(pt1) HOW TO BE SEXY | The Good Christian Wife - A Series | Marriage, Homemaking ft

[@Kaymaxwelldevelops]

My husband used to always say when I would complain about my weight after I had our son “Don’t make me see something that I don’t want to see” he didn’t see me that way and didn’t want to but by complaining about it I would bring it to his attention. Work in silence ladies 😊

[@ohyeah2269]

Love this!

[@andreawithgod]

That’s actually so sweet of your husband to say..

[@TheDaisyJ]

Amen!!! I know exactly what you are talking about. I’m learning more and more when my husband responds to me. I get the dumb look, like why did I say that to him. Why did I point that out to him.

[@TFARN]

Oh wow. Beautifully stated...

[@Strawberry_gal]

My husband said the same thing to me.

[@Maman_poule]

When my husband and I were engaged, there was a short period where we were fighting a lot. One night we went to a friends bbq and my husband was asked to lead us in prayer before eating. When we were leaving, a girl friend of ours followed us out and told my husband how wonderful his prayer was and how it touched her. It was innocent, but the Lord used that to convict me!! I remember thinking “all he is hearing from me is criticism. Do I really want other women filling his cup with praise?” Ever since that day, 6 years ago, I have made it a point to compliment and praise my husband every single day.

[@ohyeah2269]

Wow thank you. These stories are rare gems of wisdom to help us preparing 😊

[@Crystalitaly]

Does he do the same to you? Relationshiptips are give and take. 50/50.

[@truthnotlies]

Wow, beautiful point. I needed to hear something like this again. Bless you, sister.

[@henriquesilva5538]

@@Crystalitaly What men give is not the same as what women give. What men take is not the same as what women take. Yes, relationships must be BALANCED. But there is no such thing as 50/50 equality between men and women. But young people believe that a man not praising the woman who praised him first is a "t0xic and @busive relationship"...

[@VanessasVarietyVenue]

Well thanks be to God I am glad you were able to see yourself rather than continue, many times we are so blind on narrow that we never see what we do wrong and are constantly pointing finger i hope you share this with more women. Bless you my sister.

[@lorrainebarnett8389]

I’m 74 years old and I’m learning so much from you and feeling convicted about my need to be my husband’s wife! For all the young women out there who think sexual pleasure ends when you’re old….it ain’t necessarily true! My husband and I enjoy each other now more than we ever have. In my early years I had so much shame because of my former sinful life. I’ve repented of that and now I am free to be truly intimate with my husband. Thank you ladies!

[@MsJudith0907]

We have 7 children, natural birth. I complained so much to my husband. He always says, “Baby what I see is a woman who is beautiful, carried my children with so much strength and beauty. Stop beating yourself up!”

[@SamaiaWaden]

Beautiful response!

[@mrs.ana93]

27:30 This part is so true. I’ve been dressing more feminine lately, and yesterday while I was at target I was the only woman I saw wearing a long floral skirt. I actually caught SEVERAL men turning their heads back to look at me. Which I’m not concerned about their attention, because I am married and my husband was also with me. But I kid you not, for YEARS I have not been dressing feminine, sadly I can take it back to AFTER I became married. I became lazy and my daily attire consisted of huge baggy shirts and biker shorts. Of course I didn’t get anyone turning their heads to look at me.. not even my husband! But now that I dress feminine I am hearing multiple times a day from my husband how beautiful I am!! I didn’t even tell him what I was doing and how I was going to change my wardrobe. So seeing this natural reaction and shift in his perception towards me is so wonderful! I’m ready to throw all my baggy shirts and biker shorts in the trash lol 😂

[@JosieBarberr]

Facts

[@walkinunity5461]

@@JosieBarberryour comment means a lot to me. I just had our 4th baby and that has been my attire, t shirts and sweatpants in the house. I lost a ton of weight and it’s made me insecure. My first pregnancy took so much out of me, it caused dental problems. It’s so embarrassing. My husband asks me to dress nice for him; buying lingerie or just something nice to bed, like silk nightgowns. I’ve been so insecure that when I put something nice on for him, I cover it with a robe 🥺. I’m 32 and we have been married for almost 9 years this coming March. I have no godly women in my life. So coming here and seeing comments and watching Bindi means a lot to me. I thank YAH for so many of you. I’ve been eyeing a few nice feminine dresses that I think I’m going to finally purchase. Thank you for the encouragement. Praise Elohim! ♥️

[@kg2096]

So much insight shared in this video! When wearing a dress to go grocery shopping, I feel like I'm engaged in a gentle, low key protest against the masculization of women.

[@kirs10dubya57]

Me too!!!!

[@dumfriesspearhead7398]

Good point.

[@melissaseverance6494]

Same

[@truthnotlies]

So true, same.

[@sharon6981]

Same! I love dressing in a feminine way 🥰

[@Dr.Cherokie]

Honestly. I need to just throw away my whole wardrobe and start off fresh. Since I started watching Bindi I literally bought 3 dresses and I love how I look and feel in them! And so does my husband. But now I wore them out too much lol. I need to buy more dresses, lingerie, and figure out how to make this natural hair cooperate and make these edges grow back lol

[@ondreatorrence4322]

Thifts stores !! That's where I get all my cute dresses and skirts . All modest and affordable

[@rasheedaogburn123]

Hey girl! I only wear dresses and skirts and right now Shein is a huge help. I also just snagged some cute skirts from H&M. I would say start with staple pieces and build from there if you want to incorporate more dresses and skirts into your wardrobe. It’ll come!

[@leahfinch7126]

I have super curly hair and I got my baby hairs to grow back with rosemary mixed with jojoba oil and wearing my hair down more❤️❤️

[@canelareina3795]

Update. Did you do it

[@ChasingChrist]

You must be me lol because I’m thinking the same thing

[@emptysoul5057]

This is so important. I grew up conservative black baptist. I was taught at an early age that female sexual desire was something to be ashamed of. My mother was not as severe as my grandma but she still managed to make me feel ashamed of myself for any sort of feminine beauty I might have portrayed. I was a strong willed child and kinda refused to be completely unfashionable. I did cover up but I didn't think pretty prints or pink or red colors were evil. Nothing in the Bible told me any one color was evil. When I did finally married I felt ashamed when my husband called me beautiful or when he liked an outfit I was wearing. From the years of nonsense I grew up in I felt like attracting my husband was wrong even though the Bible doesn't say that.

[@emptysoul5057]

@AnEssene I was told not to read songs of Solomon until after I was married and talk of anything about anything near that topic was not accepted. I just snuck and learned things anyway though. I wasn't sexual active before my husband but I didn't wanna go into marriage knowing nothing at all. Imagine not knowing how babies are made and being married....yeah nope I wasn't about to let that happen lol.

[@dorcasbrown1553]

I think a private online seminar of some sort would be great for some ladies that truly want to understand their femininity. It may also give you the freedom to share more things with us. Your content is amazing x

[@incognito3599]

This!!👆🏾

[@felicianoble7225]

Yes!

[@Trydenisescott]

PLEASE 🙏🏾

[@S_1490]

Yesss!!!!!

[@Dr.Cherokie]

Like I’d pay money for this Joyce. Both of ya’ll are a great tag team!

[@---wu3qj]

You don’t have to be a super model, just be YOUR PERSONAL BEST. Learn what YOUR OWN HUSBAND appreciates, and do what is possible to you. One thing I want to add: Some husbands will have unrealistic expectations. If they have indulged in pornography, they have set themselves up to NOT be satisfied, no matter if you are beautiful! Do YOUR BEST, and if your husband is in sin, let God chasten him.

[@kayla5285]

you sound wise.

[@andreawithgod]

This comment is amazing! Thank you!

[@notibutchristGal222]

I would divorce if my husband was indulging in porn. It's adultery and I can't mentally go through that again.

[@alyssayu1979]

🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼

[@Curly_Jay]

Beautifully stated! 🙌🏼

[@theartoffemme2997]

I will never speak dispairaging words over myself in front of my husband again. Thank you for bringing an awareness to this issue. I do this ALL the time!! God BLESS my husband who has NEVER said a bad thing about my body or my looks, even though I frequently tear myself apart in front of him.

[@Jazzrib]

For the ladies struggling to be sexy, what has helped me is taking sexy dance classes, female only. Dancing in high heels for example. It has helped me be more confident in being sensual around my husband and it’s also a good way to stay in shape. New to this channel. ❤

[@jcqwater8713]

great advice!

[@jcqwater8713]

great advice!

[@nnadichukwunonso9550]

Ungodly advice

[@Jazzrib]

@@nnadichukwunonso9550 it’s so ungodly it made my marriage better.

[@CinemaDoll137]

Great advice because you could do this for your husband too

[@jessejules2092]

Take care of yourself: Brush your teeth regularly Brush your hair Drink mostly water or fluids without sugar Listen to your body Eat Russell Stover sugar free chocolate for treats if you can afford it. Learn to love your own company. Do some things for yourself sometimes, even if you feel guilty. Do some things for others sometimes when you don't feel like it. Think about the possibility of DELETING social media and make a plan of how to do it. Discover triggers from childhood trauma and rewire your brain to respond/ communicate differently. Establish clear personal boundaries with others. If an answer doesn't satisfy your inquiry, don't let it go till you get the answer you're looking for. Take mini breaks from intense focus to rest your brain.

[@nay2670]

Love this 💞

[@kg2096]

4th one from the bottom is key and makes a huge difference. Learning to live in a different world, one that is far less threatening than I learned growing up ❤

[@sharon6981]

That intro 🔥 Even when we fight, my husband can’t help but smile and compliment my beauty. It used to make me confused but now I get it!

[@dahliaherrod4301]

When you guys were addressing self-confidence I do want to point out how a lot of things that we think about ourselves are purely in our head. When our culture says to fix a problem we think of surgery and body modification to look like somebody else. Rather than have an honest conversation with ourselves about comparison and self-worth. I think it's worth it to really go to God in prayer about how we feel about ourselves and our identity. Our identity should be wrapped up in Christ not in man's standard for us.

[@ohyeah2269]

Golden point!

[@Offthebeatenpath.]

Learned so much and enjoyed our chat, thank you so much for having me on:)

[@nenyeo6090]

Ahhh 😌 I’ll already love the collab. I love both your channels.

[@Offthebeatenpath.]

@@nenyeo6090 Thank you!

[@DesiraeOfori]

So excited to see this pop up!! I enjoy you both!! Now to go watch 🤣

[@naty1012]

I subscribed to your channel

[@Offthebeatenpath.]

@@naty1012 thank you 🤗💕

[@shyshock844]

Wow wow wow!! When you said invest in a public, private and bedroom wardrobe it made me think about entering into the tabernacle in the Old Testament. The courtyard, the holy place then the inner room or the holy of holies…. Chills!!!!! You ladies have blessed me with this open conversation. Iron sharpening iron!!!

[@DigitalKosher]

This is awesome... bars :) I like these Christian women breaking boundaries and speaking truth! beyond the ordinary.

[@dp8003]

Great video. I’m so glad y’all addressed sexuality in marriage. I just got married and come from a background of living in sin then being celibate for 3yrs. I had to readjust my mind that this is now the time for me to indulge and truly get to know my spouse more intimately

[@ohyeah2269]

Congratulations. Song of songs is a place you can also now finally explore through your new blessed holy marriage perspective. I'm so happy for you.

[@deirdremorris9234]

Congrats! CELEBRATE!!!

[@dezzy8575]

You ladies were dropping gems. I enjoyed it and it will help me be a better wife. I have started a journey on being more feminine, dropping weight, and eating healthy. My husband in subtle way has let me know I have gained weight, the old me would have gone off but now that I have been walking closer to God he has been letting me know that I have been eating badly and my husband is right. I realized that my husband missed the woman that was when we first got married. I ate healthy, always had myself put together and exercised. We are two kids in now and things change but I know I can get back to taking better care of myself. I have an unhealthy relationship with food and I have asked God to help me make better food choices and he is.

[@victoryhouse1446]

Bindi was spitting straight facts in the intro! I know for a fact that my husband sees me very differently than I see myself and this is just because of the grace of God within marriages!

[@AWomansDiary]

Hi Joyce, I thoroughly enjoyed this video and appreciated you having Gwen on. A lot of us ladies haven't heard these perspectives and honestly it's not spoken about openly in the Christian community. Thanks so much! Would you considered doing a series on parenting, discipline, teaching children about God, building confidence in our children, important lessons, etc.? 🌹🌹🌹

[@supersweet131]

I am 18 years married. They are 💯 correct on every point. Listen to Bindi… become a professional. When your daughters or little sisters become engaged for marriage, teach them what you know.

[@canelareina3795]

Can you recommend any KZbin channels or books?

[@Afrodite96]

I like the points about sexual expression in the bedroom. I’ve listened to some ministries that seem to deem certain acts that aren’t considered “procreative” as wrong. Churches are either completely silent on sex or have too much control over what goes on. It has definitely been a challenge to come out of that. It’s important to do what your spouse likes and vice versa but also have healthy boundaries if something is too far.

[@Tania-rg7jp]

Nazarenes and Hebrews only had sex to procreate because they practiced spiritual alchemy. If you were in the priesthood you got other practices akin to tantra but commoners were told only to have sex to procreate. Regular sex drains spiritual power. They were not worried about losing their husbands because divorce was mostly forbidden and many husbands had bondage concubines/slaves who they used. Those are the parts Christians leave out. Christians like to cherry pick what to follow and not follow but do what thou will.

[@dumfriesspearhead7398]

@@Tania-rg7jp It's funny how John Gray (author of Men are from Mars, Women from Venus) wrote in a recent book a very similar thing, but from a scientific standpoint

[@vikumugisha1635]

@@dumfriesspearhead7398 which is the title of the book? And what was his view ? Thank you

[@mizzhelloo]

These are the honest conversations that we NEED!! This was awesome, well done ladies.

[@sandemalgas7860]

A-MA-ZING! Loved every minute of this conversation. To know that God wants us to take care of these areas and that it's actually good stewardship 🙌🙌

[@Polished.empowered]

I’m a silent follower here, working in that lol. I just had to comment and say you ladies are my people! This topic is so refreshing and something I desire to share more of with women as well. It’s been on my heart for years and this is confirmation to share what’s on my heart. Well done ladies!

[@Abigail.444]

Coming from a single women here I think also dressing up and looking good can be so beneficial for our mental wellbeing as well! Looking good makes us feel good and motivates us for the day ahead! Thank you Bindi and Gwen for this discussion! I’ll remember it for when I get married one day! Please do a video with Melissa Dougherty her on KZbin! Would love to see you two together!

[@zachianggandu774]

Some women think wearing heavy makeup demonic nails and wig makes them look beautiful. Just enhance your natural look, exercise, be respectful and be celibate till your wedding night. It will eliminate the f boys. Live a righteous life, don’t dress naked like the modern women. Anything they do just do the opposite. Avoid surgery for any bbl, just be natural as possible. Wear your own hair stop trying to copy the white Woman by wearing wigs, u will look second to the white Woman. Don’t smoke or drink for any reason, enjoy your soft drink men love it.

[@TheBlaxkWolf]

@@zachianggandu774no where in the Bible does it say wearing acrylics or wigs is demonic.

[@Fathersmadder]

Love every thing this woman says God has truly made her for this time in history

[@patriciabell8028]

This was a very good episode. I love that you touched on sexuality. Especially how you emphasized that it should be consenting and as long as no one is getting injured or it's something the other person is uncomfortable with, have the freedom to engage with each other. Married couples should have all the fun. We have God's permission to do so. The church tiptoes if that around sex as if it's a dirty secret. God made it for us. So glad to hear a healthy convo about it. I am a late 40s woman and we are empty nesters. It is time for us to really enjoy ourselves. I even told my kids please do not come over unannounced. We do not want to shatter your dreams 🤣. Keeping up our appearance is so important too. I am guilty of not dressing up to go the store. I'm decent, but I don't put forth the effort for makeup or dresses. I will try but I can't make any guarantees. I really enjoyed this show.

[@ondreatorrence4322]

Haha 😅 🤣 my mom said the same thing ! She said you better call first pr I'm not responsible for what you might see... girl let me tell you I call EVERYTIME 😅😅

[@KeptCompletely]

This was such a blessing! I have been struggling with the intersection of "looking my best" and relationship with Christ. Much wisdom and insight! Appreciate you ladies!

[@diannew3512]

My husband and I will celebrate our 1 year anniversary in 3 days. This video was very helpful in combating some inner turmoil I've felt since becoming married. I really wish more christians were "open" about this topic. I would definitely participate in a seminar where christian married women could go more in depth on this subject! I really loved the conversation! 😊

[@MzCrayKray]

There are so many of us who are rich in character and we don't take care of ourselves because we have been condition to focus more on one and not the other. That if we just be a good Godly woman our husband will find us and accept us in whatever condition we are in regardless.

[@CamiStapleton]

This talk was a much-needed wife talk. I have learned alot and will carry with me several tips given. Thanks ladies

[@GraceFilled]

Oh I love this soooo much . I always say our body is the temple!!I have gotten bigger recently and people say oh you look great for a mom of 5 .... But they don't know I am heavier now than when I was pregnant with baby 5!!! I have been dealing with a skin issue and I had to take steroids etc BUT I am not gonna stay here because " they " give me a pass as a mom of 5 or because I am so tall. I'm gonna get back to working out so I can get back to a good size for me which is a medium. About 20 pounds lighter 💞 I definitely agree it's important to keep yourself up! Even in a large I dress up everyday and really take care of myself. I get compliments often because I wear long modest dresses and light makeup and jewelry everyday. People are always willing to hold doors, offer help, offer extras etc and I think that is absolutely amazing!!!

[@briannawright6460]

Checkout glowbody PT, a Christian KZbinr who is awesome for mamas!

[@kgothatso28]

It’s these collabs with my favourite people 🥺🤭♥️♥️ looking forward to it 💃🏾

[@chrissiec2123]

My two favorite homemaker KZbinrs in one video. From watching Gwen talk about Bindi in one of her videos out of admiration to watching Gwen be on Bindi's channel, is such a beautiful thing! 🥺

[@ondreatorrence4322]

Loved this ! Gwen you gained a new subscriber. I'm not married but I desire to be. And this was full of soooo much needed information. Wow such a blessing ladies

[@Abc-qv4gj]

You have helped me so much! Please write a book for women, I love how candid and honest you are ♡♡

[@S_1490]

I could listen to your wisdom ALL day!!!! You are on another level & I love it so much. Thank you for blessing us with your insight and not shying away from the truth 🙌

[@delightfullife9489]

I’m loving this video format and the special guests! Amazing content. ❤ You ladies are sharing so much wisdom. More please!!

[@daphenebaines4702]

Thank youuuuuu for this. I really would like to see more of these videos. Can you give some tips on having a "at home" wardrobe when you have kids?

[@adrianan7543]

You could warch Daily Connouisseur. She is an author and SAHM with a youtube channel and has put forward an amazing concept (the 10 item wardrobe). She is always feminine and looks put together.

[@nah6730]

@@adrianan7543 thank you for sharing this!!!

[@emamagerusan1642]

Same question here🙈

[@POWERSUITSINC]

Just started watching and know this conversation is going to be fire because it features my two favorite homemakers!

[@Be_Better1002]

@Bindi_Marc honey you NAILED it in your analogy! I love analogies too!!! You made me reflect on myself based off of that. That was a blessing to hear!

[@EliBetti]

I loved this convo! ❤ We need the sexuality and sex appeal talk more for married women. It's so important. I'm currently working on weight loss after baby 2 and the confidence that comes with seeing your body getting lean makes such a difference in the bedroom. There's nothing wrong with bettering yourself externally and internally for your husband. That's loving your man. I used to hate lingerie because I wasn't confident. It's something in learning to love now. I loved the analogy of wrapping up a gift for him. I'm also in the process of having a private and a bedroom wardrobe. This just solidified my decision on that. God bless you ladies and your marriages! ❤

[@kennethfok]

A women’s body is a precious gift for her husband. There’s nothing wrong with putting on sexy lingerie and either unwrapping it yourself in front of him or allowing him the honour to unwrap it. It is God’s intended design for spouses to enjoy sexual intimacy together.

[@nechiedavis1779]

Sad, sad, sad. Confidence is the most beautiful thing a woman can wear

[@rachelmurdock8448]

Y’all are cracking me up! 😅😂Very good truths, honesty and humor! I love it!

[@zalikaharris8676]

I normally don't comment but you ladies did an awesome job. I loooove the transparency. Had me laughing, convicted and inspired to grow all at the same time. Gwen you have such a beautiful, graceful, honest, humble spirit. Bindi I’ve been a sub for a while….you and I are the exact same! That’s all I’m going to say love you girl. 😂😂😂

[@blspenza]

I appreciate all this so much. So much needed right now. One note i would make about your "at home" wardrobe" what about if you have older sons? I think we still need to present ourselves modestly around the house to our sons.

[@kennethfok]

Not just sons, even in the presence of daughters, modest dressing is also important. The not so modest dressing should be reserved solely for your husband and it should never be worn outside of the bedroom. That would also be a good way to teach your daughter about dressing modestly. And how would you classify modest dressing at home? Should mothers and daughters be allowed to walk around the house without wearing a bra?

[@theparttimehomemaker]

Brilliant conversation, ladies. I enjoyed it a lot. Lots of things I'll take away from this. I do struggle with wearing less modest clothes at home though, as either i need to throw rubbish outside or the postman is knocking every day- sigh ☺️

[@naty1012]

Keep a robe handy. I understand because my in-laws live downstairs the apartment and they come upstairs unannounced sometimes but I won't allow it to stop me, we have to find ways to work around that.

[@thehappysouledwomen7832]

It’s hard for me to put effort into how I look. It’s always been something I never tried to do because I don’t feel comfortable in my own skin if I’m not in a hoodie and jeans or leggings. My husband fell in love with me when he met me in my leggings and hoodies and T-shirt’s lol so I’ve continued to just dress that way our entire relationship..I was younger than and I do now wish I put more effort in looking better, doing my hair or putting on nice clothes etc, but I feel uncomfortable when im like that idk why. I hope that changes for me. I really value your teachings and suggestions this was an awesome session.

[@Paul-pz1er]

I'm a woman. I understand. I pray it changes for you too. Be encouraged. You are lovely. God sees and knows you

[@lindsaypeek63]

I still have this to some degree but have been changed tremendously. For me it came from resentment or rejection of being a woman and being feminine. God is still healing me from the feminism programming

[@deirdresheridan8223]

Wow, just can’t thank you enough. Growing up Catholic, there are so many mixed messages and non of them really positive. This episode was really helpful and much needed!!!!

[@jameliamcintosh2477]

As a woman that’s been married for 11 years this was helpful. Though my husband and are very clear on our love language we can always learn something new as a Christian couple. Definitely subbing to Gwen as well. Thanks Ladies! ❤

[@sher-sasha9817]

I hope I remember to come back to this video once I'm married. (If it's God's will). Great information

[@ameliahenry6]

Hi Bindi. I really enjoyed watching that talk. My suggestion for another channel to do an interview with is Mrs. Widwest

[@blessedgreenchick2222]

I really appreciate this conversation..especially being a young wife. 🙏🏾 blessings Gwen and Bindi❤❤❤

[@steffa648]

Oh man 😫 I thought I was going to watch the whole thing and then saw it doesn’t load until December 9!

[@nyemahwest64]

This was convicting, encouraging and such a blessing! Thank you ladies

[@erinjensen8023]

You guys are so encouraging and motivating! Y’all have given me a broader perspective on the Christian walk as a wife and expecting mother. I definitely agree that we shouldn’t compartmentalize beauty or virtue and look at the whole person. ❤

[@TFARN]

I really enjoyed this perspective. It's so encouraging and refreshing to hear women speak this way. One thing I would like to add is that I've had a couple of women express that their issue with connecting freely with their husbands sexually stems from the sexual abuse they have experienced. Any advice on how to handle a situation like that?

[@lodoia9532]

I would suggest they pray for deliverance from the trauma. It's very unfortunate what these woman went through but God can take their pain away.

[@stephanieadim5010]

@@lodoia9532 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@Carbohydrate_Dom]

I’m not gonna front I’m a brother and I’m here. Love this content a lot. I think one of the reasons the church avoids sex almost completely sometimes is because of not wanting to be in peoples business, which as a man of God I appreciate that. I don’t need my pastor or anyone else all in that space na mean? And I think the ones that do deal with it tend to go beyond say 1 Cor. 7 and about not depriving each other. I think it’s too far and all into folks business if they talk about too much in the church. And as far and a husband and wife being comfortable with each other, and I know this often doesn’t happen but sometimes it does, husbands and wives are perfectly capable of being in authority over their sex life. Didn’t quite say this the way I wanted to lol but yea good stuff yall.

[@paigedeclue9766]

My thyroid was off and I gained weight for a while and I will never forget my husbands reaction once I lost the weight. 💕

[@bellavita2484]

Thank you, ladies! What an interesting conversation with so much wisdom and great advice. God bless you ❤️

[@naty1012]

"Professional in training" I totally agree !

[@whobeyou5342]

Abigail when dealing with her first husband, Nabal's anger and mediating with David amd his men has always been an example of a woman using her feminity in the wisest way to ensure her household remained safe.

[@emilywalton4105]

This is so important to talk about I struggle with confidence. I started taking care of my hair more and hygenie. My husband really dosent care what I wear I would like to wear more feminine clothing.

[@cory5478]

Good Christian counseling from your church is terrific too!

[@HelloooDear]

Wow ! Such a blessing .💕 I really enjoyed this video.😊

[@takeupyourcrown6407]

Thank you ladies for having this conversation and sharing your tips and wisdom with us! This helped me with some of the things I’ve been wrestling within my walk!

[@thebalmlife675]

I do appreciate this conversation from two of my favorites, but just to make a quick correction, Abraham did not lie 24:43, Sarah was his sister.

[@1desareflournoy]

I know you said to put in the comments if there's anyone else that we. want you to interview, but I think this is a great channel with a great book. great book as well LTS Radio Liberated Through Submission Radio was created for every man, woman, single, or married here we explore a deeper understanding of biblical submission.

[@bee-b-2017]

Wow! Thank you so much for this video! I absolutely enjoyed myself and I took lotsssss of notes! I’ve been married going on 7yrs and I’m still learning and this was great info to use. You guys should do a more intimate one to get down on the juicy things! Lol

[@leirno]

Thank you for sharing that. Since I started taking seriously my relationship with our God I have let go of myself. I used to dress with very tight clothes and straighten my hair all the time but lately I donated all of my tight clothes and tried leaving my hair naturally how He created it but I stopped caring as much on my day to day to groom myself and I was kind of feeling guilty of trying to hard to make myself pretty but this makes soo much sense

[@katejohnson5083]

Balance is key! God bless you sister ❤

[@arimox3942]

Thank you for this transparent and clean video to help us out ! :) a couple of inquiring questions : how do/should we develop the 'know how' in the bedroom? Should we read certain books to be a 'professional', or are you saying it comes with time ?lol what resources would you recommend to aid us in becoming a professional ?

[@tanya7144]

A truly amazing catechesis on marriage and relationship between men and women is 'the Theology of the Body' John Paul ll. Fantastic interpretation by Christopher West

[@chellybarnard6394]

Okay. You got me. I paused the video and went for a walk. 😉

[@panda3pinguin]

You are both so articulate❤️ Unrelated, but Bindi would you ever consider making a video about parenting and parenthood? I am not a Christian but I feel like you have many good points on many subjects👌🏼

[@carakerr4081]

I think this is great idea too!

[@AWomansDiary]

Agreed I'd love a video or series about parenthood, child rearing, etc.

[@Mmolesy]

I remember I read a comment on a blog I follow. (Which will remain unnamed to protect the privacy of the person mentioned) but this lady said her and her husband had both grown up in a church that told it's congregants that a woman was not allowed to feel pleasure in the marriage bed as that was sinful. Only the husband was allowed. And the concept of mutual pleasure was shocking to her. But at the same time, she was in a lot of pain because she never got any pleasure out of it. It was also a topic her husband refused to discuss. It literally hurt my heart hearing that. I love wearing lingerie. I love God's design for marriage. Sex appeal within the confines of marriage is vital. I need to work on it more and I need to lose weight and make an effort in my appearance.. I loved this video.❤️

[@heyitssammij]

I do 38:16 think most husbands would agree!!!!! They love us respecting him in our public modesty --- BUT they want to see all the goodies and the fruit and the effort we are putting in! It makes it special!! Exclusivity for outfits at home is fantastic… I highly recommend that. I agree about the lingerie as well. It is effort. It is a way to show love and show something special just for him!!

[@f.t.5874]

I get "modesty in public", I get "lingerie in my husbands and my bedroom", but I'm not really sure what is meant by "outfits at home". What would be an example for this? Especially when there are kids around :))

[@heyitssammij]

@@f.t.5874 it varies depending on the time of day, ages of kids, etc. Just an apron while bringing him dessert, just a jersey while he’s watching the game, showing him new swimsuits for approval, the dress that’s just too short for public, the shirts that show the cleavage, lingerie of course, but be creative with your closet! Trench coats and heels with the lingerie… cowboy boots and those old jean shorts, wigs, tight dresses, anything you think he’d enjoy - literally just *anything* that will create a visual interest of “not the normal “- it almost becomes a game of the drastic difference from covered in public to spicy for him 🌶️- it reminds him that he’s a 👑 king to you and is the only one to get this part of you!

[@cyberspace7208]

​@F. T. It can be something with a hidden slip or a lower back, or if you don't have kids, a long skirt with a long split or it can be a flowy shirt over a tight skirt

[@kimokat]

Can't wait to hear this chat!

[@tresurecarter7013]

This was a really good conversation ❤

[@Abc-qv4gj]

Can't wait to watch this!!!

[@AyuJogaComigo]

Bindi please, make a video about the wardrobe for home. I have a really difficult time choosing what to wear, I can only dress way too formal or way too survival from natural disaster, I can't figure out how to dress not like a grandma at home

[@yarekim5932]

Wow I follow you Both, This is Great! This is what Godly Women look like. PERFECTION.

[@springsoflivingwater]

What an amazing conversation ❤❤ in preparation for my marriage and this is something that had been put on my heart for a while. I loved the areas spoken about and the honesty 👏🏾 ❤...

[@theparttimehomemaker]

❤️❤️❤️ Two inspirational women.

[@GraceFilled]

Hey!! I'm so excited about this video 🥰

[@aishalove513]

I really enjoy your videos, I'm a new subscriber and i have been binge watching all your videos

[@carakerr4081]

I love both of you and loved this video! Now I will not just say "I am a good decorator" and study how to become one haha! Some ideas for future interviews; I really love Lori from The Transformed Wife on KZbin, as well as Robin with Faith and Flour on KZbin. Both Robin and Lori are older Christian women and have a lot of wisdom. I am 49 which is most likely a little older than your typical viewer, however I think the older women are here to teach the younger women as it is written in the Bible to share their wisdom. I think an interview with Lori and/or Robin will be a blessing on your channel. God bless you both today, and thank you for sharing your experiences and insight.

[@johnsonmm07]

I so appreciate the 2 wardrobe. My husband has also been giving me flack about dressing too modest. Now, I just have to work on being warm while being less modest🤣😂

[@nnadichukwunonso9550]

Jesus said you should be too modest

[@TLG2211]

Guuuuurl, okay I gotta come back to this , preach sis 👏🏾

[@dahliaherrod4301]

So this was a great conversation. When you guys were talking about weight gain I saw how there is a conflation between beauty and weight. I think that the reason why the Slavic cultures can so freely speak about weight as it relates to health is because they have not coupled it with beauty. I think that Americans have gotten those two terms confused. For example if I tell my friend I've gotten fat she will say no you look beautiful. I know I'm beautiful and I'm also fat. Two different things. Lizzo is a beautiful woman who is also fat. I don't think that it's a bad thing to tell someone that they have gained weight out of concern for their health. And it just so happens that when you focus on taking care of yourself that you enhance your beauty. Just my two cents

[@heyitssammij]

All women are beautiful… Created in Gods image! However, would the same woman not be MORE beautiful at a healthier weight? Food for thought

[@sharon6981]

This is SPOT on. You can be stunning, yet overweight or even underweight.

[@marissajones1840]

I think the problem is people confuse Beauty as in who you are on the insidea beautiful soul with attractiveness. Just because you're a beautiful soul doesn't mean you're attractive.

[@danief929]

I completely agree!

[@dahliaherrod4301]

@@marissajones1840 yes but even the idea of attractiveness is subjective and includes other traits besides physical beauty. Oftentimes when people speak of attractiveness they also include intangible traits like a good personality, competency, or a sense of humor

[@victoriousneish429]

7:08 thank you! I love how you always highlight the difference. Because people are on here talking foolishness about how men are marrying "plain janes" and not the baddies 🤣 🤦🏾‍♀️ first of all there's nothing plain about being modest and beautiful, especially if you have a great sense of fashion. And men understand that she's a "baddie" in the bedroom.. I need to send them this.

[@katiesims3075]

I want to know about the “home” clothes and “outside” clothes and the differences with out without children being around and seeing those home clothes

[@beccar1605]

This is amazing and so unbelievably profound for me. Thank you ladies SO much!

[@Lovedatfirstwrite]

So ready!!!

[@vampyricluv8456]

"Do I really want other women filling his cup with praise?" Well said.

[@morghan8095]

This was a very good conversation and much needed. Thank you both!

[@lexiswanson8112]

You are 100000% on point about the church overcorrecting! I was brought up and taught sex=bad So now that I have all these questions, I feel like a pariah if I ever dare to ask. And it's completely destroyed my confidence and ability to gauge what I'm supposed to be doing here... It's high time we switched the narrative! You should SOOOOO do a seminar or a conference!

[@arianahillebrand9428]

Been waiting all day to cozy up on the couch with my coffee and watch this!!🥳🥳 thank you!

[@8165Pat]

When I met my husband, he told me he wanted a beautiful Wife like the men in the Bible. He said I was beautiful. I wanted a husband with godly character with wisdom to lead me. He had that. I take very good care of myself so that he has the beautiful Wife he wants. I have grown in godly character, as well. He is the most handsome man I have ever met! I pray we life a long life of honoring God together! God's best blessings to you ladies for speaking on this topic! It is needed!