"Pronoun Gal" Has Meltdown Over Being "Misgendered"

[@sigsauer7929]

I don't think you need to be right or left-leaning to call this insane behavior.

[@marleywolfdog]

true.

[@intermezzono1]

you absolutely dont, but common sense these days is calles being right winged or being a "fascist" by wokies, so.... 🙄

[@Chick4choice]

Gen X: we don’t care what ANYONE thinks. Gen Z: we care about what EVERYONE thinks…. And especially what they think about me, but everyone can only believe about me what I believe about myself, otherwise…. LOCK THEM UP!

[@cIeetz]

but if youre left leaning dont worry give it time, youll get it right...when theres nothing left

[@midnxghtxx6390]

They need to bring back insane asylums

[@Kovitlac]

Jeez, she just straight up assumed the bartender's gender identity and orientation. How bigoted.

[@funnyuniverse1]

Lol 😂

[@suedanim4653]

Yup

[@suedanim4653]

Lol

[@Moon_.cu2]

*dies from comment*

[@ThomasCook-l8g]

When you're used to blaming your problems on straight white men that you accidentally refer to a gay man as a straight white man it just shows how woke she is

[@karinay6774]

Yup

[@IDontWantThisStupidHandle]

Like she said later in her own video, she hates gay white men as much as she hates straight white men (most people in the "community" hate us, whether we're gay, straight, bi, or whatever else). We were born with the "wrong" skin and "wrong" gender (to them), and those things trump everything else.

[@AntiWokeXR]

When your so woke your homophobic

[@linusgustafsson2629]

Well, you are what they identify you as. That is their special rules.

[@etsubstantiam]

😂

[@m.scotty7199]

She be crazy. I'm a gay man. I remember once being "misgendered" guy asked " can i help you mama"? I turned around he apologized i laughed said it happens we both moved on. NO BIG DEAL! I wasn't offended. She needs help lots of help. It's insane

[@aila.111]

​@@milkwwwbefore I thought I was a trans male, and I always felt bad being called a lady or she, but nowadays I am a girl and I don't even care anymore :)

[@aila.111]

@@milkwww hey, thx buddy, we need more trans people like you in this sick world lol I am most like a tomboy as well, and sometimes I don't like to dress as a "she", even though I'm a "she", and that's ok innit :)

[@felixzezz471]

that’s how i know you aren’t a “transtrender” like all these other people are.

[@embersarts]

Same. I've commented on a few other videos of how I'd get misgendered because from different angles, I look like a female (even though I'm a gay male with longer than average hair) and people call me miss or ma'am most of the time. But once I start talking or they get a closer look at me, they suddenly say sorry or correct themselves and I say: it's no big deal, what's up?

[@Anarchy_Jester]

One time I was misgendered and this thing called "nothing" happened and I went about my day as usual. Regardless of what ppl call me, I know what I am lol

[@INSIDE_UR_WIFI]

imagine you're name is lesbian snow white and you get upset over someone calling you a lady

[@aila.111]

ikr

[@Cutiepootie23]

Real like what💀

[@Ya_Boy_Jwolf]

The fact that that girl identifies as non-binary or whatever but still uses feminine terms on herself like lesbian and calls her wife by "themselves" shows how much she's playing herself.

[@C0RRUPT3D_3NT1TY]

and she says gal, like ladies isnt a similar term. she does this to herself🤦‍♀️

[@thatoneguygav]

No fr and it really goes to show no matter how hard they push and shove they CANNOT and will NEVER erase YEARS of basic linguistics learned through developmental psychology alongside basic biology

[@ItsLunaRegina]

They'll make up anything to add to their self-tailored "identities" in order to score minority points and not be just normal and White. She obviously hates herself and is either mentally unhinged or jsut loves the victim points (or both). Lol.

[@melissamurray8307]

Exactly. “Non binary,” people can’t be homosexuals since homosexuality means you are attracted to the same sex or gender.😂

[@unironicallydel7527]

'wife' is a woman as well like, how stupid you gotta be jfc

[@valentinaruseva7612]

So her "wife" is a they/them but still...a wife!? Not a spouse or a partner. Even this "lady"can't use pronounce and gendered words correctly but she expects others to do so 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

[@donkeykong2.0]

fr

[@marioluigi9599]

No, you don't understand. She's not a woman because that's not her gender identity and not what she identifies with at all. She's a they them non binary and you can't call her a she in front of her However she's still a lesbian and a wife because that's something else. That's NOTHING to do with gender identity. That has to do with who she's attracted to and when she's being intimate with another LESBIAN and obviously then she has to make use of FEMALE private parts and she's not being funny about that. It's just what it is. OKKKAY??

[@marioluigi9599]

She accepts that those parts are still female, and she's TOTALLY fine with that. In fact that's what she WANTS you to call her because being a wife and lesbian is incredibly validating. ...however just don't call her a female, because even though she accepts that she's biologically that, it's still REALLY triggering because it's too close to being a woman. So just call her an afab. Okay? Pretty simple logic and easy to remember. And try to remember it correctly, because otherwise it's really hurtful and you're going to make her cry and actually traumatise her FOR LIFE as well. And you don't want her to remember you for life for doing that to her, do you?

[@rs4208]

​@@marioluigi9599I can't tell if you're being sarcastic or not LOL

[@valentinaruseva7612]

@@rs4208 I really hope he/she is 😀

[@Gooner333333333]

2010 definition, Lesbian; a female attracted to females. 2023 definition, lesbian; a person attracted to people?

[@aila.111]

non man = woman.

[@d2nity]

lesbian = non man loving non man

[@ex-ytbot]

thats gay not lesbian

[@hermesandmilk4575]

​@@aila.111 women=women women don’t need men to exist

[@user10980]

@@ex-ytboterm aksully, lesbian is females attracted to females. gay is men attracted to men 🤓☝️

[@manawhims]

Wife? Lesbian? But you use they/them pronouns and get triggered being called she/lady/gal? Sounds like a hot mess only a therapist can tackle.

[@annieswatches]

Unfortunately the therapists have to validate it nowadays or they lose their jobs. It's pathetic.

[@shifralaurente7323]

Fr💀

[@AutomaticDuck300]

Say what you like about Jordan Peterson, he’s right when he says that therapy is not about affirming what you already believe. It’s about challenging what you believe.

[@jonstfrancis]

@@AutomaticDuck300 umm no, that's not how it works

[@cliffordfernandez3524]

@@jonstfrancisare u a therapist? Didn’t think so but thanks

[@kymscates2892]

Did she just ASSUME the bartenders gender and pronouns by calling the bartender “HIM”. So it’s ok for her to do it … ????? This is insane.

[@CommDante]

Exactly, he even called her out on it 'You're doing the exact same to me' and she still doesn't realize after being kicked out. 🤣

[@kymscates2892]

@@CommDante walking contradiction! 😂

[@Goldfish728]

ok man

[@kymscates2892]

@@Goldfish728 broseph 💪🏽

[@Tential1]

That's what he was trying to explain to her

[@dorderre]

I'm a gay white man. That's the beginning and the end of the sexual part of my identity. It doesn't define me. I don't force people to accept me. This lady (yes, I'm saying this on purpose) deeply disgusts me. She's throwing a tantrum bcs some random (maybe gay) bartender adressed her as what she looks like: a woman. And because he didn't play along with the pronouns she chose for herself this morning. Honestly, that bartender is my hero. He didn't take any nonsense from a whiny customer he'd probably never ever see again. He has a job to do and he did it. Bravo, Sir!

[@BiggieTrismegistus]

She learned that gay white men and straight white men aren't really all that different. Neither one of our groups want to put up with this nonsense.

[@hollowfox213]

The audacity of her to also come into a space for gay men by gay men and essentially scream that “it’s all gay men, why isn’t there room for me?” and then immediately get viscerally upset when we don’t play along and make room for her, deeply disgusts me. For a group of people who constantly talk about needing separate spaces for minorities, they sure like trying to blur the lines when it’s convenient for them.

[@analogbunny]

​@hollowfox213 It's easier to go into someone else's space than to put in the effort and build your own space. I've seen a dozen spades taken over by people who just squat and claim.

[@madamefluffy4788]

@@hollowfox213 I mean, it's a gay bar; so a lesbian couple should have no problem attending such a place. Even straight people can go to gay bars. As long as everyone respects each others, it's all good. Considering she and her wife got booted from the bar, it's obvious she expected special treatment because she identified as whatever pronoun she was going by that day, and likely caused a scene when the bartender wasn't interested in playing her stupid game.

[@deepakmenon6720]

​@hollowfox213 I'm pretty sure it wasn't for men only. They let even straight people enter. Nobody is verifying your sexuality at the door before you enter lol. But that being said, I agree with everything else.

[@Soulbrothersunny]

As a liberal I will NEVER understand why this is the hill people die on when there’s bigger battles to be fought. Can we put this much effort into universal healthcare, housing the houseless, making sure everyone is fed……if they’re biggest concern is making everyone feel included and shit why aren’t they fighting the battle to make sure everyone has literally the most basic necessities required to live. Just proves their priorities are completely self serving.

[@Surprise_Inspection]

That's because you don't really want to understand. If we all get distracted by things that don't matter, then we will never focus on the real issues. Real issue #1: The mono polies that control all we sea and hear thru the media. #2: All presidents have been related to each other except for 1. Only 1. Left vs right, they only pretend to fight each other, to keep US fighting each other.

[@chanelleo4116]

This^^^^❤

[@DontMessWithCaesar]

It's really heartbreaking how much the left has basically destroyed its image to the greater public by going all in on identity politics instead of staying focused on real practical issues that affect people's lives and wellbeing. The brand has become absolutely toxic and normal people don't even want to be visibly associated with it anymore.

[@Roach4]

Exactly!

[@gtrman69777]

Unfortunately that is our society. It's all about me.

[@darrenmoorelufc]

We have a generation of children in adult bodies

[@hynsum]

Very true but essentially all adults are considered not really adults, more as 'ward of State'. Majority have no clue what Rights and Freedoms they were born with. Always believing that we have to ask for permissions for everything and believing we're obligated to pay all fees, 'tributes' and permits. State is just one big "Disneyland"

[@samilperalta7456]

But the woman crying in the video is definitely not crazy and definitely on the right side of history while everyone else isn’t. Lmao.

[@Adam-sd2ow]

Some of them are AOC 😳

[@LukeLovesRose]

This is one of the an results of feminism

[@mistermizzle420]

Women have always been like that. The difference is white men used to not put up with it.

[@supersloth215]

Imagine living such a gentle, carefree & blessed life that, as a woman, you are respectfully called lady... and your life is wrecked! This is absolute pathology!

[@k.d.kelley2830]

It most definitely is pathological.

[@marioluigi9599]

She's trans okay!?? That means that she's not a woman but a lesbian wife

[@adrianasolari492]

@@marioluigi9599what the actual hell are you saying 😀

[@marioluigi9599]

@@adrianasolari492 I'm saying she's not female and not a woman. And don't allege that because it's triggering and if you do it more it's traumatising. She's a wife and a lesbian. That's it. Oh and her pronouns are he/him so get it right when she's around. Okay?

[@theotherbk1819]

​​@@marioluigi9599nah dude pretty sure lesbian still means a woman that likes other woman and a wife of a woman committed to her partner. So if the person isn't actually a woman and is just a dude then the person ain't a lesbian or a wife and shouldn't be called either. But hey ya kept calling the person a she so if you or that person is angry and want to throw a temper tantrum and call me all types of names that end with phobic then fine. That boi Jesus gave us free will after all 👍

[@alvinhelms2170]

Addressing females as 'ladies' is (or at least was) common courtesy. The bartender was therefore trying to be polite. Taking offense at his attempted politeness would have been stupid, even if all she did was 'correct' him. Throwing a hysterical fit over it - enough to get kicked out of a bar - and then whining and blubbering about it all on the Internet…? That is INSANE.

[@rebeljean92]

She calls her wife "they"... Wouldn't the gender neutral term be "spouse"? Make it make sense.

[@strid7192]

maybe they just agreed to call the wife, wife because it is ,,easier" or something. if that's the case then whole bar scene gets far more absurd lmao

[@pandoratheclay]

If you want rational behaviour, look elsewhere

[@Sheckle_Steinstein]

This girl wants so badly to live in a world where everyone is bubbly like a cartoon but the reality is that she isn't in control of her emotions and has mental breakdowns over the tiniest disruption in her "perfect" world. If everyone lived like her, society would crumble in days. Possibly sooner.

[@sacha8uk]

She sounds like Unikitty in the Lego Movie, who shoves any negative feelings deep down, and ends up going berserk because she can't deal with them.

[@darklordsauron3415]

vOmEn

[@firstlast-yf8hh]

​@@darklordsauron3415 mEn

[@Quingle_]

Thanks a lot steven universe

[@arnold20139]

As someone who grew up with "Labels don't matter" as a kid. All of this is some insane concept.

[@lyingcat9022]

Indistinguishable from a spoiled 3 year old girl crying about having a toy taken away. I’m serious, it sounds identical.

[@photoniccannon2117]

Literally

[@majix123]

A 3 year old girl crying about having a toy taken away is more "valid" :)

[@brinnybrin6642]

She was at a gay bar how dare she assume that man was straight!! He could have been straight passing!! That’s what she sounds like

[@amiek9226]

She kinda told on herself there. She called the bartender a straight white man and the only correction made was a caption that flashed briefly onscreen. I sincerely doubt the bartender would care if he ever saw her video but I’m willing to bet dollars to donuts if someone misgendered her in a video like she just mis-orientated the bartender she’d have another 8.7 on the Richter scale meltdown. All conveniently on camera, of course.

[@Muf315]

She just assume, regardless reality. And chiefly she does not care. She is so brainwashed that the phrase *straight white man* is her daily mantra without which she cannot argue.

[@wildermidnight]

This is why you see so many gays and lesbians turning away from the rainbow mafia. It isn't enough to be gay. You have to be gay trans bipoc nonbinary and you better be dating the same or you may as well be a clansman. It takes a special kind of stupid to do what this girl did.

[@bryansalvagejr757]

Imagine being in Israel, Palestine, Ukraine or any other war zone trying to be positive and thinking others have it worse.....and they see this is what people are crying about

[@jasmine____23]

i feel like she's definitely leaving out key elements of the story... like she claimed that the bartender called her a lady, and then she said "i'm not a lady," and then the bartender started yelling and kicked her out. but there's just no way... you would never get kicked out just for that. she was absolutely the one who instigated

[@hair4571]

of course we dont know the whole story if the one in the wrong is the one who tell it, clearly she was looking for drama

[@grzegrzolka545]

Maybe it's just me but I think she's fake crying

[@skfhshhf]

@@grzegrzolka545Not just you. There were no tears at all, but a whole lotta faking.

[@Zivanovaable]

I suppose she kept arguing with the bartender about the pronunces and that distracted him from attending the rest of the guests so she needed to be quicked out.

[@Wesmoen]

Two possibilities: It never happened or she is leaving key things out.

[@NaturallySelected]

"it felt like, like a dad yelling at you" Dead give away. Daddy issues.

[@Adam-sd2ow]

Probably spoilt her rotten but he doesn't buy her made up gender or likes her butch "wife" so she only speaks to him when she needs money, however she has totally disowned him and hates him but she still needs him to provide her the privileges she has a "right" to.

[@BiggieTrismegistus]

You could look at it another way. Despite her sneering about white men deep down she actually craves validation from them because white men actually matter in society and people like her only matter on TikTok. To have a white man reject her nonsense felt like disapproval from a father or some other authority figure. That's why she reacted the way she did. That's my dimestore Freudian analysis anyway. Make of it what you will.

[@DrCruel]

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[@EmmaxoOCE]

THATS WHAT I THOUGHT TOO!

[@TheSaintBigFoot]

She learned Dad/Daddy pronouns

[@despairer]

my favourite part of this is that her 'wife' is a biological male. im dying

[@funnyuniverse1]

What

[@StandinOnBuniss]

So shes straight!?

[@Lucky-ei6yh]

How do you know?

[@DragonsOfSnow]

I hope she gets "invalidated" and kicked out of more places. This is beyond pathetic.

[@vanillapinkfluff3477]

Exactly. It’s unacceptable to walk into a bar and demand special treatment and special words. The bar tender doesn’t even know her. These people need to keep their sick fantasies in private. They need to learn that there’s a time and place for everything.

[@marioluigi9599]

She won't get kicked out because people will be afraid of being called transphobic. Only other lgbt people will feel brave enough

[@marioluigi9599]

However, most women won't kick her out either. Because she's oh so cutesie

[@marioluigi9599]

That's why she said she felt like that guy was a dad and it was sooooo horrible urgghhh. It's the gay men she has a dysphoria and a phobia for now. A new thing she's developed and it's traumatic

[@bludeuce3855]

@@marioluigi9599 i beg to differ. and if soemoen called me "phobic" the only thing they would get from me is a stabbing

[@andrewjackson5127]

I'm sorry, I have heard these stories before hundreds of times. "I was just getting a drink at the bar", but you come to find out they are leaving a WHOLE TON of details out. Like that they were over the limit intoxicated, belligerent, disrupting the business, acting out and yelling, threatening people, fighting, etc. She didn't get thrown out of a gay bar for being trans/gay, whatever. Not a chance. She did something disruptive.

[@destinyhntr]

Yup. As soon as the bartender takes your drink, it means they can tell you're super drunk and are taking the drink away for your and everyone else's safety

[@Tential1]

This was my friend. She is a mess. Was my friend. I've learned to be careful about women.

[@valeriavitale1290]

@@Tential1I’m sorry for what happened to you but not every woman is like she/the/whatever pronoun that person use

[@theresas740]

"I was just getting my SEVENTH drink in 3 HOURS at the bar..."

[@theresas740]

​@@Tential1thank you for dishing. The court thanks you for your skinny.

[@Lyba_Majid]

when people get my ethnicity wrong I don't have a mental breakdown, I just correct them and move on with my day...

[@scarlet12234]

The "He didn't respect my identityyyy 😢" cracks me up for some reason. I'd say "oh boohoo" and "cry me a river" but she's already doing that lol.

[@eszteragnesnagy6508]

If i wanted to troll this crazy chick, i would go up to her TikTok, and say "you are calling this person HE, so you are assumeing their gender, shame on you!" 😂 Lucky i don't have a TikTok, her head would explode 😂

[@imahouser]

these people be lowkey on some shit, claiming to be like "frog/frogself", let's all remember that some of these "genders" have genders of their own, frogs are male or female, same as chickens, same as god

[@Chelsea290]

And who cares anyway?! I sure don't!

[@BiggieTrismegistus]

Actually there is no river. Watch it again. Not a single tear.

[@DrCruel]

When gay people are sick of your drama, you've passed the Twilight Zone. You're in La-La Land.

[@nirvana_lilith]

if you don’t want to be referred as “her” or as a lady then at least present yourself in an androgynous way, don’t expect people to call you “they” when you look 100% feminine, it’s absurd

[@Keenidy]

fr

[@Alex808thegreat]

I know right? So far, I've only met two girls who identify as non-binary, and they wear gender-neutral clothes, and do their best to make their hairstyles look gender neutral.

[@Alex808thegreat]

@@iamme25yago I don't need to be told to open a textbook. We both know that there's no such thing as non-binary.

[@aila.111]

​@@iamme25yagonon binary doesn't exist

[@Wheredidthehillsgo]

​@@Alex808thegreat ain't no way you js said "girl" if they're nonbinary💀

[@PrettyBaby293]

“We aren’t ladies” Also them: my WIFE

[@txtlynxt_s0phia]

just because someone likes fem terms doesnt mean they like fem pronouns

[@-spacedout--spacebound-7438]

just because fish breathe water, doesn't mean they need it to breathe !

[@kwhy6528]

"You're not non binary because you want to wear flannels" best quote ever🤣

[@thekendrashow]

😂 right. You’re just a woman who wanna wear flannels

[@TEABRACELETS]

Fr you can dress as any gender and not be non binary..

[@AutomaticDuck300]

If you get upset and break down because somebody called you the wrong name, you won’t make it in this world.

[@hynsum]

They don't want to make it in this world, they want world in their image and needs.

[@hynsum]

@@downwiththesickness2000 🤣😂 and if they don't?

[@hynsum]

@@downwiththesickness2000 that's hilarious.👍 I identify as non-human sentient being thus no human laws apply to.🤔😜

[@Probably_JENOVA]

Yeah. If you view someone who simply called you a “lady” or whatever wrong name as a monster, then you don’t know what actual monsters are like in this world.

[@victorcates9330]

It's fairly common for psychologists to tell you that you have no business worrying what other people think of you. I don't regard it as absolutely true, but it hands people a lot of power if their rejection of the terms in which you see yourself results in you having a breakdown. It also seems weird if someone is allowed to ABSOLUTELY hate you provided they get the gender pronouns right and if someone praises you but uses the 'incorrect' pronouns, they're hateful. Would "she seems like a nice lady" be hateful and phobic? And would "I despise them at an individual level and hope they die in excruciating, protracted pain" be fine?

[@evandewind4264]

I'm a gay man and the "community" has lost their minds!!

[@kat4t]

You can’t be nonbinary AND lesbian 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@gltme2403]

LesGaybeans>>>

[@justadragonnamemarcus1751]

People nowdays have no sense at all And making stuff up

[@MMDGabriel]

Also she calls her partner 'wife' even though they don't identify as women 😂

[@AmberCommentsThings]

@@MMDGabriel Just don't burst her fragile bubble of "her reality"

[@AmySmith-qt6qg]

EXACTLY! As a lesbian it infuriates me when I go on dates and the person is like “yeah so I’m non binary”. Nope, this date has ended, I’ll let you pay. Thanks, but no thanks. That has happened at least 10 times this year and we’re not even done with the year yet. Then ofc I’m ‘TrAnSpHoBiC’… lol because I’m a woman who like other women 😂 also last time I checked non binary people aren’t trans soooooo

[@jamesleegte]

As a parent, if this was my daughter, I would feel like a failure of a father. Thankfully my daughter laughs at these people, has been brought up correctly and spoiler alert she has no tik tok account.

[@delphi5966]

Same here. I would feel less than zero if my daughter had turned out like these looney tunes.

[@Chelsea290]

Yeah I laugh at these kind of people to. It's hilarious to watch them cry over something that doesn't really matter!

[@pivylinchskivideos1413]

Good job you have done good God will reward you

[@Ya_Boy_Jwolf]

You are a good father

[@BiggieTrismegistus]

TikTok is so incredibly awful. I never thought anything could be worse than Twitter or whatever the hell it's called now.

[@davidcollier8929]

This woman is so girly how could anyone not thank she is female.?

[@aila.111]

ikr. She's absolutely feminine and she doesn't like to be called lady

[@tasmeenbaker9912]

If the worst thing you have ever been through is getting misgendered, then you are very privileged and you have never been through shit! You have never been through real abuse or struggle

[@vanillapinkfluff3477]

Exactly. They are very rich and privileged to be complaining about this online. They must’ve never been sexually assaulted or abused. They sound like kids who never learned the word no.

[@morimori33]

eeeeexactly.

[@Saturn-xo9cd]

Exactly, the alphabet mafia is the definition of white Anglo-Saxon privilege. I live in Eastern Europe, and I have never met a non-binary in my life. I communicate with people online from Africa, Middle East, East Asia... They all think this is a total joke. It is funny that Americans who cry about white privilege are its very definition.

[@elliri3012]

She referred to the gay bartender at a gay bar as a "straight white male"?

[@stew-03]

Her brainrot slipped out

[@pandoratheclay]

@@stew-03 or just the brain slipped out

[@Anarchy_Jester]

Not surprised at all. I bet everyone who says words she doesn't like is a straight white male 🙄

[@aporue5893]

now all I can think of is the song by ''electric six.'' 🤣

[@adventureswithaurora]

Here's what's worse: She then labeled it in a later comment as an autistic meltdown. SERIOUSLY?! Meltdowns are different for various people on the spectrum, but that is NOT an autistic meltdown. Her disrespect for people on the spectrum is INSANE.

[@bumbilion]

Don’t bring people with autism into this, there is something wrong with this chicks personality and unstable sense of self. Her cluster b traits could be from several disorders. And I can tell you know as a neurodiverse person I do not relate to this girl.

[@beatricebrown6581]

You’ve GOTTA be kidding me! As a neurodivergent person, that is UNBELIEVABLY insulting! And even if it was, it’s not an excuse to be outwardly hostile and violent; which she clearly was in some way if she got kicked out! It makes us seem like we’re completely not in control of ourselves, and just inherently violent over the tiniest things! Which is SUCH a harmful stereotype that she’s perpetuating!

[@adventureswithaurora]

@@beatricebrown6581 EXACTLY! 100%. I feel the same way.

[@charleetucker2480]

Lmao wtf as an autistic woman that’s not an autistic meltdown, what a ridiculous human being, already putting more stigma on autism 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@anotherviewer_]

As an autistic person, I found her "autistic meltdown" to be pathetic. She was truly mocking people with ASD, and could I even be offended? Not really. It was so obvious that she just did it for clout.

[@annasawicka4096]

This is all very confusing - she doesn't want to be called a "lady", but at the same time calls herself a lesbian and a gal? And she has a wife who's also not a lady? Also , I don't think she told us the whole truth - she was probably drunk, as you said, and likely aggressive. No bar employee would kick her out for making a comment like this in a POLITE way. They're not paid enough to bother lol

[@zscout1288]

She probably went on a 20 minute rant.

[@akiruiz]

just to clear things, they may be comfortable with fem terms like "gal", terms are other than pronouns. And lesbian means non men loving non men

[@RiverStyxIDV]

​@Ivlisnick I thought lesbian was "girl likes girls only." I'm sure there's a specific term for "enby likes enbys only"

[@ch3rub__]

I have a friend who's non-binary, I promise y'all, they don't act like this.

[@megxme_]

A FELLOW CHERUBBB and also frr

[@derDeja]

Hm: He's not.

[@mori-du6de]

im nonbinary and I KNOW people are gonna use she for me bcuz i present as a woman- AND IM HELLA FINE W IT i will not be throwing a whole ass tantrum over it, i wouldnt even correct them bcuz who the hell cares like actually lmao

[@AlexBamZ]

Yeah i have a non binary friend too and even they think think neo pronoun stuff is absolutely absurd.

[@EmmaxoOCE]

When she likened it to a “dad yelling at you” it all made sense. Bad father figure.

[@Nailbunny2702]

I see no tears. She makes the face of crying but doesn't cry. I want to go to this bar and buy that bartender a drink, buy many drinks and tip him a lot. I also love that when she went all Susan, the manager backed his bartender & tossed them out. These people must be treated with complete derision. Tell them to their faces they're idiots, they're unjustified carbon footprints & to grow up and contribute positively to society.

[@marioluigi9599]

To me it was kinda strange that she said she felt like that gay guy was "like a dad" to her. It's like she's got daddy issues and when he said something against her, she suddenly felt totally frozen and trapped and her world came tumbling down and her freedom was taken away and she didn't know what to do because there was nothing she could do. A daddy was saying something and that's scary and omg why do men even exist. I wish the world was just rainbows and butterflies. Yeah I could totally live in a world where there were no men around ever again

[@Lenticloudular]

Yes, dressing toddler little girl cutesie straight out of Dhyllan's playbook. I personally suspect him of hidden, motives towards let's say, more innocent, vulnerable persons. Look at others who dress younger : Gary Glitter, Jimmy Saville. There's a pattern here.

[@ArgentWolf95]

@@Lenticloudular yeah, not to mention who he associates himself with.

[@Lenticloudular]

@@ArgentWolf95 Biden...

[@ArgentWolf95]

@@Lenticloudular unfortunately that old man isn't the one i'm thinking of. There's worse: Jeremy Marsh.

[@BlackSabbathfan]

If this was 2004, this Weirdo would’ve end up on to catch a predator and would’ve been confronted by Chris Hanson.

[@jenniehan654]

it literally feels so condescending when she said “im so lucky to be a white woman” as if it’s automatically hell to be not white 🤡

[@emxilyk]

It's so obvious that many of them actually view non-white and especially black people as inferior by the way they're referring to them. Two examples I've come across were "if affirmative action were to be fully abolished, black people would have no chance at being accepted into college", "fatphobia is rooted in racism, specifically against black women", both of course from white female "allies". Nevermind how they're always speaking over ethnic minorities, are treating them as if they're infants without any agency, or proudly admit that they're racist.

[@mai5151]

Fr, the thing with ppl like her and blm movement is it’s bigotry of low expectations

[@ducklingscap897]

That’s reminding me of the the black millionaire who say they are still the bigger victim and their life is more horrible than a white orphan who’s parents died and the girl need us living in her poor disabled grandmothers basement. Being black makes your life a bit harder in some areas sure but having money vs. not having money is a waaay bigger influence on how good your life is than skin color. But they were so determined to „win the suffering contest“ when they only „suffered“ from being black. That just felt insulting to all black people (being black is really not that horrible) and all people who are not millionaires 😅

[@eriksigalraven8340]

Like white women are not getting beaten and raped. Bible and quran fully consist of promoting violence against women, not saying aword of women ethnicity. Bc women is a woman. Majority believe women are not people

[@karen5916]

As a black LGBT person, I apologize on behalf of all of us sane folks within the umbrella - normal gays, bisexuals, and transsexuals don’t act like this.

[@boogermaiden]

True that

[@denisebacher5040]

@@silencesfell we just feel the need to establish we are not with the drama queen.

[@Tential1]

​@@denisebacher5040I mean, you have to because if you don't, it soon becomes the prevailing ideology in your group. Too many people in the lgbtq group just go along with the stuff

[@Tential1]

​@@denisebacher5040this is the same issue that happened to the black community. No one pushed back against degenerate culture until it destroyed the people. You went from the most proper, respectful, God fearing Christian people, to the most degenerate. And now, being proper is bad and people will see it as you not being black. You don't want the same, where if you don't agree with the whole agenda, you're not seen as lgtbqia

[@andrewhayward9428]

Never apologise for something you never did. NEVER Never give an apology on behalf of another person. You are You You are not the other person. You are not responsible for another person's mental/verbal/physical action.

[@lilscenechick1995]

I understand being annoyed or even hurt if someone “misgenders” you. HOWEVER, to have an emotional and mental breakdown over it is extreme. That girl needs a therapist. Not everyone is going to be nice to you or accept you. Deal with it.

[@vashmatrix5769]

After hearing her speak, I definitely wouldn't call her a "lady". That term is reserved for respectable women.

[@Surprise_Inspection]

Exactly. She was given a compliment, and she turned it into a whole thing in order to be offended.

[@DrinkYourNailPolish]

If you're wearing a dress and red lipstick and get upset someone called you ma'am then that's on you. Nobody in their right mind is going to see someone who clearly wears what pertains to women and goes "oh gee maybe that's a guy!" However if she was wearing men's clothing and did her best to look sound and act like a guy then well she should man up and stop crying. You wanna be a man? Act like one.

[@viviannichols3582]

Anyone who cries like this over something this benign is absolutely a woman. 🤣

[@tatjana4503]

She's actually more the frog/-self type. You know, those freaks that take random words and suddenly call them "pronouns".

[@davidevans1298]

They say that they don't identify as any gender. Which is why it's insane

[@paula-fz8be]

literally like if it bothers them that much start wearing a badge 😭

[@discussingwithyouisfutile1703]

"Man up and stop crying "

[@lovelymatrix9952]

This society needs therapy 💀

[@whateverhuney]

As a woman, I'm afraid of trying to date other women if they'll end up being like this

[@steph678]

I'm sorry that's so many lesbians are now identifying as everything else but a woman

[@designateddoser7651]

I gave up on dating chicks a while ago lmao. I miss boobs but I’m happier with a smart guy than any dumb chick I was ever able to find. The lgbt community has really been a poison to queer women

[@littlecatfeet9064]

Pronouns, the trans flag and the progress Pride flag are..well, red flags 🚩🚫

[@DrCruel]

Many men have gone MGTOW too. Welcome to the club.

[@oimate9796]

Why not date a man and carually be heathier by hacing kids instead licking carpets and being lonely miserable

[@phily8716]

I am completely intolerant of adults who behave this way. We need some kind of right of passage/test before you can legally be recognised as an adult 😂 no way I trust these people to have any responsibility. They're basically children in every sense but physical

[@SquidneyGames]

We could verbally abuse everybody, getting progressively worse and more intense and see where they break as a metric of maturity.

[@haydenpetit1350]

i was literally thinking she need to go back to pre-school and start over because this is not an adult

[@SFUPodcast]

Someone should’ve told her “no” at least a couple times when growing up.

[@davemccage7918]

She’s a Barbie girl in a Barbie world. Overactive imagination, tons of righteous indignation. You can brush her hair, but address her as a woman, DON’T YOU DARE!

[@michaelstrohmaier402]

It's called education, teaching healthy morals and values, but leftists didn't experience this, that's why they are so extremely weak.

[@Bdt_meT]

I don’t know why the world has to revolve around what they identify as and who they sleep with 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@pocosdailymoviememes1257]

This is an embarrassment. I see a lot of people online saying they h@te gay people because of the small but loud group who make their “identity” their entire personality. Most just wanna live quietly and don’t want to scream from the rooftops who they like. Your sexuality is not a personality trait, not an achievement, it’s not an identity even, it’s just you. It should not define you or determine your worth as a human being. My heart truly goes out to those who suffer from genuine gender dysphoria. Those who appropriate this debilitating condition and turn it into a cute “quirk” of theirs should be ashamed. 🤦‍♀️

[@saikoui.n3343]

I completely agree. Someone's personality must be really boring if their only personality traits are "gay and mentally ill". My sexuality is not my personality and it doesn't concern anyone except my future girlfriend and people that are really close to me.

[@dragons_flight]

Exactly correct! Hooray for sanity. 😁 😋 😘💗 👍

[@vanillapinkfluff3477]

Yes exactly. A sexual preference is not a personality. Just like being a man or lady is not a personality. Neither is hair colour, skin tone, etc.

[@greenbeans9748]

I hate the small minority who make gay their entire personality and style with a flaming passion (pun intended), but most of us are normal and want to be left alone. If they're obsessed with rainbows, can't handle being told no or boundaries, advertise their pronouns, hate straight people and use the term "cis," act very NSFW and are creepy towards people they find attractive, have lots of pins, and live on platforms like Twitter and Tiktok, they're one of them. Bonus points if they're hobby majoring in things like art, obsessed with fandoms, and have autism or other disorders.

[@melissamurray8307]

I agree.

[@gasdisaster]

I am gay myself. But I am totally embarrassed about how this people are changing the LGBT community. That’s frustrating.

[@1tommyday]

What will she do when an elderly woman calls her " young lady". Will " Snow" have the elsely woman arrested? Im just wondering

[@The_Republic_of_Ireland]

This level of madness NEEDS. TO. BE. STOPPED! If a guy at the bar refers to an obvious woman as a lady he isn't being sexist/transphobic he's just being polite ffs

[@KevvoLightswift]

She 100% has dad issues. I think if social media didn't exist, we'd lose a bunch of narcissists. I'm for that.

[@isabelle3381]

Dad issues have nothing to do with this

[@WannzKaswan]

​@@isabelle3381except she said the man who kicked her felt like a dad scolding you

[@MissTriana127]

@@WannzKaswanThats what i thought!

[@Anarchy_Jester]

Ppl like this just have issues in general.

[@kcck7588]

@@isabelle3381found the female with daddy issues

[@andrewstadterman329]

There are a TON of mentally unwell people in the US

[@lovetolovefairytales]

So she doesn't have a gender apparently but she wants to be called Snow White... She knows snow White was a girl right?

[@meahdahlgren5875]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@vanillapinkfluff3477]

Exactly. She calls herself a gal, Snow White and a lesbian. Those are all female terms.

[@kiowah231]

@@vanillapinkfluff3477 Cognitive dissonance, mental illness, confusion.

[@Anarchy_Jester]

If a straight person used the name of a non binary non straight character she would've thrown a massive fit over it and called it all kinds of phobic.

[@sonicleaves]

Misha, you are a very intelligent articulate young woman and I appreciate your insight. I told my 15 year old daughter to follow your channel because she is also very intelligent and I think she'll like your content. Thank you!

[@el_killorcure]

Anything to keep boys off the pipe, and girls off the pole...

[@aoibhie1208]

As a trans man this sort of behaviour pisses me off to no end

[@arandomhouseinwoods4690]

I can relate.. I feel like i am supposed to be embarrassed bc i feel like i should have been born a guy.. It's people like these that make many people from an entire LQBT community look horrible...

[@Lp0tr33]

Sounds like a clownself that went out in public and made people laugh.

[@boudicacelticwarrior1481]

Clownself is the only alternate pronoun I would use for all their ilk

[@Chelsea290]

Ha! That's a great one!!! 😂

[@kathleent4291]

But don’t you realize? She’s a Disney princess and everyone’s supposed to break out into joyful song when she enters the room

[@childofhadessssss]

Wait if she’s the “pronoun gal” but doesn’t identify as a girl then how is she the “pronoun *gal* “ ?

[@michellec7719]

Princess, wife, lesbian... All feminine terms.. By 'their' own admission 🤦‍♀️

[@fusionspaceart3690]

Honestly. As a 22 year old gay man where trans ideology destroys the progress of gays and lesbians and reinforces gender stereotypes. I am proud of those bartenders. I seriously want to go to that gay bar now. I would have kicked them out too for their disrespectful behavior too. You are absolutely right Misha, this excessive coddling is what led to this situation. Because everyone wanted to be "nice" and not hurt their feelings, people became more afraid to speak up. And because they became use to know one speaking up, their accepted delusions became their reality. When on the rare occasions someone points it out, they go into flight or fight mode and become violent when somebody has different views and doesn't affirm their delusions. I partly responsible for this affirming because i didn't see the harm in the beginning. Now i am seeing the harm everywhere and it has gone too far. Because of you Misha and people like you, young genz conservatives and moderates who aren't afraid to say the truth, i have become more unapologetically vocal about these issues. Sure I'm still in a woke environment but people need to hear this.

[@vicenlorenzocreadoraudiovi9726]

I refuse to believe these people are 100% for real.

[@billstarr9396]

Personally I believe that she and her wife got tossed out of the bar because she went into a psycho meltdown because the bartender didn't use the proper pronoun.

[@notsofatmike1]

I'd love to watch the CCTV

[@Lucky-ei6yh]

She was probably very drunk, that's why they snatched the drink away from her.

[@Mpiewizard]

I feel like there’s more to this story cause I find it incredibly difficult to believe you would be kicked out of a gay bar just for correcting someone on your pronouns in this day and age. Not to mention, don’t gay men typically refer to people using feminine nicknames anyway?

[@mmmeow]

Yes mama

[@chernobylcoleslaw6698]

Yeah I call bullshit.

[@amyramirez736]

At what point did it become not okay to just use someone's name? You can't misgender someone if you just call them by their name. People really do have to make it harder than it really is and all for attention.

[@patrickjennings431]

I have no sympathy for the pronoun gal she needs to realize that no one is going to accept her delusional fantasy and her being called a lady is not hateful.Good video misha 👍🏾

[@meahdahlgren5875]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@JustLindaThings]

Oh my, where to start???? 1. She goes by they/them but calls herself a lesbian. Lesbians are women. 2. If her wife was also non-binary, she'd call her her "spouse" not wife because wife means a married woman. 3. The fact she's crying over being called a lady. For ex: If someone called me sir, I'd just laugh. I wouldn't freak out and post my breakdown on TikTok. 4. Her wife needs to stop coddling her. It'd be different if she was actually being harassed or bullied or even threatened. I love being called a lady when I'm called one but I won't freak out if I'm called sir. I'll just bust out laughing and be like, "last time I checked, I'm not a sir." lol 5. Something along the lines of "we need to something about these gay white men." Oh is that a threat???? Hate men if you want but don't threaten them. Plus, you put this online. Don't be surprised if the cops show up at your door and don't call them homophobic because you're gay. You threatened gay white men without bluntly saying it. Did I miss anything???

[@thekendrashow]

Nope you covered everything

[@ReDuVernay]

You missed the part where at one point she calls him a "strait white man" then later acknowledges that he was gay. And got mad that he said she "did the same thing" to him that he was mad at her for doing. Which, yeah, if she called a gay man strait, she kinda did, didn't she?

[@MomComePickMeUp44]

you did, you forgot that the wife is a dude

[@akiruiz]

Lesbian means non-men loving non-men, you CAN be a lesbian and enby. And 'wife' is a fem term, yes. But you can feel comfortable with fem terms and still be enby ^_^...

[@MomComePickMeUp44]

@@akiruiz there are only TWO genders, did you not pay attention in class?

[@matrixlag4074]

Finally a young girl with active brain cells.(misha) . The rest of these crazy people need to wake up and join reality.

[@CurlyVibesOnly]

I think this woman should really look into finding a therapist 😢

[@marleywolfdog]

It's really sad that there are women and girls going about like this, not feeling comfortable in their own bodies. I know because I used to be one of them. We need to start talking about this as if its a mental health condition because it IS and needs treatment :(

[@gdawg614]

no amount or therapy in the world can help that girl.

[@spiralmoment]

Giving money to a therapist is like giving money to an only fans girl.

[@genderdystopia019]

So you can call your wife a WIFE... but she's not a lady? "Imagine if I didn't accept you for being gay, dude?" She just assumed his gender and orientation. THE IRONY.

[@monsieur_mcmuffin]

Well, I'm a nonbinary lesbian, and y'all, we don't all act like this I swear. I'm a little more feminine presenting so if someone uses the wrong pronouns, I just nicely correct them and move on, I don't get on tiktok and bawl my eyes out about it.

[@llemani]

you're like a qubit :D

[@hmmmmnothanks]

valid

[@mattheamallowiott]

They corrected the bartender and he yelled at them. Did you watch the video?

[@UrFavoriteFurry400]

If u don’t believe in gender then how are u lesbian?

[@monsieur_mcmuffin]

@@UrFavoriteFurry400 lesbian is defined as a non-man who is attracted to another non-man. :D

[@melo7825]

the reason all the comments are "positive" is bc she deletes and blocks all the others. I made a comment on her video a while ago where i was just stating my opinion ab this nonsense and she immediately deleted my comment and blocked me. SMH

[@capybara2515]

classic leftist manoeuvres. stay strong 👍

[@mcorivervsaf]

That sounds about right. She’s completely messed up, and self-centered, while walking around in an echo chamber. It’s just comical how these people function in society today. Geez… 🤦🏽‍♂️

[@dylansurendranath3091]

It's quite profound that the people who claim to be the most loving and accepting of others are ironically the least loving and accepting of others... These pathetic lunatics are a lost cause at this point 🤷🏻‍♂️

[@melo7825]

@@dylansurendranath3091 exactly.

[@mothertoad560]

If she blocked you then how are you still here? 🤨

[@starieonAA]

i literally get misgendered EVERY SINGLE DAY and i don't even act close to this. Like thats insane

[@toserious2587]

We need to bring back asylums.

[@jojojo89517]

They definitely deleted comments that made fun of them and called them out.

[@Obieden1]

being misgendered should not be a crime, the one who wasted police resources for that owes the entire police department money

[@hynsum]

Crime leaves: -damage -loss -victim misgendering doesn't create either of these, right?

[@Lucky-ei6yh]

What the hell are you talking about? this video had nothing to do with any crime, or police, or legal stuff. Watch the damn video before commenting.

[@ivyedits2503]

My brother is a boy but he has long hair so people sometimes think he is a girl. When we let them know, they apologise and me and my bro laugh about it. He does not start crying because he accidentally gets called a girl 🤷‍♀️

[@robertmarshall2502]

Snow white bringing up ppl of colour out of nowhere is pretty hilarious

[@warmarionette3292]

“Transphobia is so disgusting” like girl pretending to be something you’re not and living a whole lie and trying to normalize it is what’s actually disgusting 💀

[@meahdahlgren5875]

Right ❤❤

[@Inky_doodledoo]

I don't have a problem with trans people but man this person need to get it together

[@hope539]

Fr

[@Anarchy_Jester]

I don't care what you call yourself as long as you don't act like a fragile mess like this woman in the video.

[@thehunted21432]

People like this never act in good faith. Show them empathy and give them the inch, they'll take the mile, like they have been for the past several decades.

[@FlamingCockatiel]

How do you determine if people are that way?

[@pandoratheclay]

@@FlamingCockatiel find out if they can genuinely return that empathy

[@stefanig4834]

As a real gay man, I found her disturbing. She isn’t part of us.

[@Astreon123]

Men cant use she her and she was in a GAY bar. doesnt matter if she used to be a man shes a she now and should gtfo of a gay bar

[@Surprise_Inspection]

Well you are probably gay and white, so you are basically the enemy. She says as much in the video "It was technically a gay bar, but they were all gay white men!"

[@sof7651]

Crazy, I used to work with this girl in like 2018. She’s definitely upped the childish aesthetic

[@ei4163]

no way fr ?’

[@Chelsea290]

Was she normal or like this?

[@simoneyoung825]

Cmon tell us more, what was she like?

[@heathers7265]

she really should be identifying as a toddler since she has tantrums like one.

[@annieswatches]

Tell us more please!

[@LauraWatkins-wf7dq]

She says she isn't a woman but yet refers to herself as a lesbian. Lol.

[@thejedicounciloffical]

She should identify as a psy/cho

[@xCodeXANA]

Apparently saying “you need help” is gaslighting????? When tf

[@engrfusi949]

I don't understand why people keep on inventing new gender identity and then get angry, feel miserable if their demands, ego, expectations are not met by other people. I hope not to meet any of them as I don't want any trouble and get involved in their life's drama 😆

[@angeninetytwo]

I’m pretty sure the guy at the bar serving her the drink was a gay man .. but she’s erasing his identity because it’s fine to dismiss other people’s sexual orientations if they don’t fit your narrative , but god forbid you call her a lady while she’s clearly female and presenting as such .. the homophobia and lunacy of these people 😂

[@RabbitWereWolf]

Imagine if the pronoun gal started a fight and pulled out a kni/fe

[@arandomhouseinwoods4690]

U aren't allowed to stab me, i identify as un-stabable

[@Gullibledino222]

As a gen z born in 2005…I am SO scared for the future

[@jtf873]

This is just a way for them to try and exert power over others, by saying: "It's okay, you didn't know.."

[@hieovri]

EXACTLY. that line pissed me off so much

[@jtf873]

@@hieovri the old Jedi mind trick 🤣😉

[@cstrong162000]

I posted something on my IG story a couple weeks ago about the rainbow meaning being changed from a symbol of happiness and immediately got called homophobic by one of my followers. Keep posting these videos. The world needs to know that these recent movements are wrong.

[@LadyRijuOfTheGerudoTribe]

“Are you part of the LGBTQIA community?” “Yes, but clearly not the common sense community!” -My best friend

[@thetwelfth9987]

Shout out the actual adults at the gay bar who handled the situation as it should have since the beginning. You see a kid playing pretend ordering alcohol, you kick her out.

[@dgonzalez4331]

The fact that SHE got kicked out of a GAY club says a lot. Level-headed gay people are over this BS, too.