How To Be Attractive Based on Your Personality Type

[@Everyone_woo1707]

how to be attractive based on your MBTI: -have a good day🫶- 0:31- ENTJ 1:26- INTJ 2:14- ESTP 3:12- ISTP 4:14- ESFP 5:03- ISFP 6:00- ESTJ 6:52- ISTJ 7:42- ESFJ 8:32- ISFJ 9:20- ENFJ 10:17- INFJ 11:04- ENTP 11:54- INTP 12:52- ENFP 13:33- INFP

[@beagrothus7916]

Thx what is youre type?

[@Psych2go]

Thank you for including this and making it easier for everyone!

[@Everyone_woo1707]

@@beagrothus7916 I’m an isfp, wbu?

[@Everyone_woo1707]

@@Psych2go thank you for the video💗💗

[@beagrothus7916]

@@Everyone_woo1707 intj trying to See what type is most likely to post smth like this. My info so far says. Extroverts and Feelers are most likely to do smth nice online. Trying to understand some peopel in realife.

[@moslyjeb3090]

Mannn, being Infj is kind of like a curse, you wanna be with friends, find a good genuine friend, but they just be distinct to you. And when you isolated yourself, and find the true passion, they came. I hate this, I don’t want to become superior just to earn careness, I wanna be care for them and be with them too.

[@meganmoney3479]

Exactly

[@antonioleogrande8887]

I always cared about others, but I was never understood, now I'm trying to focus only on myself and my things, I don't want to waste my energy anymore

[@moxnwxlf3063]

This is so true for INFJ as soon as I start not caring for others or just being on my own and are happy doing something all of a sudden people want to talk.

[@Sky-fk5tl]

bro wtf is this pile of letters lmao 😂😂😒😂 if you wanna be cared for you gotta have a good face 💀

[@lauebce]

@@Sky-fk5tl not helping

[@justalpha9138]

To be considered "attractive" varies wildly depending on the person, however what doesn't vary wildly is confidence. Not confidence in being the outspoken, confident type, but rather confidence in yourself and your own abilities. Confidence, assurance and acceptance of who you are. I've found that when you aren't afraid to be you, the people who will be your allies for life will eventually be drawn to you and get into your life. :)

[@Psych2go]

Thank you for your insight. Confidence isn't always translated to being outspoken or action driven. Confidence, as you mentioned, can also manifest itself through assurance in who you are. We want to ask, how do you personally come to a place where you can truly accept yourself without feeling the need to feign confidence?

[@justalpha9138]

@@Psych2go It was a long, straining, difficult journey, but I wasn't alone. I had people who love me help me out, and aside from that, I learned that for me personally, becoming confident and happy with who you are first starts with not caring about what others think about you, as it's a waste of time and energy. I spent my last two years of high school working constantly to be more social to try and get friends, but it amounted to nothing because everyone I interacted with had wildly different interests and viewpoints compared to me. Then came the acceptance of my bodily image. That also took some work, but learning about the ins and outs of bodily functions, as well as the psychology of it, really did help me out with accepting myself, both the good and the not so good. Lastly comes friendships. While I have hardly any at all nowadays, the ones I do have are loyal and have never left me, and accept me regardless of what I do and my interests. We may not always be on the same page, but we care for and appreciate each other anyway.

[@shraddhaanikhindi620]

I love how you referred to movie characters in ur video animations, it helped give an example of each personality so we can better know what each personality is like.

[@Psych2go]

Thank you for your feedback! We hope that the characters made the personalities a lot more relatable. Which personality/movie character did you relate to the most?

[@shraddhaanikhindi620]

Im an INFP, so i related to the INFP the most XD

[@fluffyross2297]

I'm an INFJ so I related to the INFJ (Loki) the most. This video has really helped me thank you Psych2 go. You are an Amazing channel keep up the good work. 🧡

[@mayorhumdinger7645]

I especially liked the south park one, I really liked the episode they referenced

[@ProbablyHeavensDoor]

@@shraddhaanikhindi620 butters 😭

[@ravenclawfairy3648]

I am an INFJ. Everyone in my life has seen all of my different sides, because I am very up front about my strengths and my weaknesses and how hard I am working on said weaknesses. I have never been called fake, I've been called "the most kindest, sweetest, most terrifying and passionate person I've ever met" 🥰

[@neofulcrum5013]

Mood fellow INFJ. Mood.

[@ZancoIntel]

Same here. Funny as the most rare personality, there sure are a lot of us. I once dated a sociopath. She told me she was instantly drawn to me because she has never met anyone without deception. There's that kind thing about us, for better or worse.

[@eternalbacon8465]

Even as an INFJ, we just perceive the world differently like all the other people, of course we do have strengths and weaknesses, and it's nice to improve on ourselves. Hope to anyone else reading this to keep it up!

[@iiheartt.prtty_grlz]

As an infj a can relate to this so much. Everyone in my life sees different sides of me and anytime I meet someone new my personality and humor adapts to theirs but then it changes when I'm with someone different

[@NexusNemesis]

I felt odd watching this video, it's like they called me (INFJ-T) a fake for adjusting according to who I talk to. It's not like I lie or say things I don't mean, it's just to not be abrasive when there's no need to. If I would need to "adjust" so much that I am no longer being truthful and need to lie and don't like the situation, I'd just bow out and leave... Even if I'm "adjusting", it's still me showing who I am, just in portions that the person(s) can handle, at least until I know them well enough and then they can get the full broadside xD

[@A55a551n]

Timestamps 1). ENTJ (Extraverted,Intuitive,Thinking,Judging) 0:31 2). INTJ (Introverted,Intuitive,Thinking,Judging) 1:25 3). ESTP (Extroverted,Sensing,Thinking,Perceiving) 2:13 4). ISTP (Introverted,Sensing,Thinking,Perceiving) 3:10 5). ESFP (Extroverted,Sensing,Feeling,Perceiving) 4:12 6). ISFP (Introverted,Sensing,Feeling,Perceiving) 5:04 7). ESTJ (Extraverted,Observant,Thinking,Judging) 6:00 8). ISTJ (Introverted,Observant,Thinking,Judging) 6:51 9). ESFJ (Extraverted,Observant,Feeling,Judging) 7:42 10). ISFJ (Introverted,Sensing,Feeling,Judging) 8:32 11). ENFJ (Extraverted,Intuitive,Feeling,Judging) 9:20 12). INFJ (Introverted,Intuitive,Feeling,Judging) 10:17 13). ENTP (Extroverted,Intuitive,Thinking,Perceiving) 11:04 14). INTP (Introverted,Intuitive,Thinking,Prospecting) 11:55 15). ENFP (Extraverted,Intuitive,Feeling,Prospecting) 12:50 16). INFP (Introverted,Intuitive,Feeling,Perspective) 13:32 Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. 💙💙💙💙💙💙

[@Psych2go]

Thank you for the timestamps

[@A55a551n]

​@@Psych2go not a problem happy to help

[@im_br0ke]

For the record, he updating these time stamps as he watching. Im reading the time stamps and the video hasnt been out for more than 5 mins

[@A55a551n]

​@@im_br0ke thanks for the compliment

[@quinn0110]

I'm here 10 minutes after posted. Waiting for INFJ.

[@sketchflix6425]

The tip for INFJs was legit imo. I often project myself in the way the group wants but sometimes ending up getting the opposite result of what is expected. This makes my sensitive side uncomfortable, which makes me eventually to shut doors in the face and blah, blah, blah. I'm also afraid of being authentic because even though I have high EQ and understand people very well, I always switches into the cold INTJ, while my feeling function goes to thinking, making me like not interested in any human, making me distant from everyone. That is my fear. Well, I think I'm fine being alone and hey, there are people who understands and there will be more that I will meet. Yeah. Great Advice Psych2go. Thank you for prooving my doubts to be true.

[@tryagaintmrw]

im an infp which was shown last but i sat through the entire thing!! it was nice to see how others experience things and to try to see if i could learn anything from advice catered not only to my personality type. I struggle with pushing my friends away when i go through those periods of feeling profoundly and i’ve lost a couple because of it, im actively working on trying to keep my relationships alive but it can be so exhausting:(

[@Psych2go]

Why do you think you push your friends away? Do you think this is related to your MBTI personality trait?

[@tryagaintmrw]

@@Psych2go Its mostly not responding to texts:( i usually take a while to text back during these times which makes people less inclined to talk to me.

[@tryagaintmrw]

@@Psych2go I do think its related to my MBTI personality trait because i tend to prefer to isolate and resolve it on my own

[@IkerTG]

Bruh it's like your describing my life lol I am an infp too ❤

[@Psych2go]

Thank you for responding to our comment! To be fair, even replying to a short text can sometimes feel overwhelming, which people can misinterpret. We hope that you're able to find a good balance between replying and not replying to texts.

[@KittyUnicorn56XD]

I'm an INFP-T and I've very much wanted to shut the world out and just delete all of my communication apps with other people and just take a break from it all. And it's definitely the same with life where I feel like I need an escape from it and just disappear. (From more personal mental issues)

[@Malacite]

INFP is the Mediator type I believe? Been a while since I did the test. Holy hell does being an empath ever drag on a person. I get the whole needing to just go out and chill advice, but it's not always that easy - not with layers of personal trauma burried underneath the seemingly never ending tragedies and horrors that happen around the world on a daily basis. I've recently begun to just stop listening to any kind of news no matter how interesting once I feel like I've hit my limit. Before I would just keep going, as I often listen to podcasts etc. While playing a game but now when I feel that negavity overwhelming me I just stop. Life still sucks, but it sucks a bit less now ^^;

[@amyli092]

Sometimes, having that INFJ personality can work well with certain people, but with others, it makes me feel insecure and doubtful... I don't like letting just anybody into my circle. I've kept it small for quite some time now and feel happy with that, yet at the same time, I will sometimes find myself feeling like an alien whenever I disconnect myself from others for too long. It's really weird how that works...

[@epcza13]

The ENTP is spot on with my husband. He has really had to work hard on doing better with chores and things of that nature. The amount of big fights we’ve had because of his irresponsibility. I am INFJ and I used to always try to blend in with the people around me because I’d be scared of upsetting anyone. I learned to try to be myself as an adult. It can still be hard because I have trouble talking and sharing easily, but I’m always myself, at least.

[@Ajkoolmoon243]

Character references in this episode: 0:00 - (Power Puff Girls) 0:31 - ENTJ (Jesse from Pokemon) 1:26 - INTJ (Sasuke from Naruto) 2:14 - ESTP (Vanellope from Wreck-it Ralph) 3:12 - ISTP (Not sure someone help pls)? 4:12 - ESFP (Luffy from One Piece) 5:05 - ISFP (Stan from South Park) 6:00 - ESTJ (Hermione from Harry Potter) 6:51 - ISTJ (Leon from Resident Evil) 7:43 - ESFJ (Ming from Turning Red) 8:33 - ISFJ (Luisa from Encanto) 9:21 - ENFJ (Tanjiro from Demon Slayer) 10:17 - INFJ (Loki from Marvel) 11:04 - ENTP (Hange from Attack on Titan) 11:55 - INTP (Robin from One Piece) 12:51 - ENFP (Rapunzel from Tangled) 13:33 - INFP (Butters from South Park) will probably update this later

[@Moraenil]

It's no wonder I'm so confused all the time. I'm an INFPJ-T. I have P and J because my tests have them both at just about 50% everytime I take them, and which one comes out on top depends on my mood when I take it. LOL. Imagine being a combination of Butters and Loki!

[@Ajkoolmoon243]

@@Moraenil lel kewl, im stuck between Luffy and Rapunzel because I got ESFP and ENFP twice in a row

[@edmoran869]

My problem is that I don't watch most of those programs, so nearly all the references are meaningless to me

[@Ajkoolmoon243]

@@edmoran869 understandable, have a gud day

[@Moraenil]

@@edmoran869 You're not the only one. I only know a few of them and luckily, they're for the personality types I care about. Most of them are geared towards kids. I recognize that they're cartoons, but that's about it. Only ones I know are Marvel, Harry Potter, South Park and Resident Evil (video game I don't know the movies).

[@vanguard9067]

Attractiveness tips for all personality traits: 1) Stand up straight and look ahead; 2) look people in the eye frequently when talking with them; 3) maintain a positive look on your face, with the occasional hunt of a smile; 4) be respectful and courteous to everyone, at all social levels; 5) be aware of the people who make you feel good and tell them so every now and then. Bonus attractiveness tip: be well groomed and always wear neat, clean clothes when out in public.

[@DeRez19]

Wish this actually works for me. I bet it works for most, though.

[@ElizabethsFantasy]

As a long time infj, i found that in work, I end up acting the exact same way that you said in the video. To make myself more sociable i change the way i talk just about enough to have some relateability but still stay true to myself. Edit: I;m an ENTJ-A now. My quest to take more action in things is taking effect!!!

[@JokerCrowe]

For INFJs i think it's hard for others to understand that we don't really have a great connection to our "true" self (whatever that means). This is mostly because being adaptive IS our true self, but I also agree that _If_ an INFJ finds themselves not agreeing with a situation, they shouldn't go along with it just because others want them to. Standing up for yourself or just saying "no" when you genuinely don't want to do something, is the quickest way to earn self respect; and I know, as that was a struggle for me before. Basically treat yourself like someone you're responsible in caring for: if your social energy is low, you can just say "sorry, i need to recharge", and your true friends will respect that. Plus, like this video said, if you can figure out your likes, dislike and values you stand for - and can stand for those values even in the face of resistance - you will be seen as attractive to others. Whether they agree or not, a person being able to stand for something is generally more attractive than someone who falls for everything.

[@Sunset553]

Thank you. I was lost at the end of the section in the video. You added very helpful information about what to do. I think I’ve been walking away from many things. I’m alone now. It’s fine almost all the time. Sometimes I wish there was someone who would want to go places with me, and actually go. I don’t really understand why people don’t even want to come over for a few minutes and use the very well kempt swimming pool. Anyway, I’m in therapy and so I have that person to talk to about being alone and about values and my identity. Thanks again.

[@izzy7998]

As an INFJ who has literally been bullied and judged for being "too different" my entire life, I decided to withdraw from all my fake friend groups and go it alone. It was hard, and YES I STILL TALK TO PEOPLE, but I've learned that the worst thing you can do as an introvert is try to be an extrovert. Now I'm somewhat... admired for not caring what people think?

[@mikewel1080]

Sometimes staying alone is what we need. Stay strong.

[@DeRez19]

INTJ here. Personally, I've learned that doing the initiating when it comes to finding friends or love is absolutely pointless. At the end of the day, I never gain real relationships. I've tried being outgoing for ages but that didn't help; it's not me. I decided that if I ever want anyone in my life, they may have to approach me. I don't know how I can get others to approach me, but I no longer have the urge to try. I'm most-likely not attractive to most, hence why I get nobody.

[@Lazy-hailey]

Finally I can be attractive, thank you!

[@sagasaga64]

I am INTJ, and i usually don't comment on videos but i think this needs to be said. I can confirm that INTJ is the most isolated mbti type when it comes to love, as we do not use our feelings with friends lover crush.... but rather our mind and strategies to approach them, which is very bad because i know some infp friends that tend to show their true feelings through words, and they manage to "heal" people from all their problems, which intjs cant do. So if our friends are sad, dealing with problems, family issues or anything else, we have a hard time to "heal" people, which can cause a lot of problems in our relationship. Unlike INFPs, they have the ability to "heal" people, this is why i always go to my Infp friends if im feeling a bit not okay so thanks to them❤

[@_jsiddal]

You got me... 💯

[@nisheedhasolanki6464]

Leon, ada raccoon city! Mirabelle, luisa, ash, ralph reference were so cute. Psychology, personality types, the cute and different animations. Everything is great about psych2go. Thank you so much you guys. I'm so glad I found this channel :D

[@tryagaintmrw]

the personality related videos are my favourite from you guys!!

[@jeanelleagyem9417]

I’m an INFJ and I definitely get the “chameleon” behavior. It has been helpful for me in my professional life as the intuitive part of me can easily read people and then shift to being someone who complements them best (comes from reading the behaviors of other people and notice patterns/ seeing what works). However in personal relationships it has made me feel incredibly misunderstood and an outsider. I jumper between a lot of friend groups growing up, changing to fit in with them and feeling incredibly drained because I felt like I was loosing myself in people who didn’t understand me, because I never felt safe or secure enough to show them my real self. I didn’t find my true friends until senior year of highschool and even then, it took a while for me to completely open up. What happened was that the person I was around them was someone I really enjoyed. I could be loud and silly without fear of rejection and so it let me open up. To my fellow INFJ’d out there, I know it can be hard to open up bc we understand that the only place our true selves will be 100% safe at the end of the day is in our minds, however I think the key is being around people who allow you to transform into your ideal/dream self that you might’ve felt judged for. More often than not your ideal self is a mirror into your true self and will allow you to open up to people more in a way that makes you feel secure!

[@pcpxbotendorastermace9948]

I am safe with you in these comments. Relatable.

[@tydial1014]

This is gonna be kinda lengthy…please read to your liking: INFJ and INFP related to me the most. I can count my true friends on one hand. However even though I am an introvert, I can be social and adapt to different environments and new people. It’s like I become a different person to different people: the shy guy, the extrovert, the comedian, the chill dude. However sometimes, as mentioned, I feel fake because I switch my identity to fit in. It feels like my friends only seem to know what’s close to the real me, the authentic ME. That makes me feel vulnerable and that’s scary. So I unintentionally shut them out at times by not responding to messages or calls. Also, I feel as if I would struggle in a relationship, not just because I can’t be vulnerable but also the belief that I can’t stay grounded with one strong identity. One girl rejected me for trying to be “mysterious” and another rejected me for trying to be “sweet”. Even down to the way I dress, it has no identity. I’ve been trying to figure out how to find my true authentic self and how to express it. It’s way harder than I thought.

[@poornarathore3059]

Hey mate, you know what, you don't have to feel that way. First of all, I am an INFJ too. I try to behave like the other group to feel accepted or belong. It was when I found a group of good friends, I realized, true friends would accept you the way you are, give you your space, and join you for fun too. But before I found them, I had to learn to be okay with my own company and not 'seek' friends, which was an important experience. Because when you're all good by yourselves, you find out authenticity in people around you: who's jealous of you, who admires you, who's just attracted to you and leaves you after curiosity is satisfied and who's just using you. Secondly, there's no label to define oneself. Even personalities change. What I'm tryna say is, don't worry about how people perceive you. If you wanna understand yourself more, find hobbies, write journal and diaries etc... You don't have to find yourself, but create yourself. Find things you like to do, styles of clothing you prefer etc.. :) I believe you can!

[@funnytv-1631]

Being comfortable in your own skin can make you even more attractive

[@dreamii9240]

The amount of references in here I love itt! ✨

[@weareforeverbulletproof9585]

My mbti is INFJ and I could relate so much to that. I dont even know the real me anymore😭

[@mikewel1080]

The real you is the child you, the first you.

[@cosmina8975]

I love discovering more things about myself through your guys' videos!

[@Psych2go]

We're so glad that you feel this way about our content! Which of the 16 personalities do you resonate with the most?

[@cosmina8975]

@@Psych2go Recently I've taken the personality test again after a couple months and I'm still an INFJ-A! I've been very invested in figuring out stuff about myself in the past 2 years and your videos have been a great contribution to that! I'm really grateful for your guys' effort in making all this information so accesible and easily understandable through these really well animated videos :D

[@Psych2go]

We're so glad to hear that our content helped you understand yourself better! We hope to continue making valulable content for you and for everyone watching. Thank you for your detailed answer and for your kind words! P.S. I, the person leaving the comment, am an ENFP! :)

[@cosmina8975]

@@Psych2go thanks fellow ENFP! have an amazing rest of your day :D

[@birb9425]

Im an INFJ and had been having a trouble with creating relationships. I see others having their own set of values and boundaries which perhaps is the reason they make genuine friends. Whenever I ask myself what are my values and how I should keep my boundaries, the only answer I can find is that I value creating relationships, which leads me to mimicking others' set of values and their boundaries towards different situations. Others also value relationships, we're not so different in that part. But I really cant understand how to appear genuine, my genuine self, not a genuine-like image based on a small group of friends...

[@Sophielasloth]

The ENTJ flaws are exactly what make me…. Well, me! I’m so happy to hear someone accurately describe how confidence comes of as arrogance, unintentionally, and how judgemental-ness (I don’t like it, but I am honestly judgemental) is a natural thing, and why ^^

[@amberstiefel9748]

I've been stuck in a depersonalized state for almost a year but I've cleared the problem and I'm on the mend. Idk where I fit, I have scored differently in the past I really enjoyed this one❤

[@qp1nkbdorit0._]

I'm glad this channel was recommended to me back then, otherwise I wouldn't understand myself & the reasons of why I'm this or that. I'm an INTJ btw👍

[@Bries_Hatake]

1:28 you just made me realise Sasuke is the perfect definition of an INTJ 😂

[@KylaOLIVER]

I love your personality type videos! MAKE MORE 👹👹

[@RayPeng-07]

You guys just won with the beginning with the power puff girls. I loved that show when I was a kid x3 And yea... so true to be seen as fake when we are not. A big feature of INFJ. I know from my own experience as INFJ ^^;

[@birichinaxox9937]

Society = be authentic, asd = ok, Society = not like that!😅 Meanwhile others use "authentic" to be mean and excluded but that is acceptable. Make it make sense!!

[@ReformedSooner24]

Wait, NOT getting along with people?! Wat. How am I supposed to be social if I’m not able to adapt to the energy and atmosphere of the conversation or situation?

[@gretaclayton6173]

I love how you drew the South Park characters! They're so cute!

[@Aflay1]

Ayy, all of my homies love Bunny. (INFP-T, 9w1, Aries) Omg "May delete social media, withdraw into their inner sacred space" DAMMIT. WHY "Try to explore the world more frequently" oh no, this is true, but one thing: INFP are inherently good at trailblazing, and often do this by themselves, which can be worrisome for family members and friends who will often ask where they are and get some crazy answer like "Japan" or something. We are unusually good at finding our barring in uncharted territories due to our keep observation abilities. The key thing I would say to INFPs looking for romance is to be careful. There is a reason we are among the most lonely personality type. We are sensitive sponges that absorb emotions both negative and positive. When we retreat, we are looking for neutrality and equalibrium. This is a necessary trait, whether you live with good or bad influences. In terms of a relationship, the key is not to look for one, but to put yourself out there, that a relationship might find you. INFPs want partners that reach out to them initially, proving their interest, which is one of the few tangible control methods INFPs have. It's also our way of determining that a relationship is mutual and not forced. Laughter, common ground, identical interests, that sort of thing. Inexperienced INFPs may rush into relationships for bad reasons. They will learn the hard way that they have particular needs and will struggle to find one who can accomidate them fully without trying to change them. A bad enough relationship can end up one-sided with the INFP being taken advantage the most. For a lasting relationship, find a partner who will give you attention, recognition, praise, and validation. This can be a little or a lot depending on your personality profile. INFPs tend to gravitate toward extroverted partners, which is where travel comes into play. We very rarely meet our partners at work. Only during fun. Definitely look for a drinking buddy with an intellectual mind. Thats the sweet spot. Alternatively, find someone who is compassionate and willing to carry out the majority of work. Not that INFPs are lazy, but our energy tends to fluctuate, which can mean extended periods of downtime, even during exciting events and activities. Never ask an INFP to commit to something for too long. Even marraige. We can easily move out one moment, and then move back in the next. Don't get it twisted. We greatly value the trust of our significant other, and aren't typically capable of cheating on our spouse. They would have to be terrible people if an INFP would want to cheat on them. This would likely be a more impulse-oriented approach, and one that leads to remorse. We are definitely committed to our spouse and even having children, but not practical things like money or stable living, outside the bare necessities. Commitments like owning a home just doesnt work unless the INFP is older and willing to settle down. INFPs are late bloomers, developing later, but ultimately, wiser. They also tend to value healthy living, so longevity is normal for an INFP. In the meantime, we can shapeshift to suit our partner's needs, especially with their help and support. We are sensitive sponges after all. We liken to becoming the interest of our significant others. Even interests we aren't necessarily experienced or talented in. If it's fun and exciting, we may just go for it anyway. We may even be good at it. What matters is having support through it all, to keep us out of our heads. In summation, we tend to go for more active, adventurous people early on, and with age, we are more likely to settle down more. A lot of age, though. We need compassionate partners, but admire and respect abraisive partners who can convey common sense without sounding patronizing. We are malleable, so we can date many types of people. We do, however, have a type, and finding this type is crucial. We have needs. We usually don't overstep our boundaries, but if you must, don't feel bad if it doesn't go how you imagined in your head. INFPs can approach others, but make sure whoever you decide to stay with has you as their interest at heart. You, as a person. That will be your soulmate. Okay, several things.

[@offciallymxi]

As an INFJ i do sometimes see that im actually being doubtful about my own self of the people around me, sometimes i feel like im not authentic about myself even when i do, I'm more blunt. I'm social outside but when i go home, i become cold and don't talk to anyone. Like recharging but most of it actually just my own self

[@poornarathore3059]

Relatable. I am an INFJ too. I try to behave like the other group to feel accepted or belong. It was when I found a group of good friends, I realized, true friends would accept you the way you are, give you your space, and join you for fun too. But before I found them, I had to learn to be okay with my own company and not 'seek' friends, which was an important experience. Because when you're all good by yourselves, you find out authenticity in people around you: who's jealous of you, who admires you, who's just attracted to you and leaves you after curiosity is satisfied and who's just using you.

[@neoideaxd]

I’ve found that I’m a mix between 3 personality types, ENTJ, ENTP and INTP. A very interesting lineup I think. Although I think my dominant personality traits fit in with INTP the most.

[@existentialchaos8]

Learn about cognitive functions. There are 8 cognitive functions. There are 4 "types" of functions: thinking, feeling, intuition, and sensing. There are 2 attitudes of each one: introverted or extroverted. So, for example, Ti (introverted thinking, Ne (extroverted intuition), or Fi (introverted feeling). Each type has a function stack of 4 functions: the dominant, auxiliary, tertiary, and inferior. The dominant function is what feels most natural to you to use, while the inferior is the most subconscious and because it's the opposite to your main nature, it can be suppressed or hard to use. The INTP's function stack is Ti-Ne-Si-Fe. Their dominant function is Ti, or introverted thinking. The difference from the other 2 types is that Ti is an introverted function, so INTPs tend to spend most of their time in their own mind, rather than in the outside world. INTPs also tend to be very logical, and be curious about the world. Because of their Ne, they mainly muse over abstract ideas, or things not directly connected to the outside world. INTPs may also enjoy using their Si as it is also an introverted function; this makes them like to store large databases of info on topics they like. However, INTPs often have trouble using Fe and connecting with others emotionally (unless they are very mature and developed). The ENTP's function stack is Ne-Ti-Fe-Si. They have the same functions as the INTP but in a different order. Instead of Ti, their dominant function is Ne. Because Ne is focused on ideas instead of people (Ne explores different perspectives and new ideas), ENTPs are often ambiverted and even appear as introverts. The difference here is, when going over a problem or concept, ENTPs will often brainstorm all the possibilities and generate a lot of ideas first, then reflect on the logic of the problem and which possibilities are the most likely. INTPs, on the other hand, will reflect on the logic of the problem first, and then brainstorm possible ideas based on what they figure out. ENTPs may also enjoy using their Fe as it's an extroverted function; this makes them want to connect with others and why some ENTPs are also quite charming. However, ENTPs often have trouble using Si and have trouble with organizing (unless they are very mature and developed). The ENTJ's function stack is Te-Ni-Se-Fi. Their stack is completely different from the other 2 types and share no functions. Because of their Te, ENTJs tend to focus a lot on getting things done and productivity. They are very good at calculating the most practical and efficient way to do something. Te is also a lot more visible than Ne and Ti, so most ENTJs don't have much confusion about their extroversion. Because of their Ni, ENTJs also tend to be big picture thinkers and plan according to an overarching vision for the future. They also focus a lot on other people, whether for collaboration or competition, and they tend to be great leaders, because of their ability in planning and execution. A big difference between ENTJs and ENTPs / INTPs is that the ENTJ's goal is achievement, while the ENTP's is exploration and the INTP's is knowledge (the last two are interchangeable). -From an INTP

[@FlawedbyDesign777]

INFP-love! love you, my sibling, y'all appreciated. I barely know anything about most types, what I know best though is that they are all co-dependent of each other as much as they are independent (although perhaps the extroverts moreso co-dependent than the introverts)

[@nilufarh6210]

intj-t and it was definitely true! I am still trying to stay in touch with my feelings and other’s emotions

[@zicea]

im kinda like a mix of the first two personalitys..

[@potatolama2206]

I love your videos and your goal is one of the sweetest things ever❤❤ If your not doing well rn, i believe in all of you, you can do this!!

[@Psych2go]

Thank you or the lovely sentiment! :)

[@cabecadeprego8772]

Okay now i just need to learn how to connect with people

[@Mrcognito-rk3st]

The test got me wrong, told me i was a logician but while I’m pretty bright, and pretty introverted, I can hold my own in a conversation and have a social personality deep down

[@skarpantre]

OMG! The fact that you picked Leon for ISTJ amazes me because I also kind of look like the remake him too :D

[@Moraenil]

Love how this is linked to South Park! Makes it more relatable in a way because each character has their own distinct personality. For INFP, I'm not sure how being on social media makes you more attractive. It's actually healthy to not be on it all the time. Not sure how being more out in public rather than shut up at home makes you more attractive either. When you don't like being out in public with how draining it is, you're miserable. How does being miserable make you attractive?

[@_btea]

Oh, Jesus I was hoping that somebody will say it I am an INFP and I don't understand either Like.. When I'm feeling aggressive and sad, I don't want anyone to pay attention to me. If they do, I'll be as nice as I could, but it's extremely hard. And when I don't have any energy for playing nice.. I think, I annoy people. Or make them feel uncomfortable So I feel like in this video I've been said: "Welp, you absorb the negativity and close down. Don't do that" the end. Why? How?? For what??? I dunno, I'm just in that phase when I hate everyone, so I don't think that a lot of people will be happy to read my honest opinion that I wrote here Anyway I just wanted to tell I feel ya

[@aliceyagami8260]

in all these tests i always got more results like INTJ and indeed i feel like your description. it's hard to understand people and why each person acts the way they do. in relationships I always treat my partner as a friend and not a boyfriend or girlfriend it's complicated :/ hurting the one you love without knowing what you're doing wrong.

[@liorperetz1554]

The thing about infj is when you show others your true self or open up to them, they leave you alone.

[@eirajkhan9257]

So true!!!!!

[@PixelionRules]

I'm an INTP and I usually am not interested in being the centre of attention. Besides, I'm a Sagittarius too, so that adds on to me wanting my freedom out of restricted environments where I can't be me. However, I've always been an empath towards those who have different opinions and ideas. I wouldn't call others of lower intellect, but of different intellect. I enjoy someone who can challenge me, because then I get to brainstorm points to prove my own point, or learn something new and accept it. But I suppose there are people who do consider others of lower intellect, but that majorly comes out of others not being able to keep pace with our concepts. It usually is an outcome of us having everything intricately thought-out and often expect others to do the same, but oftentimes we have to explain everything, which agreeably is a little irritating.

[@shuichisbetterthanyou]

Whoa, the video was uploaded three minutes ago! I guess I am one of the first people! Amazing and helpful video as always!

[@AngeliquesWings]

Just letting everyone know there isn't such a thing as infp-t or enfp-a! The "t" and "a" is just a thing that 16 personalities (the website) made themselves and has nothing whatsoever to do with the original theory of mbti. :)

[@niasiamack9333]

I'm introvert, shy, creative

[@haeven1622]

You are correct about me. And I appreciate your advice! (I am INFJ-T.)

[@Idk-dc7hv]

I’m INFJ-T too

[@mjtd228]

nice, infj-t gang where we at?

[@haeven1622]

@@mjtd228 We're so random lol. Yo! The INFJ-T gang is here!

[@romelcasillas2286]

Thank you for saying that attraction is subjective. I have been saying that for so long and I am not even a psychologist. Pretty good channel btw.

[@therealyeji]

Congratulations on 11 million😃💜💜

[@Psych2go]

Thank you so much! We wouldn't have been able to do it without you!

[@therealyeji]

@@Psych2go yayy you replied! Pleasure is all ours💜

[@Psych2go]

Yes of course!

[@SICRoosterKido]

I'm supposably an INFJ but I'm not fake AT ALL. Like who care what others' think about who you are, just be yourself

[@eirajkhan9257]

How do you do that????

[@Jooney91]

I'm an INTJ... and unfortunately this is so true. I have developed my Fi a lot as recommended, I am very good at recognizing emotions and giving myself space to walk through them but still... if I'm crushing on someone I'm like "wtf is wrong with you girl? Since when you are like this?" 🙂

[@rainypeople]

I just got called out by the INFJ one. My friend texted me one time asking me why I was different when I was alone with him versus with my whole friend group. I just told him that I didn't really know why I did it, but that I just did. I did the MBTI test and I got INFP-T, so Idk.

[@enlightenednay]

I'm istj & esfj FOR SURE 🤣😭😭 I feel so called out lol but thanks for the great vid!

[@Psych2go]

Have you ever done the personality quiz? From there you can tell which one you really are!

[@enlightenednay]

​@@Psych2go I have not but I will today :)

[@rurisuoh7919]

11:13 my heart is so happy to see LeviHan

[@silver2therescue1]

As an INTP with Autism I have been learning how to be more attentive to others and try to understand how they're feeling but it's been something I've had to learn and doesn't come to me naturally. I've gotten really good at it though. My friends and family tell me I've improved a lot as a person.

[@4p_y]

ah same, im an intp with Aspergers syndrome and adhd. a lot of people think im perfect although im NOT

[@averagetetoenjoyer]

The fact you had rapunzel for enfp made my day :)

[@thememesamurai7519]

I’m ENFJ

[@melinaouzouni6151]

Yayyyy! 16 personalities! Let's go💖💖

[@chinnchilli2842]

This gave me a lot of insight -ISFP

[@Psych2go]

I'm so happy that you were able to learn something from this video!

[@WolfyloverAlyssa]

I took the test twice, one said ISFP and the other INFP. I watched both of their parts and I think both are really helpful.

[@OO-jf9zm]

INTP here: "low-key talking notes"

[@cjrains6022]

Same, cheers 🥂

[@EllisTheAnomaly]

With no doubt, I am and ESFJ

[@ShotbyGhoulkid]

Hey Psych2go, I really love all of your videos they are really informative, But I would suggest that please include subtitles in all of your videos as it is becomes more easy to understand, Thankyou.

[@Strider182]

I am an ENFJ-A, and I deeply appreciate the reference and lil cute drawing animation of Tanjiro representing an ENFJ ;.; that's so sweet & cute, plus my sister even tells me that I remind her of Tanjiro ^-^

[@MushMushEdits]

So how do I become more attractive as an ENFJ?

[@irene_0r]

Omg I love the fictional characters references

[@samira14knox]

For INFP I didn’t really under the advice at the end? How do u become more attractive as this type?

[@balazsszucs7055]

As an INFP I simply don't have enough people who genuinely care about me so there isn't anyone to push away when I go into introspection mode.

[@Kitty_the_hashbrown]

Is it only me who noticed the butters plushie lmao

[@ananyasharma1223]

Omg first comment I love your videos!!!!!💗💗💗😭

[@Psych2go]

We love your support! Do you have a favorite video from us?

[@vel5785]

This seems like very interesting one ngl

[@Psych2go]

What did you think of the video?

[@lebellebonida-wt2il]

Aw the Audio

[@BostonSteve922]

My attractiveness is solely based on how drunk the person is that’s looking at me

[@VictoriaB85]

🤣 stop it! Your humour is a win

[@BostonSteve922]

@@VictoriaB85 that’s sweet thank you

[@Fatherless_behaviour]

To sum up, develop your tert and inf cognitive function in order to be more attractive, and this applies to every personality type

[@disposeable1]

INFP: "make yourself available lol lmao :)" Y-yeah. I'll try :'>

[@Motivational-Moments-with-Femy]

I absolutly love the south park references!!!

[@CyrusAintReal]

I am INFP-T! They said im kind and poetic so im glad.

[@alangabrielnietosaavedra3639]

I got the personality that haves all the defects from all the personalities and none of the charms.

[@sandram9562]

The only video infj need to hear :)

[@labrat_09]

I caught *most* of the references even the ones related to things I haven't seen much of outside of clothing and decorations

[@mystamusica8571]

I’m quite happy that my favorite character in Onepiece has same personality type as me (though I should have known 😂)

[@be3beru708]

I like how the little characters are anime characters

[@martinisawe6300]

I'm a guy and an ENFP-A and wondered how I'd be more attractive. I found it shocking that others ENFP desire validation by others, but I'll admit i need to be more serious on my plannings 😂 *(reason i mention being a guy is i see alot of ENFPs as females)

[@iforgotmyname6969]

you are awesome for that south park refrence

[@ItikGamemix]

I just have submitted the personality test and my result is INFJ-T. That's true I'm critcize a lot to myself and I'm always learning and much like copying other people's personality. For example: someone is much like a bit shy person. I'm can understand their personality by just look at their personality and then try to learn about them... after that I tried to google my personality trait and for somehow my Personality trait is the rarest: INFJ Idk it's feels weird and confusing at the same time... btw thanks for reading my comments hehehe...

[@moslyjeb3090]

Damn, how to rizz in 16 personalities

[@SteorraD]

I like the character choices in the video

[@iloveyou-ce6ds]

They make me feel comfortable

[@ahmadhorani3585]

Oh so this is how i be attractive since i am an ENTJ, thanks anyway

[@thedude.YouTube]

Hi , I'm new to this channel and I've watched some videos that I found very helpful in my life , thanks a lot for the encouragement , good luck in the future and I'll be back with more comments ! Goodbye

[@LadyA_08]

I'm in love with ur voice!!! Who are u?

[@amberstiefel9748]

Infj I am still trying to puzzle out how to be authentic without being "too much"