Proof a Narcissist doesn't Change for the Next Supply

[@narcabusecoach]

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[@janetmoturi3405]

Thanks so much dear Danish this is the greatest piece I have heard from you !!!

[@carparthero]

the biggest reason narcissists don't learn from the past, is because they never get past the first step, which is admitting that they made mistakes. narcissists have no capability of self-reflection. cheers 🍻 from southern ontario, canada 🍁

[@carparthero]

@jbrown2908 thanks for your kind words. keep fighting the good fight. all the best. -steven

[@Virgochik]

I once asked my ex if he ever did any reflecting on all of his previous failed relationships and what went wrong, so he doesn't repeat the mistakes. He said no.

[@SharkE747]

Narcissists are about destroying you to lift themselves up. "Without strength there is no peace, without peace there is no joy, without joy there is only death." "When love, intimacy, and belonging are leveraged against you, you become a slave."

[@carparthero]

@Virgochik at least he was honest. 🤷 most narcs will give a blank lizard-like stare, or twist the conversation.

[@sushmayen]

The narc in my life said he loves someone else and want to marry her. When I said ok I will leave him and he can marry her, he said he would never leave me and loves both of us. It was so disgusting and demeaning. They have no feelings for anybody and only use people for their own selfish reasons. It shocked him when I left him and right now love bombing phase is going on. So predictable 🙄

[@dyoung2739]

Pretty much the same happened to me when he realized that I was ok w/the divorce.

[@dyoung2739]

I can’t even stand to look him in his evil sadistic eyes

[@sushmayen]

They neither leave you nor let's you live

[@dyoung2739]

@@sushmayen Never and I’ve seen this in his brothers that are divorced. His 3 brothers have all been divorced at least 15 years and they’re all obsessed with what their ex wives are doing even the ones who’ve remarried.

[@veral2274]

Same here. My ex covert narc came for me again, unbeknownst to me he was living with the supply who, unbeknownst to me, he had been cheating on me with. When I saw them together, I called him to the side, she waited sat on a bench behind him, enought to be away from earshot. Would you care to explain why you're playing both of us? And he said, I kid you not, "I love you, I always will, but now I'm with her". He said it with the straightest face, and the poor woman sat just a few steps away. Unbelievable! Utter BS!

[@angelakeely5859]

They never do anything to change, learn,grow or evolve,they stuff down their feelings,emotions,shame ect, then they unleash their anger ,rage and spew their " vitreol", at others who have never done anything to them, and in a lot of cases has been kind and decent to them🤔🏃‍♀️🚩

[@fairpoet81]

💥BINGO💥

[@dyoung2739]

Our divorce was on course to be final. He started fighting the divorce when he realized that I was relieved that we were divorcing & excited about moving forward. Narcs can’t stand the thought of anyone,especially an ex,being happy. If the ex is happy after them, they’re afraid of others realizing that they wear a mask.

[@Kharizmah]

Ugh. I fled the state - and now months later - I've been trying to contact him about getting a divorce. He's just ignoring my text messages. I wonder if he's expecting me to call. I don't want him fighting it, like yours is.

[@SharkE747]

"Without strength there is no peace, without peace there is no joy, without joy there is only death." That's what their goal is in my wholehearted opinion. And this is what I took from my experience. "When love, intimacy, and belonging are leveraged against you, you become a slave."

[@dyoung2739]

@@Kharizmah He’s expecting you to call. Check with someone. The state you’re in may have residency requirements but you may be able to file for a divorce without his signature. Good luck and take care ❤️

[@dyoung2739]

@@SharkE747 Well said❤️

[@soniaprovard8259]

I am so glad I found you on YT, Danish!! I survived a 30+ year marriage to a covert narcissist! It’s been 7 years since the discard & I am still healing & moving on! I am so much better but I still have weeks or months that I feel everything from depression to anger & everything I gave to that fraudulent con man!! So thank you & every other survivor of narc abuse for being here!🙏🏻🦋😘

[@SharkE747]

Always remember that you're stronger than you realize and that strength is what they hated. "Without strength there is no peace, without peace there is no joy, without joy there is only death." "When love, intimacy, and belonging are leveraged against you, you become a slave."

[@vanessence7]

🤗🤗🤗

[@francinegarman5130]

22yrs here and was just tossed. Feeling so incredibly angry, sad, mad, confused. Ugj

[@charliesmom]

same. you are certainly not alone and its devastating. It's a hard pill to swallow for sure but the harder pill to swallow is to think the rest of your life would be with this person. Now that would be the biggest lose. You are out of the hell loop! @@francinegarman5130

[@vaijayantigulve4883]

I fully understand what you must be going through... I have been dealing with one for the past 22 years...!! It's hard even after we ditch them. They never get affected. Because they are not human.

[@AliciaGuitar]

I could tell when my ex husband was cheating on his new supply because he posted the same exact stuff on FB thinking he was being slick. It really reveals these guys are not that intelligent. So predictable! They have a few of the same old tricks, thats all. I pity the next one... so far looks like he has lost his mojo and cannot find another 😅 now he is aging and no one is blinded by his looks anymore. He has been threatening our daughter he will move to Alaska and wondering why no one is saying, "no! Please dont!" 😂 i dont think alaskan women will fall for him either lol but i hope he does move away

[@nessauk2786]

The loner narc is one who can give himself supply like a snake eating it's own tail / self..its crazy.

[@jessicadixon9]

The parallels between my father and the man that helped me discover I am codependent are scary.

[@popmonika]

At work saw them go from one supply to another making the same mistakes again and again. The sad thing is how desperate and clingy they get with whatever supply they have near the end, once most people have figured them out.

[@butterflygirl3359]

I endured narcissistic abuse for 16 years. Despite all the torture he put me through, today he told me there is someone else after I kept taking him back cause he told me he loved me and needed me SO much and I was the ONLY ONE, ALWAYS, FOREVER. It took me till now to realize it was all a lie. I know him so well though, I have no doubt at all he will be no different with the new supply.

[@Kharizmah]

Did you request the divorce yet? Because it seems that seems to be the next problem, when they decide they do still love you.

[@vinayashafeekh5020]

Omg 💯 they r all the same

[@Kharizmah]

@@heatherhall3452 I meant to put “love” in quotes.

[@melissahinkley7629]

Yep, lol....my ex-narc husband just jumps from relationship to relationship. He says, "I'm too shallow to be bummed for too long." He actually admitted to having no empathy after we divorced, and admitted that if he has the chance to cheat, he will. So sad that a person keeps going through life with the same destructive patterns and can't self-reflect to learn from past mistakes.

[@justreviewedForYou]

This video is giving life to me.......Tysm for existing May Almighty Bless you always 🤲

[@pattyh1039]

Glad to hear you say boring ( I use that one often when describing a Narc ) , !

[@sreyachaudhuri6594]

Your videos are so educational and very much helpful for any victim of narcissistic abuse who's been searching for answers for what exactly happened to them and why.

[@vickiemcguire9956]

Good afternoon Danish great session and what's so sad my daughter is just like her Demonic Evil Entity daddy all I can do is pray for her I don't have any dealings with her she's getting worse with age have a blessed Sabbath

[@adele865]

So basically, the narcissist treats all us victims like Pavlov's Dog. We're just something to train to give them the response and supply they need until they break us and need to move on to a new unsuspecting supply.

[@elizebethjames1256]

I have been listening to a selection of speakers like yourself on this subject of narcissism and the information about how this unfotunate disorder spreads across a spectrum of toxic behaviours. The narcissitic recovery specialists like yourself who have had alot of relationship REAL experiences with these toxic people, have the most clear and strong understanding of those on the spectrum - hands down!! The hard cold experiences are very tough, but HORRAH ! for the perception of TRUTH & REALITY. Danish, your grasp of the ability to be able to be so honest and percise has been a great gift for all of us. The same goes for the 2 or 3 others out there who are also on that platform of truth and excellemce! Surv. Sue.

[@Truthteller1s]

Great video! You always put things in terms that make them easier to understand.

[@rm842]

It's been about 2 years since I finally was able to break away and get help and heal. In that time I've been picking up the pieces of my mental and physical health, hardly able to socialize and come out of my house. I wish I was able to move on easily, especially finding out he's already gone through 7 new women since we were together. I have a hard time separating myself from feelings of betrayal even though that was the cycle of the entire relationship🤦🏻‍♀️🤔😞

[@jazmingomez2011]

What helped me was to just accept that it happened, because that's the Best They are Capable of. And I forgave so that the hurt would not consume me...I let the pain go and focused only on positive things and ppl, which you can only give your time and energy to One or the other

[@pamelabarone5868]

Things will change soon. I went through the same thing. The healing takes a really long time. Its worth it to do the work on yourself. You are growing even if you do not see it right now. It feels like forever when we are going through the process. One day something in you will click and you will no longer be in hermit mode. To me it felt like a long sorrowful hell. The rumination finally stops and you will find yourself and new goals. I am 11:27 praying for you. I would not wish this on anyone. I can say there is a light at the end of the tunnel. Currently I am realizing my childhood and my parents were the catalyst for most of what I endured in my adult life. After going through this process I am seeing my parents actions and they do not encourage any growth they do not approve of. I learned to stand up for myself and I am removing any people from my life that are manipulative in any way. Its not easy however its necessary for my growth at this time. I am ready to move forward. The lingering health problems seemed to be resolving slowly and it has held me back. I think its the worst to have to go through this at the start of the pandemic. Good luck you will make it through. Alot of us have been where you are.

[@nazninpansare1445]

You nailed it .I feel blessed , and each time I listen I bless u for helping and guiding so many people to deal with narccissit

[@dyoung2739]

My narcissistic brother in law and sister in law are in collapse now that they’re older. Sad to watch but it’s their karma

[@sabelomalinga707]

The lying, the cheating, the stealing, the manipulating and no remorse whatsoever.

[@dianaalyssa8726]

It's just sad the feeling while listening. I always knew he's the problem deep down. He never knew why he wasn't happy with his ex-gf, but it's obvious, he's the problem not the gf.

[@sjla2009]

Yes I should've ran when he told me early on that a previous girlfriend aborted his baby. I should have ran 😢

[@kathpercy7941]

Same I feel this 30 years married and taken 5 years for separation and still going through high conflict divorce and trying to heal Thankyou for your story I thought I was broken that something was wrong with me trying to heal with going through all the rollercoaster of emotions I’m feeling 🙏🙏🙏❤

[@xyrius]

Becuse of your existtence the world is a better place. Thank you.

[@upa_19]

You are a motivation for millions of souls who lost their paths 🥀

[@CFChristian]

Favorite Narc channel at the moment.

[@colette2612]

Thank you, Danish, from the bottom of my heart!

[@undercoverbird8592]

For all the drama they create- they are actually really boring. Terribly boring and annoying once you stop reacting and don’t give a sh&t anymore. I can’t help but laugh at them. If they want to get physical I am prepared to fight. ❤

[@pamelabarone5868]

So boring

[@undercoverbird8592]

@@pamelabarone5868 yes. It’s always the SAME robotic life and drama. Once you see it’s just…. Boring and annoying. Like I said. Same arguments, same actions, no creativity.

[@The2realdrea]

Absolutely. They are boring as hell. Nothing about them is good. No one deals with them. They have lost all real friends due to their actions.. I love it and feel Sorry for them at the same time. Lol

[@kaja231]

So true. Their choise, noone can fix them, because of their free will. They always chose the same, not to change the only thing they needed to change: themselves.

[@MariaWestermeyer-hd3tg]

Thank you for this, this video gave me even more reason to know that he is what he is, I looked back at photos and looking now more closely certain stuff stood out that shows of photos of him from his first wife to me, the first wife left him after 3 years, stories from certain family members painted a story similar to mine that first wife had, his story really did not match to what he claimed, I had made peace somewhat in my heart and soul, gave allot to me being in pieces, but absolutely at peace to know the next one will go through the same, he is soulless, I am deeply hurt though I loved him deeply, right now just want to be on my own once he decide what he wants from the assets, I did ask him nicely to just let it be a fair decent peaceful split up, worried a bit he gave number one hell for leaving him, something funny though the other day he tried a small hoover for s"" I refused he blew up and blurted out you useless I will get someone else, that hurt though but I realized he most likely said the same to number one, cause he met me within 2 weeks of what he claimed he was already divorced from her, should had been aware, true about their charm and in my case his soft innocent, with the picture of a woman that mistreated this kind loving man🤦‍♀️I do feel stupid for not realising

[@busynana7917]

Your videos are very helpful in learning how to deal with the narcissist - knowledge is a very powerful thing thank you! 🙏❤️🇬🇧

[@EastsideProHoodNarcSlayerBilox]

Never any originality, the enemy uses the same tricks on different people. Even if they're an artist they'll implement your plans, suggestions, and creativity as their own. I've gone NC, took accountability, pray to Allah, didn't seek revenge, taking care of my health...all I want is for not to think about what happened everyday. Danish 😢

[@Secretgeek2012]

Just to add to all this great stuff, even if, in the remote possibility they really have changed and grown, healed, be thankful, move on, and don't look back. Their healing does not, and should not, ever outweigh the damage they have caused to you.

[@sweetdreams3119]

Came out of a 13 year relationship with a covert type only to get sucked into a worse situation with a malignant sort a year later, I had no clue I'd attraced another toxic partner, but thankfully had enough therapy at the end of the first relationship to cut off the second before further damage to my self esteem. He told me the stories and I realized something was wrong but figured he'd be different with me, blah blah blah. ...NOPE.

[@sunflower7532]

Many of us are not one trial learners. And these men are good at it. Try working out what your partner needs are. I love the attention and flattery, so knowing that I make sure I don’t get attached to this and I say no to the first suggestion. It shows I’m not pliable. They run and act as if you don’t exist once you prove you are not good supply.

[@PinkFillyTiff]

Thank you so much. You are so unbelievably spot on & helpful. I can’t thank you enough for everything you post. This has been a survivor’s guide for me right now and will be in my future as I heal. Spot on. Thank you!

[@ingalilljohansson8132]

My Humble bow to you and your great work! 🙏🏻 your work have helped me understand and work with myself to able an enter in to a new life 🙏🏻 Ifinally have reached and found strategies for leaving and not going back.

[@GloriaGonzalez-zz4wp]

Thank you Danish shoulders what you're saying is so true very true ☺️❤️

[@dannystephenson4197]

They are the Devil. Empty, void of feelings, No love. No empathy. Tell them you just lost a friend or a loved one, no emotions. Try it !!!!!! GODSPEED !!!!!!!!!!

[@leonablack3516]

All of the Narcissists relationshits have got an expiry date , it also depends on how much the new supply takes being treated like a doormat.

[@gracec1665]

My narcissist ex bought me all the same exact gifts as he had bought for his first wife. It was demeaning

[@sexygabby30]

People gonna learn this is the reason why he was left! Most women don’t just marry to get divorced after long years of investing into a man C’mon got to be kidding me and no they don’t grow apart they are just horrible and she got away so you can pick it up. Women need to understand this. Then hearts won’t be broken after someone’s leftovers. Most women leave cause he isn’t a good person in the full thick of it.

[@Amyfordofficial]

You are dead on!! 🎯

[@WolfdogBURN]

Very much appreciate these videos!

[@mariaraj9358]

Thank you, Danish, for the series of talks on narcissism. Wish I knew this 50 years ago! Every thing you said fits a toxic person l know. But you said they cannot love others but this person loves his two children very much. He has amassed wealth for them in the form of property running to millions of pounds. I only can't reconcile this trait with a die-hard narcissist. But thank you very much ... your talks have been if immense help to me.

[@CherrysJubileeJoyfully]

I warn his new girlfriends Funny his stories of smoking with the greatful dead doesn't hook the 24yos anymore I found out that last year.... 19 years later he moved back into our first apartment.

[@kaycampbell8532]

They won't listen. Unfortunately, they'll have to find out the hard way...by then he's claimed another victim. Just focus on healing yourself and enjoying life. That's your best revenge. Narcissists hate to see you happy. They really believe you can't live without them.

[@CherrysJubileeJoyfully]

@@kaycampbell8532 yeah but sme see it sooner and can get out early with a warning 2 did

[@soniaprovard8259]

It’s all so predictable & boring isn’t it? It feels like such a blessing to come thru so much darkness that they throw on us and yet in time, we can actually laugh at some of the pathetic crap they do!! Talk about runner’s, huh??!? Filthy thieves 😢

[@CherrysJubileeJoyfully]

@@heatherhall3452 I always want to warn someone before they get stuck for 6-10 years if I can save someone from hell I will fight EVERY DAY OF MY LIFE

[@marykacollins9191]

​@@heatherhall3452I wouldn't warn his new supply she wouldn't believe you anyway she'll work it out one day I was thinking the same and contact my ex new supply but I will be waisting my time they are in honeymoon stage at the moment and she won't believe me

[@Rockstar_london]

U really know what you talking about, thanks learning a lot to deal with people problems in my life

[@portuguese-interprete]

What about their food . Have you made any study of their eating habits. I knew one he use to not like leafy vegetable and use to like chicken,shell fish, prawns and crab

[@norcal1009]

This is THE BEST analysis I've heard of the UNABIDING narcissistic relationship. It is alarming how the severe emotional limitations of narcissists can bring disharmony in the universe and everything in it 🪐☄️

[@stephlm79]

Extremely helpful.. this is among one of the best descriptions of a narcissist I’ve read. Thanks

[@robinellison]

I knew his previous girlfriend slightly before she moved, as she had lived nextdoor to me. He told me that he had left a birthday present for me on my porch. I opened the door to see: her favorite chocolates from her favorite shop along with her favorite flowers in her favorite color. What?!

[@radzhurl8711]

Wonderful Danish😢

[@jennelleschulzeck9426]

Thank you Danish this is a good thing to know.

[@Kharizmah]

Frankly, it makes me sad and anxious to think that person will be forever dwelling on me. I really want him to willingly sever ties with me and move on.

[@moni3634]

Repeating myself but you describe everything so well🙏i

[@jessicadixon9]

Very true. So, vey true.

[@crystalclear5397]

Yes. Example: After looking into all my dates/facts of my history with that man, it was 7 years yet within the First 2 weeks it was already the 'I love you' bit with a Disney type nonsense following - 'I loved you when we first met back in 2015'. Lordy....when going through the info i got, i saw/noticed that everytime we fought or separated he would give that same speech to his next victim (woman he wanted - found 3-4 on file) but never got them*. The exact 'i love you ' bit, it was creepy sad like i realized i was with a monster.

[@crystalclear5397]

@@heatherhall3452 Oh my I can't find the words but you did. You gave me a flashback of the ex who pulled that but for a different reason. First we got tattoos on the ring finger where he told everyone we were 'married' (dude, it's a tattoo, Not a legal document ). And after I finally got away I saw he had put this big 'r.i.p.' tattoo of this 'friend' of his who overdosed. Dude, you are one sick warped man! You brought me to that girls funeral where I found out you haven't even been a part of her life in years as I myself never even hurd of her but 'now' you tell the world your dear loved one died???! He made it out to others that he had all this 'love' for his 'friends/loved ones' but that's not what really took place in that mind of his.

[@monicarai1497]

Danish,a humble request. Do speak a lil bout the old supply becoming a new supply. Because that's a big one as well.

[@joseenoel8093]

Eeerrrr I believe the word "textbook" comes to mind! Mom's flying monkey was her victim after me, oh how I enjoyed sending him narc vids!

[@Healinglove]

Since we've separated, and divorced? IT looks terrible! He used to have a "glow" when we were together, IT looks aged. 😮

[@PH7018c]

Of course he looks dead.. he was feeding on you!!

[@Healinglove]

@@PH7018c , IT'S been living with IT'S new supply for a year, now ingaged, IT should be happy? IT has supply, right??🤔

[@PH7018c]

@@Healinglove ...not all food is of the same quality.. Those things thrive in a special energy, in life force.. they dont produce life force, they feed from others. You were a good supply.. it will go back to you, to get that delicious taste of yours and high nutritious power. Be strong! Be happy!💖

[@Healinglove]

@@PH7018c Thank you for your support 🙏 ❤️ These creatures are something else! God bless you 🙏 ❤️

[@alyssamcmillen9722]

The new supply isn't holding them accountable as much or at all yet. The narcissist has physical and emotional needs they're entitled to have met.

[@gathy7714]

I know they won’t change,wow!!!I’m surprised people actually think that they actually could/would !!!!!!

[@dumpmail-xz2qp]

If my ex narcissist friends new supply ever contacts me after getting same treatment, Ill be sure to link her to your videos

[@raidenewalden4354]

His been with me for almost 3 decades , he didn’t get involve with another person physically , as far as I known him , but a couple of years I found out his cheating , emails to other women 3 or more dating app , a lots of contact numbers . So that’s when I know , but he was always going home .

[@Bianca-sw5id]

Danish 🥰 , the narcissist believes that leaving you worse off than you were when met you is how beneficial to them going to the new or old supply that gives them what want because they gaslight the next old or new supply too that the new or old supply leaves the narcissistist because they can't stand the aging narcissistist -? 🤔🤔

[@HarrietMbayia]

Thsnkyou Danish!!

[@trulysensitive5620]

Talking The TRUTH

[@mojdef3161]

I am the scapegoat of a narc mother. My brother, who was the golden child takes his little son to my mom for days and weeks, and I see the games my mom is repeating on my poor nephew. My brother has no complains with my mom, but I know how she ruined his childhood and future. What should I do? If I tell my brother that our mother is a covert narc will he believe me? Can I rescue my little nephew from this repeating cycle?

[@heikekershaw8990]

P.s. everything else you say is absolutely true! Sadly. But still …. All living thing has a soul.

[@grassfedmilkmomma]

and to think Danish, your dad and grandfather sustain injury every time you post

[@dyoung2739]

😂You know they do. Their heads almost explode

[@JannHearn]

I agree with you thanks Danish 😅

[@chocolate-soulja40]

If you work with a narcissists & can't avoid him. How do u deal with him if u have to communicate with him for work? If he ask you something for work. How would I respond. For instance yesterday he tried to joke around with me after a month of ignoring me & treating me like crap! I was devastated 😢😭😱😵‍💫😵

[@etaokha4164]

I dont feel sorry for the new supply 😂😂😂

[@shahnazsimon1928]

How much is coaching? My mom is willing and I am having difficulty

[@StartalkswithSan]

He used the same words for me and his ex like words of affirmation

[@sea.imagineering]

Lol yeah, he bought all 3 of his gf's the same souvenirs. He let one girl pick out the gift for the other girl. All with them thinking they were the only one. We found out he was with me in the days the other was sporting and in between us 2 he had a set day with the 3rd girl who accommodated her schedule to his needs. Yeah it was his only day left... It is all pure evil.

[@sea.imagineering]

@@jbrown2908 I couldnt do it, 1 guy is more than enough. When the other girl broke up with him when she found out about the Thursday girl, his parents were sad: aww but he had so much fun with youuu, he was never even home anymore. She then knew enough, but did not know me yet. Its crazy what we were able to puzzle out together! The Thursday girl is now his new main supply. I did not even tell you us 3 were not the only ones!!! I was messages by an fwb, there were a few holiday girls in different countries he had an open relationship with. And he had different ons almost every weekend. So there were like 50 girls at least in the last 3 years. He made them pregnant, emotionally abused them obv and some even physically. This guy is crazy! The worst part is that the Thursday girl knows about all of it, we both talked to her on the phone and in person, but she blocked us both and is now on a roadtrip with him for 3 weeks. It is truly sad

[@Gods_Got_My_Six]

My father was cheating on his wife with my mom. My mom would pass her every day on the road going to work. My mom knew of her but she didn't know of my mom. Then my father had a child with a married woman at his work, and 15 months later had a child with my mom. He told my mom there was a woman at his work that had a young child and could babysit for my mom, so my mom dropped my brother off to this woman. My mom had no idea the other child was my brother's half sibling. It's weird what they do. It's like they get off on all of the secrets and their paths crossing, while one of them doesn't know the truth.

[@sea.imagineering]

@@Gods_Got_My_Six thats also a crazy story. Well in our cases the pregnancies resulted in miscarriage. But yeah, he could have had multiple children as well. He is probably and luckily less fertile though.

[@alicerosa6766]

​@@Gods_Got_My_SixPure evil.

[@paulballard4243]

My ex-wife went from our 26 year marriage to living with the man she cheated on me with in four months. What does that tell you about her?

[@AB-ko9en]

Yeah, their mission statement is if you won’t I’ll find something that well. And then that’s when I say thank you mistress I’m free.❤❤🎉😂

[@nessauk2786]

All of my relationships were different apart from two who were exactly the same apart from one was a fragile and the other was overt the same difference...all of them are sick and they know it.

[@bluntweirdo]

my ex husband took the woman after me to the honeymoon I wanted.

[@abbypangritz3123]

He Discarded u because he can't match your strong empathy and energy on next day he already have new supply..so sick. when u discarded from a narc is a blessings in disguise... after u move on u start to notice a freedom breathing a fresh air the skies are bluer than blue feels like a dove out in a cage,

[@sjla2009]

The problem I have is I think his new supply was more damaged than me even at the start. So basically she accepts the bad treatment and sticks with him. Therefore, the front he shows to the world convinces everyone this time it's better and everything wrong before with me was my fault. He destroyed my mental health so I now look like the crazy one. I also got CFS so I now can't improve my life, status or relationships. He appears to have won. In his own twisted way, he has. I've lost my kids, job, health, family, respect, wealth, house, looks, faith in humanity, dreams, motivation, ability to love or trust...all my hope....everything. I'm devastated.

[@sjla2009]

Yes, I have social phobia with panic attacks, so I can't go into a church. I am so sad about this.

[@DaRyteJuan]

Wow. This personality profile is my stepfather to a T. One single mother after the other. Abusing both the new wife and her children each time.

[@Yellowcarrot9442]

Can you tell me difference between illumanti and narrasist

[@heikekershaw8990]

Hi. I really like your videos , and all I have heard so far is true. This one, two minutes into it, you say that they have no soul. Sorry, but you cannot know this. Even I’m hurt by my narcissistic son and I had to cut him out of my life, I don’t believe that he has no soul. I believe everyone has a soul. Could it be that you have still so much pain inside of yourself….and haven’t reached “ forgiveness “ to free yourself? My son broke my heart, and I know that I will never be able to trust him again….but I couldn’t ever say that he has no soul. Please think about that. Love and light 🙏

[@sexygabby30]

Narcissist are completely made so as a parent you need to look deeply within the whole dynamic. He was groomed for this mental illness from birth -7 years old to develop the personality. The soul as taken from him… now you need to know how and by whom.

[@rahasovereign9510]

N’s are a different species of people. They look and act human. But they are not. They have no emotions. They gave zero capacity or desire to be kind loving considerate or caring for others if there is no manipulation also in there. They always do things for a reason. They have no heart. They have no soul. They have no morals. They feed off of peoples energy. And they know that they do this. Zero remorse. No respect for others. This may sound harsh to you but there isn’t any reason to coddle them. They set you up to watch you fall and fail. They are heartless. This really is true.

[@KateG-s8c]

Boring - yes totally

[@monicarai1497]

I was the next supply and I can tell you for a fact,that douchebag was SO focused on his ex wife,it was appalling. Everything had to be like "Oh my ex wife did that to me. She forced me to have sex. She forced me to get married." Yada yada yada. Im like are you serious? You're married to ME and that's ALL you talk about? He started doing that too soon into the marraige and that's how I started suspecting something was very wrong. This is NOT normal behavior AT ALL. Had he stayed in the love bombing stage a lil longer maybe I would have been fooled. He also told me that his ex wife couldn't have kids. And thats one of the reasons he was rushing to have kids with so soon. And I just thought"Oh look hes so serious about me.." But looking back,he wasn't so smart after all. Now hes stuck with child support payments and a child (supply) he'll never get to see. Maybe that's Karma too huh.

[@sexygabby30]

My dad did the same thing because that was who he needed and wanted unfortunately he settled with you that’s all… the one that got away is the one of his life. You will pay for him not having her. I watch this crap as a child and see it now as an adult. But women’s don’t think they think oh” they outgrew each other na na he is a horrible human being .

[@sexygabby30]

@@heatherhall3452 oh it makes dang good sense if I was face to face I would literally explain it on further to you. The one that got away is the the blessed one they never change for a new supply… simple I was raised with a parent of this “disorder” and married one so I really don’t have to click to know about the topic title or what he may say it’s all textbook I’m the end that’s why it’s a disorder due to dynamic of operation of this… works.

[@user-np4ge5wy4o]

Bored to death 😂! He even shoots the same pictures in the same places 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@rosemarywalsh8329]

Can 2 narcissists live together?

[@antifiaw2588]

Yes. And successfully if they are both psychopaths....both living a parasitic lifestyle.

[@karlippo]

Boring. Omg yes. I got so bored with the same routines of him: love bomb invites talking listening to the saaaaame music for yeaarsss, then the physical contact and then bam discard repeat. I once told him ohhh so romantic! When he lit candles for me when i came over. Couple of weeks later found candles in the shower and his bedroom and then i knew he was cheatinf and using the same shit on her. Everything he ever learned from he he is using it on the new ones. He sucks the new ones dry of their interests and copies their interests I always felt he needed it to expand his repertoire or something and after seeing your video I now know it was. For sure. Cause theyre empty shells. They copy. I swear I could even tell he was cheating by his sudden accent, wording, Clothes or I swear changed face!! He always looked different! Sooo weird

[@lydiagibas114]

Wow! Exactly the same behaviour of xnarc right down to the candles! The face! Too spooky how similar these two are.

[@antifiaw2588]

Candles are a big give away clue to cheating 😂😂😂 of course they are copycat and over the top trying hard romantic. So next time a potential lover uses a candle now you know they are cheating on someone with you. Run away!!! 😂😂😂

[@karlippo]

@@antifiaw2588 yeah and I pointed out the candles and he forgot to remove them and started a whole shitshow to turn it on me like youre too suspicious blablablabla ahole

[@olyooshka]

True.

[@DidiyogasalsastudioTM]

For sure

[@pashakovskij]

My narc ex wife is ashamed of possibility to be сaught in having cheated on me. Her job is quite public unlike mine. But she still is hiding her new supply from others llike a crap cat inspite of the fact I debunked her twice. Once before devorce and once after. She still spreads rumors that it was me who cheated. Trying to make me doubt having a profit to gain if I belive her. She wants me to transfer her my rights for rthe appartment where she lives with my son now. Desperately keeps hoping. Playing the role. Her new supply makes photos of her in the same park in the same place where I did before. She puts the new photos where she is alone in the same place on her social media while her lover hiding him self behind the scene. Playing her games like a miserable boy.

[@poojachoudhary7534]

Are all online stalkers narcissistic ? Men whom I contacted on matrimonial sites go online and offline as I go online or just after few minutes when I show online. I didn't understand this behaviour. Instead of straight forward conversation they are just doing this . I send them message , talk to my parents but they are not replying and doing this stupid thing . And these men are working on very high paying job like vp , senior software Engineer with a very good package, as I checked it on LinkedIn. Is this normal behaviour or most of the men on matrimonial sites are npds😂

[@theresacase6153]

No

[@justreviewedForYou]

My Toxic cheating Narcissist ex bf is enjoying his new supplieS....and i am damn sure wohi same dialogues maarta hoga udhr bhi Behizzz kahin ka🤨😑

[@winnieamar9368]

Hindi mein gussa nikalne ka alag hee maza hai 😂

[@justreviewedForYou]

@winnieamar9368 Areee Zindagi Haram kardi h meri yrrrr😑😑 samajh nhi ata rou ya gaaliyan du ya gussa kru ya life me move on kru ya karu to karu kyaaaaaa!!!! Itna bda Dramebaaz jhootha cheater toxic tha....qasmein khata tha Uparwale ki aur apni maa ki har bat me🤬🤬🤬 Zaleel!

[@kimberlychambers9748]

I dont have pity for him. I can see his poor health and down fall😂

[@roselyngdoh8158]

They are so expert in laying and cheating

[@janetmoturi3405]

Soooooo boring they are

[@virginiaharvey]

Narcs boring .true predictable

[@moonchild-thirty-thr33]

Bored at the beginning maybe. After that it's a horror show.