Hello, Just to add there is or was another doc on YT w a channel called SHRINK FOR MEN and she is awesome. Focused mostly on borderline and narcisstic women and helping men cope / gain insight, have validation etc. I watched all her vids, some twice. I was not really her audience but I gained infinite insights and it really helped me in my relationship. And relationships. Tara... the last name escapes me. She took an incredible amount of crap. Very brave woman to tell it like it is. Cheers

Are there actually women out there like this? This seems odd, sounds like an unhealed person. My difficulty in dating is classism. A man that is intelligent, academic, great work ethic, has a plan and vision, honest, accountable and empathetic is difficult to come by. As a woman who grew up in poverty and foster care, most men that come from where I come from become products of their environment. By gods grace I didn’t, but it has made dating difficult. Man that have the character I’m looking for are from higher socioeconomic backgrounds, they don’t know that I am upon meeting until I tell. Then they tell me, I use to be naive about class, I thought it was who the person was, but I was sadly mistaken. It’s your status, where you come from. It’s a myth that men date and marry the barista. Although classism and dating is how people always mated. This is one, but with the many other problems for men and women it’s that the world has become increasingly selfish. No one seems to understand that relationships are a part of the service industry.

Longtime fan. I predict this will cause the most aggregation of your videos. This hits right at the heart of the problem and goes against most of the pop psychology aimed at women today. This encompasses the topic we men assumed single women discussed the most.

Guys you just need to ignore women and just focus on your goals. Most of them aren’t worth the time, effort, and money to begin with. So just live your life and enjoy being alone. The right one finds you at the right time. This is if you want long term relationships which is the healthy way of doing things. If you want causal relationships I don’t know what to tell you cause I am catholic and we only believe in long term and stocked to the values of the Church since I was a kid so I don’t believe in casual sex.

Orion never misses.

Voice of reason, as always

Interesting take on the love languages. I never had an issue with the idea since it seemed obvious that they were being presented so that each partner could better accommodate and understand one another. Using the love languages as an excuse to make stricter personal requirements is a perversion of the idea, but probably more common than i would have assumed.

The issue is from day one women think their "product" is one that isn't in abundance. We want them to feel special but they have a false notion that they are a 1 of 1. Men are reminded often that we can be replaced from our first sports team in elementary school.

from a woman’s perspective, this is absolutely not good advice to give. while there should be longing (distance), playing games about not letting her know you are into her will result in her showing her attention to others that may be more into her. women appreciate commitment and security, and this advice is very insecure. if you are a confident man you should have no apprehensions about letting a woman know you are into her.

Its noble of you to do this but I'll just wait for a AI Robot, things going fast right now. Yes I could bed women easily but the modern western woman is scary and posion

Uncom0licate that love funnel

Doesn't make sense to me. Direct benefit of becoming wealthier by what means and at what cost? Confused...

I wish i could afford this guy for my couples therapy.

*Women make it complicated and difficult for men to carry on a relationship with them, because this is female nature, which will NOT change.*

All that RIGAMORALE was set up to insure YOUR safety.

To use your own analogy, if you REALLY want a product and you are certain it brings tremendous VALUE into your life, you will go out of your way to get it. If it’s something you don’t really need or care about, it’s easy to buy and then toss it to the side, or even easier to return it and get your money back… This is what women on the other side think.

Your analysis failed to mention the number one psychological disorder plaguing western women: entitlement.

Is he basically saying women are stupid ? 😂

Im here for the “woman experience” this too comments 😂😂 as always 😂

Thanks!

In short 90% of adult woman are nothing but 8 year olds psychologically speaking 90% of adult women in point of fact have the minds emotions and self control of at best a 10 year old girl that has been spoiled utterly rotten by Disney princess syndrome Great And these adult children can vote

Perhaps there are incentives to creating (or enabling/exacerbating) dissatisfaction. The more dissatisfied we are and the greater the limits placed on access to effective information to resolve this dissatisfaction, the more money we will spend on products and (usually) ineffective therapy.

"LIFE is simple. People make it more difficult". -Albert Einstein, Nobel Prize, Physics, E=MC^2

First off men just want free. Free to relieve themselves on some women who believed them. And the get someone to do their laundry and make dinner. Oh and since the economy is bad, someone to out and work for money. And if she wants children they’re her problem. After a while she’s just an after thought. Especially if she’s gained weight from all the stress and children. And she’s responsible for birth control, she has more to lose than he does, if there’s no marriage contract, hes in the wind. Saying and doing are two different things. Now I’m not sayings all men are selfish persons. But there is evidence that they expect more from a women than she expects from him. She has more to lose the he would.

This, along with many other issues are the reason why younger people are not starting relationships. I could go on about every issue, but this is the main crux of the problem

I couldn't agree more with you my friend. Unearned compliments destroys everything for the others and creates a generation of Entitled women.👍

Men out here just trying to avoid the rigamarole

If we are to use business as an anology, from women's perspective, they want revenue from customers who are willing to jump through the hoops and prove that the product/service is worth it. If the buying process is too easy, the perceived value of the revenue that she get out of the transaction is lower. So, what you said in this video makes sense, but most women are not willing to do this.

This reminds me of one of your other videos. You talked about how you should not punish people for making an effort. It is a surefire way to make sure you will never get people to change their behavior.

Great episode! Let’s face it, maybe 5 % will actually listen to this and use the advice. The rest will go back to being nagging awful boss babe princesses

They won't/can't change. It's over boys- Get a dog instead. Simple, loving, and LOYAL.

You'd think this would be common sense, but the emotions running around women's brains override basic logic.

Great information Doctor...business involves all aspects of daily life...men and women understanding that during courtship have fewer obstacles to a harmonious relationship🎉❤

Mating psychology should be part of sex ed

Perhaps women do not really want love? they say they do, what they mean is commitment from the man. Their endless stream of nagging and demanding proves this point, that what they want is some form of investment from the man, not love. What they deceptively call love is just a biochemical infatuation (usually called love in mainstream culture) as it it is a helpful cocktail of drugs that may induce said infatuation in men. This explain the female stereotype of the "witch", which is a women which is trying hard to concoction a potion or a spell to make a man "fall in love" with her . Its NOT love its either a "spell" or a bunch or neuro-chemicals.

This information Would have been helpful 20 years ago.

Thank god for social media. Men can finally see how truly disgusting female nature really is, and how little they actually have to offer men.

I knew that love language crap was trash , so tired of framing narratives, society is a mess , but thx O

For the record: many businesses ARE doing exactly what the initial analogy stated. They ARE blaming the customers, and what happens as a result? They become even more unpopular to the point of becoming a pariah. No one's going to stop women from doubling down on their demands, but men will absolutely go from 'apathetic' to 'antagonistic' after a while due to the absurdity of it all.

It's inherently understood that men must bring protection and provision as a value to a relationship. But women often say what a man needs to do (usually excessive) and what they as women won't do. It never occurs to them to lead with what value they bring to a man's life. And they often think they bring value that no other women can bring, not realizing that they need to excessive, exceptional value in order to stand out from other women. Men are waking up and understanding that they can enjoy more of their own resources without the hassle of a problematic woman.

Actually, that breakdown of why love languages are be is quite accurate. They've never struck a chord with me, as if anyone is just one type

<Prince> I ain’t got no money. I ain’t like those other guys you hang around!</Prince> I mock that 6s BS!😂 I’m just a blue collar dude. 54 Tall handsome confident pensioned USMC operator pro DJ music producer. I make every girl laugh on first interaction. Well spoken, can hold a group or a crowd. DM’s are full of stunning 20-30 something’s

Great analogy, you’re very good at finding those to convey relationships issues.

Women DO NOT love Men. Get it through your skulls. Do you love your Jeep? Sure. Are you IN LOVE with your Jeep? Replaceable. They want a provider\protector. A man literally is a house. And Nature wants children. Women love their own children obsessively. It is an extension of self. Men are just the gateway to that.

And I also think women actually weed out the most successful men with this process. I remember I went out with a girl for about a month. She got upset and starting giving me silent treatment over a trivial matter. In fact, I wasn't even sure what upset her. So I'm staring at the phone and trying to figure out what I'm going to say to her. BUT I'm also very busy with work. I really need to focus now or it will cost me. So I mentally put her on the back burner and don't call. Now a man with more time on his hands may have more time to figure it all out. I don't. Because I work hard and have to really be on my toes at work. And when the weekend rolls around the last thing I want to do is fight with my girlfriend. So she is ghosted. I just don't have the time and energy for the drama.

January 16th of this year (2024) was his 51st birthday. Capricorn. The man I loved. The man I revered as my best friend. Last year, on his birthday, he was significant in my life. This year, he's a stranger. He left me. Abandoned me. Betrayed me. Replaced me. My soul is raped by the pain and the grief...

I reached my breaking point one time in a relationship and finally told her "I know you love me, but I dont think you like me very much". That hit her like a sack of bricks and led her to finally going to therapy. Relationship ended because she didnt want kids, but after I noticed a massive increase in her affection after I told her that

This is only the case in developed countries with an imbalanced dating market, where women can afford to be picky since there is always a customer base. If the demand for the product (the girl) is high due to men's biological sex drive, and the quality of most girls is poor and women do not need men other than for children and self fulfillment, as opposed to survival, women will behave entitled. Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs still applies. You will not see this in countries in survival mode.

Just get an actual product - say a blow up buddy- can't lose everything you worked for because of a inflate a date.......

Chad doesn't have to worry about love languages either.....