10 Signs of Fake Nice People

Are you wondering if you have a fake friend? Or colleague? Fake nice people are sometimes hard to spot, so we made a video to help you recognize some of the signs. #psych2go
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[@Psych2go]

Who here likes cats? Comment below.

[@ovi5986]

me

[@yumenousagi9878]

Who doesn't

[@rin5949]

Me

[@auroradazzle_]

MEEEEEE Who doesn't omg

[@heelothehamster3013]

Psych2Go me i have three CAT's

[@ceilingfan2007]

I feel like I'm a fake nice person sometimes :(

[@kathyflores3152]

Jake Aruna same here buddy

[@Psych2go]

Really? What points did you relate to in this video?

[@ovi5986]

same

[@crumbreth5595]

No one is perfect. I think everyone can relate to at least one of these traits at some point in their lives. It's okay buddy ❤️♥️

[@katejo9663]

Me too. I never mean to hurt any people.

[@jorispoels3183]

When you open a bag of chips and everybody starts acting nice

[@speedskater5613]

Joris Poels when I open a can of cat food my cats start acting nice! 😂

[@doomslayerplushie6662]

When I open my shark food my sharks start acting nice

[@trinis8726]

Bruh im just "gimme gimme" XD

[@erinbathie-moore8478]

Literally my old high school classmates

[@valwowrie]

When you have a pack of gum= everyone ask to have some 🤣

[@OBV1DAL1LAH]

I fake smile only when my depression gets worse They are common in middle school 💀💀💀💀

[@divishadevanshi443]

Same here bro.

[@aakwok9240]

Same

[@margaretteschmidt4423]

Oof same

[@TJDW]

I’d rather a person be my enemy, then for them to keep on pretending to care about me, just stop wasting both of our time.

[@alwayspeace898]

these are sick unhappy people wanna bring u down at the end when they show their true self. run for yr life

[@osse1n]

*#1 sign of FAKE people - their WORDS are not CONGRUENT with their ACTIONS.* They say one thing and do another. Watch their actions, they speak louder than words.

[@hannahf.572]

O'SSÉIN - Master Your Mind With Me true

[@leslieking9657]

O'SSÉIN - Master Your Mind With Me Yep! Or that they said they aren’t gonna do something but they do the same thing they said they wouldn’t do.

[@euphoricrenaissance955]

So true, especially if they try to excuse themselves or blame someone else for making them do it and then try to make you sympathize with them afterwards. Also a sign they're toxic af. Knew a person like that.

[@joea874]

Couldn’t agree with this more. I’ve had people in my life apologise and say they would change all the time but they never did.

[@MindNow]

Leslie King have you encountered people like that?

[@zuko1569]

Someone gave me diamonds in Minecraft the next day he pushed me into the lava.

[@Hello-rw2th]

Zuzu the biggest betrayal of all...

[@louiselavigne5085]

what in the world

[@danimato1833]

Just stop following me your are the new Justin Y. CMON STAY AWAY FROM ME I AM WAITING FOR HATARAKU SAIBOU SEASON 2

[@nicolevanderwesthuizen3016]

*Top 10 anime betrayals* But seriously, HOW DARE HEEEEE!😡

[@aurellianarujan6226]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@AriPicard]

About #4... I was raised in a very abusive home and was forced to “change my mood” to satisfy my abuser. Now that I am an adult, I am capable of switching from very sad, to “professional” when at work or in public. I had to develop this ability while growing up to survive whichever crisis I was thrown into. So yes, fake nice people do that, but not everyone who does that is a fake nice person.

[@indiragajaraj3088]

Only one like? Lemme fix that :D

[@_..-.._..-.._]

I feel for you, I had to make my parents get along by being funny or cute, it is a skill though. Once you realize that you do it, you can choose whether you should continue or stop.

[@brucewayne8550]

While my circumstances weren't as bad as yours, I did grow up relatively isolated and withdrawn- it made me feel like a weirdo and a failure constantly. So over time, I just kind of learned how to switch off how I feel about certain things so I didn't feel like shit 24/7, and can switch on a dime from sympathetic and kind to cold and critical when the situation calls for it. So yeah, while I'm definitely not faking being nice as I generally try to be, I know how to turn it off whenever I deem necessary

[@kingmewto7148]

Now it has 125 likes it’s come so far I liked it too

[@-e-9661]

I find myself able to recover my blank face very quickly after being hurt (crying, physical pain, etc) I put on a brave, fake smile or emotionless face for the people around me like my friends and family because my mum once told me she doesn't want to see my face when I'm crying. To conclude, no, I dont find fake smiles particularly bad, if it covers up the bad mood I probably bring with my presence

[@newflesh666]

"how many times have you received a compliment and wondered if it was sincere?" everytime. literally every single time.

[@chonkashyohbi2987]

Psych2go : fake nice people are rare everyone: hold my smile

[@angelajennings1633]

They're everywhere.

[@angelajennings1633]

@@chonkashyohbi2987 hey, you can always control yourself. Start today.

[@juliapan9638]

everyone in my school is fake

[@trckygamer5966]

lol

[@faerielo]

I feel like everyone is fake now

[@1millionsubswithonly2video39]

Psyc2go: “Fake nice people are very rare” Classmates: “Am I a joke to you?”

[@freebuzz4413]

Psyco2go: " Fake nice people are very rare" Classmates: Am I joke to you? Classmates pearents : Let me take my belt off then...😂😂😂

[@HorrorFactoryInc]

Fake nice people are not rare, they are everywhere ...

[@siptraw6962]

It really depends on perspective

[@HorrorFactoryInc]

@@siptraw6962 Tell me what you mean?

[@meifengxie9465]

Gacha Baka I can relate to this 100% unfortunately.. :’)

[@daemonwulfe]

The easiest way to tell if a person is genuinely nice or not is to be mean to them or don't give them what they ask for and see how fast they turn.

[@aminad6903]

I think it’s very important to point out that several of these behaviors also apply to those with autism spectrum disorder. It takes some time and effort to parse out the nuanced differences and making snap judgements based on lists like these can lead you to avoid friendships with some fantastic people...who just also happen to have autism!

[@GeminiPlatypus]

I have autism. I keep it in a little jar and bring it out for show and tell sometimes

[@stephy369]

It still isnt fair to the other person in a relationship. Autism or not, don’t mask, lie or be fake. It causes the other person to believe you are someone you are not. A couple months later when the real you comes out… it turns out the other person was just dating a ghost.

[@TheFirstManticore]

"Fake" smiles are not always a sign of ill will. Most of the time, the person is just trying to be polite.

[@mrjohnnyk]

Yeah I think it's all on how it is handled. Like, are they trying to keep peace or are they trying to take advantage.

[@plainoldcereal9409]

It’s like how the kid who bullies me calls me useless and irrelevant, but I always try to put a smile on my face when he decides to be nice

[@flare_studios.]

When listening to my friend ramble on about her character backstories and her real life, I'm genuinely interested, but I don't tend to emote, if that makes sense. She could be explaining the climax of her written stories and I'd be excited but I'd keep a straight face or even look bored (even if I'm not). I dont know if that's normal or not but uhh... yeah. So yeah, uh, I 'fake' smile a lot but like her genuinely and she's one of the few friends that I truly trust and feel like I could vent to or just be close to 'myself' without being judged so no ill will there

[@TheFirstManticore]

@@flare_studios. I am somewhat the same. Often I do not show the emotions I feel, and this can actually be a problem sometimes. And often I don't recognize someone else's emotion by facial expression. So I think this is a good approach on your part. If you have any doubt, ask your friend how she feels about it, and if she doesn't understand, explain it to her. You may have heard of Asperger's syndrome, a form of mild autism. People with autism, though they have feelings the same as anybody else, often have trouble expressing them or recognizing the emotions of others. Yet you can tell them how you feel, and they can tell you how they feel; and this is a great help. I am not saying that you have autism, or that I do [nobody ever told me so]. But the principle is the same; words can sometimes make up for a lack of facial expression. Or then again, somebody who knows you very well may understand perfectly because they are used to you.

[@ninetypangel28]

i am very sad right now so i put o a fake smile mask

[@elie2368]

Nobody: Me: watches this to make sure I’m not faking being nice

[@brittneybutler2491]

Me too!

[@yaelfeder9042]

Same!

[@user-wu6iy9wi1s]

kinda the same thing xD

[@treasure7192]

me too

[@Hereforfunsies]

Turns out I'm a fake nice person, cause I fake smiling, I can't help faking my smile, It's natural,

[@Reggae023]

Sometimes I act nice to people because they are annoying but I don’t want to hurt their feelings

[@Agheel963]

The false smile when you tell them something good happening to you. Noticed this on friends faces. It was always about them

[@sleepylhei]

"Fake nice people are rare?" Thats probably my favorite joke ever-

[@jamietomalin3815]

haha your so naive aren't you ..... ITS THE HOLE OF THE WOLRD!

[@acetiagan1594]

Yes🤣🤣 I see them everywhere, I'm just observing them and keep in my mind that they can't be trusted🤣🤣

[@imsentinelprime9279]

Im one

[@homulillyakemi9089]

AHAHAHA

[@nightmaresdrawnstudios8767]

Meet middle school girls. It’s a majority population

[@michaella1453]

I don’t think I’m a fake nice person, I’m just an introvert faking being extrovert

[@meistdebbi5388]

same bruh-

[@kbr7625]

Bruh lmfaaaoo same I feel seen let's hug

[@belieall9974]

man, don’t do that. it’ll drain you even faster than regular socializing does

[@sher0712]

Sameeeee

[@kookiiekream8677]

Sammme ahahha

[@kreativernickname4031]

Some of these signs can be easily misunderstood tho, for example, if someone seems like they´re not listening to you, they may not be able to hear good or just can´t concentrate for some reason.

[@CatraIsAdora-ble]

3:53 I do this a lot. I didn't know it was rude/toxic, I just thought telling my experience would help them know what possibilities they might be able to face and how I faced them. Sure, we all have different experiences, but if they had something similar happen to them as it did to me, then they'd know how to possibly get by it. Someone asked me about their experiences with being trans and coming out. I told them my experience and how I dealt with it, and tried to give them ideas about what they should do if something happened. I didn't know it was toxic or rude, I just thought I was helping them feel as if they weren't alone and they'd have me to talk to if something bad happened or they needed more help.

[@G0ry_Kori]

Same i feel you. I honestly got in a arguement with my friend in october because she was tired and drained of always talking about myself..Honestly i never knew how i acted where it got worse and worse..I feel so bad now for my actions back then..

[@littlebee931]

Psych2Go: "Fake nice people are very rare" My classmates: observe.

[@hajeelei]

-Do we have the same classmates?-

[@yuh6840]

Lol.Just like my classmates

[@cgibson1141]

Same

[@jel_taime]

*I CAN RELATE~~~*

[@-_Nat_-]

That’s is so accurate.

[@griime3749]

1. Humble Bragging 2. Passive Aggresive Behaviour 3. Ghosting (disapear from your life in a moment) 4. Crocodile Tears (fake emotions) 5. Fake smile 6. Doesnt listen to you, when you talk 7. ALWAYS seem to need something 8. Only nice to people who have power 9. They gossip and Criticize others 10. Actually kinda rare If you want to thank me, just like the comment :)

[@backgroundcharacter4118]

andrew “Fake nice people are rare” Me: Huh. Guess I’m a rare breed 😏

[@nosferat5395]

andrew not gonna lie, I do the ghosting pretty often

[@ozzyplaysxd2458]

My friend iş 8 and 3

[@outatisater7943]

I liked your comment, but just for your knowledge that was a fake like. I don't really value the effort you put to make this list.

[@_DearDarling_]

BRUH MEEEEE EXCEPT NUMBER 9. I hate that shit

[@hoodrat279]

If you just sit back and observe and trust your spirit, you'll find most people aren't worth talking to.

[@tomrodgers6629]

Fake nice people are not as rare as you think. I have been dealing with these weasels for years. The internet is great tool for these cowards.

[@gabby_5820]

"Fake friends fake their smiles" Depression: Uh huh.

[@MasaUnix]

I normally can't laugh, I am usually very depressed to actually laught at something and always fake my smiles/laugh

[@gabby_5820]

@@MasaUnix Lol, i can't laugh because I get super hyper because of that lul

[@gabby_5820]

@I love Angelique Cool.

[@nencrows_4580]

@I love Angelique Same

[@ninetypangel28]

i have a real deppretion my dad died i had someone try to kill me and i just put on a smile fake mask

[@melissawaters7405]

Ghosting may be done because introvert...or social anxiety..

[@personwholikesgames268]

Melissa Sayide Or Depression

[@bottsou1257]

Ghosting is an irresponsible way to act in healthy relationships. In adolescence, it can be moreso detrimental, as people who are not fully emotionally matured are likely to react disproportionately to it and assume the worst (I’m being ignored, I’m unwanted! They think I’m annoying,), which creates tension and cultivates resentment or self-esteem issues on both sides. If you care enough about someone, you must have the courage to be honest with them and tell them that you will not always be available. Be reassuring that it isn’t their fault. If they are a true friend then they will understand and be supportive of you. If they do not understand this, or do not empathize with your condition (be it introversion, disability, SAD/GAD, etc) then they are not the type of friend you will want in your life for the long term. Do not be afraid to let people know directly when you are struggling or need alone time. Not only will it improve your social skills but it will show you who your true friends are.

[@ziokandakakaelani6582]

I have a lot of introvert friends. They never ghosting because introvert prefer texting than actually speaking face to face. Meanwhile, my extrovert friend never respond to my text unless he is the one who need help. He also tend to be more friendly with people with higher power. I really agree with this video.

[@Opinionated05]

zio kaelani hey not all extrovert are like that ok. My bff is an extrovert but, she is still answers all my text and help people when they need ok.

[@ziokandakakaelani6582]

@@Opinionated05 i did not say that all extrovert are fake nice people. You misinterpret my comment. I take one of my extrovet friend just for an example.

[@zippyzap2356]

You guys really grew! And I love your channel!!! Thank you for feeling my curiosity with actual answers I can rely on most the time!!! Keep up the good work!^^

[@anushkasapre7421]

I often worry that I'm fake in my niceness. This video is a great introduction to your topic. If Psych2Go is up for suggestions, could you cover something on how to gauge one's authenticity and genuineness with sentiments?

[@aer2755]

The world is full of "fake nice" people. They aren't rare.

[@cSedx00022]

Bruh. I am one. XD

[@laprincesamwah]

Sadly yes.

[@Andrea-sl8wd]

Word, they are all over the workplace!

[@shawnaginther1987]

@@Andrea-sl8wd that they are.

[@catherineclarke937]

Yeah they’re all on Twitter

[@Liz_marshmallow_and_Cookie22]

Fake smiles can also be a sign of depression and ghosting could also be a sign of anxiety.

[@kristenglenn7026]

For anybody interested in subjects like this I recommend a book called The Four Agreements. The author talks about the way people treat you or what they think about you-the thought from the Toltec (an ancient spiritual set of beliefs) it blew me away what the author stated how you should feel when people say something bad or good about you or to you. It has made me not care what others think be it bad or good (as much as humanely possible) & to only care about how you view yourself! Assumption is another thing! Wow! How I could’ve saved myself some serious drama when i was younger if i knew to never assume! For some reason this video reminded me of this book & those 2 subjects in particular. Just thought I’d share. It’s not a religious book by any means but more a book of the soul or spirit & of self

[@cute511teddy]

Thank you. Same situations. I was stressed over same. Will check that book. ❤

[@EMFObserver]

Video unclear.. I am now doubting the authenticity of my own niceness.

[@kitcat2449]

I doubt nothing. I'm a dick.

[@aly7214]

Me too... I’m super passive aggressive, but not to people who are actually nice

[@evertheeevee2011]

My foot is stuck in a phone case. This happened 2 months ago

[@white_mochi]

YUP, me too

[@zoerodrigues7987]

So am i

[@Drawmatic]

**Me realizing that all of my "friends" are like this*

[@damgam98]

Yea...

[@beidoumimujer7783]

Yea 😔

[@Cat-oo3zl]

Drawmatic yeah ;~;

[@terrarianangel8274]

F's in the chat

[@shaneakin19]

Stop making it too relatable XD I have like 2-3 real friends

[@blaqjade1384]

Fake nice people get on my nerves pretending to be helpful when really they're trying to be controlling. They want to take pictures of you and everyone else but don't want to get in the picture. They want you to come to their house for a party because they can control who enters and who they put out. Their generosity is always tethered to some ulterior motive that you are unaware of at the time when you accept their generosity. Fake nice people are those people that nobody feels that they can criticize for their phoniness but everyone has gotten a taste of their venom but are afraid to stand up to them.

[@parkerkeele5924]

I’ve lived with and around a lot of fake nice people, and I’m dealing with the aftermath of one right now. Don’t let yourself get taken advantage of when you are trying to be genuinely kind. People are really good at building up a good, fake reputation for themselves.

[@4321user-_]

I'm an introvert but when I try to be more "extroverted", i feel like a fake person :(

[@Reem-jy5kl]

Faking is different than “being fake”

[@4321user-_]

@@Reem-jy5kl I guess so but when you consistently fake you're being a fake person right?

[@davontarobinson5555]

Gabby K. I disagree if you know you’re faking and you despise it ... it most likely means that you’re really a nice person that doesn’t know how to show it IMO

[@4321user-_]

@@davontarobinson5555 true

[@Reem-jy5kl]

Gabby K. Fake people don’t know or aware that they are dear! I believe you are a nice person maybe ppl around you are not up to your niceness ❤️

[@hastimaleki4981]

When u have gum and everyone starts acting like you've been friends for years

[@jerriiimochi9176]

I just go like Hippity Hippity and dis now mine. And actually run away and joke around

[@love_flower4334]

Hasti maleki i just touch it and say oh no im sorry its gpt germs but it would anway

[@eiwaa4837]

Yes.

[@poohbear3849]

Yh😂😂😂 where I'm from they be hugging and telling you all the good things they've done for you or how long they've known you just to get a piece😂😂😂

[@telescope_6990]

I always have a full packet and an empty packet, so when I slide one out and everyone wants some I hold up the empty packet and boof THEY GONE

[@greylizard1040]

A warning sign can also be if someone treats almost everyone else in their life poorly and expresses a cruel hatred towards the majority of people for just existing, but is sweet as pie to you. Those are dangerous people to be close to. If something doesn't add up and doesn't make sense about their kindness, keep a careful distance. Something to do when something seems off about someone is to pay attention to the claims that people make about themselves. Don't point out any of their contradictory statements about themselves and their actions, just make a mental note of it, because those are people to be really careful around as well. Ghosting is usually a huge indicator of depression, or that person's stress in their life burning them out. Don't always assume they are ghosting unless you see them doing a bunch of stuff with other people all the time and not with you and they just ignore you. Social media can be very misleading about what a person is really going through. If someone doesn't respond or have any interest in you, then move on and wait for them to make a move. I am usually the friend that checks in on people, I maintain many one sided friendships unfortunately. So many people just don't know how to care about others and appreciate them with equal effort. Something to ask yourself is maybe you have been too reliant on them maintaining the friendship and being the one to reach out. That isn't always the case, but if that's not something you know how to do then friendships will eventually fade away. Honestly, most of my friends are like that and are clueless about it. At least with me. One hard truth in life is that we all know too many people for each of them to hold top priority. Sometimes I message people and they are actually really glad that I reached out because they were insanely lonely but don't know how to be the one to say hello first, especially if they're feeling down. When you meet someone who genuinely cares about you (and I mean really ACTUALLY cares) and has nothing to gain from it other than mutual friendship, those are the people to keep in your life and to make important.

[@bratscworpse]

"Fake people often don't listen" Deaf people: *What?*

[@imaginarychip4916]

Lol this is so underrated

[@bratscworpse]

@@imaginarychip4916 UwU

[@shirleywong4333]

real people often don't talk

[@chakydd]

Perfect lmfao

[@pedroriku3191]

???

[@chri8067]

Sometimes being fake nice just to keep peace.

[@oMehrcy]

Always

[@yookster8239]

yeah!! but you don’t do it all the time to others, it’s just to avoid conflict like you said :0

[@bawicz0]

I m skinny

[@lauramalizia9636]

Agreed.

[@jorto5749]

I don't think this is "fake nice"; more like understanding a situation and help calm the tides. Fake nic-ing is more of a lifestyle, if i understand it right.

[@amandaw6951]

confront someone that you think is a fake nice person with a very uncomfortable question and see if they become defensive then you'll know they're fake or hiding something they don't want people to know

[@aniaacw4497]

Honestly. The thing I struggle the most with is dealing with people are fake to me. People will ghost or fake being friends with me, and I end up sometimes returning the emotions. I don’t like doing it, but it feels good to get those people back. It’s hard to figure out if you are mean for a reason, or just doing it with crocodile tears. I still struggle with this.

[@retrofan81]

As a Facebook meme says, “You see a person’s true colors when you are no longer beneficial in their life.”

[@Triadii]

But I was never beneficial in anyone’s life

[@zaink7037]

Believe its true. The girl I liked who I stopped seeing after school 4 years later I found she got married. She came across as a nice decent girl. Well 2 friends I spoke to recently don't like her with her nasty behaviour. Found out things about her which made me realise she was never the girl I liked and imagined

[@stephenmcinerney9457]

@@Triadii Then blessed you be

[@m.a.156]

Be nice to people ... I'm on this earth to use people as tools to achieve my goals, and I treat my tools well and nicely so that they serve me well. Anyone have problem with my view on the world.

[@cadenadelreino1442]

Ouch

[@rinhd1977]

This is how you teach people. School should take notes

[@Psych2go]

So what did you learn today? :)

[@rinhd1977]

@@Psych2go All of it. Your voice so calm and blissful

[@polarbarrrs]

Agreed. She has an awesome voice and also if kids understood psychology that applies to everyday social situations like this it would help tremendously with their daily lives and careers..

[@northshift]

Why would they? Schools(private) and unis are just a form of business now

[@Anna-nw1ge]

True.. KZbin has better teachers .. and moreover better lessons # *life lessons*

[@yurei2057]

2 years late but, I'm glad to run across this video and channel, This could of helped me in so many ways in my past, Had many people I thought were real too me but turned out to be fake friends and only in it for themselves, Gained my sub.

[@polarwolf3527]

My old "bestfriend" doesn't only always lie to be popular, she also fakes being nice. And it actually worked. 😔

[@laprincesamwah]

"Fake people are rare." Me who is always surrounded by fake people: *actually-*

[@EvilFlurffyKitten2256]

Fake *nice* people.

[@sethvin4593]

I feel you

[@OmegaX_2340]

And nice people are more rare.

[@lightly7717]

Omg same my friends always want money and are nice to people with power

[@OmegaX_2340]

Jake man i wish i had people like that. I’m true to myself all the time but it just feels like everyone leaves me because I’m not good enough for them

[@sunshinegaming5458]

#1 thing to remember. If one of your “friends” gossip to you about other friends or people, be aware cause if they talk about other friends they most likely talk about you behind your back to others too!

[@ketereissmore3967]

Why would anyone expose their secrets tho, it's literally unsafe

[@fourthcasper6161]

Omg that is true

[@polarbarrrs]

This is one of those rules/quotes that has never failed me. It seems that people that gossip or don’t care about others are so selfish that they could literally do that to anyone

[@paulflint6254]

thats true

[@linkinlog8543]

@ my ex friend

[@hotmommymilkers]

crying sobbing SHARTING with anger issues, separation anxiety, depression, boredom

[@trainkeenpilates5227]

Unless you are ghosting someone who has stabbed you in the back and is 2-faced. It’s okay to pull away from people like that.

[@brandonhoman3362]

Just because someone ghosted you does not mean that they're "a fake nice person". They could be dealing with depression and other mental problems and may just need some space.

[@-dfh-866]

Exactly what I said. I was kinda offended BC more times its BC of depression or in my case social anxiety. If I didn't like someone I wouldn't pretend to be nice, I jst wouldn't tlk to them. Why waste my time trying to make ppl I dnt like, like me by being fake nice to them? Stupid

[@jaosjkxjzfo]

It’s just one more signal. It doesn’t mean that if one of all these 10 signals happen, they are fake nice people.

[@chand3123k]

Thank you. When ghosting was on here. I was like wtf? People go through things, and they have to take time to disappear and go on their journey. It doesn't mean the time they spent with you, they weren't being genuinely kind.

[@Pink_Oof]

Yeah

[@tylerw800]

Okay but it’s not hard to say that you need space or don’t want to talk currently lol

[@extrapathos]

Me: *sees title* , let's see just how relatable this is.

[@lawlietyagami9857]

Laura P same lmao

[@llbeerus7728]

Not even joking ,lmao

[@dudeman3]

Lmao , I literally thought about the same thing

[@extrapathos]

Lmao so many likes!!! ✧◝(⁰▿⁰)◜✧

[@a_shan8662]

OH MY GOSH ME!! I WAS GOING TO COMMENT THISSS 😊😂

[@Internetgribbler]

the ghosting part is just them watching one of yuh videos about "10 signs that you have toxic friends" and then interpreting everysingle thing a person does as them being toxic

[@TylaJade908]

Thank you for making this channel this channel is making my life much much much better

[@shadowofsilence7663]

Ghosting doesn't always means you're faking For an introverted person like me It's a pain to have a long conversation even if its your REAL friend

[@homulillyakemi9089]

So you just act like they don't exist???

[@shadowofsilence7663]

@@homulillyakemi9089 no, I reply to them immediately once I'm comfortable to do so or if they're in an emergency or they need help i reply to them as fast as I can

[@ceeace8936]

I am actually agree to this cause I don't think everybody who ghosting is actually a fake nice person. They might have their reasons behind it tho.

[@user-name3366]

Yes, I'm also a introverted person.

[@spillthet1098]

@Sunflower Shine it's very rude to just leave them on read just say gtg or something

[@doktorryeen5124]

I ghost people so much but that's because I need my alone time. People can be a stressor for me

[@kenshin6553]

You could tell them that

[@btsarmy-xs6cx]

@cinnamon _EMT same, i feel like they think there is something wrong with me because i'm quite.

[@blue_cameron]

@@btsarmy-xs6cx some people see quiet people as an easy target to harass or abuse because they are less likely to get in trouble for it. If you don't like confrontation say "yeaaaah???? " every time they say something stupid.

[@TheHaters112]

Same bro. Was talking to 7 people at once one day for 2 hours then I said to myself. I need to stop. Since then I have had nice reduced conversation. Short, simple and funny.

[@littlestars4683]

Same

[@thnatdrip]

you just explained my whole personality in one video. I feel bad about my behavior, I didn't mean to. It just- happens.

[@MisstressMourtisha]

When you change yourself you change the world -Gojira

[@Mr.Solar_Eclipse]

I needed this before i found out my bestie was a fake kind person

[@daschababineca4560]

1. Humble Bragging 0:36 2. Passive Aggressive Behaviour 1:12 3. Ghosting 1:51 4. Crocodile Tears 2:21 5. How to spot a fake smile 2:54 6. Fake nice people can‘t listen 3:22 7. They always seem to want something 4:02 8. They‘re only nice to people who have power. 4:28 9. They like to gossip and criticize others. 4:54 10. Fake nice people are actually pretty rare 5:40

[@Psych2go]

Thank you! :)

[@daschababineca4560]

Psych2Go ❤️😂

[@bwooja2031]

Imo i feel like #10 is incorrect. Either that or i'm a psychopath. Honestly i've been putting up a front of being "nice" for years now. I'd smile as bright as i could, be that cheery happy-go-lucky girl in front of everyone and offering my "help" whenever i could. I'd only offer "help" when i don't have anything to lose and helping doesnt cause a problem for me. And i do those stuff like planning ahead in the day how i'm going to act towards this specific person because i want this thing out of him. Most of the time, i want them to either do me a favour or accompany me somewhere because i used to be hella' scared of being alone. If anything else, i feel like i can relate to at least 80% of those signs mentioned in the video :[ If it helps, the last few vudeos in my history is all about how to get people to listen to you, how to change people's minds, how to gain other's respects and similar titles.

[@MediaEnslavedNation]

This is a list of narcissistic personality disorder characteristics.

[@daschababineca4560]

baa i can completly relate 😕

[@Emmelmpau]

11: Using guilt trips. And gaslighting. And blame denial.

[@Psych2go]

Those are definitely additional signs. Manipulation is always a tell tale sign. Have you experienced these?

[@Emmelmpau]

Psych2Go I think _everyone_ has experienced these signs at some point in their life, especially from people they thought they could trust.

[@potato1674]

@@Emmelmpau I couldn't agree more

[@marialindbjarnadottir4961]

Doe i agree

[@twiztedskull9063]

I think that narcissism plays a part.

[@lokisharaf3903]

Sometimes people be fake friends with you just so they don't appear rude or mean, and so they appear nice, and they don't want you to HATE them but they also don't like being your friend. I mean it's okay if someone doesn't wanna be your friend cuz you can always find better friends. Being a nice fake friend is bad in a good way as they don't want you to feel lonely but they don't wanna be friends with you

[@annafurmaniak8981]

I do this for other's sake, because I really don't wish to hurt others.

[@foodngems]

I prefer people who are open about being not nice. They are the most honest people!

[@TiffanyRay]

Yup then i can stay the fuck anyway from them

[@kzhe]

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[@kookiemons9315]

Sometimes these kind of "honest'' people are just rude and pretend they are honest.

[@foodngems]

@@kookiemons9315 they are rude but at least not fake. Both are bad, but one is a better poison than the other I suppose

[@foodngems]

@SHERINA BT SHERIDAN - I think I'd just avoid people like that. It's easier to spot them and not waste energy in them 🙂

[@staylovingyedam3613]

After watching this I think I’m probably the fakest person I know

[@dyzii2905]

Same cuz I pretend to be happy when I'm near my friends but inside I feel annoyed

[@imacupcake]

Juliana Rojas -im faker than james charles’ apology-

[@estherjung5794]

I am...so guilty of doing this. My friends call me a politician too so.....

[@sundes2807]

LOL

[@sundes2807]

@@dyzii2905 😂😂😂

[@SpiritXD22-633]

So I guess that the person I always doubted is a fake friend while my bestie is A TRUE FRIEND!

[@dm3590]

Number 3 I agree. After being friends for a while and then completely cut you out of their life through ignoring you, and that behind the phone, once you guys shared contacts and go home. That is a big sign of fake niceness, and to me, there is also half-ghosting, never writing you first, or simply plain making excuses, such as after such a nice time with that "friend", you guys go home and one hopes the other one will write him, being reliable, and making time for you and vice-versa. However, when you do need him or invite him to go out or just have a conversation, that person makes excuses not to do so, making you feel suspicious and hurt, or that person flat out ignores you or after a small conversation then ignores you, known as half-ghosting. Or you are waiting for a text message and the person never writes you. Such people believe they can get away with that, without telling any truth in the face. In other words, people show their true colors, when you guys interact with each other behind the phone, because they are cowards. About number 7, yes it sucks that people only want to be friends with you for their own purposes and convenience. Then don't be friends at all? there is no point in them starting a friendship, if they intentionally use others as pawns, which makes them lose said friends anyway, since we are not up to working for jerks, and deep down they actually know that! What exactly are such people trying to accomplish in their lives? And why do such people think that this person has "something they want"? What exactly is this "something"? We are just regular human beings trying to socialize and be liked, that's all. I don't see us possessing anything. They think that they will only be nice, when "they want something" or when they feel like it, and then they turn back to being cold or what? Number 8, is the hardest truth I heard. They are ONLY nice to people who have "power". I think that EVERY human deserves respect, second of all I think it is only THEIR interpretation, that their victim doesn't have power, while the other person does, and finds it convenient to mistreat him while respecting the other. For such people, it is all about convenience, what suits well for THEM, and especially control, thinking they can do whatever the hell they want, when in reality, they are actually disrespectful. I could never treat people like that, and these people have to be taught a lesson! And lastly number 10, is actually wrong. Fake People are WAY more common that you think!

[@ForensicsLabwithDrDan]

The best sign for a fake person is when they don't act as they speak. The actions aren't congruent with their words. Look for what they do, not what they tell.

[@Psych2go]

That's a great advice! Any others?

[@ForensicsLabwithDrDan]

@@Psych2go thanks psych -- most of my advice is on how not to die lol. but that seems useful to me

[@ForensicsLabwithDrDan]

@@Cxurtney sorry courtney -- just another step in life to make us stronger people!

[@beautyforlife2996]

Yuppppp. Say they are there for you but their actions tell a different story

[@ForensicsLabwithDrDan]

@@beautyforlife2996 just shrug it off - those people are usually a lot less happy than it seems sometimes!

[@nothingsofar8535]

Fake nice guy: "taking notes" on what not to do.

[@InvalidPersistentName]

Hehehehheheh

[@akananightstar6538]

That’s so dangerous 😰

[@artiscrutial]

nothing SO FAR 🤣😂

[@brendabalzan1994]

@Caleb Pederson or Game of Thorns...

[@brendabalzan1994]

@Ukreain Iowen Nice guy syndrome... Entitled guy cause "he is nice", and can't see or accept their fault.

[@volcarona.]

i needed these types of videos so bad as i am so paranoid that everyone around me is secretly hating me. :(

[@avxxry._3738]

My best friend texts me and even treats me bad and sometimes nice then she literally acts like i'm a ghost at school

[@suryaprakashsaxena8419]

1. Humble bragging 2. Passive aggresive behavior 3. Ghosting 4. Crocodile tears 5. Fake smile 6. Not really listen 7. They always seem to want something. 8. They are only nice to people who have power. 9. They like to gossip and criticize other. 10. Fake nice people are rare.

[@jamestaylor2455]

Unfortunately cause I'm a musician in San Francisco CA playing Saxophone, there are plenty of fake nice people here, especially the techies.....and 85% of the bay area people have all ten of those qualities about them

[@naileamartinez2771]

Backhanded aswell

[@bria4776]

Oh my days

[@winning3329]

Sounds like everyone in California

[@noonegirl]

Thank you 😊

[@saraphiquell8712]

“Fake nice people fake their emotion” *Actors:*

[@gerardgmz]

Hupokrisis in Greek: acting of a theatrical part. The word hypocrisy originated from this.

[@fartmomentum7510]

i have a friend named abram and he always criticizes people even me and my other friends and we got in a fight about it if he talks crap about me or my friend again its treason then

[@thekinginyellow7656]

This.... this is such a better video on this topic than the current one

[@thatonemelody]

This hit hard when one of the relationships with my friends that is currently falling off due to how they have been acting doesn’t just act like some of the stuff in this video but does so enough to where thats one of the main reasons on why the relationship is falling off. And it hits even harder how the crocodile tears part fits in a bit snuggly but is mixed in with another one of these when I told them about 3 or 4 times that we can’t be friends. Damn.

[@superman23cuse]

The ghosting one really needs context. You can't paint everyone with one brush. Sometimes I drop off the earth bc I have pretty bad depression and think everyone secretly hates me. I want to reach out and talk to to ppl all the time but don't want to burden/annoy.

[@emillozanov7840]

That's okay! Ghosting isn't bad when there's a valid reason, but when other fake nice traits apply to the ghoster it is a red flag.

[@kimmiecherrylilfox]

I wonder if I'm fake for ghosting too. But one of the reasons is that I think I just got tired from some ppl bc I can't feel good with them and the other one is that when I'm in social media or with my friends I just forget about time and then my responsibilities so I just try to keep myself from chat with my friends bc of this.

[@squimbwarftestiballs]

I’ve never related so much to a certain commentb

[@mosaicubaby2278]

In these cases I usually honestly say that I'm not very well and I might drop out for a while, it was always okay, people understand

[@MarcelaElviraTimis]

Same here

[@nor-ainpandapatan4581]

I'm here to find out if I have some fake people in my life But I only realize that I am one of them...

[@spartanwar1185]

top ten biggest plot twists

[@loralynf.9722]

We all are

[@tirarose]

Exactly! Lmfao

[@bmajestysurrell4081]

It does seem because of society we don't really have a choice but to be less genuine and more business appropriate

[@nor-ainpandapatan4581]

@@bmajestysurrell4081 i think i learned more meaningful things coz of u than my math subject

[@alliahs-a819]

I relate to a few of these topics, but I think it depends on the situation. I'm burnt out but I have to put on a smile for work and as someone who lived in a bad family situation where I was the emotional camel, I feel like relating topics back to myself is the only way I can keep myself from delving into being other people's therapist...

[@MisstressMourtisha]

Same man

[@Deanobucko917]

I think in high school and before, mock-befriending is quite common; when you graduate and go off into the real world, people no longer have the patience, time or energy to say things they don’t mean or hang out with people they don’t really like.

[@titlespree]

No matter how much fake people try to be nice, you can just feel negative energy coming from them!

[@mehreenfatima7503]

So true

[@polarbarrrs]

Exactly. Everything is energy. Your gut will tell you if something is off

[@EchthelionII]

I completely agree. That's one of the reasons I prefer to talk face to face, even though I hate doing that.

[@r.t.5767]

@@EchthelionII Exactly the same here, except I hate writing (when I know I can meet her/him), and like to talk face to face I don't like even phone calling, just face to face :D

[@lifestories5189]

Your black

[@norahammes2029]

"Ghosting" I sometimes just freaking forget answering texts and I hate it lmao

[@sunfruit83]

sometimes ur phone gets confiscated and u cant do anything about it

[@moved7820]

Same lmao

[@andreasleonlandgren3092]

This is a humble brag.

[@adrianaaleksandrova9670]

Or sometimes you can truly understand and appreciate someone without wanting any relationship with them, but people start to expect too much from you.

[@BloomTotallyHere]

Yea same

[@viineph]

I've learned how to fake smile like a pro after my mom made me pose for too many pictures

[@O.LEO.N]

Number 1. For me is, constantly trying to start conversations and then ending them with a false laugh.

[@seefathgazalee8075]

Fake friends are like shadows. They follow u in the sun but leave u in the dark.

[@cup1d.181]

That's deep.

[@jacquelineburns7598]

oh very powerful this true and very painful when it happens to you.

[@MyEgoRules]

Omg I love this answer 🥰

[@lazaresofthewest7678]

I’m talking about my “friends” to clear things up

[@ball396]

Woah those are some deep words

[@smxldckenerqy7898]

I couldn’t find the summary comment so here it is: 1. Humble bragging AKA False Modesty 2. Passive Aggressive Behavior 3. Ghosting 4. Crocodile Tears AKA Faking Emotion 5. Fake Smiles (How to spot a fake smile? True smiles have wrinkles around their eyes) 6. Can’t Listen 7. They always seem to want something 8. They’re only nice to people who have power 9. They like to gossip and criticize others 10. Fake nice people are pretty rare And yes, I know this video is a year old, but I hope this comment will help anyways

[@SoonMrWick]

Are summary comments a thing? I have never seen one in the comments... but to be fair, I don't watch too many list type videos. This is why I wish I could follow commenters on KZbin... I think it's a big missed opportunity IMO. Unless you can and I don't know about that as well.

[@SoonMrWick]

Ha... you can 🤣, just not the way I thought.

[@stoneboy1708]

Wow alot of type

[@DarthRudious00]

4, 5, and 8 are the only three I’m NOT guilty of. How can I fix myself?

[@sadiestoltzfus9798]

@@darthspeaks6451 Be genuine if you want to tell someone to f-off don't be fake. Just let it out. Don't placate people with false emotion. If you don't give a damn about them be honest.

[@mrtommypickelz3441]

The inscenserity of someone pretending to be nice and wanting to help you is something no should have to deal with and if they do move to another social group with warmth and comfort.

[@Clock_Man_2763]

Because of this video now I feel like everyone is pretending to be nice to me and sometimes I also feel like I am fake nice person 😔

[@fightnight6496]

This makes me want to die. I thought I was being nice. I'm passive agressive I fake a smile I put in my input to help people out with life

[@Nathan-tj7ie]

You know your heart and intentions. If you mean it in a good way with no ill intentions then you're fine.

[@dezert956]

Same

[@jgyapologist7946]

Me too! I get you man, I feel shitty now

[@ikazuchi-san5772]

She said that in most cases these are signs that the person is, probably, a fake friend but that doesnt mean every case is a case of false friendship. Dont worry if you do these with good intentions then youre not a fake

[@cgibson1141]

Same

[@Vesayah]

Okay but ghosting is how I protect myself from fake nice people.

[@roaaali8009]

Exactly

[@chemical_raccoon]

That's just me being an introvert

[@melvyncarrot4741]

That’s just me not wanting to take calls or text from people who just wanna chat me up to gossip .

[@anomalous34]

Ghosting for me is being nice and not telling people why I hate them in great detail while manically expressing joy at degrading them.

[@malachiowens3423]

Christian Chandler I don’t think you know what the words “nice” are

[@SubZ3ro907]

Why is your voice so soothing and calming?

[@zoieaaliyah]

I’m glad I searched up this, it helped me realize that my ex bf/ex bff was a fake nice person. Well in dec in 2021 we first met he seemed pretty cool and nice, and I always told him that he wasn’t like those other boys who don’t care about girls and just use them. But then he ghosted me for 1/2 months, then he came back saying he was busy and I believed him back then, because he didn’t show signs of be toxicity yet. We talked everyday and night even when was both at school we talked until oneday he said he had a crush and I said I had one on him 2 and then I think afew weeks to a month later he said he didn’t wanna talk to me anymore and wanted to unfriend me on apps, and I was hurt. Moving forward in Jan 2023 I forgot about him and moved on with my life and I met a better amazing person (best friend), then all the sudden he messages me randomly, and I was shocked but then I texted him and he seemed nice (ofc) so I forgot everything he has done to me, 1/2 weeks later he started dating me and everything was fine until in mid February he started acting weird and abit toxic but I ignored it. Then he started ignoring me and everytime I invite him to play with me he didn’t join but he was online, then my friend messaged him saying “why are you ignoring * name *” then he makes a lie about his grades being bad and etc, and I didn’t believe him, because if I was him I wouldn’t be playing videos games for hours while my grades are that bad. But I didn’t say anything. Then march 3rd 2023, he messages me saying “my sister left the state so that’s why I haven’t been talking to you, and anyways I want to break up with you and I still “love you” and ofc I was being nice a consoling because it’s in my nature to be nice to people. But then a week later I message him and we talked for a little then he said “everytime I type “K” it says my crush name” (btw my name dosent start with a K) and I was like “ooo ok” but in my head I was pissed and abit upset. I knew he did that to make me upset but I wasn’t upset for long. Then I can say after that he was very toxic to me in games and etc, he didn’t even ask what’s wrong or nothing he kept hurting me more and more. But then bro messaged me I guess a week ago saying “* lies lies lies lies * I’ll try to talk to you more :/“ and I was like “ok” at that point I forgot he existed so I didn’t care, and ofc he didn’t message expect he needed something. Now this is more recent what he did, today (May 6th 2023) he messaged me again today, I was pretty happy today and I was laughing finally (I’m more depressed than happy so this was a good day for me) and etc. something told me not to open that text message but I did because I thought he said “hi” but instead he sent a “🤡” emoji. And I was saying “what’s wrong?” And he said “ain’t no way you’re saying what’s wrong” and I said something else then he said “did you forget?” “I said “I guess so.. I’m confused” then he said “that comment you made” and I said I remember. I actually deleted tiktok for a month then I downloaded it back and I commented on his video with a “💀” because it was just some basic Fortnite emo edit, and I forgot I commented on that video because that was like a week ago.. anyways he ruined my mood for the rest of the day and that’s how I found this video . The end. I’m glad I kinda experienced this and found this video, so I won’t find people like my ex!

[@soundaddiktion2006]

"Ghosting" could just be because that person is also very depressed and feel so ashamed of their inactivity that they do not want to engage with others because they value their actions more than their words and have done nothing to show their value and the cycle continues. I ghost often, not because I want to. But because of being unwell.

[@theelite5135]

Im not sure if this might help, but I always tell my friends that I will be offline for some time due to how I’m feeling

[@stevo6891]

Just be honest no reason to ghost.. I like honesty better than a no response.. I’m understanding just a simple honest answer I’m fine with

[@Williamwestp24]

@@stevo6891 So are you ready to handle the truth? "YOU CAN"T HANDLE THE TRUTH". 😄 Joking but I agree with you that it just best to be open and honest regardless how that person feels.

[@joel8708]

It could be

[@NoBody-ex4wt]

I actually deleted most of my social media because it would affect me to compare myself to other peoples lives then when I deleted it, it made me realize that nun of that mattered. It’s still hard but it’s not as bad as it was before. I might be addicted to my phone😬 or lazy

[@deadcell1]

"It's better to be hated for what you are than loved for what you're not" - Andre Gide

[@birdlover6842]

Good point. I would rather be loved for what I am not but I have cluster B personality disorders.

[@YourMid]

Not really. You should never be yourself. Always change yourself and act normal and people like you

[@alexanderavila8934]

Goofy ahhnimations no way man, at the end of the day you’d serve the consequences they eventually will themselves

[@YourMid]

@@alexanderavila8934 I re-read your comment more than 10 times and I can't even understand it yet-

[@fellsino]

i thought kurt who said that 💀

[@VERRYeepyy]

I have a group and i have someone in the group who is ALWAYS nice to me and my 4 other friends in the group but my 2 friends says that she keep swearing at them and framing them, so this is very good for seeing if they are true, I have a feeling they’re true… because she keeps acting like she is guilty for doing something bad like breaking rules, but when I tell her we forgive her she’s always happy and starts breaking the rules again.. thank you for the helpful video ❤️

[@_..-.._..-.._]

I would recommend figuring out _WHY_ someone is being fake nice before writing them off. I’m fake nice a lot of times, but it’s just because I’m not happy but I don’t want to place that burden on the checkout person or family friend, it’s from a place of insecurity, not anything against the other person. Sometimes it’s easier to pretend to be nice and happy than to be honest.

[@giemski123]

when u have social anxiety. This video: you're fake

[@HystericalDark]

Yup I call bs on that

[@risingsara]

So true :D

[@Alex-kn4gk]

Yeah I just watched one if there videos called 8 signs you have social anxiety and I had all of them

[@cgeikimbot]

Very true-

[@MichaelP833]

i was thinking the exact same thing. many of these are signs that someone has social anxiety. that i see in myself and see in most of my friends. whats worse, people with social anxiety are the ones that worry if other people think they are being fake

[@ladymagnet6202]

**me realizing I can be like this sometimes**

[@melissadavis8773]

*mood*

[@em-vl5kp]

Being fake is the reflection of the society we live in. If people around us are fake, we are likely to behave the same... there are few real feelings left, in this world....

[@katiaskendraoui1970]

Same

[@gabrieljavier5845]

ikr

[@agentorangecb1]

This is great for people who have spent their whole life indoors. For everyone else, it is completely obvious

[@jessemccormick7899]

this helped me, i already knew my "friend" was a fake but i wanted to make sure. thanks!

[@yukichan1630]

Psych2go : fake nice people are rare Classmate: hold my beer