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@Bwubdle1982 жыл бұрын
I’ll just get away from them
@jeovelng2 жыл бұрын
multiple but I always try to calm them down and see what's happening and try to be polite. I'll see some people saying to ignore it but that's definitely not the best option for some of these situations. However ignoring it and walking away is okay in other situations since you may not want to engage.
@catalina18162 жыл бұрын
i just kinda let them.. or walk away edit: but if it is a bully bulling my friends.-
@albertovalencia66462 жыл бұрын
I just try to get over them, not take it personally and also, try to talk things out, but most important not take it personal, difficult when it comes to HSP
@A55a551n2 жыл бұрын
Yes they are called my family
@pierre02272 жыл бұрын
My own therapist tells me to set boundaries for myself and let people know what you don’t like or tolerate. Without boundaries people don’t respect you.
@Psych2go2 жыл бұрын
Beautiful response. Thank you for sharing!
@evanpaluch61902 жыл бұрын
Respect is overrated. Just dont deal with it.
@Alex_Is_Not_Here2 жыл бұрын
@@evanpaluch6190 huh? You mean dont letting their stuff make you fell unrespected, or wdym?
@Slow-zm5wv2 жыл бұрын
@@Alex_Is_Not_Here I think Evan is trying to say that you don't need respect from others and that the idea of seeking it is overrated
@Dinoslay2 жыл бұрын
In my experience respect is mutually earned. Even when you do earn it there are no quarantees with everyone and it is perfectly possible to blindly waste it to very one-sided social interactions. That is why it is good to realize that hostile psychopaths, narcissists and bullies who walk over others *aren’t as special as they like to think they are just by doing what they doing.* Don’t waste your time trying to earn their validation. It is exactly people like them that you draw boundaries for. Whoever disrespects your boundary doesn’t deserve your respect either. You can not change those people so leave them to their own devices. What you can do is to find your own balance which is what someone else either will or won’t recognize. It’s your life after all. Ultimately the choice is your’s and no one else’s.
@gerpsy43072 жыл бұрын
i always love how y'all put out mental health videos in the style of popular games, shows and generally pop culture
@slam.p2 жыл бұрын
Same!! It’s really cute, I love the omori style ^^
@gerpsy43072 жыл бұрын
@@slam.p omg it's basil i've found you, are you okay??? you've been gone for so long
@Bell-rf2kk2 жыл бұрын
Among us :0
@domgo3492 жыл бұрын
I know right? It's amazing, I love it
@rizzy77662 жыл бұрын
hi, brother
@zoranabanana2 жыл бұрын
As someone who’s ignored rudeness all my life, that only caused me to suppress everything to where I can get easily triggered and will even start shaking because I get so angry for letting people treat me that way.. learning how to stand up for yourself and speak up is definitely important.
@melissamotloung3122 Жыл бұрын
This is exactly what im going through rn. Standing up for myself is a problem
@bem6344 Жыл бұрын
I stood up for myself today and it felt great!
@theoryofsentience Жыл бұрын
Yeah, "just ignore it" is 10/10 pussy advice. You are not somehow the "bigger person" by tolerating their disrespect, if anything, you're a coward.
@jaebae.91 Жыл бұрын
I stand up for myself but it always results in people trying to get me back
@malakashraf28018 ай бұрын
Important and difficult I've been depressing over it for some time now I wish it was as simple as in the video
@reniellav.68802 жыл бұрын
How to respond to rude people: 2:11 - Break the cycle of rudeness. Empathize and be kind. 3:30 - Count to 10 and take deep breaths. 4:35 - Take courage and learn when to be assertive and speak up / when to ignore rude behaviour. "Remember that there is a way to stand in the face of rudeness without resorting to it yourself." Let's all have a good day!
@alisayed77142 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the summary.
@sphereyahya2 жыл бұрын
I just respond back at them with their energy, it's works so well
@sphereyahya2 жыл бұрын
What makes you think I bought my phone😒😒😒😒 Oh! Maybe common sence, since yknow people bring their phone???? 😒 They get really pissed of, but I beg you not to say this to teachers and parents as it's super disrespectful
@sxftie.len-P2 жыл бұрын
oooorrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr just summon SOMETHING and send it after the ppl they will kin SUNNY or BASIL in no time
@HannahMarieee2 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@potatoman26002 жыл бұрын
I loved the Omori references :D This video was so cool by the way, I definitely find it hard to stand up to “rude people” so this was helpful!
@davidboss07612 жыл бұрын
Omori characters are really great for psychological videos! It’s just… *PERFECT*
@thetrueesteemedwizard2 жыл бұрын
The omori style I love it please do more of it
@__braindeadfungus2 жыл бұрын
Yes
@Psych2go2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your feedback! We shall do that. Do you like this storytelling with Nancy in it? :D
@meowfonar2 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go yes! :)
@slam.p2 жыл бұрын
Yes!!
@Ch3zzIts2 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go Yea
@bruxinth46602 жыл бұрын
How to deal with rude people Omori style: Rule 1: Get the knife. Rule 2: Get the knife! Rule 3: Get the frickin’ knife!
@Galaxy_f5u7 ай бұрын
LOAM😂 Lol🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@SheaSaysYeah28 күн бұрын
I have 3 knifes now what
@gachanoob10122 жыл бұрын
I see omori, I click because i know it’s gonna be good
@gachanoob10122 жыл бұрын
I was correct!
@peet73922 жыл бұрын
I thought how to deal with rude people omori style is like that one scene with real aubrey
@Iceyyy52292 жыл бұрын
Same =D
@DazaiDiesFromOldAge2 жыл бұрын
Yea
@theguyever2 жыл бұрын
@@peet7392that is the omori style
@slam.p2 жыл бұрын
I love the omori characters, they fit so well :)
@mothmanman2 жыл бұрын
The Sunny and Aubrey at 3:03 was so cute! Also the video was very helpful as I tend to get angry when people are disrespectful to me.
@HannahMarieee2 жыл бұрын
It waas😍
@Iceyyy52292 жыл бұрын
Ship
@annemoiaa2 жыл бұрын
@@Iceyyy5229 ayo a sunburn shipper
@Iceyyy52292 жыл бұрын
@@annemoiaa Yes
@giddygoon732 жыл бұрын
Ship 2
@lorddrac_dontaskmetodance2 жыл бұрын
How to respond to rude people: 1. Hook up with their mom
@SickAsHellRailgun2 жыл бұрын
LMFAOOOOOO
@wholesomeedits2 жыл бұрын
Works tho
@heathermatic37732 жыл бұрын
When your sibling is rude to you:
@lorddrac_dontaskmetodance2 жыл бұрын
@@heathermatic3773 X(
@non-existent47172 жыл бұрын
POV: they don't have a mom
@mbcommandnerd2 жыл бұрын
Oh my goodness, you actually listened!!! Thank you so much, Psych2Go! The more OMORI, the better!
@rasmusleddyr2 жыл бұрын
Hi there! Your channel looked interesting, so I went onto it to check it out. I hope you make videos at some point like your description says!
@mbcommandnerd2 жыл бұрын
@@rasmusleddyr It’ll take time, but in the future, it may very well happen!
@dustyk1032 жыл бұрын
This is very good for children dealing with rude people and people who disrespects them. But they need to be taught there’s a difference between dealing with someone who’s just being rude and dealing with a bully. It only gets worse as you get older.
@not_akari2 жыл бұрын
Coincidental that I just got back into the omori fandom👀 The art style is adorable, and as a sensitive person, this video really helped!! :D
@non-existent47172 жыл бұрын
Someone being rude because they snapped deserve empathy. Someone who repeatedly does so and acts obviously(edit: oblivious not obviously)to it, denying it when spoken about and generally being disrespectful? - You *do not* ignore them. Stand up and give them a piece of your mind *for real.* People don't change till lack of change has cost them enough. A person with a shitty personality needs that to be told and if they keep not caring then they need to learn a lesson. But do always trust yourself on it. Stick to morals too. Ask for the other side of the story. Even when it's hard to sometimes. Just trust yourself on the judgement. It's not most people's fault anyway that they grew up to be rude. But still
@AllToastersToastToast2 жыл бұрын
I feel like Omori can teach us this too. I’ll try to keep vague to limit spoilers, but I’ll still give a warning. But basically, what you said, but with the The rude person in the story of Omori is part of an old friend group. She consistently bullies another friend, to the shock of the rest of the old group. But her friends stick with her. In part because they gotta stand up to what’s been happening, and in part because friends care about each other. It soon comes to a point where the rude friend tells her story because she finally feels like she has a safe place to vent her emotions. And she comes to feel understood. She’s finally willing to move forward as her story is heard and she comes to understand everyone else’s side of the story too. It’s not an easy process. Honestly, the main reason this story goes across three days is because of the specific situation. She’s greeted by her friends, shown that they care for her, and she feels welcome to open up. But not everyone’s like that. Some people take way longer, and much more support from others, and that’s okay. They should do things at their own pace, even things like becoming a better person.
@Anonymous-hx3pu2 жыл бұрын
I am usually patient with rude people, but if you push me too far then I'll put you face down in the dirt faster than you can call for my manager.
@Missmagazinebura2 жыл бұрын
How about calling them a sociopath ?
@Missmagazinebura2 жыл бұрын
@@Anonymous-hx3pu haha funny anonymous
@heatherfulmore34122 жыл бұрын
Yes address the behavior and realize that you may be dealing with a spoiled brat who gets away with rude behavior all of the time. Some people are grown up but it doesn't always mean that they are mentally matured enough to be respectful to others.
@annosa33432 жыл бұрын
I’m very proud of Nancy for being calm and polite when coming with solutions to her problems😉
@Hypersteel-43402 жыл бұрын
I am also a kind and merciful person I think. I want to treat nancy good as my beloved little sister and protect her from evil jerks. And then ship her to somebody who can give her the love and respect that she deserved.
@Dinoslay2 жыл бұрын
Definitely respectable. 👍
@davidfalcon65502 жыл бұрын
It's annoying when somebody acts rude towards me, even tho I didn't do anything to them, but I usually try thinking that they may be having a bad day, so I don't act rude back and try to forget about it. But sometimes you have to defend yourself when the other person is straight acting disrespectful
@Dinoslay2 жыл бұрын
Sometimes all that you ”did” was to exist at the wrong place at the wrong time. That way you are simply a convenience to someone else who may have gotten used to haphazardly propping themselves up at the expense of other people. Saying goes, ”some people try to be tall by cutting off the heads of others”. Sometimes it is inevitable so take it for what it is, a jackass looking for trouble. Whoever disrespects clearly drawn boundaries doesn’t deserve your respect either. Tell them to mind their own business somehow and then move on with your’s.
@leavemealone71082 жыл бұрын
Fr
@lllllllllllll31lll Жыл бұрын
Yeah but where do you draw the line, like any rude behaviour is a form of disrespect
@shirokuma14518 күн бұрын
@@lllllllllllll31lllI think it depends on your gut feeling. If it really bothers you to not confront them , you can try… “Hi excuse me…I understand you’re probably having a bad day but can you not do that? I felt disrespected and need common courtesy” This way you emphasize with them and take accountability for how you feel but at the same time having them be aware of what they did. Most would apologize believe it or not. Thank goodness for the book Non-Violent communication
@curtistinemiller46462 жыл бұрын
When people are rude to you,they reveal who they are ,not who you are ,Don't take it personal.....🌟
@HannahMarieee2 жыл бұрын
Exactly 🙌🏻
@curtistinemiller46462 жыл бұрын
@@HannahMarieee yep...😄
@poohbeardrawz80432 жыл бұрын
I love the story outline of this episode I loved it very much! It was really cool to hear the information through a story and I think it was really helpful.
@riskyfrisk22822 жыл бұрын
This video is imo the best one on this channel right now. The meritorical part is done awesomely well, the story format is really cool, not to mention the references (Omori easter eggs in this channel are always a nice touch considering the game's topic, the Among Us plushie might be just a little detail but it surely brings a smile, the game's just so nostalgic, me and my people have awesome memories from it), and the fact that the 4:23 face is honestly an S tier meme template material.
@socheata6432 жыл бұрын
We’ve all been “rude” these days but you’re not rude, sometimes it happens with our emotions, and sometimes things, we can’t let all get to us, remember we can change especially all of them including us. 🇺🇸🙏🇰🇭💙💗🦔
@Psych2go2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing! :)
@voidpirates81092 жыл бұрын
We can change them with our kindness or helping them.
@socheata6432 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go Anytime!
@socheata6432 жыл бұрын
@@voidpirates8109 Yeah!
@socheata6432 жыл бұрын
@@voidpirates8109 Just… not on a “hard” way.
@STABBRClan2 жыл бұрын
The Omori style is so cute XD love this format too!
@The_LuckyFox2 жыл бұрын
I love the style of the Video you did, using story telling for tips for dealing with rude people. Always love these type of videos, even your whole channel make the world seem a bit more kind, and hopeful.
@Nier2J2 жыл бұрын
Saw Omori style, precisely Aubrey, immediately clicked. Thanks for your work AND your creativity, Psych2go 👏
@Martyx552 жыл бұрын
same
@bighouse61202 жыл бұрын
Avoid rude, and annoying people 😃when you can. Yep.
@NamimoriGamer2 жыл бұрын
That is hard to apply when you work on customer service and the rude people come to you randomly
@MONEYAINTATHANG1002 жыл бұрын
👁
@Missmagazinebura2 жыл бұрын
Call them out on their rudeness especially Karen’s
@dabagel13 Жыл бұрын
Just throw the person that you dont like into a lake -Aubrey
@dragondancer51502 жыл бұрын
Teacher: "Hope you learned something from this experience." Me: Yeah . . . avoid group projects at all costs. Just do the work yourself because you're going to be the one to do it all anyway. ...that was me in EVERY. SINGLE. group thing all through school. Speaking up makes no difference. The outcome is the same, except now you've got classmates that you've called out. aka new enemies.
@Panzerfaust-ux8xb2 жыл бұрын
Well... it depends on how you speak up aswell. You can either make war with them or show them that you have the balls to not become their carpet 'respectfully'. Manipulative people obviously don't like it when they're called out. If they don't understand the difference and keep that attitude, it's they that are gonna suffer in the future. It eventually blows up their relationships. It doesn't matter what you do you will always have 'enemies' anyways. However, keeping integrity is important. If people think you have something more or better, they will get unavoidably jelous and become your adversary, even better marks for example, in a school's case. However, it's not always necessary to do it if the potential cost of speaking up creates too much unnecessairy bullsht and drama that is not worth eating for just a brief ego boost. It's not always so simple to realise what it really means to be assertive. Depends on the situation.
@Missmagazinebura2 жыл бұрын
I’m an introvert
@Sunny-xu9sc2 жыл бұрын
I LOVE OMORI AND THIS IS GREAT especially 0:09 great bully for example Aubrey hates Basil.
@bluesilverwolf39344 ай бұрын
0:09 Who's the person on the right ?
@felicia_cbn2 жыл бұрын
Wow these are such good tips! My favourite one was when Nancy told the teacher what was needed, not more about the fun Amber and the boy had. I love how you showed us more ways and tha contexts on how and when to use them.
@emmanuelsalako73702 жыл бұрын
Psych2Go rocks, and delivers effortlessly using a very pleasant voice and passing information effortlessly making psychology fun, interesting, engaging and keeps us coming back for so much more. Your topics are all well researched and compressed into a few minutes which is loaded, accurate and consistent. Thank you for teaching us how to behave when someone has been rude to us... You are the best teaching / learning channel on KZbin.
@LunesLunacy2 жыл бұрын
This is really helpful with a lot of rude people experiences in my life. It hurts and it's hard to forget the emotional pain they do.
@shrimplypiper2 жыл бұрын
aubrey is my favorite character from omori thank you for referencing her🙏
@Bwubdle1982 жыл бұрын
Nancy sounds like a very nice person to be around :)
@Psych2go2 жыл бұрын
Ikr
@wendyphipps78652 жыл бұрын
She acts like Cinderella too have courage and be kind
@HannahMarieee2 жыл бұрын
She does😍
@aliyahpulido9532 жыл бұрын
Almost the exact situation happened once to me for a psych college class that I took when I was 16 (I did dual enrollment with a community college while I was a junior and senior in high school). I was assigned a group project for 3 people, including myself. I never got to meet one of my teammates since she stopped coming to class near the beginning of the semester. My other teammate couldn't or wouldn't do research even when I gave him a short list of topics to look up, with reputable websites to use AND instructions the professor gave us on how to cite things. When he turned his "research" over to me so we could edit it together, I checked it with a plagiarism checker and it was ALL copy-pasted from websites that weren't scientifically creditable (*cough* Wikipedia) 😒. None of them were on my list. And he didn't answer any of our research questions. So I did the research for 3 people instead of just my own. This was almost 2 weeks into the project that we were given just under 3 weeks to do, and I had 3 other classes to do other projects and homework for. I updated my professor along the way that I was contacting my teammates regularly but one never responded at all, and the other one rarely did, and even when he did, he wasn't pulling his weight. The professor empathized, but unfortunately I had to finish it because it was our final project and my grade weighed heavily on it. I finished all the research, the report, the slides, and the cue cards myself. On the day of our presentation during the class break, my teammate "went to the bathroom" and didn't come back when it was our turn. I went up by myself, sleep deprived and frustrated almost to tears, and asked if someone would kindly click the slides for me while I presented, because my team wasn't there. (I felt NO guilt whatsoever when I only put my name on the slideshow and not my "teammates' " names.) At the end of class, I told the professor what happened, and she said I would get the credit my teammates would've received had they done their work. I'm proud to say I got a B on the project because I busted my butt and ruined my sleep schedule to complete it alone, especially because I was a few years younger than the classmates I was supposed to share the workload with, plus this was one of the first college classes I ever took. I've never repeated the experience since then and I've had MUCH better teammates for group projects now. I don't usually like to lead big things like these, but I don't mind being the leader when everyone actually pulls their weight and we communicate well. It's just a nice bonus that I'm taking classes I love now because I changed majors to something I find more engaging, and my classmates now are just as passionate about our course material as I am. I no longer have to beg people to do their research properly, I just have to help teammates who are in their fifties or forties (they went back to school later in life) how to do research more efficiently because computers have evolved since they were last in school. But they pick it up pretty well and are very kind and helpful in exchange for my patience, and are quite good at finding information I don't think of when we work together. We've done A+ work!
@sarvaepcmgaming2 жыл бұрын
SO ANNOYING WHEN THESE RANDOM PEOPLE NEVER DUD THEIR WORK DURING 5TH GRADE AN I HADTA DO IT ALL BY MYSELF AT LEAST I GOT CREDIT??
@gnarthdarkanen74642 жыл бұрын
Once had a group project fall apart... AND the last straw was when we'd arranged a meet up in the library (where conference rooms could be used for private work) and nobody showed up... at all... except me... SO I approached the instructor (weird academic tangent from High School) and we discussed the matter, so I got a self project for my credit... and quietly abandoned the group... Come time for the in class "Group Presentations" I stepped up and unequivocally explained there was no project because I apparently had no group... Thanked the class... and assured everyone in the room that as per my agreement with the Instructor, MY personal project would be ready on time for Friday (two days later)... and apologized for any inconvenience... The rest of the Group was shocked... AND when they started begging for personal projects, they were refused... Zero's for all of them... I'll never forget that Instructor's words. "When I assign a group project, it's for a complete group effort. I will not let groups abandon each other and get credit. This young man, Gnarth came to me and explained that he could probably get the whole thing done, but not on time, since you'd already wasted a week before shutting him out completely... SO he deserved a respectable shot. You do not." He shrugged apathetically, and let them watch his "dreaded red pen" come out to mark zero's next to each of their names, and draw and arrow next to mine... There weren't many teachers or professors quite like that guy. He'd been an engineer, and had handled many very large projects in the industry, so he knew well the frustrations and wouldn't take crap... BUT if you were honest and gave effort, he'd move mountains to give you a "respectable shot"... For my respectable shot, I earned a respectable grade... AND I'm confident my Group got a solid lesson about group projects. ;o)
@Poopy_and_Rainbow_Plays2 жыл бұрын
My groupmate also went to the bathroom when it was our turn😂😂
@peppermintspice58732 жыл бұрын
Similar things happened to me, and it’s why I hate group activities.
@Missmagazinebura2 жыл бұрын
Psychology class is the worst
@mingi111.2 жыл бұрын
i was literally so mad a couple minutes ago but i saw this and this calmed me down so much😭😭 exactly what i needed rn✨ thankss💞💞
@HannahMarieee2 жыл бұрын
💗
@michaelbrawls14102 жыл бұрын
same here
@HackGameX2942 жыл бұрын
The OMORI style really brightens up the video topic 💜💜
@lirissayo34272 жыл бұрын
Sure those are good tips, both enduring rude behaviours by shielding you and your lived ones with empathy and calmness, and taking actions against them, like reporting these rude behaviours at school or at work to your superiors, and elsewhere to the appropriate persons nya. And you're being bullied, stand up for yourself nya ! Make a call to the appropriate persons, build a resistance group, wear your armor, but don't let them win their own petty war against you. You're worthy and you deserve kindness and empathetic behaviours nya🌿
@user61696 Жыл бұрын
Group assigments are a deeply rooted problem when stuck with the wrong partners. I think that the best solution is to let the professor know in advance, while so notifying that she'll work on the presentation alone despite not getting cooperation from her partners. In the case that was presented in the clip, the former information was revealed only *after* the assigment was due and was *praised* - What if it didn't get much praise? It would seem like an excuse and blaming the others while cover your own back...
@GNParty2 жыл бұрын
I found your self help vids recently. Thank you SO MUCH for all the free help! 👍🏻
@Psych2go2 жыл бұрын
You're VERY welcome. We want to help as many people in all types of topics. If you ever have topic suggestions, feel free to share in the comments. We will always be looking out for them :) Thank you for your support by watching our videos!
@holywater95692 жыл бұрын
And this is why I subbed to your channel, you’re work to make me feel calm and to think of the world differently is amazing! You’re channel has made me look at the world like no one else has, thank you
@scarletshield0092 жыл бұрын
There is a difference between rudeness and hostility. This video may not represent reality but these are good tips anyway
@dominic.h.33632 жыл бұрын
I'm glad you didn't advise to always be a footstool. There's letting things slide, and then there's letting people demean you as a person. The latter is never acceptable and should ALWAYS be met with due opposition!
@kaddourimen55992 жыл бұрын
Wow I love the narrative style and the animation is so smooth and very helpful tips thank you so much
@hellgazer83702 жыл бұрын
came here for omori, stayed for the actually useful tips. love these videos, they're always helpful!
@tipstops53066 ай бұрын
The best things I learned today is able to reply back so that you can't feel awkward about it later, and feel ashamed of it. You can reply humourously, you can reply aggressively but still in a good way, you can reply with confidence and assertiveness accepting your faults and mistakes openly without any shame in that moment.
@kandgray2 жыл бұрын
YESSS TYSM FOR MORE OMORI CONTENT!!! 💜💜💜
@Psych2go2 жыл бұрын
For sure! Shall we add more in the future? :D
@livingmy2.02 жыл бұрын
These are great tips, and I can also say the best thing that worked for me for not being negatively affected by others is to work on your own emotional resilience - learn how to process your stress and anxiety and work on your mindset. When you do this, others acting negatively towards you won't affect you as much ☺️
@changedmyusernameagain76542 жыл бұрын
I love these episodes. I have a hard time standing up for myself and when I do, it's often rudely so this was really helpful
@0m000 Жыл бұрын
0:02 stranger 0:05 Othermart 0:08 auby and babil 0:17 NANCI 1:04 orange joe 3:02 snuy and auby in the Lost Library 3:17 photo album 3:22 angry 3:30 geometry dash 3:44 when the
@fiercenfluffy8702 жыл бұрын
I have always been such a pushover. I'm working on speaking up for myself, but as a people pleaser and an empath, I want to make everyone happy and I can't stand conflict. I'm always worried about being one of these rude people, so I let people walk all over me.
@Dinoslay2 жыл бұрын
I know your pain, the assimilative nature of rudeness truly is it’s most messed up aspect which is made worse when entire social groups or fandoms participate in conforming to it, thus, reward it. It ropes in those who, instead of sharing rudeness, would rather be kind. My lesson to learn was that nice boys always finish last. It can stain your conscience which gaslighting scum prey upon. ”You enjoy hijinks like us or you’re weak.” How about no lol. The problem is that by being in the group at all you often don’t know how to avoid contributing to the dynamic so, to compensate, you either take the peer pressure in relative silence or walk away from those who collectively feed the trend. Harsh, I know. Been there, done that. COUGHbroniesCOUGH But you know what? You can endure or walk away knowing the whole time that none of the shit talk, the drama, popularity contests and flexing coming from them ever has to define your individual vitality level. It doesn’t. When it’s high you don’t owe that to them so don’t let them waste it. Don’t waste blind respect on them either, that’s exactly how they get you. Rigged games lack integrity. Let rude people be rude people by themselves. Rewarding what a-holes do is completely irrelevant to individual life. Nuff said.
@chilathecreativefox9098 Жыл бұрын
If you let people walk all over you, then you're basically a coward.
@Abc-rt9qm2 жыл бұрын
We learned all about this in elementary school. They taught us the difference between passive, assertive, and aggressive behavior. Well, let’s just say it’s gotten harder since I started middle school, but your video has reminded me how to stand up for yourself and not let others’ rudeness affect you. Thank you for your insightful videos, and I hop e whoever reads this has a great day!
@shokojimhollingsworth39402 жыл бұрын
Pretty sure they just teach aggressive now.
@Lyreoz2 жыл бұрын
I already commented this on the video, but I thought it was worth copy and pasting as a reply. Honestly, I'd rather just be passive aggressive or rude back. You can grand stand all you like, but at the end of the day you are not obligated to be the "bigger person." Here's how I would respond: Rude Customer: "And what makes you think I brought my phone?" Me: "I just assumed you were a fully functional member of society who brings their phone with them like everybody else, but I guess not." Will: "Thanks to my dearest Amber for working very hard on the presentation. Without her, these slides would be super dull." Me: "What are you talking about? You literally did none of the work. Would you like me to project our entire group chat onto the smart board and read the messages out loud, or would you like to shut up and take the free A?"
@sabrinapires53172 жыл бұрын
My social anxiety makes me be extremely nice to literally everyone but it really bothers me how some people don’t have the same attitude towards me. It makes me feel completely isolated. It came to a point where i would force myself to be mean just to fit in with them. Anyone else feel this?
@ogyanabear9 ай бұрын
1000%
@medicosonlyАй бұрын
Anxiety is simply an absence of fear
@a_cool_bottle Жыл бұрын
never did i expect an omori like video on this channel
@Sandiewich2 жыл бұрын
I love watching your videos while listening to the sound of rain. It's really comforting! also my health class teacher played one of your videos at school. And whenever the game references show up, my classmates are all like screaming the character's names lol
@Tori_T_Artist2 жыл бұрын
thank you! 😮💨 I struggle not to overreact because I find it extremely personally offensive, but I know I've had my moments too, intentional or not. Not overreacting helps me stay a kind, not-rude person and avoids more hurt feelings and contention :)
@HannahMarieee2 жыл бұрын
We’re all human after all 🥰
@DONUTDONUTDONUTDONUTDONUT2 жыл бұрын
How to respond to rude people: Grab a knife. Slash.
@CatgirlLydia2 жыл бұрын
I love the mid omori style in this video. I would love to see more of this in the future.
@WatchMeShanaenae2 жыл бұрын
I had a manager who made discriminatory and racist comments about me every day that I worked with her. I ignored it for months until I couldn’t stand it to the point where I would just cry. I spoke to upper manager about it and was told they would take care of it. Then she was going around work saying that I was calling her a racist and that she was the victim. I’m unsure what was said to upper management since I was then made to feel like it was my problem. You think you’re doing the right thing by saying something (considering I’m not the one person she had done it too) but instead you get looked at like you’re the problem because everyone else keeps silent about what goes on
@ellakramar19312 жыл бұрын
I left a similar job like that.
@chelseathecreativeFox Жыл бұрын
I'm sorry that happened to you. Did you quit eventually?
@Julie-jf4zmАй бұрын
That really sucks
@WatchMeShanaenaeАй бұрын
@@chelseathecreativeFox I ended up leaving and turns out she was getting investigated because she was doing a lot of dodgy stuff which then got her fired. Karma I guess
@scavengingcrow3498 Жыл бұрын
I FINALLY FOUND ONE OF YOUR OMORI THUMBNAILS
@Snarzzy2 жыл бұрын
Omg I loved watching this channel and I come back to see you guys mention my favorite game. Love you for creating great and wonderful content! 🥰
@humankktheblueslime2 жыл бұрын
The first thing that get to my mind once I saw the video title is 'this'll probably be a meme video about using knife to deal with rude people' or something lol
@yan_arts46192 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video✨ I actually needed this because I don't know how to handle this kind of stuff. I also experienced this...I went to a university to enroll myself but when I ask questions politely, the old woman starts to embarrassed me in front of many students. Sadly, it happens to me twice🙂 and now I learned that I must not take it personally ✨
@aquilao72 жыл бұрын
This is very helpful, thankyou. I really needed this ! Sometimes whenever I encounter times were rudeness sparks, I don’t know what to do so I just stay silent. But this time, I’ll take these advices to heart and mind, thankyou !
@erynairfan62942 жыл бұрын
the animations are cute and most importatntly relaxing. Pastel colours signal my brain to relax
@Mazzzef2 ай бұрын
Never keep your mind on rude people. Because they won't have their mind on you because they dont even have one.
@iidgm2 жыл бұрын
im a simple person. i see aubrey, i click.
@iidgm2 жыл бұрын
update: im disappointed she just appeared once as a background character.
@ohohoh91502 жыл бұрын
the among us references in almost every video are the best of it
@amandalidey3292 жыл бұрын
I definitely ingore the toxicity around me. Don't reply back with anger & drama anymore. Doesn't bother me anymore. Don't have time for it & don't need it in my life. I've been thru enough drama to now just walk away & continue with my day. Some people are so toxic & I have removed myself from it all. Family members especially.
@psychicfriendfredbear52102 жыл бұрын
Least the fandoms growing Also I need more omori if you don't mind continue it
@its_val82 жыл бұрын
You guys always put your effort to make these videos for us. Thank you so much 😊
@HenryE19832 жыл бұрын
Aww thanks for making this omori stuff really helps me cope with stuff so thank you!
@robertgaines-tulsa2 жыл бұрын
You make it look easy to avoid emotional distress when encountering rude people. To be blunt, your cases were fairly mild. I've experienced stuff that will turn you pale. Karens are like society's abuse machines that feed off of your emotional distress. Sometimes, you can't really run. Society is more cruel than nice. I've always had issues with emotional security in life. I ended up abandoning my dreams for Disability. Might as well call it Social Shell Shock, but what I have is an actual mental disorder.
@danielyuan98622 жыл бұрын
There is a different between someone who _happens_ to be rude, and someone who forgets that they were supposed to be nice.
@Riya-pf3oc Жыл бұрын
You know what, you are exactly my mirror. Can we be friends, if you want. I really needs you and may be you also need someone at this time.
@thenerdycousins90992 жыл бұрын
It’s been a while since I watched a video from you guys, and I just recently got into Omori, then I was recommended this and I was just thrown off
@albertovalencia66462 жыл бұрын
Always coming to the rescue, thank you so much love this channel so much ❤️ ❤️ ❤️
@Psych2go2 жыл бұрын
You are so kind! Thank you so much for your support. I hope this video helps you
@albertovalencia66462 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go awww ofc!! And yes it helps me a lot!! ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️
@toast_23752 жыл бұрын
IN LOVE WITH THE OMORI CAMEOS ❤💙💚
@okraleon_2622 жыл бұрын
this channel is trying to tell me something. *first it was how to tell if someone likes you over text and now it's how to deal with rude people.*
@Psych2go2 жыл бұрын
Did they help you? :O
@rubin-healmysocialanxiety7022 жыл бұрын
lots of wisdom for sure!
@swagstorm9629 Жыл бұрын
*IS THAT AN OMORI REF-* yippee tho, was scrolling through your channel looking for a video with Omori in it. And I’m Sunny and Aubrey look so adorable waaa. Also Omori mental health videos would be really cool, since everyone in that game is dealing with (insert major spoiler here) in there own way, some better than others.
@RikoAnimatic2 жыл бұрын
im quite late but aubrey is for the example of a rude or bully bc of omori theory yall auby is a swet/rufe person ig past of auby- but hey auby the best characterfor the example
@from_grace2 жыл бұрын
hi thanks for this wonderful video. i have quite of a short temper so this kind of helped me on how to control my emotions rather than the other way around. after the video, i tried taking deep breaths while counting from 1 to 10. it felt so calming that i suddenly let out a few tears. anyway, hopefully in the future i could be a more patient and calm person. thank u again, psych2go :>
@TakeBackYourMind9972 жыл бұрын
Always try to be responsive, not reactive. Holding anger and resentment towards someone only ever hurts you. Obviously setting boundaries is still very important.
@DeRez192 жыл бұрын
This is incredibly helpful, actually. I feel like I missed out on a lot of positive relationships and even potential romances because I didn't speak up for myself and looked weak. Even after I learned from those mistakes, I learned even more from this video. Thank you!
@Pratt112 жыл бұрын
I used to think this “being polite" is unrealistic af, but I do see it working around me now-a-days
@mhamadarhamarham68692 жыл бұрын
Ah...🥰the Omori style is fantastic.. learned and enjoyed well
@D3nxpp2 жыл бұрын
Being rude and screaming back untill they leave gives them a taste of their own medicine.
@dianamorj14172 жыл бұрын
I just snapped after ignoring long years of toxic realationship with some people. In my world, my life rudeness is a part of humans that can not be denied, it is everywhere, and after I learned how to just ignore and live my life I forgot where the line is. I accepted every little thing, even though I was offended with it, because thought that it is normal and everyone is experiencing the same. Unfortunately, I stood up for myself too late and loose my temper over a small rude joke, did not even think about "counting to ten" or anything else. This video put me back into reality, now I understand I did wrong) Thank you.
@rubin-healmysocialanxiety7022 жыл бұрын
“If you are irritated by every rub, how will your mirror be polished?” -Rumi
@non-existent47172 жыл бұрын
I don't get it
@rubin-healmysocialanxiety7022 жыл бұрын
@@non-existent4717 sort of like, the reason you are getting triggered is something you experienced in the past and need to heal from so you can be whole again 🙂
@non-existent47172 жыл бұрын
@@rubin-healmysocialanxiety702 i still don't get it.. 💀
@ottermadness40482 жыл бұрын
Me and my best friend have this quote ‘kill people with kindness, and bury them with a smile’. My way of dealing with rude people is to act innocent and sweet. This normally unnerves them but if they still come at me I’ll just press on with niceness (sometimes explain why that isn’t true or something like that). They then can’t be bothered to be rude to me because I just don’t give them a reaction. If you are having trouble with things like that then I hope this helps you. If you happen to have the unluckiness of people that just won’t stop then maybe try to find someone to support you. In my case I have two confident friends that would gladly burn them to a crisp with their words. Adults and teachers are also good!
@xodtixo5 ай бұрын
Thank you! I once commented something on KZbin and then people were being rude about it and this helped❤!
@chomusuke36362 жыл бұрын
I really aprecciate the positive direction of the video but as a half-empty type of person I have to say it, some people are just a lost case.
@berserk20232 жыл бұрын
Psych, if this is a vent I love you man. Keep your head up.
@CJFreeza2 жыл бұрын
Omori style plus the grey rock method = conversational success
@NottheuserAVeryNormalHuman2 жыл бұрын
I like how the moon had that leaf thing that you put on top of peoples heads, nice touch 👍
@GamerBoy.17612 жыл бұрын
Man, this is a nice video to lookout for rude ppl in my high school.
@Psych2go2 жыл бұрын
Hope this helps! Let us know if you have any other tips too! You might be able to help others out!
@rubin-healmysocialanxiety7022 жыл бұрын
very important to stay safe 🙏
@GamerBoy.17612 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go thx Psych2go! And I might will one day.
@wholesomeedits2 жыл бұрын
Schools Abt to start for me so this video is good
@GamerBoy.17612 жыл бұрын
@@wholesomeedits definitely even though school is started for your boy.
@avajoy86942 жыл бұрын
You just re-deppressed me with the Basil shot.
@kawaiisnail08642 жыл бұрын
Off topic but like at 0:24 it looks like Roxanne Wolf and glamrock chica are standing next to each other
@KyleUltima91892 жыл бұрын
I always come across people like this, especially in my class, thank you 🙏
@TAILIN12 жыл бұрын
I love how the Omori characters look like
@cameronjones7133 Жыл бұрын
When I was younger my brother would bully me, in turn that made me constantly punk down (as he called it) it took me years to stand up to him. And I did it! He now respects me. He was tuff. And he said it made me tuff. But if he just loved me , I think it would have been better 😢sad now that we grown and he’s gone and died. So some of that will go in in- answered. To all those who deal with bullying. The heart pounding is good / not bad. It gives you strength not anxiety. You have to turn it from fear to strength. It’s the only way ❤good luck out there