5 Habits That Attract People The Most

Have you been finding it difficult to get people to like you? Do you get flustered or awkward and end up pushing people away? To help you become more attractive, here are a few habits that attract people the most.
Need more tips? Here are a few more behaviors that attract people most: • 5 Behaviors That Attra...
Writer: Stela Kosic
Script Editor: Isadora Ho
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
Voice: Amanda Silvera / amandasilvera
Animator: OatsAndToast
KZbin Manager: Cindy Cheong
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Emery, L. R. (2018, July 23). 7 Daily Habits Of People Who Attract Long-Term Relationships. Bustle. www.bustle.com/p/7-daily-habits-of-people-who-attract-long-term-relationships-9844998
Farrelly, D., Clemson, P., & Guthrie, M. (2016). Are Women’s Mate Preferences for Altruism Also Influenced by Physical Attractiveness? Evolutionary Psychology, 14(1), 147470491562369. doi.org/10.1177/1474704915623698
Gao, Z., Yang, Q., Ma, X., Becker, B., Li, K., Zhou, F., & Kendrick, K. M. (2017). Men Who Compliment a Woman’s Appearance Using Metaphorical Language: Associations with Creativity, Masculinity, Intelligence and Attractiveness. Frontiers in Psychology, 8. doi.org/10.3389/fpsyg.2017.02185
Golle, J., Mast, F. W., & Lobmaier, J. S. (2013). Something to smile about: The interrelationship between attractiveness and emotional expression. Cognition and Emotion, 28(2), 298-310. doi.org/10.1080/02699931.2013.817383
Gunther, R. (n.d.). How To Compliment A Man To Build Attraction. Flourish Together. www.flourishtogether.com/dating/how-to-compliment-a-man-to-build-attraction.html
Montoya, R. M., & Horton, R. S. (2012). The reciprocity of liking effect. In M. A. Paludi (Ed.), The psychology of love (pp. 39-57). Praeger/ABC-CLIO.
Steber, C. (2017, September 6). 15 Easy Ways To Attract More Love & Positivity Into Your Life. Bustle. www.bustle.com/p/15-easy-ways-to-attract-more-love-positivity-into-your-life-80975

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[@sirtetris]

5 Habits that attract people the most 1. 0:23 Practicing kindness 2. 0:58 Being a good listener 3. 1:41 Smiling 4. 2:14 Spreading positivity 5. 2:52 Giving compliments

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So I tried to skip couple of seconds and now i cant find any points. God bless you brother.

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Me when I try to give girls a compliment: I believe, the best i can say is *inserts ew then insult*

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That is woman gotta do

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0:24 Practicing kindness. 0:58 Being a good listener. 1:42 Smiling. 2:15 Spreading positivity. 2:53 Giving compliments.

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@Lord Submissive same 💀

[@DefinitelyNotHidan]

@Lord Submissive Sometime there is some people who didn't deserve kindness trust me pal

[@randomguy-zf4nd]

Ive been practicing the whole list yet so far the list of what attracts people from my observation are: 1- Being tall 2- Being tall 3- Being tall 4- Being tall 5- Being tall It is what it is

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ok...

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Ur talking to the wrong ppl m8

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ikr, i also noticed that people treat tall people a lot better than short ones

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me whomst is barely 5 feet:

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The thumbnail is automatically a masterpiece the second you look at it.

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Glad you like it :D

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I really like how Psych2go put memes in their videos when they think we aren't noticing and it makes the video less heavy and more cheerful

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I don't know if you made this one, but I need a "How to reject someone without hurting them" I love all the videos you make :)

[@norapeace6526]

@Ken Severo good advice. My crush did that to while also saying he liked me, but that He couldn’t take “all the God & prayers” … that I was doing…when I explained myself further, he never texted back. For some reason, I don’t think it’s over but it’s so hard to hold on to that

[@luckyafsdjflasioandfi6939]

i don't think they have one yet, good idea :) btw i think they have a showing someone that you're not interested vid

[@EveryLittleBitCounts]

You must just like the attention or you wouldn't be struggling with that

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@Ken Severo thats probs it, I've been ghosted by two girls so far, it doesn't feel good at all.

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@Ken Severo that’s what I’m afraid of

[@Theiiii]

This animator is very good at animating and expressing characters than the most tbh Just my opinion! Everyone does good

[@michaelangelosoriao9319]

For others, being good looking face and body are attractive, even they're always mad, being bad, negative, and toxic. That's the reality now

[@pongangelo2048]

Those "others" are the people who choose to befriend the thugs and desperate for some company.

[@EveryLittleBitCounts]

You sound like the toxic one my guy.

[@willsolacemahsaamini8681]

Correction for the 3rd point: Don’t just smile when you’re around people. Smile for yourself, too! 😁

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Yes. That's gold.

[@robertreed2824]

This is what ive been doing to try and smile more often, trying my best to smile more because plunty of people have told me i dont do it enough....

[@mayn7115]

I’ve done these five things most of the time. It’s natural but I always attract the wrong kind of people : narcissistic and toxic people. I’m feeling like I do not want to interact with others, no smiling , just do my own things, being reserved. I’m burnt out.

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Saaaaame.

[@Danzzs]

1. 0:23 Practicing kindness😍 2. 0:58 Being a good listener🤠 3. 1:41 Smiling😁 4. 2:14 Spreading positivity🥰 5. 2:52 Giving compliments🤗

[@PsychologyRefresh]

1. 0:23 Practicing kindness 2. 0:58 Being a good listener 3. 1:41 Smiling 4. 2:14 Spreading positivity 5. 2:52 Giving compliments

[@ajaniedwards2671]

I’m not doing 5 before I get called creep lol

[@7milesyonder934]

I'm all but it's not important now....No need to get attention,,,be yourself....Let them leave it's ok.... Be happy.... it all matters... 💜

[@kiwi_kini]

*5 habits to make you more attractive* 1. Practising kindness 2. Being a good listener 3. Smiling 4. Spreading positivity

[@arushisingh5146]

And 5. Giving compliments ☺

[@Talibland]

Hi im a 17 years old mom from Afghanistan,it’s not spam and I’m not scamming just see my videos,I don’t want anything from you,I’m making videos about Taliban rules and human rights here,Taliban killed my whole family…i need the world know more about us

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@@Talibland omg I'm so sorry

[@jkg4847]

The animation is so clean , props to the animator. It really makes the information much easier to understand

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I love your videos!!! Am 16 right now and am planning to become a psychiatrist and also a youtuber , i have always been interested in learning more about humans and how their behaviour and feeling work , and your videos always help me learn more

[@Psych2go]

Thank you so much :) Thanks for sharing!! Good luck on your journey

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I wanna be a Psychiatrist too!!

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@@Iarchmybackula woah! I wish you the best!

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Same!! 💜 Wish you good luck ✨

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Five habits that makes Squidward handsome. 0:23 practicing kindness 0:58 being a good listener 1:41 smiling 2:14 spreading positivity 2:52 giving compliments

[@bellecurs7354]

Kindness🤗...kindness is not what you do, its who you are❤️

[@Psych2go]

That's right :) Did you relate to this video?

[@bellecurs7354]

Yes i do😊..i show kindness and do kind thing not bcoz for a reason of pleasing others but to fullfill the happiness i feel within me by doing so, and thank u for this very helpful video..pls. do more to educate us ..thank u❤️

[@EveryLittleBitCounts]

You're on the right train of thought towards figuring out this channel is run by a virtue signalling money hungry narcissist and that half of these videos are actually encouraging unhealthy thinking patterns with the manner they are presented in.

[@dailydoseofmedicinee]

Do not brag or show others down because you gain success.🙏

[@aqifaparkar4601]

0:25 practicing kindness 0:58 being a good listener 1:42 smiling 2:15 spreading positivity 2:54 giving compliments

[@kingwitherasher4628]

Funnyness can attract people. So say a few jokes to your crush and they will know that when they are with you they are happy.☺

[@melaniemartin4319]

But how?🤩🤩🤩

[@dorkarama3135]

@@melaniemartin4319 Being funny and witty in general is probably better than telling jokes. Work on the fun side of your personality, maybe.

[@kingwitherasher4628]

@@melaniemartin4319 because they will start to like you and get attracted to you when you make them comfortable and happy.

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@sitiy2 how is that related?

[@Talibland]

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[@rachelthompson7487]

Thank you for this.I love the animation in this one. ❤️

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The thumbnail, the amount of summary comments, the meme refs This video is literally perfect! XD

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I do love the new editor and all of his his edits and new character and their hair also .

[@liselotte6384]

In a conversation, many people will love it if you ask them for their opinion, or perhaps invite them to talk about themselves in some way, in the sense that you're genuinely interested in what they have to say. It's a great lead-in to any of the 1-5 habits.

[@LadyyMilimoggs]

I'm 14 and when i first joined this channel, i was 12 may be I'm too young but Psy2go is the best channel for me which is currently helping me during my adolescence.And yes a great thanks to the narrator,her voice always makes me understand each and every word of her :-)

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Please do more of this animatiom style, it's absolutly incredible!

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Never expected that kind of thumbnail from y’all. Love it :)

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The expressions are so ✨. Love this

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The art in this video is beautiful!

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Thank you for this video!I needed it!

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the thumbnail is absolutely beautiful

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Thank you for posting this video. I’m gonna watch it for a few days so it can sink in. These are super tips! I’m grateful 😊

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i love all the different plants you add in this one

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I love this woman’s voice so much! 😭💖

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I always look forward to watching your great videos😊🙌🏻

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To the *incredible person* seeing this, I wish you all the best in life❤ don't over blame yourself, accept things and go forward. Don't let others define what “success” is for you. Get up, learn the skills needed and get after it, all the keys to a happy life is in your hands. I love ❤️ your videos. They’re really helpful.

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Well i am the canceller and i'm here to well, twitter, cancel, messages... illegal thumnail on this video, karen shoplifting with big cadillac suv of husband...

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I miss saturn cars, but also pontiac, oldsmobile and all of that

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Y'know also good old v8's

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[@anteopta6396]

Spreading positivity, like your videos do. Every time I watch one of it, I feel like talking about my problems or simply wanting to smile. Depends on the content of the video.

[@CM-dq4qp]

One of the best ways to be a good listener is to ask questions - good questions. Good questions are generally open-ended, requiring more than a one- or two-word answer such as "yes" or "no." They typically start with "why," "how," and "what." They invite people to more deeply explore and share their feelings and beliefs. Asking good questions is easier if you're a good listener. If you focus on listening intently, really hearing what someone is saying and understanding what might be left unsaid or unexplored, good open-ended questions can become apparent. So ask them. Some good questions can take a bit of planning. For example, if someone tells you about something they’re going to do in the near future, the next time you see them, ask about it. Turn this situation around. If you tell someone about your weekend plans, and afterward that person asks you how it went - how would that make you feel? Asking good questions not only attracts people, but can bring people closer together. Good questions can be an integral, foundational part of deep and meaningful long-term relationships.

[@robertreed2824]

Some great advice here, i always try to ask meaningful questions, not to often though cause then it would get annoying...

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I'm absolutely in love with the different plants the characters have, especially the bleeding heart one. so cute!!

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That is the most *BEAUTIFUL AND GLORIOUS* thumbnail I've ever seen.

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I love the visuals in this video

[@erinwilson8478]

Excellent advise. Overall I think sincerity should be present in all these habits.

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OMG HANDSOME SQUIDWARD THUMBNAIL! YAYYYY

[@_Kristinaa]

Thank you so much for making this video. I really appreciate it a lot since I have been struggling attracting people to notice me. Luvyah

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Your voice is very soothing I feel relaxed now.

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this channel is a mix of memes, games and most importantly looking out for our mental health. and I love it so much because its also entertaining for me considering how the drawings makes it better for me to understand

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I think I already knew all of these things, but it's nice to be reminded.

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my teacher showed us your anxiety videos last month for AP psych and I've been watching these since.

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i truly love you videos and they have helped me and makes me feel better and always make my day

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The animation in these videos is getting really good

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yeah there are some useful informations, but can we also appreciate artstyle? it's so wholesome

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This is the best thumbnail I've seen in my life

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The little dance at the end is so adorable.

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I love this channel.

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the thumbnail is a chefs kiss

[@RapFanatic4ever]

I’m a good listener . I listen better than I talk

[@Silver_Fields]

I love the animation style in this one

[@elleiah811]

When I'm trying to make friends but I end up realizing that I just want to be alone.

[@vedant6747]

Thanku for this video 😘

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You make the best thumbnails. Wow.

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*WOAH!* The animation quality of this video is *INSANE* it's making me so giddy 😄

[@Psych2go]

Glad you like it! Would you like to see more of this animation?

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@@Psych2go Yes please! It looks sooo good and really cool! 😁😁😁

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Aahh I love your videos!!

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tysm :) I love you video sm ❤️

[@i-love-milfs]

The thumbnail is beautiful

[@GamerBoy.1761]

Oh man, this will totally help me out in high school bc, I'm working on talking to some of my classmates I'm vibe and comfortable with but I want to better than that, bc not only I make my own group of friends, then I'll be rememberable when I graduate high school. So, I'll use this to help me out seeing which classmate to be friends with.

[@dorkarama3135]

From this day forward, I'm going to stop picking my nose.

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Omg. This comment needs to be highlighted. Lol so funny

[@ohlookitsrosie]

HAHAHA

[@Trishnakukreti_15]

Thank you for this video ...I need this so much ...💕😘🥰

[@ronronronnie]

Thank you very much for your videos! I really appreciate the warmth and love you're spreading online! The audio in your recent videos sounds quite muffled? Perhaps you might wanna look into it. (:

[@ivetoile163]

I really like your videos, it help me a lot and i like the fact that they’re short too ! Thank you so much

[@Psych2go]

Glad you like them! :)

[@davidschantz5363]

I find using people's name in conversations will help too.

[@jorgecasupanan5603]

Thank you

[@nuggetbomber5977]

This video had amazing animation, good work!

[@Psych2go]

Happy to hear that! Is this your favorite animation so far? :)

[@nuggetbomber5977]

@@Psych2go yeah, I like all the other ones too but this is definitely my favorite

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I love the the animation for the video. I don’t know if it’s different or not but it seemed really great this video

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Your KZbin channel Helps me with my stress

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IM READY HEHEH

[@Psych2go]

YAY! :) Did you find this video helpful?

[@cr3pvscvl4r]

@@Psych2go Yes!

[@charm12b82]

i do all of this but im still alone... im glad i found this channel...

[@joannabevan5456]

Kind people are awesome. I am a good listener. I'm not a big Smiler. It's good to have a positive outlook on things. I love giving small compliments.

[@deputyhobbs9683]

I kept seeing these videos get recommended and I got sad every time because of how lonely I was. *and yet I keep watching them*

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Great videos Amanda I've always loved psych2go and am a huge fan

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Best thumbnail

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Aahamm ...new update on KZbin ...that like button..so satisfying 😌😌😂

[@iamcoolmanrich1200]

good channel!

[@patchofmawce]

I actually don’t like talking about myself, but I very much enjoy listening to others talk

[@bluecritical7618]

Yes because I'm working to have all if these habits and I already have the internal need to do most

[@Lua-qx1qj]

I personally didn't know about smilling. so thanks ❤️

[@ejakaegypt]

It works cuz I’m always smiling and laughing and it gets others laughing too

[@DrummerSwagger]

Great animation

[@mohanchandra9001]

Thank you ...

[@robertreed2824]

The one im definitely trying to work on the most is smiling... im not really much of a smiley person but its not because im not happy, i just dont think i subconsciously smile unless something is funny, i might greet someone with a smile but during the conversation i probably wont continue smiling even if i like the person, and thats mainly what im trying to work on, my smile however is a good one i think

[@fern8276]

Love the thumbnail ✌️😂❤️

[@BKing007]

Smiling and spreading positivity ftw

[@willsolacemahsaamini8681]

I love how you call Domapine “Feel-good hormones”. It’s cute! 💖

[@imconfused4803]

I have Problems talking 5o people, so this is very useful. Thank you.

[@lov3nish214]

Animation improving 😍✌️

[@SpecialSnowflake]

Suggestion: I would love to see a video on Harm OCD/Intrusive thoughts in more detail

[@hyperbeastnimit4190]

The animation of this video is amazing 🗿

[@Syndicate888]

No disrespect to the other voice actors on this channel.. But this narrator is my favorite 🥰 She's even nostalgic to me to a degree. Anyway, thanks to everyone on this channel for their hard work. Your videos are almost always a comfort 💝

[@Psych2go]

Glad you enjoy it! Did you find this video helpful?

[@Syndicate888]

@@Psych2go, 😅 This one...? Not particularly 😅💕 But MANY of your videos are very validating and helpful. And I'm happy to respond to this query to boost your KZbin algorithm placement 😁👍

[@gerardwells9515]

Number 1 exercise

[@interestingbubbleguppie7691]

I clicked as soon as I seen this epic thumbnail

[@Milkotman]

I see myself as the type of person that helps other people, treats them with kindness and expects the same in return. A friendly human being that's kind, doesn't start any arguments or fights without any STRONG reason behind it. 3 out of 5 of these habits are what i do in public (School) most of the time. Just saying. Have a good day!

[@robertreed2824]

Everything here is great but me personally i wouldn't expect anything in return, id just do it because i wanted to be a good person and i like to treat people the way id like to be treated, obviously thats not always how they react.. so i dont expect it in return

[@Milkotman]

@@robertreed2824 it's more like what Technoblade once said: "For those who treat me with kindness...I will repay that kindness tenfold. And those who treat me with injustice, use me and hurt my friends...I will repay that injustice a thousand times over." But not that harsh.

[@EveryLittleBitCounts]

Being boastful about how kind you are is weird. You also specify that you "see yourself as" that type of person and not that you "are" that type of person. Makes it seem like you're presenting a false image and are at least subconsciously aware of it. It's like your ego's way of covering for itself if it's not willing to let you state something untrue. You can see yourself in many distorted ways but it doesn't make it true. Your reply here also is not something a kind person would say. Just saying. Have a good day!

[@Milkotman]

The thing i wanted to convey through my reply is that if you want to be my friend then be cool with me, don't use me, don't be mean to me unless you act under heavy feelings (Any negativity spread by you shall be forgiven up to 5 times. After that the trust has been broken which will result in possible ignoring from my side, but we can be friends after some apologies or a week after the recent insult i will make an approach and attempt to find peace.) and i will reciprocate with the same. In short "Help me, help you" or "Hate me, hate you".

[@EveryLittleBitCounts]

@@Milkotman ignoring negativity is vastly different then returning negativity in kind. you might want to use a different quote to describe your thinking if that one doesn't actually represent your point of view at all. It literally describes vengeance in the second half.

[@HighlySensitiveHealer]

Great video! I started a channel about HSP’s for men and women and wanted to thank you for this channels help on getting me there.