good and loving father. Not every child has...

[@ReflectionsofLife]

True. She certainly appreciates the wonderful relationship they had. Warmest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@n.sundari889]

My dad died of a gunshot wound when I was 9 years old. I think about him daily wishing I had more time with him. How wonderful to have such memories and letters from your dad. Thank you for sharing. 🦋

[@ReflectionsofLife]

You are most welcome, we are so thankful that we could share this video with you. Thank you for sharing with us what happened to your father. We are really sorry that he passed away when you were still so young. We hope you are doing ok, that you feel loved and comforted. Sending much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@Changeworld408]

It saddens me to know you where deprived of yr father so soon.

[@Oldmanbraun]

Thank you for this. Your story affected me quite a lot, to the point of tears, and of realizing that I need to do better for those who are still here. Much appreciated 🙏

[@ReflectionsofLife]

You are so welcome! Your words touch us. We are glad her message her message meant much to you. Sending you warmest of hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@Maria-fd7re]

I too, was a Hospice volunteer and totally understand and relate to her. Sitting with the dying left me with an urgency to truly live life! Thanks for the reminder and beautiful video!

[@michaelduncan6287]

Before Hospice was, our church pastor required us Sr. High kids to visit the elderly, and attend to those passing. Made a profound impact on my life and how I lived it.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

You are most welcome. Nice that her message resonated with you deeply. Sending much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@Andrea_Driessen]

@Maria...hello from a fellow hospice volunteer. Here's to living life with the greatest urgency--and GRACE. thank you for watching.

[@janelleetsitty36]

So eloquently said... This made me think of my mother who passed in May of 2019. My parents both raised on a reservation of two different Native tribes. They did their best to raise me with really no tools or knowledge of certain life skills, though it was difficult at times during my young adulthood, I know that I was loved and felt safe. In the end, I was there, just me and my mom, next to her in the hospital bed... I held my mom while the machines were being turned off, told her that I was the luckiest daughter in the world to of had her as my caretaker and to not worry about me, that I will be alright, and its ok to go... it seemed to calm her and she fell into her final sleep. We were both lucky, she got to watch me as I took my first breath and I was there for her last... it was a beautiful thing. Dolores was a gorgeous woman, inside and out ❤ Eddie was a good, honest man ❤

[@ReflectionsofLife]

This is so beautifully written, so touching. It needs a few moments to let it sink in. Thank you for sharing this with all of us. Sending much love and kindness to you. Justine and Michael. 💚

[@janelleetsitty36]

@@ReflectionsofLife Thanks SO Much! 😊 Enjoy all you can...

[@Andrea_Driessen]

Thank you for so openly sharing your profound story of love and connection!

[@janelleetsitty36]

@@Andrea_Driessen Aww... thank you for your words too. All the best to you, Andrea - I appreciate this special acknowledgment. Shout out from the Bay Area of California 😊

[@cemo4642]

Wow I am speechless... You said it like I can feel every word... It's just like it is in front of you and you saying this in the background like a film is passing by...

[@ReflectionsofLife]

A huge thank you to these guys, who gave so generously of their to time to help with translations, enabling us to provide subtitles in the following languages: Albanian - by Denis Skendaj Arabic - by Frihat Oussama Bulgarian - by Polina Stoyanova Chinese (Traditional and Simplified) - by Shun-Ying Lu Dutch - by Karla Greven English - by Justine du Toit French - by Amélie Macoin German - by Tanja Pütz Greek - by Vicky Polychroni Indonesian - by Ary Nuansa Italian - by Grazia Gironella Korean - by Hotae Devin Noh Polish - by Anna Konieczna Portuguese - by Sibylle Steinpass and Lucivani Valvassori Slovak - by Zuzana Beratsova Spanish - by Paty Aguirre Ukrainian - by Sofia Bespalova Vietnamese - by Thi Le

[@sayusayme7729]

I always wished I had a father like yours. How beautiful.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Such touching words. Sending you warmest of hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@mmp495]

This reminded me of letters my farther wrote my siblings and I when he was struggling with alcoholism and moved to another state to find himself. Even during his internal struggle he always managed to call and write us letters. ❤❤❤

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you for sharing your experiences, it's touching. Sending you warmest of hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@kindred-spirits]

I adore every single aspect of this channel. The emotional impact of the documentaries is enhanced not only by the compassionate perspectives of the people included, but also by the eloquent description cards and the kind comments from viewers. I'm grateful I got to experience this in my life. Thank you.

[@Andrea_Driessen]

@Kindred--I am with you--EVERY thing about Reflections of Life is beautiful. In a world that has so much...NOT beautiful, their critical work makes a disproportionate impact.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Your words are very touching and encouraging, thank you so much. They mean a lot and inspire us to share many more videos. It's wonderful to have you with us on our journey. Sending you warmest of hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@jenniehalbroeder3652]

I'm from the UK and now live in the US (also in WA). Earlier this year I decided to write the 'eulogies' of both my parents and read it to them on FaceTime. They are both in their 80s and I might not get to say what I feel about them in person very much now. I told them all my memories of them and how wonderful I think they were and are. It was a very poignant happening. I hadn't always had a great relationship with them when I was younger, especially my mum. They were deeply touched and surprised I felt so well of them. A lot of deep healing took place for all of us....I encourage everyone now to say it now and not save it for their funeral when they won't be here to hear it ❤

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Touching. We thank you for sharing what you did. Yes, may it encourage and inspire many others on our channel and those around you to not leave it too late what we would like to say. Sending much love and kindness to you. Justine and Michael. 💚

[@Andrea_Driessen]

Hello, Jennie....from a fellow Washingtonian (I'm in Seattle;). Thank you for sharing your profound story about the power of sharing eulogies with your parents while they were very able to hear them. Indeed, such a gesture can be deeply healing. Since this story speaks to you, you may enjoy my TED Talk about Gracenotes, too: kzbin.info/www/bejne/eZLUkoCtm76elZY Thank you again for watching and commenting. Love and grace to you.

[@kathyhughes7074]

So very beautiful. You are so articulate. Thank you for sharing. If only everyone had this kind of a relationship with their parents I believe the world would be a different place. Thank you so much for sharing.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

You are so welcome. Thank you for your kind words. We are so happy that you enjoyed listening to Andrea's message. Sending much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@spmoran4703]

My mother and father are gone . They were unique and wonderful .

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Touching words. We are so happy for you that you have good memories. Sending you warmest of hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@SaidAbdelmalek]

Let us be grateful to the people who make us happy; they are the charming gardeners who make our souls blossom. Marcel Proust.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you for sharing this quote with us. It's beautiful and so fitting. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@sbowenful]

Love this! What a great idea about a living tribute! A beautiful story of a daughter who truly loved & learned from her father! Thank you!😊

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Wonderful words. We are so happy that you liked her story. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@sharonrussell7799]

Thank you! In this age of electronic communication, letter writing is so precious and beautiful! Thank you for modeling this! ❤

[@ReflectionsofLife]

It's a pleasure. We are really glad you enjoyed the messages Andrea shared. Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@sandytribotti5058]

What a wonderful way to look at the gauntness of a dying person. Thank you so much!

[@ReflectionsofLife]

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[@bahmdiggity9577]

I lost my father in an accident over 12 years ago. Not a day goes by that I don’t think of him. Every once in a while I’ll find a scrap of paper with his handwriting on it. He had awful handwriting but seeing it still makes me smile and cry. I’m looking forward to the time when I get to hug him again. Thank you for this film.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Oh my, this goes deep. We hear you... What a touching comment and tribute. Sending much love and kindness to you. Justine and Michael. 💚

[@user-zj9hf4sz3c]

So sorry for his passing sending love ❤ I'm sure he would appreciate you remembering him deeply.

[@ninazapalaENTP]

A wonderful story of a relationship between a parent and child. With each sharing their admiration for one another recognizing the gifts they bring and brought to the world. ❤

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Beautifully described, thanks so much. Sending you warmest of hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@Andrea_Driessen]

Yes, sincerest thanks!!

[@longlost8424]

the art of writing letters to family, I sadly feel, will end up being a distant memory of "those old folks" as the younger generations aren't being included by mine (I'm 61) and the next generation through a lack of connectivity.... I know that I lost this over my life, though as I age, I'm moved to review the letters written by my grandmother and her family from the early 1900s and even older letters by her parents from the 1800s. yep, I still have them collected in an old family steamer trunk from the 1800s. my attempt to connect with the old ways. simpler, beautiful, informative... I've become the muddling archivist of my family's past, even though no one else will ever review it..... and its enough for me and my own personal relevance.....

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts and information what treasures you still have and what letter writing means to you, really interesting and touching. Makes one sit down and think. Sending much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@longlost8424]

@@ReflectionsofLife always good to hear from y'all whenever I post to your beautiful "reflections".....

[@Mariana-ve2or]

Thank you, i just cant stop crying for how much beauty refect this unbelievably beautiful human❤❤❤❤

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Your words touch us. We are glad that Andrea's words meant so much to you. And may all the tears be a help, sometimes we just need to cry. Sending much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@GrandmotherWindsoftheEarth]

Thank you again. This was beautiful. My husband has Stage 4 lung cancer and so much that was said has helped me a lot. Blessings xxx

[@ReflectionsofLife]

This goes deep, thank you for writing to us. It means so much to us that the words Andrea shared with us were a help to you at this time. We wish you and your husband strength and all you need for every new day. Sending much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@gracebennion2000]

Writing letters is a wonderful thing to do. At the beginning of this year I decided to write letters to each of my older sisters. One a month until the end of the year. I put little gifts in them and when it is a birthday month, I fill them with birthday wishes. They really look forward to receiving them. I agree, why wait until the end of their lives before saying something uplifting and meaningful. And I love treating them with beautiful and true words. Now is the time.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

What a beautiful idea to write these letters. And it's so wonderful that they are so well received and special to your sisters. Happy letter writing for the coming months, may it bring much joy to all of you. Sending you warmest of hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@gestfue432]

My grandfather Ivan was like a dad figure too me, he past away when i only was 12, but he is still a big figure in my life, i felt loved with him and i am so so grateful to him and my grandmother Anna and the kindest great great mother Agrypina - they were outstanding kind inspiring people- i still take strenght from their love and believe in me.🤗🤗🤗i will never stop tell thank you to their souls to Universe. Thank you for this important warm video😘💚

[@ReflectionsofLife]

It's a pleasure. Thank you for your lovely message. Nice that Andrea's story brought back so many good memories of important people in your life. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@Killthebatsman]

This inspired me to write a card to my Dad of my gratitude while he is still alive. Thank you for sharing this intimate and beautiful story.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Wonderful and touching! We are so thankful her story meant so much to you. Sending much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@Andrea_Driessen]

So pleased to hear that the film inspires you to write to those you love.

[@DevilDears]

I cried so hard when she read the letter! What a feeling it must have been to receive such a declaration of love and admiration from your child! You can see how moving it still is for her, too, to remember their exchanges and vulnerability with each other… Just beautiful. I won’t forget what the protagonist said about gaunt, dying bodies having wrung all the good out of life that they could either. Such a comforting thought and elevated perception of death! ❤ Every time I click on a new video of yours and think it can’t possibly impact me as much as the last, you prove me wrong! I’ll keep recommended this channel to everyone I know & love and possibly start writing some letters of my own.

[@Andrea_Driessen]

Hello and thank you for how sincerely you are engaging with the film--and ALL the gorgeous and meaningful films that Reflections of life produce. What gifts to the world!

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Your words are so touching and encouraging. We are so thankful that this video and also all the others speak to you so deeply. Thank you also for sharing our videos, it means a lot to us. Nice to have you with us on our journey. Sending much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@ReflectionsofLife]

@Andrea_Driessen We thank you for your beautiful words! 💚

[@gracielazaffarana9777]

Such a thoughtful and generous advice. So much wisdom... Thank you.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

It's a pleasure, we are glad you appreciated her message. Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@alicedent8864]

Beautiful tribute to her day. I feel so blessed to have said “I love you” to my mom the last time I saw her, and grateful that she said those same words back to me as I kissed her goodbye.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Touching. We are so glad that you had the opportunity to share those words. Sending much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@Andrea_Driessen]

alice, indeed, each word we say to those we love matters. Thank you for engaging here and spreading love.

[@YoungerOlderElder]

Writing a letter is a precious gift, that keeps the narrative alive... writing encouragement... sharing legacy notes before the casket arrives... being seen, being visible... it's simple... wring the life with gusto... TU!

[@ReflectionsofLife]

You are welcome. We are glad that her message resonated with you. Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@YoungerOlderElder]

@@ReflectionsofLife ))smiles

[@maimunamerican3911]

So beautifully written! Thank you so much for the love!

[@ReflectionsofLife]

We appreciate your lovely message. Sending you warmest of hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@nilepearl1997]

Simply beautiful !

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Many thanks! Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@lynn9935]

I feel profoundly changed by these beautiful words. Absolutely amazing!

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Wonderful, we are so happy that her message touched you so deeply. Sending you warmest of hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@dianahochhausen1005]

This was so good. I held my dad’s hand and watched him take his last peaceful breath this past January. The previous week I spent in his room talking with family and hospice workers about what a great man he was. He had communication with every grandchild, and his only surviving brother laid by him in bed telling him what a great ‘big brother’ he had always been. We let him go fully loved and appreciated. It was one of the most precious moments of my life.❤. Thank you for this video. It blessed me very much.🥹

[@ReflectionsofLife]

We are speechless and very touched. Thank you so much for sharing what your family and you experienced, how the last days were spent. What a peaceful way to leave... We are so grateful that we were able to share this video with you. Wishing you strength for the moments when you miss him. Sending much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@vieranydrova6925]

Dobrý deň, nádherné vyznanie. Môj otec ma 101 rokov, telo chradne ale mentálne je v poriadku🙏 Pozdravujeme zo Slovenska z Bratislavy.😘

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Amazing and touching. We are so glad that we could share this video with you. Sending much love and kindness to you and your father. Justine and Michael. 💚

[@sookiescott]

Pretty simple and profound it is! You've touched my heart this morning and thank you!.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

You are very welcome. We are so glad her message meant much to you. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@kennethtan6403]

Thank you and Much Love from the Philippines.❤🎉

[@ReflectionsofLife]

It's a pleasure, thank you for watching. Sending you warmest of hugs from South Africa, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@rochellea9652]

This is great!!!!❤

[@ReflectionsofLife]

So happy you enjoyed the video. Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@rolaboure100]

I absolutely loved this story! She is so right, it does not matter if there is a casket involved. What she asked her father, I too asked my father and still think of his response, I am not afraid. I asked my father if he believed that once he passed, he would be in Heaven instantaneously, like from one door to the next, he said, I believe this. We need to LIVE now, savor the moments, make every ounce of our journey count. Be KIND, make a difference in someones life. STOP holding onto old hurtful things someone may have said, yes, even from our very own, let it go... cut it into pieces and reconnect with those that should be in your circle. ..••°°°°••..

[@ReflectionsofLife]

We are so happy Andrea's message meant so much to you. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and experiences, and deep and touching words that invite us to ponder. Sending much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@iferjackson]

What a beautiful tribute to someone who was so loved by someone who is clearly so loving!

[@ReflectionsofLife]

So beautifully said, thank you. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@Andrea_Driessen]

Thank you, Jen Jackson, for your kind comments!

[@melindaferreira9879]

Simple. Profound. 🕊️

[@ReflectionsofLife]

We are grateful that her message spoke much to you. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@lucianabrito4413]

These videos and your work is so precious and I feel so loved by it. A true treasure! Thank you friends! Work is love made visible! And you do make a difference. Ty beloved 🙏🌹✨💖☀️🎁🙌🎉

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you for your very kind message. We are so happy and encouraged by your words and hope to share many more videos with you. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@lucianabrito4413]

@@ReflectionsofLife thank you brothers Justine and Michael. God always bless you and make you even more fruitful! Love, Luciana

[@terryrustad1800]

Bravo! 👏

[@ReflectionsofLife]

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[@annmarie3520]

What a sweet person you are. And what a wonderful relationship you had with your dad. I loved the end when you said he had wrung all of his life out of his body! Who could ask for more? Beautiful.😘❤🙏🏻✨

[@Andrea_Driessen]

Yes, who could ask for more? May we all be able to live and die this way.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Lovely words. We are glad that you appreciated the video. Warmest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@isadorasarto5887]

So so beautiful. Thank you 🙏 🙏 🙏

[@ReflectionsofLife]

So glad that you enjoyed this story. We send you warmest of weekend wishes. Justine and Michael 💚

[@TadejPasar]

Thank you so much for sharing your story, your important soft message, and sharing the light that brings light to others 🙏❤️ Your father is proud of you and I am proud of you as well, to you who's watching 🤗

[@ReflectionsofLife]

What a kind and touching message, we are glad that we could share this video with you. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@flemmingsorensen5470]

What a fantastic women - and father. Im lost for words.....

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Beautiful message, thank you for writing to us. Sending much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@Andrea_Driessen]

Thank you for your kind comments. May the beautifully produced film inspire you to share living eulogies far and wide!

[@fs5368]

Thank you for this beautiful message. My father had been keeping a journal for my brother and me until the last days of his life. His love is still here with me; and I will send his love to everyone whom I meet in my life until the last day of my life.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

How amazing, how beautiful. That lets him be so close all the time. So lovely that you can send his love to everyone. Thank you for sharing this. Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@fs5368]

@@ReflectionsofLife I’m grateful for your kind words. I am always praying for you all❤️

[@TheChargeShow]

What this lady has just said is magical. Thank you to this lady.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Wonderful. We are really happy that her words meant much to you. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@blackbird8577]

Muito obrigada pela partilha, linda reflexão. ❤

[@ReflectionsofLife]

You are very welcome. Thank you for watching. Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@Acceptancetoday]

U bring me to happy tears, love to hear about such wonderful love.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Touching. We are so glad that we could share The video with you. Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@marianfrances4959]

I got one letter from my dad, 50 years ago, and have kept it to this day. 👍😎🇨🇦🎁

[@ReflectionsofLife]

That is beautiful. He is always present. Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@kappistarr3484]

My Daddy also left this place thru hospice - I was the last one with him - he waited till I had left - I knew - but he had shifted - his skin clear and he was younger - he was the Daddy I knew ✨💫

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Touching words. Sending much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@daisyfieldparrks9320]

A "Living" Eulogy....wonderful and powerful. Thank you!!!

[@ReflectionsofLife]

You are most welcome. So grateful that her message meant much to you. Sending you warmest of hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@claudiaxavierprofclaudia6903]

I feel the same about my dad! Thank you! ❤❤❤❤

[@ReflectionsofLife]

You are welcome. That is so wonderful that you feel the same. Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@michaelsanislo3345]

Wow! This is such a powerful and beautiful video. Thank you, Andrea for sharing this story.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you for watching. We are grateful that you appreciated Andrea's message. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@francoisebekaert8137]

Oh this had me in tears.... How marvellous to have had such a deep and loving relationship. Wonderfully human folks 💖⚘🌈

[@Andrea_Driessen]

Francoise, thank you for watching and commenting. Love to you!

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Beautifully written. Her story is very touching, yes. So glad that we could share this video with you. Sending much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@matthewhardy5610]

A heartfelt thank you. Your letter to your father reminded me of the letter I wrote to my father. In 1985, I was stationed in the DMZ in South Korea and learned of my father’s cancer. My letter reflected his impact on my life and made me who I was. By the time I arrived home on emergency leave, he barely recognized me and, within days, was gone. He passed away young (67), but his legacy lives on. My mother shared with me that my letter made him cry. Simple gestures such as writing a letter and showing appreciation speak volumes.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Touching words, thank you for sharing what happened. We are so thankful that you were able to write a letter to your father and he received it and could read it while still well enough. What a comfort. Even though he only lived for a few days when you arrived home and hardly recognized you, we are glad you were able to be with him in his last days. Sending much love and kindness to you. Justine and Michael. 💚

[@nadandayogainthebox1516]

This was a very special and touching episode for me. Many tears were shed. I have gained a new perspective on many things and for that I say thank you from the bottom of my heart 🙏🧝‍♀️❤️💫

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Your words mean a lot to us. We are so thankful that Andrea's message spoke to you deeply, that it was special. Sending much love and kindness to you. Justine and Michael. 💚

[@ladytube64]

This is so touching and meaningful. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ I'm a letter writer and am glad I am...♥♥♥♥♥♥

[@ReflectionsofLife]

We are really glad you enjoyed her message so much. Sending you warmest of hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@stevieray7203]

My father died earlier this year, our relationship was much more complicated, yet his death made me realize there is so little time, why not forgive and say the things you need to if at all possible 💛

[@ReflectionsofLife]

What you are sharing goes deep, it's touching. We are sorry to read about the passing of your father and that your relationship with him was not so easy. May Andrea's message be an inspiration, help and comfort to you at this time. Wishing you all the strength you need for the days to come. Sending much love and kindness to you. Justine and Michael. 💚

[@GloriaLedesma-hc5ex]

Wow! You were so blessed to have the love of your dad. You had an amazingly wonderful dad. It shows in you as well. You explained his life and how he lived it so well. May God continue to bless you.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Beautiful words, really touching. So glad we could share her message with you. Sending you warmest of hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@AllThingsOcean]

The hospice part hit me hard. My dad had dementia and passed in a long term care facility last fall. He was unresponsive his last week before passing. I told him how much I loved him and was thankful for all he had done for me, and that it was his time to rest and he could go whenever he was ready. A few minutes later, he took his last breath. I am so grateful I got to tell him all that before he left. ❤

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Really touching what you are sharing, thank you. What a comfort that you could be with him and share all that with him before he passed away; that you were able to be by his side in his last moments. We trust you are doing ok. Sending much love and kindness to you. Justine and Michael. 💚

[@AllThingsOcean]

@@ReflectionsofLife Thank you for your kind words ♥️. Really enjoyed the video.

[@juratele]

Oh what a beautiful testimony🤍 and it comes right on the eve of the day when my father passed away, the May 20. I would say the same about and TO my farther what was said here. I am greatful to the Almighty that I had a chance to spend each and every day near my farther's bed in hospital. These were very difficult days, but at the same time it was a blessing, because we spent more time together than we did ever before... I can say that the person I am today is mostly due to my farther's love, care and protection. May our farthers have eternal joy and peace🙏

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Such a touching message. We are really thankful that we can share this video with you at this time. Wishing you strength for today, remembering all the wonderful things you could share with your father, the love he showed you,... Sending much love and kindness to you. Justine and Michael. 💚

[@juratele]

@@ReflectionsofLife thank you so much dear Justine and Michael, I really appreciate your beautiful comment🤍 And thank you for all the wonderful work that you do, for spreading light and love to this world🙏 God bless you and your efforts 🙏

[@ALady777]

Thank you Andrea for sharing your father, yourself, and the unbounded love that exists between you two with us. I find listening to you deeply healing. ❤

[@Andrea_Driessen]

Thank you for watching and commenting--it means so much !

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Beautifully written. We are so thankful that Andrea's message meant much to you. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@donmcallister3745]

The last time I saw my father alive, it was somewhat strained… he would not do things to take care of his health and it was very frustrating to deal with. I learned later after his death, he knew he was about to die. I didn’t get to say things that I may have wanted to… because of the frustrations… the lesson here is… I never want to leave things left unsaid… with someone important in my life… before the opportunity is no longer there. Tell the people that you care about… that you do. I should have, but I didn’t… leaves you empty. It’s very wonderful that she had that relationship with her father… and has his letters, just lovely. 🌜🌞🌛

[@ReflectionsofLife]

What a touching message, thank you for sharing it with us. Sorry that your last time with your dad was strained and you could never share anything with him again. Yes, we never know how life turns and some things need to be said and done in that present moment. May we all remember that. Sending much love and kindness to you. Justine and Michael. 💚

[@donmcallister3745]

@@ReflectionsofLife Thank you both...there are certain lessons life teaches you that you never....forget.Some people you can't protect from themselves...some lessons are hard, but you need to embrace them.Wishing you Peace...Thanks for posting such human stories.

[@FlorenceRobbiano]

I have started a few months ago doing interviews of my friends and the meaning of life, their struggles, their joy, what is meaningful to them, what keeps them going. For reasons still unknown, I wanted to keep a track of what life has written in their hearts. And now, as I am starting a video series about the creative process (which I am passionate about) and doing some research, I stumble upon your wonderful channel. Dear Michael & Justine, I just wanted to say : you are so inspiring. :) Your work has so much meaning and resonated on many different levels. I have been deeply touched by the portraits I have watched. My mother struggle with depression and I have sent her 2 of them which I think will really resonate with her story. I just wanted to say thank you! YOUR WORK AND THE MISSION YOU ARE ON ARE WONDERFUL! I will definitely keep following. That is the most meaningful channel I have ever came across. :) Sending love. ❤

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you for your touching and encouraging message, it means a lot to us. You started a wonderful project, we wish you all the best. May it be fulfilling and bring you much peace and joy. We are so happy that our videos speak to you deeply, also to your mother. Glad they resonated with her. We hope that we can share many more stories with you. Sending you warmest of hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@annecrestani9218]

What a beautiful story. I have always longed for the type of father that this lucky woman had. I always had a very challenging relationship with my father, he was largely absent from my life and unfortunately, I did not get the chance to say goodbye before he passed away suddenly. However, I visited the town where he had lived after he died and shed some tears and asked for forgiveness (for both of us) and let go of some very old hurts. I try to think of him now with compassion and love and remember that we don't always know how it is for those who may (unconsciously) cause us hurt or pain. I think forgiveness (for ourselves and others) is such an important part of keeping the love and healing alive. Thank you.

[@Andrea_Driessen]

Agree that forgiveness--even one way forgiveness--changes us. For GOOD! As they say, resentment is a poison we take--and wait for the other person to die.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Touching words. Sorry that you had a challenging relationship with your father. We are glad that you were able to find some peace, that you could let go of old hurts,... and also ask for forgiveness. Wishing you all the best for your life and sending much love and kindness to you. Justine and Michael. 💚

[@goldenmagnolia333]

This is so wonderful to watch. ❤ I started writing a birthday letter to my one and only daughter since she turned 16. She turns 32 in 2 days.. I’m preparing a letter as we speak. My daughter always makes me so proud of the woman she’s become. We make a difference in our children’s life. ❤

[@ReflectionsofLife]

What a lovely idea to write a birthday letter, thank you for sharing. Thank you for your beautiful thoughts. Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@maryclebeau]

I write cards and letters and I receive very few back. But, it makes a difference to me and my heart feels happy to do so. ❤ I love your story. 😊

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Love knowing that you too put pen to paper and share cards and letters with those in your life. It's a beautiful thing to do. Sending hugs. Justine and Michael. x

[@sw3640]

A very beautiful tribute to her Dad ❤️

[@ReflectionsofLife]

It definitely is. Thank you for writing to us. Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@patriciapankow1774]

Love the observation and thought about dying with a gaunt body. She says it with so much perception. And love.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Beautifully worded. Touched that it spoke to you so deeply. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@swapnanagaraj4885]

Her words touched my heart bcos it reflects my feelings towards my father whom I miss a lot.. Felt emotional

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you for watching and sharing how you felt. We can understand that her words made you emotional, thinking about your father. Sending much love and kindness to you. Justine and Michael. 💚

[@Amelia_123-w6y]

Thank you for this lovely message. Good to know people still believe in letter writing to express tgeir feelings. I still have all of my grandads letters in a special box. On a bad day i usually take them out to read as they bring comfort to me. I said see you later to him in 2006 , its been a very long time. Your words have been a good reminder to treasure what we have here and now and to live with gusto. Xxxx

[@Andrea_Driessen]

I love hearing that you've preserved these precious letters too!❤

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Beautiful words. So happy Andreas's message meant much to you. Nice that you have that box with the letters of your grandfather. Live your life with gusto. Warmest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@Devanxxxiii]

Even i write letters to the people i love or the people whom i lost but i still love them, or to the people who love me. I've learned that there are people smiling with admiration to see you breathing still. Reflection of light, I'd really like to thank you from the bottom of my heart for making such deep videos. You are always so helpful to bring a positive change in my life. 🙌💗

[@ReflectionsofLife]

We are glad that Andrea's message resonated with you and that you also enjoy writing letters. Keep on doing so. And your words mean a lot to us, so glad that the videos we share make a difference in your life. Sending much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@Devanxxxiii]

@@ReflectionsofLife 🙌🫂

[@parry3231]

Such a precious gift of love ❤ Having the material reminder of the love that you share, even after death . You are absolutely right about this generosity of heart felt blessings that exist now and forever. Thank you so much for sharing this video and for your articulated joyous celebration of love and kindness that becomes a special historical remembrance and documentary gift. ❤

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Touching words. We are truly thankful that we could share Andrea's story with you. Sending much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@Emeellly_]

Isso é tão lindo. Eu não tenho palavras para descrever o que sinto nesse momento. Amo ouvir experiências de pessoas mais velhas e essa,com certeza, deixou meu coração quentinho🤍 Obrigado por esse conteúdo maravilhoso.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

You are most welcome. We are so happy that her message meant so much to you and warmed your heart. Sending much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@bredanyambura8072]

I feel so much love in this video ❤

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Beautiful. We are so thankful that we could share it with you. Sending much love and kindness to you. Justine and Michael. 💚

[@johnkodhek]

One of those videos that are truly worthwhile. Thank you!

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Touching and encouraging words. We are glad her message meant so much to you. Sending you warmest of hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@peggytew3266]

Good Morning Dear Lady; Thank You for Sharing such a Beautiful Program on Gratitude ❤️❤️. Letter's Handwritten from Family and Friends are Precious 💕💕. God Bless You.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Such a lovely message, thank you. So glad her words meant much to you. Sending you warmest of hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@lindaparisi74]

The honoring way Andrea speaks about her father really moved me. I’m inspired to make sure I say what I want to say to my dad while he is still here (at 92!). Thank you so much. Always mesmerized by Michael’s stunning visuals. Bless you both.

[@Andrea_Driessen]

Linda, thank you sincerely for watching and commenting. I do hope you will give your dear father a living eulogy/Gracenote.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Beautiful and touching words you are sharing, thank you. So thankful Andrea's words spoke to you so deeply. We are so happy to have you with us on our journey. Sending much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@juanmalugan]

thank you , thank you , thank you, all blessings for this lady and you guys, your work generally brings me to tears

[@Andrea_Driessen]

thank you for watching and commenting! Love to you.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

It's an absolute pleasure! It touches us to read your message. Glad to have you with us on our journey. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@baus7]

The fact that we.are indeed interacting with screens more than people is heartbreaking.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

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[@Andrea_Driessen]

Hello @baus7. Totally agree with you (as you might guess;) Yet when any one of us writes a short note that shows people how they matter, we make difference. We can change the "on screen all the time" habits. All best to you.

[@lianaghazaryan8063]

Мама даёт жизнь,а папа силу жить. Это с его ценностями сверяет ребенок каждый свой шаг... Закрой глаза. Представь уют,представь то место,где всегда поймут, Где нету зла и нет печали, Где по тебе всегда скучают. Ты скажешь - нет такого места. Нет, есть - Родительское сердце. Спасибо и за эту драгоценную историю.🙏🏻💚

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you for writing to us. Deep and beautiful thoughts. Words to ponder on. We are so grateful that we could share this video with you. Sending you warmest of hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@myoe3421]

thank you for sharing your thoughts with us. this is beautiful. you have inspired me and now i think i have some letters to write to my dear ones!

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Touching. So wonderful that her story meant so much to you. Sending you warmest of hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@kimnganofficial2022]

Hãy sống hết mình và đón nhận cái chết với nụ cười trên môi. Thanks for making and sharing this video ❤

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Touching message. So glad her words resonated with you. Sending much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@exploratorallumilorsubtile2459]

Thank you for this beautiful and heart opening words.. ❤

[@ReflectionsofLife]

It's a pleasure, so thankful that we could share this video with you. Warmest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@Rositasparks]

What a beautiful and insightful video( simple and profound) Thank you ❤

[@ReflectionsofLife]

It's a pleasure. So glad her words resonated with you. Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@terryhubbard3416]

What a special heartfelt tribute. I lived away from my parents and 2 grandmother's, when I went away to nursing school. I wrote them every wk. They are all gone now. I write friends in PA, Ohio, and Florida to this day. The tangible note in the mailbox is a gift. I worked as a hospice nurse for 10 yrs. To help families and the patient themselves, go on their journey was life changing . Many tines it was a healing and even an enjoyable time to reminisce. The time helped me not fear leaving on my journey someday.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Beautiful and touching message, thank you for sharing. Wonderful that you kept up writing letters to some people, so special. We can understand that Andrea's message story spoke to you deeply. Wishing you all the best for life's journey. Sending much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@joann5157]

I'm 77 and have recently gone through letters written by my father, grandfather, great aunts and others during WWII. These letters are precious to me as well, and I am so distressed that my niece and nephew do not want to preserve them for their children. I suppose they will be thrown out like trash after I die.

[@Andrea_Driessen]

My hope is that because of your example, these precious letters can be preserved for future generations ❤

[@theodorawohler2213]

Perhaps copies of some of these letters could be archived in their town library or historical society.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you for sharing your feelings with us, we hope it does you good and helps. As Andrea wrote, we trust that your example will inspire them to keep the letters. Sending you warmest of hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@janelintern6969]

What a great video - wise, and simple, as you said.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you kindly! So happy her words spoke to you. Warmest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@jeremy1350]

Your dad sounds like a really good guy. And a good father. "I am in awe of my child doing such a brave thing." My father never said words like that. My doing brave things, had the opposite effect on him. And I don't think he knew that kind of language himself, from his own father either. Which put him at a deficit on many levels. I did not know he was sick, nor when he died. He chose not to include me in his last 35 years of his life. Sad. Your dad brings me joy, hearing those words from him to you. In the 90's I sat with over 300 men who died alone from AIDS. I was a witness. I'm still alive, 30 years later now. I survived, why? I don't know.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you for sharing about your own situation and thoughts, we are sorry to read about the difficulties you experienced. Wonderful that Andrea's message meant much to you. Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@ManuelaChristina1]

Beautiful ❤ death is not really the end. Its a transformation ❤

[@ReflectionsofLife]

We are so grateful her message meant much to you. Sending much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@ManuelaChristina1]

​@@ReflectionsofLifei had actually a near death experience that show me this truth ❣️ i no longer are dreaming, i am fully awake sinds then ✨ no fear, no judgement. Thats the state we truly meant to be ✨❣️

[@cv9244]

So true, so true! I know this in personal experience. Never think that you may have someone forever. I buried my beautiful son too early. He is gone, forever...and so many roads are still left open and undone. Heartbreaking for me but I know he lived everything through love.

[@Andrea_Driessen]

I'm deeply sorry to hear of the sweet son you lost....

[@cv9244]

@@Andrea_Driessen thank you, yes he truly was. Thank you for your lovely video it touched my heart!

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Your words touch us. We are sorry that you lost your lovely son too early in life. It's so difficult to lose a child. May we share these two videos on our channel with you: ‘Through The Storm’ - (kzbin.info/www/bejne/qnOcaZ-ao7qWiqc) and ‘Shine On’ - Love Harder And Appreciate Every Single Day (kzbin.info/www/bejne/kISwaoSshaedd80). Wishing you strength for every new day. Sending much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@cv9244]

@@ReflectionsofLife Justine and Micheal thank you! You create incredible videos with such love for the meaning of being human. I will watch the other ones also. Thank you!

[@phillipmills264]

Beautifully articulated. Thank you for sharing.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

You are so welcome. Glad her message meant much to you. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@GrandmaEllen]

One can also put a letter under the pillow at night.

[@Andrea_Driessen]

What a great idea!

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you for watching this video and sharing this thought. Sending you warmest of hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@cristinareyes2588]

Hello! (English is not my native langauge, sorry for any mistakes). I have discovered this channel just one week ago and for me watching your videos feels like a way of healing somehow, as all these people you interview give me hope and encouragement. I'm just a girl of 22 yo but I have been going through a hard time lately and your videos make me smile :). They are beautifully portrayed. I wish beautiful things for all of you. Thank you very much and

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you for your kind comment about our work. We are so happy you came across our channel and like the videos we share. Wonderful that they help and encourage you. May the hard times ease off soon so that you feel better again. And your English is very good, written so beautifully. Sending you warmest of hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@nreynier4373]

Thank you for sharing your heart felt thoughts (so eloquently put) to your father with us all. It inspires as all to say out loud our inner gratitude to those that have influenced the core of our being, our parents. What an amazing daughter your father had and has. Truly wonderful!

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Beautifully written, thank you. We are glad that we were able to share her message with you and that it is inspiring. Sending much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@cheryldingley4546]

I love your videos so much - thank you. What a wonderful legacy of a great man and his heart warming relationship with his daughter. The writing of letters is an important reminder of how we can connect with, uplift and honour those that are special to us.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you for your lovely message. We are grateful that Andrea's words touched you deeply. Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@booklish]

I'm in my twenties, and it's pretty certain for people to say that "you still have long to go", yes I do believe that, but I also believe in the present moment hence the idea of letting people and simultaneously letting yourself know the love you have for them is a part of the precious presnt moment remembering anything could happen at any point of time. We often get indulged into arguments, which unknowingly creates a distance between people we love and care about, but forgetting the past and forgiving the negativity is the greatest enlightenment ever for the hearts ❤ I'm so inspired by these beautiful lives of people found by you guys, which is finding me a path towards being a good-hearted person(hope I'm on the way with God's grace)🥹 Thank you 😊

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Really touching what you shared. Yes, it is so important to live in the present, to share things while we can, to be kind to others and ourself. Life can take a different turn at any time. We are glad that we can share these videos with you, nice to have you with us on our journey. Sending much love, Justine and Michael. 💚