9 Signs You'll Have A Successful Relationship

A successful relationship isn’t about being picture-perfect or adorable all the time, but it is about patience and understanding. There are many common mindsets, behaviors, and habits of truly healthy relationships that the movies simply don’t show. Whether you’re in a relationship looking to improve it or single wondering about successful relationships, here are a few signs you will have a successful relationship!
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Writer: Lily Metrinko
Script Editor: Morgan Franz
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
Voice: Amanda Silvera / amandasilvera
Animator: art1st1cly
KZbin Manager: Cindy Cheong

[@Raghav-tx6ym]

0:55 You’re committed to giving your time, energy and care to your partner. 1:21 You recognise the importance of self care. 1:42 You have a sense of purpose, separated from your relationship. 2:12 You and your partner are vulnerable and transparent with each other. 2:42 You share responsibility in your relationship. 3:35 You have equality with your partner. 4:10 You actively listen to each other without interrupting, judging or correcting. 4:54 You both are willing to seek outside help when needed. 5:25 You have an easy sense of humour, playfulness and fun between each other.

[@xunsuu]

thank u, my lazy self prob wouldnt have watched the video through

[@hmmmmmnmmmmmm]

All of these but number 3 oops

[@Talibland]

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[@lawrup]

#1 dont trust your dreams Last step they don't care if you're broke as long as you love to them your good

[@espresso3038]

We literally had all these things, and I thought we’d work out but she broke up with me a few days ago :(

[@lotus2959]

I love how you use different shows and fandoms to get the point across because it is always best to explain in a way people will understand

[@chynabarbieeeeee]

Even though I'm single. It's good to know about these stuffs before entering a relationship just like that. I'll be taking notes psych2go. Thanks!

[@yesha3306]

Take notes try not to make fun of male victims, and being racist 😍✨

[@randomsfandoms9000]

@@yesha3306 y was there an 😍✨?

[@kenrickbautista6141]

Yeah, I agree. Same.

[@games4boredom1549]

True

[@games4boredom1549]

💜💜💜

[@diamondrl0]

Agustin and Félix are the best representation for this type of video, my relationship goal fr 😭

[@dbraafie73]

I love how Augustin and Julietta are on the cover! That's so sweet! "Mi Corazon, remember: you have nothing to prove!"

[@lai_zoe_la]

Julieta and Agustin, as well as Pepa and Felix, are _amazing_ examples of a healthy relationship. The love you see given to each other is absolutely heartwarming Luz and Amity are simply an iconic couple, what else needs to be said?- I see that Heathers reference 👀 _love ya JD_ 💫 I don't recognize the blonde deer girl, only the other one from Deltarune Chapter 2 Abuela's story left me _broken_ and we don't talk about it I don't recognize the rainbow shirt girl, light-blue haired girl, or purple sweater guy-

[@iker2333]

The last ones you didn't recognize were some dsmp characters

[@yashvardhanraju8052]

dos oroguitas had me _sobbing_ in the theatre, it was so good

[@limonlx7182]

Wait, how do you not recognize blonde deer girl from Deltarune? You mentioned chapter 2, in which she plays a *very* big part. You sure you completed chapter 2? Maybe you haven't finished it yet? Or maybe you only finished chapter 1? Anyway, that is Noelle Holiday, she's Kris's classmate and childhood friend. Just like the rest of her family, her name is themed around Christmas. Her father Rudolf is in the hospital and seems to be getting worse, though he won't admit it. Noelle has a crush on Susie, but is too shy to say that. Noelle often asks Kris questions about her and talks about how cool she is. Susie is very confused by her behavior. If you wanna know more about her, the rest you can find either in chapter 2 or in theories. Don't wanna spoil it all.

[@gabrielabatista6016]

Oh, the last ones are from dream smp. If I remember right, the pink haired one is Nicky. The one with horns is captain puffy; and the three on the second panel are Karl (purple sweater), sapnap (white shirt with a flame) and Quackity (the one with the back facing us).

[@jesusgaleanomonges4488]

I'm very happy to say that I am in a successful relationship 🥰🥰✨

[@Coca-cola-soda]

That's great!

[@ellakeller8824]

Dnf and encanto lol. I love this. Also I love your channel! It’s so helpful and has helped me be mentally Conscious. Thank you! ❤️

[@maggotwclf]

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[@qaiwiwi]

@ThatWeirdKid And Ranboo lmao

[@soulstararts]

@weeewolff That bot is quite annoying and I keep reporting it and it keeps botting 🤦🏻‍♂️

[@ellakeller8824]

@ThatWeirdKid lol yeah I was too lazy to type them LOL

[@ellakeller8824]

@@soulstararts right lol

[@randomsfandoms9000]

Mmm encanto… Can you please make something for a long distance relationship. It would help me and others

[@prajwaldeshpande7984]

1) You're committed to Giving Your Time, Energy and Care to Your Partner. 2) You Recognize the Importance of Self-care 3) You have a Sence of Purpose, Separated from your Relationship 4) You and Your Partner are Vulnerable and Transparent with Each Other 5) You share Responsibility in your Relationship 6) You have Equality with your Partner 7) You Actively Listen to Each Other without Interrupting, Judging, or Correcting 8) You both are willing to seek Outside Help when needed 9) You have an Easy Sence of Humor,Playfulness, and Fun between Each Other.

[@shazam1490]

Psych2go knows me so well.. I’ve been interested in someone lately and they admitted to it being likewise. Although, she isn’t ready for a relationship, so we stay as intimate friends.

[@GabrielCarvv]

that's awesome!

[@thelittlesoup3274]

I absolutely adore this animator and how they put movies in shows it makes it so cute!!!

[@ellyrenee]

I finally found my person who treats me with nothing but respect and love💗

[@PBlague]

This time is my turn! 0:54 You're committed to to giving your time, energy and care to your partner 1:20 You recognize the importance of self-care 1:41 You have a sense of purpose, separate from your relationship 2:11 You and your partner are vulnerable and transparent with each other 2:38 You share responsibility in your relationship 3:34 You have equality with your partner 4:10 You actively listen to each other without interrupting, judging, or correcting 4:51 You both are willing to seek outside help when needed 5:21 You have an easy sense of humor, playfulness, and fun between each other

[@ierocknroller]

thank you 💗

[@PBlague]

@@ierocknroller I was late, but you're welcome :) Hope you have a nice dayy!

[@katie15732]

I love that you added Julieta and Agustin in the thumbnail!

[@katie15732]

They also added Pepa and Felix, and Luz and Amity! :D

[@foxtatertot]

I'm loving every single one of these references! And they're all such good examples for whatever is being talked about too! I just want to say how much I particularly loved the Puffy and Niki reference because I think they're simply the best DSMP couple-- and you talking about them just talking out an argument by listening to each other and responding kindly, compared to the KarlQuackNap that are blaming each other, just made me so happy.

[@kmmmmmma]

ayooooo u got the ultra rare spike profile pic

[@jourdan7222]

I feel I’m lucky enough to have these traits with my wife. The advice in this video helps with maintaining good habits in a relationship. Thank you for making these videos.😁

[@Lumen_lune]

Who ever is doing the artwork and animation: you are an awesome person! Love the fandom choices ❤️

[@justalpha9138]

This is not only going to be very useful for my life, but also for writing a relatable, fun couple in a story I'm trying to flesh out. :)

[@spicyyeen3773]

I don't think I'm ready for a relationship. I do most of these things in a relationship but when my potential partner gets too close I instantly put up emotional barriers. Being vulnerable is really hard for me. I've opened up with past partners but it's one sided. I want to be different but I don't really know how

[@userinker004]

i got a girlfriend recently and il trying to do the best in my first relationship, i love her so much and she deservs all the good things. im affraid im not doing good but with this video i clarified my thoughts, im gonna talk about that with her to make sure.

[@ivivion]

Using encanto couples is awesome

[@Heartache2491]

Yeah, I had alot of these in my relationship, and it still fell apart 😔 Though there's some here that didn't happen. So many times she wasn't there for me, and so often she wouldn't make time for me like I did for her. Watching this made me cry a little bit honestly. I'm not perfect by any means, but this definitely reaffirms that I gave it my all and she really didn't, and that I really ignored alot of red flags. . .

[@psychenook4588]

9 sign you will have a successful Relationship • You are committed to your time, energy, and care to your part partner 0:54 •You recognized the importance of self-care 1:24 •You have a sense of purpose, separated from your Relationship 1:43 •You and Your partner are Vulnerable and Transparent with each other 2:14 • You share Responsibility in your relationship 2:39 •You have Equality with your partner 3:36 •You active Listen to each other without interrupting, judging, or correcting 4:11 • You both are willing to have Outside Help when needed 4:58 • You have an Easy Sense of Humor, Playfulness, and Fun between each other 5:23 (Love the Encanto preferences 🤗)

[@melaniemartin4319]

What is commitment?!🥝🍅🥝🍅🥝🍅

[@psychenook4588]

do you mean the word "committed"?? if so. It is dedicating yourself to someone. It's trust that both of you and your partner feel safe and connected 😁

[@MR-jq7bk]

Self care is a fucking thing. In a relationship you want to nuture what you have but if you don't take care of yourself and your needs, it can become a big problem. It's all about balance. In a relationship it's not all about you but maintenance is fucking key. Believe me. I've been with someone for 8 years, known them 20... and it's really not about the numbers but about how you both are feeling and keeping the lines of communication open

[@SelfShine]

I can surely say we are a successful duo! 👩🏽‍🤝‍👨🏻 #9 is so important to have, because having inside jokes and being excited to spend time with each other is truly amazing!

[@juliatongol4754]

Psychology is amazing ✨

[@Duvstep910]

I like how this got uploaded after i just spent about 11mths in the darkest place of my life after a 5yr relationship came to an end; then i met someone else a few days ago and she is much better than my last. I'm taking this as a sign 😅

[@povkoi]

Wow, just the video I needed! I’m in the flirting stage for a potential relationship, so hopefully this video will come useful for me in the future 💙

[@NeoGeo822]

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[@povkoi]

@@NeoGeo822 for realsssss, gotta watch out 💙

[@swirlycupcake24688]

How's it going so far?

[@povkoi]

@@swirlycupcake24688 great, we’re making plans to meet up during spring break, at each other’s houses!

[@thellophane]

Let me try to list all the refs: 0:14 - Dream and George 0:30 - Pepa and Felix 1:11 - Luz and Amity 1:36 - Luisa 2:33 - I’m not sure 3:04 - L’manburg 3:41 - Abuela and her husband 4:19 - Puffy and Niki 4:23 - Karl, Sapnap and Quackity 5:04 - Julieta and Augustin

[@niroshanaperera7330]

Nicely done! Btw Abuela's husband is Pedro, and I think Abuela's real name is Alma

[@yay29823]

@@niroshanaperera7330 Yeah

[@nagitoast9902]

Aw Agustín and Julieta

[@shandoesthings]

love the encanto references!!

[@mira2492]

I like how your thumbnail used Julieta and Agustin Madrigal from Encanto.

[@shannonglaser2506]

I’m still coping with getting cheated on 😭 I saw it coming the whole time but I still hoped for the best

[@4Tree0Hugger4]

This really helps me! I’m in a platonic relationship and it’s long distance. We haven’t seen each other’s faces but I’ve known them for a long time. They know I like someone in my class and is okay with it, besides this is all platonic. They are in a relationship themselves. We know not to go into each other’s boundaries! We keep our topics level and if someone’s having a rough day we play Minecraft!

[@alisonmcalistair]

I love that Luz and Amity are included because I’ve noticed that almost every couple in psych2go vids are heterosexual As a bi person it’s really nice to see both kinds of relationships represented. I really appreciate how this channel has begun to include more diverse relationships in their vids. Thank you psych2go!!

[@cartoonstacksanimation7748]

Sameeee

[@kmmmmmma]

as a lesbian, ✨yes✨

[@luzssgf3186]

YESS

[@leclod9618]

I’m so impressed by the amount of cute references these videos have. 👀✨

[@thespookyone1407]

I absolutely don’t have any need for any of this information, I mean I like someone but they are already in a relationship, but for some reason I still watch these videos

[@molsloves1D]

i love this because of all the different fandom references you included! it made me pay more attention to the video and ahh i spat out my drink when i saw all the mcyt references

[@Videosforyout]

Same I was shocked but also happy because the mcyt/dsmp community get overlooked too often and its awesome to see them finally getting some sort of part!

[@molsloves1D]

@@Videosforyout yeah!! :)

[@dizmembered]

I just got in a relationship today, and i want to start it healthy!

[@depopi2386]

This is so nice to listen, especially when you're trying to build a proper relationship. It is true without these traits things could escalate and fall apart more easily. These made me sheds tears because there's someone i really want to build a proper relationship with. Sometimes expectations gets in the way for the both of us. These signs are the key point. Without clarity or thoughts or understanding, it is just that hard to build or maintain a good healthy relationship.

[@randomsfandoms9000]

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[@Streamstresss]

I'm curious about what tips you guys have in making a long distance relationship work. Specifically ones in different countries across the world

[@geophrey7680]

u don't lmfao

[@Eleganttf2]

you're talking about discord relationship ? ahaha

[@jpsebastien]

Pepa, Julieta, Agustin, Felix are all the PERFECT examples!😊

[@Emerald_1119]

Thanks! I needed this!

[@HeRmAn-tf6vp]

I love your videos so much thank you for making them❤️❤️❤️

[@lauragavrilei4155]

Such a beautiful video!!! Congrats! 👏

[@nissachavez23]

I watch every video y’all put out! Absolutely love this channel and space💚🌱

[@Pilot-kr3dt]

Thank you for your hard work👍

[@octaviasworld3414]

I love this channel 💖. Thank you so much.

[@eynmorris]

I'm in a recent relationship and it match up all those traits. It's very important to me to have a healthy relationship. I'm so happy with my boyfriend.

[@taenashiuwu1417]

I love how they put the radom in all of the videos! This will helpful to me!!

[@uwu-pp4gw]

Thank you for all the eastereggs. I needed that

[@siddharthnegi4478]

Thank u so much for this video...i will stay myself and be a good listener

[@Lilybsdgirl]

Thank you for your videos ❤️🙏

[@AaronMetallion]

I'm 28 years old, and this is my learned and lived experience. There's a lot of healthy and desirable traits out there. But not everyone is set up for you / your personality type. Some relationships are truly effortless, while some others have irreconcilable differences. It's like trying to fit a square into a circle, it'll just create resentment and instability over time. Take for example, one wants kids, one never wants kids; one wants monogamy, the other does not or wants to be open to options; one would potentially keep a pregnancy, the other might want to abort the baby; one is open to caring or living with aging parents, the other may want to exclude family from the household; one is introverted and wants to be at home, the other is extroverted and feels restless / upset / neglected from spending time at home. These are all practical long term things to look out for. No matter how attractive, kind, mature you think someone is, you got to actively look out for points of failure too. While movies do romanticize relationships, there are some that feel like they've been cookie cut for you and give you a sense of stability, predictability, and security; and there are some that just aren't meant to work out. Take your time, stay single, do some soul searching, and figure out who YOU are first of all, before you can even begin to understand what type of individual would uniquely complement you.

[@Petewentztoez]

Ahhhh the encanto thumbnail!!!

[@screamingmaguire409]

Thank u for helping us all, every video is almost like reassurance and structure to my life

[@tichaelmiongson]

I LOVE ALL THE REFERENCES USED HERE AAAAAA ITS AMAZING

[@natpat9613]

Thank you so much for Making videos like this

[@davidliu2243]

Love this animation style!

[@Videosforyout]

I love how you are including other communities in this too like mcyt/dsmp! I find it cool because they are all mostly overlooked and don’t get enough support or recognition. Thankyou so much for the continuous support and I can’t wait for another video!!

[@mars2_u782]

Thank you for this video!! Really made me think about my relationship and how I hope for it to be healthy and loving one always, even with mistakes :D

[@izukumidoriya8298]

Since I very recently got into a relationship,wich is my first one,it was such a relief to see that we have all these traits even though we don't have a lot of free time to be together without friends (so out of school) but ty so much for this awesome content Psy2go, it really did help me in hard times :)

[@denation870]

This is such a great video this help me be more open-minded in my new relationship.

[@sweetmusicwoman984]

I love your videos and get excited when you post!

[@official_blue13]

You make the best videos for our health. And this video helps me.

[@terraqueog7gga822]

Wow, i love this kind of video, it's good to know more things about the Others and it's good to have a helping hand when i need

[@rosa9058]

Just wanted to say...... Thank you so much for making this Channel..🥰🥰

[@lifeoflisha4944]

Am glad I came across this channel here. I feel so free and relieved, now I know what to work on. I am a person who like spending more time alone to meditate.

[@jecicox7945]

So my parents matched 0 of these requirements. Lousy example growing up. Demanded that I have no boundaries, never speak up, and yeah, meet none of these requirements in my own life. So of course my spouse is exactly that bad. Now I'm divorced, half my lifetime gone. I'm glad that at least I'm FINALLY learning what I should have learned growing up. But I feel like half my life has been wasted. The best half. The part that should have had energy and dreams and passion and growth to carry me through the second half, where I can finally see the fruits of my labors start to show. It's hard not to feel bitter, and a little betrayed. Fellow followers here: is it even worth bothering to try at this point? I'm trying to convince myself it is, but I'm not very convincing.

[@aisadal2521]

Loving the little doodle of Mirabel Madrigal's parents in the thumbnail 🥰

[@pezyu]

Yuh love the vids!!! Keep it up!!

[@amyhoover9]

This is definitely helpful for me as someone who can overthink things sometimes, or worry too much about other people's opinions or input.... I know that the second trait is something that can be seen as negative at times, but when you have people in your life that value and care about you a lot, it really doesn't hurt as much as you think when they offer their input on situations that you share with them, but be careful with your words...

[@JesusGonzalez-yz6wr]

me and my gf of 2 years have been going through a rough patch in are relationship and we decided to take a break/break up for a while and I kept thinking it was my fault or something I did and kept overthinking everything and this video helped a lot with thinking I felt useless without her and I’m going to keep these tips in mind and we both plan on getting back together just that she needs time and to grow and thanks to this channel I figured out helpful ways to not overthink and to be more understanding of our situation.

[@sussyamongusdiarrhea6993]

AWE U ADDED LUZ AND AMITY!!!

[@furiousphoenix77]

Thanks a lot.🤗❤️

[@mirabeeeeel8736]

THE AGUSTIN AND JULIETA THUMBNAIL IS SO CUTEEEE

[@mikamelon5698]

I love the drawing style in this one! ^-^

[@melaniemartin4319]

Great insight...period!😉😉😉

[@Mask3d_mayhem]

Thank you for making these videos, u have made me have a better view on life💖 And thanks to u, I got out of an unhealthy relationship, thank you for making these amazing videos😊✨

[@shondelljames3019]

These are all great

[@clairewiley9720]

Loving all the references

[@CharlotteXMoon]

I love how the animator put things in that alot of us enjoy. Like Deltarune, Dream SMP, Encanto and more😁❤🐱

[@skeletor_118]

I'm very happy to know that my girlfriend and I match everything here except #8.. And that's more because we haven't had anything serious enough to warrant outside help. #1 - I end up having to remind her that I'm here for her and it's never a burden to me - I WANT to be there for her #2 - I've kind of been on a self-care arc recently tbh, and she actually made a change that is already helping her #3 - We each are in college and know what we want to do, and we're working towards those goals separately but together #4 - I've never opened up with anyone like I have with her, and I know she tells me things that she's never told anyone else... And I value that trust immensely #5 - We've had a few bumps along the road, and rather than trying to push the blame off, we end up trying to claim blame from each other more often than not - we know our mistakes and work on them #6 - We definitely have the equality mentioned in the video - we have emphasized that we want the other as they are, and not to change themselves for our benefit #7 - We have almost nightly conversations about things so that we can gain deeper understanding of each other - it's actually really nice tbh #8 - We haven't had anything serious enough to warrant outside help #9 - We've been best friends for years before we got together and it shows. We joke and tease each other all the time, she likes to say I'm bullying her, and then she'll turn around and poke at how many years she waited for me to actually ask her out. We have a lot of fun when we can

[@alisonmcalistair]

Regular couples therapy can be helpful even for everyday problems and when things are going good… but every couple is completely different, and your relationship sounds really healthy! Im really happy for you.

[@skeletor_118]

@@alisonmcalistair so far any issues we've had have been able to be worked out by one on one conversations, but it's definitely something to keep in mind just in case for the future. And thank you, we've been very happy together so far

[@deadrxses4653]

OMG THE THUMBNAIL I love ittt

[@leonlinn7910]

Ok I think I got the Listening to someone talking part I really wanna be in a relationship but I'm too afraid to even take a step And plus I feel like I'm not enough yet so I'm still in the process of sharpening myself to be the best for my future significant others

[@Wind_Cursed]

I love your videos! Even though I have never been in a full relationship, I still like to watch videos like this in case the chance ever comes for me. I know it likely will since I'm only 15, but I don't think my luck is that great. I only got lucky once when it comes to signs in some of your videos and my crushes... And that was... A while ago...

[@joons_favorite_crab]

I just love the fact that there are encanto characters during the video😍

[@annarosa2548]

Thanks 💖

[@evalamere3536]

i love all of the references in the animation its really cool

[@tinycolonelstudios5848]

Yay in the first! I love you guys! :) you really help me

[@dewdrop6346]

the references in this one were through the studio's roof, well done!

[@ariabtw556]

love these ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@REALLIFETALKWITHBLESSING]

Thanks 🙏

[@love_bug.]

these videos always remind me that there's always things to work on and improve

[@melodi4843]

✨The encanto referance✨

[@LeonardoSardemberg49]

Amazing to see so many amazing characters such as Noelle, Suzy and Ross 🤩😍

[@conor_gacha1999]

There r SO MANY REFERENCES I love it

[@Cheese17211]

Loved the encanto and others theme 😊