7 Habits That Make People DISLIKE You

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Psych2Go

Psych2Go

Күн бұрын

Do you ever wonder if others hate you even though you are just being yourself? Even though you try to be more friendly and likeable, but others seem to distance themselves from you. There are common habits that can make others dislike you. As social creatures, we all have deep desires to be liked, how to attract others, and how to make friends. Let's check out these common habits that can unintentionally drive others away.
Disclaimer: If you can relate to any of these signs, please do not take this feedback as an attack on your character. This article was meant to be a self-improvement guide for those of you who have been feeling a little stuck.
Writer: Sidney Thompson
Script Editor: Caitlin McColl
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
VO: Amanda Silvera ( / amandasilvera )
Animator: Sun Biscuit
KZbin Manager: Cindy Cheong
References:
Arluck, K. (2018, September 13). Why Would People Dislike a Nice Person? PsychologyToday. www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/ask-the-therapist/201809/why-would-people-dislike-nice-person
DesMarais, C. (2021, January 5). The One Simple Thing Which Can Make You More Likeable. Inc.Com. www.inc.com/christina-desmarais/the-one-simple-thing-which-can-make-you-more-likeable.html#:%7E:text=Seeing%20you%20smile%20makes%20other%20people%20feel%20good.&text=By%20%22trying%20on%22%20another%20person%E2%80%99s,that%20expression%20in%20the%20past%3E
Radwan, M. (2006). 7 reasons people dislike you for no reason | 2KnowMySelf. 2KnowMySelf. www.2knowmyself.com/7_reasons_people_dislike_you_for_no_reason
Royse, M. (2022, January 6). If You Do These 5 Things, People Will Instantly Dislike You | Better Advice. Medium. medium.com/better-advice/if-you-do-these-5-things-people-will-instantly-dislike-you-3c7771cc9675
Valentine, M. (2019, August 30). 7 Things You’re Doing that Make People Dislike You Immediately. Goalcast. www.goalcast.com/things-youre-doing-make-people-dislike-you/

Пікірлер: 945
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 2 жыл бұрын
Describe yourself in one sentence.
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 2 жыл бұрын
I'm a cat :D
@gambinos27
@gambinos27 2 жыл бұрын
idek
@gambinos27
@gambinos27 2 жыл бұрын
I love your voice sm
@Olliver666
@Olliver666 2 жыл бұрын
Annoying :/
@awuraama7185
@awuraama7185 2 жыл бұрын
Hated ☹️
@Raghav-tx6ym
@Raghav-tx6ym 2 жыл бұрын
0:27 Being fake. 1:00 Being one sided. 1:30 Not smiling. 1:58 Getting too personal right away. 2:25 Bragging. 3:10 Being threatening. 3:45 Being yourself.
@tinycupcake9818
@tinycupcake9818 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@ara12129
@ara12129 2 жыл бұрын
Cool thanks:)
@jannig9322
@jannig9322 2 жыл бұрын
so basically it's not always ur fault if someone dislikes u. Sometimes constantly improvising and being ur best just isn't enough. That's fine honestly.
@anironfarm6056
@anironfarm6056 2 жыл бұрын
"As long as I make more people laugh than cry, I'm doing alright" -- A KZbinr I watch
@becz9485
@becz9485 2 жыл бұрын
Honestly for a lot a people, most people you meet won’t like you. But that’s not necessarily a bad thing so long as you aren’t being toxic or harmful. Some people just have unpopular personalities (like me hahaha) but again, as long as you aren’t being harmful it doesn’t matter!’
@siennaprice1351
@siennaprice1351 2 жыл бұрын
Ok. This actually made me feel a bit better about myself.
@keiron.4612
@keiron.4612 2 жыл бұрын
I don't really care if people don't like me that's there problem lol
@siennaprice1351
@siennaprice1351 2 жыл бұрын
@@keiron.4612 I love your attitude.
@jv0189
@jv0189 2 жыл бұрын
1. Being fake 2. Being one-sided 3. Not smiling 4. Getting too personal right away 5. Bragging 6. Being threatening 7. Being yourself Extrovert power!
@satorii_2060
@satorii_2060 2 жыл бұрын
"Being yourself"? Wow, I guess I can't be myself, after all. I MUST fit in people's expectations.
@SillySamWho
@SillySamWho 2 жыл бұрын
Me Having BPD: Guess I’ll Die.
@SillySamWho
@SillySamWho 2 жыл бұрын
@@satorii_2060 Fr Tho.
@PapaCharlieist
@PapaCharlieist 2 жыл бұрын
Saying no for almost everything also makes people dislike you
@lakindujay
@lakindujay 2 жыл бұрын
@@satorii_2060 you can't be fake either
@ives3572
@ives3572 2 жыл бұрын
"It's better to risk being disliked for living your truth than to be loved for what you are pretending to be." - Dawn Gluskin
@Jackgritty28
@Jackgritty28 2 жыл бұрын
If being yourself makes people dislike you,is it your fault,have you commited a crime,don't take it personal if your judged that way,you shouldn't care either way,life ain't a popularity contest,don't pretend to be someone your not💥❌🚩💲✔️🌈💊🎶💤
@jojojoe1077
@jojojoe1077 2 жыл бұрын
Its ok to be hated than to be the being who you are not
@LeejahTab
@LeejahTab 2 жыл бұрын
"Smile more" Nah. I would rather have a straight face than smile to every person. It aint really my thing, so yeah. I be myself and idc if they dislike me for not smiling or opening up.
@rexxii3
@rexxii3 2 жыл бұрын
literally me- I frown all the time and idc
@siennaprice1351
@siennaprice1351 2 жыл бұрын
I hate bragging about myself. I used to get personal, but not so much anymore. Now the being yourself one was very interesting. I thought being fake would make people dislike you, but being yourself, that’s a new one. I’m trying to find the balance, and not mask certain things about myself, but also be myself and not care what people think. I have a few mental conditions and a physical disability, which could make people hate me, but I’m doing my hardest to not give a crap what they think or say.
@horrormoviesfanclub5749
@horrormoviesfanclub5749 2 жыл бұрын
Ignore trashbags that abuse you and love those who value you. I know about your condition and I value your existance. Love you from Eastham London.
@siennaprice1351
@siennaprice1351 2 жыл бұрын
@@horrormoviesfanclub5749 thanks so much. I can say, it is hard to find people that can accept you for who you really are. I’m totally blind, autistic and have CPTSD. I’m working on healing and possibly curing my CPTSD. But people have been confused when it comes to my blindness, people have bullied me for it, and even questioned my blindness. I feel like I have to mask my blindness and autism and CPTSD around new people. But also, I really don’t want to mask.
@horrormoviesfanclub5749
@horrormoviesfanclub5749 2 жыл бұрын
@@siennaprice1351 There is no need for you to wear any mask! Live without mask! Be real to yourself! Even now im in the cluches of death but I still have the heart to be kind to you because this is how I am. This could be my last words so please remember you're not here to please others. Be real to yourself and others! Dont judge people by their gender, skin color or race.Appreciate every inhalation that you are taking in. Meditate A lot. Seek the very nature of your soul beyond body and mind. Try to cleanse all the residual memories from millions of lives that causes re-birth and merge with the source of creation. ♡ Eastham London.Tc
@siennaprice1351
@siennaprice1351 2 жыл бұрын
@@horrormoviesfanclub5749 thanks.
@horrormoviesfanclub5749
@horrormoviesfanclub5749 2 жыл бұрын
@@siennaprice1351 You are welcome Sienna Price.
@Eric-em9kp
@Eric-em9kp 2 жыл бұрын
Smiling doesn't work if you have bad teeth....😞 which I do and it kills my confidence and possibly many other factors of how I present myself.
@Impastabesus
@Impastabesus 2 жыл бұрын
Than try smiling without showing ur teeth, like this :) Everyone’s smile is beautiful
@yoon7217
@yoon7217 2 жыл бұрын
Remember when someone criticises you for smth you don't actually have control over they only do it to distract from their own insecurities Not worth to keep yourself from smiling bc of some idiots
@upbestsalt1551
@upbestsalt1551 2 жыл бұрын
@@yoon7217 but sometimes people either do it because they think it funny or they feel privileged
@yoon7217
@yoon7217 2 жыл бұрын
@@upbestsalt1551 That's what they disguise it as
@kazumakenzaki4487
@kazumakenzaki4487 2 жыл бұрын
Dont expect everyone will like you, true. People are naturally wired to look at each other's flaw and mistakes, to manipulate one other, even to relate to one another. Thats one big messy soup were all in.
@raccoonvgaming4683
@raccoonvgaming4683 2 жыл бұрын
Like a wise saying goes in other story book your the villain to them
@macaroll
@macaroll 2 жыл бұрын
Yes! Thank you for this! How cute! We're in a soup!
@jemlebeau
@jemlebeau 2 жыл бұрын
Humans apparently are worst than a dog, at least a dog do not judge, if they dislike someone, most likely they dislike everyone lol
@solonada9602
@solonada9602 2 жыл бұрын
It is natural to have a negative attitude towards anyone/anything ranging from the most mild degree to the most fiery extreme, even towards the very things which spark the wonder about how it is possible to be contemptuous of that thing without showing mercy to it whatsoever. Attitudes towards things are not a permanent setting, as they can always be manually regulated or reversed, or even capriciously fluctuate, based on the circumstances of the individual.
@milothecat4288
@milothecat4288 2 жыл бұрын
*G O O D S O U P*
@khalilahd.
@khalilahd. 2 жыл бұрын
Being self aware is the corner stone of self growth and I love that you constantly help us self reflect 💜
@philippezevenberg1332
@philippezevenberg1332 2 жыл бұрын
(>'-')> why you everywhere?
@SaintStrength0
@SaintStrength0 2 жыл бұрын
Mm mm mm, pretty pfp ❤️
@philippezevenberg1332
@philippezevenberg1332 2 жыл бұрын
@@SaintStrength0 (>•-•)> 8=D
@una_unknown
@una_unknown 2 жыл бұрын
A very helpful video :) The moons: 0:58 1:14 2:38 3:20 4:18
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 2 жыл бұрын
Good find!!
@indridcold8433
@indridcold8433 2 жыл бұрын
Nobody dislikes me. However, nobody likes me as well. Nobody knows me. I keep a very well defined distance from others. This disallows others to know me and therefore never dislike me nor like me. This makes it a certainty that will never have enemies. The sacrifice of not ever having friends is well worth the benefit of never having enemies. Enemies can make life miserable. However, so can friends. Without both, life is much better than with either one, or both. I recommend all try social isolation. The benefits are many.
@pri_shay_dior
@pri_shay_dior 2 жыл бұрын
I'm so guilty of #4... a lot. Don't let a stranger ask me how I'm doing, and I have a lot pinned up. Or sometimes I find the tables turned if I see someone down and simply ask if they need a listening ear in the moment. I often find it fosters more empathy though.
@foxpupmal
@foxpupmal 2 жыл бұрын
Specifically with bragging, I believe it it ties into outwards jealously. If you achieve something, people may be jealous of the achievement and bragging about it only makes that feeling worse for them. Be humble and others may hype you up and be happy for you but it doesn’t mean that they have to. It’s okay be proud of yourself but you don’t have to brag or put others down because of it. Humility do be kinda swag Great video as always :)
@mave143
@mave143 2 жыл бұрын
"Humility do be kinda swag" Couldn't agree more. 😅
@siennaprice1351
@siennaprice1351 2 жыл бұрын
I hate bragging about myself.
@DoriterEater
@DoriterEater 2 жыл бұрын
I struggle with relationships, a lot. I have my mental illnesses and personality quirks that make me feel alien. It is painful to always wonder how other's are portraying me. I am terrified to be abandoned, but ultimately I abandoned myself for the sake of being liked (which I wasn't lol.) This caused me to have a life altering mental breakdown. The more I come to learn about myself, and accept and embrace myself, I feel that naturally I am more likable. I care less about that though haha, what a fun paradox. I think there just has to be an acceptance on our part if we can, that we will need to take time to find ourselves. To relearn our own intuition, because at the end of the day when we can guide ourselves I believe we naturally do end up in environments that support and encourage us. I can't sugar coat it, I've been working actively for the past 6 years to relearn who I really am, and I still on a very regular (but *much* less so) basis find myself worried and insecure about being abandoned. It's such an internal battle that most people will not really be able to acknowledge, but if you are cultivating mindfulness and setting intentions to create a healthier internal environment, I am proud of you.
@sawakokuronuma9474
@sawakokuronuma9474 2 жыл бұрын
You had it tough, but I admire your fighting spirit! keep up the good progress! Go for it!
@DoriterEater
@DoriterEater 2 жыл бұрын
@@sawakokuronuma9474 Thank you :)
@sawakokuronuma9474
@sawakokuronuma9474 2 жыл бұрын
@@DoriterEater you're welcome (^-^)/ I believe someone will come to your life and will never leave you alone, I'll be rooting for you! (^-^)// but take your time to trust once again, no need to rush nor pressure yourself, until you're ready, take care! (^-^)/
@onyx7116
@onyx7116 2 жыл бұрын
Guys it doesn't really matter, being yourself is what you should do if that person doesn't like you that's on them not you :) ❤️❤️ Edit: not you guys misunderstanding (• ▽ •;) it doesn't "matter" if people view you as negative THINGS LIKE BEING USELESS ETC. if you know you're on the right track why let that bother you Clearly you aren't useless if you're doing something, right? You each seem to have your own meaning of this comment. Here's mine ☝️
@Cadesbaee
@Cadesbaee 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much ❤️
@onyx7116
@onyx7116 2 жыл бұрын
@@Cadesbaee only the truth (つ≧▽≦)つ
@magicaldork
@magicaldork 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so so much bro :’)
@Everettalla
@Everettalla 2 жыл бұрын
Uhh..? You know that some of these can be a big problem, right? Like being fake? I struggle with that- I am not myself around other people and I don’t actively try not to be. I’m really soft spoken but when I’m around other people I’m pretty loud because I want the other side to be happy, not me. It doesn’t help that im introverted too
@onyx7116
@onyx7116 2 жыл бұрын
@@Everettalla then accept the bad parts of yourself, you're not changing for anyone but yourself. I doubt they'd bend over like a dog for you if being fake upsets yourself then change for you
@spivv.
@spivv. 2 жыл бұрын
1st hidden moon 0:57 2nd hidden moon 1:17 3rd hidden moon 2:38 4th hidden moon 3:20 5th hidden moon 4:17 REACT WITH A HEART IF I GOT IT RIGHT 💞
@teraspeXt
@teraspeXt 2 жыл бұрын
(no offense but i don't think you need to check if you got it right because you can see that's 5 moons)
@whyme3203
@whyme3203 2 жыл бұрын
1. Being Fake 2. Being One-sided 3. Not Smiling 4. Getting too personal right away 5. Bragging 6. Being threatening 7. Being yourself There you go, hope you have a good day, stranger.
@thepersonwhoasked8396
@thepersonwhoasked8396 2 жыл бұрын
If a person wears a mask, they do not need to smile :D
@cp368productions2
@cp368productions2 2 жыл бұрын
1. I have always been myself, it got me bullied and mistreated while being friendly and encouraging. 2. Always been two sided, but I am uncomfortable around others and usually feel I have nothing to contribute. 3. The damage caused by the people in my life killed my smile, and the one person who made me smile just caused me to fear everyone and I will never smile again. 4. I don't care who knows my personal life and will always treat people like they are a friend, I would want them to treat me the same way. 5. I never brag. 6. Never will have open body language, I am uncomfortable without my arms folded, I don't feel relaxed using "open body language". 7. That is the same as 1 really. It's only led to pain.
@ryanmalin
@ryanmalin 2 жыл бұрын
Arms crossed makes some people feel threatened...
@U.R.coolkid
@U.R.coolkid 2 жыл бұрын
Like they said, it's not an attack on your character. Seems you've just been dealt the crappy card of being around shitty people. Whether it made you or only your life bitter, i don't know. All i can offer is, not all people are bad. Took myself a bit to learn that as well, hell, i still catch myself with my gaurd up around good friends! Or maybe people just find the more quiet ones a tad threatening. I find that just smiling and laughing along to a conversation can help make others warm up to you. Anyways, best of luck out there, ciao.
@ivythealiencat
@ivythealiencat 2 жыл бұрын
@@ryanmalin sounds like their problem tbh. Man's just tryna feel safe in this shitty world and I do to
@ivythealiencat
@ivythealiencat 2 жыл бұрын
@@U.R.coolkid must by why nobody asks if I'm ok at school when I stopped talking to people and showed every sign that I wanted to die
@ogreface8
@ogreface8 2 жыл бұрын
@@ivythealiencat Some people love to preach about helping those suffering from mental health, but when it's in their face they turn the other way. Sometimes it takes a while before you find worthwhile company
@darkdream7227
@darkdream7227 2 жыл бұрын
As you said ,quality of friendships is much more important than quantity of them So Ig there was a big remindee needed in the video that we really don't need to be firends with everyone ,just being ourselves in the right way(improving ourselves at the same time of ''not faking'') should be completely enough to find real friends and building a strong friendships with them♡
@PsychologyRefresh
@PsychologyRefresh 2 жыл бұрын
People will dislike you if you lose respect from them and this can happen in many different ways.
@lucidvisions9965
@lucidvisions9965 2 жыл бұрын
What are the most common ways this happens
@PsychologyRefresh
@PsychologyRefresh 2 жыл бұрын
@@lucidvisions9965 We have a whole video on this topic, feel free to check it out.
@Swish165
@Swish165 2 жыл бұрын
How do you gain respect?
@PsychologyRefresh
@PsychologyRefresh 2 жыл бұрын
@@Swish165 There is a lot of ways, one of the most important one is to be reliable. Only say things that you can stand by. If not, then try to stay out of commitments or promises to not disappoint someone later. Being open and honest about it will help you command more respect.
@Andrew-qi4bu
@Andrew-qi4bu 2 жыл бұрын
My one reason : putting to much of yourself out there on social media. Have done it a bunch myself and lost some people along the way , so from personal experience, don’t submit everyone who follows you to a personal diary if they didn’t specifically sign up for it. I dislike some people cause some of the stuff they put up too because it’s all raw straight to the point , keep a lot of stuff to yourself , leaves more for the mind anyways
@siennaprice1351
@siennaprice1351 2 жыл бұрын
That’s why I quit Facebook.
@jcman-lp6lg
@jcman-lp6lg 2 жыл бұрын
Being a introvert and socially anxious number 2 and 3 are definitely me. It's hard for me to smile naturally and I definitely do not initiate conversations first it is always my colleagues who says hi first.
@pahiskarkki3677
@pahiskarkki3677 2 жыл бұрын
Helloooo!!! I LOVE your content. It’s been helping me alot to better myself and understand my life and my lifestyle. Keep it up and have a good day🤍
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! What was your favourite video?
@khalilahd.
@khalilahd. 2 жыл бұрын
I agree! It’s always helpful to be self aware 💜
@pahiskarkki3677
@pahiskarkki3677 2 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go AAHHHH THERE’S SO MANY GOOD ONES!!! I can’t decide xD Probably my favorite ones are the ones, where you explain some disorders, such as eating disorders and what I should do/what a friend should or should not say
@kajalbansal2244
@kajalbansal2244 2 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go hey i lost most of the friends due to COVID because they made new friends of their own in their class(i am in school) and due to lockdown I was not able to connect to them. Among them there is my friend to whom whenever I talk i feel great. Now it's my last month in school what should I do to maintain friendship with him. I sometime text to him. I don't want to lose him what should I do? Before lockdown we were great friends and he even called me best friend once
@kajalbansal2244
@kajalbansal2244 2 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go hey i lost most of the friends due to COVID because they made new friends of their own in their class(i am in school) and due to lockdown I was not able to connect to them. Among them there is my friend to whom whenever I talk i feel great. Now it's my last month in school what should I do to maintain friendship with him. I sometime text to him. I don't want to lose him what should I do? Before lockdown we were great friends. Moreover his voice has matured i am unable to reach out to him conveniently as earlier
@Nedmar
@Nedmar 2 жыл бұрын
Hidden moons: 00:58 / 01:15 / 02:38 / 03:17 / 04:17 More games like this, please :D!
@AyushRaj1024
@AyushRaj1024 2 жыл бұрын
This is the first time I have noticed that you have included references. That is really great. This makes the video so much more valuable.
@ananyag388
@ananyag388 2 жыл бұрын
Your voice is so calm ❤️
@partypoison5135
@partypoison5135 2 жыл бұрын
these videos help so much with figuring myself out and sometimes they make me a better person!
@zariabattle226
@zariabattle226 2 жыл бұрын
Wow I really needed this video. This answered everything I was questioning myself about
@saifuzzaman614
@saifuzzaman614 2 жыл бұрын
Nice timing, I was just wondering that if my friends actually hate me
@miso8310
@miso8310 2 жыл бұрын
I have social anxiety and usually when someone approaches me I panic and don't know how to act so I sometimes say things that I don't mean to say or reject and ignore them unintentionally. That's why I sit at school alone under the stairs and my classmates stay away from me :(
@addyjo
@addyjo 2 жыл бұрын
I feel like I relate to a lot of the topics you mentioned, but now I am thinking about it, I am going to try and improve all of these things. thank you so much, your videos and posts have helped me so so so much on sharpening my personality and being able to interact more with people
@i_am_ravs
@i_am_ravs 2 жыл бұрын
I love the addition of easter egg hunting 😄 that aside tho, I feel as I have most of these traits as I have this frowny face when I'm all by myself, and I certainly can feel most people get thrown off whenever they see me. Also I think they feel threatened when I'm around even tho I don't really intend to be threatening, partly because of how I look.
@justa_panda
@justa_panda 2 жыл бұрын
Want to check your moons? Here are the time stamps :D 0:57 (upper right corner) 1:14 (bottom left corner of the talking person's screen) 2:37 (bottom right corner) 3:17 (on the side of the bento box) 4:16 (on the shirt) Also for reason number 6, being threatening, I just wanted to say that I believe you shouldn't stop doing what you love or reaching for your goals so that other people aren't threatened by you, so keep doing what you love 😉
@KimsiePimsie
@KimsiePimsie 2 жыл бұрын
thank you!! I was going crazy that I couldn't find number 2 haha
@justa_panda
@justa_panda 2 жыл бұрын
@@KimsiePimsie No problem! Glad it helped you 😄
@baby.istaken
@baby.istaken 2 жыл бұрын
OK BUT trying to find the moons helped me pay attention A LOT, Thank you so much for adding that ❤🙏
@4Tree0Hugger4
@4Tree0Hugger4 2 жыл бұрын
I can relate! I really care what people think. So I gotta smile more!
@MemoriesInMetal
@MemoriesInMetal 2 жыл бұрын
Never be "SOME YOURE ONE NOT" 😇
@icex5835
@icex5835 2 жыл бұрын
This really helped me thank you so much
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 2 жыл бұрын
Glad to see that this video could help you!
@levisrighteyeball7288
@levisrighteyeball7288 2 жыл бұрын
I'm so introverted that it's driving me crazy.I'm not even able to talk to my friends normally 🙁...Not to mention I'm such an OVERTHINKER! Because of that, I cry every day and I'm not lets say ,quite mentally stable! I just want to feel loved/liked again...
@justjames4
@justjames4 2 жыл бұрын
Great tips, and it was fun to look for the hidden moons. I almost missed one of them!
@Leannababe
@Leannababe 2 жыл бұрын
Your videos got me thru alot thanks i love your channel 🙏🏼🥰
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 2 жыл бұрын
You are so welcome
@annafranc8081
@annafranc8081 2 жыл бұрын
Lord God’s plan for us in caterpillar’s transformation: kzbin.info/www/bejne/o3qvlWloi7Vpbqs
@shimmyshimmyeah
@shimmyshimmyeah 2 жыл бұрын
I absolutely love your videos
@engkelsaso5083
@engkelsaso5083 2 жыл бұрын
I found all the moons! I noticed though that I was being way too focused on finding the moons and wasn’t consistently paying attention on what was being said in the video. So while it’s a cool implementation, it may be too distracting for some viewers. Amazing video and as an introvert I agree with every point!
@imacrybaby
@imacrybaby 2 жыл бұрын
i love your videos so much i watch them all the time they teach me and help me so much! i really appreciate what you do
@Olliver666
@Olliver666 2 жыл бұрын
Psych2go has helped me through lockdown and helped me with my mental health. Also your voice is so calming I love it :))
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your support
@bettersteps
@bettersteps 2 жыл бұрын
The last thing I want is a friend. This is good information to know. Now I know how to act to remain a loner.
@sawakokuronuma9474
@sawakokuronuma9474 2 жыл бұрын
I don't blame you, people often disappoint, but I still hope and believe you'll soon find your own circle of friends who will accept and love you for who you are, take your time, until your ready to trust once again, take care!
@bettersteps
@bettersteps 2 жыл бұрын
@@sawakokuronuma9474 I trust. I prefer being alone.
@sawakokuronuma9474
@sawakokuronuma9474 2 жыл бұрын
@@bettersteps I see your point, I respect your decision, sometimes it's good to be alone too, but if you ever need someone, know that your friends will be there for you and I bet they respect your personal space, that's what friends are for, if you prefer to be alone, they will understand, but if things gets tough, you can count on them to be there, have a nice day/night ahead! (^-^)/
@bettersteps
@bettersteps 2 жыл бұрын
@@sawakokuronuma9474 I don't think you get it. I don't have "friends" that will respect my decision or personal space. I don't have any friends. By choice, I have no friends. I don't want any friends. I do not associate with people outside of work. I don't hang out with people at all. I do everything alone. And, I enjoy every minute of it. Honestly, the few times in the last 20 years that I've found myself in need of friends is when I've had to move from one apt to another; for obvious reasons.
@redheadbelle
@redheadbelle 4 ай бұрын
very sad if it’s out of insecurity and hidden jealousy. i don’t need this, never needed it and won’t need it. i have tons of people loving me for the lovely person i excactly am. and that’s not bragging but healthy confidence. thx for always revealing hidden thruths. cancers could walk straightforward but seem to choose the sideway walk. their choice!
@whatisthat1585
@whatisthat1585 2 жыл бұрын
I am being true, being myself, being two sided, always smile, chooses what is right, respect their privacy and so much more.. But I still receive hate so much, even I dont do bad. You know what its hurt, when some of them are your family. Hate you for no reason🖤 Its different level of pain💔
@treads2399
@treads2399 2 жыл бұрын
I love your channel because it’s not telling you to be the perfect person, but it teaches you that knowing right from wrong gets you further in life. Thank you!
@Lusitania_memes
@Lusitania_memes 2 жыл бұрын
Thank God I don't relate to these signs but still I am going to thank you because your content is amazing and helpful I will stay aware of this
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching!
@InitialPC
@InitialPC 2 жыл бұрын
How can you relate to none of these signs if one sign is not being yourself while another sign is being yourself? are you neither being yourself and not being yourself? how?
@Lusitania_memes
@Lusitania_memes 2 жыл бұрын
@@InitialPC Oh, then I am being myself
@upbestsalt1551
@upbestsalt1551 2 жыл бұрын
Lucky
@sherraysworld3388
@sherraysworld3388 2 жыл бұрын
@@InitialPC Yuh. So maybe he/she's lying or not being herself in the comments lol
@owenchang2290
@owenchang2290 2 жыл бұрын
I saw all five moons! Great video, as always!
@KuramaUzumaki747
@KuramaUzumaki747 2 жыл бұрын
Doing my best to help someone even if I'm upset
@kimmousavi944
@kimmousavi944 2 жыл бұрын
🙂summary🙂 1. Being Fake 0:28 2. Being One-sided 1:01 3. Not Smiling 1:32 4. Getting too personal right away 1:58 5. Bragging 2:28 6. Being threatening 3:10 7. Being yourself 3:47 enjoy
@ifykyk679
@ifykyk679 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks
@kimmousavi944
@kimmousavi944 2 жыл бұрын
@@ifykyk679 you Are welcome
@ifykyk679
@ifykyk679 2 жыл бұрын
@@kimmousavi944 np!
@aaliyahfan313
@aaliyahfan313 2 жыл бұрын
I’m really interested in this type of content! This is a time in my life that I need to self-evaluate repeatedly. I like having long and meaningful conversations but there are times I have not much to say at all. How’d I do?
@sakuralife4977
@sakuralife4977 2 жыл бұрын
Most of the comment from this channel, i found it's relatable to me.. Its like voice of my heart.
@alexspendlhofer2708
@alexspendlhofer2708 2 жыл бұрын
I love your content! Funny little game with the moons, keeps me focused on the video, but kinda distracts me from the reason why i watched it😅
@ShopperKungVtuber
@ShopperKungVtuber 2 жыл бұрын
i accept what i am and i be myself more i change i really try but no one see me anymore no one forgive me anymore no one want me anymore my life had only one chance and i fucked it up my important person i love dearly hate me now i can't do anything anymore no matter how much i change they never look at me again now
@eitanshapiro862
@eitanshapiro862 2 жыл бұрын
The first thing you can do to improve your situation is apologize and try to fix the things you did wrong. If you really think there is no chance with those people you might be better with another group of people. If you keep putting yourself down like that it will only destroy your self and your social life more. In order to work on yourself properly you have to believe that it's possible to improve, because it always is.
@mave143
@mave143 2 жыл бұрын
Why do you say you ruined your life? How old are you? I have the feeling that you're pretty young and you still have your whole life ahead of you. 💖
@yoon7217
@yoon7217 2 жыл бұрын
There's other people that will love you dw
@ShopperKungVtuber
@ShopperKungVtuber 2 жыл бұрын
@@eitanshapiro862 i apologize to them but they never listen i know just let them go but at least i want to be in good term with them but they never look at me again
@ShopperKungVtuber
@ShopperKungVtuber 2 жыл бұрын
@@mave143 I'm 30 now and i still not succeed at anything Unlike other that always do things and success all the time
@rosecolby2714
@rosecolby2714 2 жыл бұрын
Could you do a video on how to politely unfriend someone
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 2 жыл бұрын
That's a great video idea!
@sss-md3hd
@sss-md3hd 2 жыл бұрын
Smiling has been very true for me. I’m generally a quiet person who doesn’t talk much or at all irl, so all I do is rely on facial expressions, especially smiling. A teacher even once told me “If you weren’t so smiley I’d be more pissed that you didn’t do your hw and scolding you wouldn’t feel so light hearted.” She didn’t say it in eng so this is just a rough translation of wat she said. But yea, a smile can go a long way. I make friends easily because of this too. But although a smile and laughter is great to brighten the mood, you should also do it carefully according to the right situation. You might accidentally piss off the person instead for being silly and brash in serious situations. Don’t smile when someone’s telling u about sth bad that happened to them 😂
@random3744
@random3744 2 жыл бұрын
I found the 5 hidden moons! I like your videos so much cause I can understand every sentence you’re saying
@floydblandston108
@floydblandston108 2 жыл бұрын
Most of the 'dislike' I've encountered has come from people who mistake their own need for personal acceptance as a requirement for normative professional and societal relations. It's the result of a weak personality and boundaries, and an immaturity to see that personal narcissism and need are, in fact, character flaws needing to be overcome.
@1tsn0nsence
@1tsn0nsence 2 жыл бұрын
Why cant you just talk normal english for foreigners instead of trying to show off how smart you are?
@SaintStrength0
@SaintStrength0 2 жыл бұрын
@@1tsn0nsence U ain't missin' much if you can't read that. He literally didn't say anything.
@1tsn0nsence
@1tsn0nsence 2 жыл бұрын
@@SaintStrength0 thanks bro 🤝
@binkyfaith
@binkyfaith 2 жыл бұрын
Tbh I’m an introvert but get terribly bullied in life. But thru the grace of God I’m protected 🙏🏿
@talaayyad4714
@talaayyad4714 2 жыл бұрын
I really liked the video. Keep up the amazing. Also I have found the 5 hidden moons but I’m curious about the point.
@SnyperQueenRose
@SnyperQueenRose 2 жыл бұрын
wow love these videos🥺
@awuraama7185
@awuraama7185 2 жыл бұрын
I don’t like my life ☹️almost everyone hates me and my own family members gossip about me
@yoon7217
@yoon7217 2 жыл бұрын
That has nothing to do with you tho.. Imagine being so miserable you badmouth others. They just really hate seeing you succeed bc they know you're better than them
@gnarthdarkanen7464
@gnarthdarkanen7464 2 жыл бұрын
If you never risk someone disliking or even hating you, then you never take the chance of them authentically liking or even LOVING you... ...AND anyways... I'm notoriously lazy, so it's WAY too much energy to invest trying to be someone or something that I'm not. ;o)
@yuar7926
@yuar7926 2 жыл бұрын
Thank for your video, its has many helpful tips )!
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 2 жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful! :) Did you relate to this video?
@dave1264
@dave1264 2 жыл бұрын
Your videos are always helpful, also, I found all the five missing moons :D
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 2 жыл бұрын
Glad this helps! Good find :)
@mmm123_
@mmm123_ 2 жыл бұрын
Hi! I would like to suggest making a video about Religious Trauma or Existential Crisis because I think these two are also common problems teenagers nowadays are experiencing. I genuinely love the vids, it helps me understand certain topics considering the fact that it also contains Cute drawings
@user-ve4rw7si1o
@user-ve4rw7si1o 2 жыл бұрын
Hi ! I'm from Russia I started watching these educational videos half a year ago, and I appreciate the work that you have invested. But I started watching the Russian-language version of the channel. Everyone is aware of what is happening between Ukraine and Russia (I am against any aggression from Russia).It 's scary , but even scarier is that a lot of people are flying accusations in our direction ( Although we didn 't know about anything and it didn 't depend on us ) A couple of weeks ago, the owner of the Russian - language channel changed the preview to a video in which it was written that " While you are watching the video on this channel, Ukrainian civilians are dying from the bombing of the Russian Federation . " Recently, all the videos were deleted, and two videos appeared in their place, in which ALL RUSSIANS were accused of the war. This channel is in your OUR FRIENDZ (it will be knocked out of the list) My question is: how do you feel about this situation? I 'm just curious ( I apologize for such a large text , but I had to clarify everything for you )
@SeanStrife
@SeanStrife 2 жыл бұрын
Hey, it's cool. I know somebody from Russia who's a very lovely person and she pretty much shares your worldview. I think this is the perfect time to mention that the governments of a nation do not necessarily reflect the people of a nation.
@yoon7217
@yoon7217 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah I think Russians are very well aware of what is happening to Ukrainians, so it did sound a bit like they were blaming all Russians instead of informing 🤔
@mimicnito
@mimicnito 2 жыл бұрын
You made my day ❤️
@steveleeart
@steveleeart 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you 💜
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for watching Steve!
@MP-su8ne
@MP-su8ne 2 жыл бұрын
I loved the little find the moons minigame, it helped me focus more. Anyway, here’s to anyone who missed one or just didn’t have the patience to look for them: 0:58 Here’s the first moon, its top left corner 1:15 This lil moon can be found at the bottom left corner of the iPad. 2:38 This one is on the bottom right corner amongst the planeeets 3:19 This one is pretty cute, it’s as the little logo on the bento box 4:17 Anddd for the last one (as it says) it’s on the T-shirt of the little marshmallow character. Hope you had a fun time finding them tho 😏
@moonkilig3234
@moonkilig3234 2 жыл бұрын
You clicked on the video because you don't wanna be hated by someone :)
@plefughiop7877
@plefughiop7877 2 жыл бұрын
Yes
@GabrielsEpicLifeofGoals
@GabrielsEpicLifeofGoals 2 жыл бұрын
Responding to everything they say with "Or is it?"
@McShabba1
@McShabba1 2 жыл бұрын
These seem like pretty reasonable points 🤷🏾‍♂️Also the mini-game was a very nice touch! 😆🌕
@JayXDagger
@JayXDagger 2 жыл бұрын
I don't see point to change yourself and people would still stomp you. Screw that. Don't change for anyone. I'ma stay myself.
@yiyi0262
@yiyi0262 2 жыл бұрын
As an introvert, I can't be myself around people 🙂
@iElia
@iElia 2 жыл бұрын
Lol, i was like that before, but you should stop caring because you are never gonna see those people later and u gotta enjoy your life
@neginessa
@neginessa 2 жыл бұрын
Love your content
@NFSMAN50
@NFSMAN50 2 жыл бұрын
Im glad that I am being myself, and if people don't like that, thats on them.
@Aryan-tw3lg
@Aryan-tw3lg 2 жыл бұрын
Nothin' you can do, but you can learn how to be you in time It's easy All you need is love
@annafranc8081
@annafranc8081 2 жыл бұрын
Lord God’s plan for us revealed in caterpillar’s transformation: kzbin.info/www/bejne/o3qvlWloi7Vpbqs
@Falastheen002
@Falastheen002 2 жыл бұрын
1. Being fake. Being someone your not 2. Being one sided. 3. Not smiling 4. Getting too personal right away 5. Bragging/ talking too much about your achievements/ 6. Being threatening 7. Being yourself
@vince065us
@vince065us 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this.Being yourself shouldn't be held against you.
@TheFlyfly
@TheFlyfly 2 жыл бұрын
ive seen lots of people on the internet who need to hear what you guys have to say about being yourself
@frixc25
@frixc25 2 жыл бұрын
I like this video because most of the advices given in this video are similar to what Islam advises the muslims to do, like smiling
@Nedmar
@Nedmar 2 жыл бұрын
Well, a lot of us still are wearing these damned masks, so having a bright and wide smile may not be so relevant, at least for now. Do we get any bonus after having found all 5 moons :D?
@RealAadilFarooqui
@RealAadilFarooqui 2 жыл бұрын
Take my this advice because this helped me a lot, like a lot Start being yourself and as kind as you could be, that's it this thing will become your habit and you won't pretend, boost or lie or will try to anybody else people will like you for who you are that's it the kind is for those who try to be stubborn and strong by being rude that drives people away from you even if you are not one just scared that people will take advantage of you, trust this if they will do it will be their fault you will know who they were and you could trust them from now on or not, wanna give them another chance or not, don't make yourself evil because of someone else it's also pretending So Be yourself and kind (as much as you could) after that let the dice rolls out and you will have good and life long friends might take time but it will be worth it Try It
@sawakokuronuma9474
@sawakokuronuma9474 2 жыл бұрын
Agreed, good advice thank you (^-^)/
@my.pfp.say.it.all.5u5
@my.pfp.say.it.all.5u5 2 жыл бұрын
to me having a friend is wasting my time 😕 not always
@mira_i
@mira_i 2 жыл бұрын
HII
@siri.r1798
@siri.r1798 2 жыл бұрын
Hlo
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 2 жыл бұрын
Hello
@mira_i
@mira_i 2 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go hhaahhahahahhHahUauUIU
@LolLol-ry3ue
@LolLol-ry3ue 2 жыл бұрын
Heyyy 😚
@lekwachibueze8180
@lekwachibueze8180 2 жыл бұрын
I am unique,truthful, real,loyal and full of integrity
@Aqua.man045
@Aqua.man045 2 жыл бұрын
Can relate. Sometimes I feel like an alien on the planet.
@athenatorres9061
@athenatorres9061 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this vidio
@aisha7278
@aisha7278 2 жыл бұрын
I found the hidden moons!!!!: 0:58 1:20 2:38 3:19 4:18 ✨MISSION ACCOMPLISHED SUCCESSFULLY ✨
@AyeshaMaliangkay
@AyeshaMaliangkay 2 жыл бұрын
I like this one, for I like space. Happy day!!
@siri.r1798
@siri.r1798 2 жыл бұрын
Your vedios really help me to be more postive..
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 2 жыл бұрын
That's awesome!
@1LauraMeow
@1LauraMeow 2 жыл бұрын
I saw 4 👀👀👀 And I relate to not being myself and making lots of self deprecating jokes. I’m just trying to be kind to everyone because you never know what people go through and I know what it’s like to be treated badly so I want to show people that they deserve kindness and respect, but that may come off as fakeness when it’s really not. And I make self deprecating jokes often just so it won’t hurt as much in case someone else tells me something bad about myself.
@nomorejellybeanflower6659
@nomorejellybeanflower6659 2 жыл бұрын
saving this on downloads
@Star77760
@Star77760 2 жыл бұрын
When you're fake:be you When you're you: don't be you When you're noisy: be quiet When you're quiet: what's wrong with you If you don't feel happy don't smile it's just a face mask that leads to depression. BE YOU. I've got this problem as an ISTJ also...
@epictoast
@epictoast 2 жыл бұрын
Hey, pretty much everybody in the universe needs this video!
@shehualiyu878
@shehualiyu878 2 жыл бұрын
Hello sweetheart never give up on the one you love...I know of a man who can attract back your twin flame.. He was the one who brought back my twin flame ever since I got back with my twin flame I have been enjoying my relationship with him. .
@shehualiyu878
@shehualiyu878 2 жыл бұрын
十14043411219⏯⏯💖(☉。☉)!🕓🕓🕓🕓🕓🕓
@epictoast
@epictoast 2 жыл бұрын
@@shehualiyu878 what does this mean
@melon6827
@melon6827 2 жыл бұрын
i love ur vids they realy help me out
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