The coin of the realm: give people what they want

[@psychacks]

My book, “The Value of Others,” begins and ends with a parable. Many have asked me about the significance of the parable in the epilogue, which relates an episode from the life of Jesus. In applying this parable to sexual relationships, we can understand the importance of using the coin of the realm. Render unto Caesar what is Caesar's. When men pay women in women's currency, and women pay men in men's currency, relationships are ordered and prosperous. I discuss further in this episode. Buy my book, "The Value of Others" Ebook: amzn.to/460uGrA Audiobook: amzn.to/3YfFwbx Paperback: amzn.to/3xQuIFK Book a paid consultation: oriontarabanpsyd.com/consultations Subscribe to my newsletter: oriontarabanpsyd.com Social Media TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@oriontaraban Facebook: facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090053889622 LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/orion-taraban-070b45168/ Instagram: instagram.com/psyc.hacks Twitter: twitter.com/oriontaraban Website: oriontarabanpsyd.com Orion's Theme: kzbin.info/www/bejne/jaO7c62HZ613e7M Thinking of going to grad school? Check out STELLAR, my top-rated GRE self-study program based on the world's only empirically-validated test prep system. Use the code "PSYCH" for 10% off all membership plans: stellargre.com. Become a Stellar affiliate and earn a 10% commission for every membership purchased by a new student you conduct into the program: stellargre.tapfiliate.com. GRE Bites: www.youtube.com/@grebites4993 Become a Psychonaut and join PsycHack's member community: kzbin.info/door/SduXBjCHkLoo_y9ss2xzXwjoin Sound mixing/editing by: valntinomusic.com Presented by Orion Taraban, Psy.D. PsycHacks provides viewers with a brief, thought-provoking video several days a week on a variety of psychological topics, inspired by his clinical practice. The intention is for the core idea contained within each video to inspire viewers to see something about themselves or their world in a slightly different light. The ultimate mission of the channel is to reduce the amount of unnecessary suffering in the world. #psychology #dating #relationship

[@aaronjonellhall1937]

Bought!!!

[@ma2000]

One of the best books I have read. I watched ALL episodes on this channel but the book is where it's all at. Highly recommended!

[@kurtvanluven9351]

Well, if you're observing the media nowadays, I guess the point of the realm would be lies but , but that's not really what people want.

[@WestRonin75]

I never thought I’d hear Orion say “titties” this many times in a single vid 😂😂😂

[@EriPages]

We all do love us some titties. Especially big ones!

[@RaviTeja_RaviTejaP]

@@WestRonin75 🤣 true I was dying laughing

[@DavidianCrest]

the man defines “savage in a suit” gotta love em 😂

[@bdtrap]

I read this comment and patiently waited 9 minutes for the barrage 🤣

[@willhartman300]

Needs to be a ringtone

[@btwthblood]

I agree....I was married for 38 years before he passed. It was a good marriage. One of the things we did in our early marriage was attend "marriage enrichment seminars." We read a book we got from one of those seminars. "His Needs, Her Needs" It really helped us. That was long before cell phones.

[@James-ic1mp]

His book is phenomenal. It's the only book I've listened to, finished, and immediately started listening to again.

[@DawnFromNZ]

Me too! Bought the paperback and as soon as I finished, read it again. 😊

[@walterwilkinson1499]

​@@DawnFromNZprobably a good idea to buy the paperback in case any coming AI future has the type of wokeism that would scrub it from the digital realm.

[@shun2240]

definitely reading it after I finished 12 rules for life by Jordan Peterson

[@chetwayosfitnessenterprise5472]

I did the same thing, I haven't listened to it 4 times now lol

[@biasedknowledge]

Your analogy about paying men and women in their respective ‘currencies’ is such a simple yet profound concept! It brings to mind the projection bias, where we project our own wants and needs onto others, assuming they'll reciprocate in the same way. I’ve seen someone close to me wrestle with this-thinking their partner should appreciate what they value, rather than tuning into what their partner actually craved. Your insights help make it clear how vital it is to step outside of our own assumptions and recognize the individuality of the other person

[@jdvert4]

The one who holds the power controls the value. Remember, if you want something, usually you have to give something. But, don't get taken advantage of.

[@edheldude]

Winning means overpaying in this current unregulated market.

[@msfubby9372]

​@@edheldude True

[@chipsteve]

The dating apps are full of women saying they only want a serious relationship and want to "take it slow". They are so oblivious to what men want. It's not even if they don't care. They are too solipsistic & "me me me!" to even realize that in order for them to get what they want in a relationship, they should consider the other person's perspective. A woman saying that she's only looking for a serious relationship after taking it slow is exactly equivalent to a man saying I just want bedroom fun immediately and I don't really care about you as a person.

[@slaytanic921]

They say they want to take it slow but if you are “that guy,” they’ll fvck on the first date.

[@chipsteve]

@@slaytanic921 Sure, but that's not the point. It's that our culture has become so ridiculous that such a dichotomy exists, even on the most superficial of mediums.

[@FedPut]

​@@slaytanic921 they're probably already having sex with "that guy" casually while they are looking for a sucker who will pay for dates

[@Knxwledgist]

And that's fine, we just gotta make sure that we aren't giving more than we're getting. most of the time this will just lead to us coming off as low value and getting rejected, or even worse, exploited.

[@Ashnesss]

@@slaytanic9211 year and the other 9 months. And no, it wasn’t sex. Light make out. No tongue. So, nope. I can’t imagine myself dropping my pants on the first date. That takes practice. You reach that point AFTER you’ve had sex with multiple people which I haven’t. That’s why I can’t have an arranged marriage either. I’d be uncomfortable sleeping with a stranger or letting him touch me 🤢🤮

[@Slyharrier7878-vq2fw]

25 years old and going through a break up. These videos have been enlightening and will carry me forward. Best of luck to all guys

[@realcharlesrono]

25 is a tad bit old my guy

[@Slyharrier7878-vq2fw]

@@realcharlesrono Yeah guess so, but better late than never

[@YesNo-qb9vl]

I wish I had those for my disgusting break up in 2021 it would have made sense of all my gut feelings and dodge me an unnecessarily long-term mourning of the relationship. I got a delusional psychiatrist instead who only made me absolutely worst and created doubt where none were warranted, he held me back discrediting my guts and I trusted him, he's an old head, and he is so kind and full of good intentions and all giving, but so incompetent 😢

[@stmatthewsisland5134]

I remember as a nurse back in the late 80s doing night duty with a lady then in her late 40s, one always had interesting and frank discussions with people on night duty - the sun going down seems to have that effect. She told me her Mother advised her ‘whenever your husband wants sex give it to him’ I thought that sounded like sensible advice. Now after a long spell looking after my Mother until she died I would like to get married again and I have found this an invaluable channel in getting ‘up to speed’ on relationships again and I shall get the book. Thank you for all you do; and thank you for the video on Letting Go I had never heard it put like that before (letting to with love).

[@lawnbear5958]

For the record, the Pharisees were attempting to trap and discredit Jesus. If he had said it was okay to pay taxes, then they would determine that he was putting Ceasar before God. If He had said not to pay taxes, then they would have argued that he was violating the law. It was a catch 22. Jesus, being Jesus, showed them the Way.

[@cabot100]

The Roman elite hired scholars to write what is known as the Bible. The underlying intent was to control the common people, a component of that was loyalty to Caesar including taxation.

[@Damo-np7ul]

Or... As Joseph Atwill and others have put forward in Caesar's Messiah, the first gospel (Mark's) was written by someone like Josephus on bequest of the Flavians to control and subdue the Jews. That is, the Romans may have created what became Christianity. Hence, "render unto Ceasar", "turn the other cheek" etc are conscious and subconscious acquiesces to Roman rule. The Flavians also saw themselves as the Son of God and wanted to create a divine right for their dynasty to rule.

[@041882]

Jesus did this over and over. Getting the background on this story is fascinating.

[@cabot100]

@@041882 The Jesus character in the Bible was created by the Roman elite.

[@jeji000]

@@Damo-np7ul No evidence of course, just another angle that attempts to discredit Christianity.

[@TinoDanielzik]

Well, if you deal with toxic people you can give them as much as they want and whatever they want, they will still be unsatisfied and leave. Another topic for another video, how Orion‘s model described in his book works on toxic people. Regarding this video: think about it like a birthday, don’t buy a present for the birthday kid that YOU would be happy to get, buy a present that the kid would be happy to get.

[@sammakwela]

Sure, but I doubt he's addressing toxic people at this point

[@vladivf]

Orion would probably say that you shouldn't invest time, energy, money into people you consider toxic.

[@sammakwela]

@@vladivf good one

[@DawnFromNZ]

You explain things so clearly. Have learnt so much from your videos and book. I might not like everything, some truths are hard to swallow, but swallow them I do! Thanks Orion. 😊

[@IY89118]

Agree!

[@SpencerRoyalcom]

Well said. Define your currency and identify the costs. Then enjoy serving and being paid.

[@CedReg-en6od]

Another Master Class taught! 🔥 Me and a lady friend had a slight debate disagreement about some things and I literally tried to tell her to stop trying to think like men; and just learn to listen to what we like; not what you think “feel” we should value.

[@tnn-cj3vy]

after watching this video, i realized i'm not just poor in dollars, but men coins as well!

[@pureprairie1]

No problem! If you've got titties you're good! And don't worry about perfection... The primary emotional need for women is to be listened to. The primary emotional need for men is to be appreciated. When a female voice says thank you to a man, we feel warm fuzzies in our chest. Thank him for spending time with you, taking out the trash, helping the kids with their homework, going to church with you, etc etc. And watch his face melt and his shoulders relax. When the homelife is good we're not hungry for love. Good luck!

[@gracerules2008]

Even if men are expected to downplay their sexual desires that will not stop them from having those desires.

[@ringoheinrich7021]

Your channel is pure enlightenment. ... Thank you for your work!

[@armorbearer9702]

The analogy you gave is spot on. Different things and services has different value to different people.

[@Developer_rapfa]

He just solved life ,

[@DenzelCierra]

Orion, we need to plaster someplace you at 09:32 for us men to reference like apes around a monolith. Love you, dude. Keep up the inspiring work.

[@diemme568]

this episode is the best one of all. It is precisely what happens. And I even use the inverse tactics, too: when I want a relationship to end, I pay in dumbbells and "various alphaness articles", instead of the wanted pink elephants. After a while, the end comes inexorably. XD

[@faulrevere8938]

Tactics😎

[@Abelius]

I swear, the moment my daughters learn English well enough, I'll send them your videos one after another, starting with this one. I bet you'll have 3M subs by then, if not more.

[@LisaCulton]

You want your daughters to be sending nude pictures to men online?

[@ryan99842]

this video’s take really clicks with some of the things I've been reading in unveiling your hidden potential by bruce thornwood

[@DeepStreamBits]

This needs another 3 hour video explaining the exchange rate of the coins, sexual market volatility, age adjusted inflation and so on...

[@zZDavidHD]

Been reading your Book, somewhere around page 30, i gotta say it is really good, i can recommend so far, it just gets better.

[@23DanielVincent]

I agree with the principles stated in this video: HOWEVER; women of today are demanding far more "coins" for a product that has far less value than what it used to.

[@sammyb1651]

*Mario Coin sound*

[@Straga_Severa]

Yep. The taxes on men are constantly raised, and taxes on women are constantly lowered.

[@rob21]

Yep. The price has increased, but the product is used.

[@perpetualprocrastinator]

@@rob21 😄

[@Papaconstantopoulos]

Glad other viewers caught this too, easily one of Orion's best and most widely applicable videos. Good, simple explanation ❤

[@brewerfireguy]

Just finished your book. So good. I can’t wait to read again.

[@workvids9296]

This is brilliant Orion, I finally understand the currency between men and women. Thank you.

[@xFREEEDO]

didn't expect a solid couple minutes on TIDDIES and nearly spit up my morning coffee 😂

[@immortaljanus]

The video is over and I'm still laughing. 🤣

[@IfSemper]

I was brushing my teeth while listening to it & nearly dripped the toothpaste out all over my mine, ha, ha ( * ) ( * )

[@1986xuan]

Orion’s doing God’s work. It’s all about tiddies 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻

[@69sexymonk69]

Pics or it didn't happen

[@bearclaw5115]

Oh come on dude, you can say it. Titties! Yes, Titties! Set them free baby!!!

[@janiceball8431]

When a guy is into you, he does everything that is required. If she is the right one for him she will respond appropriately

[@gb1style]

Naive statement 1 of two marriages end with divorce Clearly we all need those enlightenments

[@mtlicq]

Sorry Janice but the Dr's advice is much better !!! by FAR !!! You think a guy will just automatically do everything right?? ha ! or a woman do everything right?? ha !

[@solahoward929]

I wish more people understood this. It really is very simple.

[@petedoxtader4177]

I wish you could like a KZbin video more than once. This one deserves 100.

[@maxwell7470]

i like the book, it made me ever reconsider if i want to finish it bc it makes relationships "too complicated", as i think would not be better to learn seduction? never the less, im finishing it. On a more personal note, i don't agree 100% with all the videos or ideas but 90% minimum yea and i got to say im happy i found you man, i had lots of ideas that seemed logical but never give them form and you provided me with that "form". if you're ever in Frankfurt i offer you a beer and a meal at a good restaurant

[@StradTrumpeter]

Really? I found the opposite to be true. The only way the book makes relationships more complicated is if we try to get them to be something they’re not or something we wish they were. But if you’re doing that then it’s always going to be a shit show.

[@southpoleelvs]

I bought your book and I love it!! Highly recommend

[@KevinMcClave]

Another fantastic installment. This may be the best yet.

[@rdcklaus]

I agree... until the next video... lol

[@qfit80]

Orion is the truth. The quintessential psychology, dating, and relationship advisor for the 21st century. Keep up the excellent work!

[@directorchris2]

Coynting What was Said Before When He Reached USD.... Thoyght of US Dick Coin X X

[@LordHaragnok]

​@@directorchris2 ...what?

[@directorchris2]

@@LordHaragnok From prior Dick pictyres... Coin ....

[@directorchris2]

@@LordHaragnok He Spoke of Dickpics Whne he Reached the USD Coinage Thought he Meant USdick coin

[@AaronJMarch]

I’ve watched every video you’ve made Doc - this one is in my top 3.

[@angelaseraphinaTheRECONNECTION]

It seems we are realizing there isn’t much we truly want from each other.

[@stevenmccauslin5880]

@@angelaseraphinaTheRECONNECTION I think the message here is that there are a great many things we want from each other but more often one party isn't willing to pay, or isn't willing to pay the set price in the desired currency.

[@FFLOVEAR302]

The fact that nobody talks about the book whispers of manifestation on borlest speaks volumes about how people are stuck in a trance

[@4SG]

Cringe bot spam.

[@kents1911]

This man is preaching!!!

[@Khan-rz8qi]

The way I go about it, I give women 90 percent of everything they want. I look great and I have lots to share. I just don’t give them 100 percent because of 2 reasons: once I trap myself with one woman, I lose access to being able to get more. And 2, women who end up locking down men like me tend to become very ungrateful down the line because they know they have the legal system backing them. I could potentially find myself in a loveless, sexless relationship because I decided to give a woman 100 percent. By keeping my options open, I maintain my position to get more, and I also avoid being taken to the cleaners when I woman inevitably becomes unhappy later on. I’m quite happy and as far as I can tell, the women I love are also happy.

[@katielowen]

Khan likes to sniff the odor of his own 💩 with a sigh and a proud smile, and there’s nothing wrong with that. 🥰

[@sammyb1651]

If anyone can, Khan can.

[@katielowen]

@@sammyb1651 love Khan and his armchair quarterback stories 🥰

[@sammyb1651]

@@katielowen All hail Khan!!!!

[@Paul-yk7ds]

In my experience, they go crazy when you give them everything but monogamy. Not sure if that's what you're saying

[@dannybazanjr]

protect the doc at all costs. another banger!

[@GamingDemiurge]

I have absolutely no critique for this video. Is brilliant.

[@tucobenedicto1780]

The sequence from 9:50 to 10:10 is spot on my experience with women.

[@brianaustin2135]

Excellent job as usual doctor

[@eyepodwalkman6247]

In my experience sending cute, affectionate, non sexual texts is the most sure fire way to make her lose interest completely and stop responding altogether.

[@mtlicq]

Yup !

[@kat-601]

Never use impressive & extra words. Direct to the point black & white.

[@lotsosoul]

Because it’s feminine energy.

[@eyepodwalkman6247]

@@lotsosoul But that's what Orion recommends we do in the video. Are you suggesting Mr. Spooky Eyes would steer us wrong?

[@Candlelight787]

​@@eyepodwalkman6247 😂😂😂 Noooo...never..

[@dgk46]

This is pure gold!

[@tlz8884]

This has been enlightening, thank you.

[@khoivinh2028]

As always, very cool and life-altering knowledges.

[@robertkluch7165]

*sigh* and here we go again *listens to his book for the 5th time in a row because this man is a genius* 😮‍💨

[@thinkforyourself7262]

GREAT BOOK. Learned a lot. Appreciated Orion.

[@stanislawjanusz4452]

One of the best videos I have watched.

[@Lizjr02723]

This makes perfect sense

[@hectordjibaou4198]

Excellent work on this!

[@maritamaltezaki8588]

Such a revealing and logical point of view!❤

[@tiomoidofangle102]

Great use of parables.

[@anccert]

From prior videos I got the impression you’re not a fan of the 5 Love Languages book, but the coin analogy is basically the premise of that book and the love languages. Coin or language, the idea is to swallow ones pride and practice a little selflessness.

[@timolus3942]

I love the book and this video!! Thanks Orion❤

[@jayasooryasuriyanarayanan6954]

When the coin of the realm stops tracking anything real, and the entire marketplace starts getting into a nightmare zone of inflated transactions and empty prospecting of tulips we must cease transacting with the coin of the realm and base the medium of exchange on something more sensible, otherwise the whole system crumbles.

[@jayasooryasuriyanarayanan6954]

Caesars have fallen to revolutions.

[@konradallan]

This is some of your best work Orion 🤣🤣

[@kamalbhatia9591]

Hello orion. You make so complicated concepts so easy. Thanks from India.

[@rumannkoch4864]

The big difference between men's and women's currency is that the value of men's currency increases over time, whereas women's currency loses value over time.

[@Arcadius-tr8bm]

I'm a guy but this is coping. Your value doesn't grow, you just have to build it, they can too, they just don't want to because all their lives they didn't have to. Eggs are not the only value.

[@MsLilflyer]

Well women s currency to men definitely loses value over time but do men s currency to women really increases over time? I am not sure about that. 20 some year old Females could be super happy when a hot 25 year old man with a solid six pack buys them a cup of coffee and send a couple texts asking about their day. But a 65 year old man would have to do a lot more than that to get the same excitement from the same females.

[@philip_hill-p9g]

@@Arcadius-tr8bm They can't do anything against time. Forget about makeup.

[@Arcadius-tr8bm]

@@philip_hill-p9g There are always interested men older than them. I still think you are looking for some kind of punishment for them to make yourself feel better

[@Arcadius-tr8bm]

@@philip_hill-p9g you also

[@beanrunnerWA]

Great book, it allows us to see what people are really doing.

[@doublet7651]

I think this also applies to different personalities with friends, co workers, etc. Thanks Orion

[@meriabbado8852]

As always PHENOMENAL! 👏🙌🙌

[@regaelbufkin2135]

I agree with this for the most part but a big part of the problem... the men willing to pay women with women coin aren't the men they want the coin from.

[@yanga_pangomso]

The book is simply the best book in its segment, I may have not read all books on relationships, I will confidently say, they likely don’t surpass this.

[@CraigHillas]

Take me to church Orion, preach the word!

[@valdius85]

In terms of intimate relationships, bother and women want things from people they are attracted to. Men want connection as well, but from women they are attracted to. Since most men would sleep with most women, this dynamic is not visible at the beginning. It is very visible in long term relationships. If a woman lets herself go, men’s interest leaves the room as well. Exactly the same impacts women whose husbands let themselves go as well.

[@gregprince5283]

I give to Cesar every time I eat a salad

[@anilbalram7768]

He really broke it down. Damn

[@stevensolof7058]

I believe this is about 50 percent correct, at least from my personal set of preferences. I want both of those coins. In other words, i want my girlfriend to be a good friend who wants to share random moments, jokes, intimate connection, etc... maybe not my best friend in the world, but a good friend... because expecting a woman to totally get me like my best friend is probably expecting too much. And clearly, as a man, i want the sexual chemistry to be through the roof, including attraction from my partner to be strong enough that they voluntarily send nudes, or flirt, wear the new lingerie, etc. The main problem for me is that women tend to be flirty in the beginning of a relationship, but eventually fall off the habit, partiallt because they feel as though they shouldnt have to. And when that happens, is when i tend to stop wanting to share on the friendship level, because the reciprocation balance is off.

[@drwayne_carter9115]

This is definitely personal preference. Most men do not want constant and meaningless small talk via text like you do. When Orion gives advice he is speaking to the majorities.

[@alexandrodl1371]

@@drwayne_carter9115 ' I saw that cloud and I thought of you!' Please... Please, dont.

[@rayrwyr]

@@drwayne_carter9115 -- modern men are feminized. They want women as good friends.

[@user-nz6tq3vc5u]

​@drwayne_carter9115 it's my experience that the men want nothing but to spend endless hours small talking. I hate it as much as you guys. They never want to leave their home.

[@jac_marie]

Steven, how often should I send pics? I’ve been with my man a year now and I send pics voluntarily like once a week. I’m curious and you seem like a reasonable guy. lol

[@gregprince5283]

I think the reason why men do that is for validation up front. If she don't like it, the man saves face and avoids embarrassment

[@lotsosoul]

This was as enlightening as it was hilarious 😂😂😂

[@bt6939]

"Her personalities" I don't know if it was intentional or he misspoke but it was funny

[@ignaciomourullo944]

I would have benefited from this advice, this information, about 20 years ago. Thank you Doc, you are the best!!

[@barbapapaplouf5419]

Man, I am sometimes a bit skeptical about your content, but I feel that you make really great points here

[@michaelbunner4148]

I liked this video first,always good content 😂😂

[@jtrojan]

A number of YT channels say that most women are only interested in the top 10% of men. If so, then the vast majority of men most likely won't get what they want regardless of the currency they offer women.

[@kalimba_rd]

Almost true, only 40% of men reproduced, based on genetic history. But sometimes you just don’t know you have enough, like Dr. Orion explained in texting example. So read his book and check your pockets, you can find some strange pieces of wood or stone which are women coins!

[@danielhamilton5094]

Doesn’t mean you can’t improve your chances Nutrition Gym Career success Get after it

[@rayrwyr]

All women want the top 4.5% men but most don't get them. So vast majority of women "settle" for someone who is ok (good provider, ok in bed) but there is no butterflies. They live unhappy forever because they settled.

[@slaytanic921]

Body game. Women are animalistic, if they admit it or not. Get in the best shape of your life but make sure to save some for the rest of us.

[@dreamdiction]

That's nature's way, 90% of men are sub-standard, just look around you and think like a woman looking for egg fertilizer.

[@MsLilflyer]

Just as a woman’s perceived value in the dating market may decline with time, the same applies to men. For example, a 20-year-old woman might be delighted when a 20-year-old man buys her a simple cup of coffee and sends a few thoughtful texts. However, when a 65-year-old man tries to win the attention of the same 20-year-old, he would likely need to invest significantly more effort to impress her. As we age, what is considered valuable or attractive often shifts, making reciprocity more complex.

[@rayrwyr]

Women are valued for their beauty. Men are valued for their status/money. Women's peak SMV is at 18-23. Men's peak SMV is at 45-50. SMV = s3xual marketplace value

[@ArmyWolves]

True ... Age determines what stage of life a person is... E.g a younger woman seeking affection and validation may be satisfied with just being in love with a man and spending time together but a woman who has student loans, consumer debt, utilities and so on may have more practical expectations which are material and financial who will supercede or be a prerequisite before affection, intimacy and so on...

[@user-nz6tq3vc5u]

Amen!!

[@insightsofmichael]

This is a great analogy.

[@marriagecausesdivorce7540]

If you are a beta male, in the first 7 years women are not paying, they are actually lending. But once you're married with kids, expect her to want more of her currency while refusing to give you your currency because she has the leverage, power and backing of family court. If you refuse, expect her to recover this loan as part of the divorce settlement.

[@sammakwela]

So, your conclusion/advice is?

[@imperiumoccidentis7351]

@@sammakwela Don't get married, never commit, and never give away your power to someone.

[@lotsosoul]

Fucking brilliant!!

[@marriagecausesdivorce7540]

@@sammakwela 1. dont get married. 2. if you want to take the risk of having kids try to sick to only having 1 kid to reduce future child support payments and custody battles. and 3. vet your girlfriend very carefully for at least 3 years before having kids. make sure she in not an Angry, Bossy, Combative, Disagreeable and Emotional (ABCDE) woman. if she is ABCDE run, it will never last and there will be a huge custody battle in the future. your girlfriend MUST be mentally and emotionally stable.

[@latinaalma1947]

So dont procreate....just what governements WANT you to do...

[@drmatthewhorkey]

While reading the book, I couldn't wrap my head around the parable... Now I GET IT!!!

[@michaelwilliams853]

Another brilliant explanation of behaviors and thsir results. 👏🏾💪🏾

[@joselopezalanis3568]

The big problem is that women always want more, they are hardly satisfied... so the basic rule would be give them what they want little by little

[@rayrwyr]

Don't give women anything that will compromise your well-being. Say "no" often. "Get used to disappointing women." -- Orion Taraban

[@user-nz6tq3vc5u]

I'm used to disappointing men​@rayrwyr

[@ronj9448]

What a damn great episode. I decided I had to buy the book.

[@Deibote]

Very useful! Thank you

[@ChrisZimmerman-gy6lo]

Excellent as usual.

[@j.davidtaylor2565]

Dropping truth bombs as per usual. Well-articulated as always

[@meliciaoliveira9895]

The bessssst episode! 😂😏

[@bernardvreulink2457]

Brilliant!

[@isaacwinters6954]

I remember hearing the quote “render unto…” at the end of Orion’s book Wasn’t sure what it meant. This video answers that question

[@LisaCulton]

Except that he doesn't understand the meaning of the story.

[@joelpratley9248]

Your best yet

[@zziitech2152]

It's amazing book i learned a lot

[@freisein6554]

Very helpful and makes sense 👍🏻

[@kennethwolkens6251]

Absolutely ingenious!

[@Martin-bj8eq]

The currency women SAY they want is NOT the currency they actually accept. eg "I want a nice man who knows how to treat a lady" ends up with a drug dealer boyfriend who slaps and kicks

[@talknight2]

"I want an *attractive* and *emotionally engaging* man, preferably one who will treat me nicely".

[@frankbarenbach6044]

Best relationship video ever! ❤😊

[@dizzydez8126]

Thankyou again doc keep up the good work